“Femininity, Submission, and Male Amnesia” | Pastor Ron Kelly

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  • Опубліковано 13 січ 2025

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  • @mastiffpeople4868
    @mastiffpeople4868 11 місяців тому +20

    As a survivor of an abusive relationship, God can change a person. The hands that used to strike me now rub my aching body. Praying for both men and women suffering abuse. May they be converted.

    • @clairine28
      @clairine28 11 місяців тому

      Amen to God🙏

    • @a.r.8987
      @a.r.8987 10 місяців тому +2

      Praise God indeed! Blessings to you and yours!
      I wouldn't of been able to withstand that. However, I'm thankful you for your outcome and that now you are loved and cared for.....

  • @LivingQuiteSimply
    @LivingQuiteSimply 10 місяців тому +1

    Wonderful message! So many great points.
    Man and wife were created to complement one another. We’re wonderfully different, and help each other to grow in marriage when we work together. Marriage is a gift from God and He wants home to be the most sacred and peaceful place on earth.
    I loved how this message ended with the admonition to feed our marriage relationship- it’s so worth the time and money it takes.

  • @patriciaheinrich6857
    @patriciaheinrich6857 11 місяців тому +8

    I had such a beautiful marriage but my dear husband of 55 years had a heart attack the day after Thanksgiving when we were visiting in Michigan. I miss him so bad. I loved your sermon. I hope couples will listen and treasure every moment with their mate.

  • @atiRenyaW
    @atiRenyaW 11 місяців тому +6

    What a powerful message, one that was so right for this moment. What a beautiful image that marriage is if it was done according to God's Word. I LOVE the fact that men and women are different because when we come together, we can achieve so much with our different strengths. I really appreciate this message. It also made me understand more the role of my husband and how much he carries as well. And how I must change accordingly. That is something I believe God wanted me to understand more deeply. 🙏❤️

    • @sunflower2594
      @sunflower2594 4 місяці тому

      It's so wearisome hearing about how "beautiful" this is from people who have never lived the horrible life that abuse brings. God set up a system that gave men absolute power, and any human knows that absolute power does.

  • @lucasmarley5639
    @lucasmarley5639 11 місяців тому +3

    Thank you Pr Kelly for the Word. I need this message. Praise God 🙏🙏

  • @LilliNelleborg
    @LilliNelleborg 11 місяців тому +2

    Powerful message, thank you 🙏

  • @jts3505
    @jts3505 11 місяців тому +12

    I married a highly respect SDA church elder. We were married 1 year, and he almost killed me in that year with his control. He was a master manipulator and hypocrite. I gave a painful testimony to the nominating committee when they proposed to make him head elder after the divorce that saved my life. They promoted him anyway. I was ostracized. That is the story of way too many women in conservative circles.

    • @mereese1
      @mereese1 11 місяців тому +1

      I've seen church boards keep wicked men in power so many times it isn't funny. Including the pastor who molested me and other girls in the church. Thank God my relationship with Christ has kept me faithful in spite of evil people. I pray that negative experience has not cast a shadow on your relationship with Christ. May God strengthen and keep you (and me) in His word, in spite of evil people in church.

    • @violetstephanie1
      @violetstephanie1 10 місяців тому +3

      And this is why many women just give up on churches after being married to such persons

    • @mereese1
      @mereese1 10 місяців тому +11

      @violetstephanie1 so true. I was molested by my pastor when I was a young teen. I gave my testimony, and so did other young women to the church board and conference officials. My mother was also approached by this pastor in the presence of her children. She ran from him in our apartment. I witnessed this myself. He was moved to another church. I could have left the church. It's a miracle I didn't. One Sabbath he had me locked alone in the church. He had a hideous laugh and said, "I got you now!" I cried out loud the name of Jesus, and I watched the pastor immediately fall on his face. He couldn't get up off the floor until I was free. I literally watched him appear to swim on the floor until I escaped. I think that moment of power renewed my faith. That moment is dear to my heart to this day.

    • @sunflower2594
      @sunflower2594 4 місяці тому

      Absolutely! See my "testimony" above.

  • @AC-nq1uj
    @AC-nq1uj 11 місяців тому +1

    Thank you, much appreciated!!!

  • @poszukujacprawdy
    @poszukujacprawdy 9 місяців тому

    Thank you for the message, dear brother in Christ

  • @elmariekritzinger3666
    @elmariekritzinger3666 11 місяців тому +1

    Thank you Pastor Kelly for the truth be spoken yet again without a doubt. May the Lord bless you abundantly as you keep faithfully bringing subjects that are much needed..even inviting to come for help..truly Christ like. Respect and communication absolutely important and most important in any marriage...building on the Rock Jesus Christ...sure we falter, but we have our Savior to go to and let Him help us. Nicely and rightfully said....Kids are going to move on and you and your loved one remain and love remains 🙌🙏 blessing to you and you family, your staff and all the Village church members all around the globe ❤

  • @marymehlenbacher-sd4rw
    @marymehlenbacher-sd4rw 9 місяців тому

    Amen, wish you were our pastor.

  • @marilynmcdonald6899
    @marilynmcdonald6899 10 місяців тому +1

    Excellent. So many say the wife should be submissive, and then fail to go on and teach the husband's role.
    While none of us is sinless
    I found out after an elder died that he was physically abusive to his wife. I used to sit in his Sabbath School class, and when i found out what he used to do, i felt ill.

  • @gretacooper6080
    @gretacooper6080 11 місяців тому

    A lot of truth here but for those of us with decades of actual abuse we see it differently. Many men in my life totally wanted to fight and constantly instigated including physically. Again good points made here overall.

    • @FrankGoodwin-j9d
      @FrankGoodwin-j9d 11 місяців тому

      Sounds like you don’t want to be a wife

  • @phil16woman64
    @phil16woman64 11 місяців тому +2

    Sometimes, most times, the closing song is as much a sermon. This one would have been. Please let them play. People can quit the recording whenever they want.

  • @turtlegrams6582
    @turtlegrams6582 11 місяців тому

    Please on youtube
    Have you not read the 7777th verse And why it really matters via Truth Is Christ

  • @SD-zk2te
    @SD-zk2te 10 місяців тому

    What version of the Bible is he reading from?

  • @jts3505
    @jts3505 11 місяців тому +2

    Listeners, please go listen to bare marriage podcast, by Sheila Wray Gregoire. The book Love and Respect is HARMFUL.

    • @SD-zk2te
      @SD-zk2te 10 місяців тому +1

      How is that book harmful?

  • @WildlyRadiantSkin
    @WildlyRadiantSkin 11 місяців тому

    And way too often church women don’t leave their husbands who are abusive. More people need to surround them and lift them up. Because abuse is not one time. This woman spoke out , it was worse than she described because she probably tried to protect him

  • @fruitypebblez4309
    @fruitypebblez4309 11 місяців тому

    I think all girls and women should do 3 things to stay alive and that includes sda.
    1. Strengthen relationship with God. Make sure you know Him and His voice and he knows yours.
    2. Get educated so you can financially make it on your own.
    3. Self defense So you can kick a$$ if your husband is beating you up.
    I am speaking from the perspective of being abused in childhood and adulthood. That abuse also included from men and women in the sda church.

  • @phil16woman64
    @phil16woman64 11 місяців тому +1

    A great sermon that needs repeating yearly. Another thing: Sometimes, most times, the closing song is as much a sermon. This one would have been. Please let them play. People can quit the recording whenever they want.

  • @mastiffpeople4868
    @mastiffpeople4868 11 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @jts3505
    @jts3505 11 місяців тому +3

    You may not understand "reactive abuse." This happens because a victim is experiencing "death by a thousand papercuts," and being driven to insanity.
    Respect is a BIG DEAL TO WOMEN, TOO.

  • @traviswizz
    @traviswizz 11 місяців тому

    I believe pastor Kelly was trying so hard not to offended women that he didn't realize that men and women are not 99.9999999% the same so the decision making line will not be such either. Also, there are many many other Ellen white quotes that wound render the topic quite differently .

  • @tiger7777
    @tiger7777 11 місяців тому +1

    Femininity, you say it right but you spelled it wrong🤔

    • @funhistory
      @funhistory 11 місяців тому +1

      Maybe someone on the media team is experiencing male amnesia & forgot how to spell it. 😂

    • @melissaoretade
      @melissaoretade 11 місяців тому +1

      @funhistory hahahahahaha

    • @reidunhenriksenwergeland7791
      @reidunhenriksenwergeland7791 11 місяців тому +1

      Amen pastor Ron , thank you 🙏 for this great sermon ❤

  • @FrankGoodwin-j9d
    @FrankGoodwin-j9d 11 місяців тому +1

    You are very delusional on this subject . You have no understanding of what really is going I’ll be praying for you .please do more research on this you will really be surprised

    • @gretacooper6080
      @gretacooper6080 11 місяців тому

      Very respectfully I have to agree

    • @FrankGoodwin-j9d
      @FrankGoodwin-j9d 10 місяців тому

      @amyzegorl if you can’t see it then you are a feminist just keep watching the video then read read all scripture pertaining to this subject and God will reveal the truth to you