Love this story! I praise this woman. She is strong and independent that is why she raised successful children. I hope all women will be inspired by this woman. She proves that women don’t NEED a man. May God bless her!
You are right tus niam tsev. You did an awesome job raising your kids. They came from very poor, humble roots and fatherless to achieve the “American dreams”. They came from disadvantage background to make something for themselves. So proud of them.
I have to agree. The girls do love the parents more. Even if they go get married and the parents are sick. They be there in a heartbeat don't matter how far they are. Sad that I can't even have one for myself.
Wow 😮👏👏👏😊I give you a lot of credits. You are a very strong person and a mother and a wise woman and a role model for women whose went on the same path as you. Those men or father that selfish like your doesn’t deserve to get love after rejected their own genes no need to give love but just don’t curse them that’s all. A job well done 👍 to you sister. Wooooo!!!!!!! 😁😁😁☺️☺️😁 love this story 😁😁😁
Thov qhuas ib leej niam hmoob tus zoo lub povhaum rau koj cov menyuam nce nto tsag thov kom lub ntuj pom thiab koj yuav muaj sia ntev dhawv txog koj hnub xaus, thiab thov qhuas niam ntsuabteev ua yog tus cev lus, hais tau zoo kawg li, ua tsaug.
Tu viv ncau aws koj ua ib leej niam zoo kawg li lawm os nawb. Nrog kj zoo siab tia koj tu tau kj pab me nyuam txim txiaj txhua2 lawm mog. Dhuav2 siab txau lawm ces kawg coj li koj tu kheej kov coj tu cwj pwm ko xwb mas kuv yeej nkag siab kj txog txoj kev tu siab ua raug ib tu txiv neej hmoob txim poj lub siab os mog. Txhob tu siab nyob ib leeg thiaj kaj siab os mog.
A lot of Hmong practices that need to change... Hmong condemning family members contacting law enforcement for domestic violence. Hmong favoring boys over girls. Treating girls inferior. Married Hmong guys still acting like they’re single...
I think these type of stories are mostly from the much older generation. The newer ones aren't so much like this anymore. Actually most dads now days are more protective of their daughters than their sons.
Tus niam tij koj zaj neej neeg no yog ib zaj tu siab kawg. Tiam sis ho txhob tu2 siab thiab yog koj tsis raug kev txom nyem npaum no xyov koj tej me nyuam puas muaj hnub no mog, yog koj tus txiv ho hlub koj xyov neb cov me nyuam puas muaj hnub no cov txiv neej hmoob ces feem coob tsis muaj kev txawj ntse yeej coj niag cuj pwm zoo li no ho txhob tu2 siab thiab tsam no yog yus zeeg lawm ua zoo rau tus neeg tsim yus mas lawv thiaj txaj muag rau yus mus txog hnub tuag ua txoj kev zoo thiaj yeej txoj kev phem nkaus xwb vim koj cov me nyuam yeej yog nws roj nws ntshav es yuav tau zam txim pub tus neeg phem thiab,kuv ntseeg tias yog nej cov niam tub ntsuag tig hlub koj tus txiv cov kwv tij txaj muag rau nej cov niam tub ntsuag tshaj plaws no thiaj yog qhov nej yeej mog, tus niam tij ua ntej yuav peem tau txoj kev zoo mas yeej raug tsim txom raug kev txom2 nyem li ko thiaj peem tsheej tau mus ua neeg zoo mog.
What a great mom you are and you raised your children right! You did a great job and all your children are successful! Be happy, life may not turn out this way if your loser husband stayed with you and abused you.
Cov txiv neej es pheej hais tias tsi muaj tub thiaj tsi hlub nim yug tau ntxhais xwb thiaj nrauj tu siab kawg txawmyog ntxhais yog tub los yeej yog neeg ib yam os thov cov txiv hlub cov ntxhais thiab nawb
This is the one thing I hate about Hmong people... blaming the wife for not having sons... using this to be a reason to cheat and marry another wife, leaving the woman to suffer al0ne with all his kids.. it angers me when I hear stories like this all the time... I'm happy to hear that through your struggles, all your children are now successful in life. You are definitely a supermom! Thank you for sharing your story...
Peb cov txiv neej hmoob muaj lub siab dub siab phem siab txia ntshav, txawm tau ntxhais xwb los yog txoj hmoo, kuv zoo siab uas tus vivncaus koj tau peem ib lub neej uas nyuab 2 kawg nkaus es tej mi nyuam thiaj hlob tsheej neeg tiamsis ib qho uas kuv pom tias koj ua tau tsis zoo mas niam lawv yuav tau ib lub tsheb rau koj tus ntxhais es koj ho tsis charge kom lawv them nqi tshoob, lub tsheb twb tsis yog yuav rau koj, yog tias rau koj mas yeej yog, tiamsis lub tsheb ho yog yuav rau tus ntxhais xwb, koj twb ib sab ua ib sab ua txiv tu es tej mi nyuam thiaj hlo tsheej neeg, cas koj thiaj tsis charge tus ntxhais nqi tshoob nawj? Koj ua tsis yog lawm!! Kuv zoo siab uas koj pab, koj hlub cov mi nyuam dhau tau los tsim txiaj lawm, koj tus qub ntawd tsis yog ib tug zoo txiv
Cov txiv neej hmoob uas saib tsis taus cov ntxhais li es niam hais tub li tub xwb na, nej twb tsis tau paub hais tias xyov tom ntej no nej cov tub yuav yog cov zoo los cov ntxhais yuav yog cov zoo nawb, thov kom txoj neej neeg no us 1 tug qauv rau nej cob txiv neej lub paj hlwb hmoob ntawm nej kawm mus rau tom ntej no, thov nej t txhob thuam2 peb cov me ntxhais lawm txawm lawv yog ntxhais los lawv yeej yog peb yug peb yeej hlub2 lawv kawg li.
Kudos to your son and daughters, but please don't let them do whatever they want too. You need to set boundaries, and if your kids can't accept it then they need to grow up. Loving your kids is one thing, but being a mother is also another thing. You are one out of many parent that is lucky with such educated children with such an easy heart like yours. Most parents with your thinking and philosophy in life will have their kids end up being lost in the world. Other than that, power to you lady.
Kuv pab koj zoo siab kawg tus me niam laus ua cas koj yuav tuag liag kuv txoj me kev thiab os txhob tu siab peb pab nrog koj zoo siab txhawb koj pab me nyuam
Wow awesome job mom. Being mothers are the hardest and most frustrating job in this world especially if you are a single mothers. God blessed you and yours children. Many more happy years to go. 🤗❤❤💋💋👍👍
Good story. I'm so glad all your daughters are not the typical Hmong individuals that try to be heroes and crawl back to the abuser. May you and your family continue to enjoy a blessed life together.
Koj hais yog lawm os tus viv ncaus..nyob li koj kaj siab dua nawb cov neeg nrauj tag pheej yuav yuav txiv yuav poj niam mas vim lawv nyiaj tsis txaus them nuj nqis es lawv xav need neeg pab ces lawv thiaj li yuav xwb mog ho yog yus them taus ces tsis tas yuav zoo dua nawb yuav los ua mob hlwb rau yus xwb
May nyias muaj siab nawv mog qhia rau nej cov poj niam ua siab loj thiab kev txiv neej ntsaw tub los vim tsis xav kom tsob ntoo qaug ces tas lawm nawv mog tub ntxhais los peb yeej hlub ib yam tab sis tsuas tsis xav kom poob noob xwb, Tej tus txiv neej los yeej tsis txawj hais lus thiab hais tau tej los lus uas tsis zoo mloog los sis siv tsis tau kiag li es nej cov poj niam thiaj tu tu siab nawv. Txhob tu siab nawv mog.
Merry Christmas to you and your family! Thov kom Koj thiab Koj tsev neeg txhais kev noj qab nyob zoo. I love listening to your stories. Thank you for your hard work and dedication!
So proud this mother! 👏👏👏👍 Agreed 100% with her come back. Also very proud of all her successful children, definitely made their mama proud. As for the daughters not allowing her dead beat father walking her down. 👏👏👏👍 As a daughter, I wouldn't have done it any other way. You definitely did the right thing not allowing him to be part of your special day. He definitely didn't deserve to walk you down. You all did absolutely nothing wrong! ❤
Cas yuav txaus tu siab ua luaj li os hmoob lub niag neej no na. Tsis tsim nyog nej hlub niag txiv dev laus ntawd lawm os mog. Qhov nws thiab nws tsev neeg rau nws cuab kwv tij sawv daws tsis nyiam nej ces twb yog vim tib qho tias nej niam yug tau nej yog tib pab ntxhais xwb es lawv thiaj saib tsis taus nej thiaj muab nej tso mus nyob tsis nrog luag muaj pab muaj pawg li ko. Ua neeg nyob yuav tsum txawj tu siab ris siab txhob rov ntseeg cov neeg siab phem tsim txom yus li lawm os cov me nyuam aw...Hlub hlub nej niam xwb thiaj tau koob hmoov. Txhob ntshaw ib niag leej txiv lim hiam li ntawd los ua nej txiv lawm tsam nej tau kev ntxhov siab os mog.
What a wonderful story. I feel bad for your husband but then again I'm not. He didn't deserve the good from your kids. I'm happy all your kids have a good life now
Tus mi niam tsev pab kj zoo siab qhov ua nws khiav tawm ntawm kj mus lawm es kj ib leeg lawm xwb es kj thiaj li qhuab qhia Tau kj pab mi nyuam tsim txiaj tas Lawm os, thov qhuas kj nawb
Vim nwg phem ne cov txiv tsev phem ces txawm ua li cas los nwg yeej ntshiav txhua txoj kev los tib kom nwg muaj cai tas zog li xwb hmoob txoj cai tsi zoo niaj hnub no kuv muab xav los mas hmoob yuav tsum kho hmoob tej kab lig kev cai thiaj tsi los cuam tshuam txog txoj kev ywj pheej hauv hmoob tej teeb meem thiab tej kev haum xeeb.
Tsis yog Tim koj li os tus muam koj niag txiv yeej tsid xav hlub koj xwb mog ua neeg xav tsis tau os yog Xai tau ces neeg tsis xav kom tsu raws li siab xav lasmas xoo heev uas kojmuab ncaws tawm lawm yog li hnub nws sain koj yuav tau zoo lawm vimkoktud ntxhais tsu Dr. lawm hnub no tchob cia thaub txiv dev los ua vij ua swv rau koj tej me nyuam mog tsam tej me nyuam tau kev txom nyem ces me nyuam ho muab koj pov tseg tsid muaj chaw tuag mog txhob lees thaub ntsej muag Liam no los nej lub neej lawm nawj tsis aib mo loj yeej tuag lawm thaum thaub no khiav txog hnub no koj twb tsis tuag
Zoo kawg li uas qhov no yog koj txoj hmoo os tus muam. Ua cas kuv ho hais li no,. Vim muaj coob leej ntau tus niam txiv twb sib tso ib yam li neb thiab,. Tiam sis tej me nyuam ho tsis mloog lus kawm ntawv twb yuav luag tsis tag highschool tej tub mus ua me nyuam laib , tej ntxhais mus ua poj laib ua dog dig twb tsis mloog niam lus , twb tsis fwm niam . Niam tseem yog tus poj niam mas tsis hais tub los yog ntxhais yeej tsis ntshai niam li yog li kuv kuj thov qhuas koj thiab cov me nyuam uas lawv yeej hlub koj thiab muaj lub zeem muag zoo thiaj li los txog hnub no zoo kawg li os mog
The old ways only benefit the men to keep them “in control” of women. Do you wonder why there are so many divorce women, because they aren’t putting up with men’s shit anymore. Women have learned to depend on themselves. Fathers who don’t recognize their daughter and see them worthless? Don’t claim us when we succeed without your help. Women can succeed on our own, men only pleasure themselves! Love equally and you’ll receive equally. The old ways will die out because in this country, both boys (and nyab) and girls (and vaus) can help their parents. Be grateful that your children are healthy and strive to make their lives easier and better than yours.
Cov ntseeg Vajtswv feem coob, Nim no txawm tsi muaj mesnyuam, lo si tsi muaj tub. Lawv yeej tsi Yuav niam yau lo si is hlua. Vim lawv muaj txoj kev hlub.
Kuv thov quas tus niam tsev zaj neej neeg no, nws yog ib leej niam ntse heev, xav tau dav pom deb tshaj li, tsim nyog cov menyuam hlub nws lawm, cov menyuam thov nej hlub nej niam kom txog hnub nws tsis muaj nws txoj sias nawb mog, nej niam muab nws txoj sia khi rau nej cov menyuam nws thiaj tsi kam mus yuav txiv, nco ntsoov hlub nws tsis txhob pub nws lub kuas muaj poob tias nej tsi hlub nws no os mog. Kuv muaj 5 tug ntxhais kuv mam tau tub tabsis kuv lub neej txawv koj niam lub deb heev thiab, niaj hnub niam no los wb cov ntxhais vauv yog cov hlub wb tshaj, peb ua neej nyob kuv tus kheej niaj hnub hais rau tej neeg txom nyem hais tias tsis txhob thaum lawv, hnub no nws txom nyem tabsis tsam tagkis nws ho yog tus muaj, ua neej nyob tsis paub xyov zoov yuav ntsuab leej twg sad thiab ntu twg, es tsis txhob khav yus tus kheej es thaum lwm tus tsam zoo li tus txiv tsev no, tsam no xav lees luag los luag tsis kam lees yus lawm tus siab rau tus txiv tsev no, tabsis kuv zoo siab heev rau nej cov niam ntxhais nawb mog, BIG CONGRATULATION RAU TUS NIAM TSEV ZOO NO NAWB.
Txiv neej hmoob mas phem tshaj txhua hom neeg. Yug tau ntxhais xwb los yuav yuav tus tshiab, yug tau tub los nim lig dhau lawm, yug tsis tau menyuam los yuav nrauj, yug tau coob dhau es txom nyem los yuav khiav. Txiv neej hmoob mas liam tshaj muab ub muab no los keb kom tau niam yau.
Niam lau aw yog li zaj dab neeg no lawm o kuv niam yug tau peb 5 vis ncau kuv txiv yeej g hlub kuv niam peb li txij thaum kuv paub tab los ce yeej pom kuv txiv tham hlua nkauj los txog tam si no li o 😭😭😭
txiv dev muab nws lawb pobtseg xwb. txiv neej hmoob ces tsuas lam tias "koj yug tsis tau tub" ces kuv kawg yuav mus niam yau thiab tham hluas nkauj tsuas yog ib qhov "EXCUSES" XWB. tim nws lub siab phem xav tau ntau thiab xav xav ua hluas nas. nws twb yug tau tub thiab ne ua cas tseem ua hluas thiab mas. txiv neej hmoob tej lus ces dag li dag xwb. Nco ntshoov tias...txawm yog ntxhais thiab tub los yeej muaj nuj nqis ib yam nkaus.
Cas teb chaw miskas es ua poj ntsuam ciaj es pheej hais tias txom nyem no peb cov poj ntsuam ciaj nyob teb chaw Australian mas tsis txom nyem li as peb cov poj ntsuam ciaj yeej tau nyiaj ntau yog yus muaj 5.6.tus me nyuam mas.xam maj yuav tau tsev nyob li os ,,tseem tau nyiaj yuav tej lub tsheb zoo..los tsav mas them carsh xwb
Lub neej kos tus siab tshaj li os txiv neej ces thaum tau lwm tus poj niam lawm ces yeej tsi hlub yus tej me nyuam lawm os cov me nyuam aws ziag no ces thov tau nej noj ces hai li kos os tabsi yog nej hai ib los lus ces cem foom tej me nyuam xwb os mog txhob tos vim lawv mus hlub luag lawm xwb os
Ib txhia txiv neej tam sim no tsis xav li tus tsev tsev no lawm. Kuv yog ib tug txiv tsev uas txhawb kuv cov tub thiab ntxhais ib yam nkaus. Cov txiv tsev uas coj li no yog cov neeg laus tim ub tuaj los yog cov txiv tsev los ntawm tej tsev neeg coj qub qub xwb. Peb haiv Hmoob yuav tau hloov lub siab coj phem li no.
Tag ntsho cov txiv tsev coj li no mas yog txawj xav yuav tsum txaj muag tias ua neej los leev kev noj haus dawm tej niam tub yug muab luag tso ntsog txoj noj nog ntsuag kua muag thaum twg luag lub neej sawv ces tseem muaj ntsej muag tsov mus ua dev thawj thiab thiab txaj muag thiab maj hmoob.
tus mes niam tsev aw cas yuav tu siab ua luaj li os. tus txiv lim hiam li ko Cov mes nyuam tsis tsim nyog hlub lawv txiv lawm nawb. Xuam Coob Cov txiv neej hmoob lub siab yeej phem tshaj plaw li
Niamt Ntsuab Teev koj mas hais yog tshaj li lawm nawb. Nej tsis txhob cem peb cov poj niam thiab hais lus tsis zoo. Phem tsuas yog ib tug xwb tsis yog tas nrho peb ib tsoom poj niam. Hais lus cais kom muaj quas. Tsis li ces raug tas nrho peb ib tsoom poj niam lawm. Thaum twg peb mob siab sib koom ua tuaj lawm nej cov txiv neej yuav tau kev kub ntxhov mog.
I really love this story! Wife deserves all the happiness she receives!
Love this story! I praise this woman. She is strong and independent that is why she raised successful children. I hope all women will be inspired by this woman. She proves that women don’t NEED a man. May God bless her!
You are right tus niam tsev. You did an awesome job raising your kids. They came from very poor, humble roots and fatherless to achieve the “American dreams”. They came from disadvantage background to make something for themselves. So proud of them.
Don't EVER underestimate the power of a WOMAN!!! 🥰🥰🥰
There two side to this story..here in America girl are more likely to care more about there parent so the more daughter you have the better..,
I have to agree. The girls do love the parents more. Even if they go get married and the parents are sick. They be there in a heartbeat don't matter how far they are. Sad that I can't even have one for myself.
Dre Tsab that is true!
I agree💯 My brothers for example, only my sisters and I have catter to my mom while my brothers have forgotten they still have a mother.
Tus zoo niam tsev aw koj mas yog ib tug gauv zoo tshaj plaws rau peb cov nia m tsev txiv tsev huv si os .
Thov ghuzs koj nawb
The men carry the sex gene that determines the gender. It's not the women. Great story. Very inspirational.
Because they're not educated and even so they still blames the women
Wow 😮👏👏👏😊I give you a lot of credits. You are a very strong person and a mother and a wise woman and a role model for women whose went on the same path as you. Those men or father that selfish like your doesn’t deserve to get love after rejected their own genes no need to give love but just don’t curse them that’s all. A job well done 👍 to you sister. Wooooo!!!!!!! 😁😁😁☺️☺️😁 love this story 😁😁😁
Daughters and womyn are so capable. ♡♡♡
Lawv aw..... cov txiv neej hmoob no tsis yog ntshaw tub os qhov tseeb yog lawv ntshaw pim xwb yog ntshaw tub xwb mas tsis coj li no kiag li nawb
Thov qhuas ib leej niam hmoob tus zoo lub povhaum rau koj cov menyuam nce nto tsag thov kom lub ntuj pom thiab koj yuav muaj sia ntev dhawv txog koj hnub xaus, thiab thov qhuas niam ntsuabteev ua yog tus cev lus, hais tau zoo kawg li, ua tsaug.
Tu viv ncau aws koj ua ib leej niam zoo kawg li lawm os nawb. Nrog kj zoo siab tia koj tu tau kj pab me nyuam txim txiaj txhua2 lawm mog. Dhuav2 siab txau lawm ces kawg coj li koj tu kheej kov coj tu cwj pwm ko xwb mas kuv yeej nkag siab kj txog txoj kev tu siab ua raug ib tu txiv neej hmoob txim poj lub siab os mog. Txhob tu siab nyob ib leeg thiaj kaj siab os mog.
A lot of Hmong practices that need to change...
Hmong condemning family members contacting law enforcement for domestic violence.
Hmong favoring boys over girls. Treating girls inferior.
Married Hmong guys still acting like they’re single...
I dont have a son in my life I only have three daughters but I still love my wife no matter daughter they all are my kids I love they all
ben thao good man!
I think these type of stories are mostly from the much older generation. The newer ones aren't so much like this anymore. Actually most dads now days are more protective of their daughters than their sons.
Ua cas zaj dab neeg no yuav tu siab ua luaj li? Kuv hais peb na. Zaj dab neeg no ua rau peb tu siab kawg li. Tsis yog zaj dab neeg tu siab hos.
Zaj no yog ib zaj uas zoo kawg. Vim peb hmoob yeej coj li no. Zoo siab rau koj cov daughters uas muaj peevxw . peb cov ua daughters los yeej zoo siab rau nej
Tus Leejtxiv nov xiam hlwb tiag tiag.
Zoo Kawg lis kuv yuav muaj coj mus Ua ib zaj movie rau hmoob saib Ua qauv zoo nice story
Great life lessons to pick up from this story.
Zaj neej neeg no zoo heev. Thov qhuas tus viv ncaus no. Kuv yog ib tug niamtsev uas yug tau ib pab ntxhais li koj thiab. Kuv to taub txoj kev uas yog ib tug niamtsev uas yug tau ntxhais xwb. Yeej tu siab tshaj plaws thaum yus tus txiv hais thiab lawv tsev neeg tsis hlub losis nyiam yus vim yus yug tau ib pab ntxhais xwb. Kuv ntxub peb hmoov txoj niag kev cai no tshaj. Kuv xav tias txawm yug tau tub tau ntxhais los yeej zoo ib yam. Kuv nrog koj zoo siab uas koj ua tau ib leej niam zoo rau koj cov menyuam es lawv twb loj muaj neej tag ces ziag no koj tsis nyuaj lawm. Nrog koj zoo siab heev.
Tus niam tij koj zaj neej neeg no yog ib zaj tu siab kawg. Tiam sis ho txhob tu2 siab thiab yog koj tsis raug kev txom nyem npaum no xyov koj tej me nyuam puas muaj hnub no mog, yog koj tus txiv ho hlub koj xyov neb cov me nyuam puas muaj hnub no cov txiv neej hmoob ces feem coob tsis muaj kev txawj ntse yeej coj niag cuj pwm zoo li no ho txhob tu2 siab thiab tsam no yog yus zeeg lawm ua zoo rau tus neeg tsim yus mas lawv thiaj txaj muag rau yus mus txog hnub tuag ua txoj kev zoo thiaj yeej txoj kev phem nkaus xwb vim koj cov me nyuam yeej yog nws roj nws ntshav es yuav tau zam txim pub tus neeg phem thiab,kuv ntseeg tias yog nej cov niam tub ntsuag tig hlub koj tus txiv cov kwv tij txaj muag rau nej cov niam tub ntsuag tshaj plaws no thiaj yog qhov nej yeej mog, tus niam tij ua ntej yuav peem tau txoj kev zoo mas yeej raug tsim txom raug kev txom2 nyem li ko thiaj peem tsheej tau mus ua neeg zoo mog.
Niam luas koj hais yog kawg lawm os, lub neeg tu siab tshaj li nas viv n, kuv lov tu siab kawg
Very proud of this mother.
Tsivg hlub nej txiv li txawm g hlub lo yeej g npam nej cov me nyuam li os
What a great mom you are and you raised your children right! You did a great job and all your children are successful! Be happy, life may not turn out this way if your loser husband stayed with you and abused you.
Niam tais aw thov qhua koj koj yeej yog ib tug niam tsev siab zoo koj thiaj li nyob zov cov mi nyuam
This is a strong women. Put her kids above everything else..
New world new mind equal new practice of life. Peb nrog koj thiab koj tus ntxhais zoo siab nws kawm tau Dr lawm.
Cov txiv neej es pheej hais tias tsi muaj tub thiaj tsi hlub nim yug tau ntxhais xwb thiaj nrauj tu siab kawg txawmyog ntxhais yog tub los yeej yog neeg ib yam os thov cov txiv hlub cov ntxhais thiab nawb
This is the one thing I hate about Hmong people... blaming the wife for not having sons... using this to be a reason to cheat and marry another wife, leaving the woman to suffer al0ne with all his kids.. it angers me when I hear stories like this all the time... I'm happy to hear that through your struggles, all your children are now successful in life. You are definitely a supermom! Thank you for sharing your story...
Peb cov txiv neej hmoob muaj lub siab dub siab phem siab txia ntshav, txawm tau ntxhais xwb los yog txoj hmoo, kuv zoo siab uas tus vivncaus koj tau peem ib lub neej uas nyuab 2 kawg nkaus es tej mi nyuam thiaj hlob tsheej neeg tiamsis ib qho uas kuv pom tias koj ua tau tsis zoo mas niam lawv yuav tau ib lub tsheb rau koj tus ntxhais es koj ho tsis charge kom lawv them nqi tshoob, lub tsheb twb tsis yog yuav rau koj, yog tias rau koj mas yeej yog, tiamsis lub tsheb ho yog yuav rau tus ntxhais xwb, koj twb ib sab ua ib sab ua txiv tu es tej mi nyuam thiaj hlo tsheej neeg, cas koj thiaj tsis charge tus ntxhais nqi tshoob nawj? Koj ua tsis yog lawm!! Kuv zoo siab uas koj pab, koj hlub cov mi nyuam dhau tau los tsim txiaj lawm, koj tus qub ntawd tsis yog ib tug zoo txiv
Good story of a strong Hmong woman.
Cov txiv neej hmoob uas saib tsis taus cov ntxhais li es niam hais tub li tub xwb na, nej twb tsis tau paub hais tias xyov tom ntej no nej cov tub yuav yog cov zoo los cov ntxhais yuav yog cov zoo nawb, thov kom txoj neej neeg no us 1 tug qauv rau nej cob txiv neej lub paj hlwb hmoob ntawm nej kawm mus rau tom ntej no, thov nej t txhob thuam2 peb cov me ntxhais lawm txawm lawv yog ntxhais los lawv yeej yog peb yug peb yeej hlub2 lawv kawg li.
Tus vivncaus koj ua tau zoo heev li os.kuv thov txawb. koj txoj hauj lwm mas nyuaj tshaj plaws li los koj keej tshaj li os ua tau mus rau qhov zoo.
Kudos to your son and daughters, but please don't let them do whatever they want too. You need to set boundaries, and if your kids can't accept it then they need to grow up. Loving your kids is one thing, but being a mother is also another thing. You are one out of many parent that is lucky with such educated children with such an easy heart like yours. Most parents with your thinking and philosophy in life will have their kids end up being lost in the world. Other than that, power to you lady.
disagree you dont even fully understand her method, how can u say a statement like that.
Most old Hmong are still stuck in the cave, she has every right to lock that dood up for beating her up during her postpartum.
Kuv pab koj zoo siab kawg tus me niam laus ua cas koj yuav tuag liag kuv txoj me kev thiab os txhob tu siab peb pab nrog koj zoo siab txhawb koj pab me nyuam
peb cov txiv neej hmoob qhov uas peb saib ntxhais tsis muaj nqis thov peb muab tso tseg nawb tub ntxhais los muaj nqis tib yam ntxhais xwb los yeej yog yus txoj hmoo xwb yuav tau hlub tib yam
Txom nyem me nyuam thiaj mloog lus...
Wow awesome job mom. Being mothers are the hardest and most frustrating job in this world especially if you are a single mothers. God blessed you and yours children. Many more happy years to go. 🤗❤❤💋💋👍👍
Good story. I'm so glad all your daughters are not the typical Hmong individuals that try to be heroes and crawl back to the abuser. May you and your family continue to enjoy a blessed life together.
Zoo tiag tiag..
Zoo tshaj li os niam laus ua tsaug qhov koj ua tau os
Koj hais yog lawm os tus viv ncaus..nyob li koj kaj siab dua nawb cov neeg nrauj tag pheej yuav yuav txiv yuav poj niam mas vim lawv nyiaj tsis txaus them nuj nqis es lawv xav need neeg pab ces lawv thiaj li yuav xwb mog ho yog yus them taus ces tsis tas yuav zoo dua nawb yuav los ua mob hlwb rau yus xwb
Yog lawm nawj koj Yog ib leej niam ua tau Yog lawm os thov kom koj muaj hmoo kom Nyob laus22 nawj
May nyias muaj siab nawv mog qhia rau nej cov poj niam ua siab loj thiab kev txiv neej ntsaw tub los vim tsis xav kom tsob ntoo qaug ces tas lawm nawv mog tub ntxhais los peb yeej hlub ib yam tab sis tsuas tsis xav kom poob noob xwb, Tej tus txiv neej los yeej tsis txawj hais lus thiab hais tau tej los lus uas tsis zoo mloog los sis siv tsis tau kiag li es nej cov poj niam thiaj tu tu siab nawv. Txhob tu siab nawv mog.
Merry Christmas to you and your family! Thov kom Koj thiab Koj tsev neeg txhais kev noj qab nyob zoo. I love listening to your stories. Thank you for your hard work and dedication!
So proud this mother! 👏👏👏👍 Agreed 100% with her come back. Also very proud of all her successful children, definitely made their mama proud. As for the daughters not allowing her dead beat father walking her down. 👏👏👏👍 As a daughter, I wouldn't have done it any other way. You definitely did the right thing not allowing him to be part of your special day. He definitely didn't deserve to walk you down. You all did absolutely nothing wrong! ❤
Great advice from a powerful woman!
Tus niam tsev, koj lub neej yog ib lub neej tu siab kawg li, kuv kuj nrog koj zoo siab uas thaum kawg koj cov me nyuam kuj txawj ntse txhua tus es nrog koj zoo siab
Cas yuav txaus tu siab ua luaj li os hmoob lub niag neej no na. Tsis tsim nyog nej hlub niag txiv dev laus ntawd lawm os mog. Qhov nws thiab nws tsev neeg rau nws cuab kwv tij sawv daws tsis nyiam nej ces twb yog vim tib qho tias nej niam yug tau nej yog tib pab ntxhais xwb es lawv thiaj saib tsis taus nej thiaj muab nej tso mus nyob tsis nrog luag muaj pab muaj pawg li ko. Ua neeg nyob yuav tsum txawj tu siab ris siab txhob rov ntseeg cov neeg siab phem tsim txom yus li lawm os cov me nyuam aw...Hlub hlub nej niam xwb thiaj tau koob hmoov. Txhob ntshaw ib niag leej txiv lim hiam li ntawd los ua nej txiv lawm tsam nej tau kev ntxhov siab os mog.
dang this father need some education in the 21th century in upbring, support, n love.
What a wonderful story. I feel bad for your husband but then again I'm not. He didn't deserve the good from your kids. I'm happy all your kids have a good life now
Peb cov ntxhais yeej muaj peev xwm li ib tug tub thiab. Thov kom peb cov niam txiv hmoob pauv lub hlwb qub qub thaum ub!
Koj Ua ib leej Niam coj tau zoo kawg li lawm. Kuv nrog koj zoo siab tshaj plaws
Hais tau khib thiab sab peb cov txiv neej kawg kiag li lawm. Li cas los xij yog tsis muaj tub ces kuv kawg yuav niam mos ab xwb ntag nawd!
Niam laus aw yog mas
Tus mi niam tsev pab kj zoo siab qhov ua nws khiav tawm ntawm kj mus lawm es kj ib leeg lawm xwb es kj thiaj li qhuab qhia Tau kj pab mi nyuam tsim txiaj tas Lawm os, thov qhuas kj nawb
Vim nwg phem ne cov txiv tsev phem ces txawm ua li cas los nwg yeej ntshiav txhua txoj kev los tib kom nwg muaj cai tas zog li xwb hmoob txoj cai tsi zoo niaj hnub no kuv muab xav los mas hmoob yuav tsum kho hmoob tej kab lig kev cai thiaj tsi los cuam tshuam txog txoj kev ywj pheej hauv hmoob tej teeb meem thiab tej kev haum xeeb.
Wow. Zoo siab Thov qhua tus niam tsev no.
Wow koj yog ib leeg niam zoo heev.
Tsis yog Tim koj li os tus muam koj niag txiv yeej tsid xav hlub koj xwb mog ua neeg xav tsis tau os yog Xai tau ces neeg tsis xav kom tsu raws li siab xav lasmas xoo heev uas kojmuab ncaws tawm lawm yog li hnub nws sain koj yuav tau zoo lawm vimkoktud ntxhais tsu Dr. lawm hnub no tchob cia thaub txiv dev los ua vij ua swv rau koj tej me nyuam mog tsam tej me nyuam tau kev txom nyem ces me nyuam ho muab koj pov tseg tsid muaj chaw tuag mog txhob lees thaub ntsej muag Liam no los nej lub neej lawm nawj tsis aib mo loj yeej tuag lawm thaum thaub no khiav txog hnub no koj twb tsis tuag
Very good story! Perfect decision from the mother and kids.
Ua cag yuav hais tau tu siab ua luaj thiab pab hlub tsev me niam tub no heev li os .😭😭😭
Zoo kawg li uas qhov no yog koj txoj hmoo os tus muam.
Ua cas kuv ho hais li no,. Vim muaj coob leej ntau tus niam txiv twb sib tso ib yam li neb thiab,. Tiam sis tej me nyuam ho tsis mloog lus kawm ntawv twb yuav luag tsis tag highschool tej tub mus ua me nyuam laib , tej ntxhais mus ua poj laib ua dog dig twb tsis mloog niam lus , twb tsis fwm niam .
Niam tseem yog tus poj niam mas tsis hais tub los yog ntxhais yeej tsis ntshai niam li yog li kuv kuj thov qhuas koj thiab cov me nyuam uas lawv yeej hlub koj thiab muaj lub zeem muag zoo thiaj li los txog hnub no zoo kawg li os mog
The old ways only benefit the men to keep them “in control” of women. Do you wonder why there are so many divorce women, because they aren’t putting up with men’s shit anymore. Women have learned to depend on themselves. Fathers who don’t recognize their daughter and see them worthless? Don’t claim us when we succeed without your help. Women can succeed on our own, men only pleasure themselves! Love equally and you’ll receive equally. The old ways will die out because in this country, both boys (and nyab) and girls (and vaus) can help their parents. Be grateful that your children are healthy and strive to make their lives easier and better than yours.
Koj ua yog lawm nawb
Cov ntseeg Vajtswv feem coob, Nim no txawm tsi muaj mesnyuam, lo si tsi muaj tub. Lawv yeej tsi Yuav niam yau lo si is hlua. Vim lawv muaj txoj kev hlub.
tus niam tsev.koj hais tau yog kawg lawm nawj kuv kuj tau ib pab ntxhais tshiab tsis tug ntxhais thiab kuv muaj ib tug tub xwb
Im very proud of this lady. Good story!
Zaj neej neeg no zoo li kuv niam peb lub neej thiab vim kuv niam lo kuj yug tau peb ib pab ntxhais thiab xwb
Mi viv ncua kuv zoo siab tias txawm koj niAg txiv tsis yuav tsis lees nej cov niam tub los txog thaum kawg koj cov menyaum twb ua tau koj nism koj txiv los hlub koj lawm ces txhob tu22 siab mog kavtsij 66 siab hlub koj cov menyaum qhov ntawm yog qhov zoo tshaj lawm txhob quav ntseg txog koj niam txiv siabphem nyaem..
Merry Christmas 🎄🎁
Thank you for always being the voice to these stories.
Kuv tus me muam aw koj hais zoo kawg kuv yog koj dab laug qhuas koj txhawb koj nawb us dab tsi kom Tau raws lub siab xav nawb us tsaug
Tu siab kawg
Kuv thov quas tus niam tsev zaj neej neeg no, nws yog ib leej niam ntse heev, xav tau dav pom deb tshaj li, tsim nyog cov menyuam hlub nws lawm, cov menyuam thov nej hlub nej niam kom txog hnub nws tsis muaj nws txoj sias nawb mog, nej niam muab nws txoj sia khi rau nej cov menyuam nws thiaj tsi kam mus yuav txiv, nco ntsoov hlub nws tsis txhob pub nws lub kuas muaj poob tias nej tsi hlub nws no os mog. Kuv muaj 5 tug ntxhais kuv mam tau tub tabsis kuv lub neej txawv koj niam lub deb heev thiab, niaj hnub niam no los wb cov ntxhais vauv yog cov hlub wb tshaj, peb ua neej nyob kuv tus kheej niaj hnub hais rau tej neeg txom nyem hais tias tsis txhob thaum lawv, hnub no nws txom nyem tabsis tsam tagkis nws ho yog tus muaj, ua neej nyob tsis paub xyov zoov yuav ntsuab leej twg sad thiab ntu twg, es tsis txhob khav yus tus kheej es thaum lwm tus tsam zoo li tus txiv tsev no, tsam no xav lees luag los luag tsis kam lees yus lawm tus siab rau tus txiv tsev no, tabsis kuv zoo siab heev rau nej cov niam ntxhais nawb mog, BIG CONGRATULATION RAU TUS NIAM TSEV ZOO NO NAWB.
Txiv neej hmoob mas phem tshaj txhua hom neeg. Yug tau ntxhais xwb los yuav yuav tus tshiab, yug tau tub los nim lig dhau lawm, yug tsis tau menyuam los yuav nrauj, yug tau coob dhau es txom nyem los yuav khiav. Txiv neej hmoob mas liam tshaj muab ub muab no los keb kom tau niam yau.
Zoo siab tias koj yog ib leeg niam zoo heev li os. Cov menyuam tiam tam sim no, nyob rau teb chaw meska tsis quav ntsej tias yog txiv yug los yog niam yug. Lawv tsuas quav ntsej tias leegtwg yog tus hlub thiab tu lawv loj xwb. Zoo uas koj cov menyuam tsis quav ntsej lawv txiv. Txiv neej siab phem zoo li no, hnub no lig dhau lawm os. Yug tau twb hlub tsis tau. Tseem muaj ntsej muag hais tias yog txiv yug. Txaj muag dhau lawm.
Wow!!!!!
Niam lau aw yog li zaj dab neeg no lawm o kuv niam yug tau peb 5 vis ncau kuv txiv yeej g hlub kuv niam peb li txij thaum kuv paub tab los ce yeej pom kuv txiv tham hlua nkauj los txog tam si no li o 😭😭😭
Good for you sister. Your ex- just using excuse to cheat. A good man will not cheat no matter what.
Kuv twb yog ib tug pojniam niag txiv mus thawj niam yau, mus hlub luag cov tseg kuv cov me nyuam tsis hlub tsis pab cia kuv ib leeg tu tau 15 lub xyoo kuv tsis yuav txiv vim nws tsis hlub pab kuv cov me nyuam kuv ntshai dhuav txiv neej lub siab phem thaum hlub nws yog ib tug thawm txeev siab nws muaj tus tshiab siab phem loj xov ntxub tej me nyuam nrog rau yus tus ua niam. Yog yus ua niam tsis hlub cov me nyuam thiab nws hajyam tsis hlub. Cov txiv neej ib txhia siab phem npaum no thiaj ua rau peb ib txhia pojniam tu siab ntshai nyoo lawm.
Tus niam tais no mas muaj hmoo heev thiab muaj zoo tswv zim kawg li
Pab nws zoo siab uas nws pab mi nyuam ua neej zoo lawm
Good story!❤️
Kuv yog txiv tab sis kuv ib txawm tuaj poj niam sab, tab sis cov phem fev hluas kuv tsis tuaj xwb.
Ntxov ua poj nrauj ntxov tau zoo li no nawb cov niam tsev aw...
Zaj no mas yog kiag kuv lub neej thiab tiag hmoob
txiv dev muab nws lawb pobtseg xwb. txiv neej hmoob ces tsuas lam tias "koj yug tsis tau tub" ces kuv kawg yuav mus niam yau thiab tham hluas nkauj tsuas yog ib qhov "EXCUSES" XWB. tim nws lub siab phem xav tau ntau thiab xav xav ua hluas nas. nws twb yug tau tub thiab ne ua cas tseem ua hluas thiab mas. txiv neej hmoob tej lus ces dag li dag xwb. Nco ntshoov tias...txawm yog ntxhais thiab tub los yeej muaj nuj nqis ib yam nkaus.
Cas teb chaw miskas es ua poj ntsuam ciaj es pheej hais tias txom nyem no peb cov poj ntsuam ciaj nyob teb chaw Australian mas tsis txom nyem li as peb cov poj ntsuam ciaj yeej tau nyiaj ntau yog yus muaj 5.6.tus me nyuam mas.xam maj yuav tau tsev nyob li os ,,tseem tau nyiaj yuav tej lub tsheb zoo..los tsav mas them carsh xwb
Yog! Ua tsaug nawb
Lub neej kos tus siab tshaj li os txiv neej ces thaum tau lwm tus poj niam lawm ces yeej tsi hlub yus tej me nyuam lawm os cov me nyuam aws ziag no ces thov tau nej noj ces hai li kos os tabsi yog nej hai ib los lus ces cem foom tej me nyuam xwb os mog txhob tos vim lawv mus hlub luag lawm xwb os
Ua ka nhias txiv dev nov tsis paub txaj muag li ob ntuj aw...
Ib txhia txiv neej tam sim no tsis xav li tus tsev tsev no lawm. Kuv yog ib tug txiv tsev uas txhawb kuv cov tub thiab ntxhais ib yam nkaus. Cov txiv tsev uas coj li no yog cov neeg laus tim ub tuaj los yog cov txiv tsev los ntawm tej tsev neeg coj qub qub xwb. Peb haiv Hmoob yuav tau hloov lub siab coj phem li no.
Tag ntsho cov txiv tsev coj li no mas yog txawj xav yuav tsum txaj muag tias ua neej los leev kev noj haus dawm tej niam tub yug muab luag tso ntsog txoj noj nog ntsuag kua muag thaum twg luag lub neej sawv ces tseem muaj ntsej muag tsov mus ua dev thawj thiab thiab txaj muag thiab maj hmoob.
Yog ib leej niam Ua zoo heev li. Thov qhuas tus niam no
tus mes niam tsev aw cas yuav tu siab ua luaj li os. tus txiv lim hiam li ko Cov mes nyuam tsis tsim nyog hlub lawv txiv lawm nawb. Xuam Coob Cov txiv neej hmoob lub siab yeej phem tshaj plaw li
nimno tub ntxhais muaj nqi tibyam. tsuas yav thaum ub thiab ib txhia nimo lawm xwb. nimno leejtwg rau siab thiab muaj peevzwm ces tus ntawd yeej yuav ua tau raws li lub siab xav. thanks. Merry Christmas
3 yog txiv neej los tsis yog yuav phem txhua tus txhob xav tias 1 lub quav tsuag tsw thoob tsu mov no nawb mog kuv kiag poj niam yug tau 5 leeg ntxhais 1 tug tub xwb los kuv yeej hlub sib xws tsuas yog niag txiv dev ntawd thiaj tsim tau nws pab niam tub xwb txhob tu siab
I agree with this lady. She is smart.