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Well is that not an honest and justified human reaction to any repeated hurt that they experience? Would you continue to cut yourself with a knife in a belief that it's good for you even after seven cuts deep into your flesh? Is he not justified to reject potential hurt based on his previous experiences 'just in case' they dont repeat this time??
Yeah, but that thing he said about a women being president, just wtf. Man are not natural leaders, no one sex is a natural at whatever. Women are not caregivers.
@@relentlesslytalkingtoapc7115 Yeah but no one is cutting you psychically or mentally. Rejection is everywhere. When you learn to take it and move on because there are so many different women out there, you won't get 'hurt'.
People just freak out when they hear women and children used in conjunction lol, I think he just meant however one treats a group that you love/don’t want to see being misguided cause the they don’t really have the capacity to consider that for themselves
@@att2075we freak put because women and children are grouped together and compared so much in society its genuinely concerning. We are praised when we have child-like characteristics, as grown women. And proven in your statement about misguidance, we are treated as though we don’t have the capacity for rational thought quite often. It’s exhausting.
@@att2075women dont like being treated as if we have the life experience of a child. we are not as easily misguided nor should we be treated as such. we have the capacity to think for ourselves, opposite to the implication of your comment
@@att2075 you literally just stated why people freak out when women and children are grouped together - "they don’t really have the capacity to consider that for themselves". women will understandably not like it and get rightfully upset when they are consistently told that they don't have the capacity for rational thought or the ability to make their own decisions. it's infuriating to hear especially when there's zero concrete evidence of this being true.
Obama Bruh I didn’t mean it to be that funny. But there are healthier ways to cope with that. Both in this video and another video he was in, he was comparing women to children
Box Man Box Man I mean, I’ve asked old single bitter women sometimes “who hurt them?” Because they said some stuff that was really out of line. There are healthy ways to cope with a person’s past. And being rude and obnoxious 24/7 isn’t one of them
Someone Special that doesn’t make sense. You can’t say someone is right from a question, you need the answer. That’s like “what’s your favorite color?” And then you say “well your not wrong” makes no sense
As a person who’s 17 and never had a girlfriend, I will never consider myself an incel. No matter what happens when I get older I’ll just use my rejections and shortcomings as motivation to improve my life mentally, physically, and financially.
“Pick up a useful skill, learn a trade, learn a language, improve your body, and take care of yourself as you’ll be more put together in the long run” That was the advice I’d give myself at that age even if it wasn’t that long ago
And as long as you continue to work on yourself, and you keep that mindset and don't allow extremist ideologies take over you, I have no doubt that one day you will find a woman who sees your efforts and will love you for you.
@@Recluse616 No matter what I'm never going to associate myself with the incel community. They tend to have a negative outlook on life and women, and I don't want any of that negativity in my life.
I would also want you to know that what you are stating is something very common. There is plenty of people who are 17 and never had a boyfriend or girlfriend. I actually know lots of people (both guys and girls) who are older than that and never been in a relationship. I don't know you, but I would never consider someone an incel based in such situation. It's normal and you still have a long life ahead, just take your time
ZYA - Yea and that loving parent could be a man. What? You don’t think there are deadbeat women out there? You don’t think there are many women that are a shitty parent? Think again.
He feels small, therefore he has to make others feel small. I think all of us can understand what that's like. We've all done that on occasion. Let's hope he manages to grow out of it-possibly with the help of a very patient and understanding partner.
Looks is the determining factor for your dating life and that is simply true there is no way around it ugly means you are going to have a rough time in the dating market stop blaming personality for it
@Baldo Sometimes, and then other times I don't. But I try to be aware of when I feel small and feel tempted to take it out on others, so that I can stop myself. That way even though I feel small, I don't act small (most of the time). :)
Same. I felt empathy towards him by the end of this video. Didn't know what "incel" was til before these 2 vids, but the characteristics which Derrick described them as, reminded me of some guys in high school who had kept to them self
Same. I wanted to know more about Derrick. I feel like he’s a character. Like the Mad Hatter. He seems like a person I would hang out with even though we don’t have the same views. I hope he’s in more videos.
Avoid femoids friends too, they may have everything in common with you, the same everything, she may likes the things you like but she will choose to get fucked by an abusive chad/tyrone that doesnt even love her like you do. all femoids are the same. female friends just use you, avoid avoid avoid.
DeadlyNeedle ! Dude you really need to see the other video he is in (Men equal rights VS feminist) he says: ‘I can’t be friends with a woman.’ It not a lie, he says a lot of weird and sexist stuff like that. Everyone on both sides of the conversation hate this guy because he is blatantly sexist. Just look in the comments of the every video
DeadlyNeedle ! This is the only reply I’ll do. You have to admit there’s sexist things he says. Secondly you give me the idea your an incel. Lastly, if you switch up because of pressure you shouldn’t have been doing this interview let alone the other video he signed up and agreed to both videos, he has to accept he messed up
DeadlyNeedle ! There’s different forms of sexism, yes there are some who may not treat a woman the same as a man in a situation where that shouldn’t matter, but there’s also this; Believing and trying to justify that woman shouldn’t be leaders or biologically couldn’t be leaders is absolutely ridiculous, it just as pitiful of a excuse as when Christians would say that African americas were inferior in the name of god, to try and justify slavery. Woman and men can be whoever they want to be and shouldn’t be defined by their gender. I understand that women and men are built different but if a woman wants to train and give it her all, maybe soon we’ll see the strongest person on earth be a woman, and if a man wants to be a more feminine than the average girl than so be it. People can do whatever they want to do, if that’s fitting or not fitting with their gender roles, whatever makes them feel comfortable for themselves, than that is just. The world is changing and women don’t want to be stay a home mother anymore, but if they do that is fine and accepted but NO woman should be forced to and people (like Derrick) who think this way often do, as with past generations, forced women to marry and have children when they didn’t want to. So I am weary of people like him, who carry the ideologies that women shouldn’t be befriended because of their gender and that they should go back to the way things were- where men were on top and women had to obey, because that’s all this really is, thats the real thinking behind this, I believe, and is mostly likely the reason why women tend to stray from him. No one wants to be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t think they’re equals, could be friends or both be leaders together, despite gender. Why else would men, but barley ANY women have this ideology? Because it puts men on top, women don’t want to go back to those days because it was terrible and made many unhappy, and had to be ‘the perfect house wife’. We must recognize that it is hard for a woman to be big in this world because it has always been a mans world and we must recognize that. Women in 3rd world and 1st world can see this, if that is rising to power in work positions (being taken serious in a job)or trying to fight to be able to go to school like any other boy. Women have been oppressed in many society’s, socially and physically through history. Maybe life isn’t hard for the average 1st world woman of today but there is a history and it still affects the women of today, just as the history of slavery still affects the black people of today. I understand that there’s having Christian or traditional values but people like him must understand that the is just not the way anymore and may be even offense to most women, because it trying to bring us back to a time we’re women were oppressed, socially and systematically, with trying and not being able to get a job on their own and make it in the world without a husband or being forced into marriage. If he finds a girl who is willing to have that type of relationship than that is fine, thats not my business. But to sit here and act like that thinking isn’t backwards is just a lie. I hope I don’t offend you or anything this is just what I and many others believe. :)
@@camijohillstrom4991 nah m8 an incel is an involuntary celibate thus they'd want to be in a relationship but are too bitchy betas a religious pious person is just a celibate till marriage voluntary
I’ve met a guy like this. He kept going on and on about how “women belong in the kitchen” and are the caretakers while men work and provide. He was unemployed…
That’s what I don’t understand. How are these guys mad they can’t get a girl when they think their girl belongs in the kitchen but they can’t even get a job? Sounds to me like they need to get their life right before looking for a woman.
guy had a point with the whole "brighten up the day of someone lonely without having to date them". confident/extroverted people should aspire to do that. BUT there's an undeniable majority of incels who complain about the friendzone to an unreasonable degree. they misread genuine friendly behavior as flirting, get their hopes up and get really mad later, insulting and antagonizing the woman. and although the big majority wouldn't resort to violence or some other kind of sabotage, the risk is always there. although many women are shallow and just want to lead men on, there's also a logical reason why many of us don't usually give compliments/strike a friendly conversation with guys, unless we intend to sleep with them.
>they misread genuine friendly behavior as flirting How is that their fault? >get their hopes up and get really mad later, insulting and antagonizing the woman. Not in the blackpill, no.
i believe you can see him doubting his on words as hes speaking, but he is in denial. this video seriously made me sad, especially when he straight up said they just need help and loving support. its even sadder when you know they dig their own graves and praise each other for that just to feel like they belong somewhere
Well that's because he believes what he says. I fully disagree with him and think the incel community is dangerous, but he certainly believes what he says.
I think it's important to realize that the people you disagree with politically usually believe what they say, especially regular citizens. Maybe less so if they're getting paid to have a certain opinion. But I think generally, people are not going around deliberately doing bad things, like in a video game or a superhero movie. They think they're being reasonable and doing the right thing.
also, in the episode of Middle Ground that he appeared on, he stated that he didn't think he could ever really be friends with a woman, yet he so desperately wants a more-than-friendly relationship with one... how can one expect to me MORE than friends with someone they can't even be just friends with?
honestly he was so back and forth on his beliefs. Especially when he said he wouldnt support a woman higher than him but has high standards for a woman but also they should do everything for him? what??
Well... I would argue his reasoning is actually in line with most mens, being in a woman's friendzone rarely leads to romantic realtionships, many men have been relegated to this area after being rejected. Women value connection and security so it makes sense they would value friendship as a stepping stone, which is why I think you are projecting somewhat (I could be wrong) in my opinion men value sex more than friendship w/ women..
Props to this guy for actually putting himself in the position to have discussions and hear different perspectives. At least then there is potential a seed could be planted
I agree it was brave of him. I also don't see anything this guy said as wrong. I really don't get the hate for him in the comments. He just seems like a normal everyday guy who wants to be in a relationship.
@@Nowhy *just be confident bro* yep femoids ignore the fact we can suffer from depression, anxiety also the fact femoids are shallow whores who hate ugly men. lookism is brutal. also if we do behave confident its "rape" or "creepy". a femoid would take a shy & depressed chad anyday.
@Luís Andrade then he says I don't think a woman should be able to make those decisions for themselves and without woman, we are left with men meaning we have to put our privilege, trust, rights in a man and that is submitting
3:00 "Men should treat women like we treat children. We control them but we control them lovingly" 6:10 "We all deserve someone that is loving and respectful towards us like their equal" hmmmm doesn't quite add up there, bud
I dont think hes thought about this very much himself, and formed his own sort of mentality on the subject. These things he says seems like talking points you'd find online. Hes just repeating what he's heard, not what he's come to terms with in his own mind.
yo, he also said to one of the girls to be kind and make friends with them or whatever (when she asked of ways to support and help) and... in another video went on to say that men and women cannot be friends? like wtf??
@@silversalmon9909 this, for sure. No doubt he romanticizes older eras when he wasn't even born, thinking of loving mothers who stay home all day baking cookies, doting on their men, and of course being sexually available at his every whim. Everyone wants to be the main character with the rest of life existing as the backdrop to our own personal story, blah blah blah.
I wish they forced him to define an incel in his own words and why he has attached himself to that ideology. His answer to what drove him to research this as just "society" didn't go deep enough. It almost seemed like his ideology was framed because he got constantly rejected for finding a mate that he thought that controlling women would help him overcome that obstacle.
@@Chud-mb7gl Well that’s because they’re probably not an uncle themself 😂 also it’s a subculture mostly on the internet but they do share some kind of idea which is an ideology
n40798 i doubt his mom knows he’s an incel ... she prolly just sees him as a nerdy kid that stays home a lot and works out . With a lot of online friends.
I’d say one of the biggest things that is keeping him an incel is him (on more than one occasion) comparing women to children, or otherwise placing them in that role. Furthermore, the overemphasis on male leadership that a lot of incels and “alpha-males” have is not realistic and is a big factor of what drives women away.
I didn't even notice it when I watched because I was focused on words being said. Did she come there to get opinion or to laugh at him. Women don't seem to understand that such actions will probably increase the hatred that some of them might have towards women. Can you give an opinion on that?
He needs a therapist. Saying this out of empathy. Edit: a lot of people misunderstood me. Even if he would not have said the whole traditional gender role thing, I would have still said the same. If a person is sad, lonely and hurt, he shouldn't be ridiculed. Getting therapy doesn't make one inferior. It takes courage to ask for help. Self acceptance is not everyone's feat. He blamed his life problems solely on the world ( somewhat on women) One has to fight for their own problems, and it's a sick mentality to think that having friends and relationship will help. A sinking boat will sink whether it's one person or ten. One must have the desire to save themselves, and therapy encourages that. It doesn't save you, it teaches you to save yourself. And this guy here needs to have more faith in himself because world will keep throwing problems at you, and you will have to solve it. Just like saying I'm the best at everything is a form of entitlement, so is saying I'm the worst, incorrigible mess. That's the kind of entitlement that hurts more. I think I've made myself clear, and have no more to say. Have a good day/night.
@@lambsauce8172 I get what you're saying..and that's sad. But it's also no excuse for harming the innocent male, female or none. Extremists can never be right.
I saw him on another video and I really didn't like his attitude, but in this video he opened up better. I really respect his efforts. What you feel is what you feed your brain with. And If your brain interprets that you're not safe it just makes you hurt more to protect you form the outside world radiation and keep home. This is the definition of being an incel . Basically you don't feel safe, and you are vulnerable.. And because of this you're not visible to others! You need to change this! You cannot change this by being a tougher guy. You need to define what your pain means to you and reestablish your safety zone in your mind. Once your brain calms down these viral thought cycles in your mind you will have the opportunity to grow and learn. Then you will be able to walk away from your pain an be you. I wish you the best! *When I say pain, I mean pain, loneliness is painful. Feeling stuck is painful.
You can't find middle ground with irrational people. Stop trying. The fact that Jubilee has such a platform and doesn't realize that doing mainstreaming for fascists is an atrocious idea is mindbending to me.
How is he supposed to open up and be honest when he’s being ridiculed for even being able to admit that he’s an incel? It’s hard to address and fix a problem when you’re constantly being shamed for having the problem in the first place.
@@NSander8 “incel “is a made up term Used by certain men, who can’t handle rejection and have ZERO self awareness. Your situation is not the fault of any person you have never met and that includes women! These men have such hate and indifference toward women that is 100% unjustified.
@@johnsefton9340 My apologies. From reading that reply I realized there was a disconnect and I believe I misunderstood the original comment, which I agree with now.
@@johnsefton9340 dude, sexlessness amongst young men is at the highest it's ever been. Whilst for women a higher percentage of them are having sex. The majority of the women are chasing after a small minority of the men. This is an issue in society that needs to be addressed, incels are part of that wider issue. If you deny that then you're a fool. Young people arent coupling up and having families anymore. If you go back to when our grandfathers were young, sexlessness among young men was alnost a quarter of what it is now. That is a huge shift and cannot be ignored. Incels are a result of this phenomenon.
The problem that really irks me is that these devoted, DEVOTED believers in an idealogy, in this case their beliefs in that women will be happier in "traditional roles" and to which he even cites, never seem to think it a wise decision to take these alleged "studies", print them out IN FULL and use them as a point of reference. This is ESPECIALLY true when they are men like this fellow who was pre-arranged to do this. Yet he relies on the "I saw a study once, that I cant remember the name, or who did it, but I promise you it was real" 🙄
Incel isn't the ideology - Red Pill is. Incel is a set of circumstances, whereas Red Pill is (seen as) the answer to their problems. This is where you get the fairly reactionary set of beliefs around returning to traditional gender roles and so on.
Feminism Is Toxic Femininity while the guy in the video did not say much on looks (Could be wrong but don’t remember it). He did say he wanted men to be able to control women.
@@rustyshackleford3428 i literally watched it live. he cut the stream after trying once which seemed legit but he cut the stream before trying a second time cause either it didnt work or he was lying or he got spooked. my opinion, seemed like the whole thing was contrived
I had a classmate at college who had overweight, just like the guy in this video. He was empathetic and intelligent, he enjoyed reading and could hold interesting conversations. Later he became a professor and he's married now. Prior to his wife, he had many girlfriends.
@@KHHVKimchicelNo, his wife is an independent woman and his ex-girlfriends were college students. You see, the real problem of a guy like the one in this video is not his body but his mind.
This is what a lifetime of rejection looks like, and it's only getting worse unfortunately, I'm glad I grew up in a different time, we didn't worry about much and we enjoyed ourselves as much as possible, that doesn't seem to happen these days.
@@keifer7813 I don't think the word even existed back then, wether or not those kinds of people existed back then, I wouldn't have a clue, it was just too much of a fun time to be staying at home.
@@raymondingram2539 An incel is just a person who can't get laid. So yes, they definitely existed lol. And it might have been a fun time for you and your peers but there were also very likely people rotting away locked in their rooms but again, you never noticed
@@keifer7813 Why would I, I liked to live my life and if some incel or whatever you want to call them wants to lock themselves away from living life then that's there problem.
@@raymondingram2539 I didn't say you should. I'm pointing out that incels existed in your day, as they have all throughout time, so it's not just a current thing as you suggested in your initial comment
@@belle2464 That isn't the solution to someone's happiness.. Having meaningless sex and having the woman blow the depressed guy off after can put him in a worse state than he was before. especially if th sex was awkward etc...
Pete Holmes but they wanna be women which is funny 😂 and nobody is better than the other we are all equal and if u can’t get past that then your a sorry human being and the problem with today’s sexism
I am late to this but how is no one talking about his response to the question about women, women of colour and the LGBTQ+ community?? - “we control them, but we control them lovingly” 😨
Amber Robinson that's called the liberal face. It's a weakness and happens when someone is in an ignorant mode. Meaning not trying to comprehend or even listen to what it being said because the brain has yet to develop to behave like a mature human being. You do not have to agree, but have some decency to show respect to whoever it is you are having a discussion with without the temptation to make a face. Something a 5 year old usually does.
TooPlepsy It certainly is a subtle way to discredit what is being said. As the viewer, I find this interview process somewhat insincere. Jubilee is basically validating negative pre-conceived notions, despite multiple interviewers changing their own opinions by the end of the interview.
Cult Boy then again, only an incel would allow himself to be put on a wall of shame in the most unique however most toxic channel on youtube. Or atleast one that has a fairly judgmental, immature and toxic comment section. And I would not expect less from random people. Why anyone allow themselves to be made fun of is beyond me, but why Jubilee would knowingly do this while presenting itself as a medium where supposedly everyone is equal or try to reach a common ground. They know the people interviewing this dude would not go easy on him. You'd expect a team of content creators to draw a line on what is good content and what is just cruel. Or maybe allow people to discuss with each other if they have a emotional intelligence that is not equivalent to a newborn gorilla.
@@vieiradaniele4405 if you don't see the problem with the whole "control them lovingly" thing, you probably have some problems with your worldview, no normal person would look at that and think that's an OK view of how things should be
Props to this guy having the balls to say this on cam without face blur. Hopefully he knew the fallout that having this up would cause for any potential future dates... I honestly feel for this guy. I don't know how many guys have confided their toxic beliefs to me in private. Most of them have a common issue of having an extremely low tolerance for rejection.
Considering his mindset about women being treated like children just means that they should submit to their husbands, I don't think she's worried about it.
It's how Ricky treated Lucy in the show "I love Lucy" and IRL but fortunately they got divorced and the 1960s came to an end. He needs to realize what year it is. He's 60 years behind the times.
"Who hurt you?" The underlying assumption in saying that is, all healthy and correct opinions are those that conform to my standard and yours are invalid because they pose a threat to my own. It's spiteful, immature and it's a belittling tactic used to derail and delegitimize any further argument from the other person. Awful talking point IMO.
@Hi, Nice To Meet You You're the one asking me to communicate like a normal person. I'm asking you what you what you think is wrong with how I type online.
@Hi, Nice To Meet You so how would you prefer me to communicate while I'm online? In memes saying things like cringe normie? Text shorthand lyk dis? It just seems like an arbitrary standard plucked out of thin air as an excuse because you disagreed with my earlier comment. I honestly don't get it.
no matter how he looks even if he looks good looking or ugly, no women would want him because they don't want someone who despises them for simply being a woman and his opinion towards them
That kind of thing Never happens in Africa if you want to get married go to her father or family and tell them that's all and you get wedded.that's why it good to have a culture
@@dittery He does very much talk in a manner that suggests intense dislike towards women and please don't say females, you make yourself sound like a douchebag.
I agree. This dude seems intelligent, but I just get the feeling that he was ostracized in the real world. He found a community that accepted him, so he started indoctrinating himself. I feel sorry for him. He seems like a kind person that went down the wrong path.
@@TundraTress He needs to go to therapy tbh, most incels project onto the world the hate that they genuinely feel about themselves so they end up being part of a community that is consumed by anger and bitterness, they won't start to have a healthier opinion about themselves or better self esteem because they've surrounded themselves with other self hating incels who reiterate their feelings of ugliness and bad self worth
@@piratesfan123 I agree with that. I don't think he is in ant healthy state to be a part of a loving relationship with someone at his point. I think he needs to understand that he can be loved, and that he ought to feel and be loved by someone, rather than feeling as though it is societies obligation for him to receive love from a woman.
I'm currently doing some research on the incel community bc I might write my bachelors on it and the more you find out the more you pitty their mindset (not their actions tho),, I always had this picture that incels are overly confident men that hated women but in reality they're just self-destructive, isolated and desperate men that are sexually frustrated and search for a place to belong (a lot of them probably do hate women and 15 minutes on a incel forum had me question my faith in humanity lol)
I feel like with incels this all just stems from loneliness and lack of companionship.....but their beliefs don't exactly help their situation. Just spread love man, we can all do with a little bit more love and care and listening and understanding. Peace
Bem isso. É que você sabe como é né? Hoje em dia o homem que não consegue nenhuma mulher é considerado inferior. "O valor da sua vida está no número de mulheres que você consegue". Como elas se recusam, o pensamento é "elas estão me negando a única coisa que dá valor a minha vida". A opção acaba sendo rejeitar elas, "dar um 360" e dizer que elas não valem nada.
It's sadly the mentality of the majority of men these days. It rarely happens that a man would date a woman that is more educated or earns more. They need to get that ego boost, otherwise, they can't function.
@@madelinem.9431 Well, men usually don't date women who are more educated or earns more because they aren't given a chance. In most cases, women will only date someone who is at the very least at "their level". Did you ever heard the expression "out of your league"?
Abdullah Habib no he could say whatever he wanted. It’s free speech. However free right to speech does not mean free of consequence. He COULD say whatever the hell he wanted, but he knew he would have repercussions from the people watching the video and their comments.
I was most disturbed by how he said we should “lovingly correct “ women as if they are children. This implies women cannot take care of themselves and that men should absolutely dictate what is acceptable behavior. As a kindergarten teacher, I correct children on things like “Don’t hit your friends.” and “No, you can’t jump off the top of the slide.” We correct children to teach them social values and safety. Saying that women need this kind of correction dismisses them as functional people.
That was disturbing to me too. It isn't surprising that a young dude who keeps being continually rejected would gravitate to a fantasy world where women would have no choice but to be with him or they wouldn't have the free agency to deny him. It's really quite sad and pathetic.
@@shadelings I think the goal is to portray women as incapable of making decisions for themselves due to inherent lack of ability. This has been used to justify violence against women, unfortunately, as it makes it seem like women need to obey a man (who in this scenario would be the only one who understands what to do). I can empathize and understand why someone with poor self confidence would gravitate to this idea to feel powerful.
and he even says “they would be more happy” as if anyone is happy being “lovingly shaped” into something they don’t enjoy. Hell, why else would women in old times instantly stop doing mostly feminine stuff as soon as they weren’t at risk of being beaten cuz they weren’t in the kitchen? (I exaggerated a bit lol)
@@michah321 Yeah, it’s a problem. Equating oppressed groups to children in order to justify abusing them is super common. Think about how people used to call black people “boy” or “girl” and “correct them.” That was done to justify their lower social class.
its involuntary. not a choice, its like calling someone a looser because they are currently poor. incel is a term used by "others" to be disrespectful.
Being a looser is voluntary. Finding hookups and even getting into relationships is so easy nowadays, they just don’t know how to, don’t learn and then blame everyone around. Like be so for real being a little funny and quirky is enough to get yourself laid even if you look like a chimpanzee, like the bar for men is down there for most women
@@MikeJensen-w2vwell when you are overweight and have a bad haircut, then yes it is. a person can choose to be fit and look like the best version of themselves. i’m not saying it’s easy, but it’s definitely voluntary. now obviously facial features you can’t change much.
@@АскарТахиров-е2ч you sound like a rich person explaining a homeless guy why he's homeless. "The well-fed will never understand the hungry." -Irish proverb.
B a n e z are you being serious right now or was that some sort of twisted joke that was phrased very incorrectly? Women are not objects to succumb to your sexual desires. We are humans with hopes, dreams and a broad intellectual ability. I am disgusted that people still have this warped way of thinking. True feminists, like myself, advocate for the rights of men and women. We believe in the equality of all sexes, regardless of race, religion, wealth or political beliefs. You are the sort of person who causes the societal problems we are working to fix. As much as I respect you having different beliefs, the way you are implementing them is plainly rude and unnecessary. In other words, kindly take your misogynistic views and shove them up your ass.
It's parts of what he say that makes me sympathetical. But then it comes back to wanting women to be the way HE want them to be, not accept and include HIM for what he is. Also tip for any lonely guy: I have always gone the extra mile to talk to those lonely guys. Most of the time it's fine but if you do want to have a culture where that is permitted you can't feel hostility towards the woman when she later on is not interested in romance or sex.
Wait sorry if i piss anyone off or any asians who see this (im not really educated that well with different races) but isnt being asian an ethnicity, not a race?
I wanted to watch one video about incels, just one I picked because it seemed on a surface level to be the most wholesome one. To me this just reinforced my viewpoint about people in general being absurdly inept in every way possible, and this guy seems to be a very high-quality person surrounded by utter dimwits, its profound how high quality of a person he is considering the difficult he presumably is under in life. He needs to get into an active group of people that are outside and doing active stuff like partying etc. He might maybe have developed a superiority complex that prevents him from doing that though
Outside for sure, but perhaps not partying. Heck I'd argue to avoid anything erotic or hedonistic in general for a while. Find instead some form of group work, especially the kind that helps others.
I was fascinated by the difference between the guys’ and the girls’ questions, because it felt like the girls were trying to get through to him whereas the guys were all just like, “bruh... why? really?” hilarious
The first thing they'd do is that they'd sort the best looking men out and then sort the men out who like/respect women most. But yes, I'd like to see if I'm right with my guess
@Andromeda T I think the same. While I do not agree with those people, the marketplace of ideas should always be free, only that way can people learn and become wise.
No seriously, that is the question of the year for every incel. Rejection is something that makes people feel entitled when it’s not handled properly. It takes a huge toll on a person’s mental process.
I find it interesting that he recommends women be nice to the lonely guys. That makes a lot of sense of the surface, like of course people should be nice to other people. The problem is that when women are kind, incels will take that kindness and morph it into a romantic expectation, and then when women reject that expectation, they become bitter. On the whole it's not a problem with women being cruel to unattractive men, it's a problem with men taking romantic rejection as cruelty
Nah, there totally is a problem. He's not giving anything back. This is pure entitlement at its finest. It's not like he would try to be nice to some girl he wasn't attracted to, to understand women more without the goal of sleeping with them. So no, fuck guys like this. They deserve to be alone until they change their attitude.
@@llIlIlllII I think we're on the same page dude, generally I'm saying that there's an issue with men having unfair expectations of women. I'm pointing out that this guy expects women to be kind to him as though women normally have some sort of predisposed vendetta against him, when really he's a hypocrite who doesn't understand that he is not entitled to his romantic expectations of women and he takes women's rightful rejection of these expectations as cruelty. So yes, he should totally be alone until he changes his attitude, because he has an outlook of "I DESERVE women's romantic attention whenever I pursue it," which is absolutely disgusting. And yes, I also agree that he probably wouldn't be kind to a woman he didn't find attractive
@@joshrees3413 The big problem is that they think that they are nice just because they did something for a woman. Just because you did something for a woman that doesnt mean anything. And you can be "traditional" but if you are a dick you dont get any girl at the end.
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What did you think you were accomplishing when you made that video?
I would love to hear a radical empathy podcast with this man as I keep having a hard time understanding him.
Would it be rude to ask a Feminist, “Who hurt you?”
You guys should release all the footage you have. I'm interested to see what else was said.
I feel like calling yourself an incel just increases the amount of women that will try to avoid you.
yeah lol
Except if ure chad
Oh wait There are no chads incels, must be their good personality
Xdxdxdxdxe
not if i speed up my van 🚐😂👌
I'm getting a "reject them before they can reject me" kinda vibe here
Well is that not an honest and justified human reaction to any repeated hurt that they experience? Would you continue to cut yourself with a knife in a belief that it's good for you even after seven cuts deep into your flesh? Is he not justified to reject potential hurt based on his previous experiences 'just in case' they dont repeat this time??
Yeah, but that thing he said about a women being president, just wtf. Man are not natural leaders, no one sex is a natural at whatever. Women are not caregivers.
@Bazzralic no one cares that you're racist
@@relentlesslytalkingtoapc7115 Yeah but no one is cutting you psychically or mentally. Rejection is everywhere. When you learn to take it and move on because there are so many different women out there, you won't get 'hurt'.
Bro when this vid was fist uploaded people were so chill, like. He’s actually so chill and not what I’d expect. Something like that
I thought the word "incel" was an insult.. I didn't know people actually identified with it
Actually same tho
Me too
Me too, just like the term ‘queer’
It means involuntarily celibate
Man, it's insane how you all are obsessed with incels and know nothing about them.
The woman face after "how we treat children that we love" got me (she also asked one of the best questions)
People just freak out when they hear women and children used in conjunction lol, I think he just meant however one treats a group that you love/don’t want to see being misguided cause the they don’t really have the capacity to consider that for themselves
@@att2075we freak put because women and children are grouped together and compared so much in society its genuinely concerning. We are praised when we have child-like characteristics, as grown women. And proven in your statement about misguidance, we are treated as though we don’t have the capacity for rational thought quite often. It’s exhausting.
@@att2075women dont like being treated as if we have the life experience of a child. we are not as easily misguided nor should we be treated as such. we have the capacity to think for ourselves, opposite to the implication of your comment
@@att2075 you literally just stated why people freak out when women and children are grouped together - "they don’t really have the capacity to consider that for themselves". women will understandably not like it and get rightfully upset when they are consistently told that they don't have the capacity for rational thought or the ability to make their own decisions. it's infuriating to hear especially when there's zero concrete evidence of this being true.
@@celestial260truth bitters
The girl in the red shirt at the beginning really asked “Who hurt you?” That SENT ME
I mean, not that funny considering he actually was hurt as a child
Imagine a man saying that to an old single bitter woman. It would be misogyny.
Obama Bruh I didn’t mean it to be that funny. But there are healthier ways to cope with that. Both in this video and another video he was in, he was comparing women to children
Box Man Box Man I mean, I’ve asked old single bitter women sometimes “who hurt them?” Because they said some stuff that was really out of line. There are healthy ways to cope with a person’s past. And being rude and obnoxious 24/7 isn’t one of them
Sune Svett Yet you literally said “that sent me” he does need help, but people laughing at him and making fun of his appearance aren’t helping him.
dear the first girl who flat out started it with, “who hurt you” i hope your having a good day
🤣🤣🤣
On God 💀💀💀
this the sound clip for the negative xp song lmao
you’re all mean. That’s why he has problems.
@@louvretreekay12_ cry about it
That one girl: “who hurt you?”
The Awesome M ya that was kinda rude to just open a question like that.
Fluffy Tail I thought it was really funny, but probably not the best way to ask questions and figure out why he is the way he is
The Awesome M it would’ve been funny to me but her tone was really condescending.
Someone Special that doesn’t make sense. You can’t say someone is right from a question, you need the answer. That’s like “what’s your favorite color?” And then you say “well your not wrong” makes no sense
Someone Special how can a question be wrong?
As a person who’s 17 and never had a girlfriend, I will never consider myself an incel. No matter what happens when I get older I’ll just use my rejections and shortcomings as motivation to improve my life mentally, physically, and financially.
“Pick up a useful skill, learn a trade, learn a language, improve your body, and take care of yourself as you’ll be more put together in the long run”
That was the advice I’d give myself at that age even if it wasn’t that long ago
And as long as you continue to work on yourself, and you keep that mindset and don't allow extremist ideologies take over you, I have no doubt that one day you will find a woman who sees your efforts and will love you for you.
You'll just be lying to yourself then.
@@Recluse616 No matter what I'm never going to associate myself with the incel community. They tend to have a negative outlook on life and women, and I don't want any of that negativity in my life.
I would also want you to know that what you are stating is something very common. There is plenty of people who are 17 and never had a boyfriend or girlfriend. I actually know lots of people (both guys and girls) who are older than that and never been in a relationship. I don't know you, but I would never consider someone an incel based in such situation. It's normal and you still have a long life ahead, just take your time
He even said in a previous video that his mom is a single mother- imagine raising a kid that hates women when you raised him BY YOUR SELF.
That was interesting. Maybe his mother is to blame for his mindset. This is why it’s important for all kids to have a father at home.
He is one ungrateful child she raise him on her own but then he disrespects women like that if I was his mum I would be disappointed
sorry to come by like this but your pfp is just- who is itttt😭😭
ZYA - Yea and that loving parent could be a man. What? You don’t think there are deadbeat women out there? You don’t think there are many women that are a shitty parent? Think again.
@@shyeline5007it's jungkook
To summarize:
We live in a society.
Literally. Like are we supposed to feel bad for him 🙄
@@Stella3014 then how do we solve it? By pushing them under the societal rug until they end up taking someone's innocent life???
Cake Cake Cake have you ever felt lonely in your miserable life?
You're really in touch with the memes. Did you learn this from twitter?
Cake Cake Cake so are we supposed to penalize him for being who he is?
Rule #1 never mention a study of any kind unless you are 100% confident that it exists, you remember it and you can find it again
I mean it's easy to find with a quick google search. It's impossible to remember the source of every study you come across.
@@kat2282 i think he knew he was going to get casted in this video, he could have memorised a few of his sources
Okay L
Omg i love Ryuzaki 🥺
Steve Lauria Did they make the same study on men?
He feels small, therefore he has to make others feel small. I think all of us can understand what that's like. We've all done that on occasion. Let's hope he manages to grow out of it-possibly with the help of a very patient and understanding partner.
Looks is the determining factor for your dating life and that is simply true there is no way around it ugly means you are going to have a rough time in the dating market stop blaming personality for it
@@anass4109 it's always both looks and personality, not one or the other.
It's looks, personality, and social status
@Baldo Sometimes, and then other times I don't. But I try to be aware of when I feel small and feel tempted to take it out on others, so that I can stop myself. That way even though I feel small, I don't act small (most of the time). :)
@@woutertron women judge you based off looks
who else is watching this after the mens rights vs feminism video?
He seems like a remotely likeable person here (despite him still having some ridiculous views). He just seemed like a troll on the Middle Ground video
Same. I felt empathy towards him by the end of this video. Didn't know what "incel" was til before these 2 vids, but the characteristics which Derrick described them as, reminded me of some guys in high school who had kept to them self
Freda McGlade as soon as I saw Derrick isn’t the other video, I knew it was all downhill. And this video made it worse 😂
@@DjArtistoftheEU16 i relate
Same. I wanted to know more about Derrick. I feel like he’s a character. Like the Mad Hatter. He seems like a person I would hang out with even though we don’t have the same views. I hope he’s in more videos.
I like how the video just starts with
"I do think women are very important, *BUT*-"
That "BUT-" had so much echo, I already knew what I was in for haha
@@jeanchristophegatien But we never got a continuation to that thought.
Santorini - loo worse than an incel?
*Grabs popcorn* This shall be fun :3
I’m not supposed to give my opinion, *BUT-*
He said “make friends with those lonely guys” but in the other video he said “guys can’t be friends with girls”
Avoid femoids friends too, they may have everything in common with you, the same everything, she may likes the things you like but she will choose to get fucked by an abusive chad/tyrone that doesnt even love her like you do. all femoids are the same. female friends just use you, avoid avoid avoid.
DeadlyNeedle ! Dude you really need to see the other video he is in (Men equal rights VS feminist) he says: ‘I can’t be friends with a woman.’ It not a lie, he says a lot of weird and sexist stuff like that. Everyone on both sides of the conversation hate this guy because he is blatantly sexist. Just look in the comments of the every video
Brick Parrot i watched it that’s why I said that he said in the other video about not being friends with women and here he says the opposite
DeadlyNeedle ! This is the only reply I’ll do. You have to admit there’s sexist things he says. Secondly you give me the idea your an incel. Lastly, if you switch up because of pressure you shouldn’t have been doing this interview let alone the other video he signed up and agreed to both videos, he has to accept he messed up
DeadlyNeedle ! There’s different forms of sexism, yes there are some who may not treat a woman the same as a man in a situation where that shouldn’t matter, but there’s also this; Believing and trying to justify that woman shouldn’t be leaders or biologically couldn’t be leaders is absolutely ridiculous, it just as pitiful of a excuse as when Christians would say that African americas were inferior in the name of god, to try and justify slavery.
Woman and men can be whoever they want to be and shouldn’t be defined by their gender. I understand that women and men are built different but if a woman wants to train and give it her all, maybe soon we’ll see the strongest person on earth be a woman, and if a man wants to be a more feminine than the average girl than so be it. People can do whatever they want to do, if that’s fitting or not fitting with their gender roles, whatever makes them feel comfortable for themselves, than that is just. The world is changing and women don’t want to be stay a home mother anymore, but if they do that is fine and accepted but NO woman should be forced to and people (like Derrick) who think this way often do, as with past generations, forced women to marry and have children when they didn’t want to. So I am weary of people like him, who carry the ideologies that women shouldn’t be befriended because of their gender and that they should go back to the way things were- where men were on top and women had to obey, because that’s all this really is, thats the real thinking behind this, I believe, and is mostly likely the reason why women tend to stray from him. No one wants to be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t think they’re equals, could be friends or both be leaders together, despite gender. Why else would men, but barley ANY women have this ideology? Because it puts men on top, women don’t want to go back to those days because it was terrible and made many unhappy, and had to be ‘the perfect house wife’.
We must recognize that it is hard for a woman to be big in this world because it has always been a mans world and we must recognize that. Women in 3rd world and 1st world can see this, if that is rising to power in work positions (being taken serious in a job)or trying to fight to be able to go to school like any other boy. Women have been oppressed in many society’s, socially and physically through history. Maybe life isn’t hard for the average 1st world woman of today but there is a history and it still affects the women of today, just as the history of slavery still affects the black people of today.
I understand that there’s having Christian or traditional values but people like him must understand that the is just not the way anymore and may be even offense to most women, because it trying to bring us back to a time we’re women were oppressed, socially and systematically, with trying and not being able to get a job on their own and make it in the world without a husband or being forced into marriage. If he finds a girl who is willing to have that type of relationship than that is fine, thats not my business. But to sit here and act like that thinking isn’t backwards is just a lie. I hope I don’t offend you or anything this is just what I and many others believe. :)
“You wanna escape it. You wanna be something better.” Damn.
Want but does not actively and continuously improve.
@@sweetsendaedreamr "Tries to improve for years without success" is more like it
No one can make you better. People need to be better for themselves.
@@s.a.g.8131sure
Honestly, this guy doesn’t make me feel mad, just sad.
My favourite comment so far.
So true.
“I’m so mad, and so sad - I’m smad!” - Sookie St James
For me it’s more like pity.
He makes me proud
Imagine if he gets a girlfriend and then she eventually discovers all this.....
Imagine if he gets a girlfriend....
I’m pretty sure incels also don’t date because of their beliefs, but want to date and have relationships. I’m not sure tho
Cami’Jo Hillstrom im just saying imagine that’s all.
@@camijohillstrom4991 nah m8 an incel is an involuntary celibate thus they'd want to be in a relationship but are too bitchy betas a religious pious person is just a celibate till marriage voluntary
Now imagine. 😂 just keep imagining.
I’ve met a guy like this. He kept going on and on about how “women belong in the kitchen” and are the caretakers while men work and provide. He was unemployed…
LOL
That’s what I don’t understand. How are these guys mad they can’t get a girl when they think their girl belongs in the kitchen but they can’t even get a job? Sounds to me like they need to get their life right before looking for a woman.
@@reginaldkingii6057 they aren’t unemployed
Guys who says that are either incel loosers or old dinosaurs
@@ahmadhanif125 Or muslim/middle eastern husbands
guy had a point with the whole "brighten up the day of someone lonely without having to date them". confident/extroverted people should aspire to do that.
BUT
there's an undeniable majority of incels who complain about the friendzone to an unreasonable degree. they misread genuine friendly behavior as flirting, get their hopes up and get really mad later, insulting and antagonizing the woman. and although the big majority wouldn't resort to violence or some other kind of sabotage, the risk is always there.
although many women are shallow and just want to lead men on, there's also a logical reason why many of us don't usually give compliments/strike a friendly conversation with guys, unless we intend to sleep with them.
>they misread genuine friendly behavior as flirting
How is that their fault?
>get their hopes up and get really mad later, insulting and antagonizing the woman.
Not in the blackpill, no.
@@nothingtoospecial777 misreading it isnt their fault, their reaction to it is.
I don’t understand, he literally talks like a reasonable person but his words are outrageous
this confused me too
I agree. Hes really misguided
i believe you can see him doubting his on words as hes speaking, but he is in denial. this video seriously made me sad, especially when he straight up said they just need help and loving support. its even sadder when you know they dig their own graves and praise each other for that just to feel like they belong somewhere
Well that's because he believes what he says. I fully disagree with him and think the incel community is dangerous, but he certainly believes what he says.
I think it's important to realize that the people you disagree with politically usually believe what they say, especially regular citizens. Maybe less so if they're getting paid to have a certain opinion. But I think generally, people are not going around deliberately doing bad things, like in a video game or a superhero movie. They think they're being reasonable and doing the right thing.
Girl in red: Who hurt you?
Derrick: *SOCIETY*
JOKER (2019)
😂😂 ahaha
Dont insult joker like that
My gay ass thought bout a different Girl in red lmao
@@Wasp1 SAME
@@Wasp1 meeee toooo
also, in the episode of Middle Ground that he appeared on, he stated that he didn't think he could ever really be friends with a woman, yet he so desperately wants a more-than-friendly relationship with one... how can one expect to me MORE than friends with someone they can't even be just friends with?
honestly he was so back and forth on his beliefs. Especially when he said he wouldnt support a woman higher than him but has high standards for a woman but also they should do everything for him? what??
Well... I would argue his reasoning is actually in line with most mens, being in a woman's friendzone rarely leads to romantic realtionships, many men have been relegated to this area after being rejected. Women value connection and security so it makes sense they would value friendship as a stepping stone, which is why I think you are projecting somewhat (I could be wrong) in my opinion men value sex more than friendship w/ women..
@@kiklulu5149 He tries to restrain himself from saying what he truly thinks because it's way wilder than he let's on.
Your life partner should BE your best friend. I think if he were ever with a woman, his outlook would change dramatically.
@@kyecarlin7089 true dat
Props to this guy for actually putting himself in the position to have discussions and hear different perspectives. At least then there is potential a seed could be planted
Lmao he changed, his not an incel anymore but he still supports the community
@@---------c5741 this mean he got laid? Lol
He says his reason for participating was to shed a more positive light on the incel community. He wasn’t there to have his opinion changed.
I agree it was brave of him. I also don't see anything this guy said as wrong. I really don't get the hate for him in the comments. He just seems like a normal everyday guy who wants to be in a relationship.
@@mary7256 female folks hating him bcz he has a different opinion
This guy really said “we live in a society” to the second girl lmao
I think thats why he laughed
WinterWonderland joker lookin ass lmAo
WinterWonderland how many women find a lack of confidence attractive? They just need to man up and behave like normal people.
@@arvidtonning6348 who behaves like normal people and who cares about how normal people behave?
@@Nowhy *just be confident bro* yep femoids ignore the fact we can suffer from depression, anxiety also the fact femoids are shallow whores who hate ugly men. lookism is brutal. also if we do behave confident its "rape" or "creepy". a femoid would take a shy & depressed chad anyday.
So basically he gets turned down by women and now wants to force them to submit to men
@Ethan Slicer no thats literally what he said lol
@Ethan Slicer How is that wrong
@Luís Andrade then he says I don't think a woman should be able to make those decisions for themselves and without woman, we are left with men meaning we have to put our privilege, trust, rights in a man and that is submitting
nope
He's insecure
3:00 "Men should treat women like we treat children. We control them but we control them lovingly"
6:10 "We all deserve someone that is loving and respectful towards us like their equal"
hmmmm doesn't quite add up there, bud
I dont think hes thought about this very much himself, and formed his own sort of mentality on the subject. These things he says seems like talking points you'd find online. Hes just repeating what he's heard, not what he's come to terms with in his own mind.
yo, he also said to one of the girls to be kind and make friends with them or whatever (when she asked of ways to support and help) and... in another video went on to say that men and women cannot be friends? like wtf??
@@thesleepydragon9780 same, I was so confused by that statement
Talk about some contradictions there
@@silversalmon9909 this, for sure. No doubt he romanticizes older eras when he wasn't even born, thinking of loving mothers who stay home all day baking cookies, doting on their men, and of course being sexually available at his every whim. Everyone wants to be the main character with the rest of life existing as the backdrop to our own personal story, blah blah blah.
I wish they forced him to define an incel in his own words and why he has attached himself to that ideology. His answer to what drove him to research this as just "society" didn't go deep enough. It almost seemed like his ideology was framed because he got constantly rejected for finding a mate that he thought that controlling women would help him overcome that obstacle.
An incel is an involutary celibate, that's literally all there is to it
Pretty sure he was into ladies that looked like supermodels
Incels aren't an ideology lmfao don't ask people to define it correctly when you yourself can't do it
@@Chud-mb7gl Well that’s because they’re probably not an uncle themself 😂 also it’s a subculture mostly on the internet but they do share some kind of idea which is an ideology
@@Chud-mb7gl*incel
Did this guy just compare grown ass women to children
They are similar in lots of ways, especially judging by this comment section lmao.
Well... Many grown ass women (and men), are really not much more advanced or capable than children...
Maxim boy.... you mama raised you, a woman with a child’s mind wouldn’t be able to do that. Goodness me.
@Majin Gojira I'm assuming you are not a parent.
@@KingFloch88 how?
everyone's face trying to make sense of what he is saying HAS ME DEAD
A. Babe dudeeee honestly
1000th like 👍
"Lol HoW cAn YoU nOt hAvE 50 PaRtNeRs?"
They should have also done a separate AMA with his mom
"I Raised an Incel. Ask Me Anything"
n40798 i doubt his mom knows he’s an incel ... she prolly just sees him as a nerdy kid that stays home a lot and works out . With a lot of online friends.
Or his Dad.
i can already tell his dad was out of the picture his whole life probably.
@@rodgod82 yes
Yeesss
I’d say one of the biggest things that is keeping him an incel is him (on more than one occasion) comparing women to children, or otherwise placing them in that role. Furthermore, the overemphasis on male leadership that a lot of incels and “alpha-males” have is not realistic and is a big factor of what drives women away.
that and basic hygiene and self care
"Who hurt you?" Is the best question that could have been asked
@SIDDIQUE INTESAR
No I think it’s could
@Florian but that still doesn't mean it's alright to hate almost half the population just bc of a few negative experiences 🤦🏾♀️
That, and "do you have a female figure in your life?" Are the key to all of it
@Florian That's true ngl. But that doesn't excuse anything. I've been hurt by women too and I am one, so what's your point?
@1:35 that question was asked and he got nervous and laughed it off
We should have an episode of incels vs feminists
Damn. That would have been a good bloodbath for Halloween.
those incels are going to be obsolete
I volunteer as tribute!
Omfg thst would be video of the year 2020 lets do that!!! It's going to be so much yelling
please
This is proof that we truly live in a society.
Wiser words have never been spoken
your username makes this all complete
I searched up the meaning of that meme jus to find out it was a joker reference lol. I thought it was from a feminist.
Hahaha funny
get a load of this society
2:50 this girls facial expressions are fantastic
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@@wisenotwise2676she meant on 2:50 not 2:30
@@KlaudiaShaefferr yes my bad sorry
risada de deboche é argumento de puta
I didn't even notice it when I watched because I was focused on words being said. Did she come there to get opinion or to laugh at him. Women don't seem to understand that such actions will probably increase the hatred that some of them might have towards women. Can you give an opinion on that?
Post Malone's cousin really out here wildin'.
//SuperAsh4U// never disrespect post malone like that ever again😂
He really be vibing tho
@barb looks like he needs to find his own sunflower
@@bleedthebeat he has a personality of an unsalted chicken wing from a small town KFC
@@tavit1987 I a Polly pocket gize
"women are important...
BUT..."
Love that.
nice, you quoted the video, awesome :)
i n t e n s e
Yes BRO , we live in a society . Stop playin!!
I think this says it all🤦🏾♂️
He needs a therapist. Saying this out of empathy.
Edit: a lot of people misunderstood me. Even if he would not have said the whole traditional gender role thing, I would have still said the same. If a person is sad, lonely and hurt, he shouldn't be ridiculed. Getting therapy doesn't make one inferior. It takes courage to ask for help. Self acceptance is not everyone's feat. He blamed his life problems solely on the world ( somewhat on women) One has to fight for their own problems, and it's a sick mentality to think that having friends and relationship will help. A sinking boat will sink whether it's one person or ten. One must have the desire to save themselves, and therapy encourages that. It doesn't save you, it teaches you to save yourself. And this guy here needs to have more faith in himself because world will keep throwing problems at you, and you will have to solve it. Just like saying I'm the best at everything is a form of entitlement, so is saying I'm the worst, incorrigible mess. That's the kind of entitlement that hurts more. I think I've made myself clear, and have no more to say.
Have a good day/night.
@Blessing Osamudiamen incels are few in numbers compared to femnazis 🤷♂️
for real the dude looks hurt
Same. Listening to him talks solidifies that.
@Bon Jovi that's true, but misandry is acceptable in society and misogyny isn't
@@lambsauce8172 I get what you're saying..and that's sad. But it's also no excuse for harming the innocent male, female or none.
Extremists can never be right.
I saw him on another video and I really didn't like his attitude, but in this video he opened up better. I really respect his efforts.
What you feel is what you feed your brain with. And If your brain interprets that you're not safe it just makes you hurt more to protect you form the outside world radiation and keep home. This is the definition of being an incel . Basically you don't feel safe, and you are vulnerable.. And because of this you're not visible to others! You need to change this! You cannot change this by being a tougher guy. You need to define what your pain means to you and reestablish your safety zone in your mind. Once your brain calms down these viral thought cycles in your mind you will have the opportunity to grow and learn. Then you will be able to walk away from your pain an be you. I wish you the best!
*When I say pain, I mean pain, loneliness is painful. Feeling stuck is painful.
Middle ground: Women and Incels.
People in the comments section let’s make it happen
none of the incels would like to be exposed lmao thats why it doesnt happen
Its not just straight incels tho.. I met a gay incel the other day on discord and he was sooooo toxic
Y E S, destroy them incels.
Or better yet - incels and feminists
You can't find middle ground with irrational people. Stop trying. The fact that Jubilee has such a platform and doesn't realize that doing mainstreaming for fascists is an atrocious idea is mindbending to me.
I feel like this is the most he’s talked to anyone in a long time.
The most he’s probably ever talked to a girl
@@crispychalk5966 thats ths type of pos comment that ruins people
@@spencerjcollector7958 have you read any other of these comments?
@@crispychalk5966 that doesnt matter at all, you just have to say some smart ass thing. your the reason people like that exist
@@spencerjcollector7958 also, hes opening himself up to comments by VOLUNTEERING to come out here
I feel like this guy has a lot more worse things to say then he is letting in
How is he supposed to open up and be honest when he’s being ridiculed for even being able to admit that he’s an incel? It’s hard to address and fix a problem when you’re constantly being shamed for having the problem in the first place.
@@NSander8 “incel “is a made up term
Used by certain men, who can’t handle rejection and have ZERO self awareness.
Your situation is not the fault of any person you have never met and that includes women!
These men have such hate and indifference toward women that is 100% unjustified.
@@johnsefton9340 My apologies. From reading that reply I realized there was a disconnect and I believe I misunderstood the original comment, which I agree with now.
@@johnsefton9340 dude, sexlessness amongst young men is at the highest it's ever been. Whilst for women a higher percentage of them are having sex. The majority of the women are chasing after a small minority of the men. This is an issue in society that needs to be addressed, incels are part of that wider issue. If you deny that then you're a fool. Young people arent coupling up and having families anymore. If you go back to when our grandfathers were young, sexlessness among young men was alnost a quarter of what it is now. That is a huge shift and cannot be ignored. Incels are a result of this phenomenon.
@@harrypike5140 some men cannot get laid. Big deal. What are you going to do? Force women to find them attractive?
The problem that really irks me is that these devoted, DEVOTED believers in an idealogy, in this case their beliefs in that women will be happier in "traditional roles" and to which he even cites, never seem to think it a wise decision to take these alleged "studies", print them out IN FULL and use them as a point of reference. This is ESPECIALLY true when they are men like this fellow who was pre-arranged to do this. Yet he relies on the "I saw a study once, that I cant remember the name, or who did it, but I promise you it was real" 🙄
Just like CNN
Y'all are PREDATORS who literally cannot intellectually defend your positions. You are an opportunist!
proof: *trust me bro*
That’s because the “studies” are usually just a reddit post they saw a few years ago
Incel isn't the ideology - Red Pill is. Incel is a set of circumstances, whereas Red Pill is (seen as) the answer to their problems. This is where you get the fairly reactionary set of beliefs around returning to traditional gender roles and so on.
The expressions of the women asking the questions are everything.
yeah everything wrong
Woman dont understand incels
@@jakesimmonds5043 but women can be incels to
@@jakesimmonds5043 icels don't understand life they don't understand power, sexuality or gender they don't even have a life
Jake Simmonds why wouldn’t they?
This dude just wants a 1950s housewife that looks like an anime girl
Majin Gojira lol
IM SCREAMING AHAHA
@Feminism Is Toxic Femininity so illogical ,unscientific . you must be another incel.
Feminism Is Toxic Femininity while the guy in the video did not say much on looks (Could be wrong but don’t remember it). He did say he wanted men to be able to control women.
Feminism Is Toxic Femininity what ways do women control men?
in a year I wanna see a video of this guy with a new title.. "I USED to be an incel, ask my anything"
@alec probably not gonna happen, unfortunately
He is actually livestreaming his own suicide right now and I'm not kidding
@@patrisco8448 wHAT
@@patrisco8448 this can't be true wtf
@@rustyshackleford3428 i literally watched it live. he cut the stream after trying once which seemed legit but he cut the stream before trying a second time cause either it didnt work or he was lying or he got spooked. my opinion, seemed like the whole thing was contrived
I had a classmate at college who had overweight, just like the guy in this video. He was empathetic and intelligent, he enjoyed reading and could hold interesting conversations. Later he became a professor and he's married now. Prior to his wife, he had many girlfriends.
Your made up anecdotes are meaningless.
@@Firegloyou should go out more bro
Betabuxxing
@@KHHVKimchicelNo, his wife is an independent woman and his ex-girlfriends were college students. You see, the real problem of a guy like the one in this video is not his body but his mind.
@@MP-ui5vdoofy doofy lolz blackpill comes to collect you can't escape it.
“so you’re an incel”
“yes”
“why would you sign up to do this”
I guess he meant do this episode. Not sign up to be an incel.
Abdullah Habib astagfirallah
@Abdullah Habib well that was unnecessary
He wanted to sit here and be questioned, just like the Joker did in the movie. This guy wanted to get his message out.
You copied what they said in the video we all just watched. Brilliant. You deserve a like for this great comment!
Damn that one girl was ready with a notepad and everything lol
FreakyFigs she came strapped 😂
A lil too extra lmao
probably a reporter or somethin
anderson I’d feel safer around her than the incel
Lmao!!!
This the man that asked some girl in a discord server out and she rejected it.
discord? XDXDXD
Rejected IT 😆
As a member of the discord community, we do not claim him.
@@tdchloe7182 ha ha ostracizing a depressed guy is really compassionate.
John DeMaria how old was she ?
This is what a lifetime of rejection looks like, and it's only getting worse unfortunately, I'm glad I grew up in a different time, we didn't worry about much and we enjoyed ourselves as much as possible, that doesn't seem to happen these days.
Guaranteed there were incels in your time too. You just didn't hear about them as much
@@keifer7813 I don't think the word even existed back then, wether or not those kinds of people existed back then, I wouldn't have a clue, it was just too much of a fun time to be staying at home.
@@raymondingram2539 An incel is just a person who can't get laid. So yes, they definitely existed lol. And it might have been a fun time for you and your peers but there were also very likely people rotting away locked in their rooms but again, you never noticed
@@keifer7813 Why would I, I liked to live my life and if some incel or whatever you want to call them wants to lock themselves away from living life then that's there problem.
@@raymondingram2539 I didn't say you should. I'm pointing out that incels existed in your day, as they have all throughout time, so it's not just a current thing as you suggested in your initial comment
This is just depressing. I don’t even have a joke.
I have one. He needs to get laid and that'll solve it (not really a joke tbh)
@@belle2464 Some people might just be forever alone (AKA me).
Yet u still made me laugh w/ this comment
@@belle2464 That isn't the solution to someone's happiness.. Having meaningless sex and having the woman blow the depressed guy off after can put him in a worse state than he was before. especially if th sex was awkward etc...
You're being dramatic. He was quite calm. It's fine to disagree with people lol
"We control them but we control them lovingly."
He basically said grown women are comparable to children lmao
I know! He compares women to children and then complains how he can't get intimate with one! Creepy!
We’re all comparable to children
and thats true! trans women beat women at everything
Свен Каллуров because your an Incel who hates women because you know they are too strong for u
Pete Holmes but they wanna be women which is funny 😂 and nobody is better than the other we are all equal and if u can’t get past that then your a sorry human being and the problem with today’s sexism
“We control them lovingly” sounds like smth a manipulative dystopian government would say about their people.
I'm sure north korea says that abt their people lol
Like forcing people to get the vaccine.
@@Kevin-qn2kw Nobody’s forcing you.
@@Kevin-qn2kw 🙄
@@Kevin-qn2kw who forced you to get it?
I am late to this but how is no one talking about his response to the question about women, women of colour and the LGBTQ+ community?? - “we control them, but we control them lovingly” 😨
Incels are legends
@@geraldtherat618 oh..
@@geraldtherat618 You're one?
@@Shortestcoment Yes
@@geraldtherat618 ooh it all makes sense now
The best part about this is the faces the people are making when the hear the answers and he can't see them
...It’s kind of odd. The facial reactions seem to be extremely highlighted.
They cant handle his controversial views
Amber Robinson that's called the liberal face. It's a weakness and happens when someone is in an ignorant mode. Meaning not trying to comprehend or even listen to what it being said because the brain has yet to develop to behave like a mature human being. You do not have to agree, but have some decency to show respect to whoever it is you are having a discussion with without the temptation to make a face. Something a 5 year old usually does.
TooPlepsy It certainly is a subtle way to discredit what is being said. As the viewer, I find this interview process somewhat insincere. Jubilee is basically validating negative pre-conceived notions, despite multiple interviewers changing their own opinions by the end of the interview.
Cult Boy then again, only an incel would allow himself to be put on a wall of shame in the most unique however most toxic channel on youtube. Or atleast one that has a fairly judgmental, immature and toxic comment section. And I would not expect less from random people. Why anyone allow themselves to be made fun of is beyond me, but why Jubilee would knowingly do this while presenting itself as a medium where supposedly everyone is equal or try to reach a common ground. They know the people interviewing this dude would not go easy on him. You'd expect a team of content creators to draw a line on what is good content and what is just cruel. Or maybe allow people to discuss with each other if they have a emotional intelligence that is not equivalent to a newborn gorilla.
“The child who is not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel its warmth.”
African Proverbs 101 schools in session.
Origin? Nice truism.
ifonlyicouldstop they call it an “African proverb”. Apparently it comes from Africa. 🤷♂️
@@ifonlyicouldstop OK I apologize.
Nope this guy just hates women
"Who hurt you?" Girl went straight to the point😭😭😭
All the woman who didn’t like his point of view
@@vieiradaniele4405 Not only women tho. 😂
he should of just asked her first
@@vieiradaniele4405 if you don't see the problem with the whole "control them lovingly" thing, you probably have some problems with your worldview, no normal person would look at that and think that's an OK view of how things should be
@@CuriousWanderer_ exactly
Props to this guy having the balls to say this on cam without face blur. Hopefully he knew the fallout that having this up would cause for any potential future dates...
I honestly feel for this guy. I don't know how many guys have confided their toxic beliefs to me in private. Most of them have a common issue of having an extremely low tolerance for rejection.
Dates, professional future...He's either really brave or doesn't have idea of the repercutions this can cause.
@@Luuhpanor could just care less
@@theholyjosh5384 Maybe he doesn't have anything to lose - this describes a lot of guys currently.
Im genuinely curious what his mom thinks of his "treat women like how we treat children" mindset
Considering his mindset about women being treated like children just means that they should submit to their husbands, I don't think she's worried about it.
@@gemmiebear exactly
It's how Ricky treated Lucy in the show "I love Lucy" and IRL but fortunately they got divorced and the 1960s came to an end. He needs to realize what year it is. He's 60 years behind the times.
In his defence I think he was talking about he views the oppression of women historically and not how they *should* be treated today
@Nicolaus Volentius "women in general have been oppressed by certain system" you have a problem with listening to people
"Who hurt you?" LMAO
Society: ....
*soyciety
"Who hurt you?"
The underlying assumption in saying that is, all healthy and correct opinions are those that conform to my standard and yours are invalid because they pose a threat to my own. It's spiteful, immature and it's a belittling tactic used to derail and delegitimize any further argument from the other person. Awful talking point IMO.
@Hi, Nice To Meet You what do you mean by "normal person"?
@Hi, Nice To Meet You You're the one asking me to communicate like a normal person. I'm asking you what you what you think is wrong with how I type online.
@Hi, Nice To Meet You so how would you prefer me to communicate while I'm online? In memes saying things like cringe normie? Text shorthand lyk dis? It just seems like an arbitrary standard plucked out of thin air as an excuse because you disagreed with my earlier comment. I honestly don't get it.
8 minutes and 44 seconds of “we live in a society”
honestly I like him, he can be better, he's getting in the gym, self improving, W honestly
"we control them, but we control them lovingly" ok so you manipulate them ?
When you add lovingly it’s just so toxic
Frr.... like why should men control women
not only that, she asked about other minorities too, and he straight up said they weren't opressed
@@1litreluna423 what other minorities are oppressed?
@@cheems4699 are you for real? people of color, LGBTQ people, Muslims (in many non Muslim countries), neurodivergent people, I could go on
The growing disbelief on that girl's face when he started going on about repression being about love
the title sounds like a reddit text to speech video
Disa F facts 😂
Cuz it is lol
Disa F I had to do a double take when I saw the notification for this very reason lol
R/imnotsexistbut...
@@Destinnies r/AskMeAnything
I love how you cut him off before he can answer on a video about asking questions
Wasn’t this the same guy from the male rights vs feminist
Yes
So you're saying, that's staged?
Same jacket too
Was it filmed the same day?
@van'd man Wut?
cursed pfp and username
no matter how he looks even if he looks good looking or ugly, no women would want him because they don't want someone who despises them for simply being a woman and his opinion towards them
He doesnt hate women because theyre women, nor does he hate women. Females that value tradition still exist.
That kind of thing Never happens in Africa if you want to get married go to her father or family and tell them that's all and you get wedded.that's why it good to have a culture
Literally I dated this boy he was Hella ugly, not much tho, I liked him cuz he made laughed everyday,
@@dittery He does very much talk in a manner that suggests intense dislike towards women and please don't say females, you make yourself sound like a douchebag.
i definitely disagree
it’s so obvious that he just wants to be loved... but he’s really going about it in a backwards way.
its kinda sad tbh
I agree. This dude seems intelligent, but I just get the feeling that he was ostracized in the real world. He found a community that accepted him, so he started indoctrinating himself. I feel sorry for him. He seems like a kind person that went down the wrong path.
Yeah...he needs plenty of healing
@@TundraTress He needs to go to therapy tbh, most incels project onto the world the hate that they genuinely feel about themselves so they end up being part of a community that is consumed by anger and bitterness, they won't start to have a healthier opinion about themselves or better self esteem because they've surrounded themselves with other self hating incels who reiterate their feelings of ugliness and bad self worth
@@piratesfan123 I agree with that. I don't think he is in ant healthy state to be a part of a loving relationship with someone at his point. I think he needs to understand that he can be loved, and that he ought to feel and be loved by someone, rather than feeling as though it is societies obligation for him to receive love from a woman.
I'm currently doing some research on the incel community bc I might write my bachelors on it and the more you find out the more you pitty their mindset (not their actions tho),, I always had this picture that incels are overly confident men that hated women but in reality they're just self-destructive, isolated and desperate men that are sexually frustrated and search for a place to belong (a lot of them probably do hate women and 15 minutes on a incel forum had me question my faith in humanity lol)
"We control them but we control them LOVINGLY"
Katie Johnson I died when it got to that part like wtf
Bro people were slaves
Katie Johnson yeah next we should put a Muslim up there and grill them about their views on women. Sksksksksks oop
@@SemenInvestor omg wow you are so funny and edgy!!!
Isn’t there a single English word for that? “Patronizing” or sth?
I feel like with incels this all just stems from loneliness and lack of companionship.....but their beliefs don't exactly help their situation. Just spread love man, we can all do with a little bit more love and care and listening and understanding. Peace
Exactly
Yup .
I don’t think incels would even listen to this, they’re way too stubborn and close minded
>spread love
Life is not a cartoon bud
@@shelkton.7991 You're right. It's a tragedy.
i’m so sad that he came to this line of thinking, that he needs to make women smaller for him to feel better with himself
Bem isso. É que você sabe como é né? Hoje em dia o homem que não consegue nenhuma mulher é considerado inferior. "O valor da sua vida está no número de mulheres que você consegue". Como elas se recusam, o pensamento é "elas estão me negando a única coisa que dá valor a minha vida". A opção acaba sendo rejeitar elas, "dar um 360" e dizer que elas não valem nada.
@@alex-rs6ts are you lost?
@@kemoka3357 I'm pretty sure she understands what I said
It's sadly the mentality of the majority of men these days. It rarely happens that a man would date a woman that is more educated or earns more. They need to get that ego boost, otherwise, they can't function.
@@madelinem.9431 Well, men usually don't date women who are more educated or earns more because they aren't given a chance. In most cases, women will only date someone who is at the very least at "their level". Did you ever heard the expression "out of your league"?
women: we support everyone (only chad) and you should tell us how you feel
also women when men tell the truth: incel!
You've never interacted with a woman in real life have you? lol
"We should deal with them the way we deal with children."
*Please don't give him children*
I hope he never gets a gf tbh
I hope he gets a shower though!
@@danika9411 😂😂
@@mari0095467 I don't think you should worry about that 😂
Please please please don’t.
this interview wasn't that bad, but I also think the incel was holding a lot of his opinions back
Abdullah Habib no he could say whatever he wanted. It’s free speech. However free right to speech does not mean free of consequence. He COULD say whatever the hell he wanted, but he knew he would have repercussions from the people watching the video and their comments.
Yeah
@@sallydagger19 not as if Jubilee would show most of that
@Abdullah Habib we do but ok
@Abdullah Habib he won't go to jail for it, but people are allowed to say they disagree.
I was most disturbed by how he said we should “lovingly correct “ women as if they are children. This implies women cannot take care of themselves and that men should absolutely dictate what is acceptable behavior.
As a kindergarten teacher, I correct children on things like “Don’t hit your friends.” and “No, you can’t jump off the top of the slide.” We correct children to teach them social values and safety. Saying that women need this kind of correction dismisses them as functional people.
That was disturbing to me too. It isn't surprising that a young dude who keeps being continually rejected would gravitate to a fantasy world where women would have no choice but to be with him or they wouldn't have the free agency to deny him. It's really quite sad and pathetic.
@@shadelings I think the goal is to portray women as incapable of making decisions for themselves due to inherent lack of ability. This has been used to justify violence against women, unfortunately, as it makes it seem like women need to obey a man (who in this scenario would be the only one who understands what to do). I can empathize and understand why someone with poor self confidence would gravitate to this idea to feel powerful.
and he even says “they would be more happy” as if anyone is happy being “lovingly shaped” into something they don’t enjoy. Hell, why else would women in old times instantly stop doing mostly feminine stuff as soon as they weren’t at risk of being beaten cuz they weren’t in the kitchen? (I exaggerated a bit lol)
Omg ...correcting women?? Geez .omg ....
@@michah321 Yeah, it’s a problem. Equating oppressed groups to children in order to justify abusing them is super common. Think about how people used to call black people “boy” or “girl” and “correct them.” That was done to justify their lower social class.
its involuntary.
not a choice, its like calling someone a looser because they are currently poor.
incel is a term used by "others" to be disrespectful.
It is not involuntary. They should call themselves volcels because it is a choice!
Being a looser is voluntary. Finding hookups and even getting into relationships is so easy nowadays, they just don’t know how to, don’t learn and then blame everyone around. Like be so for real being a little funny and quirky is enough to get yourself laid even if you look like a chimpanzee, like the bar for men is down there for most women
@@seeker-gq4kc being ugly isnt a choice bozo
@@MikeJensen-w2vwell when you are overweight and have a bad haircut, then yes it is. a person can choose to be fit and look like the best version of themselves. i’m not saying it’s easy, but it’s definitely voluntary. now obviously facial features you can’t change much.
@@АскарТахиров-е2ч you sound like a rich person explaining a homeless guy why he's homeless. "The well-fed will never understand the hungry." -Irish proverb.
When you’re here before all the juicy comments
Omni Pepper I come early to write the juicy comments.
Omni Pepper frfr
I come hear early to suck on the juicy comments
I come hear to wonder wtf is this juicy comment
Means you gotta come back...
I can’t believe this man was proud to be called “incel”
I am a proud incel
@@blvckemo_ ew.
@@blvckemo_ Ew
i don't think he was he said "i don't want to be an incel"
@@blvckemo_ what zero 🐱 does to a male
the danger in loneliness is no one to challenge one's ideas
This
That's so true!!
damn that's deep
True.
Dude… 😲 Put that on a plaque.
Dude seems chill just really depressed.
“i do think women are important, BUT-“
me: *oh boy*
Yeeeeeeeeeeeh Boiiiiiiiiiiiiiii You just got DeREKT
They're important for sex.
B a n e z are you being serious right now or was that some sort of twisted joke that was phrased very incorrectly? Women are not objects to succumb to your sexual desires. We are humans with hopes, dreams and a broad intellectual ability. I am disgusted that people still have this warped way of thinking. True feminists, like myself, advocate for the rights of men and women. We believe in the equality of all sexes, regardless of race, religion, wealth or political beliefs. You are the sort of person who causes the societal problems we are working to fix. As much as I respect you having different beliefs, the way you are implementing them is plainly rude and unnecessary. In other words, kindly take your misogynistic views and shove them up your ass.
@@amrit3883 The person could be joking. Calm down.
AmritTheSlytherclaw do you have a sense of humor?
Just confess that Derrick is a paid actor. PLEASE.
LOL
Why? He’s not bad at all. The only thing I didn’t really get was the part about treating women like children, the whole control love part.
He has been in other interviews and he's actually an incel :(
Claire what a shame now he never finds out about love
gallonsANDgallonsofCUM no he doesn’t
This guy has probably talked to more women in this video than he probably has in the past 3 years
LMAOOO
LMBOOO
What’s so funny?
@@imperatorscotorum6334
Its fun because it's true
@@imperatorscotorum6334 nah we're not laughing, we're just typing laughing reactions while having blank face irl.
It's parts of what he say that makes me sympathetical. But then it comes back to wanting women to be the way HE want them to be, not accept and include HIM for what he is.
Also tip for any lonely guy: I have always gone the extra mile to talk to those lonely guys. Most of the time it's fine but if you do want to have a culture where that is permitted you can't feel hostility towards the woman when she later on is not interested in romance or sex.
Doesn’t feminism do the same ?
*inhales*
no. ❤️
and that’s on period. Btw I love your vids 💜
Ayy didn’t think I’d see you here 😂
lmaooo thanks aualhsisksbkl
Omg is that you.🤨
@@drunkonbananasmilk1497 and thats on period?
It's like saying "I am not racist but I don't like Asians
Many Americans during COVID.
Wow. So brave.
Asian is not a fcking race
@@ahmadmaknunh.9420 😂😂😂😂😂
Wait sorry if i piss anyone off or any asians who see this (im not really educated that well with different races) but isnt being asian an ethnicity, not a race?
Derrick needs to be a playable character in GTA 6
Yeh he needs to be be new jimmy
@@peedscum He does kinda look like Jimmy huh?
I don’t want to play as a brain dead fool. Make him a side villain.
@@ghostoftsushima8657 jokes on you. Even a side villian has more brains than him.
He won’t even be able to pick off the hookers off the streets.
I wanted to watch one video about incels, just one I picked because it seemed on a surface level to be the most wholesome one. To me this just reinforced my viewpoint about people in general being absurdly inept in every way possible, and this guy seems to be a very high-quality person surrounded by utter dimwits, its profound how high quality of a person he is considering the difficult he presumably is under in life. He needs to get into an active group of people that are outside and doing active stuff like partying etc. He might maybe have developed a superiority complex that prevents him from doing that though
Outside for sure, but perhaps not partying. Heck I'd argue to avoid anything erotic or hedonistic in general for a while.
Find instead some form of group work, especially the kind that helps others.
@@Lonaticus Valid
These are the comments that I look for 💯
I was fascinated by the difference between the guys’ and the girls’ questions, because it felt like the girls were trying to get through to him whereas the guys were all just like, “bruh... why? really?” hilarious
It probably feels more pressing for women to change an incel’s mind because incels literally hate women lol
They should do an odd man out where they have to guess who's not incel
Yes!
That would be way too easy. Incels don’t exactly blend into the crowd
yess!!
The first thing they'd do is that they'd sort the best looking men out and then sort the men out who like/respect women most.
But yes, I'd like to see if I'm right with my guess
Shai Gilgeous Alexander he said when theres incels and then one person isnt - "whos the odd one out"
This man is definitely a reddit moderator
And a discord one too
BitchChill true😂
Reddit no longer allows even slightly conservative people to speak freely. I suggest the girl with the notepad is probably a reddit moderator though.
@Andromeda T I think the same. While I do not agree with those people, the marketplace of ideas should always be free, only that way can people learn and become wise.
@Andromeda T Thank you.
He’s the most well spoken intel I’ve ever seen
“Who hurt you?”
Question of the year 😭
This is the most important question really. Everyone has gotten rejected once or twice for a date and he just took that really hard
No seriously, that is the question of the year for every incel. Rejection is something that makes people feel entitled when it’s not handled properly. It takes a huge toll on a person’s mental process.
*Sounds like Rihanna to me*
Cindy in the 3rd grade...
Probably a few who's and also some 'why wasn't anyone there to teach you a healthier way?'.
I find it interesting that he recommends women be nice to the lonely guys. That makes a lot of sense of the surface, like of course people should be nice to other people. The problem is that when women are kind, incels will take that kindness and morph it into a romantic expectation, and then when women reject that expectation, they become bitter. On the whole it's not a problem with women being cruel to unattractive men, it's a problem with men taking romantic rejection as cruelty
I think you just summed up everything that explains an insel
Nah, there totally is a problem. He's not giving anything back. This is pure entitlement at its finest. It's not like he would try to be nice to some girl he wasn't attracted to, to understand women more without the goal of sleeping with them. So no, fuck guys like this. They deserve to be alone until they change their attitude.
@@llIlIlllII I think we're on the same page dude, generally I'm saying that there's an issue with men having unfair expectations of women. I'm pointing out that this guy expects women to be kind to him as though women normally have some sort of predisposed vendetta against him, when really he's a hypocrite who doesn't understand that he is not entitled to his romantic expectations of women and he takes women's rightful rejection of these expectations as cruelty. So yes, he should totally be alone until he changes his attitude, because he has an outlook of "I DESERVE women's romantic attention whenever I pursue it," which is absolutely disgusting. And yes, I also agree that he probably wouldn't be kind to a woman he didn't find attractive
@@joshrees3413 The big problem is that they think that they are nice just because they did something for a woman. Just because you did something for a woman that doesnt mean anything. And you can be "traditional" but if you are a dick you dont get any girl at the end.
This is actually really helpful, thanks for sharing your thoughts
i vibe with the first girl who asked “who hurt you?”
Ok loser.
Malik Zeshan don’t do drugs
@@malikzeshan1958 hello malik, how was your day? also where are you from, I'm just curious.
reality is a scam when you find out, slap them for me
@@cucumberhoney6243 xD I don't think they're comfortable telling me, unfortunately