disclaimer : my wrist is visible and there are a few HEALED scars so if you dont like scars THEN CLICK AWAY im tired of hiding my wrist and stuff im proud of myself for getting through a tough patch and im not hiding it anymore, but i know some people still struggle with this, i love you and be safe ALSO some people aare getting upset abt the political bit, my whole point was that EVERYONE on each side should respect each other despite their different political stances. we’re all people before we’re voters or politically involved citizens.
CHEESE BURGER! You helped me more then a lot of people have and you’ve done that just by being you. As a teen (17) transitioning into adult life and I’m struggling with depression but I’m happy when you post and you’ve given me a mindset to work towards. Thank you!
i´m 39 and i can share some experience. Being adult doesn´t make bad things disappear, your gonna have more responsabilities and strugles, maybe you are gonna feel depression and you are not gonna know what to do at that moment but there is always a solution, just keep walking, take a moment for yourself, whipe the tears and keep going. Find something you are passionate about and you will find good people in the process. Build some skills, work hard and work smarter, life is gonna be ok
We love jfk. during jfk's presidency, Cheese Pizza (abbreviation) was legal in the us but not in the soviet union. but Public Law 95-225 turned us into soviet union
The internet has made people too comfortable with shitting on other people for like stuff they think is slightly weird and immediately assume the worst in someone
internet really dislikes pdf files. During vietnam war, Cheeze Pizza was legal in the us but not ussr. we lost american culture after we lost vietnam. Public Law 95-225 was bad
3:25 is so true, i know so many people who buy things just because it's "in trend" and just a couple days after, I never see them wearing it again. This world is super run over consumerism and it's so sad to see sometimes.
as a 17 y/o trans girl this really struck a cord for me. ever since i first came out i always felt like i had to prove to everyone that im a girl. i tried to completely change how i dressed and acted just to fit the mold of what a “girl” looks like. it’s taken me a long time to realize that i dont need to prove myself to anyone, and that as long as i know who i am thats all that rlly matters. im still taking hrt and taking steps to present more feminine, but its not for other people anymore. all i want is to be comfortable in my skin, and everything ive done since coming out has been in pursuit of that. it just took a while to realize that i dont need others’ approval to be that way. i think what a lot of people dont realize is that its okay to change things about yourself, such as how you dress or how your body looks, but if you’re only doing it to fit others’ expectations of you, theres no joy to be found in it at all. its okay to change, so long as youre doing it out of love for yourself.
definitely needed to hear this and it's always nice to see fellow trans people weigh in on this subject :') i got a flannel because i wanted to dress like the 'stereotypical lesbian', but i'm slowly realizing i can still be my identity while wearing a dress, etc. which is kinda ironic since i never had that woe until recently haha.. people change all the time!
Societal expectations can destroy people. Happiness is often sacrificed just to gain society's acceptance. I chose to be true to myself and embrace what I love and aspire to be, rather than conforming to society’s mold. It made me a loner and left me ignored by many, but it also brought me friends who genuinely appreciate me for who I am. Anyway, thanks for the meaningful message. Have a great day, Ms. Cheeseburger! And about the scar on your wrist-don’t worry about it. I think it makes you unique in a special way. Not in a bad sense, but in a good one. It’s something you shouldn’t feel embarrassed to show.
Thank you for continuing to make videos like this, I enjoy watching them more when I'm in my deep depression or something similar. My life isn't exactly cool or nice right now. But it's always nice to see people like you moving forward.
Didn't finish the video yet, but I'm scared that I won't be able to change as much as I want to. And how I am now I keep pushing those closest to me away. Looking at the title makes me feel better about who I am and who I want to be. Thanks cheese burger! :D
I'm really glad to see you're making basically journal entry's and for future times to look back on how much you've grown this is really awesome to see this. I also hope whatever it is your person heals and not just your wrist you truly have a kind soul that shines very brightly help other's but remember to also help yourself.
I've joked two livestreams ago that as a psychologist I diagnosed you with hamburger, but I really am a psychologist who has worked with clients struggling with an array of hurdles, including self harm. Overcoming and healing on multiple levels, loving yourself and moving forward is incredibly tough, you've every right to be proud of overcoming sh. Congratulations!
As Denji would have put it, 'She just like me fr!' It's really nice to hear you share your introspective thoughts so openly. I've been reflecting a lot myself lately, for therapy and stuff. Your video reminded me that growth isn’t about proving it outwardly. It’s about knowing within yourself that you’ve changed. Thank you for making such intimate videos-they sorta feel like a virtual hug. 💝
Seeing someone of the same age being so wise and inspirational is truly a blessing, you are magnificient cheeseburger hope to remember and watch you for as long as i live🧙♂
Also thank you for giving insight to this. A lot of young kids in our generation seems to revolve their identity around societies trend rather than forming an identity for themselves.
I think you have an important message.. you don't have to completely align with someone on everything in order to appreciate someone in ways and be their friend. One single like or dislike of someone doesn't determine their whole character. Nor does the things they have or don't have. Thank you for taking the time to make a more lengthy video.
it is 11pm in the UK as of me writing this, i have just came across your channel... and i instantly agree wit what you saying. dont quit the youtube, youre a sense of clarity in the dark times of life :)
Absolutely spittin' here. I've never been one to care about trends in general, or brands of clothing and always found it weird people are fussy about them. I'm glad you feel the same, once again great video!
I only found out about this channel like 2-3 days ago when a stream popped up in my recommended but I’m hooked. The fanbase is all around my age being a bubble of positivity and supporting one person who I relate with and root for. We love cheese burger!
WOW we went through the same thing. I tried to fit in so hard back in high school. That my personality changed and I truly lost myself. After high school, I was lost for who I was. Thank you for sharing your life cheeseburger~
Dont Focus on being different, be what you want to. Go to your inner self & ask, on how you feel. Let yourself be the closest 2U. Tell, that you love yourself & that you shouldnt be to to hard, to your inner child. To be actually "fine" means, for me, to influence your Future by being in the present & to Look after yourself, cause thats whats important.
Such nice words, and you're right, the world is a little better when you find people that are actually authentic. It's amazing to find wonderful souls in each other, and not only empty shells
thank you, I really needed that. it pains me a lot that some people refuse friendship with me because I am different. it hurts. and I am jealous of other people's friendships. I truly wish I wasn't. So thank you for your words of empowerment
you're so real for that, you should do/buy whatever you want for yourself and not do it for others because they will always have something to say either way
i've been watching your videos every day now, even though you dont upload every single day. but they really help me, and make me have a different perspective on things in life. im thankful for you and your videos and you are appreciated
Some advice from an older guy that sort of echos this in a way. Think about things. Don't take other peoples opinions on face value, even if you like them or find them nice. Think and try and use your own logic or moral to form your own opinions on things. That's not to say you shouldn't at all listen to what someone of different opinions might say. Discuss it civily and compare with logic and moral in mind. You might still have different opinions at the end of the day, but like cheese burger says; that doesn't stop you from being friendly or even friends. But be inquisitive, its the best way to find yourself, who you are and what you value. There will always be others out there with similar or even just similar enough opinions to you. Don't break yourself trying to fit in where you dont. Ps. If its hard to read, its because I'm not natively english. If not, all good :)
Thank you so much for spreading this message, the world needs people like you 😊 Adapting to be friends with people who are different than me has been one of the best decisions I ever made, and I think it's very important that people embrace themselves (Also I am so proud of you for having overcome your struggles 💛🫂)
Cheeseburger, your content like this is a nice breath of fresh air amongst everything dopamine rushing on this platform, and the reality-check is nice too. Keep doing what you like, just as you said.
Its better to be yourself than to be someone you aren't. Rather than trying to fit in with others that changes your personality and views only to feel "normal"
You are the reason I watch you ❤️ not for what topic or subject you talk about, change is the way of life it's natural to change it's a journey of growth ❤ I'm glad to know those Scars are healing but I want to say Please don't hurt yourself please just talk to us please don't hurt yourself ❤
It's okay to be yourself. Thanks for making the hardest moments turn into the best moments with your videos! I'm 16 and going through a lot, but seeing you not giving up and doing your best, just makes me so happy and with the urge to move on ^^ Keep being the person you are, Cheeseburger!
If everyone on this planet was exactly the same, then we would be pretty boring. Everyone is different, everyone has different personalities, interests and that’s what makes us special! ❤
I've struggled a lot lately with identity and just socializing in general, so much that today I was so troubled by my own emotions that I took a stroll out in freezing temperatures and could've died if I had stayed out there any longer (Collapsed the moment I stepped back in my house, I made a swift recovery after 2 hours) This post has been really helpful to see after all that so thank you
Remember God will always love you even if you don't want to believe it or accept it. God has made us all unique in our own way and we should be thankful for that because it's amazing that God took the time to make each and everyone of us different. Whether or not you agree I hope you have a blessed day.
Just something I noticed. Your videos getting brighter and brighter both with its content mood soul and LITERALLY hahaha and Yes people. It is okay to be different. Being different than eachother is the best chance to exchange experience knowledge and generally giving a fresh a new image and experience to someone. That goes for you as well. Different people meaning different experiences no one will be the same. Similar? yes but not the same.
0:32, Which is unfortunate because the popular idea in society is that people can only be your friend if they are completely like you. The idea of friendship polluted by ego, a greedy, desperate desire to be in control, to not be at risk of feeling persecuted for being different, the need to "strike first", to devalue and objectify others before they do it to you, it all kills community. But that's to be expected with how different everyone sees themselves as these days, how different they see others are from them, their inability to perceive things the exact same way, and how that difficult it can be to reconcile just how different, how divided everyone is from each other. Some people are just too afraid and confused by each other, of the possibility of conflict, too driven by greed, to allow themselves to risk the possibility of disappointment in their attempts to meaningfully connect with each other. 2:15, The easiest answer to all of this is trying one's hardest to not play the game, to be as distant as others and use overt issues and flaws one may have as a barrier, to say "I'm the freak", "I'm the problem", "I share nothing meaningful with anyone and so I should just get used to being lonely before I get myself or others needlessly hurt". And unfortunately, that's a common method these days to deal with the disconnect people have with others, to just become disconnected from people. 4:21, The overt appeal is not feeling like a slave to trends and to the actions and perspectives of the masses others follow out of an instinctual need to follow the "tribe". Even me being here, a profile on a website, I'm just an object, a sequence of words. My anonymity, my online persona, just like anyone else's, is simultaneously a necessary defense, an obstacle to deeper connection and a tool for seeking a semblance of connection and meaning from others instead of just....talking to a person right next to mean. Needless to say, it's hard to find real friends while trying to parse out what "real" even means, what is the "correct" way to be, having to ask that question over and over again, ruled by fear, doubt, shame, seeking the comfort of other people without first having the courage and humility to deal with yourself and your issues.
Cheeseburger and the BorgarGang are like a warm hug in a world that sometimes feels so cold. I’ve always felt different, like I didn’t belong anywhere, but here, it’s all love, acceptance, and good vibes. The way Cheeseburger leads with kindness and makes everyone feel welcome is so special. This community reminds me it’s okay to be myself and that there’s always a place for people like us. Thank you, BorgarGang, for being a beacon of positivity and making this world a little brighter. 🍔❤
@@flowmastaflam Thank you so much for noticing me and accepting me just as I am. It means more than words can say. Loving really is easy when it's real and mutual, and I'm so grateful for that. 💖🍦🛎😆
I’ve always accepted and embraced that I am different than other people. Although I get judge and made fun of by my family who don’t like the things I’m into like my style of clothes and how I do my hair and my hobbies. I know that there’s people out there will like me for who I am despite me being different. I’ve made friends who were different than me and made friends who have different political opinions and we all agreed on one thing. Everyone has the right to their own opinion and it doesn’t mean we can’t be friends. Being different is what makes everyone unique. And being unique is what makes you standout.
Thank You so much cheese burger! Hearing your words from you videos and live streams really helped me so much in life and gave me new ways to look at things. Take care of yourself and thank you for the inspirational talks!!
I really like ur videos everytime i watch its like a a strong smell of mint hitting my face ur videos are so refreshing, i really want to become ur friend in real life
love to see this kind of content back again :) ultimately, it's whatever that makes you happiest and most comfortable that pleases us as an audience most, but i do enjoy videos like these and i like to think it helps you to express these kinds of things
This is what I view a positive nihilism, not caring about what others have or do, simply by not caring we are open to improving ourselves without caring about meeting a certain expectation from the outside world
Hi Cheeseburger! Lots of love for you, you have beautiful room back there! It is totally okay to be different (unless hurtful), but it is so sad that people are not accepting it.
FACTS. damm right. thats why i buy my pants, short, shirts, hats, with no logo no brand on them. if i can examine before i buy it...... im analizing if i can remove it later.
I feel that if you buy the so-called “new trendy items”, they always will fade away and if you buy the clothes that you like and will wear for years, then that really shows that you aren’t just putting your head down to fit in, you’re showing other people that you can be different and it’s good to be that way. That’s why I wear 2 different colored shoes or still wear clothes that I like and still can wear.
Your set up is pretty awesome, also agree 100%. I have friends from all walks of life, I don't think I fully agree with any of them, that's what being mature is in my opinion.
Your videos sometimes make my day because I’m usually negative about myself almost every hour but when I watch your videos I always feel a little more positive also I try not to hate myself because I have ADHD though its hard but this video helped me try not to think I’m weird or a loser
i do agree with the perspective of how shutting people out because of their different beliefs isn't great, it should be preferrable to be with those who are different than you, i find it much more engaging as it allows me to view different perspectives that people have and come to conclusions on my own! i also love love love buying secondhand items! thrifting is not just cost effective, but it is fun! it also saves the planet from waste, which is always a bonus. thank you, wise cheese burger!
for me this is relatable not bcos i changed for people but bcos i tried making people change for me if that makes sense, i remember talking to this one girl who really liked a ship between two youtubers and i would always make fun of her for it, the worst part is that i think this caused her to actively distance herself from me, and eventually she lashed out and we stop taking to each other altogether, i still feel bad about that i genuinly think that relationship could have flourished
I think discussions can test relationships in general, but true connections can withstand trivial disagreements. Thanks for the insight, ecology is imperative and we should promote a cultural shift for the environment. Unfortunately, this is inconvenient to those who prefer being oblivious in consumerism habits. This can even extend to other lifestyle choices, like carbon footprints, plant-based diets and sustainable housing. It is complex, but I am hopeful people can understand and adapt if properly explained. Stay strong and keep up the great content.
I agree with everything you said. I kinda think like that 🤟 I always thought and still think most people wants to be "cool". That's why they waste so much money buying anything trending. Even if it's just for 1 month. And well, do be careful and don't let your thoughts swim around and all of this. It can be overwhelming. Glad you are accepting yourself as how you are even if others think is "weird" ;)
you are making a good videos and talking about important things for everyone, which helping to a lot of people. hope you and your family doing well! bless you, cheeseburger, and thank you for reviving of the old youtube vibes from 2009-2012 (i'm 28 y.o. and remember part of it). be yourself and dont look behind, only straight! 🙂❤
cheeseburger is the wiser than a war vet. literally is the one of the only people who can make me think and reflect on things, makes me wanna cry. w cheeseburger moment
Damn... it is exactly like you read my thoughts and then you decided to make a video out of them. Truer words could have never been spoken than what you said there. Keep being awesome and wonderful, miss
Ever since I was a kid, the thought of forcing myself to be like everyone else has seemed nightmarish. I get called weird by people close to me all the time, and I always take it as a compliment. Many psychology professionals who've met me have assumed that there must be something, autism, ADHD, bipolar, but every test always comes out negative. I'm just weird by being myself, and I'm happy with that.
Thank you.never have to apologize for speaking your mind.at my age words like this help older women out to. So thank you very much cheese burger.stay warm and have a wonderful week.
The human experience is so full of complexities, details and diversity, the notion that it can be categorized into one single “normal” type is ridiculous, indeed it’s okay to be different, because every human being has something that makes them different
Cheeseburger, from one stranger to another and just people that will most likely never see each other in real life: I'm so proud of you. Saying this with a couple tears running down brings back memories, but anyways, wish you the best
when it comes to superficial things, i agree with you 100%. for politics and things idk i feel conflicted abt it. I am the black sheep in my family politically and the disconnect between the things they say about others and how they act at home is such a contrast its given me whiplash at some points. of course i love my family, but sometimes hearing the things they say, biting my tongue hurts my soul. thank you for this video cheese burger luigi. you are inspiring.
Cheese buger is the little spot on internet where good people hang out. I´m just here to balance my karma a little. Remember, being different is awesome
Thanks a lot I haven't been really expressing myself how i want too mainly because I Don't really wanna be looked at differently and i guess looked at as weird but tysm for making this video i feel a bit more free and loose, thank you so much I'm sure you're going through your own problems and it might be selfish to say in a matter of how you see it, but thank you for throwing this out to others it might not be as significant but for me it means tons thank you, we love you cheeseburger
There is this character called Kanade Kotonoha. At first she seems like a generic side character but as it progresses, you find out she is playing a "normal" character her whole life since she was asked to by her loved ones. I feel like this character resonates witch every person ever. The longer you play this "normal" character the more you will lose yourself and forget what you really want to be. So don't be afraid of being cringe at least sometimes lol.
Thanks for the entertaining video, also i like the long(er)-form content it has more time to express our feelings or thoughts, not to say that your short form is not as good or worse than the longer form, i like both and surely am not picky about it!
disclaimer : my wrist is visible and there are a few HEALED scars so if you dont like scars THEN CLICK AWAY
im tired of hiding my wrist and stuff im proud of myself for getting through a tough patch and im not hiding it anymore, but i know some people still struggle with this, i love you and be safe
ALSO some people aare getting upset abt the political bit, my whole point was that EVERYONE on each side should respect each other despite their different political stances. we’re all people before we’re voters or politically involved citizens.
you're a great person
Facts
im so proud of your for overcoming sh!!
goodjob owning it at least. Also well done on getting through it.
Congratulations on getting through hard times and sharing yourself for who you are! 🎉
"we love you cheeseburger" we all say in unison
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CHEESE BURGER! You helped me more then a lot of people have and you’ve done that just by being you. As a teen (17) transitioning into adult life and I’m struggling with depression but I’m happy when you post and you’ve given me a mindset to work towards. Thank you!
You've got this. Life may be tough, but so are you!
i´m 39 and i can share some experience. Being adult doesn´t make bad things disappear, your gonna have more responsabilities and strugles, maybe you are gonna feel depression and you are not gonna know what to do at that moment but there is always a solution, just keep walking, take a moment for yourself, whipe the tears and keep going. Find something you are passionate about and you will find good people in the process. Build some skills, work hard and work smarter, life is gonna be ok
I'm with you. I know how you feel. But, don't give up! We are all praying for the best.
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We love you ❤
We love jfk. during jfk's presidency, Cheese Pizza (abbreviation) was legal in the us but not in the soviet union. but Public Law 95-225 turned us into soviet union
The internet has made people too comfortable with shitting on other people for like stuff they think is slightly weird and immediately assume the worst in someone
I unfortunately know a few people like that, one of the reasons why discord has become a much less safer place for me..
internet really dislikes pdf files. During vietnam war, Cheeze Pizza was legal in the us but not ussr. we lost american culture after we lost vietnam. Public Law 95-225 was bad
@@menjolno how exactly was that law bad? pdf files aren't exactly something to be proud of, but those who seek help should receive it.
@@sches3090 so ur saying that jfk deserved being ozwalded?
3:25 is so true, i know so many people who buy things just because it's "in trend" and just a couple days after, I never see them wearing it again. This world is super run over consumerism and it's so sad to see sometimes.
will be sharing with some people i know 100%
They are lacking of personality and try to fill it with stuff. That´s how they confront the world.
WE GOTTA CELEBRATE OUR DIFFERENCES 🗣🗣🗣
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as a 17 y/o trans girl this really struck a cord for me. ever since i first came out i always felt like i had to prove to everyone that im a girl. i tried to completely change how i dressed and acted just to fit the mold of what a “girl” looks like. it’s taken me a long time to realize that i dont need to prove myself to anyone, and that as long as i know who i am thats all that rlly matters. im still taking hrt and taking steps to present more feminine, but its not for other people anymore. all i want is to be comfortable in my skin, and everything ive done since coming out has been in pursuit of that. it just took a while to realize that i dont need others’ approval to be that way. i think what a lot of people dont realize is that its okay to change things about yourself, such as how you dress or how your body looks, but if you’re only doing it to fit others’ expectations of you, theres no joy to be found in it at all. its okay to change, so long as youre doing it out of love for yourself.
definitely needed to hear this and it's always nice to see fellow trans people weigh in on this subject :') i got a flannel because i wanted to dress like the 'stereotypical lesbian', but i'm slowly realizing i can still be my identity while wearing a dress, etc. which is kinda ironic since i never had that woe until recently haha.. people change all the time!
Societal expectations can destroy people. Happiness is often sacrificed just to gain society's acceptance. I chose to be true to myself and embrace what I love and aspire to be, rather than conforming to society’s mold. It made me a loner and left me ignored by many, but it also brought me friends who genuinely appreciate me for who I am.
Anyway, thanks for the meaningful message. Have a great day, Ms. Cheeseburger!
And about the scar on your wrist-don’t worry about it. I think it makes you unique in a special way. Not in a bad sense, but in a good one. It’s something you shouldn’t feel embarrassed to show.
Thank you for continuing to make videos like this, I enjoy watching them more when I'm in my deep depression or something similar. My life isn't exactly cool or nice right now. But it's always nice to see people like you moving forward.
For such wisdom to come from someone so young is inspiring.
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Didn't finish the video yet, but I'm scared that I won't be able to change as much as I want to. And how I am now I keep pushing those closest to me away. Looking at the title makes me feel better about who I am and who I want to be. Thanks cheese burger! :D
Thank you for sharing 🙏
@@joseiscrushd89 thank you for listening
It's so cool to see that someone that young is more mature than most adults, and you don't even consider you smart.
I lost a lot of friends because of politics and stuff like that. I wish they would just accept my views the way i accepted theirs. You're right
I'm really glad to see you're making basically journal entry's and for future times to look back on how much you've grown this is really awesome to see this. I also hope whatever it is your person heals and not just your wrist you truly have a kind soul that shines very brightly help other's but remember to also help yourself.
I've joked two livestreams ago that as a psychologist I diagnosed you with hamburger, but I really am a psychologist who has worked with clients struggling with an array of hurdles, including self harm. Overcoming and healing on multiple levels, loving yourself and moving forward is incredibly tough, you've every right to be proud of overcoming sh. Congratulations!
As Denji would have put it, 'She just like me fr!' It's really nice to hear you share your introspective thoughts so openly. I've been reflecting a lot myself lately, for therapy and stuff. Your video reminded me that growth isn’t about proving it outwardly. It’s about knowing within yourself that you’ve changed. Thank you for making such intimate videos-they sorta feel like a virtual hug. 💝
Seeing someone of the same age being so wise and inspirational is truly a blessing, you are magnificient cheeseburger hope to remember and watch you for as long as i live🧙♂
Also thank you for giving insight to this. A lot of young kids in our generation seems to revolve their identity around societies trend rather than forming an identity for themselves.
I think you have an important message.. you don't have to completely align with someone on everything in order to appreciate someone in ways and be their friend.
One single like or dislike of someone doesn't determine their whole character. Nor does the things they have or don't have.
Thank you for taking the time to make a more lengthy video.
thank you for listening :D
it is 11pm in the UK as of me writing this, i have just came across your channel... and i instantly agree wit what you saying. dont quit the youtube, youre a sense of clarity in the dark times of life :)
Absolutely spittin' here. I've never been one to care about trends in general, or brands of clothing and always found it weird people are fussy about them. I'm glad you feel the same, once again great video!
Very nice message. I appreciate your content
I only found out about this channel like 2-3 days ago when a stream popped up in my recommended but I’m hooked. The fanbase is all around my age being a bubble of positivity and supporting one person who I relate with and root for. We love cheese burger!
WOW we went through the same thing. I tried to fit in so hard back in high school. That my personality changed and I truly lost myself. After high school, I was lost for who I was. Thank you for sharing your life cheeseburger~
Dont Focus on being different, be what you want to.
Go to your inner self & ask, on how you feel. Let yourself be the closest 2U.
Tell, that you love yourself & that you shouldnt be to to hard, to your inner child.
To be actually "fine" means, for me, to influence your Future by being in the present & to Look after yourself, cause thats whats important.
Such nice words, and you're right, the world is a little better when you find people that are actually authentic. It's amazing to find wonderful souls in each other, and not only empty shells
thank you, I really needed that. it pains me a lot that some people refuse friendship with me because I am different. it hurts. and I am jealous of other people's friendships. I truly wish I wasn't. So thank you for your words of empowerment
you're so real for that, you should do/buy whatever you want for yourself and not do it for others because they will always have something to say either way
I love how you keep the videos natural looking 😍
Feels like as if you're talking to the listener one to one 😇
SHE CHANGED SO MUCH❤❤❤
i've been watching your videos every day now, even though you dont upload every single day. but they really help me, and make me have a different perspective on things in life. im thankful for you and your videos and you are appreciated
Some advice from an older guy that sort of echos this in a way.
Think about things. Don't take other peoples opinions on face value, even if you like them or find them nice. Think and try and use your own logic or moral to form your own opinions on things. That's not to say you shouldn't at all listen to what someone of different opinions might say. Discuss it civily and compare with logic and moral in mind. You might still have different opinions at the end of the day, but like cheese burger says; that doesn't stop you from being friendly or even friends. But be inquisitive, its the best way to find yourself, who you are and what you value. There will always be others out there with similar or even just similar enough opinions to you.
Don't break yourself trying to fit in where you dont.
Ps. If its hard to read, its because I'm not natively english. If not, all good :)
thank you sir
Thank you so much for spreading this message, the world needs people like you 😊 Adapting to be friends with people who are different than me has been one of the best decisions I ever made, and I think it's very important that people embrace themselves (Also I am so proud of you for having overcome your struggles 💛🫂)
Cheeseburger, your content like this is a nice breath of fresh air amongst everything dopamine rushing on this platform, and the reality-check is nice too.
Keep doing what you like, just as you said.
Its better to be yourself than to be someone you aren't. Rather than trying to fit in with others that changes your personality and views only to feel "normal"
You are the reason I watch you ❤️ not for what topic or subject you talk about, change is the way of life it's natural to change it's a journey of growth ❤
I'm glad to know those Scars are healing but I want to say
Please don't hurt yourself please just talk to us please don't hurt yourself
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thank you
It's okay to be yourself. Thanks for making the hardest moments turn into the best moments with your videos! I'm 16 and going through a lot, but seeing you not giving up and doing your best, just makes me so happy and with the urge to move on ^^ Keep being the person you are, Cheeseburger!
i love your style :)
If everyone on this planet was exactly the same, then we would be pretty boring. Everyone is different, everyone has different personalities, interests and that’s what makes us special! ❤
I've struggled a lot lately with identity and just socializing in general, so much that today I was so troubled by my own emotions that I took a stroll out in freezing temperatures and could've died if I had stayed out there any longer (Collapsed the moment I stepped back in my house, I made a swift recovery after 2 hours)
This post has been really helpful to see after all that so thank you
@@vsu-reimore stay warm
Remember God will always love you even if you don't want to believe it or accept it. God has made us all unique in our own way and we should be thankful for that because it's amazing that God took the time to make each and everyone of us different. Whether or not you agree I hope you have a blessed day.
Amen.
Just something I noticed. Your videos getting brighter and brighter both with its content mood soul and LITERALLY hahaha and Yes people. It is okay to be different. Being different than eachother is the best chance to exchange experience knowledge and generally giving a fresh a new image and experience to someone. That goes for you as well. Different people meaning different experiences no one will be the same. Similar? yes but not the same.
0:32, Which is unfortunate because the popular idea in society is that people can only be your friend if they are completely like you.
The idea of friendship polluted by ego, a greedy, desperate desire to be in control, to not be at risk of feeling persecuted for being different, the need to "strike first", to devalue and objectify others before they do it to you, it all kills community.
But that's to be expected with how different everyone sees themselves as these days, how different they see others are from them, their inability to perceive things the exact same way, and how that difficult it can be to reconcile just how different, how divided everyone is from each other.
Some people are just too afraid and confused by each other, of the possibility of conflict, too driven by greed, to allow themselves to risk the possibility of disappointment in their attempts to meaningfully connect with each other.
2:15, The easiest answer to all of this is trying one's hardest to not play the game, to be as distant as others and use overt issues and flaws one may have as a barrier, to say "I'm the freak", "I'm the problem", "I share nothing meaningful with anyone and so I should just get used to being lonely before I get myself or others needlessly hurt". And unfortunately, that's a common method these days to deal with the disconnect people have with others, to just become disconnected from people. 4:21, The overt appeal is not feeling like a slave to trends and to the actions and perspectives of the masses others follow out of an instinctual need to follow the "tribe".
Even me being here, a profile on a website, I'm just an object, a sequence of words. My anonymity, my online persona, just like anyone else's, is simultaneously a necessary defense, an obstacle to deeper connection and a tool for seeking a semblance of connection and meaning from others instead of just....talking to a person right next to mean.
Needless to say, it's hard to find real friends while trying to parse out what "real" even means, what is the "correct" way to be, having to ask that question over and over again, ruled by fear, doubt, shame, seeking the comfort of other people without first having the courage and humility to deal with yourself and your issues.
Your outfit is so cute!
i absolutely love your content!!
Cheeseburger and the BorgarGang are like a warm hug in a world that sometimes feels so cold. I’ve always felt different, like I didn’t belong anywhere, but here, it’s all love, acceptance, and good vibes. The way Cheeseburger leads with kindness and makes everyone feel welcome is so special. This community reminds me it’s okay to be myself and that there’s always a place for people like us. Thank you, BorgarGang, for being a beacon of positivity and making this world a little brighter. 🍔❤
thanks u for this msg
@@flowmastaflam Thank you so much for noticing me and accepting me just as I am. It means more than words can say. Loving really is easy when it's real and mutual, and I'm so grateful for that. 💖🍦🛎😆
Borgar buddies ;)
I’ve always accepted and embraced that I am different than other people. Although I get judge and made fun of by my family who don’t like the things I’m into like my style of clothes and how I do my hair and my hobbies. I know that there’s people out there will like me for who I am despite me being different. I’ve made friends who were different than me and made friends who have different political opinions and we all agreed on one thing. Everyone has the right to their own opinion and it doesn’t mean we can’t be friends.
Being different is what makes everyone unique. And being unique is what makes you standout.
very well said bloody toes
People will judge things for such stupid reasons, it's important that you do what you love and only care about that.
Every time I see your videos it always brings a smile to my face thank you ❤
We’ll always be there to support you ❤
Thank You so much
cheese burger! Hearing your words from you videos and live streams really helped me so much in life and gave me new ways to look at things. Take care of yourself and thank you for the inspirational talks!!
The outro is so satisfying makes life feel real. the little moments count.
i love the light and more colorful vibes of this video really cool cheese. 👍
I really like ur videos everytime i watch its like a a strong smell of mint hitting my face ur videos are so refreshing, i really want to become ur friend in real life
love to see this kind of content back again :) ultimately, it's whatever that makes you happiest and most comfortable that pleases us as an audience most, but i do enjoy videos like these and i like to think it helps you to express these kinds of things
This is what I view a positive nihilism, not caring about what others have or do, simply by not caring we are open to improving ourselves without caring about meeting a certain expectation from the outside world
Hi Cheeseburger! Lots of love for you, you have beautiful room back there! It is totally okay to be different (unless hurtful), but it is so sad that people are not accepting it.
FACTS. damm right. thats why i buy my pants, short, shirts, hats, with no logo no brand on them. if i can examine before i buy it...... im analizing if i can remove it later.
I feel that if you buy the so-called “new trendy items”, they always will fade away and if you buy the clothes that you like and will wear for years, then that really shows that you aren’t just putting your head down to fit in, you’re showing other people that you can be different and it’s good to be that way. That’s why I wear 2 different colored shoes or still wear clothes that I like and still can wear.
You’re definitely going to get far with that mindset! 👍
Your set up is pretty awesome, also agree 100%. I have friends from all walks of life, I don't think I fully agree with any of them, that's what being mature is in my opinion.
Your videos sometimes make my day because I’m usually negative about myself almost every hour but when I watch your videos I always feel a little more positive also I try not to hate myself because I have ADHD though its hard but this video helped me try not to think I’m weird or a loser
i do agree with the perspective of how shutting people out because of their different beliefs isn't great, it should be preferrable to be with those who are different than you, i find it much more engaging as it allows me to view different perspectives that people have and come to conclusions on my own! i also love love love buying secondhand items! thrifting is not just cost effective, but it is fun! it also saves the planet from waste, which is always a bonus.
thank you, wise cheese burger!
for me this is relatable not bcos i changed for people but bcos i tried making people change for me if that makes sense, i remember talking to this one girl who really liked a ship between two youtubers and i would always make fun of her for it, the worst part is that i think this caused her to actively distance herself from me, and eventually she lashed out and we stop taking to each other altogether, i still feel bad about that i genuinly think that relationship could have flourished
I think discussions can test relationships in general, but true connections can withstand trivial disagreements. Thanks for the insight, ecology is imperative and we should promote a cultural shift for the environment. Unfortunately, this is inconvenient to those who prefer being oblivious in consumerism habits. This can even extend to other lifestyle choices, like carbon footprints, plant-based diets and sustainable housing. It is complex, but I am hopeful people can understand and adapt if properly explained. Stay strong and keep up the great content.
I agree with everything you said. I kinda think like that 🤟
I always thought and still think most people wants to be "cool". That's why they waste so much money buying anything trending. Even if it's just for 1 month.
And well, do be careful and don't let your thoughts swim around and all of this. It can be overwhelming. Glad you are accepting yourself as how you are even if others think is "weird" ;)
we love you, thank you for making these videos, your channel literally cures my daily depression every time you upload
You dont know how good the timing of this video is to me...
Same:(
@ElPoorMc111 i hope this helps in any way
you are making a good videos and talking about important things for everyone, which helping to a lot of people. hope you and your family doing well! bless you, cheeseburger, and thank you for reviving of the old youtube vibes from 2009-2012 (i'm 28 y.o. and remember part of it). be yourself and dont look behind, only straight! 🙂❤
i wish i could retweet a youtube video, because this is such an important message more people need to hear
I really liked the everyday life/ nature clips at the end
your a great person cheeseburger you are spreading a good message and im a big fan of you and proud of you for coming far from wherever you started!!
i competely agree resonate with you because i also said exactly the samething too this is exactly how i feel too
I really appreciate you making videos like these
cheeseburger is the wiser than a war vet. literally is the one of the only people who can make me think and reflect on things, makes me wanna cry. w cheeseburger moment
Truly an inspiring human being 🤎
be you its beautiful its inside you not on the outside .
Damn... it is exactly like you read my thoughts and then you decided to make a video out of them. Truer words could have never been spoken than what you said there. Keep being awesome and wonderful, miss
Ever since I was a kid, the thought of forcing myself to be like everyone else has seemed nightmarish. I get called weird by people close to me all the time, and I always take it as a compliment. Many psychology professionals who've met me have assumed that there must be something, autism, ADHD, bipolar, but every test always comes out negative. I'm just weird by being myself, and I'm happy with that.
never change unless you want to, what people say doesnt matter as much as what you think
Thank you.never have to apologize for speaking your mind.at my age words like this help older women out to. So thank you very much cheese burger.stay warm and have a wonderful week.
people are meant to be different be yourself !! ❤️
Thank you for remining me what old UA-cam used to be like. Incidentally John and Hank Green are old school youtubers too.
Being yourself is the best thing you can do
might be my fav person in the moment rn
thanks cheese burger u are the only and closeted person for me who i can say a friend❤❤❤❤
The human experience is so full of complexities, details and diversity, the notion that it can be categorized into one single “normal” type is ridiculous, indeed it’s okay to be different, because every human being has something that makes them different
cheeseburger is just a vibe fr
Cheeseburger, from one stranger to another and just people that will most likely never see each other in real life:
I'm so proud of you.
Saying this with a couple tears running down brings back memories, but anyways, wish you the best
thank you, wishing you the best as well
wise words from a wise burger。
also nice overalls and nice ending montage!
when it comes to superficial things, i agree with you 100%. for politics and things idk i feel conflicted abt it. I am the black sheep in my family politically and the disconnect between the things they say about others and how they act at home is such a contrast its given me whiplash at some points. of course i love my family, but sometimes hearing the things they say, biting my tongue hurts my soul. thank you for this video cheese burger luigi. you are inspiring.
Cheese buger is the little spot on internet where good people hang out. I´m just here to balance my karma a little.
Remember, being different is awesome
i loooooooveee how open n honest this channel n community is. Love yall🫶🏾
Thanks a lot I haven't been really expressing myself how i want too mainly because I Don't really wanna be looked at differently and i guess looked at as weird but tysm for making this video i feel a bit more free and loose, thank you so much I'm sure you're going through your own problems and it might be selfish to say in a matter of how you see it, but thank you for throwing this out to others it might not be as significant but for me it means tons thank you, we love you cheeseburger
That's so kind of you to say! It means a lot to me that you feel that way.
There is this character called Kanade Kotonoha. At first she seems like a generic side character but as it progresses, you find out she is playing a "normal" character her whole life since she was asked to by her loved ones. I feel like this character resonates witch every person ever. The longer you play this "normal" character the more you will lose yourself and forget what you really want to be. So don't be afraid of being cringe at least sometimes lol.
Thank you for this!!
great words!
Thanks for the entertaining video, also i like the long(er)-form content it has more time to express our feelings or thoughts, not to say that your short form is not as good or worse than the longer form, i like both and surely am not picky about it!
Thanks for this video, I really needed something like this.