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Hey, fam! It's your girl Charlotte Dobre here, and today, we're diving into the juicy world of love, betrayal, and sweet, sweet justice. 🏹💔
In this episode, we're getting real about cheaters and the havoc they wreak on unsuspecting hearts. Whether it's your bestie, your sister, or even you who's been burned by infidelity, we've all felt that sting.
But fear not, my loves, because Charlotte Dobre is on the case! Armed with sass, wit, and a keen eye for deception, I'm taking out the cheater trash one scumbag at a time. It's time to reclaim our power and show those heartbreakers that karma's got a wicked sense of humor. 😈✨
Join me on this rollercoaster ride of emotions as we dish out some much-needed tough love and maybe even a few laughs along the way. From undercover stakeouts to epic confrontations, you won't want to miss a single moment.
So grab your popcorn, buckle up, and let's dive headfirst into the wild world of love gone wrong. Don't forget to hit that like button, subscribe to my channel, and ring that notification bell so you never miss an episode. Together, we'll make sure that cheaters everywhere think twice before breaking another heart. 💔🚫
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Cheaters will always find the audacity and then act like a victim
Or BLAME the person they cheated on! Ugh so scummy 😒
Oh snap. That first lady like play F around and find out. Don’t be weak, own it. Show him the messages.
Exactly,
💯
Wild !!
To all women: PLEASE stop using false threats of DV/IPV to get out of things. Every time you invoke the "I don't feel safe" or like-phrases when there is no eminent threat of violence, you discredit actual victims. Own your shit and accept the consequences like an adult - A DV survivor
Y'all remember the Johnny Depp/Amber Heard defamation trial? She said that he was abusive towards her when she was the abusive one.
@@StephALowry29rember he was actually abusive to her too. Just saying
@@DonnaWisonright? Why do people think that they actually know anything because a cute dude put it online?!
@@dknmoz Come on, we all know hot people never lie or do anything mean. They're only ever the victim, not the perpetrator. Girl still seemed shady in that video though.
@@dustinriley8059 she may be, but honestly the guy I really don't trust tbh
My ex husband accused me of cheating and I laughed. He got angry and asked what I was laughing about.
We had 3 small children, I did everything (including yard work and paper work) plus worked part-time in the evenings. Told him I didn't have time to use the bathroom and had to schedule pee breaks so had no time to have the wild affair he was accusing me of.
Turns out he was having an affair. Suspicious minds often reveal a guilty conscience.
I swear, from my own experience and observing my friends experiences, the Actual cheaters always accuse the other party of cheating. 🙄
I asked my husband why he was coming home later and later. He replied "stop accusing me of having an affair". That's one way to answer the question.
9 times out of 10 if they're accusing you of something they are actually guilty of that thing. Learned that the hard way 😅
Hahaha yes same here! It was rare that I was able to leave the house without the kids but somehow I'm going out and cheating with the kids in tow 🤦♀️
When they tell on themselves believe them, it’s mainly guys who do this but girls aren’t smart cheats either
2:07 _"I recorded it because I just needed evidence that I wasn't crazy"_
That is the state of mind of someone who has been a victim of gaslighting. Where they have been being forced to question themselves because of the actions and words of their gaslighter/abuser so much that they are questioning themselves and doubting their own intuition. This isn't the first time, she's been doing a lot of this to him, and this is the point where he finally cornered her and that's why she freaked out. Gaslighters are like toxic narcissists, they totally fall apart and flip-out when caught and confronted.
This right here I see a few people in the comments who are the woman's side in the first story when I thought it was obvious that she was trying to gaslight him. Some of the comments were saying about how they thought he was being to disrespectful about demanding too see her phone when I thought he had a perfectly reasonable action based on how she was acting
@@britbro2239 yup she's done this multiple times and he definitely isn't the only victim unfortunately
No, he just recorded himself being the crazy one, but please keep defending these misogynist clowns.
I had to do that before. Had prove. He tried to destroy my phone and laughed. It’s in the cloud baby. I been with apple since it first came out. All I gotta do is get another phone! He called everyone trying to make himself look like the one being manipulated. Then I just posted the video. His mother, brother and step dad told him that he was a piece of shit and stopped talking to him.
That is good info. I have done this over and over. I have a friend I called when things got bad. He respected her (go fig) so if nothing else it diffused the situation. I also tried recording to prove I'm right. Right = even more of a tantrum, or outburst. Ridiculous.
"walking the dogs" aka deleting any messages that could get her in trouble 🤢
Exactly!
I came here to leave this comment... sis is on speaker, talking and deleting at the same time
Uh huh!!! He should of waited till they went to sleep
Even if he would have screenshot the messages and showed it to her, she would have yelled about how he "invaded" her privacy and still tried to be a victim and kicked him out. Y'all know how cheaters deflect when they are caught. I hope he's doing better.
Off topic but your profile Picture is gorgeous.
Let’s also not forget this woman was ready to put it out there she was “unsafe” and that her husband might put his hands on her, she’s scared of him. She’s definitely the type of woman to weaponize this mess and get her husband locked up it smart he left especially given he’s in a foreign country. Calling her sister was for her to build a narrative and create a witness for her bs. He should destroy her in the divorce cuz she was damn sure willling to destroy his life with a lie to avoid getting caught cheating.
Exactly. She is despicable.
Don't know what country he flew to, he could have got thrown in a foreign jail for nothing. It was smart to get himself back home.
...which is especially evil on her part.
“Believe all women.”
@@allenbanks9034That's something I firmly believe should have NEVER been started. Even at the peak I thought it was weird because there were so many cases where it was determined in court that some women lied. Who even started that mess?
I will *never* forget when I had suspicions and asked my ex. It was an eye opener for me to have a little more fsith in myself. He got angry and told me I really needed to work on my trust issues and being insecure. Because, yes he was right... I was extremely insecure back then. So I felt terrible for him 'being a victim' of my insecurities. I'll never forget the day I was having an absolute breakdown while he was at work. I sobbed, pacing back and forth, saying outloud to myself repeatedly, "just.trust.him." and nothing worked. I believed I was that pathetic of a human.
Then one night, I helped him to bed after a night of drinking. His phone pinged from his pocket as i fished it out to put on nightstand, I saw a text from girl. And it wasn't just a friendly hello.
My instant reaction before the heartbreak? Relief I wasn't insane and that it was my INTUITION knocking on my head.
Trust your instincts!!
Wow sorry that happened
Yes the "insecure" comment is a really shitty response
I wasted 5 years with a man that would gas light me in a similar way. Even finding a hair tie in his bed, he wouldn't say the truth & called it "nothing." I also saw venmo transactions of all his dinner dates. Never ignore the red flags ladies!
Someone who loves you and is innocent will react to insecurities with reassurance, not anger. If my husband had this worry, I'd thank him for telling me what was on his mind and I'd be concerned about what was happening or not happening at home that would cause doubt about how much I love him.
You definitely deserved better. Hope things are happier now
Girl always trust your gut!!! I tell girls/women this all the time. 99.9% of the time you'll be right. I dated 2 HORRIBLE men in a row who cheated on me and I learned the hard way that my intuition is spot on.
"You are insecure" is the #1 first line of defense for cheaters
I agree definitely don't accuse them without proof. My husband was acting weird and wouldn't let me touch his phone (literally, like if it was on the couch and I would try to move it he would snatch it.) so while he was distracted I went through his phone and took photos of the conversations he was trying to have with a woman he's known since he was in highschool. Telling her how beautiful she was and how he missed her, she was not interested.
The next day he deleted all of it, proof was gone if I hadn't taken pictures. Work in the shadows. Never let them know you're on to them. I haven't confronted him yet. Waiting for the right moment.
Please update me when you do girly! I love this for you it’s super satisfying to know that you’re not crazy!
there is no right time love, as much as it hurts, rip off the band-aid ❤
4:36 the fact that she called her sister and her sister kicked him out. Makes you wonder what she told her sister.
Yeah he was right to record her. Who knows what she would have said happened.
@@roxanneslate8661 exactly. He had video evidence especially if the sister called the cops.
@@paranormalelizabeth Good point. Who knows what she would have claimed.
@@slackerman9758 her word against his but he has the video taped evidence. He was calm and asked to see her phone. He even said you can hold it.
YIKES
She definitely went out to delete texts as well as call her sister 😅
Yes!!!
It could be she wasn't calling her sister, but the one she was cheating with instead.
I wonder if they're on the same phone bill...
I think her sister is probably a cheater, too...cheaters stick up for cheaters
@@jacklow9611 Since she had the sister on the phone when she came home she may have called the person she cheated on 1st and then called her sister. We don't know how long the dog walk was..
If you’re willing to cheat, you’re fine with the relationship ending. If you’re fine with it ending then end it and move on. It’s so damn simple.
Many of them aren't fine with it ending though. They're comfortable. They're just so stupid and full of themselves that they think they can have it all.
They don’t end it because they want their cake and eat it too.
@@Birdsandclover This is off topic, while I do understand what the phrase means, I don't understand the reasoning behind the meaning. Anyone that has cake is going to want to eat it. That is perfectly reasonable and counter to the intent of the phrase.
@@dustinriley8059 I know what you mean! The phrase has changed over the years - It was originally "You can't eat your cake and have (/keep) it, too" - For me the existence of the phrase makes more sense this way around, especially because I work in weddings and there are a lot of beautiful cakes I'm sure some people would love to keep as pretty souvenirs... if they didn't taste so good! 👀🤣 Hope that helps!
@@lindsaymcconvillephotograp5496 That definitely makes more sense.
The only thing I would be scared about if my husband went through my phone was how much I spend on Amazon not who I was talking to 😂
I'd be afraid he would mess with my playlist😂
Girl same 😂 I am scared of him looking at my credit cards and that’s about it 😂
spending and making debt to destroy family is financial infidelity......
my hubby and i go over all accounts regularly. So we both know what is up and so we make sure to fraud charges happen...only had amazon do that which was annoying cause we didnt get anything and kept having charges...but the main reason is budgeting and trust... dont drown your family in stupid debt and hide it
@@wufflerdance9481 it was a joke. 😆
The girl that got cheated on but kept laughing with her bestie is so great!! As much as it sucks and hurts and yet she's got a bestie that keeps her laughing and totally has her back. Absolutely friendship goals ❤
That friend is a ride or die for sure!
Wish I had a bestie like that 😢💔
right I'm so jealous!
Loooove those girls. I hope the ex didn’t take him back though. He’s just going to keep doing it. Guys got issues.
Friendship goals FR. I beed a buddy like this.
I can't stand when they say "it wasn't even that serious!" How does that make it better? Now they know you're willing to cheat for almost nothing. GG.
It's not that serious. Yes, it is. You just ended something that was very serious for nothing
You know! I feel like that makes it a hundred times worse! I’d feel better if u had at least fallen for them, “it wasn’t serious” just means you have zero respect for me… and yourself
Same!! That just makes it worse!!
It might not have been “serious” for them… but it was for the person they cheated on who is obviously blindsided and devastated by something that’s “not serious”… Fk cheaters!
Her crying like shes the victim in here... Disgusting
After too many years, I've learned when a cheating partner says "it wasnt serious," I can say "I understand; you're correct. Our relationship wasnt that serious to you." ✌️
I absolutely love the power move of laughing and giggling when you find out about cheating because it implies that they aren't really worth being upset about
Such a wonderfully petty and fairly dignified way to respond
First one is beyond GUILTY & THIRSTY, your honor 😂
So true
she's girthy🤣🤣🤣🤣
Definitely 💯
Thank you, Foreman of the Jury!
And also racist. He never laid a hand on her, he barely raised his voice when he had every right to, and she felt unsafe….?? Yeah girly was fs racist
The first guy... I'm pretty sure that about 90% of the female population would be happy to comfort him at this time of grief. RIP his marriage.
Yeah she’s foolish for everything including the fact that he’s pretty cute
Hell yeah. He's cute and seems so nice. I've never had anyone travel five hours to see me and go on a road trip with me. Some women have all the luck.
Yeah nah. I dont trust him based on this entire thing. He has no right to demand she hand over her phone. She was very clear she was uncortable by her kept pushing.
Whether or not she was cheating, he's still not someone I'd wanna spend time with
.... What. Have you read what you typed.
@@Octobris yes. I even typed it! Hope that helped clear it up.
Man, whenever I was cheated on (and I’m talking middle/ high school relationships so it was nothing serious anyway) I never got mad. That made them more upset, every time! When I would find out or if they told me I always just said “Okay. We’re not together anymore then.” And that was it. Always shocked them and gave me so much satisfaction.
SAME!!! No reason to go back & forth🤷🏾♀️
Indifferent people tend to drive cheaters crazy
I aspire to be that level of chill 😂
"We used protection." is giving the same energy as "He pulled out."
The first guy was way better looking than i was expecting. The wife was lucky wow
I liked his voice from the first half but yes, also very very handsome.
Right !!!!
I had literally the same thought 🤣 "She had the gall to cheat on HIM???" If she can't treat him well, I'll take him!
right? look at that jawline
FR but I think he's an empath :c and he may seek more narcissistical women 😢 but I hope he doesn't anymore
No one is ending an 11 year relationship because they asked to see your phone and there is nothing there.
You end it if there is cheating evidence in your phone but she can't face that. .
I've never seen that Celine Dion clip. Thank you for sharing cause that made my morning. 😂
I love that those girls are having fun with the breakup, not childish, just good mental health for them
Those girls who couldn't stop cracking up are definitely each other's spirit animal 😂😂😂 What a gorgeous friendship
Almost 20 years together. My guy and I could never hurt each other. To cheat, means you just don’t care about the other person. Just call it quits, why cheat?
Why stay together when you’re even entertaining the idea of being with someone else. I couldn’t even fantasize about anyone else but my love. He’s the greatest thing in the face of this earth.
Money… they always stay bc of 💰
It's the 'thrill' of doing something you're not supposed to. Their ego loves the fact that they have someone at home plus someone else.
@@x-mess We taught our girls to always be able to provide for themselves and any children they may have. If our son had survived birth, we would have taught him the same. We also stressed that if you feel the need to cheat, break up with who you’re with first. Break up anyway because he’s obviously not the one for you if you’re eyeing someone else. My husband and I have been married for 26, 27 is coming up fast, years. We both agreed before marrying that if you’re eyeing someone, leave immediately. No matter what.
I’m convinced that cheaters aren’t entirely convinced that they want to leave. So they are testing the waters, so to speak. Once they feel ok about starting over, they leave. If they like having both sides of their bread buttered and they don’t get caught- they stay.
The only thing I want to hide on my phone is the number of times I google a word to make sure I'm using it in the correct context.
Affect, effect ….and I have two degrees 😂
My husband of 21 years cheated on me. The story is long with lots of funny and unbelievable lies he was caught spewing but one of the funniest is when he said he was going to Home Depot for flowers for our yard but I followed him and he drove straight to the store she managed. When I confronted him he made up an excuse that he needed to make copies for the soccer team and she has a good printer. To this day my kids wink and we laugh as they say, “Mom lost Dad because the other woman has a better printer!” lol We are now married to each other’s spouses and I couldn’t be happier!
Wait….. “We are now married to each others spouses”… Do you mean you married the (ex)husband of the woman whom YOUR husband cheated with… And your husband married his mistress? Am I understanding this correctly? If so….it is absolutely crazy how the universe works…to your advantage! Congrats to you and your family!
Love the way y’all joke about this😂
That last one was a whole different level of GASLIGHTING!!!! Dude needs to run and get a restraining order.
That first one... I had that fake accusations of fear for ones safety happen but there was no catalyst. She just decided she didn't want to be with me. She went so far as to steal a gun of mine and pretended like I was going to harm her. Mind you I still had my service weapon. I immediately reported it stolen, packed what I could the next day and fled. It SUCKED to leave so much behind and 10 years down the drain...but that's a betrayal that I could never forgive. I did warn her not to bring the gun to the police because it's now reported stolen and she will get arrested. About six months later she got arrested for possession of a stolen firearm...a felony with mandatory jail time. She's a teacher. Oh well.
Wow, that's crazy she did it to herself
Wow! I am so sorry that happened to you, but I am glad that you protected yourself accordingly.
I'm glad you were able to do the right things in time and protect yourself.
Diabolical😅😂
You mean she was a teacher (most of the time she’s a contraction of she is, though it could be she was).
I was cheated on once (that I know of). It was like the walls of a cage falling down and the sweet taste of freedom touching my lips. The relationship had stopped being enjoyable shortly into it, but she kept crying and gaslighting me into feeling like all the discomfort was because of me and I had to surrender my boundaries more and more to fix the relationship. When she cheated, I knew I was done. No more guilt, no more compromising my values, no more bending over backwards for her. It was over.
I always thought being cheated on would hurt. In my situation, it was the opposite of hurting. I love that for me 😊
1:24 I will say as someone who has been in an ab*s*ve relationship… I have had this conversation and been in the same position. The messages I was trying to hide were the truth about his ab*se so while this is probably a cheater… just know there may be more to the story
Not to discredit your experience, but he saw the messages she sent, and he commented they sounded "thirsty."
@@rodeljordanat least that is what HE said happened. I’m just playing devils advocate and saying it may not be as cut and dry as he claimed.
17:58 dude is a king for dealing with such a whiney little conniving victim of a home wrecker and being so calm and collected. This poor poor man.
"It was just the one time. It wasn't even serious. We used protection. You never answer your phone." The deception is strong with this one. No wonder "They always leave me!!" lol
Also notice her voice isn’t even cracking. She’s maintaining tone and pitch to earn sympathy. If she was truly remorseful she’d be crying so hard she’d be unable to talk, she’d probably puke, she’d probably tear her hair out.
Nope, just making a baby voice and probably puckering her lips and eyes to get sympathy.
"But we used protection!!" Got me. Like who tf cares...you literally let another man into your vajayjay.
@@SUGAs_Shadow85that and "it didn't even last long" like whhhaaaatttt?!?!?! So if it went for 30 minutes it would have counted? Because he came fast it didn't count?! Like wtaf?!🤯🤯🤯
@@megantron222 Reminds me of someone I knew who wanted to be a camgirl and wondering why her boyfriend was "taking this wayyyyyyyy too seriously" when he walked out, to this day she still claims he was controlling her future and got rid of him.
All her exes are crazy btw.🙄
Oh God! The first guy is so genuine and compassionate. I feel so bad for him. He deserves a queen.
Also, laughter can sometimes be an emotional response. I've laughed at inappropriate times unintentionally, bc of nerves etc.
I hope the last guy becomes okay! Like Ma’am literally started crying and saying “it’s wasn’t even serious” and “we used protection” and trying to play the fiction and say “you’re gonna leave me like everyone else” THAT IS SO DIABOLICAL AND SHAMELESS! Stay calm and safe kind hearted romantics and trust your guts and don’t let anyone ruin the true meaning of love in life❤
I’ve been cheated on in pretty much every single relationship before my current marriage, and I cannot even begin to explain how damaging it is and how that traumatizes you for life. I’m dead serious. It even screws you up in healthy relationships! Being cheated on is awful… I’ll never understand why people do it. 😢
This is very true
Yup, I have actual diagnosed ptsd from being cheated on :-/
Agreeeeeed.
Same, and it sucks when your intuition was”screaming “ at you the whole time.❤️
And… it does screw you up in trusting your new partner.
My husband’s ex had a two year affair with one of his best friends!!! 🤯Ex & hubby had only been married about 2 years as well🤯
Not only that… but when hubby was transferred (Navy) the best friend moved there too!!! Ex & friend continued the affair!
When I married my hubby, he had the hardest time trusting ME! (Thanks to ex the witch)
But 4 kids later, hone taught them all…. And now 43 years married, Hubby after about 14 years he was finally trusting that I didn’t HAVE TIME😂 or interest in having a guy on the side🤩
The funny thing about people who cheat on a committed partner is that, no, they don't think they can find better. That's why they tryna keep you.
So true!
This or they think you’ll stay even if they cheat. They’ll always have someone to keep around, while they go out and eat their cake.
@@brielle0808now I want cake.🍰
This actually really helps me. Reaffirms that the person they're cheating on could have done nothing wrong.
@@mskurolovegetting cheated on is NEVER your fault. Idc if you're not sleeping together, not giving them what they need in a relationship etc. If they're not happy they can leave. Doesn't give ANYONE an excuse/reason to cheat. If it has or does happen to you I PROMISE YOU!!! you are not at fault. There is never a good reason to cheat on someone. Just. Leave.
I love those girls. Cheating hurts and no one wants to go through it. Them laughing with each other through all of this is amazing. I wish I had that.
Just saying - I had an abusive ex who constantly accused me of cheating and would ask to see my phone. I didn't want him to see that I was asking my friends for help because it would have made it worse. I let him leave thinking I was a cheater because at least HE LEFT.
You saying that about the first guy? Because he gave me those kind of vibes too! Especially in his "explanation" portion. Seemed like he was trying too hard for sympathy and we have zero proof that he had never abused her, only his word! Same for every other part of his story - his word only. Can't believe all the unquestioning support he got in the comments when he may well be a controlling narc. I have so many questions about why they were in separate countries in the first place. Was she trying to get away from him? Possibly his jealousy and control? Gave me an off feeling for sure! Sorry you went through that too!
@@lizajane2971 it's because he's good looking. The amount of people frothing at the mouth about that is unbelievable.
And even if she was cheating on him, dude is still an ass
@@lizajane2971 I can't shake the feeling something is up with the first story. And when he whines about driving 5 hours just to see his wife, that smacks of entitlement. I mean, yeah, to be treated that way after driving 5 hours would suck, but he was so careful with how he phrased his response. He was so agitated when confronting her that I'd leave the house, too. He kept following her, trying to pick a fight.
And people were praising him for staying calm when he summarized. Um, no. There was just no emotion. His eyes were dead inside.
But good luck trying to get tangible evidence to prove anything. 😖
Ok, I'm glad someone said this bc same. My ex was the same way, constantly accusing me of not loving him or cheating, etc. Etc. The way he came at her, especially with the filming, felt so off to me & gave me flashbacks to my ex & me. 😢 I'm sorry you went through that, too. It sucks. I wish you the best with healing from that emotional manipulation & abuse. 🙏🏼🩷
My ex accused me of cheating. I was just standing by the stove cooking. He said it in a liw key conversational way. I looked up from the stove and said calmly, "get out" and put my head back down and continued cooking. He left and never said another word. This was the days before cell phones.
I was with a man for 3 years he lied and cheated on me. He got caught one of his mistresses was working in Costco and came up to us and kissed him on the lips and asked him if he was behaving. I was so embarrassed that I left and he didn't say a word and let me leave by myself and never called me again. Crazy! I couldn't believe that happened to me. I'm still healing from this.
His loss love!! Live and learn. Heal and move on!! You got THIS!! Cheaters SUCK!! I've been there myself. Took me a long time to truly understand it's all to do with them. Nothing to do with me. Best wishes to you!!💖
Thank you for the encouragement.@@WhatTheWHAT524
Wow , enough healing. God already made you strong. Stop thinking you are constantly healing. That means you are allowing his power over you is a hell of a lot stronger than you are. My words are not trying to disparage you. My intent comes with a lot of faith you are not a victim. Know the strength God gave us
Punishing words, lovely. Maybe ask questions of a victim instead of gathering your conclusions and telling them to stop with the victim hood
That woman coming up & kissing him in front of you was a gift from the universe. You deserve better than him. He could’ve given you some nasty disease or who knows. It could’ve been so much worse. The fact that he never called you again afterwards tells me that he has no empathy or compassion & no conscience. You were with a cold hearted snake. You finding out was not a bad thing. It hurt, but it could’ve been worse
The last one had me rolling, "we used protection" "😢😢😢😢" 😂😂😂😂
"It wasn't EVEN that serious." What does that girl consider serious then? 🤣
@@ydad8946 Yea like trust it been him that had cheated she would've dragged his a$$ but then can't stand it when it's her, using protection is the LEAST a cheater could do, minimizing the risk of screwing over the faithful partner's health.
@@ydad8946 Apparently not using protection. Anything else is no more serious than a handshake.
Charlotte, honestly, you give me life. We've been deep cleaning and decluttering and tomorrow's bin day. My spouse and I started watching your videos about 6PM, they clocked out about midnight-ish... It is now 3:09AM and I've just managed to get all the rubbish and recycling out and ready for the morning 😂😂😂 all the while watching/listening to your videos in the background.
My ex fiance used our engagement photo, but cropped me out on his tinder profile that "wasn't his" and "prob was someone pretending to be him" 😂💀 Bro, no one is that stupid to believe that BS and you are not good looking enough for someone to want to be you. Glad I'm not with him anymore.
That 1st one WOW! My man, you need to divorce her, cite her cheating and don't give her 1 penny, OH and only communicate through your lawyer and never speak to her again because YOU don't feel safe with her LIES!
truth 🙏
Its funny how you assume hes the one with money...
Haha! Seriously!@@morganablackwater2017
@@morganablackwater2017
Funny, how that is all you got from that.
Well, he flew to another counrty FOR HER. So yes, we think he has at least a comfortable amount of money.😂
There is something fundamentally wrong with the cheater. Never the cheatee.
Yes 100%,😅
glad you know each and every instance and background of the cheating. yes, it's wrong and a toxic trait. doesn't mean it's impossible that something that didn't lead up to making this bad decision. toxic relationships can bring out the worst in someone.
On s'en fou ton avis nous nous intéresse pas vas t'en on te déteste 😡😡😡
@@fahrinurlaub01vg I dealt with an abusive narcissist who would control every aspect of my day, down to what I was going to wear. And I still never cheated on him. I waited till I was out of the relationship. And yea Ik not everyone is the same. But honestly, your comment screams red flag. Just my personal opinion. This was for those who’ve done everything for their partner and yet they still think they deserve to take more of me. Because that’s exactly what cheating on someone does. It kills a little piece of that person that still sees love and hope. Have a great day all the same though. I hope it’s a blessed one.
Dégages tu n'es plus la bienvenue sur cette chaîne 😡
The first one... She was caught cheating, so she told everyone he was abusing her. What a c u n t.
the first one is just wild...i will never understand people that cant break up and let that person go .. on the top of that they get mad and offended.. also out of topic , your hair is looking so freaking gorgeous lately (i mean its always been pretty) but its longer now !
Cheaters always try to gaslight you into thinking your wrong for finding out they’re cheating like “why are u looking throu my phone” “why did you not trust me”
Exactly that's what my ex did, ‘you breached my privacy and violated my trust’
He believes that he didn't violate my trust by cheating.
@@devimaulidaarifah so true,cz didn’t he “violate ur trust” first? What a hypocrite.
It is normal for me asking of "why r u using my phone u need something?" Even if i am not doing anything wrong.
@@-maryam_- exactly!
@@ARMY-ot2px the case he was cheating bruh!
Charlotte's little zips around in her chair, especially when she talks about moving in the shadows, is absolutely awesome. I adore this girl!
Me too ❤
Same😂❤
what do you mean "little zips"?
@@sophroniel 11:18 - 11:22
Imagine people just laughing at the person that cheated. Just laugh as you kick them out (or leave) and say nothing. Traumatize them, make them feel insecure 😂
Lol the guy that cheated on me said 'I'm so used to women using me I thought you would do the same and I didn't know how to accept your love' 😂😂 the reasons they give are insane.
The girls laughing and being so supportive are going to be besties for life!! They had me laughing. I absolutely LOVE that they laughed in front of the cheater! That’s epic! 😂😂😂
So sick of cheaters playing the victim card and try to downplay severity of the situation. 😑🙄
The girl saying “ But we used protection and it was quick!” 🤣
If I were the husband in the first clip, my next communication with my wife would be divorce papers.
My husband felt "assaulted" when I found his Thirsty messages on the shared computer. He asked me to leave, then twisted everything about me making fake profiles of him.
I ended up forgiving him as long as he works on getting my trust back. A week after he came to my workplace telling me that he was leaving me because this is too stressful for him and he was going to spend some days with "a male friend he feels comfortable with". fine.
Our lease was ending so I guess this was the best time to drift away. A month after he was begging me to get a new apartment for us since he got dumped on the streets.
So u r still with him
Even when you have evidence, they still make it your fault or worse, they start gaslight you for having evidence 😂
No, but WHY ARE THEY LIKE THAT 😂
Duuuude. I had photographic evidence of my ex with other women. So many women. And every single picture but 2 (30 total) he said wasn’t him and he was just being nice and buying that lady a coffee, or buying that lady something to eat. 👀 it was like listening to a shaggy song. Such lies.
@@BrittNicole988 fr. It’s like they think we’re dumb. Are they brain damaged? Are we? I’m so lost on the logic.
@@erikarussell1142 They think (1) that you are as stupid as they think you are and (2) that you are too nice to call them for what they are and hold them accountable for their horrid actions.
When the husband did his video I said out loud ‘she cheated on that beautiful man?!!!’, then our 25 year daughter ran over to have a look! She looked and said ‘I’m finding him, he’s single now! Cheers cheating slag!’! 😂😂😂😂
Charlotte Dobre as Dr. EVIL is everything I didn't know I needed! 😂😂😂❤❤❤
Charlotte needs her own subreddit where we can send stories.
The red flag of saying that she's uncomfortable and throwing things in his face that he's going to ab*se her ....
He should have given up right then and there and left without continuing the conversation. To protect himself! Seriously, that is not ok.
Listen to how angry he is at her. Watch how he chases her around in the house he himself says he drove 5 hours to get to. That is an intimidation tactic.
He had 5 hours to decide if he was calm enough to confront her in a manner that was not unsafe. At that point, it's a deliberate choice. She had good reason to be afraid of him, whether or not she was actually cheating.
*flew, not drove. My bad.
@Orquet-qj2nf didn't he see the messages after he got there though?
as soon as he said "thirsty" she paused 💀
Just love chilling listening to Charlotte.
Like hanging with a friend somehow 🙂👍
Charlotte- thank you so much for your hilarious content. Makes my soul smile💜
First story:
We’ve all been in relationships and we know that she is projecting some pretty gross things about her husband. He’s just trying to find out what’s going on and she is in deny and shift fault mode. She CAN’T come back from this.
The messed up part about the deny and shift fault mode is that even though thats enough to know she’s cheating, it’s still a manipulative tactic to keep that small sense of doubt in the persons mind that they didn’t have proof and she never confirmed it. It will eat away at a person and it is a sick and twisted thing to do to a person. All to avoid accountability.
@@joshfly210
You are absolutely correct. And she will use it over and over. Because her gaslighting him and his doubts is what she’s done for the past 11 years. This gentleman needs to know in his heart that he deserves better, or it will never change.
"It might be childish, but at the same time, what kind of respect does he deserve?" PURRRRRIOD QUEENS! ❤
Yes
Those dogs are really calm for her feeling unsafe.. they aren’t growling or barking so good for him to video typing that
I love how people are just automatically believing the first guy. He could very well be just trying to control his wife or girlfriend. People need to get a hold of themselves and not just take one side I’ve seen, abusive, controlling men do the same type of stuff, very menacingly when cameras are not on.
My thought too... some people have to learn the hard way though. Like possibly that guy's next girlfriend 😒
Its not so much that I'm on the guys side but I think she is acting very suspicious. And in the first video he didn't sound like he was overreacting considering he suspected her of cheating. Of course I feel like we can only make a judgement based off the information we have and we only have information from his perspective and I feel like the video just doesn't paint her in good light. Of course none of us will know what actually happened
I would be hurt and a bit sad if my husband thought I was cheating on him. But, we would have a direct conversation, he could read all my texts, and the dogs would stay inside.
Same same
Direct communication is the sexiest. And totally necessary to have an actually healthy relationship.
If she was really upset it's OK to go outside and take a walk. Maybe even while I let my husband search through my phone as much as he wants. Certainly not either my phone though. Because I wouldn't want to seem guilty where I wasn't.
@@not_you_i_dont_even_know_youim so sorry but I thought you wrote communication is the sexist 😭😭
@@Sarah-psalm127 Same. But for me, I'd only come back from that walk briefly, because that would be it for me as far as the relationship went. I don't cheat, and to be genuinely accused of it would be a deal-breaker for me.
My former best friend moved in with a (soon to be formerly) married man. We had several subscriptions together, on my email. I waited until she was two episodes away from finishing our show before I changed the passwords and blocked her. Awesome new man can pay for her Netflix/Hulu/Disney/Doordash. Stay petty
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I love how savage yet fair that is…
I love when a wronged person puts forth a little thought and effort😮😮😮
Love it 😂
Perfect😂
I follow you on FB and it shows me diff videos of yours everyday from all times in your career from when u first starter til now. It just makes me love you more. You've really come a long way. You've always been amazing and sweet and funny but it really is a very cool transformation from then til now! Im sure you won't read this lol but every time I see a recent video I think about that. You seem like a cool person and I am so happy for you and how far youve come from your career to your relationship and life in general! ❤
Absolutely love your content, you really brighten my day much love from the UK ❤❤❤❤❤
Cheaters always be like “WHY ARE U SO INSECURE?” ….hmmm I wonder why?? 💀💀
cheaters always be projecting fr
@@Sirlayachu fr
The first guy is such a gem. He is kind, respectful and hot as hell. He deserves way better than his cheating wife.
a friend of mine flew to the US from Germany, to see her husband of 10 years, and he had moved someone else in to their house, and changed the locks on the house they owned together..... she called his daughter that lived near by, his 5 kids are so pissed at him!
I think it depends on cultural background but if my partner asked to see my messages to other people, I'd freak out too. Although, I have never cheated any of my partners. For me, asking such thing would be a huge red flag and controlling, and I'd go away, too.
Damn! Who in their right mind would cheat on him!?!?!? Yeah, she was hiding something for sure!
My thoughts too. Dang, he's gorgeous! At least we think he is..
He looks like prince. So pretty ❤
Greed and selfishness are never satisfied.
I’m honestly sick of seeing comments like that. Your looks won’t make a person faithful … also comes off as “ugly” people deserve to be cheated on.
Right?!
Narcissists are drawn to caring, empathetic types. They aren’t capable of empathy but enjoy taking advantage of others who are. They lie about lots of things for no real reason sometimes. Other times they are just telling people what they want to hear. 😢
Narcissists do not have any empathy for anyone-they learn to fake it. They watch other people’s reactions to situations and mimic them.
18:02 it wasn’t that long. 😂 How are you not embarrassed!
I would like to thank you. My little sister has had a rough few years after coming out as trans. I love her so much and love to see her happy. Her favourite part of the day is when you upload a video. She says you’re her favourite trans creator. Thank you so much
I always love “it ain’t that serious” and “it was an accident” as if that excuses everything!
I accidentally fell on his penis. Why didn't I stand back up? Ummmmmmmmm. My knees hurt---where are you going? Come back! It wasn't even serious.
Ah, the old falling into or onto someone else. So many clumsy people.🙄
“wE uSed pR0teCti0n!!”
I will never understand why people cheat for no reason when you could just be upfront and tell the person that you want to end the relationship and move on.
People who are too cowardly and spineless to break up the usual way so instead hurt that person by cheating to try to get said person to break up with him/her.
Been in a similar situation. Had one pull the 'I don't feel safe' gaslighting and cry to their family and friends group like this too... after living together 26+ years married for 22 of them. Ridiculous.
That first one reminds me of all the women that get someone to kill their husband by saying they were hitting them. She’s setting up a defense for herself by claiming she’s afraid of him. He needs to run as far away from her as he can.
Agreed!
That's the worst feeling, having to record a conversation because you are actually questioning your perception of reality because they lie so hard.
Real quick, that Doctor Evil was SOOO ACCURATE AND HILARIOUS 😂😂😂
Your extra-chaotic energy today just made my day 😂💙
Charlotte's hair looks absolutely beautiful. 😊
She has an amazing hairstyle in every video.
I need to know what she uses to get it so shiny
@@Puppylove82-gv3gm exactly, looks always so beautiful.
First story: I'm not saying she didn't cheat on him, but we also don't know their conversation before he started recording. It's entirely possible that she legit felt unsafe because he was hollering at her or something, and she's not going to show her phone to him because she's afraid he'll take it.
THIS. Something feels off about that first one.
THANK YOU!!! Everyone blindly believing him cause he's "so gorgeous" is so uncomfortable. You can even hear him getting aggressive at her and quickly catching himself. So he's not as calm & collected as he pretends to be.
Right, cuz at some point he says she can just "hold [her] phone" and show the messages to him, which makes me think she might have expressed some sort of fear about letting him physically handle it. That jumped out to me.
Agree. And his whole "I came all this way to see her and this is what I get" noooo, something not right there. Like why is she in a different country in the first place? Possibly trying to escape him? I tend to believe her when she said she didn't feel safe.
Yea. They way he was fussing at her and following her around. Like it was crazy seeing him ask her something. You hear her start to say something and he instantly starts talking/yelling over her. Like intimidating her is not gonna make her feel safe. And watching him made me uncomfortable. Like she isn’t cowering in fear so maybe she didn’t think he was gonna physically do anything but mentally and emotional abuse is a thing. The way she was just quickly tryna get out of there tells me something
I have been on a charlotte binge lately your videos are the absolute best. I swear every time I’m about to comment on a point you bring it up lol. You’re weird in the best way. Never stop being you Charlotte you’re the best! ❤petty potatoes
"Like a mosquito"
New favorite 😂
For those out there dealing with heartbreak from being cheated on, I want to give some words of encouragement 💛
I got cheated on A LOT when I was in high school. I remember I really liked this one guy that I would keep getting back together with because it always ended up with him cheating and he’d say exactly what I wanted to hear to get me back. Then one day, I just had enough and told him “No” to getting back together, and the surprised look on his face was PRICELESS!
So all of you, boys, girls, however you identify, YOU ARE WORTH SO MUCH MORE THAN SOMEONE WHO DOESN’T VALUE YOU! I know it can be SO hard because you have a big heart and want things to work, but they already took so much from you and didn’t respect you at all, don’t give them your power too 🥺 You’re all doing great, babes! 🌸🌸🌸
What a liar #1. Divorce her.
I love you Charlotte! Lol these videos are so funny, I love to watch I. The morning when I’m still tired. I usually can’t stand reaction videos but you are super funny and not annoying!
Your hair looks so beautiful! I love it!
I LOVE the bestie who was there for her girl being cheated on!!! Wtf what a good freaking friend hehe. Both their energies were so cute to watch. Lil queenssss 💜 that's the kind of energy every person who gets cheated on needs
Almost 20 years together. My guy and I could never hurt each other. To cheat, means you just don’t care about the other person. Just call it quits, why cheat
Congratulations on your long time together. My huz and I will be married 32 years this year.
Someone else wrote this EXACT comment up above..... seems kind of odd.... 🤔
@@lotstodo34 years this May for me and my hubby.
Charlotte the Mosquito 🦟 is the funniest thing ever🤣
The lighting is giving 😌 pink highlights would look sick on Charlotte
The first guy is so handsome and what happened to him was hurtful. I would be devastated