Such a sad story apu, in my opinion whether she forgives him or not her husband will have to face Allah for it as he had responsibilities towards his children which he did not fulfil completely. i would say tell her to forgive him because that’s the only way she will feel free ❤️
It’s easy for me to say that she should forgive him I haven’t been in her shoes but I’ll still say she does need to forgive him NOT for him but for her own Well being and mentally The sister needs to close this chapter of her life and move forward if she doesn’t forgive she is not going to get any kind of Closure Allah will deal with him not because he got a second wife but because he was unfair.Islam is beautiful we make it complicated Whether we like it or not We know our Religion allows Men to have up to 4 wives BUT there is a certain criteria that has to be met for one You have to love and treat all the wives equally which obviously in this case has not happened Life is short Forgive and forget
Even if she forgives him - her husband will have to answer to Allah swt because he gave his wealth to second wife and so caused harm to his children. This is something he is accountable to. Tell the sister that after difficult times ﷲ gives ease and peace. Poor lady. 😔
I am so sorry to hear this story. Without the first wife’s permission the marriage is not valid. Please please advise her to get a good lawyer and fight for her children’s Rights, assets. He can’t leave everything for his second wife, she must be bluffing them, not to believe everything that women said, with out any proof. Good Luck.
Assalamuallaikum sis. This is so heartbreaking. It reminds me of a metaphor my nana use to say, kar uddha naakh ar mukh heh nai salamer zukh! I made my husband listen to this as he is from Bangladesh and has seen similar situations. His saying that the sister is able to gain access to the inheritance through taking it to court starting with submitting a police case it’s a long process but the children are in title to the fathers wealth. As the husband has left the wealth under his second wife’s name she can’t be the owner due to other children. The route is uthor adikar suthre. She has to hire a good lawyer. May Allah bring back whats lawfully her childrens right back to her. Forgiving him it’s advised that she forgives him & leaves his affairs in the court of Allah.
It's really sad when the Bengali community reject girls because they are dark. It still hurts to this day. I am medium toned and I love it. You might get a fair skinned male or female but someone with a black heart. Who knows. I hate this kind of judgement. But in a way it tells you a lot about their mentality
It's just not Bengalis only its Indian and Pakistani, also Africans. Im Bengali and quite fair, my husbands Pakistani and all the wives in the inlaws house are fair and all the men are medium brown. I guess they want their offspring fair coloured.
ছরী মাইন্ড্র করবেননা !সব থেকে ভাল হল মাপ করে দেওয়া ! আল্লাহ ও আমাদের নবীর খুশীর জন্য !কবরের বাসিন্দা বরউ বেপানা !ভাল আলীম কে বলবেন তাহলে উত্তর পাবেন !দোয়া করবেন সবাই সবার জন্য ! Jzk Apu
Salaam sister, I think she should forgive him because her husband could have been pressured or abused by the second wife in signing off the wealth. Let Allah be the judge, no point in holding it against him. May Allah forgive everyone for their mistakes, ameen.
Brought tears to my eyes after hearing this story. I’m not very good at giving advice to people but all I’m going to say is anything the sister does for the sake of Allah has its own rewards. So regardless of the level of betrayal, you can forgive for the sake of Allaah and you will receive blessings. He will have to answer to Allah as he failed in his duty as a husband to treat you and your children equally. Ps I relayed this story to my husband and in his opinion the sister is right not to forgive her husband and regards to the land and properties he said that she should go the courts as she has every right over everything.
This Very young married man ran away with a girl and made her his second wife her parents took her away and married her to someone else such a big mess her life has become neither here nor their has kids with second husband whom she wanted to split away from for years
He will need to answer to Allah, even his second Mrs as she had the opportunity to do the right thing and amend his mistakes by giving the children's share. It's such a sad story. :(
That’s just this story you’ve said, in Bangladesh there are many many similar stories you can hear it’s like a tradition for them 🤷🏻♀️ they are used to doing things like this , it means nothing to them that’s why they do it 😏 people here do things now
Sister thank you for sharing this story. I'm very saddened to hear this poor sisters story. This world has many heartless and selfish men. I feel for this sister...May Allah give her and her children peace in their lives and may he remove their hardships. I'm not surprised shes not forgiven her husband. Most wives wont 💔😭😞
আপা খুব দুঃখ লাগলো জীবন অবস্থা শুনে।ও বোনের স্বামী অত বড় ধোঁকা দিয়ে মাফ চাইলেন না ,অনেক দিন অসুস্থ রয়ে মারা গেলেন।এর পরে সম্পদ থেকে বঞ্চিত করলেন ছেলে মেয়েদের কে ও স্ত্রী কে।ও তো এমনেই পার পাবেনা আল্লাহ কাছে ইসলামের নিয়ম অনুযায়ী দুই স্ত্রী সমান অধিকার দেওয়া।ও বোন যদি মন চায় তাহলে মাফ করে দিন তার স্বামী কে ।
I found out hi secretly married with out my permission then I left him and divorce him. He loves other women and gave his property under her name but he’s still life . My husband has two children but he never shared with me that’s what hurts. But now I forget him and I moved on now , that’s life.
Salam sister first time commenting sad story similar to mine I thinks she shouldn’t forgive the second time cos the children are involved here. Where are thy going live people will call them names what will thy say no dad no house
A husband can remarry if he can treat both wives equal. He did wrong by giving everything to his second wife. Where is the guy’s mum? May Allah give the first wife and her children happiness and success.
,jehetu Manus ta duniyath nay tan re maf Kori DEWA uchit,,, kono kicchur binimoye nay .. Allahr upor bisshas rakia,,Tain maf Kori Dein Jodi,,Allah kiba Khushi oia tan re aro besi shompod or Malik korta paroin,,,manus or DEWA simito Allah DEWA simahin,,,only trust Allah & forgive him...
Thank you for sharing 🤲 Shobta share kora jai except Husband 😰 so sad when men cheat there wife 😰 Sabr in sha Allah Time heals her pain🤲 DFS Cherish wipes are really good i got them as well with white leather sofa 😅
Assalamualaikum...apur story ta sunlam onek karap lagtesey unar jonno..amar motamot holo uni unar husband k map korey den atai best..everyday night a gumanur somoy sobaik map korey diye gumanu k allah besi balobashen...
Last part of the story was too sad. She needs to forgive him, because nothing will come back now! Perhaps his second wife was very clever, that's why she grab everything
Assalamu alaiykum sis This is quite sad to hear but not uncommon unfortunately. In Islam a man is permitted to marry again without the other wife(ves) permission. However, he must treat all his wives equally. That is why a man should realise the hefty responsibility on his shoulders should he have more than one wife. As regards to forgiving her husband; personally I would. Because at the end of the day Allah hears and sees everything. He knows how much pain and sadness this sister has gone through and how much she endure with sabr. And she will get rewarded for this in Sha'Allah. Allah is most Just and everyone will get as they deserve on the Day ofJudgement. So for her peace of mind and to draw a line under it all she should make the peace and don't let him control her feelings. Feelings of anger and hate and not living her life because of him. She should put all this behind her and enjoy her beautiful children she has raised. And leave the rest to Allah. May Allah grant her a beautiful patience and ease her sadness. Ameen
It is very sad 😢 I will say that the sister should forgive him and, and may Allah ease her and her children’s pain and give them all their happiness Ameen.
As sala mualaikum I think the sister is right. After a long story I realised why men did all bad things with his wife and children. He was selfish and lair . May Allah will do good judgment. I am telling the sister don’t lose strength because your children will full fill your dream. And stay sabor May Allah (swt) watch everything.
Assalamu Alaikum Apu Moni. First thanks for sharing this video. So sad news. Jee forgive kore tar ranking high takey. Ar lagi koimu forgive korbar lagi. In Shaa Allah Allah will help you and your family. 🤲🤲🙏❤
Don’t worry sister afne nicely talk koroin I like 👍 you always I watched you r vedio s But coment kori na Kita koitam ami amar kub karap lager huniya Manus oto sartopor oy kila . Afa map koriya delakka because morigesoin .Allah sobor kari re like koroin
Hes died now... but it doesn't change that the fact that ge lied to her and got married behind her back .. which is. Big betrayal in marriage Secondly he secretly gives everything away to second wifeand kids and doesn't mention it to his first wife.. to find this out after his death must be extremyl devasting and hurtful.
Huniya kubi kosto laglo.amar i boin e maf Kori dilaisoin trainer jamaire.allah y deksoin Tain kotho tuku korsoin tainor jamair lagi.iktar lagi boin e Allah r kase faiba.in sha allah.thobe I Bai e je onnay ta Tain bassainter loge korla ,Er jobab Unake Allah r kase diba.ekake bassader tho kunu dush chilo na.sobor koro apu.allah aponake reward diba.aponader Jonno onek dua rohilo balo theko 💖💖🤲🤲💖💖
Bangladeshe amon onek hajaro ma asen jara sontaner suker jonno ba sontanke baba hara na korar jonno onek omanusik nirjaton matha pete sojjo koren .protomei selute sei sob mayeder proti.ar amar khudro giane mone hoi uni jokon mara gesen unar paper sasti allahor torof theke hoye gese.duniyar je suker jonno sundori bou biye korsen se suk tini besidin vug korte parenni.allaho char den kintu chere denna.cholar pothe amader sobsomoy agulo mathai rakte hobe duniyar suk taka poysa jomijoma billding bari agulo sob khonostayi nije kheye pore ja bache okan theke sobsomoy osohai manuske dan kora valo .mrittur por sudu namaz ruza dan sadaqa agulo amader songe jabe. Ar ami grina janai seisob kolongkini ma der jara nijer suker jonno sontaner jibon prosnobiddo kore oder vobissot ondokar kore den.onek kichu like fellam vul hole khoma korben.
It is very sad story My dua Allah give her sabr and strength keep her good health for her children Allah knows everything he will deal with it She should forgive him 🤲💖
Kub dukko laglo afar story 😭 kita r korba amar opening hoylo jeheto manushta mara gesoin tanre maf kori dilayta. Because amra Muslim or dormot eta Allah koyson. R tan r children bala hoybo insah Allah. Allah tanre help korba duniyat o akerato. 🤲
@@itzghostz8049 I think i know i thought this the first time too went back to check and seen it dropped and she got that small bit back and puts it back on the handle of the hoover its the extra bit which helps u reach small places with the hoover
@@itzghostz8049 you really need to get your eyes checked out she clearly picks up that bit and holds it on her hand your just a hater keep watching where it fell off from please stop hating on this person shes an Amazing vlogger
Assalamualaykum Kub kostho hosse suniya Ay rokom onek suniyasi Allah tala sobaike bujar Towfic dan korun Ameen Ay apar Akerate Allah tala sahajjo korben R Apa apne apnar husband ke khoma kore den Jara khoma kore tader ke Allah tala onek posonddo koren Sobur koren Allah tala apnake r apnar bassader deka sunar dayitto neben Duya roylo
আপু আপনি কমা করে দেন আর বাচ্চাদের জন্য দোয়া করেন আল্লাহ আপনাকে দুনিয়া ও আখেরাতে ভাল ফল দিবেন ইনশাআল্লাহ কষ্ট করেছেন এখন আল্লাহর কাছে চেয়ে বাচ্চাদের মানুষ বানান
Of course, its so sad story and very unfair for her. I think she should forgive him without any conditions. because Allah loves who forgive and has a kind heart to others though it is very very unfair things happen to her and her children.
This is a really sad story its so true this happens alot in Bangladesh I feel sorry for the girls in Bangladesh to be honest if this was me frist of all I wouldn't go back to him cos he had made a choice not thinking of her or kids men won't change no matter what thats why its best that you get out of the picture with your self respect and she should not forgive him Allah will do his besar inn shaa Allah
I am really sorry for the sister i know its not easy for her forgive him but sake of Allah SWT forgive him please sister. one thing i would like remind u one day all of us going to stand front Allah on the day of judgment .
So sed story Boin ...Tan Jamai re maf korar kuno dorkar ny ...Onnay korsy jokon shasti pawa dorkar tar ...2 wives re to sompotti dito farto .Tarar hok nosto korlo kne ?
Same story and I leave him to Allah to deal with him later on but my situation was I couldn’t give him child. I think she should never forgive him and that’s my advice sister.
Apa , jee maf kore ar sobor kore er fol paiba, maf koreya delukka tain akherat paiba, duniya is so shot, na bojiya amra onek shomoy vol kore , Allah komashil, boin re koukka sobor korta ar maf koreya delita, jeheto bai mara gesun,(In sha Allah), Allah tanore help korba, sobor kari Allah gese onek priyo
Omg , I thought it was your hubby, after that trip to desh , all happens with Allahs will , islam does allow 4 wife’s as long as the criteria is met, which is very hard to meet, modern times it’s really not possible like how our forefathers had many wives before .. may this sister find sabre, and find it in her heart to forgive .. and what her Husband has done if done wrong he will definitely be punished , allah knows best .. it’s always the children who suffer real bad in these situations .
Heartbreaking 💔 story such injustice, about forgiveness I believe as a Muslim we should forgive and leave to ALLAH SWT he knows best and she should have faith ALLAH SWT will do good for her and the children she's been through so much ALLAH SWT is watching all she should keep her heart clean and forgive that's what ALLAH SWT likes
Assalamualaikum.What a sad story! I am feeling so sad.She's passing so hard time I know but make understand her if she forgive him it will be so good because Allah always staying with them who can forgive someone Allah is the best planer.Allah will help her.I know life is short but carry-on it's really really hard.we are making duyya for the apa.🤲🤲
Yes sister i understand bujsi apa koto kosto korsoin sacrifice korsoin MashaAllah tan Onek sobor aseh ami mone kori tain maf kori dilaw ka are aine kita koy ota dekuwka jani tain kub kostot porigesoin amora kowa sohoj but bastob Onek kotin allah santi dewka bunre are bala pot dekawka dua roilo ❤️❤️🤲🤲
It’s really sad to hear the sisters story. May allah swt give her sabr. Allah will reward her for all she’s doing. Yes it’s unfair that he left all his wealth for his second wife and not her the children. I think she should forgive him, she will gets lots of reward from allah.
Assalamualaikum so sad to hear this story. May Allah taala grant sister with lots of sabr and her ranks to be wid the sabreens. For herself, “best amongst you is best in character,”she should forgive him as she was a dutiful wife. She will be rewarded for this. It’s a test n lesson, Allah taala will ease her suffering in different ways sis. It’s easy to say but Allah taala will make her strong ameen
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Sune kub bad laglo apu allah saile apu ke onek sompotir malik korte paren in sha Allah .apu koma kore daw…Allah tar komasil bandake besi balobasen r ekti kota apu sompoti te santi nei..apnar bassader kosto kore manus koren dekben Allah……
Uff heartbreaking story may Allah give her patience and give reward for these test in duniya and Akhirah. She should forgive him bcz her husband is no more and i can feel its easy to say but very difficult to do but allah loves who forgive people also if we want forgiveness from Allah we have to forgive people who hurt us . Forgiveness is very difficult that’s why it’s more rewarding .
So sad story😥 tanor husband a wrong korsoin tain 2 ta biya korle 2jonre equal rakta asla tanor baccaintor future nosto kori gesoin But jokon tain mara gesoin i think tanre forgive koriya dewa bala because boin apne duniyat kosto korba apnar baccain boro oiba earning korba apnar kosto ses oijibo but tain to mara gesoin apne jodi forgive na koroin tain to allahr kase maf paita na tanor azab akbare akhirat porjonto roibo amrar diniyar kosto kuntau nay . Apne kosto kori baccain manush korba allahy er return gift apnare diba allahy apnare r apnar baccaintore nek hayat dewkka. Sundor kori maybe koitam parsi na mistake oile maf korba🙏
Feel sorry for that woman. There's nothing wrong with her being darker skinned. If she was a guy from the background she came from, she would have had no problem in finding a wife, but because she was a dark female she found it hard to find a husband. For some reason in South Asian countries they associate fair skin with beauty. Strange because in the west they all want to get tanned! Her husband who was poor at the time only agreed to marry her for his own benefit, basically used her as a stepping stone to increase opportunities in life. Similar to how a dark skinned female understands that they may find it hard to find a life partner, I'm sure he felt that being a broke male would mean no one would be interested in marrying him.. Marrying her meant opening doors that would have otherwise remained closed bcause he didnt have money. So that he could move abroad to the west to improve his earning potential, her father sold some of his assets to support him financially. Her father would have done this thinking it was for his daughter too because she was married to him. His mother was involved too as she said to her dad that they'll accept his daughter if he could send her son abroad. That's a transaction. Similar to how some people marry someone just for a British citizenship etc. Once her husband could stand on his own two feet and had money, he gained self esteem to feel as though he could be with a more attractive woman (fair skinned) and so that's what he did secretly. He was never attracted to his first wife because she was dark (his words) and never really loved her. If he did he would have left some of his wealth to her and their children. She took care of him when he was sick; I wouldn't be surprised if she was the one who did the house chores like a maid in the shared household. Also I'm stunned at how the second wife agreed to marrying a man who already had a family. I wonder if she was aware of this when they both married. I also wonder how the first wife's children felt, seeing their father show more love and attention to his new family and neglect them. This would undoubtedly impact them negatively for the rest of their life. "A woman's loyalty is tested when her man has nothing. A man's loyalty is tested when he has everything." ...Clearly he was never a man of integrity as he wasn't loyal.
Salaam. Jzk for sharing a story with us. It’s best to forgive her husbands his in Allah’s hand AllAh is just he know all thing and everything. Forgiving her husbands will make her feel good she will be more relax by not holding on to all anger she can move on
I think she made a very good decision not to forgive him. She made mistake when she left home . She shouldn't left home , she should kicked them out that time . Now if she get good lawyer she have very much chance to get her children property shere back. Good luck.
Assalamualikum affa so sad story I feel sorry for her 😢 but she should forgive him allah will give his punishment allah will give her reward allah bless her with her children
Our religion teaches us to forgive others as we ourselves are sinners and will be begging Allah for forgiveness for the day of Judgement. When a man takes on multiple wives he has to provide for them equally. He will have to answer to Allah for not fulfilling his duties towards her and his children, there is no ecaspe for him on the day of Judgement and he will be punished accordingly. May Allah make it easy for her and her children.
Salam sister It's a sad story May Allah bless and help her. I would say she should forget and forgive him, leave it to Allah. Allah knows best but she should get her right for her children as our Islamic way right. Insha'Allah Allah will help her and her children. Life is too short and Allah always likes people who forgive and have patience. I hope sister I explained I'm not that good in writing. Always remember Allah is there for everyone help.
Such a sad story! She should forgive him and leave the rest up to Allah! Allah says he who does not forgive someone I will not forgive them on the day of judgment!
Assalamu Alikum Affa. It was very hard 4 me 2 even listen 2 this sisters heart breaking story due 2 what pain she has been through or experienced. Its un imaginable 2 even feel what she feels at this point. My advise would b affa that always remember we r humans nd this world is just a temporary play ground. And Allah swt has created us with emotions so she has every rights 2 feel upset, down, worried u name it nd its there we have it in us. However way affa's husband has caused her pain, nd made her live with conflict even though his dead still left her in tears nd these moments are haunting inside affa. Allah has already punished the man with illness but the man refused nd failed to comply his responsibilty nd carried on neglecting his wife nd kids so Allah has taken away his life in duniya nd only Allah swt knows whats in for this guys akhirah. So affa if u forgive him Allah will reward u in this world nd after. Allah has punished him already but as a wife I believe if u forgive him Allah will show ur husband that look what u did 2 ur wife but she still forgave u. Ur husband will have no words in return 2 say. And Affa always rely on Allah he has better plans he swt knows whats best 4 us. If u need any financial help I will help u 2 what I can. But just believe in Allah.🙂 Stay safe n blessed.
I can imagine how hard it must of been for this sister n how hurt she must be. Best to forgive her husband n leave everything in the hands of Allah. Allah is not unjust
Such a sad story apu, in my opinion whether she forgives him or not her husband will have to face Allah for it as he had responsibilities towards his children which he did not fulfil completely. i would say tell her to forgive him because that’s the only way she will feel free ❤️
It’s easy for me to say that she should forgive him I haven’t been in her shoes but I’ll still say she does need to forgive him NOT for him but for her own Well being and mentally The sister needs to close this chapter of her life and move forward if she doesn’t forgive she is not going to get any kind of Closure
Allah will deal with him not because he got a second wife but because he was unfair.Islam is beautiful we make it complicated Whether we like it or not We know our Religion allows Men to have up to 4 wives BUT there is a certain criteria that has to be met for one You have to love and treat all the wives equally which obviously in this case has not happened
Life is short Forgive and forget
Even if she forgives him - her husband will have to answer to Allah swt because he gave his wealth to second wife and so caused harm to his children. This is something he is accountable to. Tell the sister that after difficult times ﷲ gives ease and peace. Poor lady. 😔
I am so sorry to hear this story. Without the first wife’s permission the marriage is not valid. Please please advise her to get a good lawyer and fight for her children’s Rights, assets. He can’t leave everything for his second wife, she must be bluffing them, not to believe everything that women said, with out any proof. Good Luck.
Assalamuallaikum sis. This is so heartbreaking. It reminds me of a metaphor my nana use to say, kar uddha naakh ar mukh heh nai salamer zukh! I made my husband listen to this as he is from Bangladesh and has seen similar situations. His saying that the sister is able to gain access to the inheritance through taking it to court starting with submitting a police case it’s a long process but the children are in title to the fathers wealth. As the husband has left the wealth under his second wife’s name she can’t be the owner due to other children. The route is uthor adikar suthre. She has to hire a good lawyer. May Allah bring back whats lawfully her childrens right back to her.
Forgiving him it’s advised that she forgives him & leaves his affairs in the court of Allah.
I feel so sad for 😞for the sister,but I think she should forgive him allah will reward her more in this duniya and akhirah
Of course right
Allah loves forgive so she should forgive him, Allah will give her reward in sha Allah. 🙏
Some people create so much problems and difficulties with the second wife and some are more relaxed I know it’s a very difficult situation too,
It's really sad when the Bengali community reject girls because they are dark. It still hurts to this day. I am medium toned and I love it. You might get a fair skinned male or female but someone with a black heart. Who knows. I hate this kind of judgement. But in a way it tells you a lot about their mentality
True sis its the reality and its very sad 😔 may Allah give us right knowledge
It's just not Bengalis only its Indian and Pakistani, also Africans. Im Bengali and quite fair, my husbands Pakistani and all the wives in the inlaws house are fair and all the men are medium brown. I guess they want their offspring fair coloured.
ছরী মাইন্ড্র করবেননা !সব থেকে ভাল হল মাপ করে দেওয়া ! আল্লাহ ও আমাদের নবীর খুশীর জন্য !কবরের বাসিন্দা বরউ বেপানা !ভাল আলীম কে বলবেন তাহলে উত্তর পাবেন !দোয়া করবেন সবাই সবার জন্য ! Jzk Apu
It was a sad story sister but Allah knows everything very well she should forgive him. Allah is the best judge.
It’s very sad May Allah swt reward her for her hardship, she should forgive him for sake of Allah swt, but it’s hard
Salaam sister, I think she should forgive him because her husband could have been pressured or abused by the second wife in signing off the wealth. Let Allah be the judge, no point in holding it against him. May Allah forgive everyone for their mistakes, ameen.
Brought tears to my eyes after hearing this story. I’m not very good at giving advice to people but all I’m going to say is anything the sister does for the sake of Allah has its own rewards. So regardless of the level of betrayal, you can forgive for the sake of Allaah and you will receive blessings. He will have to answer to Allah as he failed in his duty as a husband to treat you and your children equally. Ps I relayed this story to my husband and in his opinion the sister is right not to forgive her husband and regards to the land and properties he said that she should go the courts as she has every right over everything.
This Very young married man ran away with a girl and made her his second wife her parents took her away and married her to someone else such a big mess her life has become neither here nor their has kids with second husband whom she wanted to split away from for years
Assalamualaikum tomake aar amar oi shundor moner odhikari strong apuke o💜 Allah is the best story writer jaa onar jibone ghoteche shob oporwalar likha aar onar taqdir Allah apur aar onar bachchadee jonno jaa plan korechilen ota hoytho apur shopner cheye o better chilo karon jaa ghote taa mongol er jonno ghote shob kichur pechone ekta valo reason thake in sha Allah onader jibone hoytho onek onek valo kichu opekkha korche amio pran theke duaa kori apur jibone jothota koshto peyechen tar cheye onek onek beshi shukh jeno Allah daan koren🤲🏼 aar bon Allah khomaprarti noy khomashil bekthi der onek pochondo koren duaa kori Allah tomar husband ke khoma korar tawfiq tomake daan koren
Tomar jonno aar tomar bachchder jonno shob shomoy onek duaa thakbe apu tomake aaro strong baniye tulun aar shundor and sustho jibon daan korun ameen 💜💛🤲🏼
Again I said strongly please don't forgive him cause without first wife permission the second marriage totally illegal
I've heard people say this. It's that actually correct though? What's the ruling on this with actual references to hadith and sunnah thanks?
How can one become so heartless against one's own family and children. That I cannot understand.😔
He will need to answer to Allah, even his second Mrs as she had the opportunity to do the right thing and amend his mistakes by giving the children's share. It's such a sad story. :(
That’s just this story you’ve said, in Bangladesh there are many many similar stories you can hear it’s like a tradition for them 🤷🏻♀️ they are used to doing things like this , it means nothing to them that’s why they do it 😏 people here do things now
Sister thank you for sharing this story. I'm very saddened to hear this poor sisters story. This world has many heartless and selfish men. I feel for this sister...May Allah give her and her children peace in their lives and may he remove their hardships. I'm not surprised shes not forgiven her husband. Most wives wont 💔😭😞
Please tell me where you got those 2 wall frames from? Chrome ones next to the clock? So nice!
Thanks sis, those are mirror frames. I got them sometime back from ebay
Feel so sad for her after hearing the story 😢
আপা খুব দুঃখ লাগলো জীবন অবস্থা শুনে।ও বোনের স্বামী অত বড় ধোঁকা দিয়ে মাফ চাইলেন না ,অনেক দিন অসুস্থ রয়ে মারা গেলেন।এর পরে সম্পদ থেকে বঞ্চিত করলেন ছেলে মেয়েদের কে ও স্ত্রী কে।ও তো এমনেই পার পাবেনা আল্লাহ কাছে ইসলামের নিয়ম অনুযায়ী দুই স্ত্রী সমান অধিকার দেওয়া।ও বোন যদি মন চায় তাহলে মাফ করে দিন তার স্বামী কে ।
I found out hi secretly married with out my permission then I left him and divorce him. He loves other women and gave his property under her name but he’s still life . My husband has two children but he never shared with me that’s what hurts. But now I forget him and I moved on now , that’s life.
Salam sister first time commenting sad story similar to mine I thinks she shouldn’t forgive the second time cos the children are involved here. Where are thy going live people will call them names what will thy say no dad no house
Very sad sis but forgive him. Allah love people who can forgive other. What ever he did he has to answer Allah. May Allah give sabr to u ameem
Ameen
A husband can remarry if he can treat both wives equal. He did wrong by giving everything to his second wife. Where is the guy’s mum? May Allah give the first wife and her children happiness and success.
,jehetu Manus ta duniyath nay tan re maf Kori DEWA uchit,,, kono kicchur binimoye nay .. Allahr upor bisshas rakia,,Tain maf Kori Dein Jodi,,Allah kiba Khushi oia tan re aro besi shompod or Malik korta paroin,,,manus or DEWA simito Allah DEWA simahin,,,only trust Allah & forgive him...
Thank you for sharing 🤲 Shobta share kora jai except Husband 😰 so sad when men cheat there wife 😰 Sabr in sha Allah Time heals her pain🤲 DFS Cherish wipes are really good i got them as well with white leather sofa 😅
Assalamualaikum...apur story ta sunlam onek karap lagtesey unar jonno..amar motamot holo uni unar husband k map korey den atai best..everyday night a gumanur somoy sobaik map korey diye gumanu k allah besi balobashen...
Last part of the story was too sad. She needs to forgive him, because nothing will come back now! Perhaps his second wife was very clever, that's why she grab everything
Assalamu alaiykum sis
This is quite sad to hear but not uncommon unfortunately. In Islam a man is permitted to marry again without the other wife(ves) permission. However, he must treat all his wives equally. That is why a man should realise the hefty responsibility on his shoulders should he have more than one wife. As regards to forgiving her husband; personally I would. Because at the end of the day Allah hears and sees everything. He knows how much pain and sadness this sister has gone through and how much she endure with sabr. And she will get rewarded for this in Sha'Allah. Allah is most Just and everyone will get as they deserve on the Day ofJudgement. So for her peace of mind and to draw a line under it all she should make the peace and don't let him control her feelings. Feelings of anger and hate and not living her life because of him. She should put all this behind her and enjoy her beautiful children she has raised. And leave the rest to Allah. May Allah grant her a beautiful patience and ease her sadness. Ameen
Thanks so much sis for such a beautiful message 💗
She is right sister.
It is very sad 😢 I will say that the sister should forgive him and, and may Allah ease her and her children’s pain and give them all their happiness Ameen.
As sala mualaikum
I think the sister is right. After a long story I realised why men did all bad things with his wife and children. He was selfish and lair . May Allah will do good judgment. I am telling the sister don’t lose strength because your children will full fill your dream. And stay sabor May Allah (swt) watch everything.
Assalamu Alaikum Apu Moni. First thanks for sharing this video. So sad news. Jee forgive kore tar ranking high takey. Ar lagi koimu forgive korbar lagi. In Shaa Allah Allah will help you and your family. 🤲🤲🙏❤
I feel so sad for sister. Allah knows the best everything.
Sad story but why wouldn’t you cut out the part where the mouse ran out from under the sofa
Lol that wasn't a mouse sis, it was a small part of the hoover that was attached slipped. I don't have mice in my flat 😔
Lol random but I didn’t notice
Don’t worry sister afne nicely talk koroin
I like 👍 you always I watched you r vedio s
But coment kori na
Kita koitam ami amar kub karap lager huniya
Manus oto sartopor oy kila
. Afa map koriya delakka because morigesoin
.Allah sobor kari re like koroin
Hes died now... but it doesn't change that the fact that ge lied to her and got married behind her back .. which is. Big betrayal in marriage
Secondly he secretly gives everything away to second wifeand kids and doesn't mention it to his first wife.. to find this out after his death must be extremyl devasting and hurtful.
Huniya kubi kosto laglo.amar i boin e maf Kori dilaisoin trainer jamaire.allah y deksoin Tain kotho tuku korsoin tainor jamair lagi.iktar lagi boin e Allah r kase faiba.in sha allah.thobe I Bai e je onnay ta Tain bassainter loge korla ,Er jobab Unake Allah r kase diba.ekake bassader tho kunu dush chilo na.sobor koro apu.allah aponake reward diba.aponader Jonno onek dua rohilo balo theko 💖💖🤲🤲💖💖
I'm sure ar 2.48 I saw a mice cone out it ran didn't you notice screenshot it n look carefully
It's my hover attachment that fell off. 😆
Bangladeshe amon onek hajaro ma asen jara sontaner suker jonno ba sontanke baba hara na korar jonno onek omanusik nirjaton matha pete sojjo koren .protomei selute sei sob mayeder proti.ar amar khudro giane mone hoi uni jokon mara gesen unar paper sasti allahor torof theke hoye gese.duniyar je suker jonno sundori bou biye korsen se suk tini besidin vug korte parenni.allaho char den kintu chere denna.cholar pothe amader sobsomoy agulo mathai rakte hobe duniyar suk taka poysa jomijoma billding bari agulo sob khonostayi nije kheye pore ja bache okan theke sobsomoy osohai manuske dan kora valo .mrittur por sudu namaz ruza dan sadaqa agulo amader songe jabe. Ar ami grina janai seisob kolongkini ma der jara nijer suker jonno sontaner jibon prosnobiddo kore oder vobissot ondokar kore den.onek kichu like fellam vul hole khoma korben.
Thik bolsen bhaiya
It is very sad story
My dua Allah give her sabr and strength keep her good health for her children
Allah knows everything he will deal with it
She should forgive him
🤲💖
Kub dukko laglo afar story 😭 kita r korba amar opening hoylo jeheto manushta mara gesoin tanre maf kori dilayta. Because amra Muslim or dormot eta Allah koyson. R tan r children bala hoybo insah Allah. Allah tanre help korba duniyat o akerato. 🤲
Mmmmm I can understand her situations very very sad 😥😢
She is in her right if she feels hurt and upset with All this...to not leave the dabi
2:48 Not sure if you noticed but there was a black rat the ran on the left
Look carefully before making this type comment it wasnt a rat it was the bit of the hoover that dropped off
@@princessmas8167 slow the video down and look
@@itzghostz8049 I think i know i thought this the first time too went back to check and seen it dropped and she got that small bit back and puts it back on the handle of the hoover its the extra bit which helps u reach small places with the hoover
@@princessmas8167 slow it down 0.25x u can see the way it moves and it's a rat
@@itzghostz8049 you really need to get your eyes checked out she clearly picks up that bit and holds it on her hand your just a hater keep watching where it fell off from please stop hating on this person shes an Amazing vlogger
Assalamualaykum
Kub kostho hosse suniya
Ay rokom onek suniyasi
Allah tala sobaike bujar Towfic dan korun Ameen
Ay apar Akerate Allah tala sahajjo korben
R Apa apne apnar husband ke khoma kore den
Jara khoma kore tader ke Allah tala onek posonddo koren
Sobur koren
Allah tala apnake r apnar bassader deka sunar dayitto neben
Duya roylo
আপু আপনি কমা করে দেন আর বাচ্চাদের জন্য দোয়া করেন আল্লাহ আপনাকে দুনিয়া ও আখেরাতে ভাল ফল দিবেন ইনশাআল্লাহ কষ্ট করেছেন এখন আল্লাহর কাছে চেয়ে বাচ্চাদের মানুষ বানান
Of course, its so sad story and very unfair for her. I think she should forgive him without any conditions. because Allah loves who forgive and has a kind heart to others though it is very very unfair things happen to her and her children.
He died now left her with tears and nothing...
May ,Allah may it easy on her...
This is a really sad story its so true this happens alot in Bangladesh I feel sorry for the girls in Bangladesh to be honest if this was me frist of all I wouldn't go back to him cos he had made a choice not thinking of her or kids men won't change no matter what thats why its best that you get out of the picture with your self respect and she should not forgive him Allah will do his besar inn shaa Allah
Apu buntake bolun mafkore dewarjonno allah kiamoterdin wnar gunake maf korediben.
It’s really sad story, also I feel so sorry for her,my opinion she should forgive him.all we know he already past way,allah will judge him anyway.
So sorry to hear that and may Allah swt give us the good understanding of Iman and fear the day of judgment day
Affa was this a mouse jump from sofa when u was hooving
Lol no afa it was my hover attachment that fell off and slid 🤣
So sad sis😢may Allah make everything easy for the sister 🙏🏼
Ameen summa ameen 💖❣🤲🏻
Na go apa tain er jamai re muf kora ta tik oitho ny..tain er jamai ee je dukabaji korcoin tain er loge,
I am really sorry for the sister i know its not easy for her forgive him but sake of Allah SWT forgive him please sister. one thing i would like remind u one day all of us going to stand front Allah on the day of judgment .
So sed story Boin ...Tan Jamai re maf korar kuno dorkar ny ...Onnay korsy jokon shasti pawa dorkar tar ...2 wives re to sompotti dito farto .Tarar hok nosto korlo kne ?
Same story and I leave him to Allah to deal with him later on but my situation was I couldn’t give him child. I think she should never forgive him and that’s my advice sister.
Sorry to hear that you had to experience such situation 😔. May Allah give you the strength to pick yourself up an move on for the sake of Allah 🥰🥰
@@BritishBangladeshiHomemaker Sister it’s being two years and I divorce him and I moved on with my life now.
That's great sis may Allah reward you with strength
Afa afna aga tan ra maf korson.akono afna tanra maf koreya dalaka.tinto mara gaso.allaha afnara reward diba insha allaha.shobe manush shok payna
She is right of course what he did is very bad I never gonna forgive this kind of man
আপু আপনার কথা গুলো শুনে অনেক খারাপ লাগলো পুরো ভিডিও দেখে লাইক দিয়ে দিলাম সাথে থাকবেন ধন্যবাদ আপু ।
Apa , jee maf kore ar sobor kore er fol paiba, maf koreya delukka tain akherat paiba, duniya is so shot, na bojiya amra onek shomoy vol kore , Allah komashil, boin re koukka sobor korta ar maf koreya delita, jeheto bai mara gesun,(In sha Allah), Allah tanore help korba, sobor kari Allah gese onek priyo
The children have right on their dad’s property and she has right to fight for that, he done wrong for giving everything to the second wife
Omg , I thought it was your hubby, after that trip to desh , all happens with Allahs will , islam does allow 4 wife’s as long as the criteria is met, which is very hard to meet, modern times it’s really not possible like how our forefathers had many wives before .. may this sister find sabre, and find it in her heart to forgive .. and what her Husband has done if done wrong he will definitely be punished , allah knows best .. it’s always the children who suffer real bad in these situations .
Heartbreaking 💔 story such injustice, about forgiveness I believe as a Muslim we should forgive and leave to ALLAH SWT he knows best and she should have faith ALLAH SWT will do good for her and the children she's been through so much ALLAH SWT is watching all she should keep her heart clean and forgive that's what ALLAH SWT likes
Assalamualaikum.What a sad story! I am feeling so sad.She's passing so hard time I know but make understand her if she forgive him it will be so good because Allah always staying with them who can forgive someone Allah is the best planer.Allah will help her.I know life is short but carry-on it's really really hard.we are making duyya for the apa.🤲🤲
Well said sis 👏
Assalamu alaikum Apu. Onek sundor video mashallaha.darun
Yes sister i understand bujsi apa koto kosto korsoin sacrifice korsoin MashaAllah tan Onek sobor aseh ami mone kori tain maf kori dilaw ka are aine kita koy ota dekuwka jani tain kub kostot porigesoin amora kowa sohoj but bastob Onek kotin allah santi dewka bunre are bala pot dekawka dua roilo ❤️❤️🤲🤲
Ameen
Very unfair man sad story these man are extremely unfortunate
Very sad story💔 I'm really sorry for her may Allah bless the sister and her children in'sha'Allah
It’s really sad to hear the sisters story. May allah swt give her sabr. Allah will reward her for all she’s doing. Yes it’s unfair that he left all his wealth for his second wife and not her the children. I think she should forgive him, she will gets lots of reward from allah.
Thik koisoin afa
Assalamualaikum so sad to hear this story. May Allah taala grant sister with lots of sabr and her ranks to be wid the sabreens. For herself, “best amongst you is best in character,”she should forgive him as she was a dutiful wife. She will be rewarded for this. It’s a test n lesson, Allah taala will ease her suffering in different ways sis. It’s easy to say but Allah taala will make her strong ameen
Tomar ai kotha gulo sune khub kosto laglo. Amar meye r porikka. Tomar video thik moto dekte parina.
Yaa Allah 🤲
Such so sad story! Apu may Allah bless the sister and make everything easy for her Amin 🤲❤
Ameen
Ameen ❤️
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Wow another super upload. I am not sure what magic you use when creating your uploads bet it definitely works as after watching it you want to watch more. Fantastic share.
Sune kub bad laglo apu allah saile apu ke onek sompotir malik korte paren in sha Allah .apu koma kore daw…Allah tar komasil bandake besi balobasen r ekti kota apu sompoti te santi nei..apnar bassader kosto kore manus koren dekben Allah……
Ameen
Uff heartbreaking story may Allah give her patience and give reward for these test in duniya and Akhirah. She should forgive him bcz her husband is no more and i can feel its easy to say but very difficult to do but allah loves who forgive people also if we want forgiveness from Allah we have to forgive people who hurt us . Forgiveness is very difficult that’s why it’s more rewarding .
Well said sis
So sad story😥 tanor husband a wrong korsoin tain 2 ta biya korle 2jonre equal rakta asla tanor baccaintor future nosto kori gesoin But jokon tain mara gesoin i think tanre forgive koriya dewa bala because boin apne duniyat kosto korba apnar baccain boro oiba earning korba apnar kosto ses oijibo but tain to mara gesoin apne jodi forgive na koroin tain to allahr kase maf paita na tanor azab akbare akhirat porjonto roibo amrar diniyar kosto kuntau nay . Apne kosto kori baccain manush korba allahy er return gift apnare diba allahy apnare r apnar baccaintore nek hayat dewkka. Sundor kori maybe koitam parsi na mistake oile maf korba🙏
Feel sorry for that woman. There's nothing wrong with her being darker skinned. If she was a guy from the background she came from, she would have had no problem in finding a wife, but because she was a dark female she found it hard to find a husband. For some reason in South Asian countries they associate fair skin with beauty. Strange because in the west they all want to get tanned!
Her husband who was poor at the time only agreed to marry her for his own benefit, basically used her as a stepping stone to increase opportunities in life.
Similar to how a dark skinned female understands that they may find it hard to find a life partner, I'm sure he felt that being a broke male would mean no one would be interested in marrying him..
Marrying her meant opening doors that would have otherwise remained closed bcause he didnt have money. So that he could move abroad to the west to improve his earning potential, her father sold some of his assets to support him financially. Her father would have done this thinking it was for his daughter too because she was married to him.
His mother was involved too as she said to her dad that they'll accept his daughter if he could send her son abroad. That's a transaction. Similar to how some people marry someone just for a British citizenship etc.
Once her husband could stand on his own two feet and had money, he gained self esteem to feel as though he could be with a more attractive woman (fair skinned) and so that's what he did secretly. He was never attracted to his first wife because she was dark (his words) and never really loved her. If he did he would have left some of his wealth to her and their children. She took care of him when he was sick; I wouldn't be surprised if she was the one who did the house chores like a maid in the shared household. Also I'm stunned at how the second wife agreed to marrying a man who already had a family. I wonder if she was aware of this when they both married.
I also wonder how the first wife's children felt, seeing their father show more love and attention to his new family and neglect them. This would undoubtedly impact them negatively for the rest of their life.
"A woman's loyalty is tested when her man has nothing. A man's loyalty is tested when he has everything."
...Clearly he was never a man of integrity as he wasn't loyal.
It's so sad on her. She should do a case they kid's should get something aswell
Amr husband o amr loge change oigesoin onek kosto or so ami buji tarar kunta jay na tumi tarare maf na korle so tarare maf korar dorkar nay
apu oe apu kata tak doro basa roili 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
Salaam. Jzk for sharing a story with us. It’s best to forgive her husbands his in Allah’s hand AllAh is just he know all thing and everything. Forgiving her husbands will make her feel good she will be more relax by not holding on to all anger she can move on
I think she made a very good decision not to forgive him. She made mistake when she left home . She shouldn't left home , she should kicked them out that time . Now if she get good lawyer she have very much chance to get her children property shere back. Good luck.
Assalamualikum affa so sad story I feel sorry for her 😢 but she should forgive him allah will give his punishment allah will give her reward allah bless her with her children
Ameen 🤲
আল্লাহ উনাকে উত্তম জাযা দেওকা !
You are right sister never mercy him
Our religion teaches us to forgive others as we ourselves are sinners and will be begging Allah for forgiveness for the day of Judgement. When a man takes on multiple wives he has to provide for them equally. He will have to answer to Allah for not fulfilling his duties towards her and his children, there is no ecaspe for him on the day of Judgement and he will be punished accordingly. May Allah make it easy for her and her children.
Well said 👏
Asalamualaikum affa ame hamida 🤣 Mashoallah & very sad video 😭🤲
Salam sister
It's a sad story May Allah bless and help her. I would say she should forget and forgive him, leave it to Allah. Allah knows best but she should get her right for her children as our Islamic way right. Insha'Allah Allah will help her and her children. Life is too short and Allah always likes people who forgive and have patience. I hope sister I explained I'm not that good in writing. Always remember Allah is there for everyone help.
Such a sad story! She should forgive him and leave the rest up to Allah! Allah says he who does not forgive someone I will not forgive them on the day of judgment!
Such a sad story I have no words for my dear sister may allah give her sabr. And he knows the best.
Sounds like he's replaced her and kids with someone else....
No interest in her and kids anymore..
Assalamu Alikum Affa. It was very hard 4 me 2 even listen 2 this sisters heart breaking story due 2 what pain she has been through or experienced. Its un imaginable 2 even feel what she feels at this point. My advise would b affa that always remember we r humans nd this world is just a temporary play ground. And Allah swt has created us with emotions so she has every rights 2 feel upset, down, worried u name it nd its there we have it in us. However way affa's husband has caused her pain, nd made her live with conflict even though his dead still left her in tears nd these moments are haunting inside affa. Allah has already punished the man with illness but the man refused nd failed to comply his responsibilty nd carried on neglecting his wife nd kids so Allah has taken away his life in duniya nd only Allah swt knows whats in for this guys akhirah. So affa if u forgive him Allah will reward u in this world nd after. Allah has punished him already but as a wife I believe if u forgive him Allah will show ur husband that look what u did 2 ur wife but she still forgave u. Ur husband will have no words in return 2 say. And Affa always rely on Allah he has better plans he swt knows whats best 4 us. If u need any financial help I will help u 2 what I can. But just believe in Allah.🙂 Stay safe n blessed.
apu sad doro basa roili ae apu gone doro basa roili 🍚🥘🥘💕😂😂🥗👧👦😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I can imagine how hard it must of been for this sister n how hurt she must be.
Best to forgive her husband n leave everything in the hands of Allah. Allah is not unjust
She should marry someone if other person love her as she is . Never forgive that cheater . Allah'r kase bichar chan . Man used her as ladder .
আপু আমি সব সময় আপনার ব্লক দেখি।আমি মৌলভীবাজারি
Hello apu thanks for watching