I heard this song first on my cousin when i was 9 and I don’t know the title, I just remembered the “driving down the highway, cold dark and dead, it’s deceiving ” lyrics. I’m 15 now and that lyrics just happened to cross my mind and searched it on UA-cam, now I found the song and it’s still beautiful as the first time I heard it.
If you're always with that special someone, you'll never know how strong your love for each other is when you're apart 3 if you love each other, you'll both find a way to make things work. No ones right for anyone, it's all about how they make things work and how you get through the good and bad times..
Distance is not the matter , mental strength , passion n strong trust between each other can do everything, so believe on yourself and believe the connection.
Tau secondhand serenade ini dari mantan pacar, dia yg aku kira bakalan jadi suamiku karena kita pacaran cukup lama, ternyata dia selingkuh. hehe. akhirnya saya menikah dgn yg lain tapi lagu ini tetep jadi kenangan hehe. lagu jaman masih sma kelas 2an.
Heartbreak is truly one of the most painful things to go through. You ask yourself so many questions, and your heart aches constantly. But true love..thats something special. And EVERYONE finds there hero
It doesn't matter how bad the distance is.... distance does not ruin the relationship. Doubts do. I don't care how far me and my other half are... this is will never change the way I feel about them. And the fact tht we will someday see eachother in the future is the one thing tht still keeps me alive. :}
This song is exactly what I'm going through. My boyfriend is 1300 miles away for 4 months, 2 months down already but this is so damn hard. I try to stay strong but these days I can barely go through one day without crying my heart out. We've been together 4 years and seen each other every week of those years. I miss you so much baby.. Can't wait to be in your arms again.
The distance between us isn't physical. It's only in our minds. For some reason, we hate each other, but love each other too. I said I'm sorry. When will you?
Long distance relationships are indeed the worst. But if you two are really tht devoted to each other.. You'll make it work. And although in many relationships the distance is the biggest prob.... It is also the biggest test. If you can overcome it then tht will just show how strong your love really is.
This song...I listened to this tonight as I leave my world back in Massachusetts...most people think long distance is easy...but for me, leaving my fiancée to go back home is the hardest most gut wrenching sorrow I'll know. A month isn't enough time to spend with your soulmate...just keep hoping baby. Hold on for two more years..I love you brookieboo.
i swear im sorry.. please dont hate me too. i llove this song! well actually i love secondhand serenade in general. welcome to my list of favorite artists!
same happened to me dude, like, a few days ago.. it sucks but i totally agree with you, it's unhealthy to stress over distance. better to be happy with what you have now :) glad to hear you're okay though!
I've been with mine for 11 months now. Fell in love online, so it's always nice to see how others are in similar situations. Long distance is only a test to see how far love can go.
I hate being away with you..what should I do we so far in each other...Why miss the moment being in your arms.....I feel sad when I think the distance between us
if youre in a long distance relationship like i recently was and you dont want it to end anytime soon... dont be like me... i can relate to this song so much... because i hated myself whenever i wasnt there for her... to comfort her and talk to her... now shes gone... what we had no longer exists... i just wish i wouldve spent a little more time with her... now that shes left me.. i dont know what to do with my life anymore
Secondhand Serenade is always there for me when I cry , they helped me let go of you and all the misery you put me though . Thank God i have this band to help me though , or I'd still be crying over you . : / .
She lives 3 hours away. I've seen her 5 days over the course of one month. I'd call myself lucky compared to some of you. Distance is a sucky thing, but it doesn't matter. If you really love someone, you'll go through anything for them. I love her with all my heart, I think she's the one. 11.23.12
my boyfriend lives 2 hours away as well. and it is hard. I'm seeing him thursday for the first time in a month. We both work full time jobs so its really difficult but I'm just glad I'll be with him for his birthday on thursday :) I know it's hard, but if you really love the person, they're worth it.
I'm currently dating someone 500 miles away from me, a 16 hour car ride. I see him once a year. Long distance relationships are so hard. Him and I haven't been doubtful about it. Everyday we talk about our day the future. I miss him so much. Anyone else in a LDR, don't lose hope, faith, never stop trying, if you do, it won't work. I have 3 years until I have no more distance with him. And in 1 year, we'll see each other again, only for a month. But, don't ever give up. Never give up.
my boyfriend and i travel alot. were both in bands and well... we called each other every day for the past 6 months and i got a call last Wednesday and we broke it off after 4 years because of the distance... this was his song to me and it makes me cry so hard cuz i thought i really loved him,we grew up together and hes my best friend and now because of distance i lost one of the best things in my life
Let me tell you a quick story. When I was in 5th Grade I had a bff called Hayley, I loved her so much. A sad thing about her was that her Dad abused her. Her mum died when she was a baby. Anyway. Her Dad found a new girlfriend who lived in Scotland but was visiting London, So Hayley had to move to her new 'mum's house miles away from me. She left me... I don't even know if she is alive; I miss her so much. Since she left me everyone has started picking on me, for hanging with her, It's been a rough few years.. I have actually suffered with depression because I need her so much, (I can't really describe that) If I could see her one more time I'd tell her how amazing she was ):
I met my boyfriend in May on 2012. We started dating on September 19th. But he lives 806 miles away. And ever since he has been my best friend. I love him more than anything. And one day I will meet him. And it will be amazing. To all the other LDR out there, keep your head up. Things will get better
I was with you for long long time, 2 years and then we dont even know who's each other, another 2 more years have passed, when I see you I can feel my heart in my throath, I still love you? I dont know, maybe it doesnt matter anymore for you, you'll probably pass by this song we usually listen to, and read this comment, I dont even know why I'm writing those things, have a nice day, wonderful song (:
this song kills me everytime... I miss that person everyday of my life which kills my heart and my emotions.... I feel so stupid to say good bye...this is my life right here....
I can't stop crying. I'm in a long distance relationship and he's 10,000 kilometers away from me. I don't know what to do without him, I miss him so much every day
Hearing this for the first time i heard this song and balling my eyes out. In love with a guy in Chicago and there's not much I can do in Detroit. Dating someone else to feel the void it kills me innside but he's so far away and i have to gradduate and he has to pay off his debt before we can finally be together. :'(
I know you think I probably hate you now, I dont i promise 😔 I'm sorry " i hate myself when im away from you i swear im sorry please dont hate me too!" I still love you 😢❤️
This reminds me of a guy that tried getting me to be his even though I knew in my heart I should be with the one who I love and finally I am... Epic video
this describes how i feel exactly! i moved to florida for school and my bf stayed in ohio and i miss him like crazy. i love him so much and i hate that i left
My girlfriend told me to listen to this for her. She's lucky I love her because now I have to blast Metallica and Slayer all night to make up for this shit.
i'm sick of hearing that guys are the bad guys. we just dont tell anybody, because we don't want to hurt the girls we love. even when you tell them they are beautiful every day, they don't think you care enough
I still miss you. You made it clear that you don't want to be friends with me any longer. I try to question you why, but you just ignore me and yell at me. It's depressing. Thanks for being fake. You hate me, yet I still love you.
i already have a million scars in my heart ... believe me guys ,,, have no place for more .... i always stand where the sun light us but i still cant feel warm ... dying so cold and i have no thing to hold . falling like who fall from the high so far ... lost my way ... lost my self ... and i need to go back home .... i beg to Allah to take me home ... i will not stand any small hits anymore ... i want an answer ,,, for who i am fighting !
You may be alone but you aren't the only one who is -- many people understand and though they aren't with you now know that they care - someone cares and you are worth fighting for and the war - whatever it is - is still worth fighting for you without this other person - never give up because someone else gave up on you - don't base your self worth on whether others hate you. You can make it, you know. Not to be horribly annoyingly optimistic, but I think you can.
I miss you everyday I know I haven't meet you yet, but I will one day I love skyping with you and that I can tell you everything I can act like myself around you
This is so beautiful. I wish you both the best of luck. I hope to find a special guy in my life someday whether it's soon or far from now. Your comment gives me hope. I thank you so much for that :)
I'm in a long distance relationship, and everything i do i feel like he will hate me for it... I can't bring myself to open up to him as much as i want to and i feel like all im doing is making him want to leave more and more.....but he's my color in the dark world of mine..
@WeAreTheDreamful Thanks, honestly that was a long time ago as to when I was dealing with depression, got to the point where I was sent to three hospitals for attempts of suicide cutting etc. i wont go too in depth but im better now so thanks for the support.
My Body and my mind are all as one. But when something else in your heart has begun I start to let my body take control of my mind and they become something, something that is a living hell. Something that I can not control, something that I have trouble with. That something is you. You have a peice of me that I some how can not see. I'm blinded by all the lies that can not be broken down into something that I am willing to do, some how, some way, my heart has managed to stay.
my ex i met on a vacation in hawaii lives in colorado while i liv in socal.... this exactly how i feel about him... we broke up 6/15/2011 and were going out for almost 5 months.... best damn 5 months in my entire life. it was totally long distance relationship 100%, but we pushed thru it by texting and calling each other every day. i didnt care that he lived in a totally different state or that i met him randomly one day in hawaii only to never see him again, it was totally love at first sight
I heard this song first on my cousin when i was 9 and I don’t know the title, I just remembered the “driving down the highway, cold dark and dead, it’s deceiving ” lyrics. I’m 15 now and that lyrics just happened to cross my mind and searched it on UA-cam, now I found the song and it’s still beautiful as the first time I heard it.
Yeah, I love how UA-cam understands what we want to find
If you're always with that special someone, you'll never know how strong your love for each other is when you're apart 3 if you love each other, you'll both find a way to make things work. No ones right for anyone, it's all about how they make things work and how you get through the good and bad times..
second serenade is like silent sanctuary :)
haha yeah😁
+Bernard Matubang so true
+Bernard Matubang so true
+Synth VERtex ang layo kaya...lol
Bernard Matubang ang pinagkaiba lang may violin ang silent at may pagka chill ang tugtugan nila
Distance can break the strongest relationship
It did..
Distance is not the matter , mental strength , passion n strong trust between each other can do everything, so believe on yourself and believe the connection.
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When he says "I swear i'm sorry" I always remember the "It's not enough to say i'm sorry" from Goodbye - Secondhand Serenade XD
haha same
Oh !..What a dashing solo.....! It hurts beautifully.....! Superb!..
ever since, i love the songs of secondhand serenade.
I can't stop hating who I am whenever you're not around. You bring out the best in me and silence brings out the worst.
Idol mo rin pala ang secondhand serenade 😊. 1999 ako pero love ko ang mga old songs.
So close yet so far. I hope for his happiness even if we didn't end up together til the end.
Tau secondhand serenade ini dari mantan pacar, dia yg aku kira bakalan jadi suamiku karena kita pacaran cukup lama, ternyata dia selingkuh. hehe. akhirnya saya menikah dgn yg lain tapi lagu ini tetep jadi kenangan hehe. lagu jaman masih sma kelas 2an.
Heartbreak is truly one of the most painful things to go through. You ask yourself so many questions, and your heart aches constantly. But true love..thats something special. And EVERYONE finds there hero
secondhand serenade is the best band ever i can really relate!
It doesn't matter how bad the distance is.... distance does not ruin the relationship. Doubts do. I don't care how far me and my other half are... this is will never change the way I feel about them. And the fact tht we will someday see eachother in the future is the one thing tht still keeps me alive. :}
This song is exactly what I'm going through. My boyfriend is 1300 miles away for 4 months, 2 months down already but this is so damn hard. I try to stay strong but these days I can barely go through one day without crying my heart out. We've been together 4 years and seen each other every week of those years. I miss you so much baby.. Can't wait to be in your arms again.
I LOVE THIS BAND AND I HAVEN'T CAME ACROSS ONE OF THEIR SONGS THAT I DIDN'T LIKE.
The distance between us isn't physical. It's only in our minds. For some reason, we hate each other, but love each other too. I said I'm sorry. When will you?
Long distance relationships are indeed the worst. But if you two are really tht devoted to each other.. You'll make it work. And although in many relationships the distance is the biggest prob.... It is also the biggest test. If you can overcome it then tht will just show how strong your love really is.
I must say this is exactly how it feels when i was away frum her...all the songs i heard so far are great. always loved "your call" back then.
This song...I listened to this tonight as I leave my world back in Massachusetts...most people think long distance is easy...but for me, leaving my fiancée to go back home is the hardest most gut wrenching sorrow I'll know. A month isn't enough time to spend with your soulmate...just keep hoping baby. Hold on for two more years..I love you brookieboo.
We're at home quarantine right now but I'm far away from home. I'm far away from my girl. Damn this song makes me wanna cry right now.
i swear im sorry.. please dont hate me too. i llove this song! well actually i love secondhand serenade in general. welcome to my list of favorite artists!
I ♥ Secondhand Serenade. :3
I'm nearly 7000 miles (that's right three zeros) from the ones I love. My fiancé is being strong for me... #SoldierStatus #deployment
Thanks for your service. Hope you and your fiance have great relationship
same happened to me dude, like, a few days ago.. it sucks but i totally agree with you, it's unhealthy to stress over distance. better to be happy with what you have now :) glad to hear you're okay though!
Fucking long distance relationships suck ... But I think it's worth it
I agree completely. If you love someone so much that distance dose not play apart in the relationship, that my friend is true love.
Dustin Holliday so did I until 5 minutes ago
That's beautiful, I bet you're one of those really nice guys who are one in a million, don't loose that.
5 years of listening to this song and I still cry 😭💔 💔
I've been with mine for 11 months now. Fell in love online, so it's always nice to see how others are in similar situations. Long distance is only a test to see how far love can go.
the songs of secondhand serenade are the best i love all the songs.
I hate being away with you..what should I do we so far in each other...Why miss the moment being in your arms.....I feel sad when I think the distance between us
if youre in a long distance relationship like i recently was and you dont want it to end anytime soon... dont be like me... i can relate to this song so much... because i hated myself whenever i wasnt there for her... to comfort her and talk to her... now shes gone... what we had no longer exists... i just wish i wouldve spent a little more time with her... now that shes left me.. i dont know what to do with my life anymore
Secondhand Serenade is always there for me when I cry , they helped me let go of you and all the misery you put me though . Thank God i have this band to help me though , or I'd still be crying over you . : / .
You're leaving for the military. And sent me this song as you walked away. I love you. And I'll be waiting.
December 2018 still listening to this song still awsome as ever
She lives 3 hours away. I've seen her 5 days over the course of one month. I'd call myself lucky compared to some of you. Distance is a sucky thing, but it doesn't matter. If you really love someone, you'll go through anything for them. I love her with all my heart, I think she's the one. 11.23.12
The intro brings so much nostalgia...
my boyfriend lives 2 hours away as well. and it is hard. I'm seeing him thursday for the first time in a month. We both work full time jobs so its really difficult but I'm just glad I'll be with him for his birthday on thursday :) I know it's hard, but if you really love the person, they're worth it.
I'm currently dating someone 500 miles away from me, a 16 hour car ride. I see him once a year. Long distance relationships are so hard. Him and I haven't been doubtful about it. Everyday we talk about our day the future. I miss him so much. Anyone else in a LDR, don't lose hope, faith, never stop trying, if you do, it won't work. I have 3 years until I have no more distance with him. And in 1 year, we'll see each other again, only for a month. But, don't ever give up. Never give up.
my boyfriend and i travel alot. were both in bands and well... we called each other every day for the past 6 months and i got a call last Wednesday and we broke it off after 4 years because of the distance... this was his song to me and it makes me cry so hard cuz i thought i really loved him,we grew up together and hes my best friend and now because of distance i lost one of the best things in my life
I love you S💔
Kenangan brsmamu TDK akan bisa kulupa..
Berbahagialah bersamanya.. dan maafkan aku di masa lalu..
Let me tell you a quick story.
When I was in 5th Grade I had a bff called Hayley, I loved her so much. A sad thing about her was that her Dad abused her.
Her mum died when she was a baby.
Anyway.
Her Dad found a new girlfriend who lived in Scotland but was visiting London, So Hayley had to move to her new 'mum's house miles away from me.
She left me... I don't even know if she is alive; I miss her so much.
Since she left me everyone has started picking on me, for hanging with her, It's been a rough few years.. I have actually suffered with depression because I need her so much, (I can't really describe that)
If I could see her one more time I'd tell her how amazing she was ):
do you know her last name? try to find her on fb or anything, she ever have a myspace? Never give up hope in finding her (:
her surname is sooo long and it's so hard to spell it and she wasn't allowed anything
Your story made me cry...
I hope you find her :')
Don't give up on finding her. I hope one day you find her.
Did you find her? Let us know her name. I'd love to help
I met my boyfriend in May on 2012. We started dating on September 19th. But he lives 806 miles away. And ever since he has been my best friend. I love him more than anything. And one day I will meet him. And it will be amazing. To all the other LDR out there, keep your head up. Things will get better
Even though your across the world, you're still my best friend. I love up Dean
These guys are the masters at sad songs
I was with you for long long time, 2 years and then we dont even know who's each other, another 2 more years have passed, when I see you I can feel my heart in my throath, I still love you? I dont know, maybe it doesnt matter anymore for you, you'll probably pass by this song we usually listen to, and read this comment, I dont even know why I'm writing those things, have a nice day, wonderful song (:
Secondhand serenade songs are the best of all
If it's true love then distance doesn't exist
this song kills me everytime... I miss that person everyday of my life which kills my heart and my emotions.... I feel so stupid to say good bye...this is my life right here....
Long Distance Relationship does exist and work !!
I can't stop crying. I'm in a long distance relationship and he's 10,000 kilometers away from me. I don't know what to do without him, I miss him so much every day
Still 2020😍 it's my fav song..❤♥
The more I listen to this song..the more I cry..💔
My Boyfriend lives in Cali and I'm in Illinois but I know we will make this work
Hearing this for the first time i heard this song and balling my eyes out. In love with a guy in Chicago and there's not much I can do in Detroit. Dating someone else to feel the void it kills me innside but he's so far away and i have to gradduate and he has to pay off his debt before we can finally be together. :'(
Listening from a traumatizing breakup. Many sleepless nights, and endless tears she can't even hear.
Is this what i ask for?
Distance is the most I hate...and I know you guys hate it too...distance is what separate you and your most love one...ughh Distance smh..
I know you think I probably hate you now, I dont i promise 😔 I'm sorry " i hate myself when im away from you i swear im sorry please dont hate me too!" I still love you 😢❤️
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😢😢😢😭😭😭💔💔💔😞😞😣😔😩😩
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Love this song... ❣
This is perfect for fandoms with OTPs that broke up
I love this song :) Parang nakakaiyak na hindi xD
You're out of my reach. You're my world, but she's your world. Please, just open your eyes, it hurts me.
Nostalgia 🖤😢
why why they are so good I am crying♡♡♡♡♡
This reminds me of a guy that tried getting me to be his even though I knew in my heart I should be with the one who I love and finally I am... Epic video
drives me crazy the distance but just hope you come home to me soon
this describes how i feel exactly! i moved to florida for school and my bf stayed in ohio and i miss him like crazy. i love him so much and i hate that i left
26 Oktober 2019 Indonesia, Jambi City
My girlfriend told me to listen to this for her. She's lucky I love her because now I have to blast Metallica and Slayer all night to make up for this shit.
I'm dead 😂😂 same dude.
lmfao
Huh. Weird how things turned out.
What if I told you you can like Metallica, Slayer, AND this stuff?
Blast some carnifex boi
i'm sick of hearing that guys are the bad guys. we just dont tell anybody, because we don't want to hurt the girls we love. even when you tell them they are beautiful every day, they don't think you care enough
I know that the distance never be able apart us.... I love u Matías
this reminds me of the guy i love. he lives in New Zealand and i live in America. but hopefully we will be able to see each other soon :3
I'm still here:)
October 2023, anyone?
December 2023 here ❤
This song makes me cry...for all the times i messed up and when i miss her...
I still miss you. You made it clear that you don't want to be friends with me any longer. I try to question you why, but you just ignore me and yell at me. It's depressing. Thanks for being fake. You hate me, yet I still love you.
i do not hate anyone i lost everything
Same
Secondhand Serenade is the One Band who Make me Feel inlove
We ZCTB12 123...this song is very nice..😊
2019 Indonesia
i already have a million scars in my heart ... believe me guys ,,, have no place for more .... i always stand where the sun light us but i still cant feel warm ... dying so cold and i have no thing to hold . falling like who fall from the high so far ... lost my way ... lost my self ... and i need to go back home .... i beg to Allah to take me home ... i will not stand any small hits anymore ... i want an answer ,,, for who i am fighting !
you are fighting for yourself, I hope. you deserve someone to fight for you. :)
If I could, I would pray for you to be taken home too.
omg u just told how i am ... yea its big war i am trying to not lose it ,, but i fight alone
You may be alone but you aren't the only one who is -- many people understand and though they aren't with you now know that they care - someone cares and you are worth fighting for and the war - whatever it is - is still worth fighting for you without this other person - never give up because someone else gave up on you - don't base your self worth on whether others hate you. You can make it, you know. Not to be horribly annoyingly optimistic, but I think you can.
I have millions of scars on my arms and legs
Secondhand serenade will never fade in our hearts
-199x
I miss you everyday I know I haven't meet you yet, but I will one day I love skyping with you and that I can tell you everything I can act like myself around you
besides like a knife and goodbye this is probably one of my knew favorite songs by them.
God bless him.
This is so beautiful. I wish you both the best of luck. I hope to find a special guy in my life someday whether it's soon or far from now. Your comment gives me hope. I thank you so much for that :)
I'm in a long distance relationship, and everything i do i feel like he will hate me for it... I can't bring myself to open up to him as much as i want to and i feel like all im doing is making him want to leave more and more.....but he's my color in the dark world of mine..
.....Relationships require trust child.....if you can't trust him then ont stay in that relationship.
i met him almost a year ago and it seems like forever since i seen him the last time!
i miss you Eric! love you always babe
I will always love u jules whether u realize it or not I will always b there BEST FREAKING SONG EVER
@WeAreTheDreamful Thanks, honestly that was a long time ago as to when I was dealing with depression, got to the point where I was sent to three hospitals for attempts of suicide cutting etc. i wont go too in depth but im better now so thanks for the support.
my emo side loves this
this song jabs me. like a sharp, sharp sarcasm.
I really love this song ❤
My Body and my mind are all as one. But when something else in your heart has begun I start to let my body take control of my mind and they become something, something that is a living hell. Something that I can not control, something that I have trouble with. That something is you. You have a peice of me that I some how can not see. I'm blinded by all the lies that can not be broken down into something that I am willing to do, some how, some way, my heart has managed to stay.
I'm doing a longdistance thing right now... And this mad me cry :C
Distance doesn't matter if you truly love that person you well understand all situation.. Distance is the best way how strong you are..!! 😮😮😮 👍
2019?
My room isn't next to the kitchen, so every fucking night I'm missing the food. I hate myself when I'm not eating. Damn, I hate my life.
Everyday is a struggle to find happiness with the large distance between us.
11 months today, babe.
I've missed you every second you've been gone.
my ex i met on a vacation in hawaii lives in colorado while i liv in socal.... this exactly how i feel about him... we broke up 6/15/2011 and were going out for almost 5 months.... best damn 5 months in my entire life. it was totally long distance relationship 100%, but we pushed thru it by texting and calling each other every day. i didnt care that he lived in a totally different state or that i met him randomly one day in hawaii only to never see him again, it was totally love at first sight
Your profile picture is one that i have, its like a cute dark angel. i love it!