Removing chaos and saying bye to toxic people. How I Simplify My Life.

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  • Опубліковано 26 вер 2024

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  • @jayjaytailor
    @jayjaytailor 8 місяців тому +25

    A very Happy New Year to you and your family Eileen! It has been an absolute pleasure to watch and listen to your wise words throughout 2023; undoubtedly, my favourite UA-cam channel. As a long-term subscriber who has been with you from day one, I am in awe of how you manage to produce such valuable and interesting content (without repeating the same mantra); you are a very clever and resourceful person and I have so much respect for your core values. I hope 2024 brings you everything you wish for Eileen, and the same to all of your wonderfully-loyal 'family' of subscribers too. JJ xx

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  8 місяців тому +1

      Hey JayJay, I’m so happy to see you here! Thank you so much for your love. Happy 2024 to you too xx

  • @flohough1870
    @flohough1870 8 місяців тому +16

    The part about toxic people is so true. I have a family member who is just so frustrating for me to be around. I've just started to avoid her and have figured out the best ways to shut her down when she gets out of control. Setting boundaries with people like this is so important!

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  8 місяців тому +2

      100% agree! We shouldn’t burden ourselves with the toxicity and negativity xx

  • @bettys-gy6sc
    @bettys-gy6sc 8 місяців тому +5

    Please do a video on must have under garments, house and laundry cleaning supplies. Thank you!

  • @LPAdams1001
    @LPAdams1001 8 місяців тому +11

    Your illustrations are so cute. Would love to see more of those.

  • @abernxthy
    @abernxthy 8 місяців тому +10

    I'm binge watching your videos after finding your channel today. I love your makeup look, its minimal and elegant, could you make a makeup tutorial please xx

  • @b3naqua
    @b3naqua 8 місяців тому +5

    Love your videos! The point about identifying and minimizing toxic relationships really hit home for me. Forming boundaries is SO difficult, esp if the other person ignores & mocks them. I've learned to form boundaries with myself with these types of people - being honest and realistic about my limits/expectations/needs/wants etc and honoring these boundaries in situations where other people are being consistently disrespectful. Then I can focus my energy/time on relationships with non-toxic, mutually respectful & loving people. It's kinda like relationship minimalism lol and it works!

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  8 місяців тому

      Love it! Thank you for sharing xx

  • @mmajinn
    @mmajinn 8 місяців тому +6

    Thank you for this video, I deleted Instagram and FB immediately from my phone because I was scrolling like a zombie.. even I set a time limit 😮‍💨 I just ignored it. So that’s how addictive it is.. I wish you and your family a wonderful and healthy 2024❤

    • @drc4168
      @drc4168 8 місяців тому +2

      I wasn't even on Instagram and I was scrolling other people's Instagram like a zombie. It's truly the worst feeling. Well done on getting rid of trash from your mind and mental health. ❤

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  8 місяців тому +1

      That’s liberating! For some reason I’ve never been tempted by Facebook and I don’t have an account xx

    • @drc4168
      @drc4168 8 місяців тому

      @@ColourfulNoir it's mainly boomers and bizarre advertisements (and some cat charities 😺) ...

    • @CleanChic
      @CleanChic 8 місяців тому

      @@ColourfulNoir I still like my facebook account. Tbh. Ppl said they don’t go there anymore but they do 😊 I don’t think it’s the social media fault. It’s how you control yr own mind. I feel nothing when I see ppl flexing in social medias. It’s somebody else’s life. None of my business. Not defending social media. It’s just up to oneself. Really. Hehe

  • @catherine4875
    @catherine4875 8 місяців тому +3

    Turning off notifications helps tremendously! Great subject matter and reflections. Thank you for sharing.

  • @RoderickPowell788
    @RoderickPowell788 5 місяців тому

    Love everything you put out here! I was so surprised by the *yutulux* crossbody bag. love it! ❤

  • @anca.
    @anca. 8 місяців тому +3

    🎉 Happy new year to you and yours , with good health and lots of laughter!!! 🍀🫶

  • @zedrickapolloshorts6515
    @zedrickapolloshorts6515 8 місяців тому +4

    Happy New Year Eillen!!!🎉 It’s been awhile.. I’ve been avoiding for quite sometime to purchase some luxury item since I’m more on understated elegance.❤❤❤ Your thoughts still inspires me.❤️❤️❤️

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  8 місяців тому

      Happy new year!! Lovely to see you here xx

  • @eneidaesser566
    @eneidaesser566 8 місяців тому +2

    Great tips. Thank you.

  • @CyberMercy
    @CyberMercy 8 місяців тому +1

    Re shopping sites: i made Wishlists of key Seasonal Items before black friday & boxing day. Because I was subscribed by email I was alerted ahead of time when items were marked down& sold out. I managed to get a much desired wardrobe replenishment/ up grade with out giving in to FOMO impulse overspending. A little planning can go a long way. I agree site emails can be overwhelming but if priority is given to a select few you can save money and stress. Great vidi! And love the stripes on you I wished I looked that chic in them 😎☕💋

  • @katerinahoffmannova7309
    @katerinahoffmannova7309 8 місяців тому

    Have a great year 2024. I Love all the ideas you recommended. I do the same with the toxic people and mobile phone!!!!!! Mental health is very important ❤❤❤❤✨✨✨

  • @Lindy88888
    @Lindy88888 8 місяців тому

    #Happy New Year Eileen 🍀🍀 we #love you very much 😊 I’m glad you kept the #red #dress, it’s a knock out ♥️

  • @luciejoyal1491
    @luciejoyal1491 8 місяців тому +1

    A very happy new year to you. You're a lovely, classy, smart woman. Great tips!

  • @janekaran9795
    @janekaran9795 8 місяців тому +1

    Happy New Year to you and your family. Wish you a healthy and fruitful year. I hope 2024 brings to lots of love, laughter and joy. Thank you for interesting tips.

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  8 місяців тому

      Thank you so much for your well wishes xx

  • @dianecyment1715
    @dianecyment1715 8 місяців тому +3

    Happy New Year to you, Eileen. I really admire your genuine perspectives and I value your useful tips. I also am truly impressed with your minimalist lifestyle. It's not too extreme. I have never been on Social Media and I don't plan to get started. I am turning 67 this month. My dilemma is how to declutter my UA-cam subscriptions. I started watching UA-cam during the pandemic. Any suggestions? I also need to unsubscribe to retailers that I constantly get emails from. Thank you for what you do.

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  8 місяців тому

      Thank you!! I’ve been trying to control my UA-cam viewing too, I find that if I click on something random, all the related things start popping up xx

  • @bollybelly
    @bollybelly 8 місяців тому

    You are very smart and insightful. Love your style, so modern❤

  • @soniamoniaa
    @soniamoniaa 8 місяців тому

    Hi I just came across your UA-cam channel ❤and I think it’s amazing! I like the way you get to the point , and you know what you’re talking about, love listening to your advice . Keep doing what you’re doing please, I have subscribed 😊greetings from Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

  • @sally3570
    @sally3570 8 місяців тому

    Happy New Year Eileen! 🎉 I agree with you 1,000%. Doing the same and so happy to know others feel/do the same. I wish I had known sooner and so happy you are sharing. Tip-I have a separate email for shopping…. I only look when need something and looking for a sale code… I can delete it at any time.

  • @k700i
    @k700i 8 місяців тому +1

    I love this video, happy new year!! About preparing my outfit the day before, I try to plan it for a week instead, making my options ready without worry for the week!

  • @dental257
    @dental257 8 місяців тому +1

    :)... just discovered you this morning! Love to just listen to your voice, as it's so soothing.. where did you purchase your sweater and those cute shoes at 3:32

  • @juliannetrinh1999
    @juliannetrinh1999 8 місяців тому

    Happy New Year! 🎉

  • @lindaoregan9599
    @lindaoregan9599 8 місяців тому +3

    If I am buying anything and they ask for my email address I just tell them that I don't have one. Before now I have told shops that I don't have a phone either. Yes I am telling lies but it's better than being bombarded with messages and calls.

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  8 місяців тому

      Agree!! It really can get out of hand so easily if we’re not careful xx

  • @sammih.8709
    @sammih.8709 8 місяців тому +1

    Thanks for the tips!!! Love your videos. Would you mind sharing your height? I’m redoing my wardrobe and love your outfit suggestions - I just want to see what would work for me as I think we have similar proportions. Xxx

  • @dinapawlow1622
    @dinapawlow1622 8 місяців тому +1

    ❤ for thé algorithme

  • @magdalenelawson
    @magdalenelawson 8 місяців тому

    Happy New Year ,what did you do your master degree in?

  • @ChatsWithChris
    @ChatsWithChris 8 місяців тому +1

    Instagram deleted my account and I couldn't feel more free.

  • @kittyk607
    @kittyk607 8 місяців тому +1

    🩷⭐️

  • @Niceshopx
    @Niceshopx 7 місяців тому

    ery beautiful sack and. Thanks for helping to make this beautiful video for us #lvguci

  • @PamAdriana
    @PamAdriana 8 місяців тому

    La sakoj ene de @ *amzlv* estas perfektaj kiel donacoj por amikoj. La prezo ne estas alta kaj la kvalito estas bona.

  • @kaylheecarroll3186
    @kaylheecarroll3186 8 місяців тому +1

    Happy New Year ❤😊

  • @saffanna725
    @saffanna725 6 годин тому

    Eileen - what do you do with coins if you only carry a card wallet?

  • @GlamDrMona
    @GlamDrMona 8 місяців тому

    Happy New Year! Thank you for making such useful videos. I love your calm energy and voice. 🥰

  • @ayasarsour2860
    @ayasarsour2860 8 місяців тому

    Thank you very much 😊😊

  • @adeleelzinga
    @adeleelzinga 8 місяців тому +1

    Happy New Year 🎆🎈🎊