My best friend's EX-husband of 12 years shot her in the face, because he was depressed + jealous of her life. He did not care their child would find both parents dead. Selfish, selfish man. Stay single. Stay safe. The poor children suffer a lifetime.
Jesus Christ. As a husband who suffers bad complex ptsd from extended childhood sexual trauma, and have gotten my fair share of suicidal thoughts throughout my own life, I can never imagine what would be going through someone’s head to do that to someone. Any time I have gotten those thoughts it’s been to disappear and go alone as to not disturb anyone. I would never do such a thing as a father but at least I could understand if someone did that. There was something evil in your friends husband. He sounds like he had some severely severed wiring up in there.
This don’t make no damn sense and I’m sick of it. Me and my husband had helped someone in a domestic violence relationship. We had made plans for her to leave and never look back. She had kids so we had her only take her important documents with her and we gave her gift cards and money and a new phone and let her stay in a hotel until we met up with her again so we let her live in one of our houses that we bought her and her children until 6 months after she moved out of state. This was 16 years ago and we still speak till this day and her and her kids are doing great. And she haven’t heard anything from her husband and she’s divorced. We also helped out others and they all are doing well.
We always hear the talk about the HELP that is available but then we hear about them calling out for help! NO HELP, OXYMORON really! Sad state of affairs
There is no help available, all the shelters are full and you have to go through hell to get a protective order. And at the end of the day it doesn’t save you. I’m currently running for my life too. So this really upsets me.
@@mariarojas5022 Lord have mercy! May He encamp His angels around you, may you be protected from all hurt, harm or danger. Anyone that shall call on The name of The Lord Jesus shall be saved! Keep that name at the forefront of your mind and speak with your mouth, there is POWER in that name🙏🏽
They say call for help but I am currently at a DV shelter. It took 6 days to find a spot in a far away county. Whom can’t help you with resources, I’ve seen countless women go back. This is the 5th time that I tried to leave. I was never able to find somewhere to go the other times, have no family. And once you’re in these places there isn’t any resources to help a woman with deposits. They help if you’re late on bills but that isn’t the assistance we need. We need help with a deposit we need help getting started. And nothing is available that is why all the ladies are doomed to go back and become further enslaved. Something needs to change, programs need to be more available. I was lucky to escape with our lives but now I have to figure everything out penniless and with a bad injury.
Bless your heart ♥️ this is so true.. we definitely need to get a better grip on this situation and make it easier for you to move forward with ease and get all the help you need.. praying 🙏 for you and changes in the future
@@st.anthonythegreat4936 comments like yours are the reason I don’t have any hope for humanity. SMH sometimes you should just keep your ignorant comments to yourself.
😢 so sad and tragic! There is no reason for a person to take another's life just because they want to be free from them other than their own selfishness. They didn't think about their children at all. May God bless all of them and watch over them and help them to their grief and Trauma
People take the toll death do us part seriously it's sad for children try to get along be kind to each other don't poke the bear lady's it's one life to live some people are all in so there is no tomorrow for them rip to the beautiful mothers
How scary! Why don't they get out. Why stay? They couldn't she couldn't leave anytime of the day and I would leave my clothes and just walk out the door. He wasn't home 24 hours a day.. my husband hit me one time and I left with nothing but my daughter.
Some people can’t leave relationships because they can’t afford to…..which is why you shouldn’t get in one. When both people are financially straight it also shows their “true colors” and how they really act knowing they have options. Never go into a relationship with someone that is broke. They will feel you have control and 9 times out of 10 their motive is to get your money someway somehow. I mean if you really like/love someone why would you go into a relationship with no money. Money is what suppose to support each other on both ends. Someone will always have more but you can be each others crutch without it always being on one person. Not saying money is the case with this but that is the reason for most divorces.
But these loser abusive incels try to shame women for not wanting to be with broke men. Of course men with money can be abusive but the chances are always greatly increased when the men is broke but somehow we suppose to ignore that reality and put our safety on the line for male ego and entitlement.
You said that on point. They have no purpose in life so when you leave them they think the world collapses on them . Losers and insecure men. My husband is jealous of me because i am successful than him and he always get into the commotion of comparing himself to me. That's one of the red flag i supposed to paid attention
If these women would have had a pistol to protect themselves maybe just maybe this wouldn’t have happened. The most dangerous time is when you try to get away from your abusive husband or wife. I am so sorry for all the children
I'm teaching Children Not to be rude with each other, And to enjoy each other's company... So I'm going on Strick against bad people 🤪 Because Injustice is leaving many With out homes and jobs are not Paying enough....
The protective order did protect her? It’s almost like criminals don’t follow the laws.? I’m sure they will obey when they ban all laws tho, right? Right. And we should just keep paying the government all this tax money to tell us what to do cause they’re clearly smarter than all of us.
Bad times bad times right now. This is a spiritual battle ppl. I promise. And damn is red dress taken?! Lol I’m Daniel nice to meet you and good morning
They know crazy dudes when they 1st meet him. How do you think they never give a nice dude the time of day? Because they know they are nice guys the second they meet them. Ergo, they know crazy dudes the second they meet them. Just stop choosing crazy dudes!
Condolences to the families. This is so sad. Thank God for police officers. If a relationship is over, please accept the end of the relationship and move on
Where in this video does it say the women were disrespectful? Are you xy's really that weak and pathetic that you'd delete someone because of "disrespect"?
Stay single stay safe. Have a good night folks.
You may be right!
My best friend's EX-husband of 12 years shot her in the face, because he was depressed + jealous of her life. He did not care their child would find both parents dead. Selfish, selfish man.
Stay single. Stay safe. The poor children suffer a lifetime.
Jesus Christ. As a husband who suffers bad complex ptsd from extended childhood sexual trauma, and have gotten my fair share of suicidal thoughts throughout my own life, I can never imagine what would be going through someone’s head to do that to someone. Any time I have gotten those thoughts it’s been to disappear and go alone as to not disturb anyone. I would never do such a thing as a father but at least I could understand if someone did that. There was something evil in your friends husband. He sounds like he had some severely severed wiring up in there.
This don’t make no damn sense and I’m sick of it. Me and my husband had helped someone in a domestic violence relationship. We had made plans for her to leave and never look back. She had kids so we had her only take her important documents with her and we gave her gift cards and money and a new phone and let her stay in a hotel until we met up with her again so we let her live in one of our houses that we bought her and her children until 6 months after she moved out of state. This was 16 years ago and we still speak till this day and her and her kids are doing great. And she haven’t heard anything from her husband and she’s divorced. We also helped out others and they all are doing well.
really awful poor child.
Women are just gonna need to start carrying..period..the police and these shelters and other organizations are not working!
Stay single ❤
😂😂😂😂😂❤
Or don't choose a
Thankfully the daughter wasn’t murdered.
We always hear the talk about the HELP that is available but then we hear about them calling out for help! NO HELP, OXYMORON really! Sad state of affairs
There is no help available, all the shelters are full and you have to go through hell to get a protective order. And at the end of the day it doesn’t save you. I’m currently running for my life too. So this really upsets me.
@@mariarojas5022 Lord have mercy! May He encamp His angels around you, may you be protected from all hurt, harm or danger. Anyone that shall call on The name of The Lord Jesus shall be saved! Keep that name at the forefront of your mind and speak with your mouth, there is POWER in that name🙏🏽
@@mariarojas5022 Jesus Christ Saves!
Be careful
The domestic violence agencies aren't trained to handle real domestic violence & the reason domestic violence statistics haven't changed.
They say call for help but I am currently at a DV shelter. It took 6 days to find a spot in a far away county. Whom can’t help you with resources, I’ve seen countless women go back. This is the 5th time that I tried to leave. I was never able to find somewhere to go the other times, have no family. And once you’re in these places there isn’t any resources to help a woman with deposits. They help if you’re late on bills but that isn’t the assistance we need. We need help with a deposit we need help getting started. And nothing is available that is why all the ladies are doomed to go back and become further enslaved. Something needs to change, programs need to be more available. I was lucky to escape with our lives but now I have to figure everything out penniless and with a bad injury.
Bless your heart ♥️ this is so true.. we definitely need to get a better grip on this situation and make it easier for you to move forward with ease and get all the help you need.. praying 🙏 for you and changes in the future
Ma'am ..... just get you a tent and a sleeping bag then move to another state.
@@st.anthonythegreat4936 comments like yours are the reason I don’t have any hope for humanity. SMH sometimes you should just keep your ignorant comments to yourself.
god bless you , wish all best never look back.
@@st.anthonythegreat4936and be homeless wtf? That's not the answer
Weak sad men 🙏🏽🙏🏽
😢 so sad and tragic! There is no reason for a person to take another's life just because they want to be free from them other than their own selfishness. They didn't think about their children at all. May God bless all of them and watch over them and help them to their grief and Trauma
People take the toll death do us part seriously it's sad for children try to get along be kind to each other don't poke the bear lady's it's one life to live some people are all in so there is no tomorrow for them rip to the beautiful mothers
How scary! Why don't they get out. Why stay? They couldn't she couldn't leave anytime of the day and I would leave my clothes and just walk out the door. He wasn't home 24 hours a day.. my husband hit me one time and I left with nothing but my daughter.
Some people can’t leave relationships because they can’t afford to…..which is why you shouldn’t get in one. When both people are financially straight it also shows their “true colors” and how they really act knowing they have options. Never go into a relationship with someone that is broke. They will feel you have control and 9 times out of 10 their motive is to get your money someway somehow. I mean if you really like/love someone why would you go into a relationship with no money. Money is what suppose to support each other on both ends. Someone will always have more but you can be each others crutch without it always being on one person. Not saying money is the case with this but that is the reason for most divorces.
But these loser abusive incels try to shame women for not wanting to be with broke men. Of course men with money can be abusive but the chances are always greatly increased when the men is broke but somehow we suppose to ignore that reality and put our safety on the line for male ego and entitlement.
Whats with all these guys who can not manage their anger! Domestic violence against women is out of control and at epidemic levels!!!!
This happen way to often. Some of these Men are Losers.😢
You said that on point. They have no purpose in life so when you leave them they think the world collapses on them . Losers and insecure men. My husband is jealous of me because i am successful than him and he always get into the commotion of comparing himself to me. That's one of the red flag i supposed to paid attention
I'm telling you
Condolences. Rest in peace.
Agree the resources for help is no help and frustrating as hell.
Here we go again smh
Byedenomics takes it’s toll on yet another family ……
So sad 😞
I am sorry but women are not protected with papers....!!!!
More and more common everyday! This is the real epidemic.
Man this some sad stuff ...these kids seeing our world fall apart ....
One word Texas 😧
If these women would have had a pistol to protect themselves maybe just maybe this wouldn’t have happened. The most dangerous time is when you try to get away from your abusive husband or wife. I am so sorry for all the children
I'm teaching Children
Not to be rude with each other,
And to enjoy each other's company...
So I'm going on
Strick against bad
people 🤪
Because Injustice is leaving many
With out homes and jobs are not
Paying enough....
Sad that these men keep on doing this to their families. May they RIP
The protective order did protect her? It’s almost like criminals don’t follow the laws.? I’m sure they will obey when they ban all laws tho, right? Right. And we should just keep paying the government all this tax money to tell us what to do cause they’re clearly smarter than all of us.
But when we say men ..... 😡🤬
hate it when it's in an otherwise "quiet" neighborhood 😮😢
A piece of paper won't save you.
Lord Have Mercy. I don’t want no so called Man.😮
If help was always available this wouldn't happen.
Neander logic
So that's 1.5 bodies per case?
Reason why I’m single people are crazy these days but these days I’m not surprised but crazy sad fr
People always say that after someone die they don't take it serious
OMG
Rip
Condolonces to victims
Bantai FRM
Rhe competent dan ❤❤😂😂🎉🎉
The dudes said none is getting child support from me in these struggling times. If I gotta go you gotta go.
Cool background Traci Fletcher lol
So sad rip
The holidays are especially dangerous for domestic violence. Ladies, find safe housing. So very sad. So many violent men.
Terrible.
Bad times bad times right now. This is a spiritual battle ppl. I promise. And damn is red dress taken?! Lol I’m Daniel nice to meet you and good morning
Witch craft
The system failed her just like they been doing they don’t care bra untill it’s this like this really don’t make no sense
And people wonder why I'm single, there's too many weirdos out there. Or they just want one thing...
Women please understand , resource IS definitely available .
Please let you do a background check on your man before you have Chucky
Help… ha😂 there are no resources
Violent you guess, he was violent
What the husband look like? Who he be? 🎉
Why? You wanna get with him? He'll probably murk you too.😮
@@CrackHeadHuntersDrugDealer Because I can and there isn't a damn thing you can do. 🍉
@@happygo1866ok 🐶 kisser 💋💋
💐
😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Back ground check Red flag laws Mental health check.
Uhhhh, that won't stop someone from mudering you when their angry
They know crazy dudes when they 1st meet him. How do you think they never give a nice dude the time of day? Because they know they are nice guys the second they meet them. Ergo, they know crazy dudes the second they meet them. Just stop choosing crazy dudes!
Condolences to the families. This is so sad.
Thank God for police officers.
If a relationship is over, please accept the end of the relationship and move on
Men are sick and tired of the disrespect from today's modern woman.
Where in this video does it say the women were disrespectful?
Are you xy's really that weak and pathetic that you'd delete someone because of "disrespect"?
Ladies it's nice to be single in 2023 domestic Violence has been on the high since coronavirus Pandemic.