Best Age to get Married | Video Recommended by Sahil Adeem
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- Опубліковано 27 вер 2024
- Sahil Adeem is answering the ubiquitous question " What is the best age for marriage?"
Sahil Adeem about Second third and fourth marriage
Second Marriage without permission of Ist marriage
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Alhamdulillah
I am not married ☺️
Sabhi se request hai Mohabbat hue hai toh pahale responsible bane aur phir rishta bheje kisi bhi ladaki ko 🙂
No Haram relationship 😔
Allah Almighty said that he would provide Rizq for the person who marries early and has no money, if he marries early for avoiding himself from exposure of haraam relationships
@@lamenter6932 hmmm
If you are true Muslim then u will not get married. Please read Quran with Tarjuma it's been clear like crystals.
2 2, 3 3, 4 4 is for oprhan women who are helpless according to Surah Nisa verse 3. But if you cant do justice with them , marry one....or just dont marry and keep the one you already have. These verses were revealed at the time of Battle of Uhad when many muslims were martyred.
Islam is not based on just the Qur'an dear.
Ḥasan al-Baṣrī رحمه الله reported that 'Imran bin ul-Hussain رضي الله عنه was sitting amongst his companions and a man arose and said: "Do not speak to us except with the Qur'ān." (i.e. leave the Sunnah)
So 'Imran bin ul-Hussain رضي الله عنه said to him: "Come here, do you see if you and your companions (those upon this same opinion as you) were left to the Qur'ān only, would you find if if that Ẓuhr is 4 Raka'aat and ‘Aṣr Prayer is 4 Raka'aat, and that Mahgrib is 3 wherein loud recitation occurs in the first 2?
Do you see if you and your companions are left to the Qur'ān only, would you find that Tawaaf is 7 circuits? And that Sa'ee is 7 times?
Then 'Imran bin ul-Hussain رضي الله عنه said: *"O people! Take from us (i.e. Upon our way of taking Qur'ān & Sunnah), for indeed if you do not you will certainly go astray."*
● [وأخرجه الخطيب في الكفاية صحفة ٤٨]
The sunnah explains the Qur’an, which was practised by the sahabah. Otherwise with your reasoning, majority of the sahabah and salaf-us-saliheen were sinful because it was not just the orphan girls alone they took as second wives. They married married all kinds of women, the virgin, the widowed and divorcee...
@@n451a The Quran should be preferred on Hadith
@@Rivertowner oh subhan Allah, don't fall into that trap. There is no difference between what Allah has said and what His Messenger commanded. The Prophet only spoke upon Allah's direction. Thw hypocrites in Madina sought to do this too and Allah actually mentions of this in the Qur'an.
"Surely those who disbelieve in Allah and His messengers, and *wish to make a distinction between Allah and His messengers,* saying, “We believe in some and disbelieve in others,” desiring to adopt a way in between. *They are in truth disbelievers.* And We have prepared for the disbelievers a humiliating punishment." Surah Nisa 4:150-151)
@@n451a The Quran is authentic while Hadith may be doubtful
@@Rivertowner I gather you do not understand the science of hadith? Hadith science is what paved the way for forensic science today. It is absolutely meticulous. Perhaps take some time to study it. That will clear the ignorance in your statement insha Allah.
Khushi hui ye jawab ja'an kr k kisi ne to is hawalay se baat sahe ki, Allah paak apko khush rkhay or apki umar daraz karay sahil sir. Ameen ♥️👍
Best answer I ever heard .👏
Pakistani mard 2nd marrige krty e 1st ko out krdeta hai.or 2nd wali aany se phlay e tyaari kr k bethi hoti hai kesy phli wali ko nikalna hai or apni frnds se baatain kr rhe hoti hai k main unko apna bna lu ge,yahan jo 2nd marrige kr rha ho.sab ko yahee lgta hai k zroor phli wali main koi problem hogi…mtlb lrka munh se keh rha ho k meri phli wife boht achi hai.mery phli wife se bachy b hain…phir kahain gay…phir tum ALLAH ka shukr adaa kro.Phir tum ku kr rhay ho 2nd marrige..,ALLAH se maafi maango,Yahan hum log sirf parents religion,parents mindset pe hain,,,,islam ka ka toh ABC nhe pta kisi ko
Ma Sha Allah
Sir ne bohat ache se bataya hai 🙂
بات تو سو فیصد صحیح کررہے ہیں آپ ۔۔۔میں نے خود آج غور کیا اس آیت پر کہ اپنی پسند کی دو دو تین تین چار چار کر لو ۔۔۔۔اس کا مطلب ہوا کہ ایک محبوب بیوی ہونے کے باوجود کسی اور لڑکی سے محبت ہوجانا غیر فطری عمل نہیں جس طرح نبی کریم صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم نے خدیجہ رضی اللہ عنھا سے شدید محبت رکھنے کے بعد عائشہ رضی اللہ عنھا سے بھی محبت کی اور وہ بھی انکی محبوب بیوی کہلائیں ۔۔۔۔اج کل کمر توڑ مہنگائ کے ہوتے ہوئے مرد کیسے اپنا یہ حق استعمال کرے۔۔۔ام بلال
Mehngae ka masla Nahin masla yeh hai k log buzdil ho gayee Hain hamary nabi(S.A.W) bhi koi Ameer Nahin Thay bahut dafa faqa bhi kia
jo wo bol rahi thi wo itna b ghalat nahi tha... thik ha shadi bndy ki nature ko nahi badalti pr Rasool Allah SAW ny khud bola tha k farq prta hai. nikah kro qk ye tmhen bachae ga. sharam gah aur nazron ko hifazat krny mai asani ho gi. Mashoom ha ye Sahih bukhari ki hadees 5066 and 1905. kindly check kijiye. Nabi SAW ny ye bat boli ha ye be-asar nahi ho skti. fark prta ha nikah sy alhamdulillah
sahil bhai se kaho jis tehrik ki aap bat krte ho wo dunya men hr jaga mojod hy mgr afsos abhi wo lngrhi loli maazoor hen,,,bs un tahareek ka elaaj krana hoga,,,,or elaaj aap jese docter hi kr skty hen,,,,,,,,,allah kre mere khitty men hr dosra shakhs sahil adeem bn jaee,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,hmko yaha islam o se shuru krna hoga,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
Zabardas bat ki demagh k tar hila diea sir 😍😍😍
I remembered when poeple heard about JJ 2 marriages people were saying bad things..someone did halal and we didn't have any Allah's fear..same thing for second marriage
Point is this that males should be psychology groom in Islamic way,, parents doesn't work on character of their son, but they do provide expensive materials,, such a time and waste of money,,
Only males? You are biased
well explained my answer and perception was also same
Kis age ma shadi krni chahiye is question ka answer to dia nhi
Agree with your explanation.
Well said sir
Well explained answer
Very well said sir.
I admire your answer from core of my heart ❤️ Sir Sahil.
Sir parents apni bachiyan bhi bechty hen. Properties mangty hen and paise to common hen. Demands in nikah nama like 2sri shadi pe 15 lakh etc
Apne shayd Islam nhi study Kiya Islam mein jitna Haq meher h aaj k 3 crores say upar banty hai and i confirmed to Turkish and Arabic scholars, yaha k parents unaware h jbhi flat choti cheeze mangte h
@@mariumkhankhan2636 jee I agree with you. I live in saudia. Aik tou yahan jahez jesi nahoosiyat ka concept nhi in fact joint family system bhi nhi hai. Before marriage guy have to get separate home and all basic house necessities himself. Other than this yahan حق mehar jese aap bata rae bilkul wese hi huty hain around 30 40k riyal which equals 40 50 lac pkr approx
Satisfying answer
Sir welldone.mager masla apni jagha mojood hy larkey ka 4sy bhi dil nahi bherta.
Depends from guy to buy and the type of exposure and fantasies he has developed
JazakAllah khair❤
Sahil Bhai you said great, please also give the answer about the age she asked.
Unhon nay kaha hay jab baccha bacchi mature ho jayen age ki koi limit nahi....
Early marriage is such a good thing.
Good Answer sahil bhai ...
Bohot bare masle ka hal bata dia
Mashallah Sahil adeem
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Dar Ul Huda Mein Sikh Skte Hain Aap
Shadi ki Sahih Umar par bat Nahi ki
11:55 rai8 🥺
Very much right
Bilkul sahi kaha
excellent 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌
Hazrat khizer ka Quran Pak k iilwa or b Khin zikr ha ksi Kitab mai Jews ya Christianity mai? Aik Video Bna den
Agreed
Understood
Jo question hai us ka answer nahe diya 2nd marriage ka batta diya
Every Muslim parents should married their child in his early age.
Jo question hai us ka answer nahe diya 2nd marl
If a person is so immature, that he has the potential of doing something bad. Then why to get married to that kind of man. Also, the rule of more marriages came in the war times when a lot of women became widows and had orphaned children. We have alot of Palestinians and afghani and yemeni widows who are helpless. Our pakistani men , are they going to marry these women and help the orphan children. Do numbree is done by pakistani men who don’t have resources and get married several times. Once they get married the second time. They dont even provide the basic needs to the first wife and their children. We have even seen cases where these husbands dont allow the second wife to have children, and ask for abortions. In some cases due to property issues. The second wife will force her husband to give divorce to first wife. Only if a man has capability ti give separate homes and all household expenses to both wives. Thats when it is allowed to have a second wife.
salam men kese sahil bhai se phon pr swal krskti hon.mere pas numbr nhe
یار یہ بندہ کیا بلا ہے۔اس کی باتیں سن کر لگتا ہے کہ ھم کتنی آسانی سے بے وقوف بن جاتے ہیں معاشرے کے ہاتھوں۔
sir,please make video aisha adult breastfeeding
i really don't like women voice in ur video choose alternative pls
Aurat ko bhi dusre aadmi pasand aa jate hain shadi k bad, un ko kyu ijazat nahi? Sirf aadmi ko multiple aurto ko pasand kar k shadi ki ijazat hai? This seems a total descrimination😢
Sahil has answered in his Simple Argument Channel.
Waqt pr shadi hony sy by rah rawi mn frq to parhta hy is bary mn ap ki philosophy ajeeb hy
Bilkul b ni ajkl married logon k extra marital affairs hen
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Sahil Bhai can you tell me how I help Palestine people?
Hmari county me bhi halat palestine jaise hi h bs dikh nhi rha yaha bhi buhut se logon ko hlp ki zarurt h
Koun si country se h aap
India
Isse accha kisi aadmi से shaadi ही na karo bas ibadath karo aur Allah ke pas jaavo😢
divorce rate itna barh gya hai lekin lrkio ke abi tk standards neechy nai aaye,,,inko khud b arab pati lrka chahiyay,,,banglow chahiyay,Mercedes wala ho,emaan chahy raai brabar b naa ho,phir aisa 1 e hoga or saari dunya ke lrkiaan makhio ke trah usko chipki hoon ge na..phir khti hain mery saath loyal b ho.kisi 2nd ke trf nazar utha kr naa dekhy..,faishta kahan se mil skta hai inko.woh b aaj k zamaant main,,or pardah to bilkul na krwaaye..mtlb conservative nhe chahiyay,borad minded lrka hona chahiyay gee..i am not saying about all but majority..
hahaha
( Will Christians And Jews and "OTHER" non-Muslims go to Heaven? )
Quran 2:62
'' Those who believe (in the Quran) and those who follow the Jewish (scriptures) and the Christians and the Sabians->ANYAllah< Is The Protector Of Monasteries, Churches, Synagogues And The Mosques )
Quran 22:40
[They are] those who have been evicted from their homes without right - only because they say, " Our Lord is God " And were it not that God checks the people, some by means of others, there would have been demolished monasteries, churches, synagogues, and mosques in which the name of God is much mentioned. And God will surely support those who support Him. Indeed, God is Powerful and Exalted in Might.
Note: Why did Allah protected Churches and Synagogues if they worship false Allah ?
( Why Are There So Many Different Religions In The World ? )
Quran 5 48
''...... If God wanted He could have made all of you a single nation.( ie single religion ) But He willed otherwise in order to test you in what He has given you (ie Scriptures) therefore try to excel one another in good deeds. Ultimately you all shall return to God then He will show you the truth of those matters in which you '' >DISPUTE verb < not noun like other religions
Islam mean "submission" to God
( The above verse saying is that God will not accept a religion from the >MUSLIM< and the Non-Muslims but total "submission" to God )
Question: How Can Muslim And the Non-Muslim "submit" to the God?
Answer: Be kind to other human beings and Do not lie, Do not steal, Do not cheat, Do not hurt others, Do not be prideful and Do the charity work.
Note: If you obeyed all the ABOVE Allah-God's moral laws "YOU" submitted to God.( ie Islam mean "submission" to God )
The only people who will enter Paradise those who '' Submitted to God '' ( ie by Good Deeds )
God does NOT accept your religion of birth but only ''Your Total'' Submission to Him.
( God Allows Interfaith Marriages And Eat Food From the Christian And Jew And Vice Versa )
Quran 5:5
''This day [all] good foods have been made lawful, and the food of those who were given the Scripture (ie Christian and Jew) is lawful for you and your food is lawful for them. And lawful in marriage are chaste women from among the believers (ie Muslim ) and chaste women from among those who were given the Scripture (ie Christian and Jew) before you, when you have given them their due compensation, desiring chastity not unlawful sexual intercourse or taking [secret] lovers. And whoever denies the faith - his work has become worthless and he in the Hereafter will be among the losers.''
Note: > Only < Islam allows interfaith marriages (>14 hundredsSame God< but They are >ALL Corrupt< more or less, some more than others from their original foundational teaching. The older religion are MORE corrupted than newer religion.
Question to Muslim and Christian:
Does God / Allah only answer your pray ?
And God / Allah does not answer non Muslim / non Christian pray?
Did Allah '' Canceled '' all other religions Judaism and Christianity?
Quran 5:48
'' And We have revealed to you [O Muhammad] the Book in truth, confirming that which preceded it of the Scripture ( ie New and old Testament ) and as a criterion over it. So judge between them by what Allah has revealed and do not follow their inclinations away from what has come to you of the truth. >>>TO EACH OF YOU WE PRESCRIBED A LAW AND A METHODone nation>differ qualified < for to enter Paradise )
On the day of judgement God will ''NOT'' judge humanity bases on Sunni Muslim sect VS Shia Muslim sect ''NOR'' by Muslim VS non-Muslim >but< Doer of Goods VS Doer of Evils.
'' YOUR " birth in the Muslim's family is NOT a > qualification < for to enter the Paradise.
'' YOUR " religion / sect / foot long beard is NOT a > qualification < for to enter the Paradise.
The > qualification < to enter Paradise is > Faith in God and Good Work
You are insane man
Najashi ki janaza padhai Prophet nay thi. Aur Prophet k mummy k kabar pr Prophet gy they.
Haq aur batil clear h.
Jews jo h Prophet ka mazak banate they, lekin masle puchne unke pass aate thy, toh unhe bola gya Torah mai dekh lo, bahut say chize same h, amal kyu nhi krte phir. Ye bhi toh h Quran mai ki hr Prophet ko kaha gya ki Prophet Muhammad saw jb aayege, unko follow krna. So baki sb religions reject kiye jaayege.
Deen boletoh sirf religion nhi, capitalism, socialism, wagera bhi deen h, life-system. So hm sirf Islam hi ko follow krege, jo Allah nay hme dia.
Zimmadari bhi to uthayen pahli wali ka yahan pahli biwi ki zimmedari lete nhi
I dont agree with sahil adeem haa yeh sab jo kaha ki ladki ko har baat p tokna sasural m beizzat karna yeh sab glt h lkinnn early marriage with right person can save u from so many bad things depression ,anxiety nd many other because allah said in the quran -and of his sign is that he created from you from yourself
Mates so that you find Tranquility❤ in them and he keep placed between you, Mercy and affection🎉. Nd i find beautiful verses nd how do u find right person ? Pray tahajjud ask allah for beautiful life a respectful man a respectful loving caring family allah se mang toh oye bande woh toh pahad bhi dein sona k tujhe 😢👑he is the one the intense loving 🥰
I'm so regretful to watch it.....
Video title is another nd answer given by him is different.
"Sawal gandum, jawab chana" 🙄🙄🙄
And for Sahil Sahib!
From heaven, There is only one "Hawa" comes to Hazrat Adam....not 2, 3,4......
Point to be noted 👍
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Alot of ppl are saying that he didnt answer about the age.
Guys, he literally said in the beginning that there is no such thing as "age" in numbers.
Let him/her marry when they have "shaaoor"
What is shaoor
@@Imama_salar21 thought process
@@ansabansari7248 OK
Sadqy mera veer 💯 sahi, good ge
Very much agreed..!!! 💯💯💯💯💯💯
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Parents wait for certain age or for certain achievement like completing education or getting job for their children to get married. What if children are "bashaoor" before that, since they are not allowed to get marry, they indulge in sins. That was the question I guess. He rightly answered that Marriage can not stop them from sin,
Sir . Apny likha k larki or larky ke shadi ke sai umar kya ha?
Or apny boy k bary may to bata deya but grl ke kya umar honi chahrya ya nai bataya
jab larki ko apny or sahili k bhai main fraq pata chal jae or larky ko apni behan or behan ki saheli main faraq maloom ho jae to shadi ki umar ho jati hai
Bhai sb rozghar, mehnat rr phr taqwa sy bi shaoorrr measure hoo jattii hy.
Baqi ap jazbaat ki banyad par baat kar ry oo wooo tu sarray andazy perfect lgaa lettyy e khasstur par Pakistani dramay dekh kar tu wesy e assani hoo jatti
O bhai ji ye bat to bcho ko bh malum hoti hy aqal bandd.
Shadi aik zimedari hy moj masti nhi k itney farq ko janlo and you are good to go, abhi tu mard "Qawam" ka meaning nhi smjh sakey usko shohar ki zimedari ko samjhna it is out of the question.
Zbardas
Very clear and well explain 👍
Meri b yhi thinking hai, shadi say yeh ni hota k mard aurat glt kam say ruk jatay hen shadi k bad.
Maria Nawaz
Assalam o Alaikum
When I heard "Muhammad Ali" I started laughing xD
Wah sir 😂
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Beshak ye lazmi nhi ky log shaadi ky badh ghalat kaam nhi krty....jisny krna wo krty hai and you can't do anything about everything...
Waooo Yani at a time agar wo 4 wives k sat attach ho sakta ha acha ha time pe samajh AA gae
attach zada se bhi ho sakta hai aadmi but Allah ne 4 tak limit kar diya hai.
Parane zamane mei khudhi check karlen how many wives men used to have.
Yes, allah nay ijazat de hai, aour muslman kay zehn main toh quran je he ayat hain toh jo quran main likha hua hai wohi zehn main betha hua hai agar christian ya koi aour religon hota toh maybe unke kitabon main agar 1 ka likha hai toh unkay zehn main bhe 1 wife bethe hui hai ,
@@randomvids3299 u r rite
fan kardia aap ne sir
What a reasoning sir...🎉🎉
Awesome 👍👍
Feminist? I guess it's not a good term. Ppl will start using the platform of feminism if they hear from you about it.
The guy & his disciples will slim the definition of current feminism which is fatty just due to over circulation of dollar and those so called feminist people will be rewarded with what's called the true feminism. InshaAllah
@@sakanderzia7717 the problem just not exists with the ideology, but the term as a whole. The basis of feminism is wrong actually. Even if it was fine, why would we take or use the term of kuffar. It would depict that before feminism, nobody gave women their due rights. Whereas, Islam liberated women centuries ago.
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Agreed