Being an alpha or sigma doesn't guarantee you success. I've seen them burn down on flames without knowing their boundaries. I identify as a a sigma and can tell you that our dark side can be self destructive.
The whole basis of being a sigma male in my opinion is know your worth be humble and gain more intellect so you don’t go charging at the parts of life you aren’t ready for yet
@@Ysumbruh0 always done everything in life in stages… school stage, party stage, screw off stage, drinking stage, career stage. And yes…. Dark side can be extremely self destructive…. I agree 100%.. much darker than others’ dark sides I feel…..
You can he a Gamma who identifies as Sigma. I've never cared about one's self-identification. I care about whether one's attributes factually align with that self-identification. If not, he's delusional.
@@buckhunter6560 I'm delusional.... or everyone else is.... sorry I can't pay you for today's session.... xoxo... hate to resort to prostitution but hope you had a good time😘
Good evaluation..but..You missed a point.....being taken advantage of....as a Sigma, I have certain talents that are exclusive, and I can tell if I'm being potentially used.....if that happens, I push my defenses into over drive....I shut off....if pushed, I can become pretty nasty....
It has allowed me to completely compartmentalize my life. When someone crosses the final boundary, the door is closed and I walk away. No anger or hatred, just moving on. Spoke to my mother for the last time when I was 22. She tried for years to re-insert herself into my life but who she was looking for no longer existed. This went on for nearly 25 years until she passed. There are lines that should not be crossed and being Sigma lets me have the freedom to cut the anchors and sail away in confidence that I will always find my way to new shores. I don't have to play by anyone's rules or conventions other than my own.
@Alex Doe what is responsibility? I believe power and responsibility do not have the same definition, but I'm gonna go google it. I'm just thinking you can be responsible without using force of power.
We're not apathetic, we just question why should we care. When there are so many who don't, why should we ? Why should we be non selfish when so many others are ? If we're monsters it's because you made us that way. We don't have a light or dark side, we are grey, we stand between the light and the dark. Influenced by neither societal wants, we seek balance, we see good and necessary evil, when your war is over and you've killed each other off, we will be there. Not a threat, only truth.
Traits : 15: stubborn 💯 14: Secretive/ discreet 💯 13: uses others - i can do that 12: apathetic 💯 11: aloof 💯 10: single minded: working on that 9: cold 💯 8: condescending 💯 7: unpredictable 💯 6: overthinking 💯 5: chauvinistic 💯 4: quick to judge 💯 3: murky moral compass 💯 2: over confident 💯 1: cynical 💯 Yep, seems im a dark sigma if these traits are correct
Man, this sounds EXACTLY like me - I am even told so by others - but then I don't give a hoot what others think about me anyways. Forever the man of grey.
Been through all of them, fought the hardest fights against myself and lost sometimes. Even been close to death due to my stubbornness. But never lost the lesson, got up again and ended up converting into a healthy sigma. And wouldn't trade the life I've been living for anything in the world. It's been the greatest gift of all and I'm grateful for it each morning I open my eyes.
I consider myself a Sigma and I can say it's not good to cross us. A lot of us possess "dark triad" personality traits although speaking only for myself they can be turned on and off at will as it suits us. I don't know if that's part of being a Sigma or just survival skills developed as a result of always going it alone.
That’s dark empath personality, I’ve got the same thing. My empathy goes to zero when I see somebody has malicious intent towards me, or has shown their true colours. I then can become the most toxic person ever, towards that person and that requires dark triad traits.
@@Getout249 I actually came across some information about dark empaths the other day and was thinking how much I can identify with that type of behavior.
@@Foundry_made Dark empaths are basically usually children of one or two narcissists who’ve learned all the tactics narcissists use and chosen not to become like them because we have empathy but we have the tools at our disposal for the people who deserve it. When you’re the child of a narcissistic person I think you either become one or the opposite, or you become a dark empath
Our minds are our worst enemies. Im the definition of a sigma. Always watching, always thinking, always plan a counter for every situation and run through every possible scenario in my head. But, when my dark side starts coming out, I become a monster.
@Thesticks Try embracing everything just enouh to learn to apply heavy discipline as well as a good brake. You are good. You will get there remember the more natural you sit in uncomfort the greater the actual comfort as well as the satisfaction from said confort. So i actaully not only sit in unconfortable i try and increase that unconfort as much ad possble and then sit in that for as long as possible too. It really makes the easy=easiest.;)
You have allot of sigma traits man. Why you want to put a label on yourself. You are truly Sardor Shomurodov. That's who u are and what you are. MAKE IT FUCKING GREAT!!!!!!!! your in control
i never suffer from rejection, i grew up being bullied and picked on by my family so it sits well with me being hated by everyone to the point where i would hate to be popular , i see what popularity does to people and i wouldn't want to be them (no brains required)
@@andy1971williams what you and OP endured, I endured also singlehandedly as an individual. It’s already an accepted universality at this point that the only equalities we’re granted in life is that we’re expendable, we didn’t exist for a reason, we don’t belong anywhere, and we all die. People on a massive scale especially are bitter and resentful, making them cutthroat, spineless and cowardly. That’s why, amidst all the isolation and rejections up to this point in time as someone in their mid-20s, I prefer my own company (part of it is because I have no other option but to live with it) and never get involved in anyone else’s business.
@@EricGraham94 i was born for this life, when you realize that there is no one you'd rather be it gets easier. I'm twice your age and when I look around me at what I could be like if I did fit in , well , I feel blessed . own it and open up to folks a bit, not everyone is bad . its a tough enough life without making it worse for yourself. forgiveness is difficult, you are not responsible for other peoples actions and their actions are not a reflection on you , it says more about them than it ever will about you ! there are a lot of bullies but they are like that because they are unhappy , there are lots of good folks too. liking yourself is a good start and i like helping people especially if they hate me but i am an INFJ : )
@@allenguitar123 They want that label, as a social creature everyone needs to feel that they belong somewhere, to some "special" group, in this case sigma. Ironic really, not gonna lie.
This entire channel resonates so deeply. I was in the underworld of society for decades using a lot of these tactics in horrendous ways. Ate a few lengthy stretches inside the system as a result. I also picked up meditation and developed a moral compass in prison. Just know, if you’re really vibing with what this channel is putting out then pay careful attention. Learn to love your shadow too and set your system of checks and balances in place cuz we can get on one quick if we don’t keep ourselves in check.
100 percent dead on! The condescending stuff will usually surface more when dealing with manipulators. It comes from the frustration that there are those impeding on my independence, still like anyone else we have faults & weaknesses that are always needing work. Again this video was dead on & hit the nail on the head. Thank you for sharing
It comes out quite a bit when dealing with the "smartest guy in the room" -- You know the one. The one that is actually quite dense, just smarter than most people. The guy who actually knows very little, doesn't see the breadth of things, but spends all his time talking about "left to right, deep thinkers" -- Yeah, love that guy.
Well naturally I'm a introvert but more ambiverted these days. I don't find value in friends or girlfriends...I'm also asexual...I have all 14 of these traits...I am different than most guys but I don't refer to myself as sigma. I'm a guy that's walks to the beat of my own drum...that's basically how I sum up my life.
These videos came out of nowhere to me, it’s as if You Tube knows me better than me. Never heard of a Sigma male before but everything described is just how I am, the good and the bad. At least now I know what category I fit into. Definitely can be quite cynical, cold and without doubt I’m Re energised in my own company not around others.
I am my own man. I got here by the skin of my teeth and absolutely no help from anyone. We sure can see and acknowledge most fakes and 🤡 clowns. Being not needy of anything surely puts us where we need to be.
You might find this interesting: One of my sons of high rank in the military and a Dr. of Psychology was one of the guys that picked people for special teams and assignments. Like who got in and who stayed on the teams. What do you think was one of the most valuable traits he was looking for? The ability to commit dangerous violent acts. Then flip back to normal like it never happened! He said many of the ones he was looking for had high intelligences which was helpful but not enough by itself. I would figure many of them to be Sigma-type individuals.
Would have to agree. Alphas will get you in trouble in situations like that. Sigmas typically will not. Sigmas can and will work together in a scarily efficient manner. That makes for a very dangerous and deadly force to reckon with.
from a psychological standpoint, sigma is best for Intel and recon although we're formidable competitors in battle due to our clear thinking in chaotic situations. we focus on solutions. we're not only careful in thought, it's as if our every move is carefully coordinated. all I'm at liberty to say is take it from me, sigma is ideal for Intel, recon, and secret termination. sigma are to connected to the spirit of others to be killers. we're not wired that way. we have to be mentally artificially wired to perform or have had extensive mental training to "learn to forget" what orders we may have taken to carry out a less moral order. to clear this whole video up, every human being has a dark side no matter the personality category
@@easy1045 Please don't take this the wrong way, but I would suggest that your moniker limits the probability that you are a sigma. I too perhaps share many of the traits with the exclusion of this isolitary perspective - I can't be totally alone, but I can count my friends on the fingers of one hand. Moreover, I think this pigeon-holing doesn't do any favours.
I've never felt like I was a sigma because they are usually just so much above anything that happens to them, which I'm not. Seems like I've just been a dark sigma the whole time. Time to let some light shine into my life.
I can spot a dirt-bag with one passive glance with 99% accuracy. I instantly see through whatever charade they’re attempting to (laughably) trying to sell. Call it a mix of experience and gut. I’ll still treat them with a level of “automatic respect”, but that can change in a second or two as I watch them show their tells. Regaining any of my respect after watching them disrespecting others or myself is nearly impossible, as I’ve deciphered their true intentions, game-playing, attitude (fake or legit) towards others who they foolishly assume they’re so *good at*, they believe their conman ethos comes off so perfectly that nobody could see through them. My specialty is my ability to see through them, typically in the blink of an eye. I feel bad for those feel the need to manipulate others. I feel worse for those who aren’t able to see what that person is actually doing. I didn’t just fall off the back of the turnip truck in the barn yesterday. Lol!
Ah, finally something I fit in. These videos clarify a lot to me. I'm aware of my dark sides and by self-improvement try constantly to correct these. That creates a more pleasurable life.
Make sure you check an expert to find out if it's real beta. Us sigmas decide to entertain it as potentially real. We see these character traits while being surprised how accurate they describe us. Married 20+ debt free business owner. PMS you sound unaccountably hostile/ triggered.
What some would say “ Sigma Male “ is what I’ve always known as an INTJ Male (I am one) but, popular (or any variation of the word) is a bit of a stretch. As for positive and negative traits, I tend to go along with a subtle shade of gray outlook.😏
We all have a dark side within us. You just need to recognize it when it starts to creep on you. Next step is for you to take control of it before it consumes you from within. I speak from experience. I have blackout rage and it scares the hell out of me. I have no recollection of what transpired during said time and anyone in my way was a target. Thankfully through hard work and lots of effort, I've learned how to suppress my rage. I had to, after the incident that occurred between my Dad and I. I hate myself for that day, because my son walked in and saw something bad happening. He was 6 at the time. His voice cut through the black veil and I came back to my senses. For 2 days my son, my every reason for living, was scared to come near me or talk to me. You have no idea how much that hurt. He's never seen it again and I intend to keep it that way. The 1 thing a Sigma needs is an ear to listen. Someone they can vent to at any time. Bottling up always leads to self destruction and unhealthy thought processes. Tap into your inner stubbornness and say, "I will NOT let you beat me anymore"!
@@rickshannon6848 That's not what I was thinking. Your entitled to your opinion even if it is wrong. Go play games elsewhere child and leave the conversation to the adult's.
@@scottmiller6270 I do not need want to be rude I have never had a problem with any thing , I am always in total control think before any thing , could or would , or might happen , I do not let ever take a chance I am in total control of my emotion,s always , so I see you are still working on your,s so good for you , call me when you are as good as me , until then son, ?????
I see a lot of these traits in myself, but I’ve always tried to be the righteous sigma, it got me nowhere. Now that I’m somewhat of a prick now, I’m getting a lot more accomplished than I ever have. I kinda like the dark side.
I believe that the dark side of the sigma is quite possibly the darkest of all personalities. What makes for a sigma's greatness can allow them to become the worst of monsters. It has cost me dearly a number of times. Life throws curves, when a sigma runs off the deep end... it can get really ugly. Fortunately sigmas are aware of that possibility and guard against it.
The concept that there was such a personality as a sigma male has set me down such a rabbit hole of self reflection, I've just started watching more videos, and every one of them really makes more sense about me. This one in particular though.....
I think the apathy part is one of the hardest to deal with. I've heard from many family members that they thought i didnt care, when I'd die for them. And there are also times where I wish I did care more in situations where I know I should. It's a hard balance in society.
When I went to the dark side, I was so toxic I hurt many people, but in integration I realized how much worth I gained from the devil in my own head. It was traumatic to see these things but in hindsight i have become better
Yes. That's my son all right. Condescending, overthinking, and on the surface, cold, lacking empathy, and having no time for human weaknesses. Still, whenever our elderly neighbour knocked on the door feeling unwell and needing to be taken to hospital at 1 or 2 am, my son just put his shoes on and drove him.
That's another trait of a sigma. They have a hard time saying no. Before I knew about all these different traits of humanity I never knew who I was, but I've come to learn that I'm predominantly a dark sigma. I can't stand needy people but everytime someone needs something I can't say no and I can't help but help them out
I'm a sigma and am glad to be one. I'm also glad that my personality type is known and understood by psychologists. Among other known qualities, there are strong internal traits that auto-respond effectively in times of trouble. Those traits are also at work keeping my thought and action in check, and preventing extremism and its consequences.
Sigma is a term that alphas invented so people would stop pursuing the alpha sit and would accept their social position. Sadly so many betas have fallen into that trap.
I used to be a big people person (still fake it at work) but 30 years dealing with "customers always right". Too many humanoids and I'll stay to myself for sanities sake.
an easy way to mitigate a lot of the traits listed is to find someone that you can respect and will respect when they tell you something is going on with you, someone you can bounce ideas off of to make sure you aren't going off the rails with your thoughts and you actually respect their opinions
Thank you for the fantastic video. Absolutely agree with all points except #4. Sigma will not judge quickly in case of complicated situations and behaviours because he knows about probabilities more than anyone. The deep thinker can judge quicker if he thought and analized the clear situation and behaviours before it happened. In General our life is complicated so it needs time to make a final judgement, therefore sigmas mostly are not quick to judge.
also, if someone we really care about wants to try and give us the silent treatment, beware... we are masters at it to a sometimes uncontrollable point (hence, stubbornness) to where we even can't unlock it.
In group conversations I have to be above it all and patient at the same time. I have also found that it's best to be silent for the most part. People respond negatively/get defensive to the sigma truths I bring.
The last point which you mentioned happened to me when I was 18-22 years old, but after graduation and starting to work I realized that it wasn't so and I started not caring about who's right and who's wrong and why it doesn't matter to me, the only thing that I still cannot tolerate by any means is the person who flooded their own lives with drama and fake routines to make others believe something, master pycel in GOT would be a good example for this, the drama is so high that sometimes even themselves believe that it's true, that brings out the monster inside which even I hate.
I actively repell stubbornness with conviction daily. I had a serious issue with stubbornness, but as I became a man I learned that conviction is stronger and a much healthier trait I need to nurture in myself. Conviction is unwavering and is based on purpose.
I sometimes have a tendency to express my love for someone close to me through loyalty to them as a apposed to affection in some form. I am getting better but some still think that I'm cold
We do not bend we do not break and most of all hate every thing and every one thats fake. People that don't respect that need to just stay out the way so what if we don't want too be you're leaders were more than capable
As a sigma I grew up with appetite for aggression towards others I saw them as inferior as a point of trying to change or control that I associated anger with pain , but unfortunately that turned against me cuz the more physical pain I felt the more my anger and rage grew inside of me until I snapped and I then wanted the one causing me pain to feel three times as much from me thinking that he would be less likely to want to hurt me again in the future, fortunately I grew older and learned how to turn off physical pain to a large extent because it is literally all in your head, that's just a negative aspect that I grew older and learned more self control over it
Thank you, I have conquered these all these problems, every blue moon I have some Difficulty with acouple of these but is usually balanced out by a good night's rest, your greatly appreciate I love the ones about flaws so I have a better ideal of how to approach these problems as they take place, thank you for taking the time to understand people like us, you must know something others do not
I started my journey as a sigma when I saw the cracks in my father moral codes. Before that I was completly "lost at sea" in society Now I'm trying to cary it throught misjudgments incomprehensions of others, it's a full time job lol
#2 did it for me🤣🤣🤣... In 3rd grade I was in a spelling 'b' in front of the entire school, I refused to go back and huddle with my group because I was "sure" I new the answer to the question. They begged and pledded with me to come to the huddle but I refuse. I told them "chill I got this".. I went up to the podium and got it wrong... 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I lost a pizza party and 3 friends that day🤣🤣🤣...
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I once had a friend who, one night when we got drunk, tried to convince me that I was a narcissist because I think that I’m always right. Or think that I know everything. And from how I have a hard time seeing things outside from my own perspective. Of course this all stemmed from me correcting her because she said something that was wrong. Like she literally couldn’t understand that I only choose to talk about things that I have a good understanding of. And the reason I am always right is because I don’t say anything if I’m not confident in what I’m going to say. why talk about something and act like you know more than you do when you don’t? I don’t get it.
@@Markcus003 oh okay. Yeah it blows peoples minds that some people only talk about what they know. Then again she believes in astrology so you can see how logic is hard for her to understand. We aren’t friends anymore because I wouldn’t put up with her narcissism
I have dark sigma male traits and fine with it. Dealing with a lot of idiotic people made me this way. Mainly 7 to 11 the I especially don't care haveing. Is a cold hard exterior.
Knowing what you are is half the battle. If my behavior becomes negative because of these traits I can look at them closely and change my behavior. As the video states "extra effort". I know I have changed alot of my behaviors but some of these still get me. There is a huge downside to being a Sigma male. I heard the word "healthy". That's important. Over thinking is a big issue for me. It's also paid off which leaves me confused at time. Am I right or am I wrong? When I was younger it was much worse. I consider myself to be a work in progress.
I find when I step into the Alpha to Omega scale I know something is wrong within me and I have not taken the time to reflect and/or face the problem. I've missed something within, which I hate.but this is the moment I have come to realise I'm stepping into my path to self destruct. Please be careful and self aware.
Being an ex Sigma (I am a Zeta now) I can say that was good. Even in my Omega, then Gamma days a common comment was how cynical I was. I always thought I had an inbuilt BS detector that just got stronger with age. Those 'games' where people tried to say so and so (some super hot woman) was around asking about you would elicit a knowing smirk that played into my reputation for cynicism. They soon gave it away as a waste of time.
Spot on, there is a "flip-side" to this "gift." "To thine own self be true." Know "all" of thy self... they call it "humility," and it's very s;ippery to hold on to. ;)
Don't really know how I found this sigma stuff it really just popped up on my UA-cam n I've beenwatching it for the last few days but I've always said to myself that I wuz unique but I couldn't tell you what type of man I wuz I just knew I wuz all of" these" things rolled into one but I know I didn't identify as a beta bc I stand my ground with anyone I wasn't an alpha bc I really don't like the attention but this sigma is me all the way thru n I'll continue to watch and also learn more about my inner anxieties n dark thoughts thru this new information I've received ...I really needed this for more understanding of where I stand in life
I have been each of these in varying amounts at various times in my life. Cynicism and apathy have probably been my two biggest pitfalls. I'm happier serving understanding for those close to me than I am letting it rot
I only care for those close to me and people who respect me
Ultimate sigma move
Gayyy
Masks are for betas!
As all should
As you should
Being an alpha or sigma doesn't guarantee you success. I've seen them burn down on flames without knowing their boundaries. I identify as a a sigma and can tell you that our dark side can be self destructive.
The whole basis of being a sigma male in my opinion is know your worth be humble and gain more intellect so you don’t go charging at the parts of life you aren’t ready for yet
@@Ysumbruh0 always done everything in life in stages… school stage, party stage, screw off stage, drinking stage, career stage. And yes…. Dark side can be extremely self destructive…. I agree 100%.. much darker than others’ dark sides I feel…..
Awwww poor baby
You can he a Gamma who identifies as Sigma. I've never cared about one's self-identification. I care about whether one's attributes factually align with that self-identification. If not, he's delusional.
@@buckhunter6560 I'm delusional.... or everyone else is.... sorry I can't pay you for today's session.... xoxo... hate to resort to prostitution but hope you had a good time😘
Good evaluation..but..You missed a point.....being taken advantage of....as a Sigma, I have certain talents that are exclusive, and I can tell if I'm being potentially used.....if that happens, I push my defenses into over drive....I shut off....if pushed, I can become pretty nasty....
As should anybody with common sense.
well roared lion, I can only sign that
It has allowed me to completely compartmentalize my life. When someone crosses the final boundary, the door is closed and I walk away. No anger or hatred, just moving on. Spoke to my mother for the last time when I was 22. She tried for years to re-insert herself into my life but who she was looking for no longer existed. This went on for nearly 25 years until she passed. There are lines that should not be crossed and being Sigma lets me have the freedom to cut the anchors and sail away in confidence that I will always find my way to new shores. I don't have to play by anyone's rules or conventions other than my own.
I am always polite and courteous, untill a person gives me a reason not to be, then the devil comes out to play.
Not Really a Sigma male , NO Control over Any of his Emotion,s ?
With great power comes great responsibility.
*The Amazing 🕷 man*
Those who have great power don't give a shit about responsibility!!
with great aunt comes great asss
@Alex Doe what is responsibility? I believe power and responsibility do not have the same definition, but I'm gonna go google it. I'm just thinking you can be responsible without using force of power.
Cry bebe
Embrace your dark side. Your shadow will remain loyal to you anyway
I like that one man!
"Become a monster, then learn to control it... it's better to be a warrior in a garden than a gardener in a war"
Amen
Amen
Amen
Amen
Amen
Those who know RESPECT are people who deserve to be RESPECTED.
We're not apathetic, we just question why should we care. When there are so many who don't, why should we ? Why should we be non selfish when so many others are ? If we're monsters it's because you made us that way. We don't have a light or dark side, we are grey, we stand between the light and the dark. Influenced by neither societal wants, we seek balance, we see good and necessary evil, when your war is over and you've killed each other off, we will be there. Not a threat, only truth.
One of the most truthful comments here...
Yeah, you summed it up quite well, kupo.
Real ass comment!
Seriously spot on!
So we are apathetic
Traits :
15: stubborn 💯
14: Secretive/ discreet 💯
13: uses others - i can do that
12: apathetic 💯
11: aloof 💯
10: single minded: working on that
9: cold 💯
8: condescending 💯
7: unpredictable 💯
6: overthinking 💯
5: chauvinistic 💯
4: quick to judge 💯
3: murky moral compass 💯
2: over confident 💯
1: cynical 💯
Yep, seems im a dark sigma if these traits are correct
Amen brother
Dark: Immature.
There is no dark or light sigma. We always grey. Some time more some time less.
These are not a dark sigma.
these are traits of an ass hole.
A sigma male possesses all of these qualities except for being cynical, over confident, overthinking or chauvinistic
Man, this sounds EXACTLY like me - I am even told so by others - but then I don't give a hoot what others think about me anyways. Forever the man of grey.
Gayyy
Every silver lining got a touch of gray
Yeah sure 😂
The only way to be completely free is when you cease to care what anyone thinks of you.
Grey man here.
Been through all of them, fought the hardest fights against myself and lost sometimes. Even been close to death due to my stubbornness. But never lost the lesson, got up again and ended up converting into a healthy sigma. And wouldn't trade the life I've been living for anything in the world. It's been the greatest gift of all and I'm grateful for it each morning I open my eyes.
ME2❤🎉😊....Bless bro!
@@paulshaw3109 And U
I consider myself a Sigma and I can say it's not good to cross us. A lot of us possess "dark triad" personality traits although speaking only for myself they can be turned on and off at will as it suits us. I don't know if that's part of being a Sigma or just survival skills developed as a result of always going it alone.
Like screwing my Girlfriend's Mother 😶.
That’s dark empath personality, I’ve got the same thing. My empathy goes to zero when I see somebody has malicious intent towards me, or has shown their true colours. I then can become the most toxic person ever, towards that person and that requires dark triad traits.
@@Getout249 I actually came across some information about dark empaths the other day and was thinking how much I can identify with that type of behavior.
@@Foundry_made Dark empaths are basically usually children of one or two narcissists who’ve learned all the tactics narcissists use and chosen not to become like them because we have empathy but we have the tools at our disposal for the people who deserve it.
When you’re the child of a narcissistic person I think you either become one or the opposite, or you become a dark empath
Well said
Our minds are our worst enemies. Im the definition of a sigma. Always watching, always thinking, always plan a counter for every situation and run through every possible scenario in my head. But, when my dark side starts coming out, I become a monster.
Uh no and that was cringe & you’re a beta male
@Thesticks
Try embracing everything just enouh to learn to apply heavy discipline as well as a good brake. You are good. You will get there remember the more natural you sit in uncomfort the greater the actual comfort as well as the satisfaction from said confort.
So i actaully not only sit in unconfortable i try and increase that unconfort as much ad possble and then sit in that for as long as possible too. It really makes the easy=easiest.;)
Overthinking and cynicism are my most difficult ones to deal with.
I am truly sigma male, I always struggled with rejection
You have allot of sigma traits man. Why you want to put a label on yourself. You are truly Sardor Shomurodov. That's who u are and what you are. MAKE IT FUCKING GREAT!!!!!!!! your in control
i never suffer from rejection, i grew up being bullied and picked on by my family so it sits well with me being hated by everyone to the point where i would hate to be popular , i see what popularity does to people and i wouldn't want to be them (no brains required)
@@andy1971williams what you and OP endured, I endured also singlehandedly as an individual. It’s already an accepted universality at this point that the only equalities we’re granted in life is that we’re expendable, we didn’t exist for a reason, we don’t belong anywhere, and we all die. People on a massive scale especially are bitter and resentful, making them cutthroat, spineless and cowardly. That’s why, amidst all the isolation and rejections up to this point in time as someone in their mid-20s, I prefer my own company (part of it is because I have no other option but to live with it) and never get involved in anyone else’s business.
@@EricGraham94
i was born for this life, when you realize that there is no one you'd rather be it gets easier. I'm twice your age and when I look around me at what I could be like if I did fit in , well , I feel blessed .
own it and open up to folks a bit, not everyone is bad .
its a tough enough life without making it worse for yourself.
forgiveness is difficult, you are not responsible for other peoples actions and their actions are not a reflection on you , it says more about them than it ever will about you !
there are a lot of bullies but they are like that because they are unhappy , there are lots of good folks too.
liking yourself is a good start and i like helping people especially if they hate me but i am an INFJ : )
@@allenguitar123 They want that label, as a social creature everyone needs to feel that they belong somewhere, to some "special" group, in this case sigma.
Ironic really, not gonna lie.
This entire channel resonates so deeply. I was in the underworld of society for decades using a lot of these tactics in horrendous ways. Ate a few lengthy stretches inside the system as a result. I also picked up meditation and developed a moral compass in prison. Just know, if you’re really vibing with what this channel is putting out then pay careful attention. Learn to love your shadow too and set your system of checks and balances in place cuz we can get on one quick if we don’t keep ourselves in check.
100 percent dead on! The condescending stuff will usually surface more when dealing with manipulators. It comes from the frustration that there are those impeding on my independence, still like anyone else we have faults & weaknesses that are always needing work. Again this video was dead on & hit the nail on the head. Thank you for sharing
It comes out quite a bit when dealing with the "smartest guy in the room" -- You know the one. The one that is actually quite dense, just smarter than most people. The guy who actually knows very little, doesn't see the breadth of things, but spends all his time talking about "left to right, deep thinkers" -- Yeah, love that guy.
You learn a lot about people when they think you aren’t listening/watching. I constantly wear sunglasses and headphones
Well naturally I'm a introvert but more ambiverted these days. I don't find value in friends or girlfriends...I'm also asexual...I have all 14 of these traits...I am different than most guys but I don't refer to myself as sigma. I'm a guy that's walks to the beat of my own drum...that's basically how I sum up my life.
What is asexual?
@@alhassanfirrdous7292 it means I'm not sexually attracted to anyone.
These videos came out of nowhere to me, it’s as if You Tube knows me better than me. Never heard of a Sigma male before but everything described is just how I am, the good and the bad. At least now I know what category I fit into. Definitely can be quite cynical, cold and without doubt I’m
Re energised in my own company not around others.
I am my own man.
I got here by the skin of my teeth and absolutely no help from anyone.
We sure can see and acknowledge most fakes and 🤡 clowns.
Being not needy of anything surely puts us where we need to be.
You might find this interesting: One of my sons of high rank in the military and a Dr. of Psychology was one of the guys that picked people for special teams and assignments. Like who got in and who stayed on the teams. What do you think was one of the most valuable traits he was looking for? The ability to commit dangerous violent acts. Then flip back to normal like it never happened! He said many of the ones he was looking for had high intelligences which was helpful but not enough by itself. I would figure many of them to be Sigma-type individuals.
Interesting read.
Would have to agree. Alphas will get you in trouble in situations like that. Sigmas typically will not. Sigmas can and will work together in a scarily efficient manner. That makes for a very dangerous and deadly force to reckon with.
from a psychological standpoint, sigma is best for Intel and recon although we're formidable competitors in battle due to our clear thinking in chaotic situations. we focus on solutions. we're not only careful in thought, it's as if our every move is carefully coordinated. all I'm at liberty to say is take it from me, sigma is ideal for Intel, recon, and secret termination. sigma are to connected to the spirit of others to be killers. we're not wired that way. we have to be mentally artificially wired to perform or have had extensive mental training to "learn to forget" what orders we may have taken to carry out a less moral order. to clear this whole video up, every human being has a dark side no matter the personality category
@@easy1045 Please don't take this the wrong way, but I would suggest that your moniker limits the probability that you are a sigma.
I too perhaps share many of the traits with the exclusion of this isolitary perspective - I can't be totally alone, but I can count my friends on the fingers of one hand. Moreover, I think this pigeon-holing doesn't do any favours.
I've never felt like I was a sigma because they are usually just so much above anything that happens to them, which I'm not.
Seems like I've just been a dark sigma the whole time.
Time to let some light shine into my life.
I can spot a dirt-bag with one passive glance with 99% accuracy. I instantly see through whatever charade they’re attempting to (laughably) trying to sell. Call it a mix of experience and gut. I’ll still treat them with a level of “automatic respect”, but that can change in a second or two as I watch them show their tells. Regaining any of my respect after watching them disrespecting others or myself is nearly impossible, as I’ve deciphered their true intentions, game-playing, attitude (fake or legit) towards others who they foolishly assume they’re so *good at*, they believe their conman ethos comes off so perfectly that nobody could see through them. My specialty is my ability to see through them, typically in the blink of an eye.
I feel bad for those feel the need to manipulate others. I feel worse for those who aren’t able to see what that person is actually doing. I didn’t just fall off the back of the turnip truck in the barn yesterday. Lol!
Me too
Yep. It’s very easy
That's why I don't go to church. I just feel the BS from the pastors, preachers, whatever, and I just think...you should be ashamed of yourself
@@MM-sq5pf some SHOULD. Some SHOULDN’T as the committed ones work themselves to the bone. I can attest to seeing both.
Ah, finally something I fit in. These videos clarify a lot to me. I'm aware of my dark sides and by self-improvement try constantly to correct these. That creates a more pleasurable life.
Bro a bunch of virgin introverts came up with the “sigma make” idea so they could feel good about themselves, it doesn’t exist
Make sure you check an expert to find out if it's real beta.
Us sigmas decide to entertain it as potentially real. We see these character traits while being surprised how accurate they describe us.
Married 20+ debt free business owner.
PMS you sound unaccountably hostile/ triggered.
@@Malignantt1 Who the f.ck are you dude.
@@Malignantt1 Who the F..K are you dude.
@@blankablueboy1501 what “traits” dude this is just astrology for males, it doesn’t exist. Anyone could “fit in” to these “traits”
What some would say “ Sigma Male “ is what I’ve always known as an INTJ Male (I am one) but, popular (or any variation of the word) is a bit of a stretch. As for positive and negative traits, I tend to go along with a subtle shade of gray outlook.😏
We all have a dark side within us. You just need to recognize it when it starts to creep on you. Next step is for you to take control of it before it consumes you from within. I speak from experience. I have blackout rage and it scares the hell out of me. I have no recollection of what transpired during said time and anyone in my way was a target. Thankfully through hard work and lots of effort, I've learned how to suppress my rage. I had to, after the incident that occurred between my Dad and I. I hate myself for that day, because my son walked in and saw something bad happening. He was 6 at the time. His voice cut through the black veil and I came back to my senses. For 2 days my son, my every reason for living, was scared to come near me or talk to me. You have no idea how much that hurt. He's never seen it again and I intend to keep it that way. The 1 thing a Sigma needs is an ear to listen. Someone they can vent to at any time. Bottling up always leads to self destruction and unhealthy thought processes. Tap into your inner stubbornness and say, "I will NOT let you beat me anymore"!
Sign of a weak sigma male , to bad ?
@@rickshannon6848 You know what they say about opinion's!
@@scottmiller6270 ya I know , and every body has one, but some are more smarter than most ?
@@rickshannon6848 That's not what I was thinking. Your entitled to your opinion even if it is wrong. Go play games elsewhere child and leave the conversation to the adult's.
@@scottmiller6270 I do not need want to be rude I have never had a problem with any thing , I am always in total control think before any thing , could or would , or might happen , I do not let ever take a chance I am in total control of my emotion,s always , so I see you are still working on your,s so good for you , call me when you are as good as me , until then son, ?????
Great video. Appreciate the consistent videos 🙌
I see a lot of these traits in myself, but I’ve always tried to be the righteous sigma, it got me nowhere. Now that I’m somewhat of a prick now, I’m getting a lot more accomplished than I ever have. I kinda like the dark side.
Lookout, we have a badass over here
Lol David
@@davidmalindy6178 your mother said the same thing when she made me breakfast the other day
Traits don't mean nothing dude YOU would know.
You would not have to try if you were a Sigma dude forget it move on.
I believe that the dark side of the sigma is quite possibly the darkest of all personalities. What makes for a sigma's greatness can allow them to become the worst of monsters. It has cost me dearly a number of times. Life throws curves, when a sigma runs off the deep end... it can get really ugly. Fortunately sigmas are aware of that possibility and guard against it.
Validlikasolid.💯
YeS. YeS.
Imagine if someone with the capability to choose wich person they want to be based on the circumstances of any given situation
Great video. It's no bed of roses if you really are a sigma
Sigmas can become psychopathic. Alphas can become sociopathic. Betas can develop unhealthy levels of dependence.
But it is difficult to find the silver lining in what you listed and not have any characteristics of being psychopathic and/or sociopathic.
@Thoth Ra Dah I don't understand on why you responded with such a stupid emoji.
I can’t argue with the psychopathic assumption. I’ve been using a tree as a punching bag lol
@Thoth Ra DahOkay then...
@@Odinfang I’m sure the tree understands. Be sure to apologize to it
The concept that there was such a personality as a sigma male has set me down such a rabbit hole of self reflection, I've just started watching more videos, and every one of them really makes more sense about me. This one in particular though.....
Stop watching videos and read. It will benifit you greatly if you are truly sigma.
Learning that I am or have the same characteristics as a Sigma Male is revealing and refreshing to know!! Keep up the good work Sir!
This guy might be the only actual sigma among us.... lol. His coment is intro spective he cares about knowing him self
I think the apathy part is one of the hardest to deal with. I've heard from many family members that they thought i didnt care, when I'd die for them. And there are also times where I wish I did care more in situations where I know I should. It's a hard balance in society.
Sigma will not compromise comfortability to fit in. The lone Wolf
When I went to the dark side, I was so toxic I hurt many people, but in integration I realized how much worth I gained from the devil in my own head. It was traumatic to see these things but in hindsight i have become better
Yes. That's my son all right. Condescending, overthinking, and on the surface, cold, lacking empathy, and having no time for human weaknesses.
Still, whenever our elderly neighbour knocked on the door feeling unwell and needing to be taken to hospital at 1 or 2 am, my son just put his shoes on and drove him.
That's another trait of a sigma. They have a hard time saying no. Before I knew about all these different traits of humanity I never knew who I was, but I've come to learn that I'm predominantly a dark sigma. I can't stand needy people but everytime someone needs something I can't say no and I can't help but help them out
I'm a sigma and am glad to be one. I'm also glad that my personality type is known and understood by psychologists. Among other known qualities, there are strong internal traits that auto-respond effectively in times of trouble. Those traits are also at work keeping my thought and action in check, and preventing extremism and its consequences.
Edward Fagan gets it.
Sigma is a term that alphas invented so people would stop pursuing the alpha sit and would accept their social position. Sadly so many betas have fallen into that trap.
you are not a sigma, you are a clown. the study that coined the term "sigma male" has been disproven countless times
I love being a loner but I’m still sociable
I used to be a big people person (still fake it at work) but 30 years dealing with "customers always right". Too many humanoids and I'll stay to myself for sanities sake.
I wonder if there's some such as a "broken sigma". Someone that's naturally a sigma but has been broken by narcissistic abuse.
Of course, but of course it can be Repaired too. Because you cannot Lose it, but it can get Rusty. ;D
That's the Sith Sigma
My worst attribute is paranoia but also I can work well with it
hit the nail right on the coffin with this video, well done.
an easy way to mitigate a lot of the traits listed is to find someone that you can respect and will respect when they tell you something is going on with you, someone you can bounce ideas off of to make sure you aren't going off the rails with your thoughts and you actually respect their opinions
Who wants to mitigate them??
Thank you for the fantastic video. Absolutely agree with all points except #4. Sigma will not judge quickly in case of complicated situations and behaviours because he knows about probabilities more than anyone. The deep thinker can judge quicker if he thought and analized the clear situation and behaviours before it happened. In General our life is complicated so it needs time to make a final judgement, therefore sigmas mostly are not quick to judge.
Templar Knights, Fraternities, Legends. What a humble group of Sigmas can accomplish.
also, if someone we really care about wants to try and give us the silent treatment, beware... we are masters at it to a sometimes uncontrollable point (hence, stubbornness) to where we even can't unlock it.
Hahaha that's 100% true fact...
I got all 15 but I don't think I'm a Sigma.
Don't most people have these kinds of traits?
Nope
Most people are shepeole
Some, not most.
@@jasonandrews2921 Haha so true 👍
I got 14 wither that's a sigma or not I'm still not gonna call myself sigma because I'm just a male nothing more nothing less.
In group conversations I have to be above it all and patient at the same time. I have also found that it's best to be silent for the most part. People respond negatively/get defensive to the sigma truths I bring.
The last point which you mentioned happened to me when I was 18-22 years old, but after graduation and starting to work I realized that it wasn't so and I started not caring about who's right and who's wrong and why it doesn't matter to me, the only thing that I still cannot tolerate by any means is the person who flooded their own lives with drama and fake routines to make others believe something, master pycel in GOT would be a good example for this, the drama is so high that sometimes even themselves believe that it's true, that brings out the monster inside which even I hate.
Same. I hate it when people tell me their drama and expect me to give AF...
People dont understand sigmas get darker and deeper when we get older
"omg so me"
Me too bro
Gayyy u guys should makeout
I actively repell stubbornness with conviction daily. I had a serious issue with stubbornness, but as I became a man I learned that conviction is stronger and a much healthier trait I need to nurture in myself. Conviction is unwavering and is based on purpose.
Sigma mentality with infj personality can appear more contradictory but still is pretty much true 👍
These video's are great, really interesting.
I sometimes have a tendency to express my love for someone close to me through loyalty to them as a apposed to affection in some form. I am getting better but some still think that I'm cold
I only enjoy being by my self n providing for my kids i dont love much company when i am home its my time
We do not bend we do not break and most of all hate every thing and every one thats fake. People that don't respect that need to just stay out the way so what if we don't want too be you're leaders were more than capable
As a sigma I grew up with appetite for aggression towards others I saw them as inferior as a point of trying to change or control that I associated anger with pain , but unfortunately that turned against me cuz the more physical pain I felt the more my anger and rage grew inside of me until I snapped and I then wanted the one causing me pain to feel three times as much from me thinking that he would be less likely to want to hurt me again in the future, fortunately I grew older and learned how to turn off physical pain to a large extent because it is literally all in your head, that's just a negative aspect that I grew older and learned more self control over it
I agree with some of what you said, but sigmas if it's true don't go after weak people. They are giant killers. Few and far between now days.
Thank you, I have conquered these all these problems, every blue moon I have some Difficulty with acouple of these but is usually balanced out by a good night's rest, your greatly appreciate I love the ones about flaws so I have a better ideal of how to approach these problems as they take place, thank you for taking the time to understand people like us, you must know something others do not
Just learning how.
I started my journey as a sigma when I saw the cracks in my father moral codes.
Before that I was completly "lost at sea" in society
Now I'm trying to cary it throught misjudgments incomprehensions of others, it's a full time job lol
We're (generally) cordial/nice because we're uninvolved... If you're being treated otherwise. You did/said something to earn it.
Absolutely 💯💯🤗 we allow others to display as if we don't know nothing about situation,by the time you said I got you we already there waiting for you.
#2 did it for me🤣🤣🤣... In 3rd grade I was in a spelling 'b' in front of the entire school, I refused to go back and huddle with my group because I was "sure" I new the answer to the question. They begged and pledded with me to come to the huddle but I refuse. I told them "chill I got this".. I went up to the podium and got it wrong... 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I lost a pizza party and 3 friends that day🤣🤣🤣...
Was the work 'Plead' that you got wrong?
@@MM-sq5pf Mississippi
There are dark side in everything without balance.
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It's nice to always be right. And be able to destroy someone with a few words.
I once had a friend who, one night when we got drunk, tried to convince me that I was a narcissist because I think that I’m always right. Or think that I know everything. And from how I have a hard time seeing things outside from my own perspective. Of course this all stemmed from me correcting her because she said something that was wrong. Like she literally couldn’t understand that I only choose to talk about things that I have a good understanding of. And the reason I am always right is because I don’t say anything if I’m not confident in what I’m going to say. why talk about something and act like you know more than you do when you don’t? I don’t get it.
@@ep1207 i agree to that.
@@Markcus003 agree to what exactly?
@@ep1207 the part about always right.
@@Markcus003 oh okay. Yeah it blows peoples minds that some people only talk about what they know. Then again she believes in astrology so you can see how logic is hard for her to understand. We aren’t friends anymore because I wouldn’t put up with her narcissism
Morals of the general public seem extremely lenient towards those who would cause harm to those of innocence. I completely disagree with this.
i LOLd out loud at number one
I have dark sigma male traits and fine with it. Dealing with a lot of idiotic people made me this way. Mainly 7 to 11 the I especially don't care haveing. Is a cold hard exterior.
Knowing what you are is half the battle. If my behavior becomes negative because of these traits I can look at them closely and change my behavior. As the video states "extra effort". I know I have changed alot of my behaviors but some of these still get me. There is a huge downside to being a Sigma male. I heard the word "healthy". That's important. Over thinking is a big issue for me. It's also paid off which leaves me confused at time. Am I right or am I wrong?
When I was younger it was much worse. I consider myself to be a work in progress.
After watching a couple of these videos, I'm realizing that I'm the rare Sigma who doesn't have facial hair.
Use your pubic hair on your face
Just as granma used to say
Lool
So good. Thank you!
Im wondering if you can be a sigma and not know that for years? Is that possible?
When I was little, they called it high functioning autism.
Awesome!! content thanks we Signas Rock!!
In hindu caste system sigma rule alpha and alpha rule gama and gama rule betas
It takes a lot of experiences and failures to control the dark side. It's most important to stay humble and open minded.
So every sigma has to be successful like Elon Musk? That's bullshit. Life's circumstances can stack against anyone.
Yes, but you can always rise above and success is measured by the individual not society.
No .. not successful by out side opinions, satisfied ,i can live with my self, Content
I am just okay with catering me and my family needs, and also catering for the people around...
That what real success is to me
No matter how much I care about someone, I’m
Always putting myself first. It’s up to me to improve my life and keep myself safe
The actors in this video"s only grindset is being sold like a kitchen set, after the grind.
I laughed out loud when overthinking pop on the screen and that hits the nail exaclty on the head.......
What about ligma males? 😂🤣
I'm a Sigma, Gamma, Delta, Omega mix. I'm not sure if any of these allocations are scientifically proven but they do describe well personality traits.
I find when I step into the Alpha to Omega scale I know something is wrong within me and I have not taken the time to reflect and/or face the problem. I've missed something within, which I hate.but this is the moment I have come to realise I'm stepping into my path to self destruct. Please be careful and self aware.
So bad!😎👍
I almost resigned from my job tomorrow. I listened to this first.
fantastic video .. thank you
Very well done.
Being an ex Sigma (I am a Zeta now) I can say that was good. Even in my Omega, then Gamma days a common comment was how cynical I was. I always thought I had an inbuilt BS detector that just got stronger with age. Those 'games' where people tried to say so and so (some super hot woman) was around asking about you would elicit a knowing smirk that played into my reputation for cynicism. They soon gave it away as a waste of time.
Spot on, there is a "flip-side" to this "gift." "To thine own self be true." Know "all" of thy self... they call it "humility," and it's very s;ippery to hold on to. ;)
Absolutely recognize these traits. So much so. That I just Subscribed to your channel.
Great! Thank you!
Don't really know how I found this sigma stuff it really just popped up on my UA-cam n I've beenwatching it for the last few days but I've always said to myself that I wuz unique but I couldn't tell you what type of man I wuz I just knew I wuz all of" these" things rolled into one but I know I didn't identify as a beta bc I stand my ground with anyone I wasn't an alpha bc I really don't like the attention but this sigma is me all the way thru n I'll continue to watch and also learn more about my inner anxieties n dark thoughts thru this new information I've received ...I really needed this for more understanding of where I stand in life
Keep the content coming!
I have been each of these in varying amounts at various times in my life. Cynicism and apathy have probably been my two biggest pitfalls. I'm happier serving understanding for those close to me than I am letting it rot
My Motto is "My Life, My Rules"
A sigma listens to others, but not often consider their arguments solid enough to rival his own.
You called me out, in a good way. I see myself possessing some of these negative attributes.
Respect more often than not ends up generating massive amounts of hate
Especially like the last bit of advice
I hate stereotypes or classifying people, but damn, some of this hits home. The good and bad.