Thank you for doing this for us all. I haven't lost spouse but I lost my grama (yes spelled wrong but that's the way I've spelled it since I was 4 or 5 yrs old for her) it has been 3 yrs and I still struggle with it daily. Sending you hugs and love
Thankyou for sharing your heart with us your audience. I've never lost a life partner. I've never really had a good personal intimate relationship. I've chosen to stay single since 2015 and have pets (currently 5 rescues) I will never forget when my beloved Nana died. When she died I was all over the place. I remember being uncharacteristically angry. Rage filled me. Losing my temper over little things, and in public. I thought I was losing my mind. It was a long time ago, 20+ years. When you lose the most beloved person in your life it changes you. Remember to be kind to yourself. Try not to be harsh on yourself. You may feel that you are doing things mechanically and that's ok. Try to do one kind self soothing thing each day. Maybe a bath or a walk in a nearby park breathing in the fresh air. Just one kind thing each day. Sending love and hugs from Australia.
This is so much like me processing my health condition ( not the same but a big change) …. All from a toxic building. You’re taking everything day by day ( that is the hard thing)
Thank you for doing this for us all. I haven't lost spouse but I lost my grama (yes spelled wrong but that's the way I've spelled it since I was 4 or 5 yrs old for her) it has been 3 yrs and I still struggle with it daily. Sending you hugs and love
Sorry to hear that, hunny. Sending hugs and love right back x
Thankyou for sharing your heart with us your audience.
I've never lost a life partner. I've never really had a good personal intimate relationship. I've chosen to stay single since 2015 and have pets (currently 5 rescues)
I will never forget when my beloved Nana died. When she died I was all over the place. I remember being uncharacteristically angry. Rage filled me. Losing my temper over little things, and in public. I thought I was losing my mind. It was a long time ago, 20+ years. When you lose the most beloved person in your life it changes you.
Remember to be kind to yourself. Try not to be harsh on yourself. You may feel that you are doing things mechanically and that's ok. Try to do one kind self soothing thing each day. Maybe a bath or a walk in a nearby park breathing in the fresh air. Just one kind thing each day. Sending love and hugs from Australia.
Sorry to hear about your nana. Hugs to you x
This is so much like me processing my health condition ( not the same but a big change) …. All from a toxic building. You’re taking everything day by day ( that is the hard thing)
It's a change that's hard to comprehend. You're doing amazingly well, my love x