Not gonna lie, it is cannon they'd most likely react this way, just not simp so I'm fine with this though- But that don't mean the Responses of them trying to comfort Y/N kind of ticked me off. I understand they wanna help, but none of those are meant to be said to a person, 'Why didn't you tell me?' They are clearly speaking about it now, and if they hadn't read the other texts, it was the consent fear talking to Y/N and maybe even mocking her how they might leave Y/N. They said it as if it was so easy to talk about it, I say Y/N is pretty fucking brave to come up and speak about her fears and past. Don't, what so ever talk about your Problems to a Depressed person, cause then they will fear for you life along with others who even talk about theirs, as if they hope it will calm them. Instead, it'll just feel like they are completing which problem is worse. It's fucked up to even do that, the person who finally opened up, will close themselves instantly soon after. They'd feel like a burden. It's common to have Trust issues with this kind of world, but it's more fucked up when I see people commenting instantly to the person who even had the courage to type out they're pain and, it's as if they are competing which pain is far worst. You comfort, you don't shut them down with your own pain as if you want them to fucking shut up. Only say 'Trust Me' if you truly mean it and don't, pressure them to continue if they don't want to. It could be extremely traumatic, you have to study the person and the texts, don't instantly say you love them out of nowhere, cause then they will feel like you are only saying that cause they told you of the said person's pain. I'm saying this from experience, and though, this might be useless to others and I might get hate, I just wanted to say this. Everyone's experience could be different, this is just my opinion and my thoughts on this, if you don't agree then please don't say anything at all.
Couldn't have described this any better myself to be honest, I tried to stick to cannon as much as possible but some times I forget simple things that either should be said, or don't need to be said. Thank you for your comment ❤ I also appreciate how you did say things to help people so they can comfort others if they come across a similar situation ❤
I'm back, and not so angry and a bit ticked off as I said, so I'll put out simple facts on what to do, well this is what I wished to be comforted when I had vented; so it may be different for others I suppose??? "Why didn't you tell me?" It's common sense on why they hadn't, sure it'd be great to finally open up, but that's actually hard to do so when everyone around you is a bit toxic or not. It could be because of the overbearing weight and thoughts that are on the person, so they're absolutely terrified to even vent or tell them something as serious as Family Problems, Abuse, Toxic Relationships. The texts and replies as Y/N started to explain through a song, had came off as aggressive or hadn't seemed as if they cared much, as they kept cutting her off or such. It's canon they'd most likely do this, but I urge you to not do that when a person is coming out about subjects like this. Yes, you can comment once in a while as they come out, and you could also urge the person to get help, but let the person let they're feelings out; it's likely they've kept they're feelings all wrapped up for how long. "You Can Talk To Me/Us" It's clear they're doing that, to the person or to me, it seems as if you're trying to tell them to hurry up so you could leave, it ends up closing the person off and just tell them it's nothing and then they'd leave it as that even if you urge the person to continue speaking. Don't, speak about your problems when they're finally talking about theirs after how long, you're basically shutting them up in the said persons view, so they'll shut up and change the subject or just not speak to you whatsoever. When Y/N was talking about her mind that's sort of like a Mansion, they kind of just wanted to force in; rather then waiting. If the person doesn't want to talk about it anymore, let it be and rather let the person start to finally open up to you bit by bit, no matter how long it is. As I wrote earlier, don't shower the person in absolute love so quickly, like for instance; "I love you Y/N please open up more, so I could help you" "I love you Y/N, I'm here for you, but why haven't you told me before" and such more, it'd be like you're only showering them in love because you pity them. Start by showering them in love when they start to do so, don't coax for more info, more like comfort them. through text or not, show that you'll be there just as long as you had promised you'd be there for. That's all, I apologize it took me Three Months for this.
This made me realize how good it is I broke up w/my partner. He always called me to vent about his problems because he didn't trust his therapist and just yell about his family and friends until he felt better. (Never talked about me badly or yelled at me) I never knew how to help since he just seemed to not want to work on it. (Not that ut isn't difficult, I know how difficult it is to change something or how your mind gets so caught up in things.) I long since realized I was avoiding talking about any of my problems or say I was having a bad day because I didn't want him to feel like I was shifting the convo into how "I was having a much harder time" so I just ignored all my problems like that would make it go away. It was onto when he talked about how he wouldn't know how to live without me that I starting really thinking about how I wasn't in love or really happy with the relationship at all. I still have plenty of problems but the plans and steps I've taken since breaking up and cutting contact with my ex is wonderful.
Not gonna lie, it is cannon they'd most likely react this way, just not simp so I'm fine with this though- But that don't mean the Responses of them trying to comfort Y/N kind of ticked me off. I understand they wanna help, but none of those are meant to be said to a person, 'Why didn't you tell me?' They are clearly speaking about it now, and if they hadn't read the other texts, it was the consent fear talking to Y/N and maybe even mocking her how they might leave Y/N.
They said it as if it was so easy to talk about it, I say Y/N is pretty fucking brave to come up and speak about her fears and past.
Don't, what so ever talk about your Problems to a Depressed person, cause then they will fear for you life along with others who even talk about theirs, as if they hope it will calm them. Instead, it'll just feel like they are completing which problem is worse. It's fucked up to even do that, the person who finally opened up, will close themselves instantly soon after. They'd feel like a burden.
It's common to have Trust issues with this kind of world, but it's more fucked up when I see people commenting instantly to the person who even had the courage to type out they're pain and, it's as if they are competing which pain is far worst. You comfort, you don't shut them down with your own pain as if you want them to fucking shut up.
Only say 'Trust Me' if you truly mean it and don't, pressure them to continue if they don't want to. It could be extremely traumatic, you have to study the person and the texts, don't instantly say you love them out of nowhere, cause then they will feel like you are only saying that cause they told you of the said person's pain.
I'm saying this from experience, and though, this might be useless to others and I might get hate, I just wanted to say this. Everyone's experience could be different, this is just my opinion and my thoughts on this, if you don't agree then please don't say anything at all.
Couldn't have described this any better myself to be honest, I tried to stick to cannon as much as possible but some times I forget simple things that either should be said, or don't need to be said. Thank you for your comment ❤ I also appreciate how you did say things to help people so they can comfort others if they come across a similar situation ❤
I'm back, and not so angry and a bit ticked off as I said, so I'll put out simple facts on what to do, well this is what I wished to be comforted when I had vented; so it may be different for others I suppose???
"Why didn't you tell me?" It's common sense on why they hadn't, sure it'd be great to finally open up, but that's actually hard to do so when everyone around you is a bit toxic or not. It could be because of the overbearing weight and thoughts that are on the person, so they're absolutely terrified to even vent or tell them something as serious as Family Problems, Abuse, Toxic Relationships.
The texts and replies as Y/N started to explain through a song, had came off as aggressive or hadn't seemed as if they cared much, as they kept cutting her off or such. It's canon they'd most likely do this, but I urge you to not do that when a person is coming out about subjects like this.
Yes, you can comment once in a while as they come out, and you could also urge the person to get help, but let the person let they're feelings out; it's likely they've kept they're feelings all wrapped up for how long.
"You Can Talk To Me/Us" It's clear they're doing that, to the person or to me, it seems as if you're trying to tell them to hurry up so you could leave, it ends up closing the person off and just tell them it's nothing and then they'd leave it as that even if you urge the person to continue speaking.
Don't, speak about your problems when they're finally talking about theirs after how long, you're basically shutting them up in the said persons view, so they'll shut up and change the subject or just not speak to you whatsoever.
When Y/N was talking about her mind that's sort of like a Mansion, they kind of just wanted to force in; rather then waiting. If the person doesn't want to talk about it anymore, let it be and rather let the person start to finally open up to you bit by bit, no matter how long it is.
As I wrote earlier, don't shower the person in absolute love so quickly, like for instance; "I love you Y/N please open up more, so I could help you" "I love you Y/N, I'm here for you, but why haven't you told me before" and such more, it'd be like you're only showering them in love because you pity them.
Start by showering them in love when they start to do so, don't coax for more info, more like comfort them. through text or not, show that you'll be there just as long as you had promised you'd be there for.
That's all, I apologize it took me Three Months for this.
I forgot I made these two comments and I was close to putting out facts again- I'm so sorry 😖
This made me realize how good it is I broke up w/my partner. He always called me to vent about his problems because he didn't trust his therapist and just yell about his family and friends until he felt better. (Never talked about me badly or yelled at me) I never knew how to help since he just seemed to not want to work on it. (Not that ut isn't difficult, I know how difficult it is to change something or how your mind gets so caught up in things.) I long since realized I was avoiding talking about any of my problems or say I was having a bad day because I didn't want him to feel like I was shifting the convo into how "I was having a much harder time" so I just ignored all my problems like that would make it go away.
It was onto when he talked about how he wouldn't know how to live without me that I starting really thinking about how I wasn't in love or really happy with the relationship at all.
I still have plenty of problems but the plans and steps I've taken since breaking up and cutting contact with my ex is wonderful.
"I'm adopting them f- u"
I love Aizawa 😂
"Why do I hear sirens"
"Well you broke the law sweetheart" that shit is terrifying
I love how bff/n is explaining everything for denki to understand🤣🤣
These vids keep me sane
WHAT IS S/O /N IVE BEEN TRYING TO FIGURE IT OUT?! 😭😭😭😭
'Significant Other Name', I didnt want to specify a gender so that whoever watches this can choose ❤
-i prolly should've specified in the video-
pt 3 pls