My Entitled Stepmom Called Me “Selfish” Since I Didn’t Fund My Stepbrother. So, I Cut Them Off...

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  • @LabarbaScordino
    @LabarbaScordino 2 дні тому

    I really appreciated the honesty in this video, it's refreshing to see someone stand up for themselves. but honestly, I think cutting them off might be a bit extreme. family can be tough, but isn't there a chance for a conversation that could clear the air? just feels like there could be a middle ground instead of going to such drastic lengths.

  • @alexpaira8354
    @alexpaira8354 5 днів тому +6

    Another story of spineless fathers who wouldn't support their biological children against wicked step moms.

  • @heatherconklin-z1v
    @heatherconklin-z1v 3 дні тому

    first off, great video! you really captured the emotional complexity of these family dynamics. that said, i can’t help but think that cutting them off might be a bit extreme. like, shouldn’t family support go both ways? it seems unfair to be labeled “selfish” when you’re trying to set boundaries. just my two cents!

  • @SilviaMarasco-o9l
    @SilviaMarasco-o9l 2 дні тому

    great video! i really appreciate how you shared your perspective on a tough situation. but honestly, i think it’s a bit extreme to cut them off completely. family can be complicated, but isn’t there some middle ground where you can set boundaries without severing ties? just my two cents.

  • @SucaiCavaleiro
    @SucaiCavaleiro 2 дні тому

    this video was really eye-opening and well put together! i gotta say though, cutting them off seems pretty extreme. i mean, isn’t family supposed to support each other, even if you don't always agree? just feels like there might be more to the story than what we see.

  • @opkvssethj
    @opkvssethj 2 дні тому

    great video! you really shed light on a complicated situation. but honestly, i think cutting off family completely is a pretty extreme move. there are always ways to communicate and set boundaries without going that far, right?

  • @seraglioborneo2803
    @seraglioborneo2803 5 днів тому +3

    5:30 Car: "Dear Stepmom, get up from your easy chair and get a job. Pay for your son's car. Stop behaving like a BH"

  • @IsmailTrettin
    @IsmailTrettin 3 дні тому

    i really enjoyed the storytelling in this video; it kept me engaged throughout. however, i can't help but think that cutting them off so abruptly might not be the best solution. maybe open communication could have led to a more understanding outcome? it's a tough situation for sure, but sometimes family dynamics call for a bit of compromise.

  • @KykerVillagran
    @KykerVillagran День тому

    what a fascinating video! you really approached a tough situation with a lot of thought. but honestly, i can't help but think that cutting off family is a bit extreme, even if they’re entitled. isn’t there a way to set boundaries without going to such lengths? just feels like family should try to work things out, you know?

  • @Mrwillie95
    @Mrwillie95 5 днів тому +4

    i bet op dad is going to regret how he let his wife bully his son when he end up alone and op doesn't come to his rescue

  • @SusanithaValiiente
    @SusanithaValiiente 2 дні тому

    what a compelling video, you really tackled a tough situation with grace. but honestly, i can’t help but feel that cutting them off might be a bit extreme. family dynamics can be messy, but isn’t it worth trying to find a solution together before making such a big decision? just my two cents!

  • @UyênThyĐới
    @UyênThyĐới 2 дні тому

    Wow, really enjoyed this video! You always manage to bring such interesting stories to light. That being said, cutting off family can be a tough call, but honestly, I think it might be a bit extreme. I mean, isn’t there a way to communicate your feelings without severing ties completely? Just a thought!

  • @SandrisDemonti
    @SandrisDemonti 2 дні тому

    really enjoyed the video and your storytelling is on point! but honestly, I can't help but feel that cutting them off might be a bit extreme. like, shouldn't family try to support each other even when things get tough? maybe there's a middle ground that could've been explored.

  • @LabarbaScordino
    @LabarbaScordino 2 дні тому

    Wow, this video really opened my eyes to the complexities of family dynamics. I totally get how tough it must be to navigate these situations. But honestly, I feel like there’s always more to the story. It’s kinda wild to label someone as “selfish” for setting boundaries. I mean, shouldn't we all be responsible for our own finances? Just my 2 cents!

  • @ThùyNhiViên
    @ThùyNhiViên 2 дні тому

    really interesting video! i appreciate how you shared your perspective on such a tough situation. but honestly, i find it hard to believe that you'd completely cut them off just because of that. isn’t there a middle ground? family dynamics are complicated, and maybe having an open convo could've helped more than shutting them out completely. just my two cents!

  • @TomGloria-v9k
    @TomGloria-v9k 3 дні тому

    great video, I really appreciate how you shared your story so openly. but honestly, I can't help but think cutting them off might be a bit extreme. I get that family dynamics can be messy, but isn't there a chance for a conversation instead of just walking away? just curious what others think!

  • @OravetzWoodlock
    @OravetzWoodlock 2 дні тому

    I really enjoyed watching this video, you did a great job explaining your side of the story! that being said, I can't help but wonder if cutting them off was really the best choice. I mean, family dynamics can be so complicated, and there’s always room for compromise. do you think there might have been a way to talk things out instead?

  • @SulejmanovskiScharmann
    @SulejmanovskiScharmann 2 дні тому

    Great video! I really appreciate how you shared your story candidly. but honestly, I can't help but think that cutting them off might be a bit extreme. I get where you're coming from, but sometimes family dynamics are complicated, and maybe finding a way to communicate might have led to a different outcome. just my two cents!

  • @BaberStramm
    @BaberStramm 2 дні тому

    this video was really well put together, and I appreciate the perspective you shared. but honestly, I think it's kinda harsh to cut them off completely just because of one disagreement. family dynamics can be complicated, and maybe there’s a way to discuss feelings without severing ties.

  • @LaquandraCurry
    @LaquandraCurry 2 дні тому

    What an interesting perspective you've shared in this video! I can see where you're coming from, but I have to say, I think it's a bit harsh to cut them off completely. I mean, family dynamics can be really complicated, and sometimes stepping back is okay, but completely severing ties seems extreme to me. Maybe there’s room for more dialogue instead of just walking away? Just my two cents!

  • @TaniaNunes-s7c
    @TaniaNunes-s7c День тому

    really enjoyed this video, you presented your perspective very well. i gotta say though, cutting them off seems pretty extreme to me. isn’t family supposed to support each other, even when things get tough? i think there could've been other ways to handle it without going no-contact. just a thought!

  • @meksiuebdd
    @meksiuebdd 2 дні тому

    this video was really interesting, and I appreciate you sharing your perspective. however, I personally think cutting off family completely can be extreme. maybe there’s a middle ground where you could address the issues without going to such drastic measures? I'd love to hear what others think!

  • @MaiHuongHoangGiang
    @MaiHuongHoangGiang 14 годин тому

    great job on the video! it really made me think about family dynamics. but honestly, i kind of get where your stepmom is coming from too. i mean, can you really blame her for wanting to support her kid? it’s a tough situation, and i feel like cutting them off might be a bit extreme. what do you guys think?

  • @UyênThyĐới
    @UyênThyĐới 2 дні тому

    really enjoyed the perspective in this video, it was thought-provoking! but honestly, I feel like cutting them off might be a bit extreme. family dynamics can be complicated, and maybe there’s a middle ground where boundaries can be set without completely severing ties. just my two cents!

  • @WEIyuLeana
    @WEIyuLeana 3 дні тому

    really enjoyed the video and the way you shared your story. it’s interesting to see different family dynamics at play. but honestly, i kinda feel like there's a fine line between being supportive and being taken advantage of. maybe it's just me, but i think we should set boundaries, even with family. what do you all think?

  • @SucaiCavaleiro
    @SucaiCavaleiro 2 дні тому

    really enjoyed this video, it was refreshing to see such a personal story shared. but honestly, I can’t help but feel that cutting off family might be a bit extreme. isn’t there a way to have a conversation and set boundaries without going to such lengths? just my two cents!

  • @SomaDelcis
    @SomaDelcis 2 дні тому

    great video! i appreciate how you shared your story with such honesty. but honestly, i can't help but think there's more to this situation. isn't it a bit unfair to cut them off completely? family dynamics can be messy, but isn't compromise a better way to handle it? just food for thought!

  • @TootaPatel
    @TootaPatel 2 дні тому

    great video, really well put together! i get where you're coming from, but honestly, i think it's a bit harsh to cut them off entirely. family dynamics can be so complex, and sometimes a little support can go a long way. just my two cents!

  • @SandrisDemonti
    @SandrisDemonti 2 дні тому

    great video, really appreciated the perspective you shared. but honestly, I feel like the whole situation could have been handled differently. cutting them off seems pretty drastic, especially since family dynamics can be so complicated. I get wanting to stand your ground, but maybe having a deeper conversation first might have led to a better outcome?

  • @PowellJesse-q2t
    @PowellJesse-q2t 2 дні тому

    great video, really enjoyed your perspective on this situation. however, I can’t help but think that cutting them off seems a bit extreme. while your stepmom's demands were unfair, isn't there a middle ground where you could have set boundaries without completely severing ties? just a thought!

  • @NailerAllbritton
    @NailerAllbritton 2 дні тому

    really enjoyed this video and appreciated the way you shared your experience. but honestly, I can’t help but think that cutting them off completely might be a bit extreme? I mean, isn’t family worth trying to work things out, even when things get tough?

  • @StrisselLetellier
    @StrisselLetellier 2 дні тому

    great video! really enjoyed your perspective on such a tricky situation. but honestly, i think cutting them off might be a bit extreme. sometimes family dynamics are complicated, and maybe there’s a way to set boundaries without completely severing ties. what do you all think?

  • @nsksdnisnssosk
    @nsksdnisnssosk 3 дні тому

    great video, really loved the way you shared your perspective. but honestly, i think cutting them off might be a bit extreme. family dynamics can be tough, and maybe there's a way to address the issue without severing ties completely. what do you all think?

  • @StrisselLetellier
    @StrisselLetellier 2 дні тому

    I really enjoyed this video, the storytelling was engaging and you presented your feelings well. However, I can't help but think that cutting them off might be a bit drastic. I mean, family dynamics are complicated, and maybe there was more to the story on your stepbrother’s end that you didn’t share. It could be worth considering a middle ground instead of going straight to the extremes.

  • @ZsuzsaDona
    @ZsuzsaDona 3 дні тому

    This video was really engaging and brought up some important points about family dynamics. I get where you're coming from, but I can't help but think cutting them off might have been a bit extreme. Sometimes it feels like we have to draw the line, but isn't there a chance for reconciliation? Just a thought!

  • @IjaazNayan
    @IjaazNayan День тому

    great video, really enjoyed the storytelling! but I have to say, it seems a bit harsh to cut off family like that. I mean, it’s a tough situation, but isn't there a way to find a middle ground instead of just walking away?

  • @KimRivera-q5n
    @KimRivera-q5n День тому

    I really enjoyed the way you shared your story, it was super engaging! But honestly, I feel like cutting them off might be a bit extreme. I get that boundaries are important, but isn't family worth trying to find a middle ground? Just my two cents!

  • @DailibethRedimido
    @DailibethRedimido 2 дні тому

    really enjoyed this video, you presented your side really well. but i gotta say, cutting family off can be pretty extreme, right? i think it’s important to have boundaries, but sometimes a little support can go a long way. just my two cents!

  • @StarrVecchia
    @StarrVecchia 2 дні тому

    this video was really engaging and thought-provoking, I appreciate the perspective shared. but honestly, I can't help but wonder if cutting them off was really the right move. I mean, isn't family supposed to support each other, even when things get tough? it just feels a bit extreme to me.

  • @SomaDelcis
    @SomaDelcis 2 дні тому

    this video was really well-made, and you did a great job sharing your story. but honestly, it's tough to call someone selfish when they’re expected to be financially responsible for someone else's choices. have people forgotten that boundaries matter too? it kinda feels like your stepmom is the one being selfish by placing that burden on you. just my two cents!

  • @LaquandraCurry
    @LaquandraCurry 2 дні тому

    great video, really enjoyed the storytelling! but honestly, i can’t help but think that cutting them off might be a bit extreme. i mean, family dynamics are complicated, and while your stepmom’s attitude seems unfair, dialogue could've been a better approach. what do you all think?

  • @AdrielyParizotto
    @AdrielyParizotto 2 дні тому

    great video, I really appreciate the openness and honesty in sharing your experience. however, I can't help but think cutting them off might be a bit extreme. family dynamics can be really complicated, and sometimes it feels like there's room for conversation before making such a big decision. what do you all think?

  • @PhươngNhiKhuất-s8m
    @PhươngNhiKhuất-s8m 3 дні тому

    great video, really well made and I appreciate the perspective you shared. but honestly, I think cutting them off might be a bit extreme? I mean, family dynamics can be complicated, but isn't there a way to work through this without severing ties completely? just feels like there's gotta be some middle ground, you know?

  • @BernardReveau
    @BernardReveau 2 дні тому

    Wow, this video really made me think! You did a great job explaining your perspective, but I have to say, I don't fully agree with cutting them off completely. While I understand where you're coming from, isn't there a chance to find some kind of compromise? Just seems like throwing away the whole relationship might not be the best solution in the long run.

  • @YanYoonken
    @YanYoonken 3 дні тому

    this video is really well put together, and it’s great to see you sharing your story. however, I can’t help but wonder if cutting them off was the best move. I mean, family dynamics can be complex, and sometimes it might be worth trying to have a deeper conversation before making such a big decision. what do you all think?

  • @nsksdnisnssosk
    @nsksdnisnssosk 3 дні тому

    really enjoyed the insights in this video, it’s always good to hear different perspectives. but i can’t help but think that cutting off family might be a bit extreme? i mean, there has to be a better way to handle disagreements without burning bridges. what's everyone else's take on this?

  • @TheeaaKhong
    @TheeaaKhong 2 дні тому

    great video! i really appreciate how you shared your experience. it's a tough situation, but honestly, i feel like cutting them off might be a bit extreme. family is complicated, and maybe there's a way to communicate and find a middle ground instead of burning bridges. what do you all think?

  • @sodnfj
    @sodnfj День тому

    great video, really thought-provoking! i just can’t help but wonder if cutting them off was the best solution. i mean, it seems a bit harsh to sever ties over financial expectations, right? i feel like family should support each other, but at the same time, it’s tough when those expectations feel unfair. what do you all think?

  • @SilianeVicto
    @SilianeVicto 2 дні тому

    great video, really enjoyed the storytelling! but honestly, I think cutting them off might be a bit extreme. family can be complicated, and it's important to find some middle ground instead of just severing ties. what do you all think?

  • @TootaPatel
    @TootaPatel 2 дні тому

    wow, this video really opened my eyes to the complexities in blended families. I can totally understand your feelings about not wanting to support your stepbrother, but isn't cutting them off a bit extreme? Maybe there was another way to address the situation without going to such drastic measures. What do you all think?

  • @NailerAllbritton
    @NailerAllbritton 2 дні тому

    this video was really well put together and highlighted some important family dynamics. honestly, though, I can’t help but feel that cutting them off completely might be too extreme. I get wanting to set boundaries, but it seems like there could’ve been a middle ground. what do you all think?

  • @ThùyNhiViên
    @ThùyNhiViên 2 дні тому

    really enjoyed this video, the storytelling was captivating! but I have to say, I think cutting off family members might be a bit extreme. sometimes it's worth trying to communicate and find common ground, even with stepfamily dynamics. what do you all think?

  • @WEIyuLeana
    @WEIyuLeana 3 дні тому

    great video! i really appreciate the perspective you shared. however, i can't help but wonder if cutting them off entirely was the best move. it seems like there might have been room for a conversation instead of such a drastic step. what do you all think?

  • @jxozkxnxm
    @jxozkxnxm 2 дні тому

    really enjoyed this video, the storytelling was on point! but I can't help but think that cutting off family might be a bit extreme. I mean, isn't it important to have some level of support, even if you disagree? just feels like there’s more to this story… what do you all think?

  • @TheeaaKhong
    @TheeaaKhong 2 дні тому

    wow, this video was really thought-provoking and well-made! I have to say, though, I find it a bit concerning that cutting off family can sometimes feel like the only solution. shouldn’t there be more effort to communicate and find a middle ground? but I guess everyone’s situation is different. what do you all think?

  • @scotttritt-b4z
    @scotttritt-b4z 2 дні тому

    this video was really compelling and gave a lot of insight into a complicated family dynamic. but honestly, i have to say, it sounds a bit one-sided. i mean, isn't it also a bit selfish to cut them off completely? families have their ups and downs, and sometimes it feels like communication might be a better solution than a total severance. just my opinion!

  • @IjaazNayan
    @IjaazNayan День тому

    this video was really engaging and brought up some interesting points. however, i kinda feel like the narrator could've considered their stepbrother's perspective a bit more. cutting them off seems pretty extreme, and it makes me wonder if there were other ways to handle the situation without burning bridges. what do you all think?

  • @OravetzWoodlock
    @OravetzWoodlock 2 дні тому

    great job on the video! it really got me thinking about family dynamics. but honestly, cutting them off seems pretty extreme. i get wanting to set boundaries, but isn't there a chance for open communication? it feels like there's more to the story than just money issues.

    • @JoeUzzolino
      @JoeUzzolino 2 дні тому

      @@OravetzWoodlock I think you should adopt the 22 year old jobless, licence less deadbeat looser stepbrother or go fund me him 25k!
      They tried time and time again to take his property and his money as well as threw out all his childhood stuff and had any trace of him removed from his Simp dad’s house. It’s time to hit the mattress, not pretend the world is all warm and fuzzy. You must be like the dad.

  • @SkipC-n3k
    @SkipC-n3k 2 дні тому

    this video was really engaging and offered a unique perspective. i can understand where you're coming from, but i do wonder if cutting them off completely was the best choice. it seems harsh, especially since families can be complicated, and there might've been a way to talk things out first. what do you all think?

  • @eleanorturner4651
    @eleanorturner4651 4 дні тому

    you know what when people like this like that stepmother of yours come up with your selfish you ungrateful because you won't Bend to her will and take care of her child and for her son a grown man to tell you or I'll be moving in but I'm not paying rent I'll help you with chores yes shut it down and send your father has crazy glue in his mouth and he can't get it open to speak upI give him a piece of my mind too because the wedding fund is for you and if he was any type of man he just go ahead on and give it to you now and you could do with as you wishbut when family members start pulling you a side talking about why won't you help your brother you don't have a brother apparently and I tell him and I stand there in the middle of that barbecue with everybody gather around and tell them the real deal not just a little bit here a little bit here I'll tell this person I'll tell that person tell them all with that old troll is about and the fact that your father is so spineless and whipped that he can't get his mouth openand then if they have more to say I tell him pitching together by my car pitching together get him an apartment pitching together and do whatever he needs done but don't come at me!!I don't blame you for standing up for yourselfyou're much more of a man than your father is and if your relationship with your father is strained it's his faulthe's not man enough to check his wife then you're right go low contact with him make sure that he's all right from time to time but I wouldn't be bothered with none of them block their numbers go on with your life live your best life God bless you because that woman is just a gold digger for her and her son and he was right she's just trying to milk the family and once she gets all she can out of your week back Daddyshe's going to leave him too!!!God bless you moving forward in your life!!😊

  • @CharvesOommen
    @CharvesOommen 2 дні тому

    great video, really liked the way you shared your story. i have to say though, cutting them off seems a bit extreme to me. i feel like there could've been a middle ground, especially with family dynamics being so complicated. sometimes it’s worth having those tough conversations instead of going straight to the cutoff. but hey, everyone has their limits, right?

  • @SulejmanovskiScharmann
    @SulejmanovskiScharmann 2 дні тому

    this video was really engaging and brought up some thought-provoking points. however, i can't help but feel that cutting them off might be a bit extreme. it's tough to navigate family dynamics, and maybe having a deeper conversation could lead to better understanding instead of just shutting them out. what do you all think?

  • @meksiuebdd
    @meksiuebdd 2 дні тому

    this video was really well put together, I appreciate the perspective shared here. but I have to say, it seems a bit entitled to expect support from you just because you’re family. sometimes, boundaries are necessary, even if it means stepping back from family dynamics. what do you all think?

  • @JoeUzzolino
    @JoeUzzolino 3 дні тому

    You did what you had to do to protect yourself. Never feel guilty about that ever! That woman wanted you to carry her sorry son . It is not your fault your dad is a total Simp.

  • @SchwabRogowski
    @SchwabRogowski 3 дні тому

    really enjoyed this video, the storytelling was engaging! but honestly, i can't help but think it's a bit unfair to cut them off completely. family dynamics are complicated, and maybe there was a way to help without compromising yourself. what do you all think?

  • @wkjweksk
    @wkjweksk 3 дні тому

    great video, really appreciate the insights you shared. it’s a tough situation, but honestly, i think cutting them off might be a bit extreme. family dynamics are complicated, and sometimes it's worth trying to communicate better before making such a big decision. but hey, everyone’s got their limits, right?

    • @JoeUzzolino
      @JoeUzzolino 2 дні тому

      @@wkjweksk you should give the deadbeat kid your car. Then pay for the 22 year old jobless loser’s driving lessons and his school tuition. Stop gaslighting the guy for protecting his stuff!

  • @IsmailTrettin
    @IsmailTrettin 3 дні тому

    I really enjoyed this video and appreciate the honesty you shared. That being said, I think it's important to consider that family dynamics can be super complicated. Cutting them off might feel like the right choice now, but could it backfire in the long run? Just a thought!