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Hi. Thank you for the video. Just one comment, though, about the description leading to the link: maybe make it clearer that the support and encouragement you’re offering is to help women (or men) untangle themselves from the sex industry.
Great stuff. I don't advice to start an OnlyFans-account. The "man" at the top of the mountain(pyramid) is making all of the money, NOT you. Besides, all of your pics never go away AND I can assure you that FOREVER is a long long long time and then again you won't know how long time it is...and then it feels like a lifetime.
This happened to a movie star she was once Miss America back in 1983 when they spot her in being in Playboy magazine and they told her you have 40 hours to return your crown and it changed her life forever
This happened to a movie star she was once Miss America 1983 when she got caught being in Playboy magazine they told her you have 48 hours to return your crown
OK but why as a society are we teaching people that we should really care about what other people think. What should matter is how you feel about yourself and what is in your heart. If you want to make money I’ll be in hot do it. You don’t need other women telling you that you are going to be nothing than a sexual object once people start treating you that way. Who you are it’s who you see yourself as. Do you want to be a female entrepreneur through sex work do it. But stick to your guns don’t want other people influence you
@@highvalue1195- I understand where you are coming from, but unfortunately, this is a society led (and owned - at least in their minds) by a few privileged individuals that love to point their finger and condemn others, thus deflecting people from seeing the privileged's OWN dark shadows... Like the Tony Montana character said in _Scarface_ , "You need people like me so you can point your #$%&! finger and say, 'There! THAT'S the BAD GUY!' " I didn't imply that one could NOT sell their body and make a fortune, if that's their choice, I just said that it's a profession in which they're going to go through being singled out and made to feel very much alone!
@@Mani67899 no it s not dumb for exemple if you re the guy always talking about mathematics physics all the time do you think people will see you as a musician? Or if you re always brag about your money your car your buisnnes do you think they will see you has someone humble ? Or you re the one always making noise , talk a lot friend with everyone do you e expect people see you as someone quiet ? So now go to watch interview of onlyfans girl look how arrogant Or proud they are when you re telling them to leave that buisness , or go to follow them without texting them watch their message they will leave for you everyday and after that do you think it s bad if people see them as sex workers
She is right. I’ve been in the industry since 2009. Starting out as a webcam model. Joined OF in 2017. Over time it WILL wear down your self worth. I promise you.
Oh… you poor thing..😢 I’ve been working factory job for 30 years. Busted back, tired af, low wage, child support, old car, no social life no woman no nothing. And there are Millions like me suffering. Tell me your problems of showing your stuff for a ton of quick cash sitting on your ass.
not to mention the high rate of drug abuse and suicide. consumers see just what they want and ignore the dead stares and stoned actresses. And no real life woman will compete so they return for more content. I am sorry about what your choice did to you.
The point about how temporary "OF" is and how detrimental it can be towards a person's future is perhaps one of the most overlooked things that people overlook and kudos to you for highlighting this to someone thinking about pursuing it.
As a man, I want to say thank you for trying to talk women out of doing OF. It's like drug dealers, the money is good, possibly, but the price is to high like you said.
Why do men keep complaining about the women instead of the men consuming it? Both need to be talked out of it. I'm tired of people acting like men can't control their sexual impulses (not saying that's you).
@@swampsprite9 Yes, it needs to checked on both sides of the fence. Corn is out of control and it's going to mess up a lot of kids and adults. Going back to the drug analogy. It's enticing and addictive. But the price to pay in the end is to much. How do you stop people from doing it? All you can do is try and make it illegal and show people what happens when you do it. Show people the aftermath.
This woman’s an absolute angel for doing this! Remember whoever reads this…. Always do the right thing be a good person and you’ll reap those benefits from that but if you sign up for this…. You’ll reap the benefits from fans only and I bet it won’t be worth it 💗
ABSOLUTELY! Too many women are being fooled into thinking they’re “empowering” themselves by turning themselves and their bodies into a sexual object. Women considering this as a real job choice need to learn to value themselves far more than they currently do.
Peace and prosperity, Thank you for sharing your time. I have been thinking about doing only fans lately. This is my first time in my life that I'm going through extreme financial hardship, and I can honestly say that God is EVERYTHING 🗣 I have no support on earth at this time of my life, I'm not trying to come off as a pity party, but it's the truth. If you have family, love one, friends, support, etc. Please, embrace it, don't take for it granted. Be blessed everyone. 😇
Thank you for making this. I'm fairly young and still find it sad to see the direction society is going in. It definitely feels dramatically different than the world I grew up in.
@@tonimartin8547 Playboy wasn't so widespred though it was often a number of selected women. Now it is like a pandemic with thousands of your average women doing it. So don't compare it to Playboy back in the days.
Stop blaming society, blame the individual silly decisions. You’re accountable for the choices you make. A decent man doesn’t respect a woman that lowers herself to make money with her body… definitely not girlfriend material let alone wife. Don’t go pointing the finger at others 🤦♂️
Thank you for this kind reminder. I was just researching the possibility of opening an only fans account because I'm really broke........ But now I have come to realize there is a better future that awaits me. Thank you for pulling me out of this.
Thank you so much for the advice sweet lady!! As a disabled single mom struggling (no milk or dish soap at the moment), I keep getting told to save us with an olnyfans, I’m so glad I came across your video while researching it. I worked at club starlight in the late 90’s-early 2000 in order to make the $ to quarantine my dog to take to Hawaii for school. Definitely saw the “go home” girls get chewed up and spit out and was so fortunate not to get sucked into that and the drug circus. I didn’t make as much but I made enough to make it worthwhile. I can see how desperation would quickly devolve into behavior unbecoming or ever intended. Bless you for letting girls know, stay safe sweetlove 🥰
And a good thing to also keep in mind (constantly); once it’s out there- it’s out there forever and I always imagine the person I have the most respect for seeing whatever I have out, and being disappointed, sad even, and that thought alone gives me shame and guilt. I don’t think I have what it takes.
This is absolutely true and I appreciate this video so much. And yes, we’re all worth so much more. But sadly I need the money to live and I still get harassed and objectified as a waitress but at least this allows me to “work for myself”. This is a very sad truth but it’s how the world works for now
She is speaking from her heart I can see it in ur eyes and hear it in her voice I never thought about doing only fans but thank you for doing this for all the other women out there god bless
You are an Angel.... I hope you know that. Thank you for having the courage, the heart, and the evolvement this must have taken to put this invaluable message out there. I can ONLY imagine how many people you've helped from going down a path they had no idea they weren't ready for... I know that it all must sound so great on paper - but at the cost of your morale, vitality, spirit and overall mental health - there is no amount of money that is worth taking any of that. All I know is.... The devil got a black eye today!!! Thank GOD for you. ❤
I’m a husband for 10 years and a father of a 4 year old girl . Amazing! And powerful speech that should be listen to and spread to multiple women . Everyone is quick to find an easy way to make a buck and then flaunt the life style to other young women that aren’t seeing that there is always both sides to a story. Having someone hidden behind a computer scene putting a dollar amount on how far they can push your ethical bar , is belittling itself . I think more women need to give credit to themself and really hold there true beauty to themself and to someone that cares for them internally and external. A female should be cherished and loved. Not used and abused. The biggest one making a fool out of these women , is the one who created this only fan platform!
Thank you for your analysis, I appreciate it :) As a long-retired adult entertainer myself, I'm sad that you and many others feel like the work took you away from yourselves... I didn't have the same experience; in fact, I not only felt empowered, but that I was providing an essential service to folks who either needed some spice in their marriage (Chinese couple in audience, wife elbowing husband "YOU WATCH! you watch HER! ), or to the lonely fellow in desperate need of a companion he could relate to :) And then there were the stag parties - man, ever do one for a Philippino family??? Kids were present and everything, and after the show etc it was karaoke for the rest of the night! But, I was also brought up differently, being Dutch by birth, so the concept of sex work was never one of degradation :) While there were incidences, bad clients, bad clubs etc, for the most part I do not regret being that spark, entertaining a joyful crowd in their own home, or being that ear/consoling voice 🥰 Now, in my middle age, I am considering doing an onlyfans, but not something akin to what all the other young ladies are doing. I have an idea, and I doubt my perceived content would be a target for pirates, and as for stalkers - well, um, yeah - first they have to find me, then they have a few "barriers" to get through, and I'll let you guess the outcome ;) Thanks again for this video, I'm still on the fence as to whether or not to bite the bullet, but I'm kinda leaning towards it... Will see what happens, I guess 🤷
Thank you so much for this video, I used to cam and I couldn't do it for more than two month it broke me mentally and emotionally 💔.....I hated it so much, I grief to convince myself that I needed to continue due to financial trials.... but my soul just wouldn't allow me to continue because of my faith. I got sick at a point as someone had screenshot me whilst camming..... he ended up stalking me on all platforms. The industry is not a good one the consequences affect you more than what many are willing to admit. Thank you so much 💓 for sharing this video
im sorry fam you went through that fr, i think this is the dark side of porn and onlyfans that a lot of young women like yourself didnt understand going into it, i think getting gassed up by horny men may be cool for a day or two but like u said, its just a lot. im sure you felt inhuman after a while and im not sure what faith you believe in, but i will be sure to pray for you today. Im sorry you just felt like u had to sell your body to make it through, i hope you heal this mothers day, and just realize that Jesus can heal all and redeem all. That even though you have this past, Jesus loved former sex workers too, they actually spread the gospel after he died. God values you just as much as his Son and the next person, his love for you has no bounds. Just wanted to share that with you today cause I have a dirty past too and Gods been nothing but good. I hope you can find encouragement and also a future partner who will love you regardless. Be blessed today and I hope you felt some type of affection by this. My heart goes out to you- K.D.
Just came across your video. I'll pass it on. I didn't know what onlyfans were. Came across people talking about online. I see now. Smh. Jesus loves you sister. Keep doing what you are doing. Shalom!
Thank you for this video. We need more people like you to speak out. Please consider touring schools, get the message out to young girls (and boys) before it’s too late.
Her admonishing words are so loving and glorifying. Thank you for sharing your own experience to help us to avoid considering those same faulty decisions.
Thank you so much for posting this. This opened my eyes in so many ways and I feel like I just had a personal awakening about my own life. This industry can make you feel so alone, and hearing you talk about this is the first time I haven’t felt completely alone in a while. So thank you so much for making this ❤️
now insta has this subscriber option... and girls are earning lots of money.. even insta allows nudity in certain categories..so they just have to be nude in that category
I will say alot of these things are true of most jobs tbh - overworked , pressured to take more than you can handle , underpaid, abused , bullied by coworkers or your boss
Are you insane? There’s no comparison. In a normal job (no matter how underpaid or overworked you are) you do your thing fully dressed with your dignity intact. People like you who normalise prostitution are part of the problem. Let’s see your daughter degrading herself on Onlyfans, and then let’s see your reaction to that. Will you pat her on the back and say well done to her? Can’t believe your comment…
Thank you. You just saved me. I almost tricked myself into thinking I'd start a music only account. But I deleted it. I don't want to willingly walk into a mental trap and have trauma.
I am very proud of this American Woman , speaking truth , speaking without fear , Her hands do no harm . Ladies , listen to what is being said , Do Not Sell Your Soul , you just might not get it back , God Bless this Woman , She is a soldier of Truth .
My friend started an onlyfans and it really destroyed her after a few weeks. I supported her decision to become a content creator but the baggage that came with being an onlyfans model...chamged her. She was such a sweet and loving woman and after just a few weeks she developed a disdain for men and she began to resent me. I am not sure of what she read in her comments but im sure that had something to do with it
This was great. Girls need to hear this. I also like that you include it under the 'sex industry' (on the game) heading. People can fool themselves. I think maybe a good question a girl should ask herself before jumping in to it might be "Would I want my daughter to do it?"
I'm hearing about this only fans thing and decided to come see what it is all about. Your video is the first one I watched and I don't think I need to watch another. Thank you! I can see that this is coming straight from your heart.
1 Timothy 6:10 “For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evils. It is through this craving that some have wandered away from the faith and pierced themselves with many pangs.”
@@nanipanini it’s the easiest way out of doing hard work… go become a tradie, mechanic or climb the corporate world. Be useful. Sex work is the easiest way out by far.
Sex work is super complex on many levels and requires amounts of energy and dedication, that's why it is often paid so well. It amazes me how people who never done sex work think it's easy. why would it lol it's like alchemy
@@nanipanini I’d never do sex work even if I wanted to. I have self respect & dignity. It’s a basic human function. It pays well only if you’re successful. It pays well because of desperate men out there who are willing to pay for it. Sex work is self deprivation.
I agree, but a lot people who get into it are : a. Preyed upon from a young age, because they come from broken homes, have been traumatized or are poor, etc. (some are outright trafficked) b. In a bad place in their lives with limited options, with everyone telling them there's an easy way out(onlyfans) c. Young women who get sold on an idea of easy rich living and don't know any better. Etc. I agree with you., we're all accountable for the choices we make.. But when people who have been chewed up by the porn industry speak up and try and raise awareness, I hope we can show them compassion and empathy, we all make mistakes.
When I was young, the easy money was stripping. So that's what we did when the jobs dried up back in the early 2000s. And she is right. You were never treated the same after and you were never the same after. OF is the new strip club. Yes you have more control, but the outrageous tip outs are still there, between taxes and paying the site. Oh, and you have to file a 1099 with them. So it's in the record. Even if you hide your face, your bosses/schools/etc anyone who pulls your taxes for verification is going to know. I will NEVER tell anyone what to do. Live your life and do what u gotta do to feed yourself. 💯 Just please keep stuff like this in mind bc it may not matter right now, but it might matter soon. I wish the best to everyone and hope we all have great days and success in whatever we do.
That's actually very interested and I didn't knew it worked like that. I remember another girl saying that she did and there is no way for people to find out that you did (and that they payment transfer doesn't say the "OF" company name).
Thanks foe sharing this. OF is een and marketed as a fun little side hustle, when in reality , it's super damaging to anyone who posts there. Best not to go there, it will save folks a lot of heartache. ❤
I don't know but I imagine that women who are on onlyfans end up doing drugs to cope with being on onlyfans. Thank you for the reality check hopefully it will prevent someone from ruining their life.
You are so nice to be so considerate even though you seen the darl side of this industry and still care for girls who might want to join you. You have a big heart.
The average OnlyFans user is 29 years old. 68.9% of users are likely to be white, 89.5% are likely to be married, and 59% are likely to be heterosexual. Abusing mental health issues for profit just means you contribute to LESS support for women and children. Over 51% of long-term marriages are in "dead bedrooms" and the couples have not had se-x for months with modern women using sex as a tool of control instead of an expression of love, biological need, and healthy free relationship building experience. In some ways it is the lamest but also the safest way to resorting to fantasy with online predators who sell themselves because they have nothing else to offer, they have the will or skill to make happen. Plenty of drama queens online post hate either because they hate hetro relationships or are jealous and bitter there is a diminishing pool of men they personally have access to.
Thank you for sharing this. As someone who has been an escort for 5 years (No porn and only fans) I only beg (young) women (and men) not to enter the sex industry. Period. For a lot of the same reasons she's talking about.
Good job for making this video!!! In so many other videos OF is glorified, spoke about as if it’s something so light and fun and very young girls believe it. Thank you!
Wow. Thanks for explaining exactly what this is. I was insulted by people telling me it was a good idea and easy money. I had no clue what it was and but my instincts said not so empowering sounding. All I ever hear is "it's harmless" or "basically soft porn". Thanks for doing disaster control for everyone who doesn't have that cool big sister to ask.
When you go into that world, you are living FOR the flesh. The LORD said if you LIVE for the flesh, you will reap the flesh, which is death. It will eat you alive, the soul in you becomes HARD and COLD and you become dependent on substances deal with the pain and WEIGHT inside you as all innocence and hope fade away. Once that devil gets its claws into you, it takes an ACT of GOD to get it out. It ruins the way you see people, you lose all hope of being able to truly trust anyone with a pure heart. Too scared to be OPEN and FREE with anyone, unless its with others doing the same rotten evil things you're doing (birds of a feather)...and the chains go deeper as you sink further into that world. You'll try to reason it away most days, try to convince yourself its only for a little while...or that its not 'so bad'...but you know its a losing battle with time and GODS patience. There is no UP side. Like a FLOWER that was CUT and put in a vase for everyone to admire...it is CUT from the vine of natural LIFE, never getting to live its GOD granted purpose...and in the vase, it grows dim...and old...and dead...until one day you're thrown in the trash...and all is forgotten.
Thank you 🙏 for making this! OF popularity fortifies the notion that serving men’s sexual fantasies is good for women when in reality it reinforces a perception of women as inferior & submissive. There’s a direct link between the objectification of women & acts of aggression & violence against them. Also, inferior social & political status, the gender pay gap, harmful gender norms, & the unequal division of labour in the family are the result of this perceived inferiority…OF affects ALL women & the future generations of women. Sex workers get judged harshly by other women, this is part of the reason & many of our husbands pay (80% users married) for it.
Actually I am thinking of making an account I need money badly to pay bills I've lost my job this pandemic bills and debts are piling up. ThAnk you for this appreciate it.
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As someone who does this, I disagree with a lot. I guess it depends on the person and your individual experiences. Definitely not a job for people with thin skin tho.
@@andreastyle4338 (Edit: typos corrected) You're not married. At the very most, you may have the legal contract through the Government, but that is absolutely not marriage. Real marriage. A REAL marriage is 2 people coming together, being 100% committed to and exclusive with each other, and coming together, and becoming one (with each other and with God) in front of and WITH God (the one and ONLY God/ Creator and ruler of all things). Actually being married 100% conflicts with, contradicts and prevents, engaging in things like onlyfans. The legal "married"/ marriage contract, etc, means ZERO when it comes to a real marriage. With that said, every aspect of what you're doing is unhealthy , toxic, harmful, damaging, destructive, self destructive and self sabotaging. It's 100% impossible to do it and have healthy, good results. And 100% guaranteed stress, confusion, pain, damage and failure. It 99%, 100% guaranteed. With that said, the only thing that would possibly surprise me if you and the man are still together after (it's been a year since your comments). If yall are now separated or in some other problematic/ undesirable position, it will surprise me 0%. With that said, If you decide you want to change and want help changing, you can contact me for guidance. Take care and God bless.
@@DrMathOfficial Lmao. Thanks for the laugh buddy. Me and my husband are still together and things are better than ever. Oh and your God doesn't exist.
@@andreastyle4338 You saying God doesn't exist tells me you and your husband aren't actually married, and probably aren't together now (because that type of situation is not sustainable/ can't last for long, let alone forever). You better find and gain a relationship with God and Jesus Christ before it's too late for you. Good bye.
The money?? That seems to be the only worry a lot of these women have. The psychological effects, and long term damages are worth more than those darn money!
What an amazing video full of inspiring truths to RETHINK this job-path! And I also must say off of this particular topic-- you are a captivating speaker , I could listen to you for hours and I have a short attention span! LOL. :-). Thanks so much for your honesty and caring and REAL advice that will probably help so many of us! Bless you
You are perfectly right. The bottom line is that all women have the same and the currency of the sexual industry is therefore being hotter than the rest and that is chasing a fleeting goal at a tremendous cost to your life, your relationships and your inner self. Almost all sex workers will tell you that every time something dies inside of you until there is hardly anything left of you. Besides, with the advances in facial recognition the day is not far off where anyone will be able to identify anyone online from a photo or image in a video that may have been taken decades ago.
Your entering another world and once you see it, it will change you. Wanting a relationship in the future with someone will be a struggle as well. Sucks but it's just how it works. Great advice.
There is non adult content on this sight as well. Ive subscribed to cooking creators, a flower creator, a guy who is a mountain biker, a guy who talks about coffee. Its not all that bad.
A guy here. I had a feeling it's not good for you, but I didn't have the right words or explanations to explain my gut feeling. One point you mentioned but haven't elaborataed on, I think could be added to your arguments is: If you're attention is all on this is hard for you to put your attention on more constructive investments for your future, like education. You basically invest in something that will devalue with time and age. Another example I've heard it's that in my country at least, prostitutes were earning 4 times the average salary. But somehow they managed to spend it all, they just bought clothes and i think most of it was going towards compensating themselves. For some reason they couldn't save it. So I think this can be somehow related or be similar with the effect. But one question. Some girls say, oh, but it's all virtual nobody touches you, so what's the problem?. Do you think it still has that effect even though it's all virtual?
Easy come, easy go. Basically. She outlines some points worth considering, however, they won't not necessarily apply to everyone. I believe the younger women can get sucked into the vortex because they are trying to build an income. But , they also want to live a certain lifestyle and that's where the problem begins. Mature women, who have been there done that have nothing to lose. We've already been exposed to everything that having an OF account "exposes" .
I agree with most of what is listed here with one major exception: I LOVE doing sex work. I feel that it is important work in a world as lonely as ours. Sure, there are abusive people who feel sex workers aren't worthy of human rights, however, I worked in "essential" retail during the pandemic, and the disrespect and vitriol I had to hear everyday in that environment BROKE ME. As a sex worker (stripper), if a customer talked to me or treated me the way the retail customers did during lock down, they would have had a huge bouncer or two to deal with. I'm 52 years old now, and just started an onlyfans page. So far, so good! No, I'm not making millions but my business is slowly growing. I'll take the online perverts over an IRL "lone wolf" shooter in a retail store, any day! There is no "block" option for an IRL madman.
Thank you for this… I had to leave my job due to major mental health struggles - I was denied disability because I’ve struggled with this since childhood. I am struggling financially & don’t think I can get back into “normal” work & was seriously considering doing this. I don’t like my body & don’t think people want to see it, but I feel desperate. Thank you again for this video, I know it would be a worse mistake if I tried to support myself through onlyfans.
I just have to say that there’s a market for everyone. Someone out here is gonna pay to see you. I’m not saying go make one but if you think it could be good for you, go ahead
One of the things not mentioned is the PTSD and mental issues that occur because of these types of platforms. It will destroy your self worth as you sell yourself for $. I always ask one question first that fits almost all questions. What is the value of peace of mind?
As men, we try and explain this to young women and get labeled as toxic and misogynist....but here is the thing ladies, if you open your window for the peeping toms, they will look in and every male that subscribes to you is that peeping tom,..that guy you walk past and never say hi to and avoid is in your feed, every creep, every guy you turned down, every girl looking for revenge...and every Freddy Krueger from every nightmare.... and it makes no difference if you change your name, as all that is needed now is a simple photo and with the right software you can search the internet for any and all content that has your image and they can be downloaded and uploaded, saved and re edited ....do I have Toxic masculinity and am I a misogynist ?....dam straight I am, and I need to be to protect women from the worst enemy they will ever face.....themselves.
The problem isn’t the message, it’s the condescending tone. Men would surely do the same thing if it could be monetized as successfully. Essentially I fully agree.
What do you think about doing nonsexual things on onlyfans and getting paid for it? Would that be a problem for my future? I know it sounds like a stupid question, but I was just curious
This is good you are doing this awareness on Only Fans and others. I just watched something on very younger women doing’s this it’s so disgusting and will ruin a woman’s life.
Just subscribed! Love this video! The world is sad today. It needs the lord. Omg where did you get that lion picture…I have one but I’m obsessed with yours!
Thank you thank you thank you hopefully many of the younger women are paying attention the woman's movement has moved I had a such enormous speed cannot allow this to tear it all down must not allowed to be sexualized any longer we must guard our bodies
Im 19 and I was planning to make one but I’m not too sure now knowing that there are these negatives to it. I just wanted to make it for the money since I’m stuck at home atm for quarantine. But I think I’ll not do it since it’s such a bargain between what you’re worth and how other people will begin to see you.
Think about your future tho. If you live in a liberal state it might be better. But old conservatives are still alive even in liberal states. Also it might be harder to get a house or another job. Sex work would be truly empowering if we had protection and ability to do other jobs.
@@HappyCrackers Sex work exists because of patriarchy and capitalism, sex work cannot exist without those two. Decriminalization is NECESSARY, but because of patriarchy it will never be an empowering, or safe job. That’s the reality we live in.
@@HappyCrackers it depends on the future jobs you want. There are PLENTY of jobs out there that's not sex work you can still get.. There were strippers who got a degree after, and became nurses. It's not as big of a deal because healthcare are desperate for nurses. You can still be an esthetically, go in the beauty industry, arts, fashion,, work in tech, law, real estate,, other blue collar jobs. Get into a job that needs employees. Heck also invest or build a brand. Idk about teachers though, but most likely not if working with kids. But there are plenty of opportunities out there even if you made a dumb mistake and got into sex work.
Just DONT POST NAKED PICS. PORN, OR TOO PROVOCATIVE like spreading cheeks and cat. If they find that shit, there will be less opportunities. My first comment still stand though.
As a man we are not perfect and no body is no matter if you’re rich or poor or where you from a gain no one is perfect these girls are human just like anyone else I wish we as human being could be there for each other but sad reality social media fuck up all of that sad
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Hi. Thank you for the video. Just one comment, though, about the description leading to the link: maybe make it clearer that the support and encouragement you’re offering is to help women (or men) untangle themselves from the sex industry.
Helpful video for silly young girls. :)
Great stuff. I don't advice to start an OnlyFans-account. The "man" at the top of the mountain(pyramid) is making all of the money, NOT you. Besides, all of your pics never go away AND I can assure you that FOREVER is a long long long time and then again you won't know how long time it is...and then it feels like a lifetime.
This happened to a movie star she was once Miss America back in 1983 when they spot her in being in Playboy magazine and they told her you have 40 hours to return your crown and it changed her life forever
This happened to a movie star she was once Miss America 1983 when she got caught being in Playboy magazine they told her you have 48 hours to return your crown
Thank you Jesus for sending this lady to warn others about the onlyfan page.
3:53 - "Once you establish yourself as a sexual object, you will be treated that way!" - No other words required!
OK but why as a society are we teaching people that we should really care about what other people think. What should matter is how you feel about yourself and what is in your heart. If you want to make money I’ll be in hot do it. You don’t need other women telling you that you are going to be nothing than a sexual object once people start treating you that way. Who you are it’s who you see yourself as. Do you want to be a female entrepreneur through sex work do it. But stick to your guns don’t want other people influence you
@@highvalue1195- I understand where you are coming from, but unfortunately, this is a society led (and owned - at least in their minds) by a few privileged individuals that love to point their finger and condemn others, thus deflecting people from seeing the privileged's OWN dark shadows... Like the Tony Montana character said in _Scarface_ , "You need people like me so you can point your #$%&! finger and say, 'There! THAT'S the BAD GUY!' " I didn't imply that one could NOT sell their body and make a fortune, if that's their choice, I just said that it's a profession in which they're going to go through being singled out and made to feel very much alone!
That’s dumb
Amen
@@Mani67899 no it s not dumb for exemple if you re the guy always talking about mathematics physics all the time do you think people will see you as a musician? Or if you re always brag about your money your car your buisnnes do you think they will see you has someone humble ?
Or you re the one always making noise , talk a lot friend with everyone do you e expect people see you as someone quiet ?
So now go to watch interview of onlyfans girl look how arrogant Or proud they are when you re telling them to leave that buisness , or go to follow them without texting them watch their message they will leave for you everyday and after that do you think it s bad if people see them as sex workers
She is right. I’ve been in the industry since 2009. Starting out as a webcam model. Joined OF in 2017. Over time it WILL wear down your self worth. I promise you.
I need to see your vids. For um, scientific studies. And um educational purposes 🧐
Yeah but will it prop up my net worth?
@@herveybaysnakecatchersbro... if you can put a price on your self respect, it's not enough.
Oh… you poor thing..😢 I’ve been working factory job for 30 years. Busted back, tired af, low wage, child support, old car, no social life no woman no nothing. And there are Millions like me suffering. Tell me your problems of showing your stuff for a ton of quick cash sitting on your ass.
not to mention the high rate of drug abuse and suicide. consumers see just what they want and ignore the dead stares and stoned actresses. And no real life woman will compete so they return for more content. I am sorry about what your choice did to you.
The point about how temporary "OF" is and how detrimental it can be towards a person's future is perhaps one of the most overlooked things that people overlook and kudos to you for highlighting this to someone thinking about pursuing it.
As a man, I want to say thank you for trying to talk women out of doing OF. It's like drug dealers, the money is good, possibly, but the price is to high like you said.
Why do men keep complaining about the women instead of the men consuming it? Both need to be talked out of it. I'm tired of people acting like men can't control their sexual impulses (not saying that's you).
@@swampsprite9 Yes, it needs to checked on both sides of the fence. Corn is out of control and it's going to mess up a lot of kids and adults. Going back to the drug analogy. It's enticing and addictive. But the price to pay in the end is to much. How do you stop people from doing it? All you can do is try and make it illegal and show people what happens when you do it. Show people the aftermath.
"You are worth more!" YES. Thank you for making this video, Harmony. Your kind and truthful voice is deeply appreciated.
Thanks for watching. I hope it helps somebody.
This woman’s an absolute angel for doing this! Remember whoever reads this…. Always do the right thing be a good person and you’ll reap those benefits from that but if you sign up for this…. You’ll reap the benefits from fans only and I bet it won’t be worth it 💗
Good message thank you
ABSOLUTELY! Too many women are being fooled into thinking they’re “empowering” themselves by turning themselves and their bodies into a sexual object. Women considering this as a real job choice need to learn to value themselves far more than they currently do.
@@jenniferarcher6877 it's just an option some people cope very well no matter what they do within reason
Peace and prosperity,
Thank you for sharing your time.
I have been thinking about doing only fans lately. This is my first time in my life that I'm going through extreme financial hardship, and I can honestly say that God is EVERYTHING 🗣
I have no support on earth at this time of my life, I'm not trying to come off as a pity party, but it's the truth. If you have family, love one, friends, support, etc. Please, embrace it, don't take for it granted. Be blessed everyone. 😇
Thank you for making this. I'm fairly young and still find it sad to see the direction society is going in. It definitely feels dramatically different than the world I grew up in.
@Florida Violets yea im sure this stuff happened in the 40’s and 50’s🙄
The world is so gross and weird
@@mattadams7772 Playboy was the Onlyfans of the 50's, this is nothing new
@@tonimartin8547 Playboy wasn't so widespred though it was often a number of selected women. Now it is like a pandemic with thousands of your average women doing it. So don't compare it to Playboy back in the days.
Stop blaming society, blame the individual silly decisions. You’re accountable for the choices you make. A decent man doesn’t respect a woman that lowers herself to make money with her body… definitely not girlfriend material let alone wife. Don’t go pointing the finger at others 🤦♂️
Thank you for this kind reminder. I was just researching the possibility of opening an only fans account because I'm really broke........ But now I have come to realize there is a better future that awaits me. Thank you for pulling me out of this.
But doesnt a girl have to be beautiful to even consider OF?
@@stripedrajang3571 exactly
@@stripedrajang3571 Bro what is this comment 🤣
OF is a shortcut of sorts. Taking the long and difficult way is more satisfying anyway.
Thank you so much for the advice sweet lady!! As a disabled single mom struggling (no milk or dish soap at the moment), I keep getting told to save us with an olnyfans, I’m so glad I came across your video while researching it. I worked at club starlight in the late 90’s-early 2000 in order to make the $ to quarantine my dog to take to Hawaii for school. Definitely saw the “go home” girls get chewed up and spit out and was so fortunate not to get sucked into that and the drug circus. I didn’t make as much but I made enough to make it worthwhile. I can see how desperation would quickly devolve into behavior unbecoming or ever intended. Bless you for letting girls know, stay safe sweetlove 🥰
And a good thing to also keep in mind (constantly); once it’s out there- it’s out there forever and I always imagine the person I have the most respect for seeing whatever I have out, and being disappointed, sad even, and that thought alone gives me shame and guilt. I don’t think I have what it takes.
Great comment, surprisingly She did not give you a Like or comment.😕🤔 So I will give you a comment & complement.☺
Thank you for sharing some of your story and experience.
That is so horrible. I'm so sorry. I would tell off anyone who told you to do that for you if I was there!
Don’t be foolish go start an only fans you can make tons of money. Your family depends upon it.
This is absolutely true and I appreciate this video so much. And yes, we’re all worth so much more. But sadly I need the money to live and I still get harassed and objectified as a waitress but at least this allows me to “work for myself”. This is a very sad truth but it’s how the world works for now
That's just life. You can do online porrn for living and demand respect 😂
Factz
Need a union.
Marry yer cousin
20 years from now. "Mom! Is this grandma on the internet?" 😂
It never goes away....
Hahaha I’d really like yo see that 😜 hahaha 🤣
No,love,that's grandpa...she's self-identifying as grandpa.
As my old grandma of 92 said to me on retiring from Onlyfans: 'Women are the same upside down;men also".😢
"Even if the money is good....The price is high".
Girls should keep this in mind.
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Thank you for exposing light on this darkness. I appreciate this big sister advice.
Very true! I hope someone who needs this advise watches this video. Great video Harmony 💜
Thank you! Please feel free to share!
Thank you!
She is speaking from her heart I can see it in ur eyes and hear it in her voice I never thought about doing only fans but thank you for doing this for all the other women out there god bless
You are an Angel.... I hope you know that. Thank you for having the courage, the heart, and the evolvement this must have taken to put this invaluable message out there. I can ONLY imagine how many people you've helped from going down a path they had no idea they weren't ready for... I know that it all must sound so great on paper - but at the cost of your morale, vitality, spirit and overall mental health - there is no amount of money that is worth taking any of that. All I know is.... The devil got a black eye today!!! Thank GOD for you. ❤
I’m a husband for 10 years and a father of a 4 year old girl . Amazing! And powerful speech that should be listen to and spread to multiple women . Everyone is quick to find an easy way to make a buck and then flaunt the life style to other young women that aren’t seeing that there is always both sides to a story. Having someone hidden behind a computer scene putting a dollar amount on how far they can push your ethical bar , is belittling itself . I think more women need to give credit to themself and really hold there true beauty to themself and to someone that cares for them internally and external. A female should be cherished and loved. Not used and abused. The biggest one making a fool out of these women , is the one who created this only fan platform!
Great point! Well said!!
Thank you for your analysis, I appreciate it :) As a long-retired adult entertainer myself, I'm sad that you and many others feel like the work took you away from yourselves... I didn't have the same experience; in fact, I not only felt empowered, but that I was providing an essential service to folks who either needed some spice in their marriage (Chinese couple in audience, wife elbowing husband "YOU WATCH! you watch HER! ), or to the lonely fellow in desperate need of a companion he could relate to :) And then there were the stag parties - man, ever do one for a Philippino family??? Kids were present and everything, and after the show etc it was karaoke for the rest of the night! But, I was also brought up differently, being Dutch by birth, so the concept of sex work was never one of degradation :) While there were incidences, bad clients, bad clubs etc, for the most part I do not regret being that spark, entertaining a joyful crowd in their own home, or being that ear/consoling voice 🥰
Now, in my middle age, I am considering doing an onlyfans, but not something akin to what all the other young ladies are doing. I have an idea, and I doubt my perceived content would be a target for pirates, and as for stalkers - well, um, yeah - first they have to find me, then they have a few "barriers" to get through, and I'll let you guess the outcome ;)
Thanks again for this video, I'm still on the fence as to whether or not to bite the bullet, but I'm kinda leaning towards it... Will see what happens, I guess 🤷
Thank you so much for this video, I used to cam and I couldn't do it for more than two month it broke me mentally and emotionally 💔.....I hated it so much, I grief to convince myself that I needed to continue due to financial trials.... but my soul just wouldn't allow me to continue because of my faith. I got sick at a point as someone had screenshot me whilst camming..... he ended up stalking me on all platforms. The industry is not a good one the consequences affect you more than what many are willing to admit. Thank you so much 💓 for sharing this video
im sorry fam you went through that fr, i think this is the dark side of porn and onlyfans that a lot of young women like yourself didnt understand going into it, i think getting gassed up by horny men may be cool for a day or two but like u said, its just a lot. im sure you felt inhuman after a while and im not sure what faith you believe in, but i will be sure to pray for you today. Im sorry you just felt like u had to sell your body to make it through, i hope you heal this mothers day, and just realize that Jesus can heal all and redeem all. That even though you have this past, Jesus loved former sex workers too, they actually spread the gospel after he died. God values you just as much as his Son and the next person, his love for you has no bounds. Just wanted to share that with you today cause I have a dirty past too and Gods been nothing but good. I hope you can find encouragement and also a future partner who will love you regardless. Be blessed today and I hope you felt some type of affection by this. My heart goes out to you- K.D.
Because women aren’t supposed to sexualize their selves. Fast money always have mental effects
Just came across your video. I'll pass it on. I didn't know what onlyfans were. Came across people talking about online. I see now. Smh. Jesus loves you sister. Keep doing what you are doing. Shalom!
Thank you for honesty. Many girls need to hear this
Thank you for this video. We need more people like you to speak out. Please consider touring schools, get the message out to young girls (and boys) before it’s too late.
Her admonishing words are so loving and glorifying. Thank you for sharing your own experience to help us to avoid considering those same faulty decisions.
Thank you so much for posting this. This opened my eyes in so many ways and I feel like I just had a personal awakening about my own life. This industry can make you feel so alone, and hearing you talk about this is the first time I haven’t felt completely alone in a while. So thank you so much for making this ❤️
“ you’re no longer a person, you are a product”. Fact!
You are not a person at your job you are an employer.
You are not a person in the eyes of employers either. You are easily discarded and looked down upon by the higher ups.
Same could be said of the men. They are not a person, they are just an ATM machine.
The thing that baffles me most is all the men who is willing to pay. I would never do that.
Majority are married men in sexless marriages.
Really! It's a scam anyway
Right!! It's really sad how these guys are dropping big money for a person video of a woman that wouldn't give them the time of day in Real life
Especially when it’s free online
Not all men, I'd rather pay for a new video game except for this crap.
we need more people like u to give the truths to kids nowadays
Can someone start onlyfans on your back ,
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CRAZY THING IS...TONS OF WOMEN WILL WATCH THIS AND COMPLETELY IGNORE HER MESSAGE SND PROCEED TO OPEN AN ONLYFANS ANYWAY
now insta has this subscriber option... and girls are earning lots of money.. even insta allows nudity in certain categories..so they just have to be nude in that category
If it can reach one woman... still one woman less in that F*** industry
MEN DO ONLYFANS TOO NOT JUST WOMEN, DON'T CATEGORIZE
@@leelunk8235 No sh!t sherlock.
I will say alot of these things are true of most jobs tbh - overworked , pressured to take more than you can handle , underpaid, abused , bullied by coworkers or your boss
So sad
Yh but the others won’t hurt you in dating.
Exactly
@@1991-present what about already married women with a spouse that's supportive and even a part of the onlyfans... What then..?
Are you insane? There’s no comparison. In a normal job (no matter how underpaid or overworked you are) you do your thing fully dressed with your dignity intact. People like you who normalise prostitution are part of the problem. Let’s see your daughter degrading herself on Onlyfans, and then let’s see your reaction to that. Will you pat her on the back and say well done to her? Can’t believe your comment…
True empowerment is deciding NOT to objectify yourself for the gratification of men.
If you're broke and have people to feed, you don't have the luxury of worrying about "objectification"
...or not objectify yourself for money, but do something else.
@@edwardjones2202 you've made our point. This isn't empowering work, or a real choice. For most sex workers, it's a last ditch effort to survive.
Thank you. You just saved me. I almost tricked myself into thinking I'd start a music only account. But I deleted it. I don't want to willingly walk into a mental trap and have trauma.
How would it be traumatic if you only did music?
Girl we need your music, don’t compare sexwork with music. Ever.
It’s music babe, it’s not the same thing. Just start a Patreon.
Oh wow. Glad to hear that this gave you some insight.
At the same time, if it is genuinely for only music, that might not be an issue. I think the platform is expanding to encompass more than just porn.
God bless you for this. Someone needed to hear this.
I am very proud of this American Woman , speaking truth , speaking without fear , Her hands do no harm . Ladies , listen to what is being said , Do Not Sell Your Soul , you just might not get it back , God Bless this Woman , She is a soldier of Truth .
My boyfriend pleaded with me not to do this. I thought I'd make a ton of money.
EXCELLENT PRESENTATION!
All girls, heed this advice and avoid falling into this hole at all costs!
We men love and respect you, please remember it! ❤
My friend started an onlyfans and it really destroyed her after a few weeks. I supported her decision to become a content creator but the baggage that came with being an onlyfans model...chamged her. She was such a sweet and loving woman and after just a few weeks she developed a disdain for men and she began to resent me. I am not sure of what she read in her comments but im sure that had something to do with it
This was great. Girls need to hear this. I also like that you include it under the 'sex industry' (on the game) heading. People can fool themselves. I think maybe a good question a girl should ask herself before jumping in to it might be "Would I want my daughter to do it?"
I'm hearing about this only fans thing and decided to come see what it is all about. Your video is the first one I watched and I don't think I need to watch another. Thank you! I can see that this is coming straight from your heart.
It's also good to invest wisely because these platforms only exist untill they reach a certain level then they ditch the model and go mainstream.
THAT part.
How does that work?
Love this Harmony!! I love how freed you are from this entire lifestyle!! Bless you & your family!!
1 Timothy 6:10
“For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evils. It is through this craving that some have wandered away from the faith and pierced themselves with many pangs.”
Amen💯
This is the most convincing and powerful video any woman should watch at at these times.- and not just an onlyfans owner. Thank you so much
You’re accountable for the choices you make. For those choosing the easy way out, expect negative consequences…
Sex work is for sure not the easy way out.
@@nanipanini it’s the easiest way out of doing hard work… go become a tradie, mechanic or climb the corporate world. Be useful. Sex work is the easiest way out by far.
Sex work is super complex on many levels and requires amounts of energy and dedication, that's why it is often paid so well. It amazes me how people who never done sex work think it's easy. why would it lol it's like alchemy
@@nanipanini I’d never do sex work even if I wanted to. I have self respect & dignity. It’s a basic human function. It pays well only if you’re successful. It pays well because of desperate men out there who are willing to pay for it. Sex work is self deprivation.
I agree, but a lot people who get into it are :
a. Preyed upon from a young age, because they come from broken homes, have been traumatized or are poor, etc. (some are outright trafficked)
b. In a bad place in their lives with limited options, with everyone telling them there's an easy way out(onlyfans)
c. Young women who get sold on an idea of easy rich living and don't know any better.
Etc.
I agree with you., we're all accountable for the choices we make.. But when people who have been chewed up by the porn industry speak up and try and raise awareness, I hope we can show them compassion and empathy, we all make mistakes.
When I was young, the easy money was stripping. So that's what we did when the jobs dried up back in the early 2000s. And she is right. You were never treated the same after and you were never the same after. OF is the new strip club. Yes you have more control, but the outrageous tip outs are still there, between taxes and paying the site. Oh, and you have to file a 1099 with them. So it's in the record. Even if you hide your face, your bosses/schools/etc anyone who pulls your taxes for verification is going to know. I will NEVER tell anyone what to do. Live your life and do what u gotta do to feed yourself. 💯 Just please keep stuff like this in mind bc it may not matter right now, but it might matter soon. I wish the best to everyone and hope we all have great days and success in whatever we do.
That's actually very interested and I didn't knew it worked like that. I remember another girl saying that she did and there is no way for people to find out that you did (and that they payment transfer doesn't say the "OF" company name).
Thanks foe sharing this. OF is een and marketed as a fun little side hustle, when in reality , it's super damaging to anyone who posts there. Best not to go there, it will save folks a lot of heartache. ❤
Thanks for good advice. You worth much more in human civilization.
I don't know but I imagine that women who are on onlyfans end up doing drugs to cope with being on onlyfans. Thank you for the reality check hopefully it will prevent someone from ruining their life.
Girl you are doing the LORD’s work! God bless you!
I agree
You are so nice to be so considerate even though you seen the darl side of this industry and still care for girls who might want to join you. You have a big heart.
Thanks for everything your are doing, everything you said is priceless, I wish we would have this in Canada , bless you💜🙏💜 and love you💖
Thanks so much
The average OnlyFans user is 29 years old. 68.9% of users are likely to be white, 89.5% are likely to be married, and 59% are likely to be heterosexual. Abusing mental health issues for profit just means you contribute to LESS support for women and children.
Over 51% of long-term marriages are in "dead bedrooms" and the couples have not had se-x for months with modern women using sex as a tool of control instead of an expression of love, biological need, and healthy free relationship building experience. In some ways it is the lamest but also the safest way to resorting to fantasy with online predators who sell themselves because they have nothing else to offer, they have the will or skill to make happen.
Plenty of drama queens online post hate either because they hate hetro relationships or are jealous and bitter there is a diminishing pool of men they personally have access to.
Thank you for sharing this. As someone who has been an escort for 5 years (No porn and only fans) I only beg (young) women (and men) not to enter the sex industry. Period. For a lot of the same reasons she's talking about.
Good job for making this video!!! In so many other videos OF is glorified, spoke about as if it’s something so light and fun and very young girls believe it. Thank you!
You would be amazed how many women are doing Onlyfans but not telling their boyfriends. My ex was one of them.
Wow. Thanks for explaining exactly what this is. I was insulted by people telling me it was a good idea and easy money. I had no clue what it was and but my instincts said not so empowering sounding. All I ever hear is "it's harmless" or "basically soft porn". Thanks for doing disaster control for everyone who doesn't have that cool big sister to ask.
Grow up people!!!
My hat is off to you for telling the truth. Our country needs a wake up call.
When you go into that world, you are living FOR the flesh. The LORD said if you LIVE for the flesh, you will reap the flesh, which is death. It will eat you alive, the soul in you becomes HARD and COLD and you become dependent on substances deal with the pain and WEIGHT inside you as all innocence and hope fade away. Once that devil gets its claws into you, it takes an ACT of GOD to get it out.
It ruins the way you see people, you lose all hope of being able to truly trust anyone with a pure heart. Too scared to be OPEN and FREE with anyone, unless its with others doing the same rotten evil things you're doing (birds of a feather)...and the chains go deeper as you sink further into that world. You'll try to reason it away most days, try to convince yourself its only for a little while...or that its not 'so bad'...but you know its a losing battle with time and GODS patience.
There is no UP side. Like a FLOWER that was CUT and put in a vase for everyone to admire...it is CUT from the vine of natural LIFE, never getting to live its GOD granted purpose...and in the vase, it grows dim...and old...and dead...until one day you're thrown in the trash...and all is forgotten.
Alot of girls need to hear this...
Once you put something out there you cannot take it back! It’s there forever online!! And you never know how this could be detrimental to your future.
Real shit 💯🔥🔥🔥🔥❤️
Real shit never tell a lie real shit never tell a lie🔥
I pray lots of young women see and hear this wisdom.
Thank you 🙏 for making this!
OF popularity fortifies the notion that serving men’s sexual fantasies is good for women when in reality it reinforces a perception of women as inferior & submissive. There’s a direct link between the objectification of women & acts of aggression & violence against them. Also, inferior social & political status, the gender pay gap, harmful gender norms, & the unequal division of labour in the family are the result of this perceived inferiority…OF affects ALL women & the future generations of women. Sex workers get judged harshly by other women, this is part of the reason & many of our husbands pay (80% users married) for it.
You’re amazing!! Thanks for warning young girls ❤
This shit is NOT empowering 😢
Yes this does empower women but only during bedroom fun activity 😅🤣😂.
Motherhood is not evil.
No moms = no us!!
Thanks 4 the post, keep up the good work
I love how honest you are!! ❤️❤️
Actually I am thinking of making an account I need money badly to pay bills I've lost my job this pandemic bills and debts are piling up. ThAnk you for this appreciate it.
Only fans is banning porno content at the end of month.
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Oh yes, a side benefit of the scamdemic. Just remember, if you take their money you will do what they ask you to do.
Get married to a good man.
She should be on a talk show. Not the view. Or an interview on the News media. Well said.
As someone who does this, I disagree with a lot. I guess it depends on the person and your individual experiences. Definitely not a job for people with thin skin tho.
Not a job for any woman who wants to settle down and raise a family.
@@griver007able I'm literally married. But yeah I don't want nor plan on having kids.
@@andreastyle4338 (Edit: typos corrected) You're not married. At the very most, you may have the legal contract through the Government, but that is absolutely not marriage. Real marriage. A REAL marriage is 2 people coming together, being 100% committed to and exclusive with each other, and coming together, and becoming one (with each other and with God) in front of and WITH God (the one and ONLY God/ Creator and ruler of all things).
Actually being married 100% conflicts with, contradicts and prevents, engaging in things like onlyfans.
The legal "married"/ marriage contract, etc, means ZERO when it comes to a real marriage.
With that said, every aspect of what you're doing is unhealthy , toxic, harmful, damaging, destructive, self destructive and self sabotaging. It's 100% impossible to do it and have healthy, good results. And 100% guaranteed stress, confusion, pain, damage and failure. It 99%, 100% guaranteed.
With that said, the only thing that would possibly surprise me if you and the man are still together after (it's been a year since your comments). If yall are now separated or in some other problematic/ undesirable position, it will surprise me 0%.
With that said, If you decide you want to change and want help changing, you can contact me for guidance. Take care and God bless.
@@DrMathOfficial Lmao. Thanks for the laugh buddy. Me and my husband are still together and things are better than ever. Oh and your God doesn't exist.
@@andreastyle4338 You saying God doesn't exist tells me you and your husband aren't actually married, and probably aren't together now (because that type of situation is not sustainable/ can't last for long, let alone forever). You better find and gain a relationship with God and Jesus Christ before it's too late for you. Good bye.
The money?? That seems to be the only worry a lot of these women have. The psychological effects, and long term damages are worth more than those darn money!
wow...This is very refreshing to hear an x industry woman warning other women about the pitfalls of porn and service. Keep up the good work Harmony
What an amazing video full of inspiring truths to RETHINK this job-path! And I also must say off of this particular topic-- you are a captivating speaker , I could listen to you for hours and I have a short attention span! LOL. :-). Thanks so much for your honesty and caring and REAL advice that will probably help so many of us! Bless you
You are perfectly right. The bottom line is that all women have the same and the currency of the sexual industry is therefore being hotter than the rest and that is chasing a fleeting goal at a tremendous cost to your life, your relationships and your inner self. Almost all sex workers will tell you that every time something dies inside of you until there is hardly anything left of you. Besides, with the advances in facial recognition the day is not far off where anyone will be able to identify anyone online from a photo or image in a video that may have been taken decades ago.
Your entering another world and once you see it, it will change you. Wanting a relationship in the future with someone will be a struggle as well. Sucks but it's just how it works. Great advice.
So many more people need to hear this message.
There is non adult content on this sight as well. Ive subscribed to cooking creators, a flower creator, a guy who is a mountain biker, a guy who talks about coffee. Its not all that bad.
I’m honestly interested-what turned you around? You’ve obviously earned money doing this in the past. I’m so happy that you survived the industry.
This video should be played in schools..... often.
I'm older, and this stuff is obvious, but knowing how impulsive I was at 18, we're going to see the rise of another more damaged generation.
I make 15k a month just to let people watch me sleep fully clothed and under the sheets! Easy to do
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Great
Genius!!!! Great ideal! I would love to make money while I sleep!
Bullshit!
If you only focus on one item, just consider that you will miss out on future employment because of it.
A guy here. I had a feeling it's not good for you, but I didn't have the right words or explanations to explain my gut feeling. One point you mentioned but haven't elaborataed on, I think could be added to your arguments is: If you're attention is all on this is hard for you to put your attention on more constructive investments for your future, like education. You basically invest in something that will devalue with time and age.
Another example I've heard it's that in my country at least, prostitutes were earning 4 times the average salary. But somehow they managed to spend it all, they just bought clothes and i think most of it was going towards compensating themselves. For some reason they couldn't save it. So I think this can be somehow related or be similar with the effect.
But one question. Some girls say, oh, but it's all virtual nobody touches you, so what's the problem?. Do you think it still has that effect even though it's all virtual?
Easy come, easy go. Basically. She outlines some points worth considering, however, they won't not necessarily apply to everyone. I believe the younger women can get sucked into the vortex because they are trying to build an income. But , they also want to live a certain lifestyle and that's where the problem begins. Mature women, who have been there done that have nothing to lose. We've already been exposed to everything that having an OF account "exposes" .
Interesting. Good points
I agree with most of what is listed here with one major exception: I LOVE doing sex work. I feel that it is important work in a world as lonely as ours. Sure, there are abusive people who feel sex workers aren't worthy of human rights, however, I worked in "essential" retail during the pandemic, and the disrespect and vitriol I had to hear everyday in that environment BROKE ME.
As a sex worker (stripper), if a customer talked to me or treated me the way the retail customers did during lock down, they would have had a huge bouncer or two to deal with.
I'm 52 years old now, and just started an onlyfans page. So far, so good! No, I'm not making millions but my business is slowly growing. I'll take the online perverts over an IRL "lone wolf" shooter in a retail store, any day! There is no "block" option for an IRL madman.
easy to make such a video after you've made all your money though
Sexual abuse is a stretch considering that the "victims" are the ones clocking in.
Men and women are worth more than this
Thank you for this… I had to leave my job due to major mental health struggles - I was denied disability because I’ve struggled with this since childhood. I am struggling financially & don’t think I can get back into “normal” work & was seriously considering doing this. I don’t like my body & don’t think people want to see it, but I feel desperate. Thank you again for this video, I know it would be a worse mistake if I tried to support myself through onlyfans.
I just have to say that there’s a market for everyone. Someone out here is gonna pay to see you. I’m not saying go make one but if you think it could be good for you, go ahead
One of the things not mentioned is the PTSD and mental issues that occur because of these types of platforms. It will destroy your self worth as you sell yourself for $. I always ask one question first that fits almost all questions. What is the value of peace of mind?
@@maineiac114 EVERYBODY IS SELLING THEMSELVES
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As men, we try and explain this to young women and get labeled as toxic and misogynist....but here is the thing ladies, if you open your window for the peeping toms, they will look in and every male that subscribes to you is that peeping tom,..that guy you walk past and never say hi to and avoid is in your feed, every creep, every guy you turned down, every girl looking for revenge...and every Freddy Krueger from every nightmare.... and it makes no difference if you change your name, as all that is needed now is a simple photo and with the right software you can search the internet for any and all content that has your image and they can be downloaded and uploaded, saved and re edited ....do I have Toxic masculinity and am I a misogynist ?....dam straight I am, and I need to be to protect women from the worst enemy they will ever face.....themselves.
The problem isn’t the message, it’s the condescending tone. Men would surely do the same thing if it could be monetized as successfully. Essentially I fully agree.
What do you think about doing nonsexual things on onlyfans and getting paid for it? Would that be a problem for my future? I know it sounds like a stupid question, but I was just curious
You have sincerity and care in your beautiful eyes. I hope both men and women watch this video. So true.
it's the same with any job in the market, pressure to do more, over time with minimum pay...... working for money is always hard....
This is good you are doing this awareness on Only Fans and others. I just watched something on very younger women doing’s this it’s so disgusting and will ruin a woman’s life.
I was sexually assaulted at work and they fired me for it.
But if ppl need money they will do what they have to do to survive.
Just subscribed! Love this video! The world is sad today. It needs the lord. Omg where did you get that lion picture…I have one but I’m obsessed with yours!
Chasing money by selling yourself is the worst kind if all you've got is sex appeal then you need to work on yourself
People are hungry and jobless
THAT part
Because they are lazy and want a shortcut to success.
This video is a treasure . Please do go out there and spread this message!!!
Thank you thank you thank you hopefully many of the younger women are paying attention the woman's movement has moved I had a such enormous speed cannot allow this to tear it all down must not allowed to be sexualized any longer we must guard our bodies
Thanks for sharing. These were all very good points.
Hope they helps somebody!
I Appreciate a woman who shares with me because she wants to. I don't care for women who just exist
Im 19 and I was planning to make one but I’m not too sure now knowing that there are these negatives to it. I just wanted to make it for the money since I’m stuck at home atm for quarantine. But I think I’ll not do it since it’s such a bargain between what you’re worth and how other people will begin to see you.
Think about your future tho. If you live in a liberal state it might be better. But old conservatives are still alive even in liberal states. Also it might be harder to get a house or another job. Sex work would be truly empowering if we had protection and ability to do other jobs.
@@HappyCrackers Sex work exists because of patriarchy and capitalism, sex work cannot exist without those two. Decriminalization is NECESSARY, but because of patriarchy it will never be an empowering, or safe job. That’s the reality we live in.
@@Jaded42O You think sex work wouldn't exist in a socialist society?
@@HappyCrackers it depends on the future jobs you want. There are PLENTY of jobs out there that's not sex work you can still get.. There were strippers who got a degree after, and became nurses. It's not as big of a deal because healthcare are desperate for nurses. You can still be an esthetically, go in the beauty industry, arts, fashion,, work in tech, law, real estate,, other blue collar jobs. Get into a job that needs employees. Heck also invest or build a brand.
Idk about teachers though, but most likely not if working with kids.
But there are plenty of opportunities out there even if you made a dumb mistake and got into sex work.
Just DONT POST NAKED PICS. PORN, OR TOO PROVOCATIVE like spreading cheeks and cat. If they find that shit, there will be less opportunities.
My first comment still stand though.
As a man we are not perfect and no body is no matter if you’re rich or poor or where you from a gain no one is perfect these girls are human just like anyone else I wish we as human being could be there for each other but sad reality social media fuck up all of that sad