Woman Asks People to Help Look After Her Mentally Disabled Son | Social Experiment
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- Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
- When a woman who wants to go to the bathroom asks strangers to help take care of her mentally disabled son, what will people do? Please give more patience and care to special populations.
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The first guy was disappointing. But I’m glad many others were willing to help. It was heartwarming to watch.
It is ok if the first individual did not want to help. They could have just shook their head and kept on walking if they were busy. They do not owe any kind of obligation as they are just strangers on the street.
However, the most unacceptable thing during the encounter was the insulting backtalk. Who are you to say that the mother is unfit to care for her child? If you do not want to help - you are free to leave. Otherwise, that person should keep their snide and insensitive comments to themselves and just bugger off.
@@rurazar1686 exactly. Well said
@@rurazar1686 Nah. The first individual is free to say whatever they like. The world is a mean and nasty place and doesn't have to cater to you. Get used to it.
@@Eckh4rt True, but it doesn't hurt to be a nicer person.
As you mature as human being you realize that it's truly better to not say anything than to say something upsetting/rude/insensitive.
It's more humane.
You have feelings they have feelings too.
Of course there are exceptions in life but I am talking on a more general perspective, but it is true you should not expect the world to be a great place.
@@Eckh4rt I understand but ...if u don't wanna help that's fine but why say even u can't handle him how can I....just don't say anything and go ur way at that ....no need to add salt on ur wound...
3:42 I was shocked to know she has a 26 year-old daughter. That put her atleast around mid 40's. The nice lady looks like she's in her 20's.
i thought she was in her early 20s too!! she looks very good for her age
FOR REAL! i thought she was saying she was 26.
Amazing. Must ask hr for d secret to hr youthfulness n slim cut.
Asian don't raisin 😂
@@andrewkim8243 I think diet is very important :) they also get tons of exercise walking around everywhere there.
"How can I take care of him when you can't handle him?"
What a nasty man, he has the right to refuse but you don't have the right to utter such harsh words
Yep stupid harsh man.
Well, unfortunately there’s a scolding culture in china and sometimes it’s out of place like that one.
@@riardomilos8014 yep, true. It's common unfortunately in China. Until to the point of driving someone to jump off a 🏢.
He was so embarrassing, it's not like she told him to change his clothes or feed him , a men without any bit of sense or pride, and I'm pretty sure he's failing at taking care of his own self , his poor family....
Unfortunately wherever you are there will be someone nasty and disgusting that you will not expect..
Its really happen in real life and sometimes its hurtful.. 😢
I have absolutely nothing against emotionally challenged children. It would scare me to death if I die before them. All I can worry about is who will look after them when I'm gone. I have a lot of respect for parents who sacrifice so much for them. Kudos to them! I would just be anxious and stress ridden thinking the possible worse of them outliving me.
Jet Li did a rare non-action film about 10 years ago, called 'Ocean Heaven.' He didn't even take any pay for the film. It is about a man with a 20-something old autistic son. He finds out he is terminally ill and is worried about his son. I liked the film because it was overall positive and hopeful. And it touched on a very real fears some parents have to face.
People should understand that helping strangers whenever they asked for it is not easy and everyone can do it. I also love helping people but sometimes due to hectic schedule or or other reasons I had to ignore them. It's not an easy decision to take in such circumstances. Those people who help in the video are really good people who can go to any extent to take a risk in helping those who are in need. Also, don't blame those who didn't help them because it might be due to their personal problems or for other reasons.
Another reason to add, sometimes being kind to others and willing to help can sadly get you taken advantage of and go to the extent of being kidnapped or killed in the process. I try my best to help others but these scare me the most as there has been so many cases where kindness towards others can literally be the end of your life. Especially in the United States :(. Everywhere is not safe no matter where you are
Not helping is fine but why should one be rude to them, refusing politely isn't too much to ask for. It's better to pass on without saying anything than giving a rude comment.
@@rashmichaudhry7775 You are right darling....Even if we can't or don't want to help them we should not hurt their dignity. Whenever i'm going out, it means I have some problems to deal with it and when some people asked for help and if i',m busy i'd politely tell them that i'm in a hurry. Cursing people who need help is not a good way to deal.
I understand. You want to be nice, but in this situation you never know what could happen. Who is to say the person will listen or run off?
I feel the same way when I help people, like I'm gambling with my own safety, and sometimes people ask me to help them, and I hesitate say yes, while praying YOU MUST BE GOOD PERSON YOU MUST BE GOOD PERSON
1:50 the way he held his hands 3:52 the way she talks to him is so sweet
That women who said .....你妈妈很好 ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Im not chinese but i agree with you
Whenever I see a social experiment that featured people who helps a person with disability it always melts my heart. I had an uncle and, a cousin that has mental disability that lived with us while growing up. They were the sweetest people.
I love this channel and the videos make me cry and have a lot of hope in humanity still. 🥺❤️
A big hug from Brazil! 🇧🇷
🫂🫂The world is full of so many good things and kind people.
When the girl in the orange dress said she had a 26 yo daughter I was like WHATTTT because she looks like she's still 20 when she's at least 40 something 😭😭
i love these people so much. the humanity in them is remarkable ❤
The best Channel ever ❤
A big hug from Indonesia🇮🇩
These people are the sweetest. I especially like the lady that counted with him and the lady in the orange dress..
Oh, don't mind me. I'm just cosplaying waterfall here.
a lot of the women really treated him kindly and with patience, i love to see that
The lady in the orange-brown blouse is so sweet
Que vídeo maravilhoso e comovente 🥺
Um ato tão simples, mas de significado imensurável.
Saudações do Brasil 🙋🏼♀️❤🇧🇷
Gözlerim doldu... Rabbim herkesin kalbine merhamet versin. Hayvanlar, çocuklar, özel insanlar bizler için çok kıymetli onlara zarar verilmemeli...
I have a brother with special needs and I understand that the situation is very sad but I love and care for him❤️🎻
I liked that old man in a white shirt he was so cute
4:08 this man is so caring
I believed ,the lady with orange dress she is really2 kind in real life🥺xie xie to be patient
THIS IS SO WHOLESOMEEE
男の子が安心できるように、自分がどんな人かを説明したり、遊んであげたり、さりげなく日傘を指してあげてり、褒めたり‥人の愛が溢れていると思った！
看這短片讓我很幸福的！這
Count to 100 @2:40 ❤️😆❤️! My granny used that one on me, felt impossible, but she helped. Thanks for reminding me of her. Blessings to All! 🙏🏻 😊
I have a friend with severe mental health issues and it's very hard to ask for help. people see someone different and try to avoid us and it's very cruel. my friend may be different but she knows that people avoid her and it hurts her heart. this video was nice to see.
Let's appreciate Chen Yang being a good actor 👏👏👏
This people man... the're so good
😭 to those who helped her ~ ❤️ and talked to him ❤️
Chinese are great people. i salute them all.
thank you
Amazing that's awesome guys .... Ilove you so much and I like your video's that's very nice ❤️🌹❤️🇯🇴🤩
I don't know why but at the end I started to cry because the people in Asian countryes are so good and kind, in my country kids just make fun if they see an autism kid, that's why I want to move to China, South Korea or Japan when I grow up, in Romania the people are terrible
Be the change you want to see în the world!
It's really heart touching....
my heart is so touched
"How can you have a 26 year old daughter when you are 26?"
the people who stayed with the boy are very cute 🥺
Me alegra mucho que aun existan personas de buen corazón
私の息子も彼と同じ歳で同じように知的障害があります。これまで一度も見知らぬ誰かに見守りを頼もうと考えたことがありませんでした。自分が頼まれれば快く引き受けるのに。連れて歩いている時に息子の言動に対して嫌な顔をされた経験があるからですが、助けを求めることに余りにも不慣れだと、この動画を見て気付きました。
Plot twist - Imagine if the mother actually abandoned him.
I can understand because when I was in 10th when I go to play soccer with my friends in ground there was a kid who come with his Little sister he was same age as me maybe but act like and speak like toddler
But we love to play soccer with him he was really fast runner and i remembered when we met first time he ask us to join to play together we was he was really excited when we say yes and started jumping then he told us we are best buddy now
Really that happiness in his face i still remember and even though he invited us in his birthday he was fan of Ben 10 say I have back then figure of four arm i gifted him he was really happy 😊 that time after then he change the city due to his father job but in his last day he give me packet of mango candy and a picture of him and me which he draw 😊😊 maybe it's has been long time but i never forget him as a best friend from childhood
Some people are belong to heaven
البنت الي لابسه فستان برتقالي لطيفه تجنن 😭😭❤️🩹
Fantastico e commovente !!!
Muy bonito, hay que ser más empáticos con las personas que tienen alguna necesidad especial
Your all videos make me smile by heart and tells me that humanity still exists that is really good and the line of your videos is always true and awesome 💐🌹😄😄
I can say you are really a nice person in real life tree man 🌲
I lnow it may seem weird that some people said they know him and his mom maybe they do know her and him but i can understand where theyre coming from, they truly mean him no harm and it helps someone especially someone with a severe mental disability to build trust and reduce panic and anxiety for them and to keep them as calm as possible.
Девушка в оранжевом платье такая милая 🥺
Why did I cry
The lady in the short dress has a 24 year-old daughter she looks like she's 24 Herself I don't know what she is going but I need those beauty secrets
🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Какие добрые 🙂
I cn jus imagine d worries of d parents abt d future of these children, esp if thr r no othr siblings to take ovr d responsibilities whn d parents r no longer around.
so much better than other crap social experiment videos with nothing to learn.
I also study Chinese
I already learn hiragana and katakana not kanji .
That is why I am not perfect in Chinese but I really want to learn mandarin as well as Taiwanese
Who is tree man? Where is he.. Never saw him!!
Chinese people look beautiful 😊
Ah, if you dont want to help just say no i can't, no need to say/comment like that
Love this.....😍😍
Full interview
Hi Treeman!
isso prova que somos todos iguais aos olhos de deus
Lindo 😭🇧🇷
good man
Nah man- i cried fr-
im cry
I think Koreans are better but these Chinese are way too much better , awsome, kind..
Good
*الحين ابكي ولا ابكي نسنسنم😭😭🤍🤏🏻*
Hello Tree man!!! where is korean sub?
무지하게 서운해~~~
The actor really deserves a prize..omg!! he’s soo good 😭
agree
Yes it’s an act, that’s chenyang 😅
No actually cause for a second I thought he was really disabled😭until I realized he was an actor too lol
1:41 the lady who said "i know your mom, she is very kind"
Right
Good people see beauty in their eyes.
I hope the people who stayed with him live a long and prosperous life
While I understand that it's not anyone's responsibility to look after a stranger's special needs child, you can just say no or I'm in hurry/busy vs talking them down. They are just asking, not demanding or trying to force you. Honestly, to react like that is cruel, unnecessary, and speaks volumes about your character. "From the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks.
They can say whatever they want. If you ask some random person on the street of course you risk having that sort of malignant reaction. You also have no idea what they're going through. You base an entire person's character on one interaction? It's you that is shallow.
@@Eckh4rt While I don't know what they are going through, it's not a green light to just hurt others carelessly and use them to vent your emotions. Coping like that is unhealthy for both the person being verbally abusive as well as the person that's being used as the scapegoat. Consequently, if I saw someone being verbally abusive to another person just to cope, of course I'd consider them to have some degree of impulsiveness and possible anger/anxiety issues. Granted, the guy's reaction was mellow compared to the explosive verbal/ego fights I've seen people start just because they don't know how to get channel/get rid of their anger/aggressive energy in a less combative/chaotic way.
@@Eckh4rt No, they aren't shallow. Any decent human won't accept this type of comments. And won't condone it.
@@Eckh4rt you sounds bitter and actually shallow.
@@Eckh4rt Its like you didn’t even read the comment.
The first uncle had a smile on his face! And he gave good advice about avoiding food from strangers.
That’s so heart warming it’s rare to see people like that in this busy world
Yes
In fact, there are still many good people, and those who are willing to stop and look after the boy are really amazing! 🥰🥰👍👍
@@TreeMan are really good
@@TreeMan can you do one with a black girl pls??
@@TreeMan 平常玩打巴掌！
The first guy: if he can't help, he shouldn't have to talk about the artist's flaws
Treeman!!! 😭😭😭 I have a kid with special needs too, and I'm a bit skeptical of leaving him with other people, especially when we're out in public. Thank you for all the kind-hearted people we've met!! Kudos to all of you!
I have multiple children (three are now adults, one is a teenager) with varying severities of disabilities, and never felt safe leaving them with anyone. Disabled people are the most vulnerable people to predators. My three oldest have successfully become semi-independent, but the youngest (13) isn't. What I do is take him to the bathroom with me if out in public. I can't trust anyone to watch him, and he can't use the bathroom without help, and I can't go into the men's room. He goes with me to the lady's restroom and I don't care who has a problem with it, he's emotionally and mentally innocent like a younger child, and I'm always with him.
Thank you for being a great mon❤
Don't worry...we are here for your kid..😁
The lady in the orange dress is a natural! So great to see peoples’ kindness :-)
Как трогательно видеть, когда добрые и отзывчивые люди готовы помочь в непростой ситуации!
Ура,русский
4:16 this man. he was so nice.
3:39 she has a daughter older than the guy😳 anyway what a heartwarming video.
The world would be a better place if it had more people like them
for people who seem unconcerned
I'm sure they will regret letting a mother who asks for help supervise her child for a while, actually this is an experimental social acting drama that will be uploaded to youtube and this youtube channel is very global, I as a loyal fan of Tree Man, I am concerned about the people who hard-hearted and without compassion at all!!!
I understand that some people aren't willing to help random folks on the street. Especially in similar situation. Some are too cautious. Nothing is wrong with that. However, the rude comments that the second guy said should not be said. Just say that you're busy and leave.
I think I fell in love with the lady in the orange dress. What a sweet soul; in actions, in mannerisms, in words.
Way the people's explain who are they and what are their relation withhis mother just melt my heart...its hard to take care of this kind of child but how beautifully all mange him in a kind way and answer every questions he asked..
" I know your mom , she is very kind "
I just love her
I love your videos so much
❤️❤️🤟🏾🤟🏾
Cheyang's acting is brilliant. If I didn't know, I wouldn't know that he's acting at all.
So he’s not actually like that?….
@@jjminn95 no he’s just a phenomenal actor
Просто прекрасно наблюдать за тем, какие добрые люди есть. Такие проекты побуждают и меня помочь нуждающимся
3:41 No way that young lady has a 26 year old daughter 😲
Oxe pq ñ?
Asians don't raisins
Sometimes I come to see this channel just to remember to have faith . Thank u.
I'm not crying 😭......I just know how hard it is to be a mother of a child with disabilities. Seeing the kind words they said to the boy.
Such beautiful and kind people. Though I can’t help but be affected by what that one man said. ‘How can I take care of him when you can’t even handle him.’ Or something. I wonder how many caretakers of those with special needs have to hear such hurtful words.
man at 0:36 minute he has no sympathy:(
I think it's more realistic, not everyone is willing to help for this kind of situation, we have to accept the world the way it is, I appreciate treeman doing that instead of building a pure moving story
@@Will-mg9hk Of someone wasn't willing to help, they can say "sorry" or something, then leave. But saying such comments is unacceptable.
His acting tho! Amazing acting! He really deserves an award for this❤ And love all the beautiful ppl who help them❤
That man teaching him to not eat things given by others ....His heart is so pure 💗💗💐
It's so heartwarming.I hope the people who stayed with him live a long and prosperous life
Dios mío que gente tan maravillosa incluso dicen conocen a su mamá le dan conversación esas personas son estupendas ojalá hubiera más gente asi
This video made me remember my grandmother because my aunt has special needs.... She always took care of her with all her strength and kindness and without ever complaining, but she was just sad from the negative looks and words of people towards my aunt... I really hope that people will pay attention to this The class and their words and actions with them and to help them when they can.
I know the first guy may not have had time but to say such mean things. Just know it takes more effort to be mean than it does to be nice.
the second person's reaction is not very good🥺😡