How I fell from a Luxury lifestyle and back to the trenches | South African YouTuber

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  • @queentee5591
    @queentee5591 7 місяців тому +16

    Oh baby, I love you ❤❤️
    LISTEN
    there’s 3 type of people in your life
    1 )People are in your life for a reason until something happens then they leave you
    2 )People are in your life for a season
    3) People are in your life for life no matter what happens

    • @khanyisakhosa1496
      @khanyisakhosa1496  7 місяців тому +1

      You are so sweet darling, thank you so much 💖

  • @zethumpama9653
    @zethumpama9653 6 місяців тому +37

    Why does she remind me on Naomi Campbell, I love this wig and the make-up

  • @koketsonkanyane3211
    @koketsonkanyane3211 5 місяців тому +3

    I’ll always admire and respect people who share their life experiences (good or bad) in order to educate others. I’ve watched this video a couple of times and I’ll keep coming back! Thank you ❤

  • @khosie_Ntshosho
    @khosie_Ntshosho 7 місяців тому +7

    Jah neh kunzima, thanks for sharing that things are not always rosey,... This is very relatable, but Kuba right ekgcineni if,,,.. ❤❤

  • @levylegodi1264
    @levylegodi1264 7 місяців тому +27

    Mmh Khanyisa , your ex friends are dangerous .. as much as it’s not nice to lose friends , it was for the best .❤

    • @khanyisakhosa1496
      @khanyisakhosa1496  7 місяців тому +3

      I believe so too 💖💖

    • @thenativeconservationist
      @thenativeconservationist 6 місяців тому +1

      I love this comment and support. When you wish your friend well you love to see them thrive and we are all human but jealousy is dangerous.
      Darling God is protecting you. Seek Him first. I am sorry I know the pain. 🙏🏽❤

  • @Eksemandisa
    @Eksemandisa 6 місяців тому +15

    Hello my baby i hope i am not overstepping but i feel like the first friend was there for you during your hardest times and was hurt when she had to find out about your accomplishments on Whatsapp. If my friends venting to me and im checking on her everyday during her hard times and doesnt share her good news with me id be really hurt, especially finding out on social media. Thats just me though,

  • @beewest5704
    @beewest5704 6 місяців тому +39

    Same thing happened with my niece & her friends. Were you being braggadocious abt the car etc??? My niece was crying that she lost her friends but the truth was she was insufferable. She all of a sudden acted like she was better than her friends & made backhanded remarks to them & became cohtrolling. She also had no idea why they were no longer talking to her & called them jealous.

    • @juicykindess3129
      @juicykindess3129 6 місяців тому +10

      lol learnt a new word braggadocios

    • @thefeminineeye
      @thefeminineeye 6 місяців тому +7

      Some people lack self awareness and are allergic to accountability

    • @sandindlovu3521
      @sandindlovu3521 6 місяців тому

      @@thefeminineeye Very true hey, you can tell.

  • @nadinemcpt
    @nadinemcpt 7 місяців тому +9

    Giiiiirrrrrlllll, thank you for being vulnerable, we appreciate you! I'm being faced with the same taxi issue from next month. Your story made me realise I won't die shem from flown out to taxi rank😅If you did it, I can do it too. With much love!❤

    • @khanyisakhosa1496
      @khanyisakhosa1496  7 місяців тому +3

      lol! Life happens hey. Never give up, no matter what. 💖💖💖

    • @mandyishername
      @mandyishername 6 місяців тому +1

      😂😂😂we have all been there.

    • @thenativeconservationist
      @thenativeconservationist 6 місяців тому +1

      Let me tell you something, as long as you have legs to walk you are blessed. I love you guys for talking but life has ups and downs as long as you keep going. You will be better than fine. Go ladies!! ❤

    • @thenativeconservationist
      @thenativeconservationist 6 місяців тому +1

      @@mandyishernamethere is no shame guys! Us Black South Africans especially women and even young men we must give ourselves grace. Yohh 28 years ago isn’t bad!

    • @thenativeconservationist
      @thenativeconservationist 6 місяців тому

      @@khanyisakhosa1496don’t marry abelungu. Eat the money but don’t marry mntase. I love you. You will be great!

  • @sunshinemelody6614
    @sunshinemelody6614 7 місяців тому +12

    Indaba zabantu has me here while working

    • @khanyisakhosa1496
      @khanyisakhosa1496  7 місяців тому +1

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @MologadiMakhafola
      @MologadiMakhafola 6 місяців тому +1

      Even me 🤣🤣🤣🤣 knee deep in deadline but ndihleli ezindabeni zabantu 🤣🤣🤣

  • @phethehopreciouspulumo9193
    @phethehopreciouspulumo9193 6 місяців тому +11

    not necessarily a fan of Sa youtubers cos of similar content but your a breath of fresh air

    • @khanyisakhosa1496
      @khanyisakhosa1496  6 місяців тому +2

      Thank you 💖💖

    • @SuperFilicia
      @SuperFilicia 6 місяців тому +4

      Yep i really want to watch SA UA-camrs. But most of them are the same. If you watch one of their videos your done. They are mostly trying to live and potray a high life lol. Im seeking out the normal ones but they are few and far between.

    • @phethehopreciouspulumo9193
      @phethehopreciouspulumo9193 6 місяців тому +3

      @@SuperFilicia i know right? its difficult to see a unique youtuber these days

  • @MbalenhleQwabe
    @MbalenhleQwabe 10 днів тому

    Your transparency is very admirable ❤

  • @MichelleMpanza
    @MichelleMpanza 6 місяців тому +5

    You are so beautiful, love your content. First timer on your channel❤❤❤. Keep growing.

  • @yoloti9993
    @yoloti9993 6 місяців тому +5

    We appreciate the transparency babes. You are amazing and beautiful, I really appreciate how open you are with us and showing the realities of life. Siyabonga sthandwa ❤

    • @khanyisakhosa1496
      @khanyisakhosa1496  6 місяців тому +1

      Thank you so much 💖

    • @Hazelbeing
      @Hazelbeing 6 місяців тому

      Ae, she sounds insufferable and she's probably not aware so I don't blame her.

  • @treasuremamba7350
    @treasuremamba7350 4 місяці тому

    You are so strong baby girl. You are a Lioness just know that. Keep up doing you sweetheart ❤

  • @SuperFilicia
    @SuperFilicia 6 місяців тому +3

    I think i have found my new haircolor. You look beautiful in the style and colour. We live and we learn!!

  • @ThisisMissHope
    @ThisisMissHope 6 місяців тому +3

    She's saying lets start from 2020, 1:44 min in and i am gona go get some tea! No literally, it's cold and I am gonna be here til the end. Bless your heart! We all go through ups and downs.

  • @KGMdh
    @KGMdh 6 місяців тому +3

    Thank you for this video, I appreciate the "realness". I am a new subscriber.

  • @yongamagaxo6745
    @yongamagaxo6745 7 місяців тому +2

    You look stunning doll😍😍the hair 🔥🔥

  • @zinhlemkhonza5334
    @zinhlemkhonza5334 6 місяців тому +1

    Playing this as background music as I study and it’s nearly impossible to focus 😂. First time here but I love it 🥰

  • @thembelihledunjana
    @thembelihledunjana 6 місяців тому +20

    When u said “I had to use a taxi”😂😂

  • @GhostedLadyMzansi
    @GhostedLadyMzansi 6 місяців тому +5

    17:20 reminds me of the day we moved to ekasi😢,umsindo we radio 📻 and people drinking &shouting in the middle of the night 😂Guess what,2months later I had gotten used and had made friends ❤stayed there for 2years and actually enjoyed the life there

    • @khanyisakhosa1496
      @khanyisakhosa1496  6 місяців тому +5

      This is so accurate. Why is there always someone playing the radio out loud? My neighbour was a nightmare 😂😂

  • @nkululekomthimkulu1248
    @nkululekomthimkulu1248 6 місяців тому +1

    You crack me up 🤣. Not trying to be mean hey. I hope that you find a good situation at some point.
    Subbed.

  • @yoloti9993
    @yoloti9993 6 місяців тому +3

    Khanyisa babes can you please give us a make-up tutorial because I'm literally obsessed with how you do your make up ❤❤❤❤

  • @charmainemalape910
    @charmainemalape910 6 місяців тому +3

    Ur an amazing story teller😂 I feel like we are sitting together drinking coffee or something 😘✌️

  • @eugenechauke3849
    @eugenechauke3849 6 місяців тому

    I’ve probably said this before, but girl!!!!! You’re GORGEOUS!!

  • @Lebogang_Mathe
    @Lebogang_Mathe 6 місяців тому

    I love your transparency 🙏🙏you make see the other part ppl don’t show on social media

  • @jamelamashimbyi8243
    @jamelamashimbyi8243 6 місяців тому +6

    The coakroches said 'you found us here and you'll leave us here' 😂😂

  • @palesaneo3817
    @palesaneo3817 6 місяців тому +2

    New subbie. I hope things are better for you x

  • @MmathapeloM
    @MmathapeloM 6 місяців тому +1

    You look Gorgeous Khanyi🔥and thanks for sharing your experience ❤️‍🩹

  • @madialemotsiri586
    @madialemotsiri586 6 місяців тому +3

    Some ppl we meet along the journey are meant to stay behind while u continue with yo journey, they r not part of your destiny.

  • @palesaneo3817
    @palesaneo3817 6 місяців тому +2

    Yoooh calling to ask whats the update sounds like a monitoring spirit😮

  • @alsbie_mukovhe
    @alsbie_mukovhe 6 місяців тому

    Well done girl look at how you got up !! 🎉❤ so inspiring.. however The witchcraft part killed me. I laughed so hard 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @naomit.s7152
    @naomit.s7152 6 місяців тому +4

    Norway v Taxi finished me 😭☠️🤣💔

    • @khanyisakhosa1496
      @khanyisakhosa1496  6 місяців тому

      🤣🤣🤣🤣 wena don’t laugh at my struggles please 🤣

  • @Accuface2000
    @Accuface2000 6 місяців тому +1

    I thought I was the only one experiencing these things. Which is why I avoid my black people as much as possible - PHD (pull him down syndrome), pretentiousness, always wanting to know how I am when the fact is they are enjoying my struggles and gossiping about it. Some will be begging for help on a regular basis thinking they will make me broke, Lol. It's so sad how people want to see your downfall and keep you in their palms.

    • @khanyisakhosa1496
      @khanyisakhosa1496  6 місяців тому

      Let’s avoid that spirit at all costs. I’m no longer afraid to cut people off for such reasons now. Lol

  • @julia_goddess3
    @julia_goddess3 6 місяців тому

    i like your story telling🥰can we please get a make up tutorial please🥺🥺🥺

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali 6 місяців тому +2

    Not “back to the trenches sis” 😅😂🤩.

  • @rebonematonsi426
    @rebonematonsi426 6 місяців тому +2

    First time seeing you. You look stunning 😍 😍😍. I enjoyed this video ❤. This is actually a testimony 🫶🏾. I actually laughed at the part of a taxi after a Tesla 😂😂. I’m glad that God restored darling.

    • @khanyisakhosa1496
      @khanyisakhosa1496  6 місяців тому +2

      Thank you very much. I’ll never forget that point in my life 🤣🤣🤣

  • @lil-lindod8443
    @lil-lindod8443 7 місяців тому +1

    The cockroach part deed 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @LoLLilo
    @LoLLilo 6 місяців тому +1

    I love when people aren't afraid to be honest about their experiences. I remember watching Lelwa's video and geez i related and i felt it. But there is something about this video that feels so disinguiene, and almost lacking depth. I think you did your ex friend a favour by blocking her because she deserved more than what she got, the fact that your friendship relied on her constantly checking up on you, then you expected her to wait on seeing your progress on a your status for her to congratulate you like shes your fan, yikes. Then turn around and call her a hater a jealous, when she literally was your support system during a hard time??

  • @lelethuluu9320
    @lelethuluu9320 6 місяців тому +2

    18 minutes in... I'm sorry about the cockroaches 🤣🤣🤣

  • @anelisaluke
    @anelisaluke 6 місяців тому +1

    its growth babe, let them go.....forget they ever existed.

  • @dikolizaskk5847
    @dikolizaskk5847 7 місяців тому +4

    Life can humble you dear

    • @khanyisakhosa1496
      @khanyisakhosa1496  7 місяців тому

      True

    • @mandyishername
      @mandyishername 6 місяців тому +3

      @@khanyisakhosa1496the same life will lift you up babe don’t worry. Life has seasons and after every hard season comes your rising 😘 it will be a double portion of what you lost

  • @Lebogang_Mathe
    @Lebogang_Mathe 6 місяців тому

    That’s me the house I’m staying in there’s cockroaches 😭😭😭I feel like dying

  • @lelethuluu9320
    @lelethuluu9320 6 місяців тому

    30 mins in... Uxolo tshomi. It is as it is. 😭😭

  • @nzuluyemfihlakaloancientof5369
    @nzuluyemfihlakaloancientof5369 6 місяців тому +1

    The beauty that you are oh my God.
    We would appreciate a Get to know me.
    For the roaches though you could have gotten a pest control company for assistance, this is part pf house maintenance of any well run household.

    • @khanyisakhosa1496
      @khanyisakhosa1496  6 місяців тому +1

      Thanks for the lovely compliment. I had never dealt with roaches before so I was clueless on what to do. Thank you very much. I will definitely do a get to know me tag

  • @samanthasammy5458
    @samanthasammy5458 6 місяців тому

    You be looking Hella luxurious though

  • @queentee5591
    @queentee5591 7 місяців тому +1

    ❤❤

  • @keamo-Tiamo
    @keamo-Tiamo 6 місяців тому +2

    Your problems sounds like nice life problems, in the hood you moved to a house, you had someone that was paying for you and you where stuck oversee plus you don't struggle to find a job

    • @khanyisakhosa1496
      @khanyisakhosa1496  6 місяців тому

      lol you making it sound glamorous meanwhile it’s actually stressful 😂

  • @hopes.6298
    @hopes.6298 6 місяців тому

    Love this video ❤

  • @GhostedLadyMzansi
    @GhostedLadyMzansi 6 місяців тому

    13:30 don’t worry most of us been there

  • @GhostedLadyMzansi
    @GhostedLadyMzansi 6 місяців тому

    29:40 askies gal,why do you still call her a friend ayy😢

  • @nk7595
    @nk7595 6 місяців тому +1

    Did you ever reach out to your first friend before you decided to block her?

  • @lacronz6248
    @lacronz6248 7 місяців тому +1

    Just came across your channel... Let me follow you

  • @nomafmaroga6827
    @nomafmaroga6827 6 місяців тому +6

    You speak like someone who is full of herself 😢. I am so sorry if I am being rude😢

    • @khanyisakhosa1496
      @khanyisakhosa1496  6 місяців тому +1

      I don’t know sana 😂😅

    • @lesedimakeketa5683
      @lesedimakeketa5683 6 місяців тому +1

      To insecure people, confidence looks like arrogance.

    • @nomafmaroga6827
      @nomafmaroga6827 6 місяців тому +1

      @@lesedimakeketa5683 🤣🤣🤣 You seem to be hurt. I don't remember the owner of this vedio seeing anything wrong with what I said.

  • @dudungidi9151
    @dudungidi9151 6 місяців тому +1

    I don't your full story. Trust God and don't stop praying

  • @robot12423
    @robot12423 6 місяців тому

    😂😂😂this title.

  • @chisomo8088
    @chisomo8088 6 місяців тому

    This video has little to do with the title which is quite misleading. Either that, or you're just not a great storyteller cause i couldn't even tell what the point of the video was for 17 minutes before giving up.

    • @khanyisakhosa1496
      @khanyisakhosa1496  6 місяців тому +2

      Lol, and you watched for 17 minutes, thanks and bye 😘

  • @Letstalkaboutit2323
    @Letstalkaboutit2323 6 місяців тому +3

    I think you attract fake friends because you sound fake, what had happened was… immediate ick
    But hey, what do I know

  • @LizekaMM
    @LizekaMM 6 місяців тому

    Cockroaches 😂😂

  • @LizekaMM
    @LizekaMM 6 місяців тому

    I am new subscriber🥹 it will get better

  • @unathi_pinky
    @unathi_pinky 7 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @sinentokozosibeko3675
    @sinentokozosibeko3675 6 місяців тому

    ❤❤