To the first guy: if the woman being beaten was your sister, wife, daughter, would you call this guy an "amazing guy"? Would you be friends? Honestly, it's even sh*tty that you have to think of it through the lens of sister/daughter/mother because no woman (or man) deserves to be abused like that. Come on, y'all.
I agree with Tammy actually, I feel more comfortable asking my partner than my parents because sometimes parents can make you feel like a burden especially when you’re older and need help. Whereas, you’re boyfriend is likely to already understand your situation and may want to help you naturally.
I completely understand Tammy’s point on not wanting to ask your parents for money!! It’s more about not wanting to burden them. Dont feel bad for stating your opinion❤
Im a solid believer of you are who you knowingly surround yourself with. The person who sent in the first story is actively choosing to be friends with someone who has consistently shown abusive behavior. Hes not an "amzing guy", his abuse shows you what and who he actually is. And if their friend group has already tried talking to him about it, and he continues this behavior, you've now become complicit in the abuse since you choose to stay friends. Absolutely insane to me, how someone could type and submit it to the podcast, AND STILL SAY HES AN AMAZING GUY. Makes me kinda sick tbh
my ex use to talk shit about his friends and how they treat their girlfriends, we use to do it together… little did i know that it was distracting me from the manipulation that lead to his abuse. like company keeps like company. same logic as to why no one wants to be friends with a pedo.
I hope the one in the middle one day can realize what a man should be in a relationship. Yes even though you have money, you should still be able to ask your partner for money because really they should be there to help and provide, esp a man, I would ask my partner before my parents for sure. The parents are gonna turn around and say your man can’t help you? I completely agree with the one on the right.
There’s a way to prove your point without making someone feel very stupid. That’s what y’all did to Tammy in this episode. And Tammy is so patient!! She’s honestly a sweet soul how she handled the whole situation!!!!
That whole debate made me mad that one they wouldn’t let Tammy speak let alone finish and see her perspective. It’s not wrong if that’s how you personally would handle it but don’t degrade someone else
The first one too many men reward their ain’t shit friends with their friendship. This man is an abusive POS who couldn’t stand up to his friends opinions so goes home and beats on his girl. He blatantly disrespects her in public and thinks his friends are blind somehow. Smh the fact that this dude knows his friend is scum but feels bad for him losing everything even though when he has everything he made his partners life hell smh.
Hi ladies! I love your podcast and binge it to get me through the day!! Respectfully, I do wish yall gave Tammy a chance to speak without cutting her off. Money is a sensitive topic for sure, but I think Tammy’s pov is valid and hope moving forward if yall do not agree w someone’s POV, you still hold space and time for them to speak. Also financial trauma is a thing and some people will feel safer seeking support from their partner instead of their parents. I hear all your perspectives though, all valid points. ♥️
nahh the way you guys “scolded”Tammy on the getting money from her bf over her parents was a bit over the top imo 😂 i think its very subjective. people’s relationships and behavior with money can be very different.. some people prefer to ask their friends over parents for many reasons, maybe you don’t want to stress the parents or you don’t want them knowing your business and financial status.. it could be so many things. Beatrice made it seem like an abomination to ask a friend for money before your parents, i don’t think its that deep. but that’s just me..😅
If you're in a relationship, but you cannot ask him for anything then why are you in that relationship? If I'm in a relationship, my parent is the very last person I would ask
I think the money debate depends on the kind of relationship-a boyfriend may not be a permanent fixture the same way a parent is. Parents are meant to provide for their children-no matter how old you get, you’re still their child and as long as the relationship is good, it makes sense that they would be the first ones you ask (unless you’re married or something).
As a woman whose partner has been in her life more days, weeks, and years than her father- a partner may be better and more permanent than a parent. So I feel like your statement is really contingent on “as long as the relationship is good” because the same could be said about the boyfriend. I mean I just saw a video of a man who has been together with his girlfriend for 45 years. It really does matter dependent on the person
I can’t stand someone who doesn’t let others speak , someone who thinks they’re right and everyone else is wrong! It’s annoying to watch. Just cause you’re the loudest or u say the most words, doesn’t make you the smartest. 🥴
That's true, Beatrice was being so dismissive of Tammie's opinion. She doesn't have to do things the way you do it. Sharon is being a Yes man 😂 it's weird to watch
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I get what sis in the middle was saying about going to your parents as a first response cause typically they are usually our safety net. Tammy also had her point. It just comes down to how comfortable you are with your boyfriend? I mean regardless my parents will hear from me if I needed it but so will my partner 😂
I started watching their videos today and I was really into it, but her not letting her speak and just not hearing her out.. makes me hate it for real now lol It was so fun and so interesting at first but seeing someone interrupt someone time AFTER TIME AFTER TIME is crazy to me. I actually agree and I'm trying to hear her part and they are just cutting her off not hearing her out... ITS A NO FOR ME.
I think I'm with Tammy about borrowing the 200 if my car is about to be reposessed. I would probably ask my boyfriend first (if we've established we're not just in a relationship, we're partners) and then my parents.
I can’t expect to go to my parents first because my parents come to me. That aside, If I cannot depend on my partner to get me out of a bind, who can I then depend on?
this dude in the dilemma clearly isnt scared of losing his family since he clearly had one before but lost it so the second one woldn't be a shocker . i think discussing his behaviour with him as a friend wont change him in the least
Honestly the girl in the middle really needs to let her speak… it was a lot as I feel she had some good points to say. We don’t know the context of the car situation although I understand different views.
Now who in their right mind gives up money they've been saving up for at least 4 years within ONE month? Let alone to some man you've been dating for such a short period of time. I'm truly baffled...
I completely agree with Tammy on asking your boyfriend first. Because at that point you guys are partners. It shouldn’t be a problem. I don’t feel comfortable asking my parents
I feel like you ladies should get an update on this dilemma - I'm very curious to know how that woman is doing now - that man can mysteriously catch fire. Love your Podcast ladies ❤
When you guys say “EHHHHHHHH!!!!” Is my reaction to this craziness ! Plus y’all clips on TikTok have me laughinggg, but homeboy that sent the message DONT OPEN YOUR MOUTH AT ALL! this can turn real left real fast!
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10:00 the correct answer for the writer is to keep his mouth shut because he might be visiting his friend in jail if he tells his friend what his old lady is doing. You shouldn’t be his friend and the strongest thing you can do to make him see what he’s doing wrong- is stop being his friend and why you’re not being his friend. “I can’t be your friend because you beat on your old lady” because your friends are reflection on yourself.
Lmfaooooooooooooo I would definitely ask my parents first but I understand asking your man. If you are my man I should be asking you too. But that is just not me.
One of you said that 'as his friend, if you know he's doing that to his partner you should not be his friend' and then someone else said 'what does that do'......what it does is provide consequences. If men start to hold other men accountable for their shit behaviour....they are more likely to have a realization like oh shit maybe I am wrong, maybe I need to change. Whereas if the family doesn't say anything, if the friends don't say anything, and the partner leaves then this man can just blame her both in his head and to other people. Once she's out and she's safe, that woman should call his mother and tell her everything.
I’m asking my bf for money. I’m not asking my parents not at all ESPECIALLY if I still live at home. I also don’t want my parents holding it over my head and feeling pressured to pay it back. My bf is my partner we invest in each other and help each other cause if I’m married I’m not asking my parents for anything
Sorry but sis in the middle is being really ignorant w her opinions about asking family vs a partner. Some people are estranged from their family or their family simply don’t got it. Consider yourself blessed you have parents you can lean on!! That is a luxury most don’t have. It’s a lot of shitty parents out here. I didn’t choose my parents. But I chose my partner and he is more generous than anyone in my family 🤷🏿♀️. He’s lucky thou bc when he needs helps he’s able to ask his parents.
I think she may have trust issues with money and ppl outside of her family. In another video she was hot about having bridesmaids and never wanting to ask friends to be in a bridal party. I have a reliable man and friends to be able to ask and them wanting to be there for me in that way. Maybe only her family is that for her. But she doesn’t need to make the other girl feel crazy for allowing her man to be supportive in that way.
He’s more worried about his friend losing his fam/home etc and isn’t worried enough about the welfare of his partner and child for me. You haven’t spoken up about his crazy behavior but you want to speak up when she’s trying to get to safety.
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I would ask my parents first. Because if we are not married or maybe live together, you are not my first choice. It feels more secure and god forbid we break up, people change and you can kiss that goodbye. Or worse yet, whose to say you using that money for what you telling me you are using it for, sometimes love makes us blind and we don’t see he getting that money for that side piece for all I know.
I literally met a waitress at the restaurant she works (never met before) and then chatted a bit (I’m married and she is in a relationship with her mate with 5 kids. I work in HR so I told her to hit me up if her or her mate was looking. Anyways, literally a week later, she asked me for money coz they were being “evicted”. I was like ummm nah. Needless to say, she left the chat 😂😂😂
If you can’t ask your partner but he’s knocking your boots and getting the all benefits before marriage you need to contemplate your life. You’re even uncomfortable to borrow from him Kai😂😂 Your parents shouldn’t come to mind because they have done their part by raising you.
Don’t say anything.. it will back fire at you.. this guy doesn’t listen or care about shit… he needs big help from a professional and not someone he knows.. let her go and find herself again and keep herself safe with the son
i actually cant ask my parents for money, its emberassing. i think its just how ive been raised,it is very much, work for whatyou need. id feel uncomfortable asking my parents for a simple 200 cus theyd question why 1 i cant paythat and 2 why my partner wouldnt
I agree with Beatrice I think it does put more stress on your parents back especially when they naturally already spend money on you then you add $200 onto that lol I also feel the same way about money and family bcuz if I found out someone in my family owed someone else money when they could have asked us 😂🤣
This first topic reminds of my boy best friend in highschool who had 4 girlfriends in his class the funny thing is that they used to walk with each other 24/7 and none of them knew😅😅
The man is suppose to be the provider! So him asking for money meaning he cannot be the man he is suppose to be in the relationship, I would’ve ran soooo fast & blocked him. Women need to do better when it comes to being nice & giving money
59:36 ~ NO, he needs to ask his employer for a RAISE or an advanced paycheck. And then he must cut out his subscriptions and memberships because Netflix is worthless compared to your car note and you can gym at home for a few months. Big boy needs to learn to handle big boy money. (Edit) He can also call his financial institution to ask for a loan deferment to the next month so then he has 4 weeks to get his money right, get a second job, etc. and pay for the 2 months on the next due date.
As far as lending money goes if I “spot” you and the reason I’m spotting you is bc you don’t have it to cover whatever I’m not expecting it back I am gifting you that money to help you
Not me coming back in the comments a week later 😂.. but I’m now at the 20K loan, I’d be sick! The way I’d Harass that man for my money, it would be a full time job! Low key he could have a gambling prob. those people blow money FAST 😒
200 car payment thing. defo exhuast all options before asking me! Me tho i would ask him before my parents but he wont be coming to me first and hopefully not at all... sorry idc how hypocritical or crazy that sounds.
i cant get past the fact that he might find where she’s staying because he helped her move in the couch 😢
Oh gosh, yeah, wrong move 😢
this!!!!!
Thinking her brother lives there too will help her safety wise, however, I agree that it's scary
Literally just said the same. It was funny and clever before i found out she was being abused.
Thought the exact same thing!!
To the first guy: if the woman being beaten was your sister, wife, daughter, would you call this guy an "amazing guy"? Would you be friends? Honestly, it's even sh*tty that you have to think of it through the lens of sister/daughter/mother because no woman (or man) deserves to be abused like that. Come on, y'all.
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I agree with Tammy actually, I feel more comfortable asking my partner than my parents because sometimes parents can make you feel like a burden especially when you’re older and need help. Whereas, you’re boyfriend is likely to already understand your situation and may want to help you naturally.
100%!!! I wish they held space for her POV without interrupting her so much.
DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IS NOT A JOKE- DILEMMA WRITER DO NOT SAY A THING. That’s not even a question! The “friend” should Help the lady to move
About “should I just drink cocktail from the side?” That’s someone getting abused
I completely understand Tammy’s point on not wanting to ask your parents for money!! It’s more about not wanting to burden them. Dont feel bad for stating your opinion❤
Im a solid believer of you are who you knowingly surround yourself with. The person who sent in the first story is actively choosing to be friends with someone who has consistently shown abusive behavior. Hes not an "amzing guy", his abuse shows you what and who he actually is. And if their friend group has already tried talking to him about it, and he continues this behavior, you've now become complicit in the abuse since you choose to stay friends. Absolutely insane to me, how someone could type and submit it to the podcast, AND STILL SAY HES AN AMAZING GUY. Makes me kinda sick tbh
my ex use to talk shit about his friends and how they treat their girlfriends, we use to do it together… little did i know that it was distracting me from the manipulation that lead to his abuse. like company keeps like company. same logic as to why no one wants to be friends with a pedo.
All men are either some kind of abuser or friends with one. Show me a man that moves away from an abusive man and I will show you hell freezing over
man he said “i don’t support domestic abuse but i won’t stop it, might even instigate it”
I hope the one in the middle one day can realize what a man should be in a relationship. Yes even though you have money, you should still be able to ask your partner for money because really they should be there to help and provide, esp a man, I would ask my partner before my parents for sure. The parents are gonna turn around and say your man can’t help you? I completely agree with the one on the right.
There’s a way to prove your point without making someone feel very stupid. That’s what y’all did to Tammy in this episode. And Tammy is so patient!! She’s honestly a sweet soul how she handled the whole situation!!!!
Me watching that debate in confusion knowing my man would give me $500 at the drop of a hat if I needed it and would get upset if I don’t ask him…
That whole debate made me mad that one they wouldn’t let Tammy speak let alone finish and see her perspective. It’s not wrong if that’s how you personally would handle it but don’t degrade someone else
Truth 💯
The first one too many men reward their ain’t shit friends with their friendship. This man is an abusive POS who couldn’t stand up to his friends opinions so goes home and beats on his girl. He blatantly disrespects her in public and thinks his friends are blind somehow. Smh the fact that this dude knows his friend is scum but feels bad for him losing everything even though when he has everything he made his partners life hell smh.
I think the one in the middle - it’s okay to agree to disagree. She’s almost upset that the other girl has a different preference. 😵💫
Hi ladies! I love your podcast and binge it to get me through the day!! Respectfully, I do wish yall gave Tammy a chance to speak without cutting her off. Money is a sensitive topic for sure, but I think Tammy’s pov is valid and hope moving forward if yall do not agree w someone’s POV, you still hold space and time for them to speak. Also financial trauma is a thing and some people will feel safer seeking support from their partner instead of their parents. I hear all your perspectives though, all valid points. ♥️
nahh the way you guys “scolded”Tammy on the getting money from her bf over her parents was a bit over the top imo 😂 i think its very subjective. people’s relationships and behavior with money can be very different.. some people prefer to ask their friends over parents for many reasons, maybe you don’t want to stress the parents or you don’t want them knowing your business and financial status.. it could be so many things. Beatrice made it seem like an abomination to ask a friend for money before your parents, i don’t think its that deep. but that’s just me..😅
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If you're in a relationship, but you cannot ask him for anything then why are you in that relationship?
If I'm in a relationship, my parent is the very last person I would ask
If he talks that woman will die. Please sir, sip that cocktail.
I think the money debate depends on the kind of relationship-a boyfriend may not be a permanent fixture the same way a parent is. Parents are meant to provide for their children-no matter how old you get, you’re still their child and as long as the relationship is good, it makes sense that they would be the first ones you ask (unless you’re married or something).
As a woman whose partner has been in her life more days, weeks, and years than her father- a partner may be better and more permanent than a parent. So I feel like your statement is really contingent on “as long as the relationship is good” because the same could be said about the boyfriend. I mean I just saw a video of a man who has been together with his girlfriend for 45 years.
It really does matter dependent on the person
I can’t stand someone who doesn’t let others speak , someone who thinks they’re right and everyone else is wrong! It’s annoying to watch. Just cause you’re the loudest or u say the most words, doesn’t make you the smartest. 🥴
who are you speaking to?
@@David-ct7lubet the one in the middle
That's true, Beatrice was being so dismissive of Tammie's opinion. She doesn't have to do things the way you do it. Sharon is being a Yes man 😂 it's weird to watch
That domestic abuser is a criminal. Women die at the hands of their male partners everyday. This is disgusting and heartbreaking. He deserves jail.
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I get what sis in the middle was saying about going to your parents as a first response cause typically they are usually our safety net. Tammy also had her point. It just comes down to how comfortable you are with your boyfriend? I mean regardless my parents will hear from me if I needed it but so will my partner 😂
I started watching their videos today and I was really into it, but her not letting her speak and just not hearing her out.. makes me hate it for real now lol It was so fun and so interesting at first but seeing someone interrupt someone time AFTER TIME AFTER TIME is crazy to me. I actually agree and I'm trying to hear her part and they are just cutting her off not hearing her out... ITS A NO FOR ME.
I think I'm with Tammy about borrowing the 200 if my car is about to be reposessed. I would probably ask my boyfriend first (if we've established we're not just in a relationship, we're partners) and then my parents.
It’s weird to not want to ask your partner for money 🤦🏾♀️
I can’t expect to go to my parents first because my parents come to me. That aside, If I cannot depend on my partner to get me out of a bind, who can I then depend on?
this dude in the dilemma clearly isnt scared of losing his family since he clearly had one before but lost it so the second one woldn't be a shocker . i think discussing his behaviour with him as a friend wont change him in the least
Honestly the girl in the middle really needs to let her speak… it was a lot as I feel she had some good points to say. We don’t know the context of the car situation although I understand different views.
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Man Tammy barely got say her part 🫠
If someone is beating their partner call the Police with an anonymous tip, then tell him t stop!
Now who in their right mind gives up money they've been saving up for at least 4 years within ONE month? Let alone to some man you've been dating for such a short period of time. I'm truly baffled...
She should have never told the friend. Always move in silence.
I completely agree with Tammy on asking your boyfriend first. Because at that point you guys are partners. It shouldn’t be a problem. I don’t feel comfortable asking my parents
I understand what she meant by asking the boyfriend for money first…but I’m not paying him back
Sis🤣🤣
Na facts!!!
I feel like you ladies should get an update on this dilemma - I'm very curious to know how that woman is doing now - that man can mysteriously catch fire.
Love your Podcast ladies ❤
The part where yall remembered where you went on the weekend. The “oh” was mad progressive 😂💀
When you guys say “EHHHHHHHH!!!!” Is my reaction to this craziness ! Plus y’all clips on TikTok have me laughinggg, but homeboy that sent the message DONT OPEN YOUR MOUTH AT ALL! this can turn real left real fast!
Love your show ladies.......keep them coming ❤. Thank you for condemning domestic violence.
New subscriber here!!! I'm tuning in from the U.S. and I absolutely love your vibe, ladies! You guys are hilarious. I feel like I'm chatting with my besties. Great content!
Was on TikTok for 2mins seen this clip and RAN over to see the rest.
10:00 the correct answer for the writer is to keep his mouth shut because he might be visiting his friend in jail if he tells his friend what his old lady is doing.
You shouldn’t be his friend and the strongest thing you can do to make him see what he’s doing wrong- is stop being his friend and why you’re not being his friend. “I can’t be your friend because you beat on your old lady” because your friends are reflection on yourself.
Until marriage money shouldn't entangle like that. 100% parent all the way
Lmfaooooooooooooo I would definitely ask my parents first but I understand asking your man. If you are my man I should be asking you too. But that is just not me.
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If she in a relationship thinking you have to pay back in the relationship it’s not a relationship
Beatrice is a character! I love her! 🤣🤣
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One of you said that 'as his friend, if you know he's doing that to his partner you should not be his friend' and then someone else said 'what does that do'......what it does is provide consequences. If men start to hold other men accountable for their shit behaviour....they are more likely to have a realization like oh shit maybe I am wrong, maybe I need to change. Whereas if the family doesn't say anything, if the friends don't say anything, and the partner leaves then this man can just blame her both in his head and to other people. Once she's out and she's safe, that woman should call his mother and tell her everything.
It’s the delayed reaction when she said we went out😂😂😂😂
I’m asking my bf for money. I’m not asking my parents not at all ESPECIALLY if I still live at home. I also don’t want my parents holding it over my head and feeling pressured to pay it back. My bf is my partner we invest in each other and help each other cause if I’m married I’m not asking my parents for anything
Sorry but sis in the middle is being really ignorant w her opinions about asking family vs a partner. Some people are estranged from their family or their family simply don’t got it. Consider yourself blessed you have parents you can lean on!! That is a luxury most don’t have. It’s a lot of shitty parents out here. I didn’t choose my parents. But I chose my partner and he is more generous than anyone in my family 🤷🏿♀️. He’s lucky thou bc when he needs helps he’s able to ask his parents.
I think she may have trust issues with money and ppl outside of her family. In another video she was hot about having bridesmaids and never wanting to ask friends to be in a bridal party. I have a reliable man and friends to be able to ask and them wanting to be there for me in that way. Maybe only her family is that for her. But she doesn’t need to make the other girl feel crazy for allowing her man to be supportive in that way.
I'm listening to this at work and it's taking everything to no Laugh out loud. So glad Tiktok recommended me this podcats lol
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I will never understand the mindset in giving men money. It’s gota be a demonic illness!
He’s more worried about his friend losing his fam/home etc and isn’t worried enough about the welfare of his partner and child for me. You haven’t spoken up about his crazy behavior but you want to speak up when she’s trying to get to safety.
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The way I jumped over here from TikTok with a quickness.
Bro! A dominos ad started right when you said he added 2 people to the call. The way I screamed “AYE” 😂😂
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But he knows where she lives and he’s an abuser they are not safe at all
no i’m absolutely here for the expressions 😂😂😂😂😂
cuz this whole thing crazy
I agree I’m asking my parents 😭 every time! Then my siblings , THEN maybe boyfriend
Beatrice do you come from a rich family? Just curious why you’re very passionate about asking your parents and not friends/bf for money😅
The love reaction of her finding out that all knew the boy 😭😭
I would ask my parents first. Because if we are not married or maybe live together, you are not my first choice. It feels more secure and god forbid we break up, people change and you can kiss that goodbye. Or worse yet, whose to say you using that money for what you telling me you are using it for, sometimes love makes us blind and we don’t see he getting that money for that side piece for all I know.
This guy has the mind to be on twitter when he’s owing someone £20,000. He should be arrested
The exclamations be taking me out 😂😂😂😂😂😂. I love it. A new fan
I literally met a waitress at the restaurant she works (never met before) and then chatted a bit (I’m married and she is in a relationship with her mate with 5 kids. I work in HR so I told her to hit me up if her or her mate was looking. Anyways, literally a week later, she asked me for money coz they were being “evicted”. I was like ummm nah. Needless to say, she left the chat 😂😂😂
Love gets you discombobulated 😕 money shouldn’t be part of love ❤️
1:07:57 I would most definitely run to my parents with no hesitation. I agree on 100% with Beatriz, my boyfriend would be the last person I’d resort
1:10:40 I’m with Beatrice 🎉
ran here from the clips on tiktok🤪
31:25 not the collective ohhs 😂
Honestly I don't feel so comfortable asking my parents but they'll always be the first people I'm gonna meet
This woman needs 46:58 to sue this man
If you can’t ask your partner but he’s knocking your boots and getting the all benefits before marriage you need to contemplate your life. You’re even uncomfortable to borrow from him Kai😂😂 Your parents shouldn’t come to mind because they have done their part by raising you.
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Firstly, how are you guys with someone like that.
Secondly, she def. Should t have let him know where she is moving to.
Don’t say anything.. it will back fire at you.. this guy doesn’t listen or care about shit… he needs big help from a professional and not someone he knows.. let her go and find herself again and keep herself safe with the son
i actually cant ask my parents for money, its emberassing. i think its just how ive been raised,it is very much, work for whatyou need. id feel uncomfortable asking my parents for a simple 200 cus theyd question why 1 i cant paythat and 2 why my partner wouldnt
ive taught about it, i just find borrowing money very emberassing, the only person i go to is my onder brother. no one else
I agree with Beatrice I think it does put more stress on your parents back especially when they naturally already spend money on you then you add $200 onto that lol I also feel the same way about money and family bcuz if I found out someone in my family owed someone else money when they could have asked us 😂🤣
This first topic reminds of my boy best friend in highschool who had 4 girlfriends in his class the funny thing is that they used to walk with each other 24/7 and none of them knew😅😅
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Lady that always Says heeey you are sssoo funny 😂😂
The man is suppose to be the provider! So him asking for money meaning he cannot be the man he is suppose to be in the relationship, I would’ve ran soooo fast & blocked him. Women need to do better when it comes to being nice & giving money
59:36 ~ NO, he needs to ask his employer for a RAISE or an advanced paycheck. And then he must cut out his subscriptions and memberships because Netflix is worthless compared to your car note and you can gym at home for a few months. Big boy needs to learn to handle big boy money.
(Edit) He can also call his financial institution to ask for a loan deferment to the next month so then he has 4 weeks to get his money right, get a second job, etc. and pay for the 2 months on the next due date.
Ladies you can afford something during that time but next month next year you can loose your job and finances anything can happen in life
US we ask our boyfriends shem
The lives people are living, I've been watching u guys videos like 😮
Respectfully that should not be your boy because he’s an animal
Came from TikTok tbh ❤
I never see it as dramatic as I’m a dramatic African and I love it 😭😭
As far as lending money goes if I “spot” you and the reason I’m spotting you is bc you don’t have it to cover whatever I’m not expecting it back I am gifting you that money to help you
Not me coming back in the comments a week later 😂.. but I’m now at the 20K loan, I’d be sick! The way I’d Harass that man for my money, it would be a full time job! Low key he could have a gambling prob. those people blow money FAST 😒
200 car payment thing. defo exhuast all options before asking me! Me tho i would ask him before my parents but he wont be coming to me first and hopefully not at all... sorry idc how hypocritical or crazy that sounds.
We get it 😭