I don't think there is any girl in India who has not experienced such thing. I think now being a mum I will educate my boys. Its high time to educated our young generations so that our girls don't experience such things in future. 😢😢
@@wonderwoman7292 what do you mean ‘experience’ you mean not everyone is molested by a family member or family friends ? Well yippie for them but that doesn’t mean they don’t ‘Try’ 🤨
I also did the same.....i was gone through child sexual abuse at the age of 14 years......at the age of 22 i told my mummy about it.....she said tali ek haat se ni bajti and u also provoked him to do.......i cried a lot....but then I finally decided to fight back.....i posted about the whole incident in our whatsapp family group and showed this real face to all family members who think he was a good person. .....i fell soo strong after doing that ❤
Believe it or not...many bastards tried many things with me all through my life...and many of them met with terrible things afterwards...I am 60 now... I feel immensely surprised what was that great power which always rescued me till today... Sadly I still do feel unsafe in men's world...!!!
I have one ...alive till date....one fyn day when I was just 12 in class 7 ,called me aside quietly, hugged me tightly and made sit on his lap and said with a smile that I was very thin and lean , should take efforts in putting on weight so that I look full and a 12 yr old girl should wear undergarments of right size, else i won't look attractive and boys won't hug me😢😢...my eyes welled up out of fear of how this senior man of forty talking to me , both my parents were working,it was joint family and I had no one to share my story , i became submissive and quiet child ...this continued till i was in class 10 and bcoz he was a respectable man in family, he was a frequent visitor...my ordeal came to an end , when I heard his legs got amputed in a car accident and he became a patient of depression...later i started making incredible fun of him when no one was around...and that satisfied my soul.....
And how about teaching sons and men very early on in their lives. And also teaching them how to intervene when they see a fellow man doing wrong stuff.
It happened to me too when I was in class 2. I knew what was happening was bad but didn't know what it was. I still have PTSD from that so much so that I don't want to get intimate with anyone. 🙁
I faced such thing from my uncle when I was perhaps 8-9 years old.I never told anyone😢.But when he did same thing to my younger sister,she told everything to my parents because she just couldn't understand anything but would have definitely felt bad.My parents told that uncle to shift somewhere else (he was a tenant).But he used to come to meet us and always tried to hold me and behave like "that" whenever he got chance.As I grew up,me n my sister shared this..Later one day he came to meet my father (he wasn't home)we told him to get lost and never come again.That felt a little good.
When I hear stories like these I feel blessed to NOT have experienced such abuse from an immediate family member. Yes, outside the experience has been worst. Which I believe is any woman’s story in india growing up.
Well I was about to get raped when I was probably in 2nd or 3rd standard . But it was my own self who saved me . Somehow I sensed something was going to go wrong and that's when I jumped out of the window of the small room...I am not even sure if I told this to my family..but this incident lives with me... And few years back there was a terrible accident where that guy got killed.. i kinda was like he deserved it
Yes he got what was coming to him but there are still people in this world who do this to their 3 year old girl or boy cousins and get to live to a ripe old age guilt free.
It's pathetic......17 years girls now a days knows a lot about and it's literally good that they are becoming smart even at the age of 8 now a days girls are quite educated about it.
Almost every girl has to go through it... whether its at home or outside... At the age when u r unaware of this whole world... But we can't do anythimg in most of the cases happened with us.. The word "love" seems to be fake in this fake world 🙏🏻
Same thing happened to me once i was going in bus for tution and a man (same as my father's age) was sitting behind me we were on a same seat...and suddenly i felt a touch on my thigh first i ignored i thought it is because of my bag which i was carrying on my lap..but then i realised no it is this man who is touching me weirdly i jerked him behind he just shivered i looked straight to his face he was looking at me i told him look forward otherwise i am will slap u... When he heard this he stopped the bus and he was gone...but when i reached my hostel i cried a lot and i didn't even attend my class...i was in 11th class that time it is an incident of previous year... some people are like beasts...😢
Mostly the abuser are known to the victim, they maybe your relative, your neighbor, your neighbour/neighbour hood or someone from school. And this kind of abuse never comes out in public as no one files complaint. And victims can be boy/girl so please don’t trust anyone when it comes to you child. Teach them from very young.
😢😢😢😢😢har ldki ko hota h ye experience.......ise ghtiya kuch b nhi h.....jb ladkia kregi na ladko k ese tb ladko ko ghin aaegi..... Sayad ladkiya ese nhi krti h tbhi pyari h. Jo ldki jawab deti h bolti h wo mjboot hoti h
Yaa ..but at every location in india... people are not aware of these terms and things.......they didn't even know sexual things so much...till they visit college ...in metropolitan areas.....and this was generally....aj se 5 sal peeche tk....because ab toh chote bache bhi yeh sb jante h...becz of social connections
Jitni bhi educate karlo yeh band nahin hone wali.. bachon ko spirituality ka sikhsha do.. wohi proper tarika hai sanskar dene ki.. kitne educated logon ka example mil jayega jo log bahut padhe likhe toh bahut hein.. par harkaten kutton jaisi hai
Mein tho aapki paas khde hone pe chalis saal lag gayi.. Aap kiski dal galegi ki host tha manish ji ab bhi kuch nahi bana magar marne ki pahle zaroor kuch banoongi
Now you have social media so you got privilege to know every case and everything because of daily base case you know about it but back then people don't know about it sometimes we don't know about good touch and bad touch we thing it's loveable touch cause they do a favour towards us some people are innocent so they know that's while growing so don't get shit by your own shit perspective
had hai Manish tumhare rongte itni si baat se khde ho gye... duniya mai kya kya ho rha hai iska tumhe koi andaza bhi nhi hai shayad...thodi duniya aor dekho tum..rap kiye hue baby mt bno
When u said, "I didn't know what abuse was" and then "I was able to relieve myswlf of that baggage" these two statements shows that both you and your mom were well aware of the situation, now you want to console yourself by shifting the blame to uncle alone. There is no free lunch. Your mom used that uncle on her part, now her daughter is using uncle in the form of story to make some more money. Very bad. I bet you, not a single girl is there, who doesn't know about abuse. And u know what, the time you are talking about, that was the era when girls use to make scenes by shouting and slapping people in public even if they were innocent, Just to get some attention.
Bahi 17 sal ki thi vo ,akal h ki nahi tujme gadhe aadmi ,usne bola us s phele nahi pta tha ,or koi lunch dinner ya breakfast teeno ku na de fir b haq nahi h unhe ladki ko chedna ka ,17 sal ki ladki consent degi budhe ko ,pta b h usko consent or y sab kya hota h 17 sal m
@@drpooja1327 madam aap kon si duniya mein jee rahi ho? Aapko koi idea nahi tha 17 saal ki age mein good or bad touch ka? Kahi aap bhi iss mahila ki tarah maasom to nahi jisse kuch pata hi nahi tha? 10-11 saal Tak koi Maan bhi sakta hain bachche ko pata nahi chala ya samj nahi aya par 17 saal ki ladki ko samjh nahi AA Raha? Hadd hain..tab tak breast aa jati Hain ladki ki aur 14-15 se to opposite sex ke liye attraction bhi aa jata hain aur phir bhi aapke according iss bholi bhali 17 saal ki ladki ko kuch samajh nahi aaya..thik hain lagta hain aap par hi gyi hain.
Yaar har bache ko nahiiii pata hota aur us time to hume kch b nai malum hota tha good and bad touch n oll aaj kal ke kids jo humare kids hai hmne une btadiya aur prepare krwadiya k how to deal with such people and such situations kids are matured and confident and way faster now and knows how to react accordingly
@@hafizsaad4561 17 year old boy or girl are technically not a bacha. At least they know what's happening is right or wrong they might not say anything out of fear or shock but they know what Happened
aur fir khud sab khol k sabke saamne aaa gyi. how fake. if u r a victim of sexual abuse ull respect each n every part of ur body so much n wont let anyone see or touch it.
Fuddu story asa sabke saath uncle aunty karte hai the bachpan m then iska kiya aurto ki tarah haar baat per ye bole ki cheeda ya molest kiya inn Feminist ko kaam dhaam nahi bus apni aap ko victim bata kar sympathy lene k alawa .
Chutiya har ladki k sath kuch na kuch asa hota h ,kisis ko shoq nahi h victim ban n ka ,jiske sath hota h vo hi samaj sakta h ,it traumatized u ur whole life
I don't think there is any girl in India who has not experienced such thing. I think now being a mum I will educate my boys. Its high time to educated our young generations so that our girls don't experience such things in future. 😢😢
Yes .. but every one don't have experience from pedophiles
well said ...our boys should be thought to respect women .❤
@@wonderwoman7292 what do you mean ‘experience’ you mean not everyone is molested by a family member or family friends ? Well yippie for them but that doesn’t mean they don’t ‘Try’ 🤨
so true
I don't think there's any girl in the WORLD who hasn't gone through this. Besides, education has got nothing to do with perversion.
I also did the same.....i was gone through child sexual abuse at the age of 14 years......at the age of 22 i told my mummy about it.....she said tali ek haat se ni bajti and u also provoked him to do.......i cried a lot....but then I finally decided to fight back.....i posted about the whole incident in our whatsapp family group and showed this real face to all family members who think he was a good person. .....i fell soo strong after doing that ❤
Believe it or not...many bastards tried many things with me all through my life...and many of them met with terrible things afterwards...I am 60 now... I feel immensely surprised what was that great power which always rescued me till today... Sadly I still do feel unsafe in men's world...!!!
I have one ...alive till date....one fyn day when I was just 12 in class 7 ,called me aside quietly, hugged me tightly and made sit on his lap and said with a smile that I was very thin and lean , should take efforts in putting on weight so that I look full and a 12 yr old girl should wear undergarments of right size, else i won't look attractive and boys won't hug me😢😢...my eyes welled up out of fear of how this senior man of forty talking to me , both my parents were working,it was joint family and I had no one to share my story , i became submissive and quiet child ...this continued till i was in class 10 and bcoz he was a respectable man in family, he was a frequent visitor...my ordeal came to an end , when I heard his legs got amputed in a car accident and he became a patient of depression...later i started making incredible fun of him when no one was around...and that satisfied my soul.....
Oh gosh...itni khushi hui last para pdh k...uski taange hi kat gyi..yhi hota h karma. 🫂Nd hugs to you keep smile sister nd stay strong!
@@velvetbreeze3227 ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏻
Hope you are more brutal on him now.. lots of power girl 💪
@@ojaswisalunke10 his conditions have deteriorated, so graced him in the name of Almighty,he already had had enough
Wah.. kamine koh karma mil gaya.. i hipe you heal my friend ❤
Yes it's not your baggage at all girl.
More power to you love. 💪❤
Salute you beta yeh btane k liye bhut himmat ki jroorat hoti hai you are brave girl
That's why we need to teach good touch and bad touch to our daughters very early in their lives. And also teach them self defence.
And how about teaching sons and men very early on in their lives. And also teaching them how to intervene when they see a fellow man doing wrong stuff.
We should teach both good and bad touch
But court need evidence
Somethings just don't have evidence
Again teach girls?
But not boys?
shi baat bilkul
literally when you tell about abusive thing happens with you its really a different light feeling
Being a girl i have experienced such filthy things as well and all girls do experience such things in life 😢😢😢😢sad reality
Now we have to be aware of our relatives too
How disgusting and pathetic this society has become
Now nahi ..hamesha se . Ghar k log access paa lete hai akele baccho k molest karne ka
@@wonderwoman7292 hmm😢
75%. Ghar ke hi hote hain 🤦🏻
It happened to me too when I was in class 2. I knew what was happening was bad but didn't know what it was. I still have PTSD from that so much so that I don't want to get intimate with anyone. 🙁
😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😞😡😡😓😡😞😞😞😡😡😞😞😞😞😡😡😞😞😞😞😞😞😞😞😞😞😡😡🤬😠😠🤬😠😠😠🧡😠😠👿👿👿👿👿😈😈😈😈😈👺😞👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎
I faced such thing from my uncle when I was perhaps 8-9 years old.I never told anyone😢.But when he did same thing to my younger sister,she told everything to my parents because she just couldn't understand anything but would have definitely felt bad.My parents told that uncle to shift somewhere else (he was a tenant).But he used to come to meet us and always tried to hold me and behave like "that" whenever he got chance.As I grew up,me n my sister shared this..Later one day he came to meet my father (he wasn't home)we told him to get lost and never come again.That felt a little good.
When I hear stories like these I feel blessed to NOT have experienced such abuse from an immediate family member. Yes, outside the experience has been worst. Which I believe is any woman’s story in india growing up.
Well I was about to get raped when I was probably in 2nd or 3rd standard . But it was my own self who saved me . Somehow I sensed something was going to go wrong and that's when I jumped out of the window of the small room...I am not even sure if I told this to my family..but this incident lives with me... And few years back there was a terrible accident where that guy got killed.. i kinda was like he deserved it
At least the story has a good ending.
Yes he got what was coming to him but there are still people in this world who do this to their 3 year old girl or boy cousins and get to live to a ripe old age guilt free.
Reality of our social's mirror
Boys ko brahamcharya practice karwana zyada important hai bajaay saara controle girls pe karne ke.
Ladka toh brahmacharya ka palan kar bhi le lakin ladkiyon ka westrn culture wala nanga culture kabhi khatma na ho 😂
It's pathetic......17 years girls now a days knows a lot about and it's literally good that they are becoming smart even at the age of 8 now a days girls are quite educated about it.
The incident is horrible, but not knowing a good touch or bad touch at the age of 17 is not digestible.
True
Kindly make a program for grooming boys n uncle's n men of different ages
Almost every girl has to go through it... whether its at home or outside...
At the age when u r unaware of this whole world...
But we can't do anythimg in most of the cases happened with us..
The word "love" seems to be fake in this fake world 🙏🏻
Same thing happened to me once i was going in bus for tution and a man (same as my father's age) was sitting behind me we were on a same seat...and suddenly i felt a touch on my thigh first i ignored i thought it is because of my bag which i was carrying on my lap..but then i realised no it is this man who is touching me weirdly i jerked him behind he just shivered i looked straight to his face he was looking at me i told him look forward otherwise i am will slap u... When he heard this he stopped the bus and he was gone...but when i reached my hostel i cried a lot and i didn't even attend my class...i was in 11th class that time it is an incident of previous year... some people are like beasts...😢
Saw manish Paul after a long time, used to watch his show SCIENCE OF STUPID where used to look so young , definitely he was. Now he's growing old
I use to teach my kids about good and bad touch difference in there very early age…. You can protect your kids easily.
Really strong .
Mostly the abuser are known to the victim, they maybe your relative, your neighbor, your neighbour/neighbour hood or someone from school. And this kind of abuse never comes out in public as no one files complaint. And victims can be boy/girl so please don’t trust anyone when it comes to you child. Teach them from very young.
Looking forward to the full Video
Kitni sundar hain aap dear❤ Giving you heart but feeling quite jealous😢
It must be soooo heavy heart to write all this 😢
Abuse is new marketing for actors
uncle ka naam kya hai? woh uncle jail me kyun nahi hai?
Sabke sath hota h bas hum keh nhi pate
Kindly give that uncles name in open ....y hide it ???? 😡😡
Just like all the victims they won’t say the name but they will point at someone.
Her voice is very similar to Rubina dilaik
That baggage 😢
😢😢😢😢😢har ldki ko hota h ye experience.......ise ghtiya kuch b nhi h.....jb ladkia kregi na ladko k ese tb ladko ko ghin aaegi..... Sayad ladkiya ese nhi krti h tbhi pyari h. Jo ldki jawab deti h bolti h wo mjboot hoti h
No uncle gives ‘free money’ need more info about your mom. Mom’s usually know when their child is in danger 😐
Agree
This is so uncomfortable and suffocating.... I can't take it!
He read the whole book for her 🥺
Beti aap mahaan ho ,apko naman ,next rakhi sawant tum hi banogi
bro.. what is the book's name?
Hello sir we need full video
It is very common in family
Literally every girl are victim😢
Big fan sir ek din me b aayunga aapke show par
Uncle ka naam batao Kabar bana denge hum log .And vte why didnt you confide woth your Mumma
Is liye bechari ne sacred games me bhi dress utar Diya tha .use kuch pata hi nahi tha 😂😂😂
Chutiya insaan... Film aur real ka farak samajh... Film me nakli goli hota hain real main asli..
Book name pls
Open book: not quite a memoir by Kubbra Sait
I know his name but not sure... he is the one or someone else
Her ladki ki kahani hai ye👩🏻🦱
Hlw sir
Dude you were an adult
Yaa
..but at every location in india... people are not aware of these terms and things.......they didn't even know sexual things so much...till they visit college ...in metropolitan areas.....and this was generally....aj se 5 sal peeche tk....because ab toh chote bache bhi yeh sb jante h...becz of social connections
The reality problem with girls 😢
Jitni bhi educate karlo yeh band nahin hone wali.. bachon ko spirituality ka sikhsha do.. wohi proper tarika hai sanskar dene ki.. kitne educated logon ka example mil jayega jo log bahut padhe likhe toh bahut hein.. par harkaten kutton jaisi hai
Unclo se khuda bchae kmeeno se
Mein tho aapki paas khde hone pe chalis saal lag gayi.. Aap kiski dal galegi ki host tha manish ji ab bhi kuch nahi bana magar marne ki pahle zaroor kuch banoongi
Ye 17 kii thi aur usko pata nhi tha kamal hai
Now you have social media so you got privilege to know every case and everything because of daily base case you know about it but back then people don't know about it sometimes we don't know about good touch and bad touch we thing it's loveable touch cause they do a favour towards us some people are innocent so they know that's while growing so don't get shit by your own shit perspective
had hai Manish tumhare rongte itni si baat se khde ho gye... duniya mai kya kya ho rha hai iska tumhe koi andaza bhi nhi hai shayad...thodi duniya aor dekho tum..rap kiye hue baby mt bno
Age 17
Movie m sab utle sidhe kaam karti h ..yha women card khelne aa gayi ....choti...bacchi ho kya ..😅😅
When u said, "I didn't know what abuse was" and then "I was able to relieve myswlf of that baggage" these two statements shows that both you and your mom were well aware of the situation, now you want to console yourself by shifting the blame to uncle alone.
There is no free lunch.
Your mom used that uncle on her part, now her daughter is using uncle in the form of story to make some more money.
Very bad.
I bet you, not a single girl is there, who doesn't know about abuse.
And u know what, the time you are talking about, that was the era when girls use to make scenes by shouting and slapping people in public even if they were innocent, Just to get some attention.
Bahi 17 sal ki thi vo ,akal h ki nahi tujme gadhe aadmi ,usne bola us s phele nahi pta tha ,or koi lunch dinner ya breakfast teeno ku na de fir b haq nahi h unhe ladki ko chedna ka ,17 sal ki ladki consent degi budhe ko ,pta b h usko consent or y sab kya hota h 17 sal m
@@drpooja1327 madam aap kon si duniya mein jee rahi ho? Aapko koi idea nahi tha 17 saal ki age mein good or bad touch ka? Kahi aap bhi iss mahila ki tarah maasom to nahi jisse kuch pata hi nahi tha? 10-11 saal Tak koi Maan bhi sakta hain bachche ko pata nahi chala ya samj nahi aya par 17 saal ki ladki ko samjh nahi AA Raha? Hadd hain..tab tak breast aa jati Hain ladki ki aur 14-15 se to opposite sex ke liye attraction bhi aa jata hain aur phir bhi aapke according iss bholi bhali 17 saal ki ladki ko kuch samajh nahi aaya..thik hain lagta hain aap par hi gyi hain.
Fake
😂😂😂😂 publicity sorry sympathy stunt
5 year old knows about improper touching, and a 17 year does not, you cannot put that behind you. I see no truth in this, just another drama.
Yaar har bache ko nahiiii pata hota aur us time to hume kch b nai malum hota tha good and bad touch n oll aaj kal ke kids jo humare kids hai hmne une btadiya aur prepare krwadiya k how to deal with such people and such situations kids are matured and confident and way faster now and knows how to react accordingly
I'm a woman btw mere bhai k account se comment kiya...
@@hafizsaad4561 17 year old boy or girl are technically not a bacha. At least they know what's happening is right or wrong they might not say anything out of fear or shock but they know what Happened
Sab k sab bolllywood mai essay hi hai
Woh Sab theek hai Lekin itni badi rand kyon ban gayi ? One night stand abortion …this is jag happens when you are raised with no morals or religion
aur fir khud sab khol k sabke saamne aaa gyi. how fake. if u r a victim of sexual abuse ull respect each n every part of ur body so much n wont let anyone see or touch it.
Do you even understand tumhara aise bolna Kitna galat hai, kuch toh Insaniyat dikhao.
Ishko dekh k Nehi lagta ki kuch huwa hai ish k saath
Fuddu story asa sabke saath uncle aunty karte hai the bachpan m then iska kiya aurto ki tarah haar baat per ye bole ki cheeda ya molest kiya inn Feminist ko kaam dhaam nahi bus apni aap ko victim bata kar sympathy lene k alawa .
Chutiya har ladki k sath kuch na kuch asa hota h ,kisis ko shoq nahi h victim ban n ka ,jiske sath hota h vo hi samaj sakta h ,it traumatized u ur whole life
Jabb Teri beti ke saath aisa hoga Tabb tu yehi bolna theek hai .