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  • @AdventureEmu
    @AdventureEmu 2 роки тому +7444

    Filming this video was one of the hardest most rewarding things I've ever done. As I'm reading through all these comments I'm overwhelmed by the positivity. Of course it was amazing to do this in person and have intimate moments with all the people that came to the picnic, but I feel like the release of this video is almost like picnic 2.0 where everyone who knows and loves Jubilee can attend. So I just want to thank everyone watching for showing up. I'm so excited to do this again and to make more friends :)

    • @HitsugayaToshy
      @HitsugayaToshy 2 роки тому +177

      Do you wanna be friends?

    • @jeycarl
      @jeycarl 2 роки тому +25

      Keep it up! Amazing content and I'm looking forward to whatever you put your mind and heart into next!

    • @bradelba6948
      @bradelba6948 2 роки тому +24

      Great video buddy.. loved it.

    • @FerretCuddles
      @FerretCuddles 2 роки тому +1

      Okay Pride Parade Buffalo Bill.

    • @samyya
      @samyya 2 роки тому +5

      loved this!

  • @rileyjones7841
    @rileyjones7841 2 роки тому +10208

    I love how he remembered everyone’s name. It made it so much more genuine.

    • @Random-sk6hm
      @Random-sk6hm 2 роки тому +62

      ikr

    • @FinancialClout
      @FinancialClout 2 роки тому +245

      Yeah, that was impressive

    • @homeyworkey
      @homeyworkey 2 роки тому +305

      yeah how does he do that i forget people's name when i meet ONE person

    • @alexx6408
      @alexx6408 2 роки тому +52

      @@homeyworkey same bro i had a friend 3 years ago for like 5 month every night after we smoked i would ask him his age like for 5 months and tbh i only remember his nickname and how he look like 🤣🤣🤣

    • @homeyworkey
      @homeyworkey 2 роки тому +15

      @@alexx6408 LMAO yea you wont catch me remembering anybodies arbitrary number

  • @VictoriaMarie09130
    @VictoriaMarie09130 2 роки тому +6203

    The way he genuinely listened to everyone, remembered their names, and understood where everyone was coming from was awesome!

    • @AxxLAfriku
      @AxxLAfriku 2 роки тому +4

      I was a boi. They were two girls. Can I make IT any more obvious? I am UA-cam's ALPHA MALE. Acknowledge IT, dear bic

    • @MrEysox
      @MrEysox 2 роки тому +72

      @Ally I wouldn't even be able to remember their name except for a few

    • @relo999
      @relo999 2 роки тому +16

      IKR, for most of my friends I didn't know their name for months and it becomes real awkward to ask a few days in and hanging out daily.

    • @222Julchen222
      @222Julchen222 2 роки тому +10

      Yes, and people love it when you remember their name

    • @grimjowjaggerjak
      @grimjowjaggerjak 2 роки тому +7

      Can't even remember the names of my coworkers after working with them for 2 months, yet they weirdly all know my name even the peoples that i do not meet often.

  • @rhSage
    @rhSage 2 роки тому +7133

    Angie is literally the friend everyone needs in their life!

  • @Samuel-xs2yv
    @Samuel-xs2yv 2 роки тому +3742

    Angie asking "Are you happy?" hit me kinda hard. She didn't even know the dude the day before, but was concerned about his happiness by sunset the next day. What a pure soul.

    • @burnburnfirefire
      @burnburnfirefire 2 роки тому +28

      Angie's debut (first appearance in the video) is at - 9:01

    • @Sam-ng3of
      @Sam-ng3of 2 роки тому +43

      ​@@sabrinarock02😂 and that girl who questioned his definition of friendship gave me a lot of intj vibes

    • @chickenburger779
      @chickenburger779 Рік тому

      @sabrinarock2349 Trueee

    • @skrt99
      @skrt99 Рік тому

      she wants to smash

    • @goldenlotus3046
      @goldenlotus3046 Рік тому

      ​@@Sam-ng3ofdid she go to the picnic?

  • @dirthousegirl
    @dirthousegirl 2 роки тому +1784

    If any of the 11 people who actually showed up stay friends with him, they’ll have such a cool “how we became friends” story.

    • @p_a1234
      @p_a1234 Рік тому +10

      Yessss!

    • @romany177
      @romany177 Рік тому +1

      lol

    • @davidarvingumazon5024
      @davidarvingumazon5024 Рік тому +9

      For content and profit.

    • @publicalias8172
      @publicalias8172 Рік тому

      No, for your mother to raise a less pessimistic manchild. @@davidarvingumazon5024

    • @luciferis
      @luciferis Рік тому +9

      @@davidarvingumazon5024 wow, do you really find joy in trying to make a video that was supposed to be happy and spready positivity into a negative thing? nobody wants to hear it

  • @melanieorz9107
    @melanieorz9107 2 роки тому +3261

    I swear Angie and Malik are a whole vibe , I feel like even if he doesn't get close with 100 people, there's huge chance of becoming great friends with Angie and Malik. I really aspire to possess Angie's vibe hopefully someday.

    • @naesmitty3888
      @naesmitty3888 2 роки тому +124

      I can hear it now..."I'm Melanie, but you can call me Mel!" :)

    • @shalinipahujani552
      @shalinipahujani552 2 роки тому +27

      yes they were so welcoming and warm loved their vibe

    • @matthewsisti4382
      @matthewsisti4382 2 роки тому +44

      I mean it could take 10 years to find 1 new friend and you got 2 amazing friends in a few days with the potential of more. Definite success!

    • @shalinipahujani552
      @shalinipahujani552 2 роки тому +7

      @@matthewsisti4382 ikr

    • @viewmann200
      @viewmann200 2 роки тому +23

      Facts Angie was cool, I rocked with her heavy

  • @MissRatburn
    @MissRatburn 2 роки тому +2212

    Malik, Angie, and Andrew were the MVPS. They were so wholesome!!

  • @gloriousgal9958
    @gloriousgal9958 2 роки тому +625

    I noticed people are more likely to say yes if he already has someone with him. Also, the more friends he made- the more confident his approach was each time.

    • @BJ-zd2or
      @BJ-zd2or 2 роки тому +18

      Is that called the bystander effect? Maybe?

    • @Mary-ht2lc
      @Mary-ht2lc Рік тому +25

      Social Psychology joins the chat😁

    • @andrebaxter4023
      @andrebaxter4023 Рік тому +19

      Social proof is big. Also yes, confidence.

    • @Rico401Prov
      @Rico401Prov Рік тому

      It means they are followers and not leaders like Sam

  • @egem8u
    @egem8u 2 роки тому +1355

    the fact that he remembered peoples names is mind blowing. truly shows how much he cares, seems like a great guy! love the positivity 🤍🫶🏽

    • @rafaelismaelgeraldoheredia8241
      @rafaelismaelgeraldoheredia8241 2 роки тому +20

      you lose that skill if you just spend hours using phone, computer and somethings like that, but if you live your life out of these bad habit, you will be able to remember people`s name and others amazing skills. we should try it out, don`t think so?

    • @movkingbird656
      @movkingbird656 Рік тому +9

      He reviewed the footages the night before second day

    • @andrebaxter4023
      @andrebaxter4023 Рік тому +2

      Repeat their names in your head and it sticks.

    • @ohdaUtube
      @ohdaUtube Рік тому +2

      I've always been terrible with names. I'm in my 40s. Lol

  • @RavenRaven96
    @RavenRaven96 2 роки тому +2323

    Malik is the supportive friend we all need
    Elena became the interviewer and understands how true friendships are formed

    • @Random-sk6hm
      @Random-sk6hm 2 роки тому +162

      fr Angie and Malik are the people who you can tell would drop everything to help you

    • @kostajankovic9285
      @kostajankovic9285 2 роки тому +95

      she pissed me off lol, its really not that deep its just a friend why she gotta make it phylosophical and deep its rly not that srs

    • @steeledcelestial2958
      @steeledcelestial2958 2 роки тому

      @@kostajankovic9285 damn bro why you pissing your pants so hard about her💀

    • @mistybloom3
      @mistybloom3 2 роки тому +137

      @@kostajankovic9285 in a sense I kinda got where she was coming from. As she stated she doesn't rly entertain loose enterpretations of friendship since she didn't know sam at the time or feel there was anything genuine about asking a stranger to be friends. Since u can't friends with someone you don't know. And just wanted to know what his goal was. Once he explained it more, they were on the same page and understood each other better. Once the convo was had any hostility kinda simmered.

    • @ItzSlashyyy
      @ItzSlashyyy 2 роки тому +94

      @@kostajankovic9285 she feels like one of the most genuine people in this video

  • @TheRealGuywithoutaMustache
    @TheRealGuywithoutaMustache 2 роки тому +5024

    As someone who does not have any friends, this is motivational to watch

    • @nocapnobs7845
      @nocapnobs7845 2 роки тому +182

      Just go out and ask people to go out. I did it once on a friday night, ended up at a club, then another bar and met some cool guys. Just don't approach girls.

    • @chibisakura5371
      @chibisakura5371 2 роки тому +60

      I see your UA-cam comments literally everywhere and they're always ICONIC. I would gladly be your friend as a fellow anime enjoyer. You seem like someone who would be fun to binge watch UA-cam videos with and share ideas together. Do you have a Discord?

    • @mrsnobody832
      @mrsnobody832 2 роки тому +8

      Wanna be friends? Hahah nah jkjk

    • @joyisbeta5217
      @joyisbeta5217 2 роки тому +46

      Do you wanna be friends?! For real!

    • @FerretCuddles
      @FerretCuddles 2 роки тому

      Just a reminder that the "guy" behind this profile got d0xxed some time ago and the info was exactly what you'd expect.
      Let's just say the stereotype of the work shy nerd exists for a reason.

  • @gulrozsingh8967
    @gulrozsingh8967 2 роки тому +3333

    I’m not kidding, this is one of the best videos Jubilee has ever put out. Made me so happy!

    • @bobbuilder4422
      @bobbuilder4422 2 роки тому +20

      BY FAR!!!!!

    • @mamatae1113
      @mamatae1113 2 роки тому +11

      I agree!

    • @YuhasLol
      @YuhasLol 2 роки тому +46

      They should add Sam and Angie to the Jubilee team, asap.

    • @guywithaname2399
      @guywithaname2399 2 роки тому +13

      No it is literally the best video they have ever put out we need the whole world to be like this

    • @InnerRevolutionProject
      @InnerRevolutionProject 2 роки тому +1

      totally agree!

  • @jginny
    @jginny 2 роки тому +404

    Elena and Angie were polar opposites that subtly helped the progression of the video. Elena is the devil's advocate type who will ask tough questions and not sugar coat. Angie is the kind to embrace and exude pleasantness in all situations. Both types of people we need in our lives!

    • @idealchamphiten
      @idealchamphiten 2 роки тому +18

      I like Elena

    • @ariesangel4815
      @ariesangel4815 2 роки тому +6

      @@idealchamphiten nop

    • @yourdarling616
      @yourdarling616 Рік тому +7

      I like Elena too, more than Angie. I mean I like Angie, but I would like to have an Elena type of girl as my partner in life.

  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go 2 роки тому +1399

    This is a really great idea Sam! Glad you put yourself out there!

    • @uveshpanja6293
      @uveshpanja6293 2 роки тому +35

      Hey your voice is great I love your videos 😌

    • @user-in1yw9ty5t
      @user-in1yw9ty5t 2 роки тому +23

      Psyched 2 see u here

    • @lorddabian5030
      @lorddabian5030 2 роки тому +15

      Psych2Go saved my relationship 🙏
      I Love your channel

    • @aya_desu57
      @aya_desu57 2 роки тому +2

      Oh , i just was watching your videos!!

    • @chrisevans8297
      @chrisevans8297 2 роки тому +2

      That's a knee slapper 😣😍

  • @p_art_2281
    @p_art_2281 2 роки тому +2127

    This was so wholesome. Malik and Angie were literally the MVPs of this video. Andrew and Mohammed also made quite the impression on me. It really isn't hard to try to form relationships

    • @eren-2001
      @eren-2001 2 роки тому +31

      Leo, mya, Kenny and the rest too it was so wholesome 😭🌸

    • @p_art_2281
      @p_art_2281 2 роки тому +1

      @@eren-2001 that's so true. This video was just so wholesome

    • @lisasjourney6593
      @lisasjourney6593 2 роки тому +1

      What does MVPs mean???

    • @p_art_2281
      @p_art_2281 2 роки тому +15

      @@lisasjourney6593 Most Valuable Players... its usually used to award a player who had game changing excellence in a sport, but in this context it would mean that their contributions and wholesomeness made this video a success

    • @tibsarsalan2254
      @tibsarsalan2254 2 роки тому +2

      Matt too

  • @godnotavailable2094
    @godnotavailable2094 2 роки тому +1862

    That "Oh wait, do you know Andrew?" at 11:37 was honestly really heartwarming for some reason. Like he's genuinely convinced himself that he's friends with all of these people. And maybe that's the only real way to define friendship in the first place: two people agreeing to convince themselves that they are friends for no other reason than "just because".

    • @abraham1331
      @abraham1331 2 роки тому +9

      that's what Aristotle said

    • @frodetelia8016
      @frodetelia8016 2 роки тому

      @@abraham1331 could you elaborate. What exactly was his saying ? Cuz I’ve heard about it and read about the idea of convincing yourself ur friends with the person before actually becoming friends but I can’t remember where.

    • @abraham1331
      @abraham1331 2 роки тому +3

      @@frodetelia8016 Basically he said friendship means you don't do stuff for your friends expecting something in return, you do it simply because you are friends, so feel friendship

  • @zambella4143
    @zambella4143 2 роки тому +1288

    Angie is the sweetest omg. And I 100% agree that having Angie with him made a lot more girls willing to say yes... honestly I don't know how I would react to a random dude asking to be friends either lol.

    • @legendofsociety796
      @legendofsociety796 2 роки тому +17

      It’s safe to say you would react negatively. No one is judging you. You just have to be okay with missing out on experiences like this. Everyone understands human females are much more relaxed with human females. Even the most despicable humans understand that too, like Jeffrey Epstein.

    • @rafaelpaquete3350
      @rafaelpaquete3350 2 роки тому +34

      @@legendofsociety796 Se aying "females" is dehumanizing since it is a term specifically directed to animals, I agree with what you said, and your writing was very clear, but saying "women, or girls" would be nicer, haha
      No hate, have a nice day!

    • @legendofsociety796
      @legendofsociety796 2 роки тому +19

      @@rafaelpaquete3350 saying women is confusing. I have to say females cause i want people to understand im refering to XX chromosome humans. If i say women in 2022, i could be discussing a much broader scale of humans.

    • @legendofsociety796
      @legendofsociety796 2 роки тому +23

      @@rafaelpaquete3350 i call human males “human males” as well. Not one sided here

    • @akshy471
      @akshy471 2 роки тому +2

      No. Women would say no. It's a dude asking. Men might talk. The video is heavily edited for positive progression.

  • @MageshSridhar_55
    @MageshSridhar_55 Рік тому +85

    I teared up when Angie asked "Are you happy?" such a pure soul. This entire video was wholesome and it made my day. Thanks for this.

    • @vivablue
      @vivablue Рік тому +2

      me tooooo omgg she has pure heart

  • @sillychurl6502
    @sillychurl6502 2 роки тому +288

    I’m literally crying! It really showed the importance of communication in our lives. It wasn’t a failure, the fact that people really did show up at the picnic proves it. The whole idea behind it is wonderful!

  • @kevans7463
    @kevans7463 2 роки тому +1301

    Really important that Sam was able to take no for an answer without taking it personally or making people feel guilty. The respect for boundaries makes all the difference.

  • @Soma2501
    @Soma2501 2 роки тому +975

    Andrew was such a sweet guy and I love how bubbly and helpful Angie was. I also loved how Elena prompted important questions about friendship to think about. There were so many great people that you wouldn't get to know unless you extend your hand to reach out for a connection and then continue reconnecting with.

  • @lizg4690
    @lizg4690 2 роки тому +771

    High five to the 11 people who actually showed up 🙏 he was basically a stranger and they still came out. That’s just awesome

    • @inanimatemist8610
      @inanimatemist8610 2 роки тому +57

      Honestly think that 11 is better than 100 cuz you can actually get to know the people more

  • @ahsokaventriss3268
    @ahsokaventriss3268 2 роки тому +605

    I wanna see someone in their 30s or 40s trying to make friends. Would it even be possible to make this happen? As in meet, invite, and folks actually show up at the picnic at the end of the week.

    • @Dandnayak778
      @Dandnayak778 2 роки тому +25

      Age does not matter ,People's intentions do !

    • @mymelody3090
      @mymelody3090 2 роки тому +3

      Me too. Wanna know 🥰

    • @SherrickDuncan
      @SherrickDuncan 2 роки тому +11

      I'm 34 going on 35 and I do it all the time.

    • @Sagefrakrobatik
      @Sagefrakrobatik 2 роки тому +5

      I think I can pull it off, I'm 38 but most people think I'm in my 20's

    • @ahsokaventriss3268
      @ahsokaventriss3268 2 роки тому +4

      @@SherrickDuncan really? How does it go? Do people show up? Bring their families? I wanna hear about this. I cannot imagine this working, but perhaps we’re all so starved for in-person human interaction, it would work.🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @letlovelead7396
    @letlovelead7396 Рік тому +68

    Angie is a vibe, Andrew is a great dude and Malik is a day one. This was a wonderful experience and it seemed fan.

  • @keeperofsecrets14
    @keeperofsecrets14 2 роки тому +934

    As a college student and introvert, this video hits hard haha. I wish I had a person who would reach out and ask to be friends

    • @mirayoon1992
      @mirayoon1992 2 роки тому +28

      I'm kinda opposite> As introvert, it's easier for me to choose friends wisely if people piqued my interest by having personality that I'm looking for(helpful, understanding, things in common, be aware of my social anxiety/autism triggers for boundary sake, caring and easy to talk to). I'm between talking to them first and them talk to me first for this. I have social anxiety and mild autism

    • @Kindnessandgratitude
      @Kindnessandgratitude 2 роки тому +11

      Let's be friends 🙌

    • @Skiltra
      @Skiltra 2 роки тому +40

      Friendship isnt something that can be given away that easily. If you asked people to be your friend and they said yes they most likely not friends, although maybe it could build up to that but friendship isnt immediate

    • @Kindnessandgratitude
      @Kindnessandgratitude 2 роки тому +2

      @@Skiltra that's true and all it takes a first step🤝

    • @FerretCuddles
      @FerretCuddles 2 роки тому

      No you don't. If you really did, you would've done it already instead of fishing for shallow validation in UA-cam comment sections.
      A hearty laugh at your empty life.

  • @abe1518
    @abe1518 2 роки тому +274

    Ive spent most of my life being introverted and never making friends besides the ones i met in my early teenage years and now I feel extremely motivated and empowered to embark on my own journey of making friends and connections and getting out of my comfort zone. Appreciate you Sam

    • @itsthatguy0
      @itsthatguy0 2 роки тому +12

      Exactly. It’s like, go out into life, expect “no’s”. But when you get the “yes’s”, that changes your course. Better you do, then don’t.

    • @vl2663
      @vl2663 2 роки тому +15

      @@itsthatguy0 you also have to be careful of the yes’s though. Not everyone who wants to be your friend wants a genuine friendship. Some people either want emotional supply from you or sex or something.

    • @MrCassett
      @MrCassett Рік тому

      How is that journey going for you? Just curious here and hoping it's going amazing! 🙂

    • @laszlomiskolczi2036
      @laszlomiskolczi2036 10 місяців тому

      By the way, we can be friends if you want

    • @Cooltodd
      @Cooltodd 5 місяців тому

      It's been 2 years. We need an update

  • @_Adie
    @_Adie 2 роки тому +157

    This is the type of thing we need more in the world.
    I'll never have enough courage to do anything even remotely close to this, but if you asked me if I wanted to be friends like that, I'd 100% say yes.

    • @ibamuad
      @ibamuad 2 роки тому +20

      I love looking back to kindergarten and elementary school because of that. You simply ask someone to be your friend and you start spending time together!

    • @ibamuad
      @ibamuad 2 роки тому +5

      @biibiib buubuub yes, but no. We now know that there is also the bad and that people can be dangerous

    • @mishynaofficial
      @mishynaofficial 2 роки тому +2

      I always said yes. And I was always thrown under the bus afterwards. But it was my fault, too.

    • @OrangeBoy1628
      @OrangeBoy1628 5 місяців тому +1

      If this comment get 10 likes I would do it

  • @MajinxDrolta
    @MajinxDrolta 2 роки тому +9264

    Angie and Malik are obviously great people this was so sweet and heart warming we need more of this

    • @MrEysox
      @MrEysox 2 роки тому +164

      Yes those two are the 2 I remembered

    • @PDDWild
      @PDDWild 2 роки тому +13

      Exactly

    • @padmnaav
      @padmnaav 2 роки тому +97

      Andrew and kenny as well

    • @chezielle3345
      @chezielle3345 2 роки тому +1

      I agree🤗💕💕

    • @fazeasta6481
      @fazeasta6481 2 роки тому

      Yea they were

  • @yosei6350
    @yosei6350 2 роки тому +587

    I definetly love everyone but Angie won my heart, we all need a friend like her

    • @ItsMePhoebe
      @ItsMePhoebe 2 роки тому +15

      I agree, she seemed lovely!!

    • @Random-sk6hm
      @Random-sk6hm 2 роки тому

      Same

    • @frankdonner5118
      @frankdonner5118 2 роки тому

      i agree!!

    • @goodasgoing
      @goodasgoing 2 роки тому +1

      This is so great. I think it's best to make friends when you're young, because I find that as I've gotten older, and more cynical about human nature, I lack the will to become friends with anyone. I'm still and kind and helpful towards others whenever possible, but I mostly require less interaction with people.

  • @aisyaabdulhalim6854
    @aisyaabdulhalim6854 2 роки тому +578

    "It was about trying 100 times knowing that I'd fail." It's the perseverance, resilience and ambition that makes this a success.

  • @Avamazingxx21
    @Avamazingxx21 2 роки тому +942

    this is so cute, i was watching this thinking "i wish someone would do this to me", but i guess if nobody's asking me then there's nothing stopping me from asking other people :) no need to wait something to happen when you can do it yourself

    • @Random-sk6hm
      @Random-sk6hm 2 роки тому +8

      same

    • @amy.na0
      @amy.na0 2 роки тому +23

      do you think we can be friends

    • @kill3008
      @kill3008 2 роки тому +24

      @@amy.na0 do you wanna be friends?

    • @kimmikaotic
      @kimmikaotic 2 роки тому

      Would you like to be friends??:) I would love to go ask people too!

    • @samyya
      @samyya 2 роки тому +28

      this is kinda motivating

  • @viewmann200
    @viewmann200 2 роки тому +308

    7:34 I was a little confused here because that’s how every friendship starts, from nothing nobody is born with friends. Friends are honestly just strangers you get to know. Also I LOVE Angie! People like her are the best! So open, receptive, friendly, warm and loving

    • @mishynaofficial
      @mishynaofficial 2 роки тому +57

      Yeah. In my humble opinion, Elena is overcomplicating this.

    • @cevcena6692
      @cevcena6692 2 роки тому +4

      I would disagree, most of my friends were classmates or colleagues or people I had some prior relationship with, it wasn't nothing to friendship

    • @CleverCheetah
      @CleverCheetah 2 роки тому +30

      @@cevcena6692 Classmates are still nothing. They are complete strangers who just happen to be in the same class.

    • @CleverCheetah
      @CleverCheetah 2 роки тому +19

      @@cevcena6692 Those “prior” relationships come from nothing. You cant make a friend if you dont open yourself up.

    • @cevcena6692
      @cevcena6692 2 роки тому +9

      @@CleverCheetah Classmates are not nothing, they aren't strangers. If you think they are then you have a loose definition of what a stranger is.
      Prior relationships come from nothing, but friendships come from prior relationships. It doesn't mean that friendships come from nothing. It's like saying that "pizza comes from cheese and cheese comes from milk, so pizza comes from milk" in the philosophical sense, you can argue that point but in reality, you won't be able to make pizza with a glass of milk

  • @Sierra241
    @Sierra241 2 роки тому +210

    This video very is so incredibly inspiring actually. I’ve been struggling with my social anxiety A LOT lately, and have been seeking help more recently for it. Just today I had a therapy session and mentioned how my anxiety is not only putting a strain on my life, but others around me that worry about me. She mentioned trying some exposure therapy and I’m slowly working on forcing myself to be in uncomfortable small social situations and work my way up to bigger situations. Funny how this video shows up in my recommended, it makes me want to try this in order to help conquer my social anxiety. I think I want to make something like this my end goal. Thank you for this video

  • @JasmineAllyson
    @JasmineAllyson 2 роки тому +1179

    I think the most difficult thing for me in a friendship is maintaining that relationship. Friends grow apart... that's a sad fact. My three best friends (with whom I've shared basically my whole life) are living far away from me, and I'm doing my best to build up our friendship.
    And the group chat... the reason why I hate joining new group chats is nobody speaks anything after a short while and it's just... so hard to maintain that new friendship.
    That's why I keep my circle small. But the video is very entertaining! It's nice to put yourself out there to make new friends!

    • @AbdurRahman-cy4wu
      @AbdurRahman-cy4wu 2 роки тому +42

      I totally agree with this. I keep losing friends faster than i gain them 😭

    • @timmybus21
      @timmybus21 2 роки тому +8

      I agree :( struggling to stay close to mine as well. Hey yitong, you wanna be friends??😂

    • @maryammalik514
      @maryammalik514 2 роки тому +7

      so true. i had to move away from my best friend and we texted for a while but now we don't really talk anymore. also i don't talk to any of the people i used to be in a group with. so yeah it is hard for me to maintain the relationship as a friend with people.

    • @MrEysox
      @MrEysox 2 роки тому +9

      I completely agree with you there. Maintaining a friendship is hard

    • @alexandraa8184
      @alexandraa8184 2 роки тому +2

      felt that..

  • @ajleed2933
    @ajleed2933 2 роки тому +1233

    Elena is a true intellectual! She challenged his purpose of making this video without being condescending✨
    P.S Angie & Malik are so cool! Friends like them>>>

    • @rosalina462
      @rosalina462 2 роки тому +5

      true!

    • @williamhu9567
      @williamhu9567 2 роки тому +4

      Malik just shielding his eyes

    • @zuk207
      @zuk207 2 роки тому +24

      She was doing too much

    • @emmapellegrino7102
      @emmapellegrino7102 2 роки тому +10

      @@Sangsty i agree. I think she was pretty close to being a bit rude, but was very thoughtful with what she was saying. it made the whole video so genuine and real

    • @BourdeoixEterno
      @BourdeoixEterno 10 місяців тому

      She came off as rude ngl but she was probably on the spectrum

  • @ElinaGl
    @ElinaGl 2 роки тому +184

    i wish i could give Andrew the biggest hug :( he genuinely seems like such a nice guy and i can't even imagine what he's going thru. he deserves all the light n love

  • @pettypsghetti
    @pettypsghetti 2 роки тому +42

    THIS WAS A SUCCESS, THIS VIDEO MADE ME CRY!
    I loved the energy of Malik and Angie, it really makes me believe that it's fun to be around people, even when you're anxious. wow, loved it!

  • @Juhcamposc
    @Juhcamposc Рік тому +12

    This is beautiful in a world where so many people feel lonely and struggle to make meaningful connections this actually gives hope that if you put yourself out there there’s always someone who will reciprocate

  • @wanjohi
    @wanjohi 2 роки тому +501

    I am taking sociology, and one of the aspects as shown here is "the first follower is the most crucial in making a movement".
    That's why with Angie, you had an easier time getting new friends.
    I am definitely showing this to my class. :)

    • @x-x9595
      @x-x9595 2 роки тому +12

      When taking sociology is there jobs that u can get after?

    • @felipemelo8707
      @felipemelo8707 2 роки тому +2

      @@x-x9595 yes.

    • @daquieshakeaundra2854
      @daquieshakeaundra2854 2 роки тому

      on 100 most of them are asian, least blacks

    • @wanjohi
      @wanjohi 2 роки тому +2

      @@x-x9595 yeah,
      why ask?

    • @Kevuno
      @Kevuno 2 роки тому +3

      Oh its like that video of the shirtless guy starting a dancing movement. The true MVP was the first follower that made it all possible.

  • @H3rmon861
    @H3rmon861 2 роки тому +132

    I really hope it’s not a one-off concept and we can expect more videos like this because this was genuinely wholesome

    • @heidtb6746
      @heidtb6746 2 роки тому +1

      I would like an update in 2 months, like which friendships were more than just a one time event
      There have to be some people willing to meet up for a drink or something

  • @BlacSkai
    @BlacSkai 2 роки тому +164

    That was so wholesome to watch. Really enjoyed how optimistic he was in his pursuit. Got outta his comfort zone and met a bunch of beautiful faces. Some yes, some no but in the end created new bonds and might allow other to push through those walls and be willing to try this. Love is at the core of it all. Nicely done

  • @rachelyy
    @rachelyy 2 роки тому +32

    Sam's memorisation of names is immaculate. His energy is infectious. Always love initiatives like this. We need to see more of him!

  • @knm505
    @knm505 2 роки тому +29

    Angie is the sweetest soul i've ever seen. And the fact that he remebers everybody's names

  • @padapapapa7466
    @padapapapa7466 2 роки тому +61

    Elena sounds like someone who has really been through a process of deeply thinking about the meaning of "friends". But everyone has a different concept of friends, some think about it deeply, and some like me just, whatever.🤷

  • @navreetkaur7
    @navreetkaur7 2 роки тому +44

    This legit feels like a yes theory video , makes me so happy , feeling all that love and compassion through this video and kind of absorbing all of that , how this person's 1 idea is gonna impact hundreds of people those met irl and the people who watch the video ,

  • @icouldntthinkofaname8916
    @icouldntthinkofaname8916 2 роки тому +180

    This was really inspiring!! As a black girl in a white suburban area I went my whole high school experience with barely any true connections and found it hard to put myself out of because of fear of a lot of things but always wanted to do something like this.
    Your last lines about trying over and over again really spoke to me not just with friends but with life😊

  • @era6010
    @era6010 2 роки тому +39

    I have zero friends, not one. So watching this really warmed my heart up. Human connection is so important. Hope everyone gains new connections in 2023 ❤

    • @usernotfound8061
      @usernotfound8061 Рік тому +3

      Let's be friend:-)

    • @Leojw10
      @Leojw10 Рік тому +6

      Im 18 got no friends rlly hope i get friends one day

    • @EmmaPlaysYT_OFFICIAL
      @EmmaPlaysYT_OFFICIAL Рік тому

      @@Leojw10 wanna be friends?

    • @laszlomiskolczi2036
      @laszlomiskolczi2036 10 місяців тому +1

      @@Leojw10 Do you play videogames? If yes, try finding some in Valorant or League of Legends. Simply, start chatting and be pushy but not aggressive. Try to be fun.
      If not, then try to go to social places like parks and other avenues. It depends on what you can stomach. Meet people and you'll meet their friend group and keep webbing along.
      Be beware, there are a lot of bad people. Always have self-respect and dump them immediately if you think you wouldn't dare do what they're doing to you. I burned myself very badly because of not taking action against bad people.

    • @dharshansenthilkumar9492
      @dharshansenthilkumar9492 7 місяців тому

      ​@@Leojw10 can we be friends?

  • @jonaaas6087
    @jonaaas6087 2 роки тому +43

    I am kind of curious how many of those “friends" he met actually stayed in touch with him and became like real and close friends

  • @lizardlxrd
    @lizardlxrd 2 роки тому +203

    This video made me so happy. There was a ton of beautiful people, such as Andrew, Malik and Angie, i loved the vibes that them and you gave and i wish i could have been part of that. Made my day!
    Edit 16/06/2022 woah guys so many likes, thank you

  • @silentsylo9053
    @silentsylo9053 2 роки тому +17

    Malik, Angie, and Andrew were amazing! i can definitely see Sam having a long lasting friendship with those 3 FOR SURE

  • @toyosia8051
    @toyosia8051 2 роки тому +159

    This made me feel so much more confident about making friends as someone who has made no friends at uni

  • @jocimar1625
    @jocimar1625 2 роки тому +49

    Make friends is extremely hard nowadays, it truly is because some people have social anxiety or just don't wanna make new friends.
    Which I understand that but damn getting rejected still stings ya know. Anyway I love the video and jubilee always bring new and fun stuff to us ♥️

  • @koraksengupta8689
    @koraksengupta8689 2 роки тому +60

    As a UCLA student who suffers from introvertedness, this kind of inspires me to go out and make friends on campus. I would love to take this challenge on, especially with my few friends that I have.

  • @nhh28
    @nhh28 2 роки тому +118

    Great Video idea. I think I would have been open to this if I was still in university but not now with random people off the street. I think the experiment actually ended up being pretty successful and realistic based on what happens in real life.
    I was interested in who ended up coming to the picnic at the end and when Sam met them so I noted it down below:
    Day One
    Malik # 5 (1:28)
    Mya #11 (3:13)
    Jadin #15 (3:52)
    Day Two
    Andrew #22 (5:40)
    Matt # 28 (6:35)
    Kenny #29 (6:37)
    Angie #32 (9:01)
    Mohamad #33 (9:40)
    Day Three
    Leo #54 (12:30)
    Noah #63 (12:54)
    Nicola #64 (12:54)
    Kevin #65 (12:54)

    • @MarcoAce13
      @MarcoAce13 2 роки тому +13

      That’s awesome, thanks for this

    • @p_art_2281
      @p_art_2281 2 роки тому +7

      Thank you for this. I high key actually wanted to do this as well
      So I'm glad you did

  • @aadyagautam
    @aadyagautam 2 роки тому +77

    This was so wholesome
    I am crying at 10pm
    Also the guy , Sam was the best person to do this

  • @oliviacampbell519
    @oliviacampbell519 2 роки тому +103

    I absolutely love this so much!! All the people with no hesitation saying yes I’ll be friends we need more people like that. When did it almost become “taboo” to just walk up to people and ask to be friends. We should have empathy and break down barriers. This video warmed my heart. We should all be kind and treat people with kindness! This is so inspiring!

    • @laszlomiskolczi2036
      @laszlomiskolczi2036 10 місяців тому

      To be honest, if I had to guess, there are a ton of misconceptions irl. One of my classmates obviously has depression, yet he told me he stopped watching anime because he's growing up. I didn't agree with him cuz I've experienced depression and it took me one year to realise and another half of year to get out of it, which I realized when i started watching anime.

  • @k_Emptyhead
    @k_Emptyhead Рік тому +11

    Malik and Angie are so cool. Also, the amount of wholesomeness is overwhelming.

  • @jonasm4706
    @jonasm4706 2 роки тому +13

    This video turned out to be 100 times better than expected, it's incredible and super wholesome, and it carries a really possitive meaning. Also, Elena was like the most real moment and the most special one, because sam could open up and actually explain what it was all about, just a great moment, also Malik rocks lol.

  • @kikiayanna
    @kikiayanna 2 роки тому +31

    If someone asked me to be friends like this I 100% would have said yes. I think this is such a best idea and I think it would be really cool if people would start doing this at a bunch of different colleges. It really makes me want to meet some more new people.

  • @albanribet4938
    @albanribet4938 2 роки тому +30

    Honestly, that's super impressive! Well done for putting yourself out there knowing that some people would reject you and for managing to get over a hundred people to say yes!

  • @mspears_bobobuddytheseniorcat
    @mspears_bobobuddytheseniorcat 2 роки тому +99

    Did any of them blossom into a deeper ongoing friendship? I thought Malik and Angie were especially friendly going out of their way to make the connection stronger. 😺❤️

  • @jeanjanvier5909
    @jeanjanvier5909 2 роки тому +11

    I'm also really impressed how Sam remembered everyone's names, even after having met them only a few days ago. It usually takes me multiple times to remember people's name. That is definitely an important part of maintaining a friendship

  • @meikio8647
    @meikio8647 2 роки тому +18

    Angie is literally the type of friend i need, someone kind and loving.

  • @elezeiaz
    @elezeiaz 2 роки тому +60

    I absolutely loved this. The joy and growth that can come from stepping out of your comfort zone just a little is amazing.

  • @ahmadhassan8658
    @ahmadhassan8658 2 роки тому +65

    Angie is so nice and humble♥️

  • @keiron.4612
    @keiron.4612 2 роки тому +103

    I wish people did this more often you never know what someone is going through you just might make there day

    • @PeterGriffin11
      @PeterGriffin11 2 роки тому +15

      I understand why people don't do this. It's just weird and awkward at least in my opinion asking someone who've you literally never met to be friends most of the times people end up becoming friends over a common interest usually at school or work and seeing each other on multiple occasions to get to know each other a bit. Asking a stranger skips all that and you wouldn't even know if your compatible as friends.

  • @josephinenilsson1541
    @josephinenilsson1541 2 роки тому +18

    I mean when you were a kid you would literally walk up to other kids and ask just this, and then you were besties. I miss those days, this is so great ❤️

  • @NoopyP
    @NoopyP 2 роки тому +12

    This actually made me cry. So beautiful. Best Jubilee video ever actually.

  • @shrewdly4645
    @shrewdly4645 2 роки тому +25

    Angie and Malik were truly awesome. Props to everyone!

  • @user-pb2kn8bu3c
    @user-pb2kn8bu3c 2 роки тому +230

    Let’s try this with Adults in the real world and not on a college campus where you already encounter the same people every day. In college, I made new connections like every day and they often turned into friendships. In the outside world, there really isn’t a setting for the same type of connections with potential for friendship to cultivate in the same way shrug 🤷🏽‍♂️

    • @inanimatemist8610
      @inanimatemist8610 2 роки тому +24

      How big was the college you went to? Cuz I rarely see the people in my classes on campus cuz my school is big, and people move around where they sit a lot, so I didn't really see the same people that much, maybe like 2 times a week

    • @EmmaAus
      @EmmaAus 2 роки тому +22

      Meetup? Couchsurfing? At gigs/festivals? Various other groups & classes? There are opportunities out there if you're open to it... Its just that being open is often harder as we age 🌹🌈☀️

    • @mishynaofficial
      @mishynaofficial 2 роки тому

      @Josephif Smithling did you ask it irl or online?

    • @daveforz
      @daveforz 2 роки тому

      Sport leagues, bars, city tours, work, car meetups, book clubs, etc. There's still plenty of places where you can meet new people. It just takes more work.

  • @TheKchar
    @TheKchar 2 роки тому +14

    I really like Elena’s push back on this, I love her questions

  • @naimraut4286
    @naimraut4286 2 роки тому +7

    When Angie asked him "Are you happy?" ...wow... that's all u need..just one friend who cares about you 💚.

  • @maalipilli5748
    @maalipilli5748 2 роки тому +12

    "Looking back, it wasn't really about making 100 new friends. It was about trying 100 times, knowing that I'd fail.
    "But, if I tried hard enough, a few real friendships could blossom."
    That's why this video literally made my day.
    Because Sam put in the effort, some of these friendships, like Malik and Angie, will stick. Because Sam was willing to fail over 100 times, he created new and amazing opportunities for very real friendships.
    I loved this so much

  • @InnerRevolutionProject
    @InnerRevolutionProject 2 роки тому +15

    I honestly had to cry in the end because this video is so positive and beautiful. Thank you so much!!
    In our time, where everyone is hiding behind screens and is terrified of real human interaction, this is just so motivating and inspiring.

  • @danaaish4429
    @danaaish4429 2 роки тому +41

    Angela is such an angel 😍😍😍 the energy she has .. it's contagious I love her
    The whole video is soo wholesome .. I really enjoyed it

  • @ev-sb
    @ev-sb 2 роки тому +20

    This is one of the most wholesome videos on the jubilee channel hands down
    Angie, Andrew, Malik and the rest are all amazing people and angie had matching hoodies with him at the end :))

  • @johnnyfrankenstein0123
    @johnnyfrankenstein0123 11 місяців тому +2

    I remember my wellness teacher talking about how they're teaching the kindergarteners to be direct. Someone does something you don't like? Simply say it and the other person stops and respects them. In the modern world I feel that a lot of social things can seem complex and scary, but if you keep it complex and scary then it can be harder to progress. Simply ask, and if they say no move on. If they for some reason do freak out, all you did was ask to be friends.

  • @hyperiondragon
    @hyperiondragon 2 роки тому +5

    Kinda brings a tear to my eyes the sincerity in a lot of their hearts. A lot of people with a lot of beauty inside of them.

  • @deongarth333
    @deongarth333 2 роки тому +137

    I've watched this last night after thinking how introverted and isolated I am as a person and seeing Sam risking his outer Green Koopa Shell to talk to random students at the campus and forming friendships gave me a huge smile in my face somehow! 😃
    I struggle with social / generalized anxiety along deep trust issues with people along severe ptsd and would easily be torn down to shreds when the first person he asked to become friends with rejected him. Rejection is definitely difficult for a handful of people like me if you constantly go through it as you're used to it happening but gets painful overtime.
    Making 100 Friends has to be one of Jubilee's BEST videos I've seen yet beside the experiment they've done about autistic people as I'm a high-functioning aspie myself along the one about asexuals. ♠
    What I found most tense was @ 15:00 as Sam asked a dozen students in their own picnic group to join theirs and they ALL turned him down which must be so nerve-racking for him but totally understandable as they don't want to be involved in too many students they don't know. Heck, even having more than 2 people around me at a time would be way too much as I can only handle so many people to talk to at once without having a panic attack or passing out of being over-stimulated.
    Also, the girl @ 7:07 that Sam was talking to has such PERFECT POINTS as having a connection with someone is much different than being friends with them as you don't even know whom they are as a human being yet and takes time & trust to getting to know them in a platonic level.
    Other than that, this was such an amazing experiment to watch and really heartwarming and just ADORE Sam's "Empathy" sweater! 😇
    *PS:* After reading *"Just Some Guy Without a Mustache's"* comment, was really heartbreaking and relatable to read as not having any friends can be a nightmare when you see people laughing and walking together or holding hands as a sign of close friendship out in public. 👬

    • @rethacharicema
      @rethacharicema 2 роки тому +6

      props to u for putting this comment bro

    • @Duimspijker
      @Duimspijker 2 роки тому +1

      Hey, do you want to be friends?

  • @DarknovaMusicOfficial
    @DarknovaMusicOfficial 2 роки тому +28

    I feel like most people said yes to being his friend because he probably brought up "we are having a picnic / i'm part of jubilee" and then most people said yes just so they can get free food / popularity from being on jubilee.
    If the guy asked to be their friend without saying that there would probably be alot more rejections.

    • @Whirlbee
      @Whirlbee 2 роки тому +5

      Also the fact that a random guy going up to people and just talking can be very uncomfortable. Being a woman this happens a lot in general and the people can have not great intentions

    • @mac9733
      @mac9733 2 роки тому

      Why shouldn't there be? Without context, we still live in a weird world. Showing his intent was the best way to gain trust and since a lot of people are familiar with Julibee, familiarity as well. Most people knew they wouldn't make it and didn't even come, why assume such things..

    • @phalvorantos
      @phalvorantos 2 роки тому +1

      But even with that only 11 people showed up

  • @shadyshay_
    @shadyshay_ 2 роки тому +31

    As someone who enjoys approaching strangers and building connections, this video really hit home and and was one of my if not my favourite video on the channel. Would love to see something similar in the future!!!!

  • @endy_2012
    @endy_2012 2 роки тому +27

    This actually is making me wanna go out of my comfort and ask someone new every day if they wanna be friends

  • @mumumumey
    @mumumumey 2 роки тому +14

    this experiment was so wholesome and heart warming, honestly it makes me want to go an make friends with someone off the street I find amusing this summer

  • @rachellee5908
    @rachellee5908 2 роки тому +62

    I honestly really like and appreciate this video :) I’m a transfer student and it was really hard to make friends at first and I was soooooo lonely but things have been looking up for me recently but only because I’ve been approaching people first and making that first step to make connections that could potentially lead to friendship :) it’s hard and scary but we gotta be the one to put ourselves out there to meet people and make friends!! Thanks for this video Sam!

    • @NonymousGames
      @NonymousGames 2 роки тому +1

      what did you say to them when you approached them?

  • @asyuruu
    @asyuruu 2 роки тому +30

    i came into this thinking it'd be corny but this was actually a really wholesome video 🥺

  • @choi_sen_sun
    @choi_sen_sun 2 роки тому +10

    as a child, it was common for me to have someone come up to me and want to be friends with me. but just imagine how difficult it was for me when I moved to another country and no longer people came up to be my friend, and I had no idea how to do it. Fortunately, I began to show more initiative, but I still appreciate such people who appear out of nowhere and want to get know each other

  • @cassiwright7241
    @cassiwright7241 2 роки тому +10

    I think this is my favorite video from jubilee ever. It expanded my perception of the world and also showed me how much love there is around us. All we have to do is introduce ourselves and open up a little

  • @carolbenson8963
    @carolbenson8963 2 роки тому +5

    So sweet! I was just talking to my mom about how as we grow older, these walls and boundaries grow around us that are definitely necessary for safety but make it that much harder to make new friends. Thank you for this!!

  • @lauradg88
    @lauradg88 2 роки тому +8

    This is so wholesome and genuine! Sam has a really great energy, I would have said yes and showed to the picnic in a heartbeat! We need more people like this guy and the ones who showed up in the end ❤

  • @huxleyginsberg13
    @huxleyginsberg13 2 роки тому +18

    Very cool video. Give you a lot of props to keep going despite the rejections and 11 people showing up to anything is a modern miracle these days!

  • @irfann.8457
    @irfann.8457 2 роки тому +8

    And the hardest part will be keeping that friendship over time, problem will came and those that stay still can be the real friend. Even though currently I'm walking alone in my way, I know its great to have friend to do crazy thing together lol. Great Job Sam!

  • @ChristopherLaw-qv4ou
    @ChristopherLaw-qv4ou 8 місяців тому +1

    I admire the amount of courage he has to reach out to other people and establish relations without the fear of either being rejected or accused.

  • @aziul8
    @aziul8 2 роки тому +15

    I do not care how stressful this is PLEASE MAKE IT A SERIES

  • @miaou5858
    @miaou5858 2 роки тому +21

    i'm so glad you made it to the end, seeing you with everyone was enough to put a smile on my face, thank you for this

  • @mikaylametzler
    @mikaylametzler 2 роки тому +54

    LOVED this video! I can really relate to Sam’s energy changes throughout the entire thing. Positivity and inclusivity go a long way and that was evident here! You never know what someone is going through and how talking to them can make a massive difference. Keep up the great videos, Jubilee 😌

  • @rosegarrett
    @rosegarrett 2 роки тому +11

    Also it's kinda surprising how willing people are to make new friends! It's so awesome :)

  • @monstacookiee4775
    @monstacookiee4775 2 роки тому +4

    I really like this. Friendship is really neat and the fact that so many people are willing to be friends with just asking the question sounds so cool. It really makes it positive and shows how endearing people are together. If anything makes me a bit happy that people want to be.

  • @bklynkat23
    @bklynkat23 2 роки тому +6

    I loved every second of this. I think one of my favorite parts was when he would make a new friend and then see them again later either the same day or the next day. Angela but you can call me Angie was my favorite. I just love her energy. I'm happy Jason agreed to allow Sam to do this

  • @user-db9vy2gh3v
    @user-db9vy2gh3v 2 роки тому +58

    Biggest problem for me would be remembering all these peoples names 😭