Queer Way of Life with Bujy |Episode 3 | Transphobia, Bisexuals, Gay Life & Cancel Culture

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  • @lephetamoloi715
    @lephetamoloi715 3 роки тому +110

    I am straight, but I think its time people open up to such shows very interesting..Amanda is a true Leader..

  • @manqobamdau-nkumane9626
    @manqobamdau-nkumane9626 3 роки тому +106

    This segment of the podcast really needs Amanda as a permanent contributor. She is very informed, clear, resilient and blunt. I'm in awe

  • @highandmightyqueen79
    @highandmightyqueen79 3 роки тому +107

    Amanda is a force to be reckoned with you can see she is passionate about empowering the community, love her so much

  • @buhlethutozwai3788
    @buhlethutozwai3788 3 роки тому +98

    Someone please give Amanda her flowers!!! because this girl is on fire. She knows her community and she is in touch with the ground. Woooooow 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 I am so impressed!

  • @asandapokolwana5021
    @asandapokolwana5021 3 роки тому +70

    Amanda is well spoken and very informed! Bring her back please

  • @mphomakhale
    @mphomakhale 3 роки тому +36

    Tholang - Absolutely love her energy, I watched her episode with Relebogile Mabotja and I think she’s the best person to speak on behalf of the Trans community. Her personality is multi-layered and I can’t wait for South Africa to start peeling off those beautiful layers.
    Amanda - What a dynamite. She’s so well-versed, informative and a natural conversationalist. She has a way of always going back to the point. Yes Amanda, we will continue to embark on this journey with Bujy and podcast. I hope we see more of you.
    Katlego - Firstly, I’m glad your mic is working well so we can listen to the pearls of wisdom you continue to drop on this podcast. You ask pivotal questions all the time and balance Bujy quite well.
    Bujy - Thank you. Aluta Continua. ❤️

  • @phumlanisomacala1627
    @phumlanisomacala1627 3 роки тому +33

    We need more of Amanda in the show, she's very informative please bring her back.

  • @thandimabuza
    @thandimabuza 3 роки тому +43

    Amanda is legit here to EDUCATE and I’m here for it👏🏽

  • @SimplySiwe
    @SimplySiwe 3 роки тому +48

    I'm not part of the LBGTQI+ community so I may not have authority to speak on this; but as much as I was offended by that woman and her defending domestic violence last week, I really didn't put the blame on you for offering the platform, I appreciated the fact that it opened the platform for debate and converstaion and created awareness on issues that the majority of the world may not even think are an issue in LGBTI relationships...things like domestic violence.

  • @amantlentshupang7593
    @amantlentshupang7593 3 роки тому +17

    May Amanda please be the the permanent co-host.
    She is amazing 👏

  • @botlemooa8502
    @botlemooa8502 3 роки тому +52

    Yoh nna m a little lost. My understanding of bisexual people is that they are attracted to both men and women. However, that doesn't mean at any given time, a bi person must be dating 2 people of different genders. Doesn't that then become something different?
    Bujy, would you please have a number of episodes dedicated to helping us learn about each letter in LGBTQI+? Invite people that identify as each, ask them to tell us about their experiences, their journeys...i am here to learn while also enjoying the banter and jokes. By the way, great episode!

    • @kimberlyndou4541
      @kimberlyndou4541 3 роки тому +2

      The first stanza... I fully agree. It really does NOT mean dating both genders at the same time

    • @big1ne
      @big1ne 3 роки тому +2

      Ha.a Katli was in a polyamorous relationship with a bisexual. Bisexuality isn't how many you date, it's who you are attracted to(men and women)

  • @biancamutshinya5719
    @biancamutshinya5719 3 роки тому +26

    I love Amanda so much, so smart and well informed.

  • @boitumelolicious
    @boitumelolicious 3 роки тому +9

    I’m sooo ready for the Bisexual dialogue!
    We are constantly misunderstood! Bujy please continue the conversation next week, it needs to be unpacked . 💙💖💜 beautiful show by the way 🌟 Amanda for president!

  • @nonhlanhlamahlangu8427
    @nonhlanhlamahlangu8427 3 роки тому +29

    🤣 love how Amanda takes over the show, she has no time for mgosi or he said/ she said she wants to go straight to facts.

  • @wandilemadi510
    @wandilemadi510 3 роки тому +20

    Amanda is here to Educate!!!

  • @Afrosoil11
    @Afrosoil11 3 роки тому +12

    I really love this crew everyone plays a different role, I think Bujy is correct political correctness sweeps things under the carpet, Amanda is great contributor in the formal education, Katlego is like the elegance

  • @Napsterchic
    @Napsterchic 3 роки тому +24

    Amanda just makes sense when she explains things :)

  • @olwethumlunguza5300
    @olwethumlunguza5300 3 роки тому +28

    Can We please Keep Amanda and Katlego

  • @mxoamplified
    @mxoamplified 3 роки тому +4

    May Amanda please be a regular on this platform 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿. She sounds well informed and educational. Most of her input was void of personal feelings/opinions "I feel like...". I stayed till the end of the podcast because of her

  • @nonhlanhlamnguni7001
    @nonhlanhlamnguni7001 3 роки тому +43

    Tholang is a mood 😂😂😂I love her ❤️

  • @mohautlali8865
    @mohautlali8865 3 роки тому +40

    Hey Bujy, please secure Somizi as guest #forthesakeofthepodcast

  • @nthabisengnhlapo3801
    @nthabisengnhlapo3801 3 роки тому +3

    Watching this show reminds me of my late friend MK from the vaal who was brutally killed...one of the hardest working person I have ever met ...I miss her so much...thank you Bujy❤

  • @sydneymazibuko3458
    @sydneymazibuko3458 3 роки тому +7

    This show and podcast is very important in educating the community. Danko Buji 👌🙌

  • @shaquillezulu
    @shaquillezulu 3 роки тому +3

    I watch this to educate, understand the ALPHABET GANG. They are part of our daily lives, so to avoid prejudice, learn.

  • @ncumisasigalelana2530
    @ncumisasigalelana2530 3 роки тому +14

    Love this section too. Maybe let's have it every week. Please.

  • @olwethumlunguza5300
    @olwethumlunguza5300 3 роки тому +81

    Can we please have a structure on the show, topics tend to free flow and tangle a lot and you get very lost as a listener, can we move from one topic to another, call each other out when we drift afar from the topic maybe have a few minutes to vent but get back on topic. I understand it's free-flowing but a bit of structure will help a lot in consuming the content
    Amanda and Katlego assist a lot as they try to keep going back to the actual topic but more needs to be done

    • @lebogang7600
      @lebogang7600 3 роки тому +1

      Totally agree there is a lot of talking over one another, and topics don’t end up anywhere. This could be a great show but I loose interest watching it because I don’t really get much. Big ups to Amanda she kept trying to come back to topics but then she gets talked over

    • @TheSARAFINA2000
      @TheSARAFINA2000 3 роки тому

      Agree, l said that first episode

  • @thembisandaba7722
    @thembisandaba7722 3 роки тому +1

    Amanda&Tholang must be invited every time we need people who cares about others and their well being. People need to be educated while listening I love you guys so much.always remember to bring up topic that people will benefit from

  • @sanabanda2151
    @sanabanda2151 3 роки тому +13

    I am learning so much! Thank you Bujy, Mac G and team😍

  • @omphemetsechake2839
    @omphemetsechake2839 3 роки тому +1

    I must say...this PODCAST is the very educational. Go tswa diphiri - ziyasha!!!

  • @wandilemadi510
    @wandilemadi510 3 роки тому +26

    I like that Amanda reminds the panel to not speak on experiences they do not Identify with. Especially with the Bisexuality question. Gays tend to be very violently ignorant about issues that don't center Gay men! When it comes to Intersex people/trans ppl and bisexual ppl! Gays can be so aggressive with their ignorance and invalidate the experiences of bi/trans/Intersex ppl. You see a hint of this, when Katli says about dating a Bisexual person " neyi Ntena mahn!" With a face of disgust. It's important to be aware of your own prejudices. It's not just about Gay Men. There are bisexual / trans /Intersex and other diverse people.

    • @botlemooa8502
      @botlemooa8502 3 роки тому +2

      Thank you for this comment!

    • @likklemiss5286
      @likklemiss5286 3 роки тому

      I think with Katli he was essentially being cheated on so vele there will be disgust or hurt

    • @kwamkelemkize7458
      @kwamkelemkize7458 3 роки тому

      @@likklemiss5286 which has nothing to do with bisexuality alone. The person who did that to him was probably bisexual and poly. Bisexual does not equal poly.

  • @tj7_sa
    @tj7_sa 3 роки тому +3

    I really digg this episode! Not entirely sure abt how it’s structured but I FULLY trust the process and form it’s taking🙏🏿 As for Bujy’s hairdo - 🔥🔥😩

  • @geet3187
    @geet3187 3 роки тому +3

    Amanda gives me chills 32:00 the power in what she speaks 💪

  • @big1ne
    @big1ne 3 роки тому +3

    I love this set. Thank you for bringing Amanda back. Banzi was toxicc but you did not GIVE BANZI ANY PLATFORM. Don't let people try and bring you down. Those hard conversations need to happen, this sweeping under the rug culture. Is the same culture yenza lezinto ziqhubeke with no real justice.

  • @molebohengmaphepha80
    @molebohengmaphepha80 3 роки тому +8

    Amanda is amazing, I hope we will see more of her

  • @mosamofokeng1529
    @mosamofokeng1529 3 роки тому +12

    I am here for Tholang❤❤❤

  • @katlegomhlauli8423
    @katlegomhlauli8423 3 роки тому +1

    Amanda is very very well informed... a great addition to the panel

  • @londwangcobo2032
    @londwangcobo2032 3 роки тому +13

    I'm a guy but this show is different but its dope dope

  • @dijeitheartist5530
    @dijeitheartist5530 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you Bujy and the crew. It’s a very heavy subject from the middle towards the end. People are just oppressed. Since ever watching your show, I realize We’re so backward. But I guess this is the beginning of the change. Your fearlessness Bujy is inspirational. ✊🏾

  • @thandolwethu_SibuM
    @thandolwethu_SibuM 3 роки тому +9

    Amanda🔥🔥🔥 a whole army ♥️
    Thank you Bujy for this

  • @katlegomhlauli8423
    @katlegomhlauli8423 3 роки тому +1

    Tholang is a mood ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ I love you girl and am glad you are having this conversation.. Flame Monroe said the same thing about the prejudice within the community

  • @nomsakubheka4323
    @nomsakubheka4323 3 роки тому +3

    My Amanda dropping Jewels. She is brilliant

  • @MrLebohangk
    @MrLebohangk 3 роки тому +6

    so much to learn from this segment of the podcast..for the sake of the podcast.. we here to support 🤙🏽

  • @Ngasii
    @Ngasii 3 роки тому +1

    29:24: This is so true. Language is alive; simple becayluse a word or concept didn't exists once before in a given language this shouldn't doesn't mean that it can never be added. My favourite example is the phrase "ndiyagowa" and how it has entered the nation lexicon for "going through something/the motions" and how it continues to permeate our daily speech. Intersex people can and should be afforded this as well.

  • @mpumimgidi1986
    @mpumimgidi1986 3 роки тому +3

    AMANDA!!!!!! but this show will go places. Thanks guys

  • @Gulexy27
    @Gulexy27 3 роки тому +1

    I like Tholang. I would like to hear more of her story 🙌🏿🙌🏿

  • @ndilekamomoza4538
    @ndilekamomoza4538 3 роки тому +4

    Amanda -mature , Katlego- Elegance , Tholang- Condense , Bujy- Butterfly

  • @matlalaledwaba6416
    @matlalaledwaba6416 3 роки тому

    when Amanda say "you know what", I listen. I know she's gonna speak facts...we need people like her in life

  • @ahviwe
    @ahviwe 3 роки тому +32

    I didn’t even think she was trans. She’s so beautiful

    • @frontlane7372
      @frontlane7372 3 роки тому +3

      What's wrong with you

    • @kimberlyndou4541
      @kimberlyndou4541 3 роки тому

      You’re rude!

    • @boimartin7866
      @boimartin7866 3 роки тому

      U guys r missing an opportunity by condemning instead of replacing the 'ignorance' n 'rudeness' wit progressive education though

    • @kimberlyndou4541
      @kimberlyndou4541 3 роки тому

      @@boimartin7866 we really can not be educating people/adults on basic manners guys. Come on. That’s like saying , “you’re pretty for a dark skinned girl”

  • @travelwithposh7129
    @travelwithposh7129 3 роки тому +3

    Queen AMANDA ladies and gentlemen!!!!! 💅🏾💅🏾🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @Ri_ettah_
    @Ri_ettah_ 3 роки тому +17

    katlego is so calm

  • @sandrankopo8472
    @sandrankopo8472 3 роки тому +1

    Powerful & so informative.

  • @nathanielmasetla9781
    @nathanielmasetla9781 3 роки тому +2

    Dear God and powerfully godly people, please protect Amanda and Amanda like-minded people AMEN .

  • @nikiwekhambule4671
    @nikiwekhambule4671 3 роки тому +6

    Can this show be an hour long cause I don’t like how it ended

  • @simphiwekhumalo8828
    @simphiwekhumalo8828 3 роки тому +7

    I have been shying away from watching this franchise of the Podcast, I was enticed but something manly (stupid) in me was busy telling me f#*!ek but I am glad I fought it

  • @kayflowsebole5703
    @kayflowsebole5703 3 роки тому +13

    Tholang is a Mooooooood right :)

  • @thembalihlemiya3395
    @thembalihlemiya3395 3 роки тому +16

    My love for Tholang😍 keo rata fuu

  • @LiveEnt_SZ
    @LiveEnt_SZ 3 роки тому +19

    I already feel like this show is too short

  • @phenyomoletsane9121
    @phenyomoletsane9121 3 роки тому +36

    I feel like Tholang was not given a chance to share her journey, because you were trying to tackle too many topics in a short space of time.

  • @likklemiss5286
    @likklemiss5286 3 роки тому +2

    Mna I enjoy this podcast so much, I wish we didn't have to alternate between the ladies one and this one

  • @thatontshingila-zuma8854
    @thatontshingila-zuma8854 3 роки тому +1

    yes girl, be decisive ... and i feel like that can be applied even for straight people. love it !

  • @tshepokunupi2138
    @tshepokunupi2138 3 роки тому

    Tholang must be a part of this show PERIOD!

  • @annahboshielo
    @annahboshielo 3 роки тому +2

    Good to have Amanda back! ❤❤❤

  • @nonhlanhlamahlangu8427
    @nonhlanhlamahlangu8427 3 роки тому +9

    Bathong please bring back tholang with her friend Inno🥰

  • @njabuloterrence
    @njabuloterrence 3 роки тому +26

    Eish this bisexual story is a headache, I did have girlfriends, left them and dated guys and I’m with a guy who is also bisexual but I would never allow to be cheated on be it a man or a women, cheating is cheating.

    • @zoemagojo7376
      @zoemagojo7376 3 роки тому

      So do you develop kinda same feelings for both.

    • @njabuloterrence
      @njabuloterrence 3 роки тому

      @@zoemagojo7376 I guess it’s stronger with men that’s why I settled.

    • @zoemagojo7376
      @zoemagojo7376 3 роки тому +1

      Thank you Njabulo. I hope we get to learn alot on this channel, so that we can all explore whatever we feel should be explored

  • @stephy19941
    @stephy19941 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks for the show. However we did not hear about the guests story

  • @bassiemokoka2500
    @bassiemokoka2500 3 роки тому +1

    I love Tholang. Amanda is the leader

  • @phindiv437
    @phindiv437 3 роки тому +1

    Amandla to you Amanda wow she is very informative wow.

  • @Sonwabile0
    @Sonwabile0 3 роки тому +1

    What a beautiful thing to learn from one another

  • @UnfilteredDeepDives
    @UnfilteredDeepDives 3 роки тому +1

    Loved watching this. Thank you for having these conversations.

  • @Lungi-r5k
    @Lungi-r5k 3 роки тому +1

    Look at Bujy muhle njan gosh🔥🔥🔥🔥unngbusisa lomphefumulo maaaan!

  • @YourHonour
    @YourHonour 3 роки тому +1

    Bring Amanda back she is so informative, Peng tings!!!!

  • @buhlethutozwai3788
    @buhlethutozwai3788 3 роки тому +2

    Also where can we follow Amanda?? 😍😍😍😍 I watched with my bf and shame l cant hide my crush on her 🙈🙈🙈 Timuuuuu

  • @sixolisiwenombewu4638
    @sixolisiwenombewu4638 3 роки тому

    Hayi hayi hayi Bujy mfondini. WE WANT AN HOUR LONG SHOW, EVERY WEEK mntakabawo!!!

  • @joymaphanga1786
    @joymaphanga1786 3 роки тому +4

    Because of language barrier, unfortunately couldn’t understand most of what Tholang was saying. Otherwise great messy, fun, sort of informative show. Love it!

  • @riaramoloko8772
    @riaramoloko8772 3 роки тому +1

    Amanda should be hired !!

  • @nqobilemgazi
    @nqobilemgazi 3 роки тому +15

    Sicela an hour at least please!!

  • @khanyisasithole3250
    @khanyisasithole3250 3 роки тому +12

    It's pride month gents 🙌

  • @anathisiyungufilms
    @anathisiyungufilms 3 роки тому +1

    You doing a great job Bujy despite the hate, some of us appreciate the intent and the representation ❤️🏳️‍🌈, keep it

  • @katlegomhlauli8423
    @katlegomhlauli8423 3 роки тому

    Bujy please make this an hour I feel like it went by so fast...

  • @modipadimodipa9483
    @modipadimodipa9483 3 роки тому +7

    You guys' topics are all over the place, Tholani didnt even get enough time to tech us about transgender nd the processes.. #straight

  • @NomzamoMkhize_
    @NomzamoMkhize_ 3 роки тому +4

    I'm so happy to see Amanda ❤

  • @teacheryolanda-k3y
    @teacheryolanda-k3y 3 роки тому +8

    first of all we need that '''popopopo'' sound!!! the intro is fire!!

  • @nomsankosi2990
    @nomsankosi2990 3 роки тому +1

    I can never thank you guys enough for this show❤️

  • @loveyours4685
    @loveyours4685 3 роки тому +3

    I love Tholang bathong actually all of them

  • @dawgiedawg4824
    @dawgiedawg4824 3 роки тому

    Bujy is wearing dope sneakers! 🔥 the lil I'm seeing is dope! Missed him as a host too used to see him on this other show with Phumeza! 🧡

  • @phutiphooko7555
    @phutiphooko7555 3 роки тому

    Such a diverse team thank you for the beautiful conversation we are truly learning

  • @ntombikayisengwenya7348
    @ntombikayisengwenya7348 3 роки тому +2

    I really love the queer way of life I'm really learning a lot

  • @Zee.period
    @Zee.period 3 роки тому +2

    Can Amanda just be the presenter assomblief. She has more sense, and conducts a convo with the awareness of the broader audience in a socially responsible manner. Bujy babes, askies neh lala kodwa the level of immaturity and professionalism... hayi wethu

  • @anathisiyungufilms
    @anathisiyungufilms 3 роки тому +1

    Can Amanda please be always here, love love her ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @kwamkelemkize7458
    @kwamkelemkize7458 3 роки тому +1

    I am a bisexual woman. I am monogamous too. Bisexuality and polyamory is not the same - polyamory is dating or being in a relationship with more than 1 at a time. Bisexuality is attraction to more than 1 gender. These 2 things are not the same.

  • @sish2881
    @sish2881 3 роки тому

    I like Amanda, I learn a lot every time she speaks

  • @sisiphokazi_m
    @sisiphokazi_m 3 роки тому +1

    I love this and its very educational i wish everyone could watch it❤️

  • @liemisompota3669
    @liemisompota3669 3 роки тому +2

    I love Tholang so much she is sooo funny 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @ashiakhoza8449
    @ashiakhoza8449 3 роки тому +1

    I’m in love with Bujy yoh 😭❤️

  • @thatontshingila-zuma8854
    @thatontshingila-zuma8854 3 роки тому +2

    Bujy umhle , i just cant ! wow! fuck ! ❤️❤️❤️❤️😭😭... Kat classy as always with that all black , babe did you do something to your skin? your glowing !💕

  • @music2yourears91
    @music2yourears91 3 роки тому +2

    Cancel the ladies podcast so we can have more of this 🔥

  • @yonelakatsha1858
    @yonelakatsha1858 3 роки тому +1

    Amazing content as always. Please have more structure to the show :)

  • @Neo-RSA007
    @Neo-RSA007 3 роки тому +6

    I just went to the last podcast and yep banzy is an abuser and thinks she's on top of everything. I only watched 8 minutes but already felt her bad vibe.

  • @khahlisom_music
    @khahlisom_music 3 роки тому +1

    I honestly think that Buji and the other's were not ready for what happened during that interview. We literally watched people trying to stay in control in a situation they did not see coming. I think that's the downfall of a podcast, its rawness can get out of hand and your hosting gets tested. This was a great learning experience for Buji. It was also a great one for me, I got to hear exactly how abusers think, which is something I never got the chance to see or hear. And i think it built more emphasis on why you should not stay in abusive relationships. And wow, am I the only person who thought abuse is the last thing you would find in the LGBTIQA+ community?

  • @charitymokwele6790
    @charitymokwele6790 3 роки тому +8

    Bathong I love tholang