ethan handled this SO well. the fact that he stayed calm and didn’t shout, yet still defended himself and didn’t let trisha down talk his family or his wife. honestly a very stable person
I love when she passive aggressively judges Ethan and gets called out of it she denies it, but when Ethan is trying to explain she wouldn’t know what it’s like dealing with a child bc she’s not a parent, Trish tries to gaslight and manipulate him by flipping his words into an insult about how she can’t have kids. she’s so toxic
As a someone raised by a single mother, I had nannies... the process of vetting and finding a good person to take care of your child isn’t a mindless thing.
all of the comments about their parenting skills didn't mean anything, idk why everyone keeps focusing on that, she's obviously just feeling upset/hurt/rejected and blindsided by ethan and hila, so she was trying to hurt them.
Yes! And parents are allowed to have off time too, they are still people and have needs of their own. Trisha is just a nasty person looking to piss people off.
@@learnbydoing2247 dude exactly. Ethans I've enjyoed for years..I'm friends with oliver trees brother, my best friend is very close with oliver tree. His work has suffered so much since trisha has been around. fuuggggg her. I love the fights, she needs em to change so..this 3rd one that jus happened should end up helping her, cuz if she doesn't grow from it...phew, shes fuggged
I feel bad for Ethan. Trisha was out of line calling his wife names and talking about the family in such a negative way. That’s really crossing the line
This is my first time seeing this... i thought the one where she was dressed as jennifers body was the only other big fight but damn this is horrible... im kind of shook rn
@@keashathomas962woahhh what! :O how do you know this?! Omgosh just saw a little 5 second clip of 6 mobth update 😬 just shoving that poor baby to a camera... no privacy:(
The one who should've stormed out is Ethan. Trisha was questioning his parenting and talking trash about his wife. His emotional strength is outstanding
Yeah but he put her in check with his intellect and soft toned voice never talked at her he talked to her, Plus he didnt let her change the subject and he was willing to make time to cut through the bullshit and get to point of trisha sarcastic passive aggresive insults
literally stfu.... she’s clearly going through an episode and ethan is taking advantage of that for clout.... i don’t understand how someone can find this funny.... i see her point
so what i got from this is, trisha can talk shit on anyone she pleases and can hate anyone she pleases. but the second the feelings are reversed and towards her, it’s unacceptable.
When she smiles and nods when she tells him that hes projecting...... she knows he's right BUT he is pushing the topic instead of distracting her to avoid her breaking down.
Yeah i dont realize how he forgived her after this and The other time when she mentioned that he was a pilladdict and stuff. She is awful. She only hear a little thing she react to and then just spit out every single thing she can do someone upset about and then at the end its always her its sorry for. She treat people horrible. She is horrible. She is only The victim at all situations
Nope , Moses talks shit about his family to Trisha and he tells Trisha things they say about her out of context so he can have her on his side. Funny how Moses gives Trisha his phone when he knows they are having a conversation about her. While also knowing the notification previews are on. He’s sus af. On top of that Ethan said that Moses has beef with his sister that has nothing to do with Trisha. Moses needs Trisha on his side , especially now seeing how well Ethan and her are getting along.
I totally agree and it bothers her that hila is Moses sister hila an Ethan have a great marriage hila has a child .. pure jealousy she talks about how baller they are. It kills her so her MO is to attack and cut deep
Two things: 1. It’s scary how low she can go in trying to hurt Ethan when she feels offended. 2. She only has gay men as friends because she feels threatened by other women.
That's a great point about feeling threatened by other women. My mom has BPD (what Trisha has) & she only has male friends. She also has always trashed talked other women for literally no reason.
@@Lombreee Trisha self diagnosing doesn't count. I have BPD and I can tell you shes just childish, immature, & non understanding. She needs real help. Always needing the last word etc.
@@Xunder_oathX I’m not a psychologist but it’s extremely clear that she’s suffering from some type of personality disorder whether it’s BPD or something of the like. Not everyone with BPD acts the same so it’s not really fair for you to say that she’s just childish and immature because she doesn’t exhibit the same type of behavior that you do
Yea! I agree 100%! He even said on the H3 podcast with Mila, that he knows that whenever she has outbursts like that, she blacks out and doesn’t have control over what she’s saying and then she always instantly regrets it and he never takes it to heart.
@@feebsz384 mental illnes isnt fun for the person who has it and the people around them but you could work on it together and not leave someone like that alone..
The fact that she has such a strong opinion without having a kid.... but really it's just that she's very angry about being infertile. You can tell this isn't about him it's just her own personal anger.
@@annalouise5418 i didn't mention that. you didn't need to mention her stds and medical complications. Anyone can be in that position no matter how many times they have sex. the reason why people don't get checked out is because of the stigma attached. your comment was a low blow
@@Mo-xh4vv it’s understandable, people love to shit on disgusting people, but you can be all high and mighty but you know dam well if Trisha attacked you so personally you might do the same.
@@TheIronyoshi Two things can be truths at the same time. She clearly has an extremely troubled past and in return, lashes out on others who enable her. I've never liked Trisha because of the racist shit she did years back and the fact that she's still relevant today shows that people act disgusted but in reality, find her discriminatory behavior as entertainment. She knows she'll get the clicks and views so she continues. She looks like one episode off a spiral at this point and it's sad. Ethan doesn't really seem to care that much either, he can monetize off her wild outburst and persona. that's why he so quickly tries to resolve things despite her disgusting behavior because she is the catalyst of the show. otherwise, we wouldn't see these types of fights time and time again.
I honestly couldn’t disagree more. Are you people all devoid of empathy, or am I the one smoking crack? She was obviously hurt by the way Ethan blew her off. He was being really rude. She came from a place of love and felt rejected. Ethan handled her trying to do something nice by shutting her down in a cold and brute way, while knowing she has BPD. It’s baffling that y’all don’t get that.
@IHave ToGo to be fair he could've gotten way more mad during this whole situation, we have to give it to him for being mostly calm since he was probably a little pissed that Trisha was insulting his wife, even if he doesn't believe this is what Trisha actually thinks
@@nono-dw4ct It doesn’t take much to see she was giving backhanded comments that were directed towards Ethan and his parenting skills. Also not everyone as the luxury of having dependable people in their lives so they get nannies. Trisha is just privileged asf.
Because she’s such a manipulator. Even some people in the comments are saying it’s ethans fault... Ethan makes jokes and pokes fun but the jokes are NOT about her drug addiction and broken family. trisha’s “jokes” are about his drug past or his family (trying to break them apart) and she posed this narrative that ethan is the problem bc he poked jokes at her first but the jokes are completely different. She gets away with not being held accountable because she flips the narrative and is a manipulator 🤷🏽♀️
@@brooklynbuilds but if people didn't watch her she wouldn't be relevant. She's going to keep putting those videos out there, she's constantly getting called out by commentary channels. But when has she ever cared? She moves onto the next controversy before people even have time to react most of the time.
The views and the money baby¡!!!! She's causing problems and tearing the family apart welp who cares were getting views!!!! Please please let her make a comeback video on us heck a few of them to drive up our views ooooohhhh we gonna be trending!!! . This is what I imagine is why they put up with her she's unwittingly putting they're kid through college
She's got a kid. And has never hired a nanny 😭 I'm revisiting this now and I'm 3 minutes in and Ethan is throwing words in her mouth. Didn't even realise that last time
Have you ever been around a year and a half year old? "NO I HAVENT BECAUSE I'M INFERTILE YOU KNOW THAT!" ... you can be infertile and be around a baby.... absolute maniac
she couldnt even keep her dog. i know they still have it but i see her mom and her sister with him more than i ever see him with her. she could not be a mom
I’m a nanny and I think it’s really important for parents to get their individual time and freedom. The parents I work for are so close to their children and have such a healthy relationship with them BECAUSE they also get to work, go out, run errands and live their lives sometimes away from their children.
I thought the issue was Hila not wanting to be talked about and Trisha took that as an attack because they've been milking her own drama for views way before this podcast and as part of H3H3 from the beginning it's weird why Hila would request that as if she's some secretive figure
1Loveland I don’t think it’s that Hila doesn’t like her. I think she just wants to protect her family. Can you really blame her for that? Literally everyone knows that if you get involved with Trisha, a) you get your life ruined b) will end up in some sort of scandal & drama If I was Hila, I’d be cautious of a woman who punches and hits my brother. Trisha abuses her brother and have the audacity to be shocked at not being liked. Her mind works in fascinating ways I tell you
that’s crazy she really hates her 🤣🤣🤣 she was definitely Wildin out she was feeling some type of way and her emotions came flooding out and the funniest part is Ethan is making money off this 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@DanaAlotaibi did I say to praise her??? No i did not. I never said that. I said it's hard to do basic things with mental Illness. She's literally said so many times that she is getting help. Healing takes time obviously with one year if therapy or whatver she is getting help with won't heal her right away. It can take YEARS to heal. Plus she literally buys herself gifts.
Maybe but she has BPD and for some reason constantly brings up she can't have children so it could be a weird for of jealousy or some weird red herring to an issue thats going on with her. I hope she gets therapy.
She was SA when she was a kid. It was a tigger for her. She has grown so much since then; she realizes when something triggers her now and try to respond better.
Yes, ethan is content with his live and trisha is not and i feel like ethan doesn't have to be mean because she is so unhappy it is impossible for her to not become triggered.
OMG Ikr! I would have bitch slapped her a few times....I imagine being a male prolly puts him in a position where he has to be extra careful about anything he says tho
fun fact she actually is. lmao now that she is calm there is not much people following her, surprised? nah people love drama and problematic people....she had mental problems before.
Fun fact she is a great mommy now she isn’t being exploited by douchebags like Ethan and David Dobrik, they love pushing her buttons and then turning it around to bite her in the ass.
@@andysmash48887There are plenty of mentally stable, non-problematic UA-camrs with millions to tens of millions of subscribers and viewers. Popularity does not rely on controversy. You're thinking of infamousy, which is often short-lived.
She literally attacked his parenting, his wife, his parents, parents who have to work and don’t have the privilege and luxury of having their child with them or family 24/7...just mean, nasty awful shit for no reason.
She said I wouldn’t if I were in your shoes. She didn’t say “you’re stupid for doing that and it’s a bad decisions, you’re a bad parent.” Y’all are just too sensitive.
@@iceevice Tone matters. Play dumb if you want but I highly doubt you’d feel differently if someone came at you like that. I have been critical of H3 as well when I think they are wrong. I said from the jump I didn’t think they should’ve aired that episode. People said they had reasons but personally I think a lot of the damage could’ve been curbed by not posting the episodes of Trisha having melt downs. But ultimately I think Trisha was wrong for attacking Hila and bringing the kid into it. That opinion never had to be shared.
@@user-ib7wy4oq9e Agreed. It never had to be shared and it was offensive to parents who have to work. They have an entire staff depending on them to continue as well.
Nah , Trisha said “we should have Hilda on the show , everyone thinks I hate her and she hates me. We can fix it” then Ethan said “Hilda doesn’t want to be talked about. She finds it annoying you keep saying she hates you” Trisha thought he was talking about her previous statement but he was talking about PAST statements. Trisha then said “I didn’t say that” and Ethan thought she was saying she NEVER said it. They misunderstood each other.
Obviously Hila the horse looks down on her and she's triggered by it. And seriously who TF she thinks she is that can't be talked about.. dictator lmao
This is gaslighting. Trisha, out of nowhere, said “I would never have a nanny” after getting into a fight with Ethan. It was an obvious attack to make him feel insecure and guilty about his parenting style. Definitely projecting her own insecurities on him. And then to say hes “projecting” ..... gaslighting 101. She knew exactly what she was doing by bringing up the nanny and then tried to shift the blame on Ethan. Honestly Trisha needs help. I truly feel bad for her and I know she’s been through a lot. But she will never get better as long as she’s still in the public eye and still dating people before she truly loves herself.
Definitely. She’s just saying that because she knows a) she can’t have children biologically and b) shell never be mentally sane enough to adopt etc (no shame at all to people who fall into those categories but her actions are not justified due to that)
Trisha was being gaslighted first. She knew something was off with Hila, and Ethan tried to say she has no issue with her at first and it's just an issue with Moses, then it finally comes out after she presses, and he tells her she doesn't like when Trisha says certain things. Not only that, Ethan totally blindsides Trisha by saying not to talk about Hila WHILE THEY ARE FILMING. That is totally unprofessional. If Hila had a real issue with this that she wants to be taken seriously, she or they (her and Ethan) needed to have a discussion with her before filming about what is off-limits to talk about. Trisha is right, if they are talking about her personal life AND this is a podcast called FRENEMIES, yeah, certain things are going to be said that are offensive THATS THE POINT OF THE PODCAST. Again if certain things are off limits, it needs to be out in the open and agreed upon in a fair way for everyone. No, this doesn't justify bad behavior from Trisha, but it makes sense why she would feel hurt and rejected, and on top of that, they try to convince her everything is fine when it's not. That fucks with someone's head.
And she has not publicly recognized that that comment was an attack. She'd rather focus on how she's being "exploited." I have a lot of sympathy for Trisha and I loved Frenemies, but I am so ready for it to just be over. She definitely needs to get off the internet for awhile, work on herself. Ultimately, I feel bad for Hila. She's the real one going through it right now, in my opinion. Edit: someone pointed out to me she did acknowledge this in her poolside video, I stand corrected.
He said not everyone has the luxury to not have a nanny (as if having a nanny isn't a luxury) and then went to say he doesn't want to watch theo because he would be insane and Ethan wouldn't be able to "do anything". Completely out of touch. dude literally said "do you know what its like to be around a 1.5 yr old" BRO WHY DID YOU HAVE ONE THEN LMAO
@@FlyManChimera it's interesting how people cherry pick others' statements to affirm their own beliefs. His nanny comment was in reference to having a nanny/babysitter versus a family member available to constantly watch a child, which trisha was advocating for. And as for the comment he made in regards to being around a 1.5 year old, that statement was made in the context of trying to get anything done, such as run his business. Toddlers are a full time job in and of themselves and this is what he meant. You don't have to agree with what he said, but at least actually listen to what he said and not twist it to fit your own "I hate Ethan, he's rich wahhhhh" narrative.
She is damaging his brand, causing problems in his family, and straight up abusive calling him/his wife a bitch right to his face. Ethan needs to get rid of her while he can. Right now is probably the best opportunity, and she might even learn a lesson (doubtful). I'd bet my bottom dollar if he doesn't, next time will be worse. And it'll keep on getting worse. Until there's no coming back. Dude is risking everything he's built over the years for very little gain. Quit while your ahead Ethan. Your gambling with your career/brand/family, and having her back/letting her get away with abusive behavior is another roll of the dice. One of these days that dice roll isn't gonna be in your favor, and you might just end up with less chips than you started with. OP is right. Trisha is too unstable. And Ethan is playing right into her manipulative behavior. AKA enabling.
H3 still let their fans post shit on official forums and subreddits bullying her. Like literally just pics of her saying how horrible she is for like not being actually vegan or moses’ furniture sucking lol theyre petty as hell and he goaded her the entire convo. He “forgave her” so he could keep everyone on their side. His fans have actually told her many times that if hila miscarries it’s completely her fault. Their fanbase loves doing crazy shit to her and they dont care.
@@droolingpine9658 their fan base doesn’t equal them? They can’t control them? Plus Trisha is objectively a bad person. If you’re racist, anti-Semitic, lie about serious things such as r*pe, etc, then yes, you will get hate mobs. 🤷🏻♀️
@@droolingpine9658 Trisha is literally such an awful person who never took accountability for any of her disgusting actions and now that’s she’s finally getting heat, you pity her?
@@andreasigala8009 she said her mum used to leave a lot when she was little so clearly having a nanny or being with family would still effect the child.
@@sometimesbored9282 she’s also said that her mother’s boyfriends sexually abused her as a child. I really feel for her because she isn’t right in the head but you can’t go around saying those things and then play the victim. But ig it’s all dealt with now
@T. O. T. U. N. T. Based on what? That's just your experience. It depends on if you live in a safe area, have the ability to work from home, how much money you make, how many children you have and how old they are, etc
All she said is she wouldn’t have a nanny, and Ethan lost his cool. For once she disagreed, and kept the specifics to herself but Ethan egged her on because he got offended instantly, and then he blamed it all on her
@@KrispyPlatypus did you just say ethan lost his cool? I like Trisha but he was very calm and trying to understand her. If you actually watched the entire podcast she said that as a snide remark after she was already pissed with him and in one of her moods. He kept trying to move on and she kept poking jabs.....plus she's said before that her mom left her with her boyfriends growing up soooo what is the truth?
@@cooperkinz So you’re saying Ethan could’ve been the better person but failed here. Yeah passive aggressive from her, obviously it’s Trisha. Why else would Ethan have her on the show if not to get interactions like this. We know how Trisha is but don’t be blind to what Ethan gets out of this relationship
@@elbicho7001 You projected what she meant too. You could take it as a personal opinion and leave it at that, and of course after him asking 4 or 5 times she finally answered him
I don’t get why she said daycare is different. Based on her arguments Isn’t day care taking your kid to a place with “strangers” and nanny is having the “stranger” come to your home where you can probably watch them more and child is more comfortable? They are the same thing if your talking about leaving your child with “strangers” and the parents/family not watching.
EXACTLY!!! I’m wondering this same thing. I went down this rabbit hole cause I am sick at home plus so many people are talking about it I was curious. She is so vile… I don’t understand how this has to happen THREE TIMES for people to finally turn their back on her.
@@shakaman2112 Here ua-cam.com/video/-SenWKNRPu8/v-deo.html . Ethan called Trisha out for weaponizing something he told her in private as a way to defend themselves, quite foreshadowing.
@@rayonmanogue7209 we cant say that for sure either. A repeated behavior shown from sexual assault is usually the opposite of seperation anxiety. Not saying everyone is the same. Just that its a behavior seen the most with such victims. But you might be right. I still dont think she has the right to say that tho. As if she knows what is right or wrong.
Nah she just old school...daycare and nannies are very modern day and the need for them arrived from nothing positive. He took offense and tried to pressure her..he wanted to be offended b/c it’s his situation. He kept egging her to get her to speak in a way where he can be further mad.
@V never said they wasnt...I said what I said to say I understand why she said what she said...he over read into and basically forced her to offend him..she repeatedly said move past it, its not at you etc... And nannies in this country in the current system we have esp Daycare has not been around as long as folk think. We talking 19th century that's not super long and in 1941 The Lahnam Act established it majorly with the intention of focusing on war impacted zones but it wasnt until 1943 when they officially translated that as child care.
@@willellis502 This comment is a bit misleading, so I just wanted to note for future readers: The century mentioned in the end of the comment (19th century) is specifically referring to daycares. Nannies, or some form of them, have been around since hundreds of years prior to that, 14th century at the very latest (but likely well before that). Certainly not something that would be considered a "modern day" phenomenon.
@@willellis502 lol just take the L man you’re squirming so hard. This is what no accountability looks like. You just HAVE to be right even though you’re not... It’s obvious you were trying to make “daycare” a modern thing just to fabricate a lousy argument and got corrected. Just take the L and stay humble. Your last two messages were just you floundering all around the fact that Nanny’s aren’t a modern thing to try and still sound right lmao. But you’re not right. You’re wrong. And not just a little wrong. Your entire premise to your argument is wrong and was disproven by multiple people. Just like Trisha is wrong to attack what anyone else does as a parent when she isn’t one herself.
He remained calm to her horrible try hard personal attack based on nothing. Props to Ethan. You could see how stupid she felt once he calmly explained eveyrthing.
@@lordgonzo6611 i agree he can be at times, but at no point was him saying hila does not want to be mentioned either of those things! and also look at how trisha behaves on her own channel and outside of ethans company! she multiple known mental illnesses she is unstable and is completely in the wrong! does that remove ethan from blame on other subjects no but for this one he did nothing wrong!
@Mew Two no we shouldn’t feel sorry for people who behave this way. I have severe depression and anxiety and probably other undiagnosed labels but I would never want someone to feel sorry for my shitty behavior. I have said things in the heat of the moment I regretted and asked for forgiveness for, but never once would i use my mental health issues as an excuse of me not controlling what comes out of my mouth. She lashed out and attacked with some low blows and people are trying to defend it because she has mental health issues. No. That is not an excuse for attacking someone, and it doesn’t deserve your pity. As much money she has, she has resources that most of don’t have access to, that can teach her how to respond to stressful situations without going for people’s jugular.
@Mew Two I don’t feel bad for her. She knows she goes through episodes like those. She keeps using that excuse and it’s getting old. She doesn’t want to help herself. If she did she would get off UA-cam. At this point having a normal minimum wage job would be healthier for her.
Trisha: I wouldn’t have a nanny Ethan: So you’re attacking my parenting Trisha: No I didn’t say that don’t put words in my mouth Ethan: Do you know what it’s like to deal with a 1.5 year old? Trisha: WELL BY SAYING THAT YOU’RE THROWING IT IN MY FACE THAT I DON’T HAVE KIDS. he just can’t win.
@@atsmiku8519 PASSIVE AGGRESSIVELY SHE SAID, with a FUCKING ATTITUDE: “I wont have a nanny that’s for DAMN sure.” That’s an attack sweetie. It was the connotation. Shes a fuckin passive agressive gas lighter. She also goes into manic states. That’s why she talks that fast. You’re so uneducated
@@atsmiku8519 wym? I don’t see him putting words in her mouth all I see is him saying exactly what she’s saying without sugar coating it. She’s shady and fake asf with a victim mindset
I’m so confused how people are coming back to this & acting like Ethan was a villain for asking valid questions. The point was to show her she wasn’t acknowledging how other people’s support system may work differently to manage kids. Her first comment was fine, but she became angry & irrational. Yall going to ignore Trisha calling Hila names for now reason because she got triggered? Her not having kids at this point in time is not Ethan’s fault or problem, and it’s not an excuse to attack someone’s parenting. She was projecting HARD.
It’s obvious she was horribly abused as a child mentally and sexually. As she mentioned multiple times, I don’t put any blame on her. Her parents failed her and created this mental disaster.
god I’m sorry but this isn’t even just a Trisha thing, it’s an infertile women thing. they’re so judgmental and think you OWE them what THEIR version of parenting is. It’s very much Serena Joy in Handmaids Tale. just bc you can’t have kids doesn’t mean we have to listen to your tips, or even have kids at that. so annoying.
Hila always came across as balanced and level-headed. I didn’t get this impression of Trisha. I always wondered why Trisha and Ethan had this podcast together...
Well, the name of the podcast really describes it, having such different personalities on the podcast can be quite the rollercoaster of emotions and that makes for good entertainment so yeah
She’s so toxic. She can’t mentally do this show. She either needs real help or she’s just a toxic person and you guys should distance yourself. This keeps happening.
She went in there ready to fight. She had to figure out how she would get it started and then whenever it died down she brought it back to life. She waited for Moses to come so she could do her dramatic finale. Such a typical narcissist. They all act like this.
@lost cause I don't know why Ethan insists on doing these with her. H3 must be desperate for views or something. It's such a bad idea. She has nothing to contribute at all. She's vulgar, aggressive, coarse and yes very toxic. Perhaps even dangerous.
Trisha can be so evil and nasty WOW. Props to Ethan for handling this so diplomatically. I can't imagine having to deal with Trisha's tantrums on a regular basis. How immature and exhausting.
True but I think its important to say smart people can actually be manipulated because these people prey on emotions and twist your reality. Just thought it was important to clarify so noone feels bad :). But I agree.
the amount of times Trisha manipulated Ethan is scary crazy. Ethan was smart though and did realized Trisha WAS trying to manipulate him so he handled it well
That was a good point. she broke down crying the moment he came back because she knew he would console her. It seems like he's sticking up for her even though she's saying shitty things about his family. Moses is a doormat
omg so why did he try to explain the situation to Moses in the end, when Trisha said 'let's move on', but instead Ethan continued explaining his POV to Moses, when clearly Trisha was a having a moment. They even did this highlight to paint her as an evil person who critics out of blue others' patenting methods, when prior to it there was the moment that resulted it
@@Alan_Shv exactly! And did you notice how they started the highlight after Trisha was already in her episode? They literally released this highlight to make her look bad and to make a profit 🤢🤢
It’s awful she can’t have kids but it’s obvious she’s so jealous of anyone who’s able to have them so she’s just lashing out. She couldn’t even take care of a dog cause he was too rowdy at first, imagine a child... Jesus Christ.
I know it’s unfortunate for her that she can’t, but come on she explodes that way off of something she started. I can’t imagine how horribly she would raise a child.
She's clearly just not used to someone not backing down from her bs and asking her to rationally explain herself. Her reality crumbles and she can't deal. That is why Moses is her lapdog, she can control and gaslight him.
Finally! Everyone here is painting Trisha as the perp, and while I do think her behaviour is out of order and just outright toxic, Ethan definitely isn't fucking innocent.
listen, having help as a parent doesn't make you a bad parent, rather a smart one, cause your child becomes less of a burden and you don't grow to hate having a child etc. Always ask for help when you need one. never be ashamed of it.
Why would you hate being a parent? They chose to have a kid, it's their child, their responsibility. Some nanny's can be dangerous. And sometimes having a nanny is bad too. It depends because while the child is still developing, the baby will have a stronger bod with the nanny than the parents
I agree with you. My single parent mom put me in both before and after school day care because she was busy working. We didn't have enough money for a nanny, but if we had it would have been the same principle, probably safer even. We didn't have any family that could have watched me.
@@minionsarebae2434 because parents also need time off taking care of their kids. Not having time off might make you more emotional towards your kids later on. That's studied behavior.
@@mannysikario if you are not emotional towards your child or hate being a parent, then that's fucked up. Y'all really saying it's okay to feel that way? It's not. The nanny is also a stranger, sure get to know them a little but you never know. I understand where trisha is coming from. Her mom would leave her with her boy friends, since trisha has been sexually abused since little by strangers, she thinks having a nanny is dangerous. A day care is also dangerous but it's much more safe than having your child alone with someone.
Unpopular opinion, but I think Ethan is wrong here. He is condescending and feels he's better than Trisha. He looks down on her while pretending to like her.
"You're throwing it in my face that I don't have kids"....directly after saying she'd never have a nanny if she had a kid and bringing the topic up out of nowhere?!? Sooo toxic that's crazy....
“You’re throwing it in my face I don’t have kids?!” This blew my mind when she said that. Truthfully upset me. She was deflecting best she could so she could be the victim. She was also clearly gas lighting him. I can’t stand her lately. This is just terrible. Working mothers being shamed for having their kids in daycare or with a baby sitter / nanny!? How the hell does she expect people to make money to feed their damn kids ?! Both my sons are in daycare so my husband & I can work FULL TIME M-F because we don’t just have mass amounts of money laying around. Unbelievable
This made me uncomfortable.
Also the fact that Moses lets her talk about his sister like that pisses me off.
Based on how public Trisha is and is so quick to use LITERALLY everything against somebody online, I'd expect Moses to be afraid of pissing her off
My brothers dating a trisha ... we dont speak. Some boys just stay boys forever
@@hashtagKELSEXY the BPD chicks all have the same eyes. Like this unnerving spark of chaos and ugliness. Rip to your brothers stability
He is just as toxic.... he tells her one thing and then his family something else
And he took her to Disneyland yesterday lmao
ethan handled this SO well. the fact that he stayed calm and didn’t shout, yet still defended himself and didn’t let trisha down talk his family or his wife. honestly a very stable person
I don't think Ethan and "stable" go hand in hand.
i thought he was gay lmao
@@hasselett exactly, you must have seriously low standards to think Ethan is stable in any way
@@itssonotover961 hes very stable in this moment. When talking about Keemstar, UA-cam Drama, etc he is very unstable lmao
@@22228542 I think that he just was too lazy to even be able to argue lmao
Everyone behind the camera probably feels so awkward
I feel awkward watching...
Awkward?...this should be the norm by now.
At least they got pizza... 😅
👁👄👁
Imagine Oprah's camera people when tom cruise wigged out on her show
I love when she passive aggressively judges Ethan and gets called out of it she denies it, but when Ethan is trying to explain she wouldn’t know what it’s like dealing with a child bc she’s not a parent, Trish tries to gaslight and manipulate him by flipping his words into an insult about how she can’t have kids. she’s so toxic
You do not need to be a parent to know how difficult children are, i know and i am an older brother and an uncle. I know enough.
She’s never having a nannymmm
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
😂😂😂 hahahahahahammmmmph
HAHAHAHAHAHHA
So funnymmmh
Lmaommmmm
As a someone raised by a single mother, I had nannies... the process of vetting and finding a good person to take care of your child isn’t a mindless thing.
This is ideal of hers is probably coming from trauma.
all of the comments about their parenting skills didn't mean anything, idk why everyone keeps focusing on that, she's obviously just feeling upset/hurt/rejected and blindsided by ethan and hila, so she was trying to hurt them.
I'm more than positive that she didn't say it was mindless, she just said that she wouldn't do that if she had a child.
HI I FUCKIN LOVE YOU
Yes! And parents are allowed to have off time too, they are still people and have needs of their own. Trisha is just a nasty person looking to piss people off.
Who else is rewatching all the times Trisha said she's quitting....🤦🏼♀️
The only thing I care about from Frenemies is this drama. I hope it's finally done for real, though.
It's a fun little journey
@@learnbydoing2247 dude exactly. Ethans I've enjyoed for years..I'm friends with oliver trees brother, my best friend is very close with oliver tree. His work has suffered so much since trisha has been around. fuuggggg her. I love the fights, she needs em to change so..this 3rd one that jus happened should end up helping her, cuz if she doesn't grow from it...phew, shes fuggged
Meeee
Me 🙋🏼♀️🤣
Even though her behavior is toxic as hell, I always chuckle at Ethan’s surprised reaction at being called a cuck.
He definitely is. He's a an absolute beta man child
Trisha giving advice on how to raise a child and using herself as an example of a good way to raise a child is so ironic
Like whaaaaaaaaaaaaaa????? 😂
Nah it’s iconic
lol shes hads this convo in her head for a while, she saw it not going her way and dipped lmfaoo
Right. If this is her argument, we should all have had 13 nannies each. Pathetic.
For realll!!!!
"I was raised by a single mom we never needed a nanny" isnt this the same woman who said her mom would just leave her around her boyfriends?
She lives in an alternate universe like Trump.
Exactly
Didn't she also say her dad is very wealthy?
The left hand doesn’t know what the right is doing. She can’t keep lies straight.
She also suffers from seperation anxiety and extremely Jealous so maybe it wasnt so good that her parents were with her 24/7 as she claims
I feel bad for Ethan. Trisha was out of line calling his wife names and talking about the family in such a negative way. That’s really crossing the line
She is lowkey jealous of Hila that’s why she’s always bringing her up in every argument
This is my first time seeing this... i thought the one where she was dressed as jennifers body was the only other big fight but damn this is horrible... im kind of shook rn
It’s honestly probably a good things she’s infertile that kid would have shit life
The fact Ethan didn’t bad mouth and wanted to help her when she left shows so much about his character
Oh that’s the line? Lmao y’all are so squishy
Waiting to see if Trisha gets a nanny now she has a baby 😂
Even worse she takes cares of her own kid. With the baby’s head hanging off her arm constantly and not being buckled in the car seat.
she doesn’t need one, momses is unemployed and does all the work for her!
@@driamoon9774 he has a job !
Yep no Nanny & this is why she was feeding/ choking her daughter. She needs a Nanny,
@@keashathomas962woahhh what! :O how do you know this?! Omgosh just saw a little 5 second clip of 6 mobth update 😬 just shoving that poor baby to a camera... no privacy:(
The one who should've stormed out is Ethan. Trisha was questioning his parenting and talking trash about his wife. His emotional strength is outstanding
Yeah but he put her in check with his intellect and soft toned voice never talked at her he talked to her,
Plus he didnt let her change the subject and he was willing to make time to cut through the bullshit and get to point of trisha sarcastic passive aggresive insults
It’s his house Lol
“I never had a nanny and I turned out fine.” I’ve literally never seen one human turn out less fine in my entire life Trisha but go off lmao.
Clean kill...
literally stfu.... she’s clearly going through an episode and ethan is taking advantage of that for clout.... i don’t understand how someone can find this funny.... i see her point
@Sammy she hardly lied... he twists everything she says
@Sammy facts
In the ass Amy
“My mom was a single mom and we never had a nanny” yeah my mom was single too and I wish I had a nanny to you know HELP MY SINGLE MOM.
That is the most perfect comment ever!
Lol I literally called my Grandma “nanny” my whole life. Her point about grandparents kinda fell short a bit.
Where's your dad
My answer to her claim would be "Wow so that's why you turned out to be this way?"
@@horseaphoenix1016 Truly!! All in all I hope she continues working on yourself though !
“You’re projecting”
“No I’m not”
Love how direct Ethan is
so what i got from this is, trisha can talk shit on anyone she pleases and can hate anyone she pleases. but the second the feelings are reversed and towards her, it’s unacceptable.
Exactly.
🎯
If you had to be in a video with people who just dragged your name around you’d act the same way 😂
The Wendy Williams effect
Exactly.
Trisha will say dumb petty things, then starts acting like a victim and starts having a bad attitude when she gets called out
fax
When she smiles and nods when she tells him that hes projecting...... she knows he's right BUT he is pushing the topic instead of distracting her to avoid her breaking down.
Tbh i never understood what gaslighting looked like till i saw this. That is what she's doing right?
Shes a perfect liberal!
Dude, Traisha is mentally ill she had BPD, it is really hard to to act like this. She isn’t a bad person tho
This is when Frenemies should have ended.
Fuck no I’m so happy I found out about this I’m 55 and I love life again!
@@TheIecCreemMan frenemies is over. Trisha quitted yesterday
@@thef.o.macademy1736 it’s about fucking time.
Yeah i dont realize how he forgived her after this and The other time when she mentioned that he was a pilladdict and stuff. She is awful. She only hear a little thing she react to and then just spit out every single thing she can do someone upset about and then at the end its always her its sorry for. She treat people horrible. She is horrible. She is only The victim at all situations
Yup
Can't wait to see your nanny soon, Trish.
No nanny yet
It’s been a whole year and still no nanny and doing great 😂 you guys are such idiots
clearly she is jealous of Hila or she wouldn't get so hateful
Nope , Moses talks shit about his family to Trisha and he tells Trisha things they say about her out of context so he can have her on his side. Funny how Moses gives Trisha his phone when he knows they are having a conversation about her. While also knowing the notification previews are on. He’s sus af. On top of that Ethan said that Moses has beef with his sister that has nothing to do with Trisha. Moses needs Trisha on his side , especially now seeing how well Ethan and her are getting along.
or she's just annoyed of them
I totally agree and it bothers her that hila is Moses sister hila an Ethan have a great marriage hila has a child .. pure jealousy she talks about how baller they are. It kills her so her MO is to attack and cut deep
@@GamingMiloJay lmfao , I mean that is low key true!! She’s someone who is crazy enough to insult his family for him
@@Poopie22 yeeess! Some of his behaviors seem so toxic and manipulative, though it seems like we only get one side of most scenarios.
Two things:
1. It’s scary how low she can go in trying to hurt Ethan when she feels offended.
2. She only has gay men as friends because she feels threatened by other women.
That's a great point about feeling threatened by other women. My mom has BPD (what Trisha has) & she only has male friends. She also has always trashed talked other women for literally no reason.
@@Lombreee Trisha self diagnosing doesn't count. I have BPD and I can tell you shes just childish, immature, & non understanding. She needs real help. Always needing the last word etc.
Ohhhhhhhh
I also feel like a big reason she has only guy friends is because women are far less tolerant to petty arguments and drama like this.
@@Xunder_oathX I’m not a psychologist but it’s extremely clear that she’s suffering from some type of personality disorder whether it’s BPD or something of the like. Not everyone with BPD acts the same so it’s not really fair for you to say that she’s just childish and immature because she doesn’t exhibit the same type of behavior that you do
Her voice, her actions, the malice intent you can truly see she is off the rails here
She is the only person in the world who has had a mental breakdown on camera. Yeah.
Ethan has a good amount of self restraint, i think he realises how she doesn’t mean it, he’s very emotionally intelligent
Yea! I agree 100%! He even said on the H3 podcast with Mila, that he knows that whenever she has outbursts like that, she blacks out and doesn’t have control over what she’s saying and then she always instantly regrets it and he never takes it to heart.
@@brianajohnson7379 no one should ever have to put up with that kind of abuse.
@@feebsz384 Totally 100%!
He is a cancer like me
@@feebsz384 mental illnes isnt fun for the person who has it and the people around them but you could work on it together and not leave someone like that alone..
The fact that she has such a strong opinion without having a kid.... but really it's just that she's very angry about being infertile. You can tell this isn't about him it's just her own personal anger.
@@annalouise5418 you're being just as bad as her now. no need to shame her for something she no longer has control over.
@@Mo-xh4vv she has control over what comes out of her mouth and the way she behaves. She's not a silly woman
@@annalouise5418 i didn't mention that. you didn't need to mention her stds and medical complications. Anyone can be in that position no matter how many times they have sex. the reason why people don't get checked out is because of the stigma attached. your comment was a low blow
@@Mo-xh4vv it’s understandable, people love to shit on disgusting people, but you can be all high and mighty but you know dam well if Trisha attacked you so personally you might do the same.
@@TheIronyoshi Two things can be truths at the same time. She clearly has an extremely troubled past and in return, lashes out on others who enable her.
I've never liked Trisha because of the racist shit she did years back and the fact that she's still relevant today shows that people act disgusted but in reality, find her discriminatory behavior as entertainment. She knows she'll get the clicks and views so she continues. She looks like one episode off a spiral at this point and it's sad. Ethan doesn't really seem to care that much either, he can monetize off her wild outburst and persona. that's why he so quickly tries to resolve things despite her disgusting behavior because she is the catalyst of the show. otherwise, we wouldn't see these types of fights time and time again.
She called them names and then she stormed out upset 😟😬😓
No, honey. That’s not how you treat your soon-to-be family.
I love your ukulele tutorials, love you ❤❤❤❤❤❤
What do you mean soon to be family? Are they getting married or something???
She’s dating his cousin or something
Brother in law lol
@@joshuaphipps9424 apparently, but I doubt they are gonna go through with it with things going on like this
This is honestly so hard to watch. Standing ovation for Ethan, holy crap, I aspire to be on this level of keeping it together
I honestly couldn’t disagree more. Are you people all devoid of empathy, or am I the one smoking crack? She was obviously hurt by the way Ethan blew her off. He was being really rude. She came from a place of love and felt rejected. Ethan handled her trying to do something nice by shutting her down in a cold and brute way, while knowing she has BPD. It’s baffling that y’all don’t get that.
He's a grown man, he had no obligation to remain seated. Your argument sounds pretty absurd.
I love how she was like “you’re putting words in my mouth” and then accuses him of making fun of her for being infertile when he literally didn’t
Yes yes yes !
I’m sayin gggg !!!!!
@IHave ToGo Yeah he definitely could’ve just left it alone. He can dish it but he couldn’t take it this time
@@KrispyPlatypus idk it seems like she brought it up to say something passive aggressively about their choices as parents.
@IHave ToGo to be fair he could've gotten way more mad during this whole situation, we have to give it to him for being mostly calm since he was probably a little pissed that Trisha was insulting his wife, even if he doesn't believe this is what Trisha actually thinks
Trisha isn’t even married and she’s trying to judge parenting skills when she herself doesn’t even have a kid. Ethan was so calm about this.
She wasn’t, all she said that she wouldn’t have a Nani. He was putting words in her mouth.
@@nono-dw4ct no, she was acting soooo judgmental that a “stranger” (nanny) was watching their child
What does being married have to do with anything? Lol.
@@nono-dw4ct It doesn’t take much to see she was giving backhanded comments that were directed towards Ethan and his parenting skills. Also not everyone as the luxury of having dependable people in their lives so they get nannies. Trisha is just privileged asf.
@@KillJD she judged his marriage and parenting skills
How the hell is she never held accountable for her own actions.
She does though but people still watch her.
Because she’s such a manipulator. Even some people in the comments are saying it’s ethans fault... Ethan makes jokes and pokes fun but the jokes are NOT about her drug addiction and broken family. trisha’s “jokes” are about his drug past or his family (trying to break them apart) and she posed this narrative that ethan is the problem bc he poked jokes at her first but the jokes are completely different. She gets away with not being held accountable because she flips the narrative and is a manipulator 🤷🏽♀️
@@brooklynbuilds but if people didn't watch her she wouldn't be relevant. She's going to keep putting those videos out there, she's constantly getting called out by commentary channels. But when has she ever cared? She moves onto the next controversy before people even have time to react most of the time.
The views and the money baby¡!!!! She's causing problems and tearing the family apart welp who cares were getting views!!!! Please please let her make a comeback video on us heck a few of them to drive up our views ooooohhhh we gonna be trending!!! . This is what I imagine is why they put up with her she's unwittingly putting they're kid through college
She's uncancellable
Trisha is 100% the type of person to hire a nanny when she doesn’t feel like being a parent.
Lmao… you mean like Ethan and Hila do as Trish pointed out? 😂
She's got two kids now. Not sure about a nanny
She just hired Moses
@@SpaghettiPerson ☠️
She's got a kid. And has never hired a nanny 😭 I'm revisiting this now and I'm 3 minutes in and Ethan is throwing words in her mouth. Didn't even realise that last time
I love how Trisha is giving them advise on parenting when she doesn’t have kids.
She couldn’t even handle a dog
@@aprilleerose was literally about to say that
Have you ever been around a year and a half year old? "NO I HAVENT BECAUSE I'M INFERTILE YOU KNOW THAT!" ... you can be infertile and be around a baby.... absolute maniac
I wouldn't even trust her around children
@@sirwatzhizface I feel like she would argue with a toddler the same way she’s arguing with Ethan lmao
She is truly speaking like someone who doesn’t have kids “ I would just make it work “
Bro fr every person *before* they have a kid “nothing will really change because I’ll make it work”
I was the best parent ever before I had kids
she couldnt even keep her dog. i know they still have it but i see her mom and her sister with him more than i ever see him with her. she could not be a mom
are you not supposed to make it work
um no you can make it work lol. my mom was a single mom and made it work.
The fact that Moses was ok with the way Trisha spoke of his sister is wrong. He’s just as bad as Trisha
I agree. If my significant other spoke ill like this to any of my family members who have been kind to them, I would leave in heartbeat
@@princessmorena3432 especially in public! Makes it even worse
That isn’t between him and Trisha it’s between Trisha and his sister.
@@iceevice as her partner he needs to hold her accountable.
He shouldn’t have been ok with it. It’s wrong. Period.
@@princessmorena3432 imagine what she says behind the scenes... makes me sick
I’m a nanny and I think it’s really important for parents to get their individual time and freedom. The parents I work for are so close to their children and have such a healthy relationship with them BECAUSE they also get to work, go out, run errands and live their lives sometimes away from their children.
🌈🌈It all started with Trisha imagining Hila doesn't like her 🌈🌈
Do you think hila likes her?
Tbh, idk if it's an imagination lol. She's highly unlikable.
I thought the issue was Hila not wanting to be talked about and Trisha took that as an attack because they've been milking her own drama for views way before this podcast and as part of H3H3 from the beginning it's weird why Hila would request that as if she's some secretive figure
1Loveland I don’t think it’s that Hila doesn’t like her. I think she just wants to protect her family. Can you really blame her for that? Literally everyone knows that if you get involved with Trisha, a) you get your life ruined b) will end up in some sort of scandal & drama
If I was Hila, I’d be cautious of a woman who punches and hits my brother. Trisha abuses her brother and have the audacity to be shocked at not being liked. Her mind works in fascinating ways I tell you
I honestly don’t think hila likes Trisha lmao
The way she talks about his wife jesus christ
that’s crazy she really hates her 🤣🤣🤣 she was definitely Wildin out she was feeling some type of way and her emotions came flooding out and the funniest part is Ethan is making money off this 🤣🤣🤣🤣
To melt down over something so trivial and to play victim is pathetic
I would of caught a case lol
So Trisha got a dog and gave it to her mom coz it was overwhelming. Lol. Bye
It's hard to do basic human things while having mental Illness
@@minionsarebae2434 so everyone salute and praise her then lol. Bye . Get help if ur ill
Not make money outta it
@@DanaAlotaibi did I say to praise her??? No i did not. I never said that. I said it's hard to do basic things with mental Illness. She's literally said so many times that she is getting help. Healing takes time obviously with one year if therapy or whatver she is getting help with won't heal her right away. It can take YEARS to heal. Plus she literally buys herself gifts.
Jason Nash literally surprised Trisha with a dog KNOWING she doesn’t really like dogs/pets. Lol.
to be fair if i couldn’t handle a dog i’d rather rehome it w someone who could take better care of it than surrender it to a shelter
This didn't age well...Malibu Barbie for sure has a nanny lol
She seems really triggered by the idea of parents not being with their kids, maybe some sort of remembering an abandonment?
She was just trying to put them down
Maybe but she has BPD and for some reason constantly brings up she can't have children so it could be a weird for of jealousy or some weird red herring to an issue thats going on with her. I hope she gets therapy.
100% Shes got big time abandonment issues. You could tell throughout the conversation she was feeling really hurt
She was SA when she was a kid. It was a tigger for her. She has grown so much since then; she realizes when something triggers her now and try to respond better.
she cant have children thats why
If Ethan treated Trisha the same way she treats him, this podcast would have ended long ago.
Yes, ethan is content with his live and trisha is not and i feel like ethan doesn't have to be mean because she is so unhappy it is impossible for her to not become triggered.
I never understand why people scream "I dont even care" while crying and emotional breaking down
Lol it’s like screaming “calm down” while freaking out themselves
@@Princessbubblegum567 Michael scott
It’s a coping mechanism I guess lol
Because in that exact moment you realize that you have to stop caring about it 'cause it's making you a wreck.
Lol
Ethan was so patient and Trisha is literally unwell in her head. She was talking in circles and throwing a fit like a toddler. SHE needs a nanny.
Someone give this man an award for his patience HOLY FUCK
Please!!! He really has a lot of patience.. she’s such an idiot
Patience? He’s prying at her. There’s no patience.
Seriously lol. He gets so much respect from me
OMG Ikr! I would have bitch slapped her a few times....I imagine being a male prolly puts him in a position where he has to be extra careful about anything he says tho
@@iceevice he wasnt doing it but if he did she deserve it she constantly berades ethan wife and doesnt respect boundaries
Judging parents and bringing up your infertility when asked to be held accountable for what you said is clown behavior
She's a freaking manipulating narcissist
If Ethan doesn't drop her she's legit going to impact his personal relationships.
She already has
Yes, she's gone too far
Nah this is funny af
never should have let her on the show to begin with. this was inevitable
Look what happened with Jason Nash, you could see him getting progressively worse and more exhausted
She seems like she would make a really stable and caring mother.
woops
fun fact she actually is. lmao now that she is calm there is not much people following her, surprised? nah people love drama and problematic people....she had mental problems before.
Fun fact she is a great mommy now she isn’t being exploited by douchebags like Ethan and David Dobrik, they love pushing her buttons and then turning it around to bite her in the ass.
@@andysmash48887There are plenty of mentally stable, non-problematic UA-camrs with millions to tens of millions of subscribers and viewers. Popularity does not rely on controversy. You're thinking of infamousy, which is often short-lived.
She literally attacked his parenting, his wife, his parents, parents who have to work and don’t have the privilege and luxury of having their child with them or family 24/7...just mean, nasty awful shit for no reason.
Exactly. “I’m not attacking your parenting” *goes onto judging his choices of having a nanny*
She said I wouldn’t if I were in your shoes. She didn’t say “you’re stupid for doing that and it’s a bad decisions, you’re a bad parent.” Y’all are just too sensitive.
@@iceevice Tone matters. Play dumb if you want but I highly doubt you’d feel differently if someone came at you like that. I have been critical of H3 as well when I think they are wrong. I said from the jump I didn’t think they should’ve aired that episode. People said they had reasons but personally I think a lot of the damage could’ve been curbed by not posting the episodes of Trisha having melt downs. But ultimately I think Trisha was wrong for attacking Hila and bringing the kid into it. That opinion never had to be shared.
@@user-ib7wy4oq9e Agreed. It never had to be shared and it was offensive to parents who have to work. They have an entire staff depending on them to continue as well.
She gave an opinion and he kept pushing lol
Didn't her mom leave her with her boyfriend multiple times....
And in her response vid she said that she’s had multiple nannies in the past
I think that’s the real reason she’s so against it. Probably traumatic experiences.
ethan is such a dad lmao the way he deals with trisha and then brings up the pizza to change the subject
She's been real quiet about the nanny issue ever since Malibu.
because why would she bring this up when she’s thriving in life?
Yea because she still don’t have a nanny😂 her and Moses take care of Malibu and shes 9 months pregnant rn aswell😂
yeah! and she's by no means a good mom, she took the newborn out before it (sorry dont remember its gender) could be brought outside
Trisha is projecting her pain of not having children towards Ethan and he’s taking it so well. Poor Ethan.
Trisha should never have children lol
@@johnjimbob6173 thank god she hasnt
Eh
The gaslighting is fucked
i think the pizza is to blame. they seem to split up every time a pizza arrives
wow.. Trisha's self esteem is way waaay too low. Crying just because Hila doesn't wanna be talked about.
Nah , Trisha said “we should have Hilda on the show , everyone thinks I hate her and she hates me. We can fix it” then Ethan said “Hilda doesn’t want to be talked about. She finds it annoying you keep saying she hates you” Trisha thought he was talking about her previous statement but he was talking about PAST statements. Trisha then said “I didn’t say that” and Ethan thought she was saying she NEVER said it. They misunderstood each other.
@@Poopie22 naw she just weak
Trisha ended it saying she hates both of them, so it shouldn’t matter if hila hates her or not
Obviously Hila the horse looks down on her and she's triggered by it. And seriously who TF she thinks she is that can't be talked about.. dictator lmao
@Erika Dario lmao, how many alts does trisha have... Or possibly Keemstar
This is gaslighting. Trisha, out of nowhere, said “I would never have a nanny” after getting into a fight with Ethan. It was an obvious attack to make him feel insecure and guilty about his parenting style. Definitely projecting her own insecurities on him. And then to say hes “projecting” ..... gaslighting 101. She knew exactly what she was doing by bringing up the nanny and then tried to shift the blame on Ethan. Honestly Trisha needs help. I truly feel bad for her and I know she’s been through a lot. But she will never get better as long as she’s still in the public eye and still dating people before she truly loves herself.
Definitely. She’s just saying that because she knows a) she can’t have children biologically and b) shell never be mentally sane enough to adopt etc (no shame at all to people who fall into those categories but her actions are not justified due to that)
Trisha was being gaslighted first. She knew something was off with Hila, and Ethan tried to say she has no issue with her at first and it's just an issue with Moses, then it finally comes out after she presses, and he tells her she doesn't like when Trisha says certain things. Not only that, Ethan totally blindsides Trisha by saying not to talk about Hila WHILE THEY ARE FILMING. That is totally unprofessional. If Hila had a real issue with this that she wants to be taken seriously, she or they (her and Ethan) needed to have a discussion with her before filming about what is off-limits to talk about. Trisha is right, if they are talking about her personal life AND this is a podcast called FRENEMIES, yeah, certain things are going to be said that are offensive THATS THE POINT OF THE PODCAST. Again if certain things are off limits, it needs to be out in the open and agreed upon in a fair way for everyone. No, this doesn't justify bad behavior from Trisha, but it makes sense why she would feel hurt and rejected, and on top of that, they try to convince her everything is fine when it's not. That fucks with someone's head.
And she has not publicly recognized that that comment was an attack. She'd rather focus on how she's being "exploited." I have a lot of sympathy for Trisha and I loved Frenemies, but I am so ready for it to just be over. She definitely needs to get off the internet for awhile, work on herself. Ultimately, I feel bad for Hila. She's the real one going through it right now, in my opinion.
Edit: someone pointed out to me she did acknowledge this in her poolside video, I stand corrected.
He said not everyone has the luxury to not have a nanny (as if having a nanny isn't a luxury) and then went to say he doesn't want to watch theo because he would be insane and Ethan wouldn't be able to "do anything". Completely out of touch. dude literally said "do you know what its like to be around a 1.5 yr old" BRO WHY DID YOU HAVE ONE THEN LMAO
@@FlyManChimera it's interesting how people cherry pick others' statements to affirm their own beliefs. His nanny comment was in reference to having a nanny/babysitter versus a family member available to constantly watch a child, which trisha was advocating for. And as for the comment he made in regards to being around a 1.5 year old, that statement was made in the context of trying to get anything done, such as run his business. Toddlers are a full time job in and of themselves and this is what he meant. You don't have to agree with what he said, but at least actually listen to what he said and not twist it to fit your own "I hate Ethan, he's rich wahhhhh" narrative.
What ethan has gone through with trisha is narcissistic abuse, he is a victim and I hope he's okay after all of it.
Ethan shouldn't have trisha on the show anymore, shes too unstable.
It’s time for them to move on. I never thought she fit the show.
You're right. She is sitting here and insulting him and his family. Its honestly disgusting. I wouldn't stand for it.
She is damaging his brand, causing problems in his family, and straight up abusive calling him/his wife a bitch right to his face.
Ethan needs to get rid of her while he can. Right now is probably the best opportunity, and she might even learn a lesson (doubtful). I'd bet my bottom dollar if he doesn't, next time will be worse. And it'll keep on getting worse. Until there's no coming back. Dude is risking everything he's built over the years for very little gain.
Quit while your ahead Ethan. Your gambling with your career/brand/family, and having her back/letting her get away with abusive behavior is another roll of the dice. One of these days that dice roll isn't gonna be in your favor, and you might just end up with less chips than you started with.
OP is right. Trisha is too unstable. And Ethan is playing right into her manipulative behavior. AKA enabling.
@@Pooreditz Well said! 👍
Shell be back it's all about the views and $$
the fact They forgave her for this is crazy to me
Ethan is too nice and trisha likes to say that ethan's life is sad even though she literally ruins her own friendships
Well it's entertaining and good content so sure they'll keep her around.
H3 still let their fans post shit on official forums and subreddits bullying her. Like literally just pics of her saying how horrible she is for like not being actually vegan or moses’ furniture sucking lol theyre petty as hell and he goaded her the entire convo. He “forgave her” so he could keep everyone on their side. His fans have actually told her many times that if hila miscarries it’s completely her fault. Their fanbase loves doing crazy shit to her and they dont care.
@@droolingpine9658 their fan base doesn’t equal them? They can’t control them? Plus Trisha is objectively a bad person. If you’re racist, anti-Semitic, lie about serious things such as r*pe, etc, then yes, you will get hate mobs. 🤷🏻♀️
@@droolingpine9658 Trisha is literally such an awful person who never took accountability for any of her disgusting actions and now that’s she’s finally getting heat, you pity her?
How the hell does Ethan stay so calm and not bite back? Its strangely impressive
Cause she is stupid af it would be a waste of energy 😂
I aspire to be this level of calm!
To teach Trisha's conflict resolution
Dude honestly
It's all fake
Guys she's got a kid, can't wait to watch her get a nanny 🤣
Been more than two years and still no nanny, doing great she’s 9 months pregnant and her and Moses raise their children together
Shes clearly still upset that her mother left a lot when she was a child, still effecting her even when she older.
What happened with her mom?
@@andreasigala8009 she said her mum used to leave a lot when she was little so clearly having a nanny or being with family would still effect the child.
@@sometimesbored9282 she’s also said that her mother’s boyfriends sexually abused her as a child. I really feel for her because she isn’t right in the head but you can’t go around saying those things and then play the victim. But ig it’s all dealt with now
@@oranha she was a victim that's the thing.
@Gauge Tablet I dont think she is
It takes a village to raise a child, not always relatives. Some of my aunts and uncles are more strangers to me than my coworkers...
@T. O. T. U. N. T. Based on what? That's just your experience. It depends on if you live in a safe area, have the ability to work from home, how much money you make, how many children you have and how old they are, etc
@T. O. T. U. N. T. doesn’t mean that it wouldn’t help having a village and hence why it’s a saying not it take a single mom to raise a child
@T. O. T. U. N. T. Being raised by a single mother is usually the worst thing that can happen to a kid.
@T. O. T. U. N. T. What about Teachers & Carers in school? They have a huge part. Doctors & community too. You're naive.
You shouldn’t have a child expecting your family to help you raise it.
She shouldn’t be attacking someone’s parenting, she doesn’t have a child, she’s not responsible enough for a child. She is a child the way she acts
All she said is she wouldn’t have a nanny, and Ethan lost his cool. For once she disagreed, and kept the specifics to herself but Ethan egged her on because he got offended instantly, and then he blamed it all on her
@@KrispyPlatypus exactly
@@KrispyPlatypus did you just say ethan lost his cool? I like Trisha but he was very calm and trying to understand her. If you actually watched the entire podcast she said that as a snide remark after she was already pissed with him and in one of her moods. He kept trying to move on and she kept poking jabs.....plus she's said before that her mom left her with her boyfriends growing up soooo what is the truth?
@@cooperkinz So you’re saying Ethan could’ve been the better person but failed here. Yeah passive aggressive from her, obviously it’s Trisha. Why else would Ethan have her on the show if not to get interactions like this. We know how Trisha is but don’t be blind to what Ethan gets out of this relationship
@@elbicho7001 You projected what she meant too. You could take it as a personal opinion and leave it at that, and of course after him asking 4 or 5 times she finally answered him
I don’t get why she said daycare is different. Based on her arguments Isn’t day care taking your kid to a place with “strangers” and nanny is having the “stranger” come to your home where you can probably watch them more and child is more comfortable? They are the same thing if your talking about leaving your child with “strangers” and the parents/family not watching.
You mean this show continued after this? And people actually defend Trisha’s behavior?
Their first fight was even worse and honestly it's quite unwatchable...
EXACTLY!!! I’m wondering this same thing. I went down this rabbit hole cause I am sick at home plus so many people are talking about it I was curious. She is so vile… I don’t understand how this has to happen THREE TIMES for people to finally turn their back on her.
Right!? This is bad
@@bloom6586 Which one was the first fight?
@@shakaman2112 Here ua-cam.com/video/-SenWKNRPu8/v-deo.html . Ethan called Trisha out for weaponizing something he told her in private as a way to defend themselves, quite foreshadowing.
"My parents never had a nanny" yes trisha and look at you now. Having major seperation anxiety and extremely jealous
We don't know if her issues stem from family. I think her issues come from being sexually assaulted and abused.
@@rayonmanogue7209 we cant say that for sure either. A repeated behavior shown from sexual assault is usually the opposite of seperation anxiety. Not saying everyone is the same. Just that its a behavior seen the most with such victims. But you might be right. I still dont think she has the right to say that tho. As if she knows what is right or wrong.
Geez, Trisha is so out of touch with normal working people.
Nah she just old school...daycare and nannies are very modern day and the need for them arrived from nothing positive. He took offense and tried to pressure her..he wanted to be offended b/c it’s his situation. He kept egging her to get her to speak in a way where he can be further mad.
@V never said they wasnt...I said what I said to say I understand why she said what she said...he over read into and basically forced her to offend him..she repeatedly said move past it, its not at you etc...
And nannies in this country in the current system we have esp Daycare has not been around as long as folk think.
We talking 19th century that's not super long and in 1941 The Lahnam Act established it majorly with the intention of focusing on war impacted zones but it wasnt until 1943 when they officially translated that as child care.
@@willellis502 This comment is a bit misleading, so I just wanted to note for future readers: The century mentioned in the end of the comment (19th century) is specifically referring to daycares. Nannies, or some form of them, have been around since hundreds of years prior to that, 14th century at the very latest (but likely well before that). Certainly not something that would be considered a "modern day" phenomenon.
@@omiyomy which I why I spoke moreso on daycaring. But thanks for the elaboration.
@@willellis502 lol just take the L man you’re squirming so hard. This is what no accountability looks like. You just HAVE to be right even though you’re not...
It’s obvious you were trying to make “daycare” a modern thing just to fabricate a lousy argument and got corrected. Just take the L and stay humble. Your last two messages were just you floundering all around the fact that Nanny’s aren’t a modern thing to try and still sound right lmao. But you’re not right. You’re wrong. And not just a little wrong. Your entire premise to your argument is wrong and was disproven by multiple people. Just like Trisha is wrong to attack what anyone else does as a parent when she isn’t one herself.
He remained calm to her horrible try hard personal attack based on nothing. Props to Ethan. You could see how stupid she felt once he calmly explained eveyrthing.
She’s really gaslighting Ethan , that you projecting yeah it’s all you ,gaslighting
Soon as she said his family sucks he should’ve left her
Why? Maybe they do
@@michaelmarquez6133 lol, have you ever watched trisha before? shes mentally unstable like way beyond unstable!
@@redacted7634 Ethan can lowkey be kind of hypocritical and incendiary. I wouldn't pin this all on Trisha. It takes two to tango.
@@lordgonzo6611 i agree he can be at times, but at no point was him saying hila does not want to be mentioned either of those things! and also look at how trisha behaves on her own channel and outside of ethans company! she multiple known mental illnesses she is unstable and is completely in the wrong! does that remove ethan from blame on other subjects no but for this one he did nothing wrong!
This is so embarrassing bc she really thinks she’s doing something. Like she thinks she’s so big and bad. Like the second hand embarrassment
@Mew Two no we shouldn’t feel sorry for people who behave this way. I have severe depression and anxiety and probably other undiagnosed labels but I would never want someone to feel sorry for my shitty behavior. I have said things in the heat of the moment I regretted and asked for forgiveness for, but never once would i use my mental health issues as an excuse of me not controlling what comes out of my mouth. She lashed out and attacked with some low blows and people are trying to defend it because she has mental health issues. No. That is not an excuse for attacking someone, and it doesn’t deserve your pity. As much money she has, she has resources that most of don’t have access to, that can teach her how to respond to stressful situations without going for people’s jugular.
uh no, she doesn't think that at all, she's just hurting and trying to hurt them. it's honestly sad and i feel for her
@Mew Two you asked a question and I answered. If you don’t want people’s opinion on a question you yourself asked, maybe don’t ask questions.
@Mew Two I don’t feel bad for her. She knows she goes through episodes like those. She keeps using that excuse and it’s getting old. She doesn’t want to help herself. If she did she would get off UA-cam. At this point having a normal minimum wage job would be healthier for her.
@@jenni4261 trisha does not have DID. she has bpd.
Her argument about not having a nanny is ridiculous
Its funny how she suddenly puts on the hysterics when Moses gets there, like she always wants to be portrayed as the victim
who’s moses?
@@wateryoutalkingabout6113 Hila's brother/ Trisha's boyfriend
Agreed. Unfortunately for her, the rest was filmed.
@@solidshake12 😂😂😂
Seeing the way she flipped the script and somehow was a victim in this whole situation... I am appalled. That was very scary to see.
Not new in any way.
Are you new to the US or something?
She’s got bpd she needs help lol
She’s disgusting
Girl calm down
Trisha: I wouldn’t have a nanny
Ethan: So you’re attacking my parenting
Trisha: No I didn’t say that don’t put words in my mouth
Ethan: Do you know what it’s like to deal with a 1.5 year old?
Trisha: WELL BY SAYING THAT YOU’RE THROWING IT IN MY FACE THAT I DON’T HAVE KIDS.
he just can’t win.
But he does put words in her mouth, never defending either of them but Ethan is very skillful with stirring shit quietly
@@atsmiku8519 PASSIVE AGGRESSIVELY SHE SAID, with a FUCKING ATTITUDE: “I wont have a nanny that’s for DAMN sure.”
That’s an attack sweetie. It was the connotation. Shes a fuckin passive agressive gas lighter. She also goes into manic states. That’s why she talks that fast. You’re so uneducated
"Its hard to win an argument with a smart person but is impossible to win a argument with a idiot"
@@atsmiku8519 wym? I don’t see him putting words in her mouth all I see is him saying exactly what she’s saying without sugar coating it. She’s shady and fake asf with a victim mindset
@@nellys4398 ffs i know she is awful and terrible but dont sugarcoat ethan as well
I’m so confused how people are coming back to this & acting like Ethan was a villain for asking valid questions. The point was to show her she wasn’t acknowledging how other people’s support system may work differently to manage kids. Her first comment was fine, but she became angry & irrational. Yall going to ignore Trisha calling Hila names for now reason because she got triggered? Her not having kids at this point in time is not Ethan’s fault or problem, and it’s not an excuse to attack someone’s parenting. She was projecting HARD.
She is crazy. She insults someones parenting and when they defend themselves she spazzes out and plays the victim.
She spazzed out when they were on the topic of people talking shit about her not parenting.
I like how Ethan can’t jump to conclusions like Trisha does because if he does she’s attacked
Double standards
@@zakcooked325 stfu scunt
He cut out a lot of the conversation
@@captainawesome2865 Not really, the part of the argument previous to this is in another highlight vid.
Facts
No one took care of this girl when she was a kid and it shows
She's not a ''girl''. She's in her 30s.
I feel like she spent wayyy too much time with her mom who probably was as toxic as she is now. She is just acting the way her mother taught her to
It’s obvious she was horribly abused as a child mentally and sexually. As she mentioned multiple times, I don’t put any blame on her. Her parents failed her and created this mental disaster.
It breaks my heart, but it’s true
@@oceanics.3597 agreed. So I dont understand why she thinks her parents did a good job raising her and ethan should be following her parents footsteps
god I’m sorry but this isn’t even just a Trisha thing, it’s an infertile women thing. they’re so judgmental and think you OWE them what THEIR version of parenting is. It’s very much Serena Joy in Handmaids Tale. just bc you can’t have kids doesn’t mean we have to listen to your tips, or even have kids at that. so annoying.
literally
Ethan triggered Trisha so he could have all the pizza for himself 🍕
Smart move actually 😏🍕
LMFAO!!!
🤣😂🤣
true
Love that for him. Poor Ethan just wanted some pizza but Trisha happened 😂
Hila always came across as balanced and level-headed. I didn’t get this impression of Trisha. I always wondered why Trisha and Ethan had this podcast together...
No one has that impression of Trisha. The reason for the podcast is simple: money.
because it creates pristine entertainment
Well, the name of the podcast really describes it, having such different personalities on the podcast can be quite the rollercoaster of emotions and that makes for good entertainment so yeah
Podcast put trisha in a WAY better position. She really dont deserve these ppls in her life they literally saved her
For views
She’s so toxic.
She can’t mentally do this show. She either needs real help or she’s just a toxic person and you guys should distance yourself.
This keeps happening.
"What fellowship can light have with darkness?"
She went in there ready to fight. She had to figure out how she would get it started and then whenever it died down she brought it back to life. She waited for Moses to come so she could do her dramatic finale. Such a typical narcissist. They all act like this.
Lol what immature, weak minded advice.
@lost cause I don't know why Ethan insists on doing these with her. H3 must be desperate for views or something. It's such a bad idea. She has nothing to contribute at all. She's vulgar, aggressive, coarse and yes very toxic. Perhaps even dangerous.
Preach that
Trisha can be so evil and nasty WOW. Props to Ethan for handling this so diplomatically. I can't imagine having to deal with Trisha's tantrums on a regular basis. How immature and exhausting.
she's crying because she couldn't manipulate him, ethan is actually smart
True but I think its important to say smart people can actually be manipulated because these people prey on emotions and twist your reality. Just thought it was important to clarify so noone feels bad :). But I agree.
Facts
Yeah she started crying after calling her a cunt 😭like sis thas not how it werksss 🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️
i feel like it would've been smarter if he didn't breathe life into this cow's career in the first place.
Right???
Ethan knew her comment was directed towards Hila and he backed up his girl and most important FAMILIA ! Much love .
Screaming that a woman is a dumb “B” and C word all while her small child is in the other room.... how disgusting.
Yeah honestly disgusting, don’t need that around a child that young to hear.
I think Trisha needs to Respect the boundaries Hila wants to set.
not like the kid gives a fuck🤣🤣
Yuck
This woman would never be allowed in my home of my life again.
The baby was there???
the amount of times Trisha manipulated Ethan is scary crazy.
Ethan was smart though and did realized Trisha WAS trying to manipulate him so he handled it well
As soon as Mose gets back she starts crying to manipulate the situation lol... she needs professional help and this isn't entertaining anymore AT ALL
Moses needs to run from that woman
@@biancablast8153 moses is stuck
I would say this is the most entertaining it’s ever been
That was a good point. she broke down crying the moment he came back because she knew he would console her. It seems like he's sticking up for her even though she's saying shitty things about his family. Moses is a doormat
I guess it is entertaining because these videos are getting way more views than the other new ones
Ethan's literally trying to just have a discussion with her and she's so passive aggressive. It's such a toxic trait
Ethan is very passive aggressive
omg so why did he try to explain the situation to Moses in the end, when Trisha said 'let's move on', but instead Ethan continued explaining his POV to Moses, when clearly Trisha was a having a moment. They even did this highlight to paint her as an evil person who critics out of blue others' patenting methods, when prior to it there was the moment that resulted it
@@Alan_Shv I have no idea what you just said.
@@Alan_Shv exactly! And did you notice how they started the highlight after Trisha was already in her episode? They literally released this highlight to make her look bad and to make a profit 🤢🤢
@@satanlucifer4437 they know they have control over viewers' perception of Trisha's actions and they totally abuse it in order to make more money
It’s awful she can’t have kids but it’s obvious she’s so jealous of anyone who’s able to have them so she’s just lashing out. She couldn’t even take care of a dog cause he was too rowdy at first, imagine a child... Jesus Christ.
FACTS! LOL
I don't even want to imagine how that kid would grow to be, considering how ignorant she is.
she should never have kids it's not awful, its gods work lol
I know it’s unfortunate for her that she can’t, but come on she explodes that way off of something she started. I can’t imagine how horribly she would raise a child.
It’s her own fault she can’t have kids. She riddled herself with STD’s for years and wonders why she’s in fertile.
She's about to have a baby any day now. She better not have ONE babysitter or nanny 😑🙂
Doing this podcast might not be the best idea. She is not able to control herself and Ethan doesn't really help by not letting the convo go
Did you listen to the podcast? He’s the one that was trying to move on
Yeah you nailed it, they’re funny but they kind of bring out the worst in each other
She's clearly just not used to someone not backing down from her bs and asking her to rationally explain herself. Her reality crumbles and she can't deal. That is why Moses is her lapdog, she can control and gaslight him.
Finally! Everyone here is painting Trisha as the perp, and while I do think her behaviour is out of order and just outright toxic, Ethan definitely isn't fucking innocent.
@@rayonmanogue7209 shes wrong on all fronts though relating to this issurs
She insults people and expects no body to treat her badly and then cries 😂
This is the perfect example of a bpd meltdown
you can see her at one point like completely zone out and then right after she breaks down she was having a bad manic episode
@@maryjanebrown4009 timestamp ?
@@analigiabatres9114 5:43 mayu
Maybe *
@@analigiabatres9114 6:09 right before she went off
I had a friend who dated a "Trisha" and she was the absolute fucking worst. He was miserable until we convinced him to break up with her.
listen, having help as a parent doesn't make you a bad parent, rather a smart one, cause your child becomes less of a burden and you don't grow to hate having a child etc. Always ask for help when you need one. never be ashamed of it.
@@9188tennisgirl no u
Why would you hate being a parent? They chose to have a kid, it's their child, their responsibility. Some nanny's can be dangerous. And sometimes having a nanny is bad too. It depends because while the child is still developing, the baby will have a stronger bod with the nanny than the parents
I agree with you. My single parent mom put me in both before and after school day care because she was busy working. We didn't have enough money for a nanny, but if we had it would have been the same principle, probably safer even. We didn't have any family that could have watched me.
@@minionsarebae2434 because parents also need time off taking care of their kids. Not having time off might make you more emotional towards your kids later on. That's studied behavior.
@@mannysikario if you are not emotional towards your child or hate being a parent, then that's fucked up. Y'all really saying it's okay to feel that way? It's not. The nanny is also a stranger, sure get to know them a little but you never know. I understand where trisha is coming from. Her mom would leave her with her boy friends, since trisha has been sexually abused since little by strangers, she thinks having a nanny is dangerous. A day care is also dangerous but it's much more safe than having your child alone with someone.
The audacity of this woman to attack his parenting when:
1. She doesn’t have a child of her own
2. She couldn’t even take care of a dog
Trisha is in pain... its deeper than that
Omg true
@@9188tennisgirl trisha is disabled
@@9188tennisgirl lol fr
@@9188tennisgirl bro no one cares if she is, shes a grown fkn woman she cant act like that
Now I hate Moses for not defending his sister ewwww
Unpopular opinion, but I think Ethan is wrong here. He is condescending and feels he's better than Trisha. He looks down on her while pretending to like her.
"You're throwing it in my face that I don't have kids"....directly after saying she'd never have a nanny if she had a kid and bringing the topic up out of nowhere?!? Sooo toxic that's crazy....
“You’re throwing it in my face I don’t have kids?!” This blew my mind when she said that. Truthfully upset me. She was deflecting best she could so she could be the victim. She was also clearly gas lighting him. I can’t stand her lately. This is just terrible. Working mothers being shamed for having their kids in daycare or with a baby sitter / nanny!? How the hell does she expect people to make money to feed their damn kids ?! Both my sons are in daycare so my husband & I can work FULL TIME M-F because we don’t just have mass amounts of money laying around. Unbelievable