I love those earrings i've been looking for the dupes since the beginning of this episode (well since i sas this comment, so like maybe three minutes in)
Brooke talking about how people calling her annoying validates her own thoughts about herself, is what makes her so relatable. Some people who grew up in messy family situation’s don’t know proper bonding skills, she interjects and to some, it seems like she’s making it all about herself, but that is how she shows she relates to someone, and that’s her way of bonding with people. I wish she would open up more and not try to people please so much, she’s truly a good person and deserves the world 💟
@heyyitsjudeyesss, especially in big ethnic families we can’t help talking over each other 😂 but it’s not because we’re not listening! it’s nice when people understand & just make a point to recenter the convo if needed. i do wish brooke got to finish her stories more often ❤
It's a common issue with neurodivergent people. It's how we relate to people and empathize. We're saying "you're not alone in this, and this is how and why I can relate" a lot of people just don't understand the intent behind it and think you're being selfish. It's so unfortunate.
Brooke is such a lovely girl. She genuinely deserve all the success she gets. I hope she understands people watch the podcast for her and tana. She really stands out as she's so genuine, which is rare in the influencer landscape now, its the same with Trisha.
I love the fact that brooke and Tana openly discuss when they fight. It paints a good relationship of friends that can still fight and get their frustrations out and still remain bffs
Hearing Brooke talk so lovingly about her grandmother makes me love her 10xs more. As a CNA in a memory care unit- dementia is hard. It’s the most unforgiving disease there is. It’s so important to not forget the person they ARE not what symptoms they are experiencing.
No because this is 100% correct. I’m a CNA as well in the long term/ memory care unit, and a nursing student this was my exact thoughts when they were talking about this. Before I ever knew anything or had any knowledge regarding the medical field my grandpa had dementia and it was so heart breaking and something I never really understood until I became a CNA. My heart breaks for Brooke, it really is a horrible disease but like I tell my patients families they are struggling so much and feel so lost in there own mind and body that it’s so important to make sure you treat them like you always have and don’t forget them as the person they once were because they may not understand or know but they have you too remember for them and try to make them feel like themselves, and not as the disease and symptoms that have taken over. I’ll never forget my first year being a CNA I lost a dementia patient that I felt so close too, and her family stopped coming to see her completely and when she was getting ready to pass it was almost like she was holding on and waiting for someone that never was coming. I sat with her my whole shift and even after I got off until she finally passed. It was the one patient that I lost that completely sent me in too a spiral and broke my heart.
@@PaigeElizabeth_2310that's so heartbreaking 🥺💔 it's terrible that her family would just stop coming to see her because she's not acting like herself anymore... And leave her to die alone. Ffs people, she's still the person you love, even if she is very ill and no longer acting like the person you know 😭 Somewhere in her heart and mind she longed for the people she loved, and they weren't there. It never stops shocking me how humans find so many different ways to be terrible, in every situation...
This is an interesting perspective, cos I’ve been peripherally experiencing a situation where someone is still going to see their parent with dementia even though she’s become physically volatile and very very mean and all the visitor will say is ‘it’s not her’ - which I get, it isn’t, but at this point if the goal is to remember who this person was to you and still love them wouldn’t it make sense to stop seeing them at that point, if your physical safety is compromised?
As someone who is a HUGE fan of cancelled and Just Trish, I think this might of been my favorite podcast episode i have seen! it was so deep and fun on so many levels. I connected with much of the conversation and have had crazy realizations about my own thoughts. Thank you both so much! Seriously could not love yall and Tana so much!
Dear Moses, convince Trish to do this again. Usually a quiet Stan but this has been the most genuine episode I’ve seen. I love you and Brooke together, I watched the whole thing. You two are a dream team. ❤
Brooke don’t sell yourself short!! Tana is your friend and may have given your opportunities but your personality is what people love, regardless of Tana ❤
@@juliacoves5873i think we all have “pick-me” moments, it just means someone wants to feel accepted and will code switch to do it, right? we’re so harsh on each other for it and does is matter 😂 no
@@abbyz13no literally like at at the end of the day we all just wanna be loved and cared for so does that not make us ALL pick me's to some degree? like 😭😭
It’s SO validating to hear Brooke and Trisha talk about breakups while having BPD. I relate 100% to Brooke’s experience - I couldn’t eat, couldn’t sleep, woke up every day for weeks just filled with DREAD. Everything she said was spot on. It really does feel like somebody died.
I could literally watch Brooke and Trish talk for hours! It was so refreshing to listen to you guys open up about your struggles and making SO many people feel seen. This was a much needed podcast for the BPD community and definitely worth the wait!!
First time I’ve seen/heard BPD talked about to openly and honestly and I feel like I can take a breath out and say I RELATE! BPD is so hard to live with and makes me feel so comforted that Brooke and Trisha were so honest with eachother in their mental illness and I’m so glad I have them to watch 🖤 thank you!
I love Trish wearing her Bottega earring for this after saying on her last show with Tana that she got them because of their conversations. It’s such a small touch but shows a true friendship bond and a true desire to relate to these girls. Trish problematic or no deserves the world and I just love her.
I love how Trish is SUCH an amazing interviewer! You can tell Brooke is a lot more soft spoken than most of her guests and how much Trish changed the pace of her interviewing style to match Brooke's and make her comfortable, all the while still managing to make it as engaging as ever. Ps. Brooke is amazing as well, obviously, love her
yesss! when they were talking about brooke being on this podcast on cancelled i was so excited to hear that it sounded like she did it alone! so glad to see this, i love brooke x
Trisha, you have no idea of the positive impact you're having by speaking about your experience with DBT. Honestly, as a therapist, it makes me so happy. People see you, they see your hard work, and then you give them information that might help them make positive changes themselves. Also, as a long term viewer, I just continue to be so incredibly proud of you and how far you've come. Well done 👏
Seeing how much Brooke and Trish relate is so heartwarming! They are both so kind and supportive, yet transparent in a way that few people will ever allow themselves to be.
Your interviews don’t ever feel like interviews. They’re more like me hanging out with my friends and talking about anything and everything. The time always just flies by …Love Brooke ❤
This was the best episode of someone with borderline personality disorder Thank you guys so much for making me feel so seen I got diagnosed at 14 and now I’m 20 and I still struggle every day and everything you said about it I could relate to so much my best friend was bipolar, and she passed away and that was one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to go through. This episode is everything❤️
i'm so sorry for your loss love❤️🩹❤️🩹 grieving the loss of a close friend is the absolute hardest thing to deal with when having bpd, i lost my best friend/ex love in april 2022 and i still can't wrap my head around it. my heart is absolutely with you💖💖💖
Felt. This community is so stifled and silenced and scrutinized. This is more representation than I’ve ever had which is sad because it’s just two peope
i am genuinely sobbing throughout this entire podcast. i was recently diagnosed with BPD and hearing you guys talk so openly about it and describing every single thing i’ve felt my entire life is everything to me. for real, thank you so much for this episode
Trisha sharing she has never experienced anxiety really explains how she can post the most outrageous and crazy videos embarrassing herself and literally not care about the backlash.
I love that Trish wore her Bottega earrings for an interview with Brooke. What a solid friend, you can tell she's really strategic and intentional with little details!
*It’s super refreshing seeing you two ladies encourage, support, praise, and validate each other!!* *REAL women truly like seeing other women succeed!!* *#trishapaytas* *#brookeschofield*
wow,, i got so emotional when they were discussing her loving grandparents. i lost my grandmother last summer, and she had dementia during her last 18 months. im glad brooke was able to muster the strength to speak on it, as it is something so many of us have had to go through. i hope she finds the time to be able to visit with her parents. gentle hugs to anyone who has lost their grandparents
32:47 hearing Brooke talk about her grandparents and the love she has for grandpa and how much she looks up to him, really tugged at my heart. I relate to her so much on this and the love she has for her grandparents. Sending you and grandparents love❤️
As a fellow BPD girlie with crippling anxiety and panic disorder, I knew exactly what Brooke was talking about when describing her anxiety. In that moment it literally feels like we’re dying, but then afterwards I feel ridiculous for being that anxious. It’s such a real and visceral experience.
as someone w BPD whose been in an extremely toxic relationship listening to you both talk about it so openly was so beautiful to me. so happy Brooke was able to open up about this with Trish because I know how hard it was on her but you can see how much Trisha genuinely cares and understands Brooke and where shes coming from. this podcast has such healing energy :')
I love that Trish always tries to be matchy with the guests as an ode to them ❤️🖤 it’s so sweet and fun!! Love Brooke so much this is a great episode 🫶🏻
As someone with a life long panic disorder (so far, and now medicated), I really appreciate your sensitivity around using anxiety as a label. There’s definitely a difference between worrying and anxiety. Panic is a whole other level! I feel that people overuse the term ‘anxiety’ which dilutes it and adds stigma to it (I.e. “just get over it”). ❤
As a person with both bpd and bi polar II it's really nice to hear them talk about this without a bad undertone like it's just genuine and sharing experiences and it makes me feel so much better and more normal to understand other people experience this
Another awful thing about having BPD is that we’re magnets for people with NPD or high narc traits so it’s common that we end up with people that mistreat and lie to us. I had a very similar experience with a guy that lied about absolutely everything. Including his age and when you finally see behind the curtain you definitely spiral because it’s so much to take in and I heavily relate to feeling like that person died I’m glad that Brooke is doing better now though. Nobody deserves to be lied to like that
I’ve been watching Trisha since I was in high school and she’s always helped to get me through whatever I was going through. Her videos made me feel less alone when I felt like no one else would understand me. Hearing Brooke’s story has been so special. Our childhoods were very similar, and i’ve been having trouble processing my feelings, and hearing her speak on her parents addiction with such grace and empathy is so beautiful and helpful. Thank you for your vulnerability🫶
Trish is SO good at this. I really saw how conversational she is with Brooke and all the topics she's bringing up. She really knew this guest well, and it showed with how much they spoke and how it just felt like a real conversation and not an interview.
When I say I NEEDED this episode with Brooke, it's severely an understatement! I've been so upset this morning and this is the only thing that's helped me stop crying. I love you both so much! 🥰
I lost my father from dementia in 2017. Seeing him go from a 250 pound man to 120 pound man, watching him, search my face for my name. Things I will never forget. Be kind and patient with yourself during this time and cherish those days together with your grandma. ❤️ I am so sorry for your heavy pain you’re feeling you’re strong and I look up to you!
This ep was SO SO good, Trish asked the best questions and just had the best topics! Literally love her she's just the coolest and her and Trisha's chemistry is so good. It was super cool to get to know this deep personal side of Brooke! Especially when it comes to her mental health struggles/anxiety; its so relatable and Brooke's someone who just like the super pretty cool girl and looks like she just has it all together all the time and its really comforting to see everyone has their shit behind the scenes and everything's not just so surface level. Id loveee for you to have her back on
Easily my favourite episode that Brooke featured as a guest on. Surprisingly Trish and her click on such a genuine level and it’s sooo nice to see for both of them! Trish had a way of really getting Brooke to open up and I was fully engaged start to end
LOVED. This episode, two sweethearts talking for 2 hours, thank you for the realness, thank you for the energy and thank you for being you! I’m glad this podcast was so enjoyable for the both of you 😽
This is my first time seeing Brooke and I love herr. She seems really down to earth. It’s so refreshing to see someone talk about mental health issues so openly.
I really needed this video today I have been struggling managing my bpd lately. I just feel so disconnected from everyone and hearing both of you relate is really helping me not feel so odd about myself. Thank you for this episode sending much love to you Brook & Trish 💕
I haven’t been officially diagnosed with BPD but hearing both of your perspectives makes me feel so validated in my own journey and possible diagnosis, without even speaking I feel so heard and seen. Thank you ❤
I admire Brooke SO much. She’s been through so much, I’m really glad she got her moment with Trish to share in this way. I dated a guy who was legit a psychopath & he lied about w everything as well. He was cheating on me with multiple girls while also being on the phone with me constantly somehow, it ruined me. I lost so much weight and spiraled as well. Luckily that was years ago, but I sooo relate to that experience. I’m so glad she’s speaking on it. I love seeing Trish so happy, I’m wishing the same for Brooke 💗💗💗
until recently i hadn’t met anyone else who was diagnosed with bpd like me. watching trish always helped me feel not alone and it’s refreshing to see brooke being vulnerable about it also 🖤
Thank you both for being so honest and open. I've never felt more understood than when you both started talking about wanting to relate to someone in conversation so you can connect with them. And tell them you get it cause you went through something similar. And people think you're making it about you. It's like another level of trying to connect with someone other than normal mundane conversation. This is by far my favorite episode yet!
"Never meet your idols," I met tana years and years ago, and my friend and I got so flustered because she vlogged us (we made her geo filters on snapchat) but anyways maybe 30 minutes after her met and greet we asked her body gaurds if we could go back up and take pictures bc we forget to and she let us up alone with all her friends to take pictures. Such a great person, brooke and trish seem so genuine and kind as well.
I think she means this by don’t take the chance of ruining the “magic” of your idol cause most celebs won’t be as kind in every single fan interaction. Catch a celeb on a bad day and your view would be ruined and feeling would be hurt. It’s like the same concept of don’t work for your favorite restaurant cause then you’ll hate it
this is so hard to talk about thank you for sharing brooke. my grandma also passed away from dementia and im juggling with a bipolar disorder diagnosis and possibly BPD. really really meaningful to hear vulnerability from people in the social media world. sending love and prayers to you and others dealing with this too
First episode of anyone I’ve seen in a long time that was so real and so honest about every topic that came up. True open conversation is so beautiful 😭
Brooke, thank you for speaking up about BPD. It’s so stigmatized and it’s great to see someone with your exposure to be open about it. I highly suggest therapy. ❤️ I waited years to do so because I didn’t think I needed it and it’s one thing I regret in my life. You’re right, symptoms are amplified during relationships. But, there are other things - like spending that are connected to BPD. Thank you again ❤
Omg I’ve felt such a connection to Brooke & just felt like I have so much in common with her & now I know why we’re both suffering the same mental illness. Love you Brooke
Brooke is the definition of “she’s just like us” she’s a girl who’s maybe not made for LA but is strong enough to take it on and be real about it. Stan card!
this is my favourite episode by far, trisha you are such an amazing interviewer, you could tell how comfortable brooke was especially the longer you guys talked and I feel like brooke has such an amazing personality but might be afraid that people won’t like her on her own so she is afraid to completely be herself at first and doesn’t realize how much people love her!!! Trisha is such a kind soul who you can tell genuinely connects and feels for every guest she brings on ❤️❤️
I love you both and thank you for speaking about BPD! It’s so hard to live with and there is still so much misinformation about it. You both are gorgeous and so kind!
This podcast made me come to a realization that I indeed have something wrong with me LOL I do everything brooke does, the calls and texts and being overly aware of my crazy behavior, I wonder how many other people feel seen from this and realize that we need help because it’s not normal
This has been my must watch every time it comes out. I used to kind of be a little wary about Trish, but her content lately has been amazing -- this show and her youtube channel. It's refreshing to watch!
when brooke said "i feel like everybody's mentally ill" that blew my mind bc i was just thinking that today. as ive learned more ab mental illness in recent years and kind of obsess over how i act ive been paying more attention to people too & i swear everyone got something but i also realize alot of ppl just dont know how to communicate in effective ways/ deal with emotions positively
Brooke, I'm so sorry to hear that your Grandma has Dementia😔. It sounds like she went into a delirium after her surgery and never fully recovered from it. Dementia is such a heartbreaking disease. I work as a nurse, and I see the toll it takes on the family. Your Grandpa is an absolute sweet heart for looking after her. Just make sure he gets breaks so he can have sometime for himself, and so he doesn't get caregiver burnout. Loved your openness on the podcast today ❤
I could listen to this podcast on repeat again, and again their chemistry was so good and I got to learn so much more about BPD through this, and how nuanced it can be. Please have Brooke on again!!!
I have never watched an episode of Cancled. I didn't really know anything about Brooke. I still watched the entire episode and enjoyed it very much! Good job, Trish!
Trish and Brooke are such a vibe!! I feel so seen in the bpd talk wow. So true that you guys talking about this stuff absolutely makes people feel less alone. Hope to have Tana and Brooke back on the reg! 💗
This episode was everything that we have wanted!!!!!! We are seriously loving the friendships blossoming!!!!!!! I think this is gonna be such an amazing girl group!!! ❤
the fact that trisha accidntally bought the REAL bottega earrings instead of the amazon dupes is beyond iconic
Literally
Literally first thing i thought
I love those earrings i've been looking for the dupes since the beginning of this episode (well since i sas this comment, so like maybe three minutes in)
lol she didn't even think about dupes
what’s the time stamp for this convo ?
i can confidently say this is the episode we were ALL waiting for!
I need iJustine on here 🤣
YESSS I LOVE BROOKE
Correct
AGREED
Facts!
Brooke is very real and transparent. More influencers needs to be like her.
this didn’t age well
Brooke talking about how people calling her annoying validates her own thoughts about herself, is what makes her so relatable. Some people who grew up in messy family situation’s don’t know proper bonding skills, she interjects and to some, it seems like she’s making it all about herself, but that is how she shows she relates to someone, and that’s her way of bonding with people. I wish she would open up more and not try to people please so much, she’s truly a good person and deserves the world 💟
this! I think the lot of us that feel this way and have been through it can see it in one another. she is truly so beautiful inside and out
Amazing comment! So spot on
@heyyitsjudeyesss, especially in big ethnic families we can’t help talking over each other 😂 but it’s not because we’re not listening! it’s nice when people understand & just make a point to recenter the convo if needed. i do wish brooke got to finish her stories more often ❤
It's a common issue with neurodivergent people. It's how we relate to people and empathize. We're saying "you're not alone in this, and this is how and why I can relate" a lot of people just don't understand the intent behind it and think you're being selfish. It's so unfortunate.
Brooke is such a lovely girl. She genuinely deserve all the success she gets. I hope she understands people watch the podcast for her and tana. She really stands out as she's so genuine, which is rare in the influencer landscape now, its the same with Trisha.
I love the fact that brooke and Tana openly discuss when they fight. It paints a good relationship of friends that can still fight and get their frustrations out and still remain bffs
Hearing Brooke talk so lovingly about her grandmother makes me love her 10xs more. As a CNA in a memory care unit- dementia is hard. It’s the most unforgiving disease there is. It’s so important to not forget the person they ARE not what symptoms they are experiencing.
No because this is 100% correct. I’m a CNA as well in the long term/ memory care unit, and a nursing student this was my exact thoughts when they were talking about this. Before I ever knew anything or had any knowledge regarding the medical field my grandpa had dementia and it was so heart breaking and something I never really understood until I became a CNA. My heart breaks for Brooke, it really is a horrible disease but like I tell my patients families they are struggling so much and feel so lost in there own mind and body that it’s so important to make sure you treat them like you always have and don’t forget them as the person they once were because they may not understand or know but they have you too remember for them and try to make them feel like themselves, and not as the disease and symptoms that have taken over. I’ll never forget my first year being a CNA I lost a dementia patient that I felt so close too, and her family stopped coming to see her completely and when she was getting ready to pass it was almost like she was holding on and waiting for someone that never was coming. I sat with her my whole shift and even after I got off until she finally passed. It was the one patient that I lost that completely sent me in too a spiral and broke my heart.
My mom died from Early Onset Alzheimer’s and it really is the absolute worst.
@@PaigeElizabeth_2310that's so heartbreaking 🥺💔 it's terrible that her family would just stop coming to see her because she's not acting like herself anymore... And leave her to die alone. Ffs people, she's still the person you love, even if she is very ill and no longer acting like the person you know 😭 Somewhere in her heart and mind she longed for the people she loved, and they weren't there. It never stops shocking me how humans find so many different ways to be terrible, in every situation...
This is an interesting perspective, cos I’ve been peripherally experiencing a situation where someone is still going to see their parent with dementia even though she’s become physically volatile and very very mean and all the visitor will say is ‘it’s not her’ - which I get, it isn’t, but at this point if the goal is to remember who this person was to you and still love them wouldn’t it make sense to stop seeing them at that point, if your physical safety is compromised?
I love how Trisha’s energy is around girls, she loves to elevate them and genuinely cares to make them feel good, she’s a Girls Girl 🫶🏼
This comment!!! ❤
Trisha is a Barbie FORREAL
being wifed up has been so positive for her i’m glad she has stability in her life and loving friends finally
@@Lulu-pi2qp lol
@@Lulu-pi2qpu seem like ur projecting bc u don’t like seeing ppl happy, u don’t know her and neither does any1 else
As someone who is a HUGE fan of cancelled and Just Trish, I think this might of been my favorite podcast episode i have seen! it was so deep and fun on so many levels. I connected with much of the conversation and have had crazy realizations about my own thoughts. Thank you both so much! Seriously could not love yall and Tana so much!
Dear Moses, convince Trish to do this again. Usually a quiet Stan but this has been the most genuine episode I’ve seen. I love you and Brooke together, I watched the whole thing. You two are a dream team. ❤
Brooke don’t sell yourself short!! Tana is your friend and may have given your opportunities but your personality is what people love, regardless of Tana ❤
100% I adore Brooke. I love Tana as well, but Brooke is a whole different vibe
Also Brooke if you read this you are NOT a pick me
@@juliacoves5873u probably haven't seen her older stuff there is definitely pick me energy before
@@juliacoves5873i think we all have “pick-me” moments, it just means someone wants to feel accepted and will code switch to do it, right? we’re so harsh on each other for it and does is matter 😂 no
@@abbyz13no literally like at at the end of the day we all just wanna be loved and cared for so does that not make us ALL pick me's to some degree? like 😭😭
It’s SO validating to hear Brooke and Trisha talk about breakups while having BPD. I relate 100% to Brooke’s experience - I couldn’t eat, couldn’t sleep, woke up every day for weeks just filled with DREAD. Everything she said was spot on. It really does feel like somebody died.
I don't have BPD, isn't it normal to feel this way at least from one break up?
@@user-np8yf8fj2wno it’s not. It’s normal to grieve and feel sad but not to that degree.
@@user-np8yf8fj2wi was gonna say the same thing. So what? Does this mean I have bpd.
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This is how I feel now and it’s been going on for almost a week, it’s calming knowing you aren’t the only one ❤
Hearing Trisha and Brooke talk about mental illness and relating to each other and normalizing it was so refreshing for me 😭
THIS
I needed it ❤
Yes oh my god it’s amazing. Breaking down that wall of all these influencers being perfect
THIS!^^ they genuinely both heard every word eachother said to the other during the pod, which made me feel heard and like a bff🥰
1000%
I could literally watch Brooke and Trish talk for hours! It was so refreshing to listen to you guys open up about your struggles and making SO many people feel seen. This was a much needed podcast for the BPD community and definitely worth the wait!!
First time I’ve seen/heard BPD talked about to openly and honestly and I feel like I can take a breath out and say I RELATE! BPD is so hard to live with and makes me feel so comforted that Brooke and Trisha were so honest with eachother in their mental illness and I’m so glad I have them to watch 🖤 thank you!
I love Trish wearing her Bottega earring for this after saying on her last show with Tana that she got them because of their conversations. It’s such a small touch but shows a true friendship bond and a true desire to relate to these girls. Trish problematic or no deserves the world and I just love her.
And the way she slicked her hair back just like Brooke usually does…. There is truly no one like Trish ❤️
awwww i didn’t notice until i read this comment 🥹🤍
Yes❤
Yes! Look at her whole fit! She’s literally dressed up as Brooke ! ❤ so cute
trish is so cute love her 😌
I love how Trish is SUCH an amazing interviewer! You can tell Brooke is a lot more soft spoken than most of her guests and how much Trish changed the pace of her interviewing style to match Brooke's and make her comfortable, all the while still managing to make it as engaging as ever. Ps. Brooke is amazing as well, obviously, love her
So true 🥲😭 We love Trish for that!
Oh my god, I’m so happy Brooke is on a podcast by herself, shows how amazing she is on her own❤️❤️
For real!! I love her honestly
yesss! when they were talking about brooke being on this podcast on cancelled i was so excited to hear that it sounded like she did it alone! so glad to see this, i love brooke x
Trisha, you have no idea of the positive impact you're having by speaking about your experience with DBT. Honestly, as a therapist, it makes me so happy. People see you, they see your hard work, and then you give them information that might help them make positive changes themselves. Also, as a long term viewer, I just continue to be so incredibly proud of you and how far you've come. Well done 👏
What’s DTB - I’ll google lol
@@dilciaenid57 A type of therapy that can be effective with borderline personality disorder
Seeing how much Brooke and Trish relate is so heartwarming! They are both so kind and supportive, yet transparent in a way that few people will ever allow themselves to be.
Your interviews don’t ever feel like interviews. They’re more like me hanging out with my friends and talking about anything and everything. The time always just flies by …Love Brooke ❤
This was the best episode of someone with borderline personality disorder Thank you guys so much for making me feel so seen I got diagnosed at 14 and now I’m 20 and I still struggle every day and everything you said about it I could relate to so much my best friend was bipolar, and she passed away and that was one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to go through. This episode is everything❤️
i'm so sorry for your loss love❤️🩹❤️🩹 grieving the loss of a close friend is the absolute hardest thing to deal with when having bpd, i lost my best friend/ex love in april 2022 and i still can't wrap my head around it. my heart is absolutely with you💖💖💖
Felt. This community is so stifled and silenced and scrutinized. This is more representation than I’ve ever had which is sad because it’s just two peope
@@sativalibra 2
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I love that y’all talk so openly about mental health and y’all’s experiences in “feeling crazy” it makes me feel less alone
i am genuinely sobbing throughout this entire podcast. i was recently diagnosed with BPD and hearing you guys talk so openly about it and describing every single thing i’ve felt my entire life is everything to me. for real, thank you so much for this episode
Trisha sharing she has never experienced anxiety really explains how she can post the most outrageous and crazy videos embarrassing herself and literally not care about the backlash.
Love Trish. She got her own thing goin on.
Trish is naturally such a good interviewer
As a therapist this was such a heartwarming episode to watch. Please keep doing what you’re doing Trish!! ❤️
I love that Trish wore her Bottega earrings for an interview with Brooke. What a solid friend, you can tell she's really strategic and intentional with little details!
Seriously I noticed too
even the hair! 😊
Can you explain
*It’s super refreshing seeing you two ladies encourage, support, praise, and validate each other!!* *REAL women truly like seeing other women succeed!!* *#trishapaytas* *#brookeschofield*
Bring Brooke back! Honestly one of the sweetest and honest episodes ever! 💕
Trish channeling Brooke with the earrings and slicked back pony tail is everythingggg ✨
Brooke has such a likeable personality and she’s funny. I hope all the success for her
wow,, i got so emotional when they were discussing her loving grandparents. i lost my grandmother last summer, and she had dementia during her last 18 months. im glad brooke was able to muster the strength to speak on it, as it is something so many of us have had to go through. i hope she finds the time to be able to visit with her parents. gentle hugs to anyone who has lost their grandparents
32:47 hearing Brooke talk about her grandparents and the love she has for grandpa and how much she looks up to him, really tugged at my heart. I relate to her so much on this and the love she has for her grandparents. Sending you and grandparents love❤️
The way these two have a genuine relationship makes me cry tears of joy. Love love love both of you
As a fellow BPD girlie with crippling anxiety and panic disorder, I knew exactly what Brooke was talking about when describing her anxiety. In that moment it literally feels like we’re dying, but then afterwards I feel ridiculous for being that anxious. It’s such a real and visceral experience.
as someone w BPD whose been in an extremely toxic relationship listening to you both talk about it so openly was so beautiful to me. so happy Brooke was able to open up about this with Trish because I know how hard it was on her but you can see how much Trisha genuinely cares and understands Brooke and where shes coming from. this podcast has such healing energy :')
I love that Trish always tries to be matchy with the guests as an ode to them ❤️🖤 it’s so sweet and fun!! Love Brooke so much this is a great episode 🫶🏻
yessss its so cute
Brooke even said in her past vlog that she bought something pink to match with Trish!! So obsessed with these two and Tana’s friendship ❤
trish is so fantastic at getting people to talk, i loved being able to hear so much from brooke in this episode
I love how pure this is! They’re genuinely interested in one another, with little judgement, and girls supporting girl vibes ❤
brooke is so well spoken. you two together is a breath of fresh air. i love you guys! thank you trish for the consistent uploading and amazing guests
My ex lied about having cancer and 6 months left to live AND having a daughter when he didnt... I feel you brookie
What is WRONG with these people my lord
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The most unhinged part of that for me was lying about a kid you don’t have. Lol who lies about being a single parent
that’s insane
Men will LIE about everything from the smallest thing to the biggest most complicated soap opera storyline thing
As someone with a life long panic disorder (so far, and now medicated), I really appreciate your sensitivity around using anxiety as a label. There’s definitely a difference between worrying and anxiety. Panic is a whole other level! I feel that people overuse the term ‘anxiety’ which dilutes it and adds stigma to it (I.e. “just get over it”). ❤
As a person with both bpd and bi polar II it's really nice to hear them talk about this without a bad undertone like it's just genuine and sharing experiences and it makes me feel so much better and more normal to understand other people experience this
Another awful thing about having BPD is that we’re magnets for people with NPD or high narc traits so it’s common that we end up with people that mistreat and lie to us.
I had a very similar experience with a guy that lied about absolutely everything. Including his age and when you finally see behind the curtain you definitely spiral because it’s so much to take in and I heavily relate to feeling like that person died
I’m glad that Brooke is doing better now though. Nobody deserves to be lied to like that
You are both so amazing for being so vulnerable to tell your stories that are what we can battle everyday.
I’ve been waitin for this one!! Truly Trish, you have become such an icon and to see you rise all over again. Is so heartwarming
As someone with BPD, this was so validating. I feel so seen and comforted by your vulnerability and discussions. Thank you both!❤
I’ve been watching Trisha since I was in high school and she’s always helped to get me through whatever I was going through. Her videos made me feel less alone when I felt like no one else would understand me. Hearing Brooke’s story has been so special. Our childhoods were very similar, and i’ve been having trouble processing my feelings, and hearing her speak on her parents addiction with such grace and empathy is so beautiful and helpful. Thank you for your vulnerability🫶
Trish is SO good at this. I really saw how conversational she is with Brooke and all the topics she's bringing up. She really knew this guest well, and it showed with how much they spoke and how it just felt like a real conversation and not an interview.
Loved this conversation. First time I’ve heard more about Brooke’s background and mental health. Trish is a good interviewer
When I say I NEEDED this episode with Brooke, it's severely an understatement! I've been so upset this morning and this is the only thing that's helped me stop crying. I love you both so much! 🥰
You are too gorgeous to be crying. Better not be crying over a boy!!
hope u feel better ❤
Definitely been there- love that we can tune into just Trish for a few hrs a week 🩷 hope you feel a bit better
I hope you’re having a better day today ❤
I lost my father from dementia in 2017. Seeing him go from a 250 pound man to 120 pound man, watching him, search my face for my name. Things I will never forget. Be kind and patient with yourself during this time and cherish those days together with your grandma. ❤️ I am so sorry for your heavy pain you’re feeling you’re strong and I look up to you!
This ep was SO SO good, Trish asked the best questions and just had the best topics! Literally love her she's just the coolest and her and Trisha's chemistry is so good. It was super cool to get to know this deep personal side of Brooke! Especially when it comes to her mental health struggles/anxiety; its so relatable and Brooke's someone who just like the super pretty cool girl and looks like she just has it all together all the time and its really comforting to see everyone has their shit behind the scenes and everything's not just so surface level. Id loveee for you to have her back on
Easily my favourite episode that Brooke featured as a guest on. Surprisingly Trish and her click on such a genuine level and it’s sooo nice to see for both of them! Trish had a way of really getting Brooke to open up and I was fully engaged start to end
Brooke is my actual favourite. I’m 37 and I love watching Trish and Brooke together this is perfect.
LOVED. This episode, two sweethearts talking for 2 hours, thank you for the realness, thank you for the energy and thank you for being you! I’m glad this podcast was so enjoyable for the both of you 😽
Genuinely, Trish is a phenomenal interviewer !
I LOVE BROOKE SO MUCHHHH, I love how vulnerable she is this episode. You can tell how genuine she truly is, I loved this episode🧡
This is my first time seeing Brooke and I love herr. She seems really down to earth. It’s so refreshing to see someone talk about mental health issues so openly.
I really needed this video today I have been struggling managing my bpd lately. I just feel so disconnected from everyone and hearing both of you relate is really helping me not feel so odd about myself. Thank you for this episode sending much love to you Brook & Trish 💕
Sending you hugs!! ❤️
this is exactly how i’m feeling, i’m so grateful for them!!!
There are more of us than you think! You aren’t odd, I promise ❤
BPD here. ❤️ We’re not alone. Sending you sooo much love.
I haven’t been officially diagnosed with BPD but hearing both of your perspectives makes me feel so validated in my own journey and possible diagnosis, without even speaking I feel so heard and seen. Thank you ❤
I admire Brooke SO much. She’s been through so much, I’m really glad she got her moment with Trish to share in this way. I dated a guy who was legit a psychopath & he lied about w everything as well. He was cheating on me with multiple girls while also being on the phone with me constantly somehow, it ruined me. I lost so much weight and spiraled as well. Luckily that was years ago, but I sooo relate to that experience. I’m so glad she’s speaking on it. I love seeing Trish so happy, I’m wishing the same for Brooke 💗💗💗
I love how open and vulnerable this whole conversation casually is. You are both amazing
until recently i hadn’t met anyone else who was diagnosed with bpd like me. watching trish always helped me feel not alone and it’s refreshing to see brooke being vulnerable about it also 🖤
this episode is about to make me cry talking about bpd is so refreshing to hear and relate to🥹i love you guys
Thank you both for being so honest and open. I've never felt more understood than when you both started talking about wanting to relate to someone in conversation so you can connect with them. And tell them you get it cause you went through something similar. And people think you're making it about you.
It's like another level of trying to connect with someone other than normal mundane conversation.
This is by far my favorite episode yet!
I love how Brooke’s calm demeanor made Trisha seem calm and zen. This was a great duo ❤
"Never meet your idols," I met tana years and years ago, and my friend and I got so flustered because she vlogged us (we made her geo filters on snapchat) but anyways maybe 30 minutes after her met and greet we asked her body gaurds if we could go back up and take pictures bc we forget to and she let us up alone with all her friends to take pictures. Such a great person, brooke and trish seem so genuine and kind as well.
I think she means this by don’t take the chance of ruining the “magic” of your idol cause most celebs won’t be as kind in every single fan interaction. Catch a celeb on a bad day and your view would be ruined and feeling would be hurt. It’s like the same concept of don’t work for your favorite restaurant cause then you’ll hate it
this is so hard to talk about thank you for sharing brooke. my grandma also passed away from dementia and im juggling with a bipolar disorder diagnosis and possibly BPD. really really meaningful to hear vulnerability from people in the social media world. sending love and prayers to you and others dealing with this too
First episode of anyone I’ve seen in a long time that was so real and so honest about every topic that came up. True open conversation is so beautiful 😭
Brooke, thank you for speaking up about BPD. It’s so stigmatized and it’s great to see someone with your exposure to be open about it. I highly suggest therapy. ❤️ I waited years to do so because I didn’t think I needed it and it’s one thing I regret in my life. You’re right, symptoms are amplified during relationships. But, there are other things - like spending that are connected to BPD. Thank you again ❤
Omg I’ve felt such a connection to Brooke & just felt like I have so much in common with her & now I know why we’re both suffering the same mental illness. Love you Brooke
Exactly. Have always loved her and related and I’m like shit… thank you for sharing 🥹
Brooke is the definition of “she’s just like us” she’s a girl who’s maybe not made for LA but is strong enough to take it on and be real about it. Stan card!
I am so genuinely happy for Brooke, she deserves all of this, she genuinely seems like such a good person
this is my favourite episode by far, trisha you are such an amazing interviewer, you could tell how comfortable brooke was especially the longer you guys talked and I feel like brooke has such an amazing personality but might be afraid that people won’t like her on her own so she is afraid to completely be herself at first and doesn’t realize how much people love her!!! Trisha is such a kind soul who you can tell genuinely connects and feels for every guest she brings on ❤️❤️
I love Brooke! So glad you decided to have her on… she has such a deep side to her that we don’t get to see very often. ❤️
So excited to have Brooke on!! She seems so sweet
Brooke was the only person Tana collaborated with or best friends with that I feel she’s a genuinely down to earth and hard working person.
I never knew all of this about Brooke😭 I’m so glad she came on and shared more about herself because we love her
I love you both and thank you for speaking about BPD! It’s so hard to live with and there is still so much misinformation about it. You both are gorgeous and so kind!
This podcast made me come to a realization that I indeed have something wrong with me LOL I do everything brooke does, the calls and texts and being overly aware of my crazy behavior, I wonder how many other people feel seen from this and realize that we need help because it’s not normal
I feel like with the nursing degree Brooke could do celebrity IV’s and still be an influencer. Kind of like Dr. Miami
this is my comfort video, i’ve watched the whole thing like 6 times
i wish i could listen to you two talk forever. this conversation feels so safe. i’m 30 w bpd and this is just so real
This has been my must watch every time it comes out. I used to kind of be a little wary about Trish, but her content lately has been amazing -- this show and her youtube channel. It's refreshing to watch!
it makes my heart so damn happy to see Brooke has a whole episode with just her!!
Love how honest & vulnerable this interview is ❤
when brooke said "i feel like everybody's mentally ill" that blew my mind bc i was just thinking that today. as ive learned more ab mental illness in recent years and kind of obsess over how i act ive been paying more attention to people too & i swear everyone got something but i also realize alot of ppl just dont know how to communicate in effective ways/ deal with emotions positively
The whole convo about them wishing they were injured and being like “everyone did this” is so BPD coded omfg
I love how Trisha is channeling Brooke’s style for this episode! Trisha is so sweet and beautiful 😻🥹🫶🏼
been waiting for this one !!!! 💞
Brooke, I'm so sorry to hear that your Grandma has Dementia😔. It sounds like she went into a delirium after her surgery and never fully recovered from it. Dementia is such a heartbreaking disease. I work as a nurse, and I see the toll it takes on the family. Your Grandpa is an absolute sweet heart for looking after her. Just make sure he gets breaks so he can have sometime for himself, and so he doesn't get caregiver burnout. Loved your openness on the podcast today ❤
I could listen to this podcast on repeat again, and again their chemistry was so good and I got to learn so much more about BPD through this, and how nuanced it can be. Please have Brooke on again!!!
I have never watched an episode of Cancled. I didn't really know anything about Brooke. I still watched the entire episode and enjoyed it very much! Good job, Trish!
Aww when Brooke talked about her and Lila driving around talking about how cool it would be to be friends with Trisha-that’s the cutest story. ❤️💕
Trish and Brooke are such a vibe!! I feel so seen in the bpd talk wow. So true that you guys talking about this stuff absolutely makes people feel less alone. Hope to have Tana and Brooke back on the reg! 💗
I love how Trisha made Brooke so comfortable :) she’s a great host
This episode was everything that we have wanted!!!!!! We are seriously loving the friendships blossoming!!!!!!! I think this is gonna be such an amazing girl group!!! ❤
I have so much respect for you two for being vulnerable about dealing with mental health. We love you two so much
I didn't know Brooke is a fellow BPD girlie 🥺 I love her sm. Borderline is really hard to live with I wouldn't wish it on anyone