Brooke Schofield On Her Toxic Ex, Feuding With Tana & the Future of CANCELLED | Just Trish Ep. 28

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  • Опубліковано 1 лис 2023
  • Trisha sits down with 'CANCELLED' host Brooke Schofield to discuss her meteoric rise to social media fame. Brooke tells all: From new details about her toxic ex, to feud rumors between her and Tana Mongeau. What is the future like for the 'CANCELLED" podcast and tour? Plus, Brooke and Trish bond over the hardships of living with BPD, and how they continue to live with their mental illness.
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    One thing about Trisha Paytas, she’s going to speak her mind. The viral megastar has made a career out of unabashedly spilling her heart out to millions of viewers. While she’s been both praised and canceled for it, Trisha has never been afraid of stirring the pot.
    Now, the meme queen is taking back the mic and truly telling it how she sees it-from the latest Internet drama to the hottest celebrity gossip. In this weekly podcast, Trisha gives her hilariously unfiltered take on the biggest headlines and trends currently taking social media by storm. Alongside her friend and co-host-Emmy-award winning entertainment news journalist Oscar Gracey-she provides her brutally honest, and sometimes highly controversial commentary on pop culture. It’s not personal, it’s ‘Just Trish’.

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  • @emmablackburn8386
    @emmablackburn8386 7 місяців тому +3663

    the fact that trisha accidntally bought the REAL bottega earrings instead of the amazon dupes is beyond iconic

    • @Latoyas_got_your_soul
      @Latoyas_got_your_soul 7 місяців тому +13

      Literally

    • @Joveeeeee
      @Joveeeeee 7 місяців тому +10

      Literally first thing i thought

    • @flerrrrrrrrrrrp2997
      @flerrrrrrrrrrrp2997 6 місяців тому +4

      I love those earrings i've been looking for the dupes since the beginning of this episode (well since i sas this comment, so like maybe three minutes in)

    • @abbyjojohnson
      @abbyjojohnson 5 місяців тому +2

      lol she didn't even think about dupes

    • @nvrlou
      @nvrlou Місяць тому +1

      what’s the time stamp for this convo ?

  • @getthememo
    @getthememo 7 місяців тому +6223

    I love how Trisha’s energy is around girls, she loves to elevate them and genuinely cares to make them feel good, she’s a Girls Girl 🫶🏼

    • @MarissaMezari
      @MarissaMezari 7 місяців тому +27

      This comment!!! ❤

    • @hairiseverything
      @hairiseverything 7 місяців тому +18

      Well said! It makes me feel warm inside! The world needs more of that!

    • @littlepoodle7443
      @littlepoodle7443 7 місяців тому +1

      Trisha is a Barbie FORREAL

    • @abbyz13
      @abbyz13 7 місяців тому +64

      being wifed up has been so positive for her i’m glad she has stability in her life and loving friends finally

    • @er-ha
      @er-ha 7 місяців тому +6

      @@Lulu-pi2qp lol

  • @ricardodelucca5221
    @ricardodelucca5221 7 місяців тому +1249

    Brooke is very real and transparent. More influencers needs to be like her.

    • @Deeeeezzz
      @Deeeeezzz 5 місяців тому +4

      she's so relatable omg

  • @JaseFX
    @JaseFX 7 місяців тому +963

    Brooke is such a lovely girl. She genuinely deserve all the success she gets. I hope she understands people watch the podcast for her and tana. She really stands out as she's so genuine, which is rare in the influencer landscape now, its the same with Trisha.

  • @dizzyandbusy
    @dizzyandbusy 7 місяців тому +5761

    i can confidently say this is the episode we were ALL waiting for!

  • @juliacoves5873
    @juliacoves5873 7 місяців тому +3793

    Brooke don’t sell yourself short!! Tana is your friend and may have given your opportunities but your personality is what people love, regardless of Tana ❤

    • @brittanybeauvais
      @brittanybeauvais 7 місяців тому +117

      100% I adore Brooke. I love Tana as well, but Brooke is a whole different vibe

    • @juliacoves5873
      @juliacoves5873 7 місяців тому +68

      Also Brooke if you read this you are NOT a pick me

    • @toughtimes6353
      @toughtimes6353 7 місяців тому

      @@juliacoves5873u probably haven't seen her older stuff there is definitely pick me energy before

    • @abbyz13
      @abbyz13 7 місяців тому +32

      @@juliacoves5873i think we all have “pick-me” moments, it just means someone wants to feel accepted and will code switch to do it, right? we’re so harsh on each other for it and does is matter 😂 no

    • @gemmaviol3t
      @gemmaviol3t 7 місяців тому +20

      @@abbyz13no literally like at at the end of the day we all just wanna be loved and cared for so does that not make us ALL pick me's to some degree? like 😭😭

  • @emmaaaa2839
    @emmaaaa2839 7 місяців тому +825

    Brooke talking about how people calling her annoying validates her own thoughts about herself, is what makes her so relatable. Some people who grew up in messy family situation’s don’t know proper bonding skills, she interjects and to some, it seems like she’s making it all about herself, but that is how she shows she relates to someone, and that’s her way of bonding with people. I wish she would open up more and not try to people please so much, she’s truly a good person and deserves the world 💟

    • @heyyitsjude
      @heyyitsjude 7 місяців тому +15

      Yeah I think the people saying that aren’t really as social as they think they are. It’s very normal to relate to yourself. The only time I don’t do that is when I literally can’t relate so I just ask questions (like Trisha did during this interview).
      As long as both people are validating one another’s experiences, it’s not really an issue.

    • @allysonleigh3521
      @allysonleigh3521 7 місяців тому +3

      this! I think the lot of us that feel this way and have been through it can see it in one another. she is truly so beautiful inside and out

    • @brookecardoza8036
      @brookecardoza8036 7 місяців тому +2

      Amazing comment! So spot on

    • @abbyz13
      @abbyz13 6 місяців тому +4

      @@heyyitsjudeyesss, especially in big ethnic families we can’t help talking over each other 😂 but it’s not because we’re not listening! it’s nice when people understand & just make a point to recenter the convo if needed. i do wish brooke got to finish her stories more often ❤

    • @Ambuhsofly
      @Ambuhsofly 4 місяці тому +1

      It's a common issue with neurodivergent people. It's how we relate to people and empathize. We're saying "you're not alone in this, and this is how and why I can relate" a lot of people just don't understand the intent behind it and think you're being selfish. It's so unfortunate.

  • @Jane_88888
    @Jane_88888 7 місяців тому +463

    As someone who is a HUGE fan of cancelled and Just Trish, I think this might of been my favorite podcast episode i have seen! it was so deep and fun on so many levels. I connected with much of the conversation and have had crazy realizations about my own thoughts. Thank you both so much! Seriously could not love yall and Tana so much!

  • @brandyharbin4949
    @brandyharbin4949 7 місяців тому +1427

    Hearing Trisha and Brooke talk about mental illness and relating to each other and normalizing it was so refreshing for me 😭

    • @oliviaclemons2506
      @oliviaclemons2506 7 місяців тому +4

      THIS

    • @Starbuxlvr1313
      @Starbuxlvr1313 7 місяців тому +4

      I needed it ❤

    • @taylorhunsaker6294
      @taylorhunsaker6294 6 місяців тому +3

      Yes oh my god it’s amazing. Breaking down that wall of all these influencers being perfect

    • @jazzyjazz12
      @jazzyjazz12 6 місяців тому +2

      THIS!^^ they genuinely both heard every word eachother said to the other during the pod, which made me feel heard and like a bff🥰

    • @serenagilbert1483
      @serenagilbert1483 6 місяців тому

      1000%

  • @bitchlasagna1
    @bitchlasagna1 7 місяців тому +1912

    As someone with BPD, even just having these two women openly talk about their emotions and mental health is more representation than my community is used to. BPD is so stigmatized and so silenced. Thank you ladies ❤ this means a lot to me to even just see two people functioning and prospering whilst struggling with this disorder

    • @Rodviet
      @Rodviet 7 місяців тому +30

      I'm so happy for you 🥹 I don't have it but I've researched it a ton since Trisha mentioned her diagnosis, it's such a complicated illness to live with and it's so painful to see when people don't understand it and think the wrong things about you guys.
      Just know that some of us have done the research and support you, understand how hard it is to manage and respect you so much for being strong AF

    • @lilithinferno
      @lilithinferno 7 місяців тому +5

      ​@@Rodvietyou're an angel 🩷🩷🩷

    • @Bats_
      @Bats_ 7 місяців тому +8

      I feel seen.

    • @adzblue5969
      @adzblue5969 7 місяців тому +8

      I fully understand how you feel. I wish there was more easy to listen too bPd themed chats.

    • @pwetty4r4
      @pwetty4r4 7 місяців тому +7

      Ya'll remember when trisha first came out with this and everyone tried to cancel her?

  • @lilstoph
    @lilstoph 7 місяців тому +362

    Dear Moses, convince Trish to do this again. Usually a quiet Stan but this has been the most genuine episode I’ve seen. I love you and Brooke together, I watched the whole thing. You two are a dream team. ❤

  • @Petunia1738
    @Petunia1738 7 місяців тому +406

    Trisha sharing she has never experienced anxiety really explains how she can post the most outrageous and crazy videos embarrassing herself and literally not care about the backlash.

    • @keepItKeen
      @keepItKeen 4 місяці тому

      Love Trish. She got her own thing goin on.

  • @ajilliantimes
    @ajilliantimes 7 місяців тому +1126

    I love the fact that brooke and Tana openly discuss when they fight. It paints a good relationship of friends that can still fight and get their frustrations out and still remain bffs

  • @sinamae96
    @sinamae96 7 місяців тому +1127

    Hearing Brooke talk so lovingly about her grandmother makes me love her 10xs more. As a CNA in a memory care unit- dementia is hard. It’s the most unforgiving disease there is. It’s so important to not forget the person they ARE not what symptoms they are experiencing.

    • @user-nt1dq3cf7n
      @user-nt1dq3cf7n 7 місяців тому +18

      No because this is 100% correct. I’m a CNA as well in the long term/ memory care unit, and a nursing student this was my exact thoughts when they were talking about this. Before I ever knew anything or had any knowledge regarding the medical field my grandpa had dementia and it was so heart breaking and something I never really understood until I became a CNA. My heart breaks for Brooke, it really is a horrible disease but like I tell my patients families they are struggling so much and feel so lost in there own mind and body that it’s so important to make sure you treat them like you always have and don’t forget them as the person they once were because they may not understand or know but they have you too remember for them and try to make them feel like themselves, and not as the disease and symptoms that have taken over. I’ll never forget my first year being a CNA I lost a dementia patient that I felt so close too, and her family stopped coming to see her completely and when she was getting ready to pass it was almost like she was holding on and waiting for someone that never was coming. I sat with her my whole shift and even after I got off until she finally passed. It was the one patient that I lost that completely sent me in too a spiral and broke my heart.

    • @Larissa-up7lu
      @Larissa-up7lu 7 місяців тому +2

      My mom died from Early Onset Alzheimer’s and it really is the absolute worst.

    • @meowJACK
      @meowJACK 6 місяців тому +1

      ​@@user-nt1dq3cf7nthat's so heartbreaking 🥺💔 it's terrible that her family would just stop coming to see her because she's not acting like herself anymore... And leave her to die alone. Ffs people, she's still the person you love, even if she is very ill and no longer acting like the person you know 😭 Somewhere in her heart and mind she longed for the people she loved, and they weren't there. It never stops shocking me how humans find so many different ways to be terrible, in every situation...

    • @slhulla
      @slhulla 5 місяців тому

      This is an interesting perspective, cos I’ve been peripherally experiencing a situation where someone is still going to see their parent with dementia even though she’s become physically volatile and very very mean and all the visitor will say is ‘it’s not her’ - which I get, it isn’t, but at this point if the goal is to remember who this person was to you and still love them wouldn’t it make sense to stop seeing them at that point, if your physical safety is compromised?

  • @LifeofManders
    @LifeofManders 7 місяців тому +228

    I could literally watch Brooke and Trish talk for hours! It was so refreshing to listen to you guys open up about your struggles and making SO many people feel seen. This was a much needed podcast for the BPD community and definitely worth the wait!!

  • @sophiewilliamss
    @sophiewilliamss 7 місяців тому +109

    First time I’ve seen/heard BPD talked about to openly and honestly and I feel like I can take a breath out and say I RELATE! BPD is so hard to live with and makes me feel so comforted that Brooke and Trisha were so honest with eachother in their mental illness and I’m so glad I have them to watch 🖤 thank you!

  • @Silverroseflorals
    @Silverroseflorals 7 місяців тому +803

    I love Trish wearing her Bottega earring for this after saying on her last show with Tana that she got them because of their conversations. It’s such a small touch but shows a true friendship bond and a true desire to relate to these girls. Trish problematic or no deserves the world and I just love her.

    • @averyfletcher
      @averyfletcher 7 місяців тому +91

      And the way she slicked her hair back just like Brooke usually does…. There is truly no one like Trish ❤️

    • @anniehubbard5159
      @anniehubbard5159 7 місяців тому +8

      awwww i didn’t notice until i read this comment 🥹🤍

    • @mattyoung2603
      @mattyoung2603 7 місяців тому +2

      Yes❤

    • @allietracy3590
      @allietracy3590 7 місяців тому +6

      Yes! Look at her whole fit! She’s literally dressed up as Brooke ! ❤ so cute

    • @steph352
      @steph352 7 місяців тому

      trish is so cute love her 😌

  • @nfvy8111
    @nfvy8111 7 місяців тому +1035

    It’s SO validating to hear Brooke and Trisha talk about breakups while having BPD. I relate 100% to Brooke’s experience - I couldn’t eat, couldn’t sleep, woke up every day for weeks just filled with DREAD. Everything she said was spot on. It really does feel like somebody died.

    • @Lyney220
      @Lyney220 7 місяців тому +31

      This exactly. It’s like your soul is sucked out of you, or you’re missing a piece of yourself. It’s a very horrible feeling, like the world is ending.

    • @user-np8yf8fj2w
      @user-np8yf8fj2w 7 місяців тому +13

      I don't have BPD, isn't it normal to feel this way at least from one break up?

    • @Petunia1738
      @Petunia1738 7 місяців тому +7

      @@user-np8yf8fj2wno it’s not. It’s normal to grieve and feel sad but not to that degree.

    • @Schmuckfoo
      @Schmuckfoo 7 місяців тому +2

      @@user-np8yf8fj2wi was gonna say the same thing. So what? Does this mean I have bpd.

    • @maddiegrace9787
      @maddiegrace9787 7 місяців тому +1

      feltttttt

  • @Raphtacular
    @Raphtacular 7 місяців тому +183

    Trisha, you have no idea of the positive impact you're having by speaking about your experience with DBT. Honestly, as a therapist, it makes me so happy. People see you, they see your hard work, and then you give them information that might help them make positive changes themselves. Also, as a long term viewer, I just continue to be so incredibly proud of you and how far you've come. Well done 👏

    • @dilciaenid57
      @dilciaenid57 5 місяців тому +1

      What’s DTB - I’ll google lol

    • @Raphtacular
      @Raphtacular 5 місяців тому +3

      @@dilciaenid57 A type of therapy that can be effective with borderline personality disorder

  • @angiepennington5725
    @angiepennington5725 7 місяців тому +64

    Seeing how much Brooke and Trish relate is so heartwarming! They are both so kind and supportive, yet transparent in a way that few people will ever allow themselves to be.

  • @luizal4784
    @luizal4784 7 місяців тому +650

    I love how Trish is SUCH an amazing interviewer! You can tell Brooke is a lot more soft spoken than most of her guests and how much Trish changed the pace of her interviewing style to match Brooke's and make her comfortable, all the while still managing to make it as engaging as ever. Ps. Brooke is amazing as well, obviously, love her

    • @cross2venus
      @cross2venus 7 місяців тому +9

      So true 🥲😭 We love Trish for that!

  • @alexalex2639
    @alexalex2639 7 місяців тому +744

    Oh my god, I’m so happy Brooke is on a podcast by herself, shows how amazing she is on her own❤️❤️

    • @phcenix777
      @phcenix777 7 місяців тому +5

      For real!! I love her honestly

    • @exhaustedeloise
      @exhaustedeloise 7 місяців тому +3

      yesss! when they were talking about brooke being on this podcast on cancelled i was so excited to hear that it sounded like she did it alone! so glad to see this, i love brooke x

  • @Lyney220
    @Lyney220 7 місяців тому +116

    LOVE them for normalizing bpd and anxiety as someone who has both. I’ve felt crazy, unseen, and like an outcast because I didn’t think successful people had issues like that. Thank you!! Brooke is the best. I wish you two had a podcast like Cancelled.❤

  • @coralysbatista
    @coralysbatista 7 місяців тому +72

    Bring Brooke back! Honestly one of the sweetest and honest episodes ever! 💕

  • @Cgblu201
    @Cgblu201 7 місяців тому +248

    Your interviews don’t ever feel like interviews. They’re more like me hanging out with my friends and talking about anything and everything. The time always just flies by …Love Brooke ❤

  • @Idontknow-lm6bc
    @Idontknow-lm6bc 7 місяців тому +871

    This was the best episode of someone with borderline personality disorder Thank you guys so much for making me feel so seen I got diagnosed at 14 and now I’m 20 and I still struggle every day and everything you said about it I could relate to so much my best friend was bipolar, and she passed away and that was one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to go through. This episode is everything❤️

    • @sativalibra
      @sativalibra 7 місяців тому +8

      i'm so sorry for your loss love❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹 grieving the loss of a close friend is the absolute hardest thing to deal with when having bpd, i lost my best friend/ex love in april 2022 and i still can't wrap my head around it. my heart is absolutely with you💖💖💖

    • @bitchlasagna1
      @bitchlasagna1 7 місяців тому +10

      Felt. This community is so stifled and silenced and scrutinized. This is more representation than I’ve ever had which is sad because it’s just two peope

    • @wonderchild1465
      @wonderchild1465 7 місяців тому +2

      @@sativalibra 2

    • @cajuniky
      @cajuniky 7 місяців тому +1

      ❤️‍🩹💜🧡🩷❤️

    • @capsnerd
      @capsnerd 7 місяців тому +1

      ❤❤❤

  • @brookebixler1040
    @brookebixler1040 7 місяців тому +84

    *It’s super refreshing seeing you two ladies encourage, support, praise, and validate each other!!* *REAL women truly like seeing other women succeed!!* *#trishapaytas* *#brookeschofield*

  • @gabbiesantana
    @gabbiesantana 3 місяці тому +7

    i am genuinely sobbing throughout this entire podcast. i was recently diagnosed with BPD and hearing you guys talk so openly about it and describing every single thing i’ve felt my entire life is everything to me. for real, thank you so much for this episode

  • @sam.batman27
    @sam.batman27 7 місяців тому +307

    I love that y’all talk so openly about mental health and y’all’s experiences in “feeling crazy” it makes me feel less alone

  • @tanesha2347
    @tanesha2347 7 місяців тому +335

    Trish is naturally such a good interviewer

    • @Lyney220
      @Lyney220 7 місяців тому +8

      She really is though! She doesn’t speak over the guest, she asks great questions, tells great stories, etc. She is iconic!

  • @izzysadventures9105
    @izzysadventures9105 7 місяців тому +47

    32:47 hearing Brooke talk about her grandparents and the love she has for grandpa and how much she looks up to him, really tugged at my heart. I relate to her so much on this and the love she has for her grandparents. Sending you and grandparents love❤️

  • @emergencyasmr
    @emergencyasmr 7 місяців тому +54

    Another awful thing about having BPD is that we’re magnets for people with NPD or high narc traits so it’s common that we end up with people that mistreat and lie to us.
    I had a very similar experience with a guy that lied about absolutely everything. Including his age and when you finally see behind the curtain you definitely spiral because it’s so much to take in and I heavily relate to feeling like that person died
    I’m glad that Brooke is doing better now though. Nobody deserves to be lied to like that

  • @stink..
    @stink.. 7 місяців тому +339

    Brooke has such a likeable personality and she’s funny. I hope all the success for her

  • @MadiLikesToMove
    @MadiLikesToMove 7 місяців тому +139

    I love that Trish wore her Bottega earrings for an interview with Brooke. What a solid friend, you can tell she's really strategic and intentional with little details!

  • @maxgaloozis9026
    @maxgaloozis9026 6 місяців тому +20

    The way these two have a genuine relationship makes me cry tears of joy. Love love love both of you

  • @annalisexo8501
    @annalisexo8501 7 місяців тому +25

    trish is so fantastic at getting people to talk, i loved being able to hear so much from brooke in this episode

  • @peterh7278
    @peterh7278 7 місяців тому +207

    As a therapist this was such a heartwarming episode to watch. Please keep doing what you’re doing Trish!! ❤️

  • @GlitterkatL
    @GlitterkatL 7 місяців тому +102

    Trish channeling Brooke with the earrings and slicked back pony tail is everythingggg ✨

  • @azalenadowlearn5215
    @azalenadowlearn5215 7 місяців тому +18

    "Never meet your idols," I met tana years and years ago, and my friend and I got so flustered because she vlogged us (we made her geo filters on snapchat) but anyways maybe 30 minutes after her met and greet we asked her body gaurds if we could go back up and take pictures bc we forget to and she let us up alone with all her friends to take pictures. Such a great person, brooke and trish seem so genuine and kind as well.

    • @Coloradogranola
      @Coloradogranola 7 місяців тому

      I think she means this by don’t take the chance of ruining the “magic” of your idol cause most celebs won’t be as kind in every single fan interaction. Catch a celeb on a bad day and your view would be ruined and feeling would be hurt. It’s like the same concept of don’t work for your favorite restaurant cause then you’ll hate it

  • @emilymarie2548
    @emilymarie2548 7 місяців тому +21

    I love how pure this is! They’re genuinely interested in one another, with little judgement, and girls supporting girl vibes ❤

  • @SabrinaHawk
    @SabrinaHawk 7 місяців тому +184

    wow,, i got so emotional when they were discussing her loving grandparents. i lost my grandmother last summer, and she had dementia during her last 18 months. im glad brooke was able to muster the strength to speak on it, as it is something so many of us have had to go through. i hope she finds the time to be able to visit with her parents. gentle hugs to anyone who has lost their grandparents

  • @allisonnn1998
    @allisonnn1998 7 місяців тому +157

    As a fellow BPD girlie with crippling anxiety and panic disorder, I knew exactly what Brooke was talking about when describing her anxiety. In that moment it literally feels like we’re dying, but then afterwards I feel ridiculous for being that anxious. It’s such a real and visceral experience.

  • @kaitlyncooke4788
    @kaitlyncooke4788 7 місяців тому +14

    As a person with both bpd and bi polar II it's really nice to hear them talk about this without a bad undertone like it's just genuine and sharing experiences and it makes me feel so much better and more normal to understand other people experience this

  • @nickjonaslover396
    @nickjonaslover396 7 місяців тому +8

    The whole convo about them wishing they were injured and being like “everyone did this” is so BPD coded omfg

  • @serenabruyns3008
    @serenabruyns3008 7 місяців тому +179

    as someone w BPD whose been in an extremely toxic relationship listening to you both talk about it so openly was so beautiful to me. so happy Brooke was able to open up about this with Trish because I know how hard it was on her but you can see how much Trisha genuinely cares and understands Brooke and where shes coming from. this podcast has such healing energy :')

  • @omgitsbellababe
    @omgitsbellababe 7 місяців тому +290

    Brooke describing the feeling of panic is so real for me. I have BPD and when I’m in one of those mindsets it’s like you cant control the emotions rushing in. Sometimes I get old triggers that come randomly. Or sometimes I’m trigger by things that happened in my old relationship. Like if my husband doesn’t answer my phone calls, I feel SO panicked. Bc one of my exes would ignore me for days and I would call him like 40 times. So my past relationship effect my current. And back then I didn’t know I had bpd so I was so irrational but I didn’t know how to control it. Now I’ve gotten better at recognizing when my emotions are taking over and I can stop, think, & take time to respond. BUT it’s not easy and some days I really can’t stop myself from outbursts of anger/irritation or feelings of anxiety. Just know it’s a long journey to heal but with bpd I don’t think we ever will. 😢

    • @trailertrish
      @trailertrish 7 місяців тому +7

      this video made me realize i have it. ❤ i feel less alone hearing other peope say things ive experienced. ❤❤❤

    • @alexgross29
      @alexgross29 7 місяців тому +3

      I can totally relate to that panic anxiety feeling. I’m struggling with it right now and it’s unbearable. Thank you for sharing ❤

    • @kobekjl13
      @kobekjl13 7 місяців тому +4

      @@alexgross29I went through this several years ago and nobody understood. I felt like I lost everything and my life was over. I couldn’t sleep and the anxiety/feeling was unexplainable. I’m so happy she talked about it because I immediately knew the feeling and felt validated and not alone. Just know you’re not alone and it does get better, I never thought I would feel better but over time I did. It breaks my heart that you’re going through this and I’m sending you love ❤️. It takes time and healing but i promise it does get better.

    • @juliaanise9108
      @juliaanise9108 7 місяців тому +6

      If I see one of my exs or if I ever got a notification from them it’s like an immediate panic attack

    • @capsnerd
      @capsnerd 7 місяців тому

      @@kobekjl13❤❤❤

  • @Dybwmlt
    @Dybwmlt 6 місяців тому +12

    Brooke is the definition of “she’s just like us” she’s a girl who’s maybe not made for LA but is strong enough to take it on and be real about it. Stan card!

  • @serenagilbert1483
    @serenagilbert1483 6 місяців тому +14

    This ep was SO SO good, Trish asked the best questions and just had the best topics! Literally love her she's just the coolest and her and Trisha's chemistry is so good. It was super cool to get to know this deep personal side of Brooke! Especially when it comes to her mental health struggles/anxiety; its so relatable and Brooke's someone who just like the super pretty cool girl and looks like she just has it all together all the time and its really comforting to see everyone has their shit behind the scenes and everything's not just so surface level. Id loveee for you to have her back on

  • @addieschwartz7095
    @addieschwartz7095 7 місяців тому +236

    My ex lied about having cancer and 6 months left to live AND having a daughter when he didnt... I feel you brookie

    • @kaitlyns9972
      @kaitlyns9972 7 місяців тому +51

      What is WRONG with these people my lord

    • @addieschwartz7095
      @addieschwartz7095 7 місяців тому

      @@kaitlyns9972 names jon keir since I'm getting so many likes everyone watch out lmao

    • @Mkay999
      @Mkay999 7 місяців тому +26

      The most unhinged part of that for me was lying about a kid you don’t have. Lol who lies about being a single parent

    • @BlBBLE
      @BlBBLE 7 місяців тому +7

      that’s insane

    • @ykook7000
      @ykook7000 7 місяців тому +12

      Men will LIE about everything from the smallest thing to the biggest most complicated soap opera storyline thing

  • @user-sm1ut5pt1d
    @user-sm1ut5pt1d 7 місяців тому +276

    You are both so amazing for being so vulnerable to tell your stories that are what we can battle everyday.

  • @camrynghall
    @camrynghall 7 місяців тому +31

    I LOVE BROOKE SO MUCHHHH, I love how vulnerable she is this episode. You can tell how genuine she truly is, I loved this episode🧡

  • @Zo-weee
    @Zo-weee 7 місяців тому +7

    I’ve been watching Trisha since I was in high school and she’s always helped to get me through whatever I was going through. Her videos made me feel less alone when I felt like no one else would understand me. Hearing Brooke’s story has been so special. Our childhoods were very similar, and i’ve been having trouble processing my feelings, and hearing her speak on her parents addiction with such grace and empathy is so beautiful and helpful. Thank you for your vulnerability🫶

  • @lizzybarretto1997
    @lizzybarretto1997 7 місяців тому +112

    I love that Trish always tries to be matchy with the guests as an ode to them ❤️🖤 it’s so sweet and fun!! Love Brooke so much this is a great episode 🫶🏻

    • @capsnerd
      @capsnerd 7 місяців тому +4

      yessss its so cute

    • @rileymosiniak3073
      @rileymosiniak3073 7 місяців тому +4

      Brooke even said in her past vlog that she bought something pink to match with Trish!! So obsessed with these two and Tana’s friendship ❤

  • @celinasellers2366
    @celinasellers2366 7 місяців тому +103

    brooke is so well spoken. you two together is a breath of fresh air. i love you guys! thank you trish for the consistent uploading and amazing guests

  • @NinaAnnMarie
    @NinaAnnMarie 5 місяців тому +28

    I relate to a lot of this so much, sincerely questioning if I have BPD. Loved this podcast.

    • @hellofriend2109
      @hellofriend2109 3 місяці тому

      What I can recommend if you think you have bpd, is look into treatment and type of therapies they have. I used to be consumed with the diagnosis but if I really felt like it resonated it with me, I would get the work books and treat myself with the healing it recommends and it improved things so much

  • @Camillassofia
    @Camillassofia 7 місяців тому +38

    I love seeing BPD presented like this. We need more adults over 25+ talking about these disorders.
    Also girl what? Brooke looks so freaking good and young. I thought she was like 23 before this but we are the same age. Gorgeous 😱😍👌

    • @poortraits
      @poortraits 5 місяців тому +8

      Bruh the way that people in their early 20s talk about people in their late 20s is like we r approaching our death bed

    • @jjjiiddppeew1810
      @jjjiiddppeew1810 2 місяці тому

      She’s literally only 27….wth are you talking about?

  • @Savannahh__love
    @Savannahh__love 7 місяців тому +35

    I feel like with the nursing degree Brooke could do celebrity IV’s and still be an influencer. Kind of like Dr. Miami

  • @CC-tc1yi
    @CC-tc1yi 7 місяців тому +94

    As someone with a life long panic disorder (so far, and now medicated), I really appreciate your sensitivity around using anxiety as a label. There’s definitely a difference between worrying and anxiety. Panic is a whole other level! I feel that people overuse the term ‘anxiety’ which dilutes it and adds stigma to it (I.e. “just get over it”). ❤

  • @MB-px7en
    @MB-px7en 7 місяців тому +6

    Trish is SO good at this. I really saw how conversational she is with Brooke and all the topics she's bringing up. She really knew this guest well, and it showed with how much they spoke and how it just felt like a real conversation and not an interview.

  • @cuixinshi
    @cuixinshi 7 місяців тому +8

    Brooke was the only person Tana collaborated with or best friends with that I feel she’s a genuinely down to earth and hard working person.

  • @itsjessicakamelamela3657
    @itsjessicakamelamela3657 7 місяців тому +87

    I’ve been waitin for this one!! Truly Trish, you have become such an icon and to see you rise all over again. Is so heartwarming

  • @Bloody.Kisses
    @Bloody.Kisses 7 місяців тому +147

    I really needed this video today I have been struggling managing my bpd lately. I just feel so disconnected from everyone and hearing both of you relate is really helping me not feel so odd about myself. Thank you for this episode sending much love to you Brook & Trish 💕

    • @kbotelho8976
      @kbotelho8976 7 місяців тому +1

      Sending you hugs!! ❤️

    • @rippkai
      @rippkai 7 місяців тому +2

      this is exactly how i’m feeling, i’m so grateful for them!!!

    • @kaitlyns9972
      @kaitlyns9972 7 місяців тому +1

      There are more of us than you think! You aren’t odd, I promise ❤

    • @Inthemorningisay
      @Inthemorningisay 7 місяців тому +1

      BPD here. ❤️ We’re not alone. Sending you sooo much love.

  • @katie2123
    @katie2123 6 місяців тому +4

    this is my comfort video, i’ve watched the whole thing like 6 times

  • @charlierefa7483
    @charlierefa7483 7 місяців тому +14

    I am so genuinely happy for Brooke, she deserves all of this, she genuinely seems like such a good person

  • @kykyann17
    @kykyann17 7 місяців тому +36

    I lost my father from dementia in 2017. Seeing him go from a 250 pound man to 120 pound man, watching him, search my face for my name. Things I will never forget. Be kind and patient with yourself during this time and cherish those days together with your grandma. ❤️ I am so sorry for your heavy pain you’re feeling you’re strong and I look up to you!

  • @neonclawsavie
    @neonclawsavie 7 місяців тому +69

    LOVED. This episode, two sweethearts talking for 2 hours, thank you for the realness, thank you for the energy and thank you for being you! I’m glad this podcast was so enjoyable for the both of you 😽

  • @shannoncheh6323
    @shannoncheh6323 5 місяців тому +6

    Hearing Brooke talk about Matt now is wildddd

  • @fional8752
    @fional8752 7 місяців тому +4

    I love how open and vulnerable this whole conversation casually is. You are both amazing

  • @anguswhite3425
    @anguswhite3425 7 місяців тому +46

    As someone with BPD, this was so validating. I feel so seen and comforted by your vulnerability and discussions. Thank you both!❤

  • @kateh2078
    @kateh2078 7 місяців тому +165

    When I say I NEEDED this episode with Brooke, it's severely an understatement! I've been so upset this morning and this is the only thing that's helped me stop crying. I love you both so much! 🥰

    • @StephanieJamesKeenan
      @StephanieJamesKeenan 7 місяців тому

      You are too gorgeous to be crying. Better not be crying over a boy!!

    • @capsnerd
      @capsnerd 7 місяців тому +5

      hope u feel better ❤

    • @ciarachris
      @ciarachris 7 місяців тому +3

      Definitely been there- love that we can tune into just Trish for a few hrs a week 🩷 hope you feel a bit better

    • @Lyney220
      @Lyney220 7 місяців тому +1

      Hope you’re feeling better❤

    • @oliviac422
      @oliviac422 7 місяців тому +2

      I hope you’re having a better day today ❤

  • @brittdaycake
    @brittdaycake 7 місяців тому +15

    I never knew all of this about Brooke😭 I’m so glad she came on and shared more about herself because we love her

  • @gracec22
    @gracec22 2 місяці тому +4

    Brooke calling Matt rife a good guy in this is so funny watching this now 😭

  • @SafeSpacewithSierra
    @SafeSpacewithSierra 7 місяців тому +48

    Loved this conversation. First time I’ve heard more about Brooke’s background and mental health. Trish is a good interviewer

  • @EmilyTianaCampy
    @EmilyTianaCampy 7 місяців тому +81

    Genuinely, Trish is a phenomenal interviewer !

  • @alesha_leigh
    @alesha_leigh 5 місяців тому +4

    until recently i hadn’t met anyone else who was diagnosed with bpd like me. watching trish always helped me feel not alone and it’s refreshing to see brooke being vulnerable about it also 🖤

  • @prettyskies8674
    @prettyskies8674 7 місяців тому +7

    This is my first time seeing Brooke and I love herr. She seems really down to earth. It’s so refreshing to see someone talk about mental health issues so openly.

  • @Jacquelynnn955
    @Jacquelynnn955 7 місяців тому +43

    I admire Brooke SO much. She’s been through so much, I’m really glad she got her moment with Trish to share in this way. I dated a guy who was legit a psychopath & he lied about w everything as well. He was cheating on me with multiple girls while also being on the phone with me constantly somehow, it ruined me. I lost so much weight and spiraled as well. Luckily that was years ago, but I sooo relate to that experience. I’m so glad she’s speaking on it. I love seeing Trish so happy, I’m wishing the same for Brooke 💗💗💗

  • @BIGTIMERUSHFAN28227
    @BIGTIMERUSHFAN28227 7 місяців тому +34

    I haven’t been officially diagnosed with BPD but hearing both of your perspectives makes me feel so validated in my own journey and possible diagnosis, without even speaking I feel so heard and seen. Thank you ❤

  • @maddieyoung9138
    @maddieyoung9138 7 місяців тому +2

    I loved this interview so much. It was so nice to see Brooke get asked all the questions and get so much love from Trisha! Trisha you are so kind to Tana and Brooke and I’m so glad that you three have connected and formed a friendship. I’m excited to see you on the cancelled podcast hopefully again soon! This made my day at work much better (listening to it on and off while I work) 🩷 you guys are awesome!

  • @Natalie_B98
    @Natalie_B98 7 місяців тому +11

    I could listen to this podcast on repeat again, and again their chemistry was so good and I got to learn so much more about BPD through this, and how nuanced it can be. Please have Brooke on again!!!

  • @staceyleenagavard7051
    @staceyleenagavard7051 7 місяців тому +14

    Brooke is my actual favourite. I’m 37 and I love watching Trish and Brooke together this is perfect.

  • @paula92111
    @paula92111 7 місяців тому +34

    So excited to have Brooke on!! She seems so sweet

  • @lindsaydeisher7110
    @lindsaydeisher7110 4 місяці тому +1

    this is so hard to talk about thank you for sharing brooke. my grandma also passed away from dementia and im juggling with a bipolar disorder diagnosis and possibly BPD. really really meaningful to hear vulnerability from people in the social media world. sending love and prayers to you and others dealing with this too

  • @jsimpson518
    @jsimpson518 7 місяців тому +3

    Watching this has made me realize I have so much in common with Brooke! I’ve always seen clips of her and Tana’s podcast on TikTok but never really pursed her content but I’m def following her on everything now. I loooooove her vibe and energy so much! And I love how open she is with everything she experiences in life. Love love love her

  • @sadiesmom10
    @sadiesmom10 7 місяців тому +20

    I love how Brooke’s calm demeanor made Trisha seem calm and zen. This was a great duo ❤

  • @sienaaa11
    @sienaaa11 7 місяців тому +29

    this episode is about to make me cry talking about bpd is so refreshing to hear and relate to🥹i love you guys

  • @kimskrackin
    @kimskrackin 7 місяців тому +3

    when brooke said "i feel like everybody's mentally ill" that blew my mind bc i was just thinking that today. as ive learned more ab mental illness in recent years and kind of obsess over how i act ive been paying more attention to people too & i swear everyone got something but i also realize alot of ppl just dont know how to communicate in effective ways/ deal with emotions positively

  • @nicolejaneeabold
    @nicolejaneeabold 7 місяців тому +17

    This episode was everything that we have wanted!!!!!! We are seriously loving the friendships blossoming!!!!!!! I think this is gonna be such an amazing girl group!!! ❤

  • @Inthemorningisay
    @Inthemorningisay 7 місяців тому +26

    Brooke, thank you for speaking up about BPD. It’s so stigmatized and it’s great to see someone with your exposure to be open about it. I highly suggest therapy. ❤️ I waited years to do so because I didn’t think I needed it and it’s one thing I regret in my life. You’re right, symptoms are amplified during relationships. But, there are other things - like spending that are connected to BPD. Thank you again ❤

  • @rilphia
    @rilphia 7 місяців тому +14

    First episode of anyone I’ve seen in a long time that was so real and so honest about every topic that came up. True open conversation is so beautiful 😭

  • @ryelleoconnor117
    @ryelleoconnor117 7 місяців тому +4

    this conversation made me feel so seen and understood. thank you brooke and trisha for creating a safe space for the fellow crazy girls

  • @cyber_sarahtonin
    @cyber_sarahtonin 7 місяців тому +3

    Easily my favourite episode that Brooke featured as a guest on. Surprisingly Trish and her click on such a genuine level and it’s sooo nice to see for both of them! Trish had a way of really getting Brooke to open up and I was fully engaged start to end

  • @alexisbeebe6358
    @alexisbeebe6358 7 місяців тому +47

    Omg I’ve felt such a connection to Brooke & just felt like I have so much in common with her & now I know why we’re both suffering the same mental illness. Love you Brooke

    • @alyssa9730
      @alyssa9730 7 місяців тому

      Exactly. Have always loved her and related and I’m like shit… thank you for sharing 🥹

    • @Lyney220
      @Lyney220 7 місяців тому

      Yeah I was starting to wonder why I liked her so much and related to her so much, now I see why!

  • @karlyridley7089
    @karlyridley7089 7 місяців тому +25

    this is my favourite episode by far, trisha you are such an amazing interviewer, you could tell how comfortable brooke was especially the longer you guys talked and I feel like brooke has such an amazing personality but might be afraid that people won’t like her on her own so she is afraid to completely be herself at first and doesn’t realize how much people love her!!! Trisha is such a kind soul who you can tell genuinely connects and feels for every guest she brings on ❤️❤️

  • @christiandeniz
    @christiandeniz 6 місяців тому +2

    One of the best podcast episodes! I didn’t know who she was before but she made a great interview guest and Trisha new all the right questions to ask back to back to back regarding mental health, BPD, and obsessive compulsive behavior. Gave me lots to think about and loved the transparency and the light shed on disorders that are so common but people understand so little about 🏆🥇 Great episode

  • @smvoges
    @smvoges 5 місяців тому +1

    i wish i could listen to you two talk forever. this conversation feels so safe. i’m 30 w bpd and this is just so real

  • @BekaWrekaT90
    @BekaWrekaT90 7 місяців тому +20

    Thank you both for being so honest and open. I've never felt more understood than when you both started talking about wanting to relate to someone in conversation so you can connect with them. And tell them you get it cause you went through something similar. And people think you're making it about you.
    It's like another level of trying to connect with someone other than normal mundane conversation.
    This is by far my favorite episode yet!

  • @orion1736
    @orion1736 7 місяців тому +58

    I love you both and thank you for speaking about BPD! It’s so hard to live with and there is still so much misinformation about it. You both are gorgeous and so kind!

    • @luvbug2571
      @luvbug2571 7 місяців тому +1

      This podcast made me come to a realization that I indeed have something wrong with me LOL I do everything brooke does, the calls and texts and being overly aware of my crazy behavior, I wonder how many other people feel seen from this and realize that we need help because it’s not normal

  • @crockitty2069
    @crockitty2069 7 місяців тому +3

    I have so much respect for you two for being vulnerable about dealing with mental health. We love you two so much

  • @heatherdaniels648
    @heatherdaniels648 7 місяців тому +59

    Love how honest & vulnerable this interview is ❤