The match-maker should take full responsibility for Angela's predicament. They know darn well this Jintoad is a lost cause but they continue to push for Jintoad and Angela to get married! It's all about number of views and selling their products. Shame on Jintoad for beating his wife! The match-maker should step in and make sure Angela is safe. They should compensate Angela for all the trauma! Please send her home safely.
Ces vrais elle doit rendre dans notre continent africain. Nous sommes vraiment désolé noir je pensais que le malade pouvait changer. Mais nom @@rebeccansafou2151
J’avais écrit ce message hier sans savoir que cela allait arriver les heures suivantes. Cette n’est pas heureuse . C’est comme si on l’a privé de sa vie de jeunesse. Ce Jintao ses frères et sœurs mariés sauf lui parce qu’il a un problème et ils le savent bien.
Oui et non, car l'a en quelque sorte chercher. On ne joue pas au poker avec sa vie. Elle voulait une vie de princesse, elle a une vie de misère. Triste 😢@@bibig278
To all African women, get to know these Chinese men. Although they dont have enough women in the area they live in theres a reason for that! And there is a reason they are in their thirties and not married, ask why and get to know them, let those men know what you want your husband and family to look like also.
Well said! Address the elephant in the room! Even before the wedding he was showing violent behaviour. JT needs psychiatric help. Angelina needs to be released from this fake marriage.
Mr. Matchmaker, you are to blame. Angina was told about Jintao by someone in his village. It was a negative comment that made Angina worried at the time. Mr. Matchmaker tried to do damage control, and told Angina that the person that told her bad things about Jintao was lying, and that she Angina should trust the Matchmaker. I have said before that Jintao seems to be intellectually challenged, and have mental issues. How can a so called grown man refuses to take a bath? Are they intimate, is he making demands on her? We women value our health. Angina deserves better. She is young and beautiful and should be enjoying her new marriage, instead of the opposite. What a nightmare!!! Mr. Matchmaker, please inform her mother, and send her back to her mother in Africa. This was an ill fated match. 😢
It's Angela decision to marry Jintao n it's up to her whether to carry on tis marriage to work out or nt. We, as a third party, cannot convene nor interfere
@ 3:33 - is he saying that Anita fears Jintao will kill her if she stays? Seriously, this is not a joke. How many incidents is it going to take for them all to acknowledge that Jintao is unstable and dangerous? Is everyone waiting for him to hurt Anita before they take it seriously?
Lorsque Anita faisait ses caprices au pays personne ne la comprenait et c’est justement avait analysé le danger qu’elle courait en se mariant avec Jintao . Avec le marketing et l’appui des parents, elle a voulu essayer. C’est dommage
Domestic violence is not love! Shame on anyone who encourages someone to stay in a relationship like that! She can't do more. Jintao should have worked on himself before getting married.
@@chatelefrance2719Elle a aussi réprimander que ce n'est pas de l'amour OK. Et elle a raison ! Ce couple ne va pas depuis le départ. On force Anita avec des scénario bidon de pseudo amour mais quand tu vois le regard d'Anita. Elle ne ressent rien. Et le mari est dégoûté d'Anita au point où dès qu'elle essaye de le toucher avec tendresse, il a repousse donc ce n'est pas de l'amour.
I totally agree with you. Anita is unhappy, she is forced to act out love scenes when we see that there is no feeling. On the contrary, the husband pushes Anita away each time when he touches her. What does it take for people to understand that love is not about arguing, especially at the start of a marriage? They're supposed to be on their honeymoon, I remind you. Let Anita go home
Yep, her mother was there the first time he acted out, didn’t shower and got aggressive. In the scheme of things, she was happy to continue shopping, getting a new phone, accepting gifts and cash, knowing full well her daughter would be miserable in that environment. It really seems like a “can’t back down now “ situation for Anita.
@fireofmoonwiccan she saw everything and she still allows the marriage to take over, incase anything bad happens to her daughter she will be the one to be blamed and another thing Anita is so beautiful to settle down with that Man
Who knew one of the biggest hurdles would be getting Jintao to take baths? It definitely feels like an Asperger Syndrome situation. I have folks on the spectrum in my family. Good people but it's a rough life journey. They don't change easily. Some traits they never change. Sometimes they don't change at all. And they get stressed and stressful if you try to change them. It's a hard road to travel on.
Give you a diagnosis but if it's not true how will he take it?! Well, I hope that's not true because for little Anita. It can't be easy. And this marriage will then be a poisoned gift for her.
I will pray that Angina find the strenght to leave this crazy husband of hers, I knew something was off about him in a bad way, these men should be ashamed of themselves, they decieved this young woman, can't wait until karma comes for all of them.
@GrooveyRain even if she has the strength which I believe she does. Hang and other match makers have to purchase her ticket. But I believe this is the 3rd time he has showed aggression. Seen it during the wedding when he yanked her hand and Angelina grimaced at that. Sad all together it's about money.
@Beautifultomorrow530 This comment needs to be pinned!!! You have recognized what I've seen from day one. He is a functioning autistic man. It is not his fault, but his parents, cousin, and matchmaker knew he didn't have the capacity to be in an adult relationship. It's very unfair for Anita to be chained to a man that has to be coddled and prodded due to that disease.
They had the obligation to tell her that she was going to marry and agressive psychiatric patient. She is still young and lot of people don’t know anything about autisme and especially autistic that cannot live a “normal” life and are agressive . maybe you hoped for the best but there is no best with autistics of this category .. if they are in the worden side of autism then you can not change them just tolerated them and lot can not live with another person as these persons get on their nerves and they will get agressive . Jintao must live alone and maybe he can be guided to take a shower m, brush his teeth once or twice a week so they can get intimate without killing the girl. But she must know it si bad…so you have to tell her what kind of live that will be. Lonesome in a strange country raising a kid alone.. And if Jintao parents die who will financially support her. Is she staying behind with a mentally sick man without any income to raise their children, You will look into it and tell her the options . Or let her go without asking back any money from her parents .
I know this fight would come because Jintoa has been wearing this same set of clothes for maybe over two weeks more. He is not a hygienic person when it comes to taking care of his body. Anita will not stand for that. I hope he knows that Anita is not his baby sitter or his mother. Anita is his wife.
As I said in an earlier comment weeks ago, In Paraphrasing: this man may be on the spectrum...,and somethings not right with this man(Jintao). This is all speculation, no diagnosis here. I'm wondering in this whole story-who/whom is really in need of psychological help. Anita doesn't seem to be a person who will allow someone to hit her and she not hitting back.
Don’t agree how do explain the situation of scars on Jintaos face? She doesn’t look the type to just foolishly takes physical abuse seriously she looks like she is fighting him back self defence.
Bonjour, j’espère que mon message va arriver à cet homme ??? Monsieur si Angelina meurt ça sera de votre faute ‼️‼️‼️vous serez responsable de sa mort, son mari est très très dangereux ‼️‼️‼️ S.O.S s’il vous plaît arrêtez ce mariage et sauvez Angelina‼️‼️‼️‼️
Il faut sauver Angelina!😢 Prévenir le consulat afin que l'on vienne l'extraire, non seulement son pervers de mari peut la tuer, mais ma crainte est qu'Angelina mette elle même fin à ses jours...Ça m'angoisse !!🥺🥺🥺
Jintao can be normal if he wants He has to change or they divorce his parents friends Cousin have tried Before giving up on him they allowed him to have a chance and opportunity
Its probably ASD l. He should speak with a therapist to understand the expectations of marriage and she to understand his syndromes. How to manage life with it and understand him better. They can also agree some rules and work these through with a therapist.
A Marriage needs both partners to work it out... Understanding, Trust n Care n Love for each other. These r d VOWS they Agreed n Promised to each other in front of d Counsellor
Then there are times when common sense kicks you like a donkey and you know it’s time to walk away, run away, flee, turbo out, sail away, fly away, just get tf out of the situation.
True. They have asked the couple a number of times to call it quits, but both said they will stay together. But if it is like this then Anita must make up her mind to either go back to Zambia or stay with the guy. Then they should work it out on their own. No marriage can survive with so many people involved, they have to figure it out by themselves.
Why not? He convinced her. He convinced the family. He vouched for the man. He didn’t disclose his disability. He assured everyone he was just a so called normal guy who couldn’t afford Chinese bride price knowing full well the man had a problem
Mr Match maker and other assistants you have done all you can. Also neglecting your own family to help out the union. Anita and Jintao are not a match. Start thinking of an amicable exit for each of them.
No wander this family is having problems. Matchmaker has been the head of this family. He has been planning a day for Jintao and Anjella. I don't believe that Jintao is man enough for a lady. To me he behaves like something that needs to be controlled by a remote. He's not good for a beginner.
there is the problem that her parents have e to pay the dowry and think they don’t have the money anymore. SO I don’t know if there is a law that if the husband is causing you harm you can get a divorce and even get compensation for the trauma. If not the parents of Jintao and the matchmaker need to come with a solution : maybe They must not live together. You can still stay married and even have a baby without living together. I pity Angelina as she will be alone but maybe that is the best way. Enjoy the good thing but don’t live together as Jintao cannot tolerate company.
The match-maker should take full responsibility for Angela's predicament. They know darn well this Jintoad is a lost cause but they continue to push for Jintoad and Angela to get married! It's all about number of views and selling their products. Shame on Jintoad for beating his wife! The match-maker should step in and make sure Angela is safe. They should compensate Angela for all the trauma! Please send her home safely.
Je ne comprends pas pourquoi ils insistent ! Laisser Anita rentrer chez elle... elle n'a pas signé pour mourir!!!!
Ces vrais elle doit rendre dans notre continent africain. Nous sommes vraiment désolé noir je pensais que le malade pouvait changer. Mais nom @@rebeccansafou2151
J’avais écrit ce message hier sans savoir que cela allait arriver les heures suivantes. Cette n’est pas heureuse . C’est comme si on l’a privé de sa vie de jeunesse. Ce Jintao ses frères et sœurs mariés sauf lui parce qu’il a un problème et ils le savent bien.
Oui et non, car l'a en quelque sorte chercher. On ne joue pas au poker avec sa vie.
Elle voulait une vie de princesse, elle a une vie de misère. Triste 😢@@bibig278
Thank you! I've been talking about it since the beginning, I'm overwhelmed... it wasn't a good match, they knew it but still pushed 😒😩
To all African women, get to know these Chinese men. Although they dont have enough women in the area they live in theres a reason for that! And there is a reason they are in their thirties and not married, ask why and get to know them, let those men know what you want your husband and family to look like also.
Well said! Address the elephant in the room! Even before the wedding he was showing violent behaviour. JT needs psychiatric help. Angelina needs to be released from this fake marriage.
Please intervene and take her out of this dangerous situation. Please don’t just sit online talking. This is a life!
Mr. Matchmaker, you are to blame. Angina was told about Jintao by someone in his village. It was a negative comment that made Angina worried at the time. Mr. Matchmaker tried to do damage control, and told Angina that the person that told her bad things about Jintao was lying, and that she Angina should trust the Matchmaker. I have said before that Jintao seems to be intellectually challenged, and have mental issues. How can a so called grown man refuses to take a bath? Are they intimate, is he making demands on her? We women value our health.
Angina deserves better. She is young and beautiful and should be enjoying her new marriage, instead of the opposite. What a nightmare!!! Mr. Matchmaker, please inform her mother, and send her back to her mother in Africa. This was an ill fated match. 😢
It's Angela decision to marry Jintao n it's up to her whether to carry on tis marriage to work out or nt.
We, as a third party, cannot convene nor interfere
I never respect hang for damage control and not intervene ignoring the consequences of his actions sending Antia back home.
Jintao needs a psychologist. He needs help.
This marriage has been full of drama.... from visa delay to some scandals then a fight ..... hope the end will be fine🎉❤
@ 3:33 - is he saying that Anita fears Jintao will kill her if she stays? Seriously, this is not a joke. How many incidents is it going to take for them all to acknowledge that Jintao is unstable and dangerous? Is everyone waiting for him to hurt Anita before they take it seriously?
Très bonne question ! Elle a été trompée dès le départ sur les troubles de ce monsieur ! Ça ce voit,il n'y a pas d'attirance entre eux...
Lorsque Anita faisait ses caprices au pays personne ne la comprenait et c’est justement avait analysé le danger qu’elle courait en se mariant avec Jintao . Avec le marketing et l’appui des parents, elle a voulu essayer. C’est dommage
That is true send her home to mother pls don't take time
Retourner cette fille à ses parents avant que le pire des choses lui arrive.
Domestic violence is not love! Shame on anyone who encourages someone to stay in a relationship like that! She can't do more. Jintao should have worked on himself before getting married.
Beating & scolding are not love. No one should be beaten in a relationship. This isn't an isolated incident. It should be addressed
Il a dit dispute et toi tu parles de battre. Je ne comprends rien 🤷
@@chatelefrance2719Elle a aussi réprimander que ce n'est pas de l'amour OK. Et elle a raison !
Ce couple ne va pas depuis le départ. On force Anita avec des scénario bidon de pseudo amour mais quand tu vois le regard d'Anita.
Elle ne ressent rien. Et le mari est dégoûté d'Anita au point où dès qu'elle essaye de le toucher avec tendresse, il a repousse donc ce n'est pas de l'amour.
I totally agree with you. Anita is unhappy, she is forced to act out love scenes when we see that there is no feeling. On the contrary, the husband pushes Anita away each time when he touches her. What does it take for people to understand that love is not about arguing, especially at the start of a marriage? They're supposed to be on their honeymoon, I remind you. Let Anita go home
@chatelefrance2719 My translation said beating around 0:21-0:23. Beating, fighting constant arguing, none of them are good.
I still blame Angelina's mother coz even she she saw the red flags and still she allows her daughter to get married to a mad man who does that 😔
Yep, her mother was there the first time he acted out, didn’t shower and got aggressive. In the scheme of things, she was happy to continue shopping, getting a new phone, accepting gifts and cash, knowing full well her daughter would be miserable in that environment. It really seems like a “can’t back down now “ situation for Anita.
@fireofmoonwiccan she saw everything and she still allows the marriage to take over, incase anything bad happens to her daughter she will be the one to be blamed and another thing Anita is so beautiful to settle down with that Man
Who knew one of the biggest hurdles would be getting Jintao to take baths? It definitely feels like an Asperger Syndrome situation. I have folks on the spectrum in my family. Good people but it's a rough life journey. They don't change easily. Some traits they never change. Sometimes they don't change at all. And they get stressed and stressful if you try to change them. It's a hard road to travel on.
Let's call a spade a spade. I agree, he does not like to bathe. I have been watching him in the same clothes for so long.
Give you a diagnosis but if it's not true how will he take it?! Well, I hope that's not true because for little Anita. It can't be easy. And this marriage will then be a poisoned gift for her.
I will pray that Angina find the strenght to leave this crazy husband of hers, I knew something was off about him in a bad way, these men should be ashamed of themselves, they decieved this young woman, can't wait until karma comes for all of them.
@GrooveyRain even if she has the strength which I believe she does. Hang and other match makers have to purchase her ticket. But I believe this is the 3rd time he has showed aggression. Seen it during the wedding when he yanked her hand and Angelina grimaced at that. Sad all together it's about money.
@mehonesssaliou5270 Well, I will continue to pray. Maybe her family will get the money together so she can go home.
@@mehonesssaliou5270True, at this point, I think they are trying to use the videos to recover all the expenses provided for this scenario.
Send Angela home pls guy's
Its a deadend relationship!!!!!
U were warned!!!!
Let her go!!!
U look after ur own family!!!!!!
This wasn't a good match , he needed someone mature. Anita deserves better.
No, he needed to stay single. Sounds like he needs a caretaker instead of a wife!
@Beautifultomorrow530 This comment needs to be pinned!!! You have recognized what I've seen from day one. He is a functioning autistic man. It is not his fault, but his parents, cousin, and matchmaker knew he didn't have the capacity to be in an adult relationship. It's very unfair for Anita to be chained to a man that has to be coddled and prodded due to that disease.
@@destinyforeverTruer words have not been spoken.
They had the obligation to tell her that she was going to marry and agressive psychiatric patient. She is still young and lot of people don’t know anything about autisme and especially autistic that cannot live a “normal” life and are agressive . maybe you hoped for the best but there is no best with autistics of this category .. if they are in the worden side of autism then you can not change them just tolerated them and lot can not live with another person as these persons get on their nerves and they will get agressive . Jintao must live alone and maybe he can be guided to take a shower m, brush his teeth once or twice a week so they can get intimate without killing the girl. But she must know it si bad…so you have to tell her what kind of live that will be. Lonesome in a strange country raising a kid alone.. And if Jintao parents die who will financially support her. Is she staying behind with a mentally sick man without any income to raise their children, You will look into it and tell her the options . Or let her go without asking back any money from her parents .
@@Beautifultomorrow530exactly No one in their right mind right mind would marry a man in his condition.
I know this fight would come because Jintoa has been wearing this same set of clothes for maybe over two weeks more. He is not a hygienic person when it comes to taking care of his body. Anita will not stand for that. I hope he knows that Anita is not his baby sitter or his mother. Anita is his wife.
💯 agree and she should sleep in a separate room away from him he is basically nasty 🤢 🤮🦠🦠unhygienic.
As I said in an earlier comment weeks ago, In Paraphrasing: this man may be on the spectrum...,and somethings not right with this man(Jintao).
This is all speculation, no diagnosis here.
I'm wondering in this whole story-who/whom is really in need of psychological help.
Anita doesn't seem to be a person who will allow someone to hit her and she not hitting back.
Don’t agree how do explain the situation of scars on Jintaos face? She doesn’t look the type to just foolishly takes physical abuse seriously she looks like she is fighting him back self defence.
rem-144, I’m Not clear as to what you are saying in your comment.
Bonjour, j’espère que mon message va arriver à cet homme ??? Monsieur si Angelina meurt ça sera de votre faute ‼️‼️‼️vous serez responsable de sa mort, son mari est très très dangereux ‼️‼️‼️ S.O.S s’il vous plaît arrêtez ce mariage et sauvez Angelina‼️‼️‼️‼️
J’suis d’accord, il faut stopper ce contrat de mariage , Jintao n’est pas bien dans sa tête, stop🙅🏽🙅🏽🙅🏽🙅🏽🙅🏽🙅🏽🙅🏽
Même parents Jintao arrivent pas à le contrôler aller voir pour Angelina 😢😢😢😢
Il faut arrêter ce mariage, j'ai peur pour Anita
Il faut sauver Angelina!😢 Prévenir le consulat afin que l'on vienne l'extraire, non seulement son pervers de mari peut la tuer, mais ma crainte est qu'Angelina mette elle même fin à ses jours...Ça m'angoisse !!🥺🥺🥺
😢 qu Elle divorce svp.cet homme est malade
Her family need to bring her back home
This guy is to blame for everything happening. He manipulated that young girl into marry that guy
Exactly and he knew he was crazy
💯 agree l don’t respect Hank for his actions.
Jintao can be normal if he wants
He has to change or they divorce his parents friends
Cousin have tried
Before giving up on him they allowed him to have a chance and opportunity
Brother Hang, research on negative symptoms of SCHIZOPHRENIA, JINTAO NEEDS A PSYCHIATRIST SIMPLY
Exactly !!
You right 😢
Jintao is not mentally ill with Schizophrenia
Autism Spectrum Disorder is not the same as Schizophrenia
Its probably ASD l. He should speak with a therapist to understand the expectations of marriage and she to understand his syndromes. How to manage life with it and understand him better. They can also agree some rules and work these through with a therapist.
A Marriage needs both partners to work it out...
Understanding, Trust n Care n Love for each other.
These r d VOWS they Agreed n Promised to each other in front of d Counsellor
This is not a normal marriage..... This girl should be sent back home the man is not good for her
Then there are times when common sense kicks you like a donkey and you know it’s time to walk away, run away, flee, turbo out, sail away, fly away, just get tf out of the situation.
He wears the same clothing in each video.
又不洗澡了，链牙齿也不刷…it is disgustingly. 他们俩离婚吧
Brother hang pls send Angela home divorce will come Angela is home
Jintao need to see sycologyst
Match maker do not need to take full responsibility on their Marriage.
True. They have asked the couple a number of times to call it quits, but both said they will stay together. But if it is like this then Anita must make up her mind to either go back to Zambia or stay with the guy. Then they should work it out on their own. No marriage can survive with so many people involved, they have to figure it out by themselves.
First they shouldn't have gotten married, second she should have gone back home with her mom and third she must go back home to Zambia.
Why not? He convinced her. He convinced the family. He vouched for the man. He didn’t disclose his disability. He assured everyone he was just a so called normal guy who couldn’t afford Chinese bride price knowing full well the man had a problem
@gracesibley2641
In tis world, there's No such thgs as Guarantee for Life
@@gracesibley2641exactly Hank lied 🤥 and manipulated Anita and her family through his rotten sweet mouth that Jintao was sane in the name of money.
Mr Match maker and other assistants you have done all you can. Also neglecting your own family to help out the union.
Anita and Jintao are not a match. Start thinking of an amicable exit for each of them.
No wander this family is having problems. Matchmaker has been the head of this family. He has been planning a day for Jintao and Anjella. I don't believe that Jintao is man enough for a lady. To me he behaves like something that needs to be controlled by a remote. He's not good for a beginner.
💯 remote control he is exactly that.
I heard divorce doesn't come easy in China.
They should ask Anita on camera if she wants to go back home to Zambia.
And compensate her for her traumatised situation.
He has failed him self
2 slow adults, a greedy grandmother that wanted her gone, her slow absent teen mom, her missing dad, her FAMILY failed her!
Dites a Angelina de rentrer chez elle. C'est vous avec le cousin qui ont organisé ce marriage. Jin Tao n'est pas capable d'être père de famille.
there is the problem that her parents have e to pay the dowry and think they don’t have the money anymore. SO I don’t know if there is a law that if the husband is causing you harm you can get a divorce and even get compensation for the trauma. If not the parents of Jintao and the matchmaker need to come with a solution : maybe They must not live together. You can still stay married and even have a baby without living together. I pity Angelina as she will be alone but maybe that is the best way. Enjoy the good thing but don’t live together as Jintao cannot tolerate company.
Nonsense she can get divorced and why would she want a child be separated a single Mother suffering to raise a baby with a crazy man?!
Voys êtes responsable de la tristesse d'Angelina