Productivity Expert: How To Finally Stay Productive: Ali Abdaal | E93
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- Опубліковано 26 чер 2024
- This weeks episode entitled 'Productivity Expert - How To Finally Stay Productive - Ali Abdaal' topics:
0:00 Intro
2:23 Your early years
11:03 How did you become a UA-camr?
14:54 The importance of consistency
21:56 Procrastination
28:31 Maintaining productivity - Gratitude shift
37:27 Figuring out your values
49:20 What tips and tricks do you have for people to learn better
51:49 The definition of productivity
56:49 Relationships - Being true to yourself
01:03:40 How to make create content
01:06:22 Why I feel like I'm failing in life
01:09:58 Money
01:17:40 The key mental models that have had the biggest impact on your life
01:21:12 What do young people need to know about mindset to live a fulfilled life
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Steve mate, this conversation was an absolute joy and you and the team were wonderful to hang out with ❤️❤️ thanks for having me on :)
Firstly you are a doctor but don't mention in intro 😑
Was a pleasure having you on mate, thank you for your insights and honesty 🙏🏽
You have the most annoying voice. Seriously arrogant too.
My inspiration "Ali"
@@surajbhati8271 it hurts right! I unfollowed him after he declared being a content creator is helping for people than by working as a doctor
I want to thank Ali's mum for bringing him to the world
Bloody hell, mate! Calm down.
@@wiseonwords 😂😂
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It’s like two superstars collided into a supernova and created this masterpiece. I love how it is more of a conversation where both are genuinely interested and activated by being in each other’s presence. Such an inspiring pleasure to experience.
Crazy to me how Ali worries about his masculinity. Intelligent, Self driven, Career focused, a sarcastic witty sense of humour with an openness about his vulnerabilities. Ali you are a certified hottie!
Its you same girls that ignore guys like him LMAO. You dont want that feminine character and you know it lol
Steven, your interviewing skills, ability to articulate thoughts and bring the best out of your guests is absolutely phenomenal. I stumbled upon your content when you spoke with one of my personal heroes ‘The True Geordie’ & now I pay close attention to every conversation you have. I loved your perspective on overcoming adversity during covid (separate vid) & I think you have an innate gift for sharing wisdom in such an easy to understand way. Keep up the great work!
thanks daniel very kind!
Top Moments
1. SB: Why medicine rather than coding at university? 08:30
AA: When I was 16, I asked: Do I want to do computer science or medicine?
It would be more interesting for my life to be a doctor who knows how to code,
rather than a coder who knows how to code [ Fascinating viewpoint]
It was this decision that made me realise let me do medicine and keep coding on the side, so that I can do a tech start-up later related to medicine.
After year 1 of medicine, I knew I would not be a doctor full time, I would do it for fun.
2. AA: When the UA-cam channel took off 10:08 I realised I want to do teaching, not coding.
I always had intrinsic motivation for teaching because I tutored from the age of 13 up until now.
I felt most alive when I was teaching. A great thing about UA-cam is it is teaching at scale [ Wow: top perspective]
Hence I found this activity which drives me intrinsically. Now I see my tech start-up as a backup option.
3. 13:13 big video = how to study exams Ali Abdaal. I wanted to make this as my 100th video. It was my 80th.
I needed to learn how to get good at editing. 4000 subs. Then I went to 25,000 next week. This started my exponential growth trajectory.
4. SB: What have you learnt about 15:20 consistency and outcome?
AA: If you make 1 video a week for 2 years, it will change your life. I cannot put any numbers on it.
You will learn new skills, make new contacts.
SB: What is it that will make someone do this?
AA: Enjoy the process. It is hard to show up each week and not see results.
5. AA: How to overcome procrastination 25:30 is to un-ickify it. Example: learn a skill is too vague a task.
6. AA: I don’t have to help this patient, I get to.
31:20 SB: This is a gratitude shift.
32:48 Stoics did hedonistic adaptation exercise to take the things out of your life that you really value,
to remind themselves of what they had. [Hence u see how valuable it is!]
[ sounds antifragile- make yourself miss it, hence you become stronger, more grateful when that activity re-enters your life]
7. 47:30 Daily Highlight; what is the one top thing u want to do today?
8. SB: Extrinsic approval is different from internal fulfilment 1:02:10 [well said]
9. SB: One intrinsic goal 1:03:10 is after we are done with this conversation, my personal trainer is waiting. I am not doing it for anyone else, that is why it sticks.
10. AA: Content Title psychology: title for a video was ‘How writing online changed my life’.
It was not great. I changed the title to ‘How writing online made me a millionaire.’
This video did very well. 1:04:50 Videos that do great are videos that deliver a
promise at the start, then throughout my video, deliver nuance and depth on this promise. People want depth and nuance.
11. SB: It never fucking stops 1:08:30
12. AA to SB How do you think about money?
1:09:50 Time is all we have in chapter 19 of happy sexy millionaire.
All we have are 500,000 chips. Money solves the problem of using time in better ways to use time with my niece, dog and partner.
13. SB: I am at a point where I don’t think I can be happier
1:13:50 Not queuing for 3 hours at an airport, getting a private jet will remove this inconvenience.
But it does not move the needle on my overall fulfilment.
14. AA: When buying things ask: if u were the only person in the world, would you still buy it? 1:17:00
15. AA: Work does not have to be suffering.
Tim Ferriss asks when faced with a tough task: ‘What would this look like if it were easy?’
I don’t want to be in a position where I work a 9 to 5 so then I can enjoy the 5 to 9 [ 8 hours: 4 hours = 2:1 If true, work = twice as long as fun] 1:23:30
16. SB: Me being selfish has allowed me to help more people
1:29:19 Doing this podcast is selfish for me
1:31:30 I do it because it makes me feel great and the comments on these videos are amazing.
17. AA: Elephant in the brain 1:31:45 and service/servant hedonism idea 1:33:45
when you do something, yes, you want to help others, but partly you want to feel good too. [There is a percentage in both]
By serving others, by optimising for serving others, you make yourself happier,
which is a reasonable thing to do. Admit this to yourself. This is a reasonable way to live life.
I’ve noticed that there’s a balance with staying productive. You have to be motivated to stay working. But you also have to set time to take a break. Breaks keep you from burning out which also makes you more productive.
On point !!
So true!
Yes, I think productivity gurus push productivity too much. Its useful to be productive when you need to be, but you also need to learn how to put your feet up and enjoy life because it passes too quickly!
Sometimes it's good just to socialize with people and not think about work
"Two minutes is all you need to change your life" - Ali Abdaal
How?
Weak pullout game
Ali’s insights and honesty blew me away, thank you Ali 🙏🏽
We’re bringing subscribers in to watch these episodes, hit subscribe if you want that to be you
I am a little selective to which episode I listen and I’m glad that I can choose the order of them. It was amazing, I am an Ali’s subscriber for half a year now and I am glad that you guys had this conversation. Now,if it’s not too much to ask, I humble suggest,in regards to what Ali has said in the final chapter about the elefant part,have a look on what @Paul Olteanu is doing in terms of how the human brain is working and how has been evolved.
I’m not expecting anything, I just wanted to express what had an impact on myself recently,since you’ve done it as well. Thank you again Steve, I am listening to you but I can’t keep it to myself.Cheers!
Top Moments
1. SB: Why medicine rather than coding at university? 08:30
AA: When I was 16, I asked: Do I want to do computer science or medicine?
It would be more interesting for my life to be a doctor who knows how to code,
rather than a coder who knows how to code [ Fascinating viewpoint]
It was this decision that made me realise let me do medicine and keep coding on the side, so that I can do a tech start-up later related to medicine.
After year 1 of medicine, I knew I would not be a doctor full time, I would do it for fun.
2. AA: When the UA-cam channel took off 10:08 I realised I want to do teaching, not coding.
I always had intrinsic motivation for teaching because I tutored from the age of 13 up until now.
I felt most alive when I was teaching. A great thing about UA-cam is it is teaching at scale [ Wow: top perspective]
Hence I found this activity which drives me intrinsically. Now I see my tech start-up as a backup option.
3. 13:13 big video = how to study exams Ali Abdaal. I wanted to make this as my 100th video. It was my 80th.
I needed to learn how to get good at editing. 4000 subs. Then I went to 25,000 next week. This started my exponential growth trajectory.
4. SB: What have you learnt about 15:20 consistency and outcome?
AA: If you make 1 video a week for 2 years, it will change your life. I cannot put any numbers on it.
You will learn new skills, make new contacts.
SB: What is it that will make someone do this?
AA: Enjoy the process. It is hard to show up each week and not see results.
5. AA: How to overcome procrastination 25:30 is to un-ickify it. Example: learn a skill is too vague a task.
6. AA: I don’t have to help this patient, I get to.
31:20 SB: This is a gratitude shift.
32:48 Stoics did hedonistic adaptation exercise to take the things out of your life that you really value,
to remind themselves of what they had. [Hence u see how valuable it is!]
[ sounds antifragile- make yourself miss it, hence you become stronger, more grateful when that activity re-enters your life]
7. 47:30 Daily Highlight; what is the one top thing u want to do today?
8. SB: Extrinsic approval is different from internal fulfilment 1:02:10 [well said]
9. SB: One intrinsic goal 1:03:10 is after we are done with this conversation, my personal trainer is waiting. I am not doing it for anyone else, that is why it sticks.
10. AA: Content Title psychology: title for a video was ‘How writing online changed my life’.
It was not great. I changed the title to ‘How writing online made me a millionaire.’
This video did very well. 1:04:50 Videos that do great are videos that deliver a
promise at the start, then throughout my video, deliver nuance and depth on this promise. People want depth and nuance.
11. SB: It never fucking stops 1:08:30
12. AA to SB How do you think about money?
1:09:50 Time is all we have in chapter 19 of happy sexy millionaire.
All we have are 500,000 chips. Money solves the problem of using time in better ways to use time with my niece, dog and partner.
13. SB: I am at a point where I don’t think I can be happier
1:13:50 Not queuing for 3 hours at an airport, getting a private jet will remove this inconvenience.
But it does not move the needle on my overall fulfilment.
14. AA: When buying things ask: if u were the only person in the world, would you still buy it? 1:17:00
15. AA: Work does not have to be suffering.
Tim Ferriss asks when faced with a tough task: ‘What would this look like if it were easy?’
I don’t want to be in a position where I work a 9 to 5 so then I can enjoy the 5 to 9 [ 8 hours: 4 hours = 2:1 If true, work = twice as long as fun] 1:23:30
16. SB: Me being selfish has allowed me to help more people
1:29:19 Doing this podcast is selfish for me
1:31:30 I do it because it makes me feel great and the comments on these videos are amazing.
17. AA: Elephant in the brain 1:31:45 and service/servant hedonism idea 1:33:45
when you do something, yes, you want to help others, but partly you want to feel good too. [There is a percentage in both]
By serving others, by optimising for serving others, you make yourself happier,
which is a reasonable thing to do. Admit this to yourself. This is a reasonable way to live life.
Why didn't you ask Ali the question written by the previous Guest in the Diary ? & Why didn't Ali write a question in the Diary for the next guest?
Did you not start that tradition back then or you just forgot?
Hi Steve so late to these podcasts but please don’t have subscribers to come watch the chats live. It might take away from the experience by making it more of a performance. The honestly and openness comes from your guests when it feels like chatting to a friend and for me a viewer, it’s more valuable like that.
Would you please invite Ex Miss Universe Sushmita Sen?
Im 54 and I came across Alis channel when he had less than 5000 subscribers. The guy is so humble and relatable to everyday life, hes funny and honest, his struggles are very real to ones own. Love this guy love that vlog he made about putting money into shares and how to type fast, hes ace. Someone worth following forever
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
00:00 🤖 Productivity expert Ali Abdaal discusses optimizing time and working on meaningful tasks to achieve happiness.
00:29 🛡️ Overcoming procrastination involves starting with a small nudge and using the "two-minute rule" to initiate tasks.
00:42 💼 Prioritizing the journey over the destination; focusing on day-to-day enjoyment rather than solely the end goal.
01:14 🛠️ Ali Abdaal's journey from medical school to UA-cam, where he found his passion for teaching and entrepreneurship.
16:12 📹 Consistency in creating content on UA-cam over time is key for growth and change, with focus on enjoying the process and intrinsic motivation.
19:28 🚀 External accountability, like having an accountability buddy or coach, can reduce the need for discipline and motivation, making tasks more achievable.
20:10 ⏰ Overcoming procrastination involves getting started with just a small effort, such as working on a task for two minutes, which often leads to sustained progress.
24:21 🏔️ Breaking tasks into smaller, specific steps helps combat the overwhelming feeling of tackling a large challenge, making it easier to start and complete.
32:57 🙏 Shifting from "have to" to "get to" mindset cultivates gratitude and helps find joy in daily activities, emphasizing the journey over the end goal.
36:14 🌄 Embrace the journey of the process, prioritizing the day-to-day experience and enjoyment rather than solely focusing on the end destination.
37:50 🧠 Our values are often indicated by how something makes us feel, as our emotions guide us towards what matters most.
39:28 🌱 Personal values can be shaped by early experiences and feelings, indicating what's true and important to us.
42:26 🏫 Engaging in experiments and quitting what doesn't align with our values can lead to a fulfilling life.
46:08 🎯 Prioritize testing yourself and using spaced repetition to optimize learning and memory retention.
54:10 ⚖️ Balancing productivity with health, relationships, and meaning is crucial, and it's okay to intentionally take breaks or do nothing.
56:31 🛩️ Having money can help buy back time and convenience, reducing time wasted on tasks you don't enjoy.
59:45 🕰️ Prioritize being your authentic self in relationships, avoiding changing who you are to attract partners.
01:01:21 🎭 Embrace the things that bring you joy and make you feel good; don't suppress your true interests or values.
01:03:29 💰 Use money to buy back your time for meaningful experiences and memories with loved ones.
01:09:05 💡 Recognize that money can provide convenience and experiences, but beyond a certain point, it might not significantly increase overall happiness or fulfillment.
01:16:10 🛍️ Spending money on things based on utility and personal value, rather than flashy or status-driven purchases.
01:17:07 🧠 Mental model: If you were the only person in the world, would you still buy the thing? Utility vs. signaling.
01:17:51 📚 Key mental model: Beyond a certain income, money doesn't buy more happiness; five regrets of the dying; live life true to oneself.
01:20:56 ⏳ Balancing the idea of living each day as if it were the last with responsible decision-making for long-term well-being.
01:21:23 💼 Encouraging young people to realize that work doesn't have to be suffering and that aligning economic engine with personal interests matters for a fulfilled life.
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Forgive me for going directly to THIS; I'm trying to be productive *wink
There was something really special about this episode. With most guests, Steve is holding space for them, but this was an authentic connection where the guest valued the host in the same respect.
Took me 3 days to watch this in between running around my toddler and absolutely loved it. You are both incredibly engaging, honest and so refreshing. Thank you !😊
Saaame! But so worth it 😊
"I get to do this rather than I have to do this," great advice Ali, changing our mindsets actually works!
"We are so quickly to fall out of gratitude when we get used to the priviledges in our lives," that's really deep...food for thought! I really enjoyed this relatable conversation.
An absolute treat of a podcast, exactly what I needed. Thanks to both of you.
Nice
I really loved the part on gratitude. I've literally cried in my car on my way to work while listening to you guys. I've been suffering a lot with my chronic disease and once one of the treatments finally started to work I was SO HAPPY I get to do "normal" stuff . Like going into work or not feeling any pain in the morning .
I have very soon after that started feeling so tired and didn't feel like getting up in the morning , but shifting my mindset and reminding myself that I GET TO get up every morning for work WITHOUT the pain. Changes everything. Thank you for sharing those insights. B x
I have been watching Ali Abdal for a while now, and I am glad that this version of Ali who talks about how he began his journey, the early days, family is precious. Thanks, Steve for bringing it out. And great conversation!
Ali is a master of interpersonal psychology look at how he mirrors Steven’s body language.
wow, great observation! I didn't even notice that!
Most people do that when they like someone. There are many studies about that. I don’t really think he does is intentionally
I can't believe you got Ali Abdaal on the podcast!! Jaw literally dropped! Can't wait to watch 🤩
Your content is disgustingly underrated. You’re the goat 🔥.I don't know who, but someone actually needs to hear this, you've got to stop saving all your money. Venture into investing some, if you really want financial stability
Invest globally in bitcoin, gold, silver, forex market, commodities. Just don't be left out and save yourself
Pure wise comment
Successful people don’t become that way overnight. What people see at a glance wealth, a great career, purpose is the result of hard work and hustle over time. I pray that anyone who reads this will be successful in life
@Williams George Hey, this is a computer age. Peeps who aren't even traders make money from the crypto and forex markets ,how many millionaires do you know who have become wealthy by investing in savings accounts?
yea. You’re right. The fact is I have not done this bitcoin before but have been hearing about it. Do you know any professional broker you could refer me to?
He is an amazing inspiration. He is highly sharp when it comes to critical thinking, deep analytical thinking, deep consideration and team leadership.
I liked the way you both asked each other questions that you had to paused almost as if it challenged you guys to get an idea deeply inside your minds. Great podcast 👍🏾
He's so great at conveying intelligent points in such a simplistic way. Loved this 🙌🏻
Really powerful to see that Ali (the king of productivity) Abdaal struggles with all the same internal conflicts that we all encounter. Great episode!
“If your the only person in the world, would I buy this“. Profound 🙏🏽
Ali - relationship advice - don't settle. There are many women out there (some of them smoking hot) who love board games and singing Disney songs. Just stay who you are and she will find you. You're a very special person and I wish you every happiness 😊
This is just second episode on this channel I've watched so far (first was with Krissy Cela) and I want to say that I'm impressed how genuine and honest you and your guests are. Usually when I'm watching conversations like this people seem to be perfect in any way and I think that I have a lot of work on myself to do. You guys don't try to impress and show that we all are just humans what's really helpful and inspiring!
I have followed @ali since the early days and love him! Great podcast thank you!
Ali is simply the product of his environment: wealthy + family of doctors. He just absorbed the emotional tone of his environment.
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I hope Ali brings Steve on his channel because there needs to be a part 2 of this conversation. Loved the relationship part. I thoroughly enjoyed this podcast segment. Tfs
nice conversation but the slow zooming in affect is very weird and unnerving.
Thanks for the feedback AJ, noted!
At around 1 hr 12 mins, Ali mentions about wanting more money so he can have certain things to take his friends with him etc etc….that there is the old Asian conditioning and dilemma. Wanting people around you to see your success so you can feel happy knowing that they know you have done well for yourself.
Something that has crippled Asians for many years. Something we really need to let go of and have more purpose within ourselves for ourselves. We have lived by communities and our small circles for far to long. Time to broaden horizons and let go of old Asian mentality and culture of impressing a certain few around you…
My unsolicited opinion on masculinity is that masculine men respect women and typically have more “feminine” traits that men who ascribe to toxic masculinity don’t have i.e. EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE, COMMUNICATION, PATIENCE, KINDNESS, the ability to LISTEN, etc. There are plenty of women who will sing/dance along to disney songs with you. What Steve said regarding confidence is 100% correct and is probably the only “masculine” (big air quotes) personality trait you may need to work on. Love yourself my dude and only go after the women who love you too.
“masculine men respect women” that thing is over. Now, men respect only those women who respect men.
The way Ali is so honest is insane. I have so much respect for him and his work! Such a good example to be as a person.
This episode in particular felt like two friends having a conversation on how to became the best version of themselves, and it was just so natural. Absolutely love it!
° Very sweet and TRUE Nicolemanhica6279🙌😁
Love this podcast! Thank you so much for such an honest and insightful conversation ❤️. I just started reading Steve’s book yesterday.
Here are my personal learning points and what truly resonated with me:
Enjoy the Journey on Its Own Merit - Find joy in the process, not just the end result.
Quitting Framework - Experiment to discover likes and dislikes. It's okay to try, fail, and move on. Each experiment brings me closer to my true passions.
Overcoming Procrastination - Reduce external and internal friction. Use the "2 minutes rule" to break the initial barriers.
Positive Mentality - Shift from "I have to (do task)" to "I get to (do task)" to cultivate gratitude and positivity.
Fill Your Own Bottle First - Emphasize the importance of self-care.
Work Does Not Have to Be Suffering - Work should be fulfilling and enjoyable.
A New Concept of Money - View money as a mean to "buy time" to spend on better and more meaningful things/ activities
I’ve not even done listening to half of this podcast and I’m honestly just really appreciating and enjoying two intelligent individuals speak about everything they just did. I am confident in saying that this video has changed my life just that one bit I needed changing because everything mentioned about procrastination was already something I am aware of. But to hear it is good as it’s reassurance that I am only human. And to know such successful people do in fact go through the same thoughts I have. It is super supportive as it does now make me feel more secure as I have to give MYSELF that pep talk, to not feel bad and to keep reassuring my strengths. But now I feel like I am in the right path and I am still that ambitious women who’s meant to make it, who can feel this way but just needed to hear it out loud in a different way how to eliminate procrastination or alleviate it. Thank you so much both.
Ali Abdaal is such a gem! So glad he does UA-cam. A very honest and humble teacher. This conversation was great 👍🏾
10 minutes in and absolutely brilliant open and honest from Ali and Steven as usual! Really appreciate and value you both! Phil
I can't believe I'm just now seeing this video. I'm barely halfway in and there's so much wisdom. Thank you Ali and Steve
Steven I'm a careers adviser and I love this stuff. Your questions are amazing. The thing I most admire about you is your active listening skill as it opens your guests up and builds rapport almost instantly. I think with careers when people achieve their goal early (doctor) it frees them to find their authentic goal which is I trinsically linked to their values. I did some radio recently and hoping to do more as it's such an efficient platform to help en masse! Fantastic episode...leading with the heart again, really inspiring!
I am loving Ali's insightful tidbits near the end, those gems just started spewing out.
i like how Ali is so honest like it's the prestige instead of the socially accepted answers like saving lives. Humans are complex we can want prestige and wealth AND to make the world or your community a better place. Only problem is when wealth n presitge becomes your ONLY goal then it be creepy
I’m so excited for this interview! You’re both very inspiring.
In the gym as I watch this and I can relate to the mindset to motivation. Thanks Steven
Really enjoyed that. Reflecting on why, I think it’s because of the honesty of the discussion.
I've been listening to these podcasts in all the free time that I usually use for youtube and netflix and all, and the absolute value packed into these conversations, and the incredible perspective is insane. Thank you.
Wow what an insightful video! I usually don't comment on videos but this one sentence got my 200% attention & made me realize something. When Ali Abdaal said that 'What would this look like if it were easy!' Huh what would it look like if my days were easy, they would look like more fun. Just a quick background here, I'm a working professional who works from home with a 6 month old son & I keep telling myself daily that working with a kid is hard work when you're trying to be a good professional & a parent at the same time. But I just realized what if this was easy! My kid is never going to be this small & adorable again. I'm grateful for a wfh job that pays my bills, enables me to work in the area I like & allows me to be home with my son for the entire day. What if these were the best days of my life!
Thoroughly enjoyed this conversation! Two very inspiring and transparent individuals having an open chat is always a treat to watch!
That was a really nice interview! I thoroughly enjoyed the interaction and that both of you asked questions and gave genuine feedback.
One tip that helps save hours of my time AND learn faster - I watch youtube videos at 1.5x or 2x speed. Yes, that sound frustrating, but you get used to it very fast. And it saves so much time when I look back. And the content is more INTENSE this way, so I remember it better. My brain doesn't start wondering in the middle of the video.
Wait but aren't they talking fast?
Doesn't work for me, I prefer to listening while walking or doing chores.
Genuinely enjoyed listening to this entire conversation! Ali’s curiosity is infectious and it is fun to see him grow as a person.
I thought this conversation was deeply enlightening into uncovering my seemingly altruistic ambitions. As someone who has only glimpsed Ali's content on youtube - he is obviously purpose driven that really translates into the honesty in which he divulges the intricacies of his insecurities. I appreciate the way he reiterates acquired knowledge it has pushed me to read much more widely. Thank you for this pod, I appreciate the direct and blunt approach of the interviewer, I've learned a lot!
Steven's take on relationships starting at Ali talking at 56 min is spectacular!!!! "All you can be is yourself for a long time, so if you want a long-term result, you have no choice but being yourself"
I love it when someone is able to explain things in such an understandable way. Really loving this episode, very helpful. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🥰🥰
I have the same story as Ali, My parents are separated and my mom only thinks about jobs with prestige and financial freedom, I actually want to become a footballer who knows how to write (like Dan Koe stuff) and for the sake of my mom's dreams, I told her I will become a web developer, but deep inside I know that the web developer thing will just be a source of money to fund my football and writing.
Every time I listen to this podcast there is something in it that I needed to hear at that moment in time. Amazing stuff Steve and team
Excellent episode, really resonated with me. Tried to pursue a career in acoustics as there are jobs within that field, although my heart really sits with music. For years I struggled making any money with music/sound engineering. But since attempting and failing at acoustics, I have returned to music as a freelancer using Upwork, and I'm already only a couple weeks in and earning a decent part-time 'wage'. Couldn't be happier, but there's still the desire for the prestige of being an 'acoustic consultant' as opposed to a 'freelance sound engineer'. It's crazy how as humans even though we can be in a position when we're happy, we often can't fully comprehend it until we meet with hind-sight. Follow your heart peeps!
What funny about this podcast is that I started to relate with the thing they were talking about.....and then they got me hook into watching the whole podcast.....keep in mind this is my 2nd podcast on my life(no really fun of podcast....but starting to enjoy it because of DOTC)
another channel for learning, was also not much into podcasts but for topics ur interested in / passionate about, can be educative 👍
Thanks for getting Ali on here Steve. His videos have genuinely helped me over the years and I could listen to him all day! thank you!
Steve, I can listen to your voice all day long. It is the only podcast I look forward to since it is so informative. That was an excellent approach to describe things.
I appreciate you taking the time to share your knowledge with us.
How beautiful though. To see two guys clearly financially comfortable, genuinely ask one another how one another views money. Really humble, enjoyed watching this massively.
enjoyed every single second of this. such a humble successful inspiring yet relatable human being 👏
What an interview🙏🏾. Too much gratitude for you guys. Paving the way for us
I enjoyed the back and forth banter between these two fellas. Felt like such an honest and vulnerable conversation about money, being yourself, feeling enough, finding mates. Really cool to get to know Ali Abdaal.
Awesome interview really enjoyed this. Everything from the interview style, production quality and of course the quality of content thank you gents what a pleasure.
Loved this episode. Ali is such a g. Also learning more about his background and growing up was great 💯
Compelling podcast as they always are - thank you. I really like the way you embrace gratitude Stephen. When I was at my 'rock bottom', seven years ago, someone advised me to practice gratitude on a daily basis. 'WTF', I thought, I didn't even like myself. I can honestly say, gratitude has turned my life around and today I embrace the world every day. #Gratitudeisattitude. x
As soon as I saw this video with Steve and Ali that was it. Stop what you're doing and watch it. Thanks so much. Very insightful.
So well spoken! New follower to Ali and really like everything he said.
Two such genuine guys! Really enjoyed this conversation between you two.
I always had conflicting views on how society would interpret my accomplishments if I gained status, power or some money under the umbrella of "filling my cup first" to help others. The fear of being labelled even slightly selfish stood in the way of utilizing my full potential. However, i've come to realize it's not selfish, gaining anything material/external that brings you some happiness and stability is better for the world. Every little bit of happiness counts, it's energy you put back into the world. What good are you to the world, what value could you offer if you're broken and uncertain? That's the selfish part, being a burden.
I''m strictly speaking of denying yourself certain joys bc of the stigma around being accomplished implies selfishness. Material isn't alway happiness but it isn't always selfishness either.
This video def helped clear some questions i've always asked myself, thank you.
brillliiiannnnntttt convo. 2 phenomenal minds of our generation, role models we are lucky to have. much love ❤️
Did Ali say Lesotho? Oh my God, that's my home country!! As he said, it's a country most people have never heard of. I am so happy!!
This podcast makes me look forward to Mondays. Thank you Steve!
You should check out High Performance podcast too. I start my Mondays with Steve's new episode then HP - who also upload on Mondays. Sets you up for the week perfectly!
@@courtneyc8773 hiya, thank you very much for the heads up. I’m also a keen listener of the High Performance podcast too. I’ve recently re-listened to both when they featured Rio Ferdinand. Its pretty awesome how Steve and Jake extracted different information from Rio regarding United’s culture.
@@N_Davido Yes I agree! Also loved listening to Jake and Steve being guests on each others podcast. It really is quite a skill to be able to both interview and be interviewed at a consistently high level!
This is possibly the best podcast episode I have ever listened to!!
Love this.
"Don't suppress the things that make you feel good because then you'll feel sh*t" - Steven Bartlett
How valuable is the inspiration you guys give 🔥 THANK YOU !
@aliabdaal BE YOURSELF! Dancing around singing Disney, and playing board games sounds like a fun partner to me! I'm a singer and I LOVE board games!! And I'm just one woman. There has to be more like me.
First time watching the podcast. Utterly brilliant, great questioning and exploring a lot of different avenues with Ali. Will be watching the others. Thank you!
Definitely enjoyed this because I’ve watched him for years. The segment about the relationship was very relatable to most guys. Bringing on someone like AMS (American UA-camr) would be extremely valuable to most men
Such an inspirational and helpful pod. Loved when Ali quoted Miley lol.
This podcast was amazing! I wish there were more hours of it!! 🙌🏽
A fabulous interview! Thank you both for a wonderful conversation 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
I love these podcasts! Start to end - stylish, to the point, with inspiring host and guests 👍
This productivity content is the key to success. Much thanks Ali and Steve. Ali's idea about learning as doing hard concepts or action is innovative and useful and productive to learners.
"5 regrets of the dying" That was eye opening stuff!!! Amazing interview 👌👌👌
Intriguing interview, particularly the question of morality being affected by the prevailing social consciousness of the times you happen to live in, and also Ali going deep on why he does what he does. I feel like human existence is far more transactional emotionally than we would like to think. And then we expect for every emotional dollar we spend that the other person should put in the same amount, and when they don't it causes conflict. I really enjoyed listening to this interview, thanks guys!
Love this on a Monday morning
Steve, Do not understand how I have missed your Channel. Amazing Content. All the way from South Africa 🇿🇦. Ali 👌 as always.
Amazing :) Greetings from Scotland. Have a wonderful day everyone!
Wow!! I needed to hear this podcast. Amazing job guys! So many gems
I like how Steve is asking quite tough questions with critical thinking attached. Thank You for this.
Sounds like two brothers that haven't seen each other in 10 years. Good stuff
It is indeed such a beautiful interview. Thank you for sharing your life experiences and ideas❤️
I am so happy these contents are free ❤ thank you so much for your good efforts Steven.
Ali thank you for being so genuine during the podcast. As a teen going into uni you have given me a different perspective on career options.
Also Ali is just a machine! Fantastic books condensed to actions i can just do! Love following him.
This was so good, I loved it. When I was little, I wanted to help everyone I knew to make money because I had found a really cool way to do so. (I was 9 then) Once I realized just a few who really wanted to (not just saying it.
My English teacher further helped me in my journey, as I used to write for the slow writers in my class so that they could keep up (I was a fast writer). This is what she said to me, Caren, the only reason they are not keeping up it's because you are doing it for them. She was so right, you can't carry anyone who does want to go with you, but most importantly you have to do it first on your own and let those that want to hop as they see fit.
Now I get to help those that want my help