DATING IN GERMANY AS A FOREIGNER

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  • Although dating in Germany it's not the main topic of my channel I think it's important to talk about. Single foreigners should especially be aware of dating rules and traditions in Germany.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 78

  • @NeoNorth
    @NeoNorth 4 роки тому +8

    Very helpful! Dating cultures in different countries can be quite different. Wishing everyone the best on their dating journeys

  • @Alias_Anybody
    @Alias_Anybody 4 роки тому +66

    Germans don't date, they accidentally spend time with someone and decide that it would be nice to spend more time with them afterwards. ;-)
    Same story in Austria, just with a larger amount of coffee involved.

    • @simplenewzealandwithanna
      @simplenewzealandwithanna  4 роки тому +3

      True:) They don't put much labels

    • @schattensand6129
      @schattensand6129 4 роки тому +1

      I like your expression very much. And if they like s.o. it may happen as well, that they skip most other dates in their calendar and commit themselfs totally.

    • @iamva1679
      @iamva1679 4 роки тому +1

      Thats pretty accurate about Germans. Du hast es auf den Punkt getroffen

    • @toomuchinformation
      @toomuchinformation 6 місяців тому

      And Sachertorte?

  • @corradosereni7085
    @corradosereni7085 2 місяці тому +2

    Your hairstyle brings out the best of your pretty face! Stick to this hair saloon. Xxx

  • @David-yl4yw
    @David-yl4yw Рік тому

    Thanks Ana ! This is quite an interesting video. Loved it. Continue to Keep your spirits high by sharing your valuable experiences . Cheers 🙏

  • @angeldimitrov6571
    @angeldimitrov6571 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you, you are amazing :)

  • @Pfirtzer
    @Pfirtzer 4 роки тому +31

    In Germany you don't date women, your fridge has more warmth than they do, so in Germany you date your fridge.

    • @vickvickson4273
      @vickvickson4273 3 роки тому +1

      This is soo good-funny🙂😁😂, regardless of being true or not...
      As a someone outside of Germany I have no clue if it's true, but it sadly and probably is, at least in general, there should hoppfully be some INDIVIDUAL variations. Greetings from Vick!

    • @Pfirtzer
      @Pfirtzer 3 роки тому

      @@vickvickson4273 Well the more Northern you go the colder the people, more rational, it also depends on the genes.You see that mixed children can be more passionate and outgoing.

    • @cyrusdrawsstuff8916
      @cyrusdrawsstuff8916 3 роки тому +1

      @@Pfirtzer but I think Bayern is worst place and most restricted than north

    • @yvonnehorde1097
      @yvonnehorde1097 2 роки тому

      @@vickvickson4273 Well, the "no" also is pretty direct. It might even be a bit insulting to people from other cultures.

    • @Itsme-xf7sx
      @Itsme-xf7sx Рік тому

      It only seems that way, from the third date onwards things get extremely hot

  • @ashrafcurtin186
    @ashrafcurtin186 2 роки тому +2

    i have been in Germany for 2 years almost but i could not date or interact with single German girls.The main problem is the language barrier and 2nd is the cultural difference and other problem is that majority of German girls are more introvert towards foreigners.They dont have that much intention to know about other culture.But its my personal experience.May be from their perspective its ok for them but i dont bother about that because i respect them too,its their choice.

  • @Robschaf
    @Robschaf 4 роки тому +3

    Hi, I'm a new subscriber.
    Interesting videos. As a German I can confirm that it's true what you say in this one about "dating" in Germany. You already have a very good understanding of the German culture, it's impressive.
    I also like your accent :p maybe some day one video in German?

  • @yuhcheechern955
    @yuhcheechern955 Рік тому

    A very good Denglish u speak! 😊

  • @yunleung2631
    @yunleung2631 Рік тому

    I love how you specified in your profile you aren't rich lol. I love how European women are so direct!!

  • @isasave
    @isasave 3 роки тому +29

    Me, a south american girl thinking about studying in germany: I wonder how is like to make friends and date there?
    UA-cam: *german people don't flirt, don't give compliments, don't dance and never show interested in other people*
    Me: Well, I guess my grades are gonna be excellent because nobody will be interested in me.

    • @yvonnehorde1097
      @yvonnehorde1097 2 роки тому +1

      What can be helpful is going to one of the clubs, such as fitness clubs or badminton clubs or tennis clubs or may orchestras, and what is totally uncommon in the US but totally common in Germany: The workplace. It is not a problem here. Or maybe team up in a learning team.

  • @MD-lk4qr
    @MD-lk4qr 4 роки тому +5

    Your so gorgeous and calm

  • @catalinaschezg
    @catalinaschezg Рік тому

    Thank you so much for the video ❤️ It's super informative and helpful 🙏🏼🌸✨ Also, I love your vibes :3🌠 I’m sorry, I wanted to ask you, are German men loyal? Do they usually want to settle down/make a family or don't like to commit so much?

  • @robertzander9723
    @robertzander9723 4 роки тому +3

    Good evening lovely Anna.
    It's a little bit up to situation, if it's a serious date and both expecting something more or is it just a normal date like just friends.
    The ladies i knew have a lot of self-confidence to pay their bill on her own, mostly it changed, one time i paid, next time she paid.
    If she invited me to her home,
    a flower, a bottle of wine if i know she drinks some or a small gift is something necessary for me and i really like do.
    There must be an increase with a surprise 🙂

  • @wolfgangjannsen
    @wolfgangjannsen 4 роки тому +8

    The people In Northern Germany,especially in the country, they don't date. They find their girl friend in the school, work, Sportverein or other Vereine or by Meeting with friends. It takes their time to get closer together. It depends of the same interests. There are a lot of german-russians, but they prefer to be by themselves. These girls have their difficulties to understand the men from here. These girls like these from US are used to be "angemacht" and dissapointed that the men ignore them. Here the girls starts conversation with eyes or speak frankly.

  • @asopol3673
    @asopol3673 4 роки тому +1

    I date women from different countries in Europe , dating women in Europe country this is something very normal and nothing serious from beginning 😊

  • @lionsingh18
    @lionsingh18 4 роки тому +3

    My future wife in Germany wanted to split the bill...I am Indo -Brit just NO WAY you pay all or I do ... she sussed it out and always that way until married babes how much do you have . Just 1st time I heard of that and dates before I am broke , you cover...Just getting on so well and she ordered her own bill... me fumed NO WAY you or me all. We got a gorgeous mixed race baby both IndoBrit/German. Say that to older Indians a total insult ....love Germany .

  • @CricketBollywoodFun
    @CricketBollywoodFun 9 місяців тому

    I have a German girlfriend.. Today she lost 500 money in her bag and I m from India nd i couldn't help her.. I felt so bad she was helpless but still she didn't ask for my help.. But I felt so bad I m with her from 3 years nd i m feeling hopeless nd i m just searching way to somehow help her

  • @robertmilakovic298
    @robertmilakovic298 3 роки тому +1

    So, in Serbia you are like at home now, when we talk about dating mentality ;)

  • @sweettagada22
    @sweettagada22 3 роки тому +3

    Oh dating in Germany is very different from France.

  • @kerennafike678
    @kerennafike678 2 роки тому +3

    They are so Cold 🥶 and restricted people. hell no to the no no

    • @Itsme-xf7sx
      @Itsme-xf7sx Рік тому +1

      But we are handsome and very honest. I've a German says I love you. That means he really, really love you.

    • @corradosereni7085
      @corradosereni7085 2 місяці тому

      ​@@Itsme-xf7sxwell, you cannot be sure of It, do you. Why would you trust anyone to that point?

  • @Time4aKiss
    @Time4aKiss Рік тому

    Do you find the German men more or less handsome then your own Russian men?

  • @optimusmech5313
    @optimusmech5313 4 роки тому +2

    I wonder if they plan their coitus sessions

  • @markdailyofficial4513
    @markdailyofficial4513 2 роки тому

    Hi there ,I am hopeless in my life and I am now 24 is there anybody wish to marry me

  • @DaveGrohlsprincess
    @DaveGrohlsprincess 4 роки тому

    How do you flirt with a girl in Germany

    • @yvonnehorde1097
      @yvonnehorde1097 2 роки тому

      @Patricia O. Try to be a good camerade, be helpful, be friendly and be polite. And you can be pretty direct. It is okay to say well, you are very beautiful and i would like to know you better would you like to meet for a coffee.

    • @Itsme-xf7sx
      @Itsme-xf7sx Рік тому

      It's very simple, just be yourself. Say something funny about yourself or something you love. Ask questions and remember what she said for the next date. Show that you are interested

  • @dustyfun5944
    @dustyfun5944 4 роки тому

    Interessantes Video vom Thema her, allerdings frage ich mich, auf welcher Grundlage du deine Aussagen und weltweiten Vergleiche zum Thema Kennenlernen, Beziehung und Ehe in Deutschland aufbaust. Erst gegen Ende des Videos hast du erwähnt, dass du einen Freund in Deutschland hattest. Reicht diese Erfahrung aus, um ein 10 minütiges Video über "Dating in Germany" zu drehen oder welche Quellen hast du sonst noch dazu herangezogen?

    • @schattensand6129
      @schattensand6129 4 роки тому +6

      If s.o. writes in English and talks English pay them the respect and courtesy to answer in English. Her issue is one everybody can talk about, the most of it is just as she decribes it. Source citation is for academical blabla and not really a thing for UA-cam. Content wise it is simply so that people, mostly girls for the east, have to make it through a cordon of proof that they are not only rich husband hunters. Best I have to say: Find a job where the men work, still by far the best marriage agency is work, job and not clubbing or online stuff.

    • @dustyfun5944
      @dustyfun5944 4 роки тому +2

      @@schattensand6129 Hm, erstens, wenn du dieser Meinung bist, dann könntest du mich auch auf Deutsch darauf hinweisen. Ansonsten wirkt es etwas inkonsequent, in Englisch auf einen Post in einer anderen Sprache zu reagieren, nicht? Oder wolltest du der Welt zeigen, dass du mich auf Englisch zurechtweisen kannst?
      zweitens, warum gehst du dann überhaupt auf meine Fragen ein, insbesondere, wenn du gar nicht gefragt warst?
      Also insgesamt gesehen, war dein Post richtig deutsch, auch wenn du englische Vokabeln benutzt hast, dass es zum totlachen ist.

    • @Robschaf
      @Robschaf 4 роки тому +3

      @@dustyfun5944 Das ist keine wissenschaftliche Arbeit, also muss sie auch keine Quellen angeben. Zumal Quellen bei so etwas Subjektivem wohl ohnehin nicht zu beschaffen sind. Es ist doch offensichtlich, dass das ihre Erfahrung darstellen soll und gerade einen internationalen Vergleich kann sie ziehen, da sie schon viel rumgekommen ist.

    • @dustyfun5944
      @dustyfun5944 4 роки тому +1

      @@Robschaf Natürlich ist das keine wissenschaftliche Arbeit und sie muss tatsächlich nicht wissenschaftlich zitieren. Allerdings ist sie auch sehr jung, 24 soweit ich weiß und ihre Aussagen beziehen sich auf Dating weltweit, West- und Osteuropa, Indien, USA, Deutschland und Österreich, wobei sie 5 Jahre in Deutschland, Griechenland, Österreich und Indien verbracht hat. Bei dieser breiten geografischen Streuung ihrer Ausführungen ist es eher offensichtlich, dass das nicht alles ihre eigenen Erfahrungen sein können, selbst wenn sie viel rumgekommen ist. Und ja, sind das ihre beiläufigen Beobachtungen des Alltags oder hat sie wirklich intensiv recherchiert, weiß sie das aus Gesprächen mit Freunden und Bekannten, hat sie Beziehungsratgeber gelesen oder erzählt sie uns einfach Sachen, die sie im Fernsehen gesehen hat? Du hast Recht, es ist alles sehr subjektiv und genau deshalb könnte sie die Qualität des Videos heben, wenn sie etwas genauer erläutert woher sie ihr Wissen hat, weil dann können wir es auch besser einordnen.

    • @JakobFischer60
      @JakobFischer60 4 роки тому +1

      Offensichtlich reicht ihre Erfahrung, weil das was sie sagt, bekommt viel Zustimmung, auch von Deutschen.

  • @Top10-f9t6o
    @Top10-f9t6o 3 роки тому

    I will date you😁🤣😂

  • @andreasophia7764
    @andreasophia7764 2 роки тому

    sad story ;(

  • @محمدمحم-خ2ه
    @محمدمحم-خ2ه 10 місяців тому

    I am looking for a serious girl

  • @Trashboione
    @Trashboione 4 роки тому +5

    we just dont like golddiggers hehee

    • @sweettagada22
      @sweettagada22 3 роки тому +5

      As women spend more time to be ready for a date, inviting them would be the bare minimum :)

    • @sararedbride9728
      @sararedbride9728 2 роки тому

      Paying for a cheap ass coffee= golddigger 🤣🤣🤣 oh these men are cheap not even bare minimum

    • @Itsme-xf7sx
      @Itsme-xf7sx Рік тому

      Normally in Germany the man invites the woman. Most of the time I pay secretly when she is in the toilet 😂. But I really like seeing her take out her wallet, it shows me that she doesn't take it for granted that I pay. I usually meet for coffee or something on the first date. She doesn't have to spend a lot of time in the bathroom and could theoretically come in a jogging suit if she wanted 😂. We usually do something on the second date. Go to the theater or something. I even went to the sauna once. Yes, naked on the second date, that's possible in Germany (but not normal), but we got together pretty quickly

  • @asharoy3523
    @asharoy3523 7 місяців тому

    You are superhonst

  • @gracewanjiru7844
    @gracewanjiru7844 4 роки тому +1

    Am looking for visa to come Germany who can help me