Five Star-Let Me Be the One (12' Ext Version)

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  • 1985 hit single from Five Star's Luxury of Life album. The single peaked at #2 on the US R&B chart.

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  • @matthewprince9705
    @matthewprince9705 Рік тому +25

    A Nick Martinelli production, with Carl McIntosh, Jane Eugene and Steve Nichol on arrangement! Loose Ends gave this song to them!

    • @trb3074
      @trb3074 9 місяців тому +2

      Okay, that makes sense. I love Loose Ends too.❤❤❤

    • @younghovah22
      @younghovah22 7 місяців тому +2

      Todays old but it sounds like it could be a loose ends song

    • @winstonjohnson2340
      @winstonjohnson2340 Місяць тому

      IT's got Their Sound all over it ! Loose Ends Put Britain on the Soul Map Man Cha!

  • @RSTAR2009
    @RSTAR2009 11 років тому +85

    This NEVER gets old.

  • @branchmo7
    @branchmo7 11 років тому +38

    Man this song never gets old! The 80s & 90s were the best!

    • @HarryHeath-pb6rv
      @HarryHeath-pb6rv 8 місяців тому

      I missed ya since ya hit the big time yes God keep dreaming in my mind this great dime of a song

    • @HarryHeath-pb6rv
      @HarryHeath-pb6rv 8 місяців тому

      Jackson five like family baby was bad God she was way good

  • @patricklewis833
    @patricklewis833 10 років тому +116

    Thank God I grew up In the 80's

    • @juliawhite7152
      @juliawhite7152 7 років тому +8

      Patrick Lewis That's right! 👊🙌👏. The 80's was the last of the "good ol' days".

    • @rubiopicazojoseph
      @rubiopicazojoseph 7 років тому +6

      Julia White 80s and 90s. The new millennium is when it went to shit.

    • @juliawhite7152
      @juliawhite7152 7 років тому +1

      Joseph Rubio-Picazo yeah that's true too!

    • @StarX81
      @StarX81 7 років тому +3

      I grew up in the 80's too! I was in my teens & early 20's back in those days. That time is so precious to me!

    • @raquelrene8911
      @raquelrene8911 7 років тому +5

      yup - graduated high school on this day (June 9) in 1986!

  • @beautyandsoul5580
    @beautyandsoul5580 7 років тому +19

    Thank God I grew up in the 70's to get to the 80's .

  • @jemijayk3
    @jemijayk3 11 років тому +49

    Well hello all my 80's peeps! Lol used to play this album out in 8th grade! Still and always will love Five Star!

  • @kbw.rvwhntr
    @kbw.rvwhntr 9 років тому +92

    The days of the 80's can't be touched to this day, back when we used baking soda to brush our teeth when we ran out of toothpaste!

    • @kbw.rvwhntr
      @kbw.rvwhntr 8 років тому +4

      Ivor Williams I know that's right!

    • @sweetlady3651
      @sweetlady3651 7 років тому +2

      kbw1970 so did i

    • @kbw.rvwhntr
      @kbw.rvwhntr 7 років тому +1

      yasmine lewis lol

    • @sinceretys
      @sinceretys 7 років тому +5

      kbw1970 shit I use baking soda now.

    • @kbw.rvwhntr
      @kbw.rvwhntr 7 років тому +2

      sinceretys no shame in nobody's game if you old school!

  • @StrongNerd1
    @StrongNerd1 8 років тому +73

    Those were the days when music made sense to the listeners and people could relate to the Artist. Real Talent.

  • @jaypv7675
    @jaypv7675 Рік тому +18

    Who's loving this jam in 2023 ?

    • @cassandrawms1
      @cassandrawms1 Рік тому +1

      Meeeee!!!💃🏾💃🏾

    • @user-dr8cz9ux6b
      @user-dr8cz9ux6b 4 місяці тому +1

      😊​@@cassandrawms1

    • @TT-fl8jt
      @TT-fl8jt 3 місяці тому +1

      2024!!!❤❤❤

    • @TT-fl8jt
      @TT-fl8jt 3 місяці тому +1

      2024!!!❤❤❤

    • @marianb2530
      @marianb2530 3 місяці тому +1

      2024!!👏🏿👏🏿🤸🏿😊

  • @nikig1023
    @nikig1023 3 роки тому +45

    No one ever even realized this group was British!! So cool and the funkiest sound around at that time ❤️

    • @derrickhatten597
      @derrickhatten597 Рік тому +12

      We knew it all the time....

    • @pattifanalwayz7388
      @pattifanalwayz7388 Рік тому +3

      I did

    • @amandaterrones878
      @amandaterrones878 Рік тому +1

      Dude they are insanely funky . Love it this is music I grew up to 🎶

    • @jacknjill3000
      @jacknjill3000 Рік тому +1

      It dies have that Brit soul sound of the late 80’s like Princess and 52nf. st. But I didn’t know to be honest. Thanks for the info!

    • @charlita25
      @charlita25 Рік тому

      Nope 👎🏾 I never would have guessed

  • @JavierED
    @JavierED 10 років тому +150

    can we PLEASE bring back the era of the 12-inch extended mix...PLEASE???

    • @Mannchild11
      @Mannchild11 7 років тому +9

      As a long time DJ, I agree. A lot of these current "dj's" would be out of work. The systems and set ups have strangled creativity. Sometimes technology can backfire.

    • @rosilynmakeba1092
      @rosilynmakeba1092 5 років тому +3

      REALLY!!💯

    • @MoonLanta
      @MoonLanta 5 років тому +2

      @@Mannchild11 Truth.

    • @lakeisharobinson2132
      @lakeisharobinson2132 3 роки тому +2

      I agree! 😎

    • @nikig1023
      @nikig1023 3 роки тому +2

      TOTALLY 💯❤️

  • @sukilocs3468
    @sukilocs3468 6 місяців тому +5

    Danced my feet off to this Jam. Bring back the 80s PLEASE🎶💃🏽🔥😩

  • @tonyaduran4480
    @tonyaduran4480 6 років тому +17

    Such nostalgia...getting ready to go out in my bedroom, 12” vinyl blasting, dancing my ass off...plastering myself in Poison perfume, making sure my hair defied gravity before I left....those were the days!!!!

    • @chevyboi81
      @chevyboi81 Рік тому

      😂😂😂❤

    • @nvalle23
      @nvalle23 11 місяців тому

      Aqua Net no doubt!

  • @househead67
    @househead67 Рік тому +13

    Big up to Nick Martinelli for producing yet another classic. 🙂

  • @SeptiaWoman
    @SeptiaWoman 11 років тому +16

    Memories of college....man! The floor would stay PACKED! And on the long version, (RIP) Brotha Grover Wasington was "wailing" on that sax! Dude could blow!

  • @mrtruthhurts2307
    @mrtruthhurts2307 7 років тому +30

    This is 🔥🔥 love the 80's

  • @Sunsosweetandnice
    @Sunsosweetandnice 6 років тому +60

    I love Five Star, I used play their songs all the time and I still love this!!!

    • @densaunders3550
      @densaunders3550 4 роки тому

      This song just been remade by delroy.... Its out this month 2020

    • @monahidalgo1828
      @monahidalgo1828 Рік тому

      I was a kid age 11 when they came out, I loved dance myself and I liked a family group music scene of the 80's ...5 Star showed up musicly in the perfect time...the music produced for them was exceptional. Nice bass runnin' through L.M.B.T.One song here. I make music/beats still and some say I made this music but I say not. people compare me to the guys 5 Star, but we aint related. I meet them while I worked at the Motown building in music age 16. They knew of me so they hug all over me and we kept in touch by phone and in person , me and they dad Buster and Denise talked over the phone for hours ...all talk about music and life in it. I don't work in music for a long time now. LOL, I wanted as a child age 5 to be in a music group but I had not enough brothers or sisters (sigh). Even later they born but not into music like me. Music then was cool, some family or solo groups are needed. Rap is cool but old fashion music groups are still a must. Bye NICE NESS

  • @purplelove010
    @purplelove010 6 років тому +18

    I love the 80s! Dance music was at it's best then!

  • @rogersmith1936
    @rogersmith1936 9 років тому +27

    Never forget playing this in Dallas at a stop light in my old 97 Chevy impala at a stop light and a black female cop rolled right next to me. I got scared cause i was loud as hell. But I remember I looked over and she gave the thumps up!!! HAHA fun times.

    • @fordmanx3
      @fordmanx3 6 років тому +2

      Roger Smith woulda been cooler if you were in a 3RD generation RX7 😎

    • @BadTV1993
      @BadTV1993 5 років тому +2

      @@fordmanx3 hell a second gen rx7 was my HS car..my homie had a first gen with purple pearl candy paint and gold rims..tacky now, cool as hell to us then lol

    • @fordmanx3
      @fordmanx3 5 років тому +1

      @@BadTV1993 nice haha rotaries are expensive too maintain

    • @BadTV1993
      @BadTV1993 5 років тому +1

      @@fordmanx3 Lucky for me I had a rotary expert shop right in my neighborhood..still there today I believe..thats all he worked on was rotary mazdas and his kid was my buddy so I had it good

    • @fordmanx3
      @fordmanx3 5 років тому +1

      @@BadTV1993 are you from California?

  • @JusLiveMylyfe
    @JusLiveMylyfe 9 років тому +40

    I love this song mainly for the background vocals, especially this part " Making dreams, making plans"" (ah ah ah)"" I remember when this use to play on Vh1

    • @BoDeeEntGroupLLC
      @BoDeeEntGroupLLC 8 років тому +4

      +JusLiveMylyfe Me too .. a great sound and feeling

    • @sweetlady3651
      @sweetlady3651 7 років тому +3

      JusLiveMylyfe yes we use to be together making dreams making plans

    • @tanham007
      @tanham007 5 років тому +2

      yessssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss

  • @obi387
    @obi387 6 років тому +18

    Growing up in a home as the only boy, 1 older sister and 1 younger, i had no choice but to listen to these fantastic siblings called 'fivestar'. I'm glad and proud to be able to reminisce on this type music. Also they hail from the UK

  • @reginaroybal2873
    @reginaroybal2873 9 років тому +30

    I was the first person to jam this group cruisin' back in the day, no one knew who they were but everyone wanted the music I had. Sweet memories...

  • @RSTAR2009
    @RSTAR2009 10 років тому +24

    My favourite dance song by Five Star!

  • @karenarthur2519
    @karenarthur2519 9 років тому +31

    Still funky after all this years!

  • @chinababy1335
    @chinababy1335 10 років тому +40

    We Used To Be Together Making Dreams Making Plans...What happened to our music, I am so glad I was raised in the 80's! Good Old School Days!

  • @keiththomas111
    @keiththomas111 8 років тому +19

    still sounds good england has good r&b. soul 2 soul , loose ends , pasadenas etc....

    • @chinababe4330
      @chinababe4330 4 роки тому

      Yes! The best of the best came from the Good Ole E! Sorry USA but it started there and America followed.

  • @nikykaur
    @nikykaur 5 років тому +6

    They brought the sun shine out even on the darkest lioness days

  • @johnnightshade5779
    @johnnightshade5779 Рік тому +4

    My Word! This cut was slammin then and still is.

  • @haydeehayes4493
    @haydeehayes4493 9 років тому +58

    This is the jam !

  • @Tennione72
    @Tennione72 9 років тому +25

    Seen this turn the club out 2 weeks ago. Still the shit

    • @Jj-ty7qh
      @Jj-ty7qh 3 роки тому +2

      What club was this?. Is it still going and playing such music? I wanna check that out.

  • @SamElizondo
    @SamElizondo 11 років тому +9

    Won’t you (let me be the one)
    Let me be (you give your love to)
    The love you need, baby
    Baby (let me be the one)
    Let me be (you give your love to)
    The one that turn your loving on
    I see the sadness in your eyes
    Don’t you get lonely baby sometimes
    Longing for the love that we had
    I’ll be waiting when the day comes
    When you need somebody
    Won’t you let me be the one

  • @sherwinmarlin2782
    @sherwinmarlin2782 Рік тому +3

    One of the nastiest beats in 80s RnB 🙂

  • @mytriton54
    @mytriton54 7 років тому +13

    WOW!!! Never realized how much this sounds like a Loose Ends joint!

    • @reneerenee2986
      @reneerenee2986 6 років тому

      mytriton54 You're are so right, I had to go back and listen and they sure do have the same beats and vibe. 2017 and still jamming to it too!!!

    • @nikaboo74
      @nikaboo74 6 років тому +2

      mytriton54 they were fiya back then too another group I love!!!!💯🙌🏾

    • @paulspringer4724
      @paulspringer4724 6 років тому +2

      mytriton54... definitely a Loose Ends production. This is why this single works so well with their vocals. An excellent 12" single.

  • @algiethomas6905
    @algiethomas6905 9 років тому +6

    They don't make em like this no more!!!! #RealRnBRightHere!!!!

  • @TuomoKauppinen030572
    @TuomoKauppinen030572 11 років тому +18

    So wonderful....with tear in my eyes i listen to this....brings me back so much so many menories....thänk you for posting this...with love.....from Finland

  • @lonnie9197
    @lonnie9197 6 років тому +10

    I HAVEN'T HEARD THIS IN A MINUTE. GOLDIE OLDIE!

  • @essiefinch1356
    @essiefinch1356 9 років тому +21

    Oh The 80's

  • @1Shao_
    @1Shao_ 11 років тому +18

    Love this song!!!

  • @jacqueline4514
    @jacqueline4514 3 роки тому +4

    Brings me back; the good times; the deep times; it was always about the music. My heart aches for this…..❤️

  • @StrongNerd1
    @StrongNerd1 12 років тому +4

    when I use to SMOKE LONG BOB MARLEY SPLIFS and go to colledge partys good days back

  • @segawapeterkenyon3063
    @segawapeterkenyon3063 Рік тому +2

    Legendry producer icon nick martinelli was at work producing for this massive British soul group so amazing hit thnks for uploading still rocking in 2023

  • @terrytyler3139
    @terrytyler3139 6 років тому +2

    Back in 86 at 13 going on 14 this was the cut

  • @davejohnson3860
    @davejohnson3860 8 років тому +15

    loose ends took me here!!

    • @ilbmlb51
      @ilbmlb51 3 роки тому +1

      Haaa..........Loose Endz, Princess, and Nu Shooz's Point of no return🤣😁

    • @davejohnson3860
      @davejohnson3860 3 роки тому

      @@ilbmlb51 Indeed!

  • @edwardhill1279
    @edwardhill1279 Рік тому +3

    Five Star keeps giving me flash backs of 85-86 good times

  • @maxkerkar7175
    @maxkerkar7175 5 років тому +4

    The 80's, best era for music

  • @ronaldgreen8423
    @ronaldgreen8423 2 роки тому +5

    "Let Me Be The One." I love playing this song for my younger lady friends and they love it too. This classic RnB song will always get you attention from the ladies,fact .🎶💋😀👌

  • @donyap6742
    @donyap6742 6 років тому +4

    Dedicate 2 my late great cuz Tony who 💘 this group. I miss u kiddo!

  • @PA-Freak98513RY
    @PA-Freak98513RY 5 років тому +3

    This is Real Electro Funk from the 80's Great☺👍

  • @DanielRodriguez-sr8sb
    @DanielRodriguez-sr8sb 8 років тому +26

    this was the jam back in the day

  • @andrerougeau4777
    @andrerougeau4777 9 років тому +13

    This was some cool funky groove from Britain . The group loved MJ and looked like they could've been his more than his so called real kids .
    The 80's were hot but the 70's were hotter . One decade sets up the next . I appreciate the Brits loving our groups here , that we take for granted .
    Music these days is a whole lot of crap .

    • @ront7504
      @ront7504 8 років тому +4

      +Andre Rougeau I think it depends what era you were born in. I was born in the 70's but I think the 80's were better than the 70's. 90's music was also nice but not as good as the 80's. What I liked about the 80's is that's the time when they started to use drum computers, synthesizers in music etc. It created a new sound. In the 70's music was recorded with real instruments (except maybe from the disco in te late 70's). The only thing I liked about the 70's was the whole disco thing. but apart from that 70's music was (at least in my opinion) crap.

    • @terrytyler3139
      @terrytyler3139 6 років тому +1

      the brits covered the 80s in pop rock and funk

  • @dougstyles5091
    @dougstyles5091 5 років тому +3

    Such good times. Who wants to go back with me?

  • @froggface73
    @froggface73 6 років тому +4

    I'm 41 YEARS OLD AND THIS SONG IS STILL 🔥🔥🔥 CLASSIC 80s SHIT my favorite cut eva

  • @ericeaster274
    @ericeaster274 10 років тому +25

    They sure dont make music like they use to. Music like this leaves room for imagination. I grew up off this right here qnd plqy it till this day.

  • @babyfacewhoo-dee9252
    @babyfacewhoo-dee9252 8 років тому +16

    THIS TRACK JAMING!!!GOTTA PLAY IT 6,000 TIMEZ AH DAY....

  • @SamElizondo
    @SamElizondo 11 років тому +7

    We used to be together
    Making dreams, making plans (ah ah ah)
    But you left that world behind
    Now I’m asking you
    Won’t you (let me be the one)
    Let me be (you give your love to)
    The one you need, baby
    Baby (let me be the one)
    Let me be (you give your love to)
    I’ll come running to you (let me be the one)
    (You give your love to)
    There’s nothing I wouldn’t do
    (Let me be the one)
    (You give your love to)
    Baby, I want you to know that I care

  • @densaunders3550
    @densaunders3550 4 роки тому +3

    Can't wait...... Another minute... For the new version of this song.... Should be out this month

  • @SamElizondo
    @SamElizondo 11 років тому +6

    Come to me, put yourself in my hands
    We used to be together
    Making dreams, making plans (ah ah ah)
    But you left that world behind
    Now I’m asking you
    Won’t you (let me be the one)
    Let me be (you give your love to)
    The one you need, baby
    Baby (let me be the one)
    Let me be (you give Your love to)
    The one that turns your loving on, on

  • @segawapeterkenyon3063
    @segawapeterkenyon3063 Рік тому +1

    my favourite British soul group they were very talented and impressive thnks for sharing music was so lovely then but now it's full of nothing

  • @rubiopicazojoseph
    @rubiopicazojoseph 7 років тому +10

    Love this version!!!! iTunes needs to have this up!!! For real!!❤❤❤❤

  • @chrislyall6251
    @chrislyall6251 6 років тому +4

    Still Sounds Fresh..!!

  • @Mackandal-
    @Mackandal- 3 роки тому +4

    🎵 Love this Jam 🎶 Five Star ❤️💕

  • @15spittman
    @15spittman 8 років тому +19

    This a jam right here!

  • @noralopez5723
    @noralopez5723 11 місяців тому +1

    I listen to a variety of music from all over the world and I love it

  • @segawapeterkenyon3063
    @segawapeterkenyon3063 Рік тому

    This was a massive classic and floor filler at club boomerang Nairobi thnks for sharing FIVE STAR is an exclusive and magnificent British pop group

  • @adeolasotimirin2692
    @adeolasotimirin2692 7 років тому +7

    Timeless ....Thank God for good songs

  • @lisetteayala5288
    @lisetteayala5288 4 роки тому +2

    2019 and still bumpin🙌🏽

  • @nicollettemancino598
    @nicollettemancino598 8 років тому +3

    love five star,, have all of there cds and 12" remixes,, brings back alot of good memories,, thanks for sharing darling xoxo

  • @gordonglasgow14
    @gordonglasgow14 4 роки тому +2

    Proper Choon Loose ends and Nick Martinelli produced this with Brother Grover on Sax
    Loose ends playing and background vocals too takes me back to those days blasting sounds like this in the park from my Pioneer SK909 ghetto blaster

  • @nikaboo74
    @nikaboo74 6 років тому +2

    This came on the radio a few weeks ago I about lost haven't this in so long......this was me & bro jam!!!!!❤️❤️ bring back so many memories!!!!!

    • @nikaboo74
      @nikaboo74 6 років тому

      ** it *** I was straight jamming in the car!!!!

  • @kelligutierrez7022
    @kelligutierrez7022 3 роки тому +1

    High school !! Omg!! This was the jam!!

  • @EwClubb1
    @EwClubb1 8 років тому +17

    Wow! 30 years later. Already??? Wow! Yep this was it...especially the break @ 04:04!!

    • @jeanieharvin8857
      @jeanieharvin8857 7 років тому +3

      Yassssss

    • @gatekeeperphx5008
      @gatekeeperphx5008 4 роки тому +1

      This break down @ 4:04 is Pure 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @SuperMaarrk
    @SuperMaarrk 7 років тому +2

    Still got this on 12" love it.

  • @RSTAR2009
    @RSTAR2009 7 років тому +4

    Masterpiece

  • @christinescott5966
    @christinescott5966 3 роки тому +1

    Besides their music,I loved that the sisters were always fully clothed. I wish they would make a comeback.

    • @mariolewis4226
      @mariolewis4226 3 роки тому

      Yeah the big 80’s shoulder pads, yep I remember.

  • @chris4up
    @chris4up 2 роки тому +3

    Man this is the jam❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @796905
    @796905 8 років тому +4

    my faveret group looove them

  • @PA-Freak98513RY
    @PA-Freak98513RY 5 років тому +2

    Best on classic vinyl,has the best sound,Great☺👍🎼🎶

  • @autrychambliss7988
    @autrychambliss7988 9 років тому +6

    da jam-- all time favorite

  • @joaoaraujo8081
    @joaoaraujo8081 8 років тому +8

    I love that song. Very, very good! The face 80's pop music.

  • @stevenbingham4828
    @stevenbingham4828 9 років тому +6

    Love this Tune :D Memories flooding back of days gone by :)

  • @Payne_Inc.
    @Payne_Inc. Рік тому

    Was only 12 when this dropped...& I'm STILL lookin for Denise! 😇😃

  • @jeanetteterry9386
    @jeanetteterry9386 5 років тому +1

    Where did all that passion come from! These were babies! It is electrifying!.

  • @Aussiesfo
    @Aussiesfo 5 років тому +3

    2019 and still one of the best;-))

  • @cerpahxa
    @cerpahxa 9 років тому +6

    one my favorite throwbacks song ..she was the one .

  • @ahmadyaghiutube
    @ahmadyaghiutube 10 років тому +2

    I will always remember this era of great songs of 80s.
    The first time I listened to this great band in a programme called " Music Box " where alot of 80 songs were competing.

  • @gabrielsaenz776
    @gabrielsaenz776 6 років тому +1

    I remember this in the. galaxies 500. what a jam.

  • @Ramos2843
    @Ramos2843 3 роки тому +5

    Todos crescem na vida profissional e
    na experiência , e a música continua fazendo sucesso e o tempo não para continua ...

  • @hitomusic
    @hitomusic 10 років тому +3

    jus luuuurve this song.
    so unreal good. Music CAN be this good, yeah.
    the lyrics are NICE, can dig it.

  • @Slick-Wit-it
    @Slick-Wit-it 6 років тому +2

    I was born in 83. I remember hearing this growing up though I hadn't heard this song the last time maybe since early 90s

  • @algiethomas6905
    @algiethomas6905 7 років тому +3

    Classic R&B Right Here!!!!

  • @sandrarogers9008
    @sandrarogers9008 5 років тому +1

    Now this brother and sister group was awesome to the T

  • @PrinceZebulun1
    @PrinceZebulun1 9 років тому +5

    Brings back memories...

  • @rashondaveal6899
    @rashondaveal6899 24 дні тому

    My first time hearing this!!! I hear Rick James Cold Blooded in this awesome joint!!🔥🔥🔥

  • @princedonnylittledonny328
    @princedonnylittledonny328 6 років тому +4

    I was in love with 1 of them back in the day lol

  • @janellmd
    @janellmd 11 років тому +3

    I used to LOVE this song in elementary school!!!

  • @VeronicaLopez-wp2jf
    @VeronicaLopez-wp2jf 8 років тому +8

    love this song

  • @lcbarnes76
    @lcbarnes76 12 років тому +2

    I used to love this song

  • @MrsMeekins
    @MrsMeekins 3 роки тому +1

    Listening Dec 2020 love this group, love this song

  • @philp4021
    @philp4021 7 років тому +8

    Their best track ... Nick Martinelli on da mix

  • @SamElizondo
    @SamElizondo 11 років тому +3

    Let me be the one
    You give your love to
    I hear your records on the radio
    I see you talking on the late late show
    Every girl wants to be your friend
    Don’t you know, you’re always on my mind
    Or how I’ve missed you
    Since you hit the big time
    Oh I’m hurting
    I just can’t pretend
    We used to be together
    Making dreams, making plans (ah ah ah)
    But you left that world behind
    Now I’m asking you