how i'm dealing with heartbreak *breakups suck*

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  • @anniephelps4999
    @anniephelps4999 4 роки тому +1590

    It may seem like quarantine is a horrible time to go through heartbreak but I promise you it’s the best time. Being stuck at home forces you to feel your feelings and truly get over the heartbreak naturally. If you weren’t in quarantine then you’d be going out and distracting yourself and then coming home at the end of the day and feeling super upset.

    • @skylarnimmo1824
      @skylarnimmo1824 4 роки тому +51

      Annie Phelps that’s exactly how I feel because my ex and I broke up 6 months ago and I didn’t realize until this quarantine happened that I was just distracting my emotions and it been an eye opening experience that I should’ve let my feelings take a natural course

    • @melsie2643
      @melsie2643 4 роки тому +26

      ikr
      wish more people would sit on their bed more and reflect on everything that has happened, get connected with their feelings instead of trying to extinguish emotions by hanging out with others

    • @maxinesarjeant3249
      @maxinesarjeant3249 4 роки тому +23

      I'm glad weve been in lockdown got broken up like a week before lockdown and I hated going to work I couldnt focus properly, when I'm going through something like this work is the last place I wanna be

    • @AlyssaMolina
      @AlyssaMolina 4 роки тому +18

      Literally just broke out of a 5yr toxic relationship yesterday... crazy that the person you thought you knew, isn’t who they actually are. Love really is blind.

    • @melsie2643
      @melsie2643 4 роки тому

      @@AlyssaMolina I'm so sorry:(
      Hope you are treating yourself kindly right now🌞💓

  • @CoraJosephine
    @CoraJosephine 4 роки тому +1124

    literally just want to give you the biggest hug. losing someone who is so important to you is the hardest thing. remember your worth, remember that things WILL get better. only rainbows after rain. i love you.

  • @bethanybrecht1599
    @bethanybrecht1599 4 роки тому +490

    I was with my BF for three years. And now I’m going through a very intense heartbreak. It’s so hurtful and like nothing I’ve ever felt before. And sitting in quarantine with just your thoughts is so hard. Try to keep yourself distracted. 🤍

    • @Ter3s4
      @Ter3s4 4 роки тому +7

      that must be so difficult. i cant imagine ever breaking up with my bf, that would slowly kill me from the inside and i dont think id be able to manage.

    • @MiraMilan
      @MiraMilan 4 роки тому +2

      how are you now?x

    • @agllvrez
      @agllvrez 4 роки тому

      I feel you girl, sending you lots of love and happiness ❤️

    • @breewoo4936
      @breewoo4936 4 роки тому +3

      My boyfriend broke up with me after 3 years also. No true explanation, over a text message.

    • @Ter3s4
      @Ter3s4 4 роки тому

      @@breewoo4936 wow :/ id want an explanation at the least

  • @savjacobs6005
    @savjacobs6005 4 роки тому +486

    when you were reading the letters my heart BROKE because i could feel your sadness

    • @gigip990
      @gigip990 4 роки тому +11

      i literally started to cry that's how much i felt it like...

  • @ransoph
    @ransoph 4 роки тому +320

    It took me literally 2 years to completely get over my ex and it affected me mentally and even physically. I lost a lot of weight and was in pain 24/7. You got this girl, it may take a lot of time but you will be alright in the end. Right now i'm with someone and he's made me so happy beyond words. Just take ur time. ☺

    • @carsynallee1250
      @carsynallee1250 4 роки тому +32

      how did you cope? i do not know how to go to work and sleep like this. Its the worst feeling and all i can do is think about the good times.

    • @selina7686
      @selina7686 4 роки тому +8

      carsyn alleé same i cant even be 5 minutes alone without losing my mind

    • @angelalomeli8620
      @angelalomeli8620 4 роки тому +7

      Im so happy you found someone who deserves you 💞 i hope everyone who had to deal w something this heartbreaking comes out stronger and never go thru it again

    • @nyomireemeyer
      @nyomireemeyer 4 роки тому +15

      2 years? God that's so long. I just wish time moved faster.

    • @Mar-pi5zm
      @Mar-pi5zm 4 роки тому +3

      I'm so happy for you. 😊
      I'm going through a heartbreak but I believe that something better is right there waiting for my love.

  • @baileymccollum3798
    @baileymccollum3798 4 роки тому +212

    I remember sitting in my bedroom when i had my very first heartbreak, i felt like i would never feel better. i felt like a part of me was missing. and you think you'll never be okay. But i promise one day you will be okay. I promise. i am so sorry you have to do this in quarantine. Goodluck beautiful. xx-B

    • @stephanieh5478
      @stephanieh5478 4 роки тому +2

      Agree with you 1000%. .
      Took me 4 years to get over a breakup.
      But I did it and I'm proud of myself!

  • @livinlikeizzy
    @livinlikeizzy 4 роки тому +239

    I know it's hard to imagine but there will come a day that you don't feel this constant pain. You aren't destined to feel this feeling forever. It will get better.

  • @maddiegary6088
    @maddiegary6088 4 роки тому +255

    Me and my boyfriend broke up alittle over a month ago, and it’s insane how I see so many UA-camrs along with others I see in my day to day life breaking up lately. Just know that yes it’s hard but you are unbelievably strong and I’m sure you’re well aware of you not being alone. You and you’re following are a unit within itself and WE will get through this together💗💗

  • @tiaataylor
    @tiaataylor 4 роки тому +609

    The fact that you made this video to show people that they aren’t alone, is really brave bc being vulnerable is scary and hard

    • @osobaseemmanuel6059
      @osobaseemmanuel6059 2 роки тому

      Hi, get help from Dr Emmanuel who helped me reunite my 5 years broken relationship, he can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance, I will advise you seek his help now thanks.

    • @osobaseemmanuel6059
      @osobaseemmanuel6059 2 роки тому

      Message him on Whatsapp

  • @giovideoable
    @giovideoable 4 роки тому +67

    I went through a breakup 6 months ago after I had been with that person for almost 3 years. When it happens, it feels like the end of the world and you feel like you might never feel fully happy again, but I can tell you this feeling goes away. Time will go by and you'll find new reasons to be happy, other things to focus on and you're going to understand that things happened for the better. One day you'll wake up and realize thinking about that person doesn't hurt anymore and the only things that stay are the good memories!

  • @samanthaneri6805
    @samanthaneri6805 4 роки тому +338

    Seeing how anxious she was to post this makes me so sad. We love you Kenzie and appreciate your vulnerability 💛💛

  • @meaghansullivan7244
    @meaghansullivan7244 4 роки тому +270

    healing isn’t linear baby! from the looks of it, you’re doing amazing. this is the last thing i wanted to hear, but time is the best healer. TRULY. every day that you finish is a WIN. xoxo

    • @reesestones3813
      @reesestones3813 4 роки тому +5

      Meaghan Sullivan I love this comment omg 🥺

    • @andreaaaxo
      @andreaaaxo 4 роки тому +6

      Meaghan Sullivan "healing isn't linear" is definitely something I needed to hear 🥺

  • @ashleymao4249
    @ashleymao4249 4 роки тому +56

    Mckenzie, I want to tell you that it will get better. Slowly time will heal you, and you will be able to be comfortable letting go and moving on by yourself. I went through a breakup in a long term relationship last July, and it was rough; for the first two weeks, I didn't eat; mornings were the worst, and sometimes I would wake up feeling like I couldn't breathe. The first few months were a storm of emotions- most days, I felt paralyzed by heartbreak- I always held on to the hope that maybe he'll change his mind. THEN, things changed and time healed me. It took me 10 months to get where I am today, and while I miss him sometimes, I don't want to be with him anymore and I've accepted that we can no longer in each other's lives the way in which we were before. What helped me get through it was to 1. cut off contact from him to let yourself grieve on your own and 2. to surround yourself with friends/people who care about you and 3. to live and new experiences independently. You will get through the heartbreak. One day, you will wake up and the memories will not faze or break you but remind you of your growth and how far you've come.

  • @jessicatorres9452
    @jessicatorres9452 4 роки тому +194

    You're so strong, you will get through this. My boyfriend and I broke up for almost two months and it made us appreciate each other! We realized we are two separate people with two different lives but together as a couple. If your relationship wasn't toxic, I hope you guys find each other in the future 🥺

    • @Alex-ir5jt
      @Alex-ir5jt 3 роки тому +7

      i don’t think the relationship needs to be toxic for the couple to never see each other. i broke up with my bf because we started to lose ourselves in this relationship. we have different values and mentality in certain important things but we never fully expressed ourselves for the fear to lose one another or hurt the other. sometimes people are just not compatible to be life long companions, that’s it. you can be still friends with that person you care and love platonically, but you know romantically you’re not for each other. i think it’s worse to have the hope that one day you can re-try with that person again, especially if one or both parties already said that they don’t see a future relationship with you anymore :(

  • @biancatexeira2976
    @biancatexeira2976 4 роки тому +98

    I remember sleeping with my mom after my breakup :( you'll get through this

  • @momikokapopikoka
    @momikokapopikoka 4 роки тому +26

    I know that feeling, nothing breaks your heart more than losing the person you wanted to send your life with. 💔❤

  • @xxJackieUlloaxx
    @xxJackieUlloaxx 4 роки тому +48

    i’m literally crying with you. i wish i can hug you

  • @McKenzieLuskey
    @McKenzieLuskey  4 роки тому +14

    hi guys. i hope you guys enjoy this video where im super vulnerable, open, and honest with you guys when i talk about my breakup. i chose to share my relationship with you guys and all of the world to see so i feel as if it was kind of necessary to explain what happened/how im dealing with everything. my boyfriend and i didn't end on bad terms and i still have so much love and respect for him and he treated me better than i've ever been treated. therefore, i expect you guys to hold the same love and respect for him even though i'm sad! i wont tolerate any sort of negative comments about him even if you feel negatively towards him, please keep it to yourself!

  • @asp246
    @asp246 4 роки тому +57

    I can’t thank you enough for this video. My boyfriend broke up with me last week (4 years) and it’s weirdly comforting to see someone is going through it as well. I can’t stop crying..everyone says give it time but I swear it feels harder every day.

    • @sophss
      @sophss 4 роки тому +8

      my breakup happened two days ago and i am the exact same. the only thing i’ve been able to do is cry. it does feel hard, harder than almost anything i’ve felt before. reading this comment section and watching this every day helps just a tiny bit. you WILL get through it, and so will i. it’s so fucking hard to believe that right now, but it’s true. you are not alone

    • @asp246
      @asp246 4 роки тому +4

      retro soph hi! I hope you’re doing better. I’m a month into this break up (this weekend) and I swear I’m starting to finally accept it for what it is. The pain of course got worse day by day until very recently honestly. We got this! Remember to keep your head up and stop blaming yourself. At least for me that’s been a big issue .

    • @lilbit4430
      @lilbit4430 3 роки тому +1

      does is get better ?

    • @asp246
      @asp246 3 роки тому +4

      @@lilbit4430 yes it did . I am surprisingly glad what happened happened. It took time to heal but he wasn’t the right person for me. I just couldn’t see that at the time. Hang in there you got this.

  • @mallorymccrane77
    @mallorymccrane77 4 роки тому +108

    If this isn’t a sign idk what it. I literally just today broke up with my boyfriend, and my heart is physically hurting right now and needed some advice right about now. Thank you for sharing this i love you so much! ❤️ we’ll be okay!!

  • @positiveoutlookk716
    @positiveoutlookk716 4 роки тому +85

    Breakups are needed love to teach you things they bring healing, the first few months will hurt even years but you’ll push through it and realize one day you were better without ❤️

  • @OppressedSteph
    @OppressedSteph 4 роки тому +171

    I recommend the movie How To Be Single. Its cheesy but so uplifting for anyone in general. Sending virtual hugs

    • @wyntermuro7762
      @wyntermuro7762 4 роки тому +12

      Yes i agree! i went through a nasty breakup in which my ex cheated on me. nothing would help me except this movie and “eat pray love”

    • @babyyodachelsea7034
      @babyyodachelsea7034 4 роки тому +3

      Mine was he’s just not that into you! And then binging sex and the city!!

    • @emilyphillips6181
      @emilyphillips6181 4 роки тому

      Thank you guys sm this is amazing, I needa watch all of them :)

  • @livelaughlove36808
    @livelaughlove36808 4 роки тому +82

    It so crazy bc even after 2 years I still can feel the exact pain you're feeling in this video. Heartbreak is incredibly painful. There isn't a way to adequately describe the feeling because of how intense it is. However, you are already displaying SO MUCH growth kenzie. I'm so proud of all the positive strides you made just in this one video. I know how easy it is to allow this situation to pull you down. I spent weeks in bed, depressed bc of my breakup. As a creative person it was a complete set back. So if I can encourage you at all it would be to not let that fire die out. You are so incredibly talented and the world needs to see that. Remember every ending has the seed of a new beginning. Sending all the love to Cali from Athens, Georgia.

    • @chiaracvn
      @chiaracvn 4 роки тому

      The first line... i feel the same. I'm fine now, but I can't watch these types of video without thinking about my breakup of a year ago and all my feelings at the time, I still remember the psychical pain in my chest. That's crazy

  • @uncbballgurl44
    @uncbballgurl44 4 роки тому +48

    there’s literally nothing i love more than a youtuber like you. while big content creators are entertaining, as a viewer i feel so far away from them. i love watching people that i can actually relate to and that seem human lol. and like i feel like u made this video for you, not just to put out “relatable” content. keep ur head up

  • @andreacartagena4710
    @andreacartagena4710 4 роки тому +36

    I just broke up with my boyfriend a few days ago. I’ve never felt so much pain in my life before. It hurts so much, so I know what you’re going through. Break ups suck!!

  • @EveLily
    @EveLily 4 роки тому +66

    i’m sobbing this is - 🥺

  • @lexviviana
    @lexviviana 4 роки тому +33

    When you took out the photo from the frame and held it up, I cried bc of how much pain was in your eyes. I’m so sorry McKenzie, sending so many hugs rn💛💛💛

  • @abbie6448
    @abbie6448 4 роки тому +79

    i feel you. im still in love with him and he left me only a few days ago. he’s happy to just go back to being strangers and he doesn’t even care. it is so painful. i can’t understand. i hope i heal soon

    • @katherinemari6772
      @katherinemari6772 4 роки тому +4

      I feel you sis! Hugs❤

    • @breewoo4936
      @breewoo4936 4 роки тому +4

      I’m in the same boat! I feel you pain. It’s not easy, but hopefully with time you will heal 💛

    • @nyomireemeyer
      @nyomireemeyer 4 роки тому +2

      I'm feeling this too. I really do hope that we all heal soon

    • @Maya-yq6yk
      @Maya-yq6yk 4 роки тому +1

      Hello,i am going through a break up now.How are you doing? Do u feel better?

    • @abbie6448
      @abbie6448 4 роки тому +2

      @@Maya-yq6yk i'm getting there. the world keeps spinning. you have no choice but to carry on. but i am still hurting for sure and miss him so much.

  • @evetalarski8789
    @evetalarski8789 4 роки тому +82

    I’m going through something very similar rn. We’ve been broken up for almost two months, but stopped talking and deleted stuff two weeks ago. My friends are so annoyed with me they stopped responding. I seriously don’t know how I’m going to survive this. He was my everything. He was literally part of my family.

    • @kuwkayleen
      @kuwkayleen 4 роки тому +12

      Eve Talarski omg the part about your friends being tired of you I get it my friends are tired of it too. Same with the part about him being a part of your family and about him being your everything. If you need anyone to talk to I’m here.

    • @lazaldesantillanximena2686
      @lazaldesantillanximena2686 4 роки тому +6

      I feel you too. I broke up with my bf 2 months ago, but completely stopped talking a week ago. My friends are beyond annoyed, they are talking to me and stuff, listening but they take longer to respond, and I know it's a topic I bring to the conversations a lot, but the pain is unbearable.
      He was part of my family, I was part of his family too. Is just so hard. I am here if you want to talk about it.

    • @Kimx3.
      @Kimx3. 4 роки тому +1

      kuwkayleen I’m so sorry you are going through this but I can agree my friends don’t respond to my texts anymore either when I need to vent

    • @kuwkayleen
      @kuwkayleen 4 роки тому

      Ximena Lazalde I’m here as well! Add me on snap and message me whenever it’s kuwkayween . (:

    • @kuwkayleen
      @kuwkayleen 4 роки тому +1

      Kim X girl you can vent to me if anything!

  • @discomongoose
    @discomongoose 4 роки тому +39

    Wow. This made me sad. Usually this stuff doesn’t bother me but this was hard to watch. This was a super genuine video.

  • @madilynnrichard9705
    @madilynnrichard9705 4 роки тому +69

    I went through this starting last May and we were off an on until August. It was incredibly hard on me and took me a very long time to be okay. I’m still not okay some days.
    Hang in there, it gets better ❤️

  • @kennabooks
    @kennabooks 4 роки тому +14

    nobody knows what heartbreak feels like until you experience it yourself . we’re here for you, we love you. Things can only get better ❤️

  • @vanessaross3589
    @vanessaross3589 4 роки тому +23

    I know the feeling of what you’re going through and yes it’s literally the worst feeling. I also slept with my mom for a while until I felt a little better. Just remember even though it doesn’t seem like it right now, everything happens for a reason. You are strong, try to stay positive baby girl! 🌻

  • @macklynn9528
    @macklynn9528 4 роки тому +49

    this made my heart break:( you will get through this and come out so much stronger, we love you💞

  • @izzybrooks3728
    @izzybrooks3728 4 роки тому +29

    Just went through the same thing a couple weeks ago🤍it’s even worse during quarantine but I came out even stronger and happier with myself. Love you girl!

  • @alexisjacobson9199
    @alexisjacobson9199 4 роки тому +24

    I just hit the 7 minute mark and had to pause because I’m crying. This hurts my heart and I wish I could take this pain away for you. Like you said, I wouldn’t wish it upon anyone.

  • @jadajonesoldchannel
    @jadajonesoldchannel 4 роки тому +11

    first loves hurt the most... love you girl, it will take time but things do get better. love you tons💕✨

  • @mallarysiegel1303
    @mallarysiegel1303 4 роки тому +25

    I know exactly how you are feeling right now. My ex and I were together for a year and a half, and the breakup was the worst pain I have felt. I kept everything that I had connected to him but kept it out of sight so I wouldn't be reminded of it. It will be a year that we have been broken up at the end of june and I just recently got over it. I love you and you will get through this. Take your time to heal.

    • @carolinemussallem9320
      @carolinemussallem9320 4 роки тому

      My ex and I broke up after a year and a half too, it was truly the worst pain of my life. It’s been 3 months and I’ve been feeling so good for 2 weeks but I saw him yesterday and now I’m back to being sad and heartbroken. Breakups are the worst thing to ever go through but ik I’ll come out stronger. I also kept everything, I’m sorry that also happened to you but it makes me feel better to know you got over it.

    • @mallarysiegel1303
      @mallarysiegel1303 4 роки тому

      Caroline Mussallem i’m sorry sorry you’re going through this as well. i still haven’t seen him since the breakup but he was actively involved in all of my friends lives up until recently so that was hard to deal with. i can’t imagine how tough it must have been to see him that soon after. if u wanna rant my ig is mallary.siegel ❤️

    • @kaitlynedwards1210
      @kaitlynedwards1210 4 роки тому

      Mallary Siegel my ex and I were together for a year and 2 months and last night he broke up with me, I can't describe how much pain I'm in. He was my best friend and now I'm so heartbroken

  • @alexiskuiters6735
    @alexiskuiters6735 4 роки тому +17

    Dude I couldn’t watch without balling too :/ I feel u so bad on the emotions and heartbreak .. I’ve been there 😩 the pain is indescribable

  • @samanthalauren7065
    @samanthalauren7065 4 роки тому +28

    I know the feeling exactly I’m still going through it with my breakup, we broke up over 6 months ago. It’s really hard when you both were always together and we best friends. Everything will get better even though it may not be soon it will be❤️ I didn’t take stuff down until 2 months later and it was really hard. This reminded me so much of what I’m still going through.

  • @deryamelody5423
    @deryamelody5423 4 роки тому +69

    The premiere hasn’t even started and I’m already crying :(

  • @awesome10531
    @awesome10531 4 роки тому +7

    i cried through this entire thing cuz i have felt this exact pain and gone through the same steps to move on. it’s so hard. it does get better!!! you’re strong and will be okay❤️ breakups are such a good lesson in life.

  • @itzairyn8863
    @itzairyn8863 4 роки тому +34

    You truly are going to come out of this much stronger and better and this was a learning experience!! My last relationship taught me a lot and breakups are so incredibly hard but over time things really will get better❤️

  • @LindseyDenig3
    @LindseyDenig3 4 роки тому +25

    it’s been over a year since my ex and i broke up, it was very heartbreaking and it took me a while to be okay again. it sucks in the moment, but it gets better everyday!! i am now dating a boy that i love so much

  • @mariemgharbi955
    @mariemgharbi955 4 роки тому +10

    I have been through this. 6 years relationship. The thing that helped me move on the most is: do not feel like you have to keep busy. Do not avoid it, and i know you think about it all the time but what im saying is maybe take like 3days to cry about it. Feel every emotion you have. Cry as much as you can. Do not push your feeling away. Look at the photos you have been avoiding and just cry and feel it as deeply as you can. This hurt soo bad I feel you girl. Do not feel ashamed and feel like you have to stop. You will eventually move on. It will get so much better i promise you babygirl. I love you. *sending you a million virtual hugs* ❤

    • @BartimaeusTrilogyFan
      @BartimaeusTrilogyFan 2 роки тому

      Are you happier now? I just got out of a 6.5 year relationship last week and it hurts so, so bad. I can't see a light at the end of the tunnel.

  • @virginiadianeb
    @virginiadianeb 4 роки тому +23

    i've been in a long term relationship and can't even imagine. i know that if we had or were to break up we always would care about one another which i think it what makes it so much harder for you bc i know you'll always care for q & want the best for him. 😢

  • @clarissaramirez5001
    @clarissaramirez5001 4 роки тому +14

    i started crying 🥺 sending u all the virtual hugs

  • @lianajacobson
    @lianajacobson 4 роки тому +4

    it took me almost 2 years for one ex and about 6 months for the other! it’s a long process, but you got this! i promise. sending hugs and prayers your way 💕

  • @ashleycastorena4108
    @ashleycastorena4108 4 роки тому +3

    It honestly broke my heart seeing you like this because I’m used to seeing you really uplifting and happy in videos. Pain is only temporary and I truly hope you feel better soon. I want this whole quarantine to be over so you can go out and distract yourself :(

  • @bex340
    @bex340 4 роки тому +7

    I’ve never commented on someone’s video before but thank you for doing a video about this. I’ve been feeling this way since i was broken up with in October and i have trouble with letting go of my feelings and moving on so that’s why i’m still having trouble today. it’s still been really difficult to find myself feeling better because i still have those moments like you said where you’re reminded. You will get through this and you will come out stronger than ever, it’s very important that you take this timeout for yourself and it’s okay to feel sad and cry, i tell myself that when i’m crying about a thought i had or a memory that i’m just making room for more positive thoughts and memories. This really helped me to see someone that i look up to also going through the same pain. Right now everything seems hard and messy and you have your good days and your bad days but you will get through this. Everyone has their own pace at which they go about after a break up, how long it takes them to release these emotions, how long it takes them to realize that they need to focus on their mental health, and how long it takes them to begin doing so. Don’t ever feel like you’re in a rush to feel better, no ones rushing you and right now this is the perfect to be doing all that you talked about and keeping yourself busy was something i hadn’t even thought about so i’m going to try that. Thank you for still uploading in a time where you’re going through hardships and for making this video, it’s going to help tons of people that are also having a hard time. I wish you nothing but happiness and peace, and you will get through this and come out stronger than ever. 💚

  • @rachel.7598
    @rachel.7598 4 роки тому +6

    This video is really beautiful. You opening up like this is weirdly therapeutic, even tho I've never experienced what ur going through. It'll all be okay in the end. 🤍

  • @EriiikaGuerra
    @EriiikaGuerra 4 роки тому +50

    This is the third time I'm watching this. I'm going through a similar situation. We broke up three weeks ago and my heart is in pieces. Being in quarantine and not having my friends around makes it 1000x worse. Somehow watching this video makes me relieved. We will get out of this.

    • @angelalomeli8620
      @angelalomeli8620 4 роки тому +2

      How are u now?

    • @EriiikaGuerra
      @EriiikaGuerra 4 роки тому +2

      @@angelalomeli8620 thanks for asking. It has been almost two months now and most of the days I feel numb, which is better than the insane pain I experienced. I still miss him though.

    • @angelalomeli8620
      @angelalomeli8620 4 роки тому +2

      Erika Silva aw i hope you ge through this 💗

    • @jenbryan1898
      @jenbryan1898 3 роки тому +2

      @@EriiikaGuerra how are you now? Did it get better eventually?

    • @EriiikaGuerra
      @EriiikaGuerra 3 роки тому +12

      ​@@jenbryan1898 Yes! After 7 months! And he came back and we went on a couple "dates". One of the dates he asked to eat icecream and watch the sunset. At the end of the date he said that he still liked me etc. But man, when a woman forgets about a guy she REALLY forgets. My old me would've died for that moment, but I now know that he's not ready for any commitment. It felt good hearing him saying those things though, but I'm long gone and most importantly: VERY HAPPY and I know I deserve better. That was a wild ride though. I thought I would never recover.

  • @HelloKatyxo
    @HelloKatyxo 4 роки тому +33

    sending love to you Mckenzie! I feel for you. XO

  • @emaleeklaumann
    @emaleeklaumann 4 роки тому +2

    When this video came out I didn’t want to watch it because i was going through EXACTLY what you were/are. It’s been a month now I think, and I’m feeling so much better and so I finally watched this video. You are so strong. I wish we could be friends and talk about life. We literally dealt with everything the same way. You’re amazing girl 💛

  • @jdavies00
    @jdavies00 4 роки тому +4

    You are AMAZING. Seriously, it takes some courage to post these extremely raw emotions and moments in your life. You are helping sooo many people cope and feel comforted and that they’re not alone. You’re insanely strong and so many people love you!

  • @hannahislittle6991
    @hannahislittle6991 4 роки тому

    What you said about why journaling helps u is so accurate, I rarely comment on videos but you just summed up exactly how I feel about it, you no longer have to hold on to those thoughts because they’re still there if u want to go back to them, but u no longer have to keep thinking them in order to do that.

    • @clayandrews456
      @clayandrews456 4 роки тому

      Hello, do you seek professional help on how to restore your ex back?

    • @clayandrews456
      @clayandrews456 4 роки тому

      Kindly DM me on what application to know how I got back with my ex!

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      @clayandrews456 4 роки тому

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  • @miaxoxs
    @miaxoxs 4 роки тому +14

    my heart aches for you, sending lots of love and positive vibes. you’re an amazing person and you’re not alone i promise you’ll get through it!! ❤️

  • @JanaeEscarez1
    @JanaeEscarez1 4 роки тому +2

    seeing that clip of you cry literally broke my heart. i remember going through a super bad break up and it took a toll on my mental health leading up to self harm. that was by far the worst part of my life, but seeing myself now, with all the respect and love i have for myself, i understand now that being with him made me not respect myself and let him walk all over me. it gets better hun. you're beautiful and we all have your back ❤️

  • @annalynch6944
    @annalynch6944 4 роки тому +8

    I literally started balling when she put away the pictures

  • @jayyafterhours
    @jayyafterhours 4 роки тому +4

    so sorry mckenzie☹️ i dealt with a heartbreak last september took me 4 months to get over and i’m the happiest i’ve ever been in a long time so it does get better💘, love you💙

  • @mallorygriffin6021
    @mallorygriffin6021 4 роки тому +4

    my heart aches for you. i’m literally tearing up watching this. i know exactly as you feel as so many others do too. this helps so much and your honesty, realness, and vulnerability is so much appreciated. my thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time💗

  • @destinygomez3286
    @destinygomez3286 4 роки тому +1

    It truly does get better. I remember when I was hurting this bad after my breakup with my best friend as well. Everyday felt like torture and I never thought I would get to a point of being okay. But you will and you do! Very proud of how much you’re focusing on you during this time!!

  • @LILYLEFFINGWELL
    @LILYLEFFINGWELL 4 роки тому +12

    I’m so so sorry. It honestly breaks my heart seeing you go through this, because I’ve been through it twice already and I know the third time will probably come soon. I know for a fact though you’ll glow up so hard and meet someone even better. Each time just level up.

  • @mikennas2308
    @mikennas2308 4 роки тому +1

    i started crying immediately. breakups and heartbreak is the hardest thing. but know that god always has a plan and EVERYTHING happens for a reason even if it sucks at first. you are so strong and i’m so thankful you posted this❤️ sending so many hugs and tons of love!!💛💛💛

  • @ravenmartin682
    @ravenmartin682 4 роки тому +22

    the premiere hasnt started yet but just wanted to say we love you

  • @ColorMyCamera
    @ColorMyCamera 4 роки тому +1

    i went through this same thing last summer and it was the hardest time,. but i look back and realize how i needed the heartbreak to shape me into the person i am today. without that experience i wouldn’t be as strong as i am now, and that may seem like an unreachable goal right now but you are more than capable of getting there. there is no rush in the healing process and that is so important to remember. finding yourself again is such a refreshing feeling, listen to music, find new passions, and don’t forget non stop self care. you can get through this, and you will!

  • @katiegarr1994
    @katiegarr1994 4 роки тому +4

    I’ve felt your pain, it’s never easy but it does get better girly! Stay strong and keep positive 💙

  • @vtyranicmc
    @vtyranicmc 4 роки тому +1

    The triggers of reminders that bring back the good memories actually kill me. I’m going through a breakup with the girl I dated, and I was also quite consumed by it. From speaking to them every day, and now gone cold turkey feels like a empty feeling. It’s been a month today and I feel like I’ve barely moved past it, and know she has progressed further. It’s tough, but we have to trust ourselves and as the good old saying goes “time heals everything”

  • @jayyafterhours
    @jayyafterhours 4 роки тому +4

    journaling and being around people who love me really helped take my mind off of it especially spending time with just my siblings and going to my sisters apartment really helped a lot💗

  • @samanthaleigh8891
    @samanthaleigh8891 4 роки тому

    I started crying because I felt how much pain you’re in through this video.. just got out of my longest relationship and it broke me he saved me from the darkest place in my life and to be in a very dark place again I can’t do it and I think I can’t do it with out him.. I’ve watched your videos for years now just know YOU HAVE ALL OF US MCKENZIE I love you and the world loves you ❤️

  • @kaylagarman
    @kaylagarman 4 роки тому +4

    NGL I rarely watch your vids but when I saw this on my feed I literally said “what” out loud and my jaw DROPPED. I’m so sorry girl I wish I could give you a hug! This shit is the worst ugh you can get through this!!

  • @makeupatitsfinest8364
    @makeupatitsfinest8364 4 роки тому +3

    this was literally me over the past month aw I know exactly what you're going through .. my boyfriend broke up with me the day before quarantine out of nowhere :/ it's a rollercoaster but healing is never linear so just ride the wave and keep up your self care and routines,, that's at least what I've found to be most helpful

  • @rebeccahelengordon9946
    @rebeccahelengordon9946 3 роки тому +3

    thank you so much for this, I am going through a breakup after a three year long relationship, he was my first proper love and my everything and we where best friends. After only three months of being apart he called me to tell me he has a new girlfriend. I know this will make me stronger but is really tough. Anyone going through something similar, be kind to yourself, eat well, hydrate and talk it out with people you love and trust. sending hugs. Xx

    • @sophiamp.3641
      @sophiamp.3641 3 роки тому

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      @sophiamp.3641 3 роки тому

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      @sophiamp.3641 3 роки тому

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      @sophiamp.3641 3 роки тому

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    • @rebeccahelengordon9946
      @rebeccahelengordon9946 3 роки тому

      @@sophiamp.3641 thanks, but I don’t want him back- I want to take care of myself and focus on me and my goals

  • @cheyennehewitt2933
    @cheyennehewitt2933 4 роки тому

    The fact that you made a video about your break up and wasn’t afraid to show the world how heart broken you are and aren’t afraid to show pictures and just your emotions throughout the whole thing is really commendable. A lot of people our age like to walk around high and mighty and like they aren’t hurt which is only hurting them more. This video is a great help to those who are afraid to show emotion on this topic. Like ppl really do need to get rid of photos and things like that. It’s so great you showed us how you were dealing with it. And I’m a newbie here. YOURE AWESOME
    Wait also I’m 25. Sorry maybe I’m just old. And am glad this is out there either way you’re dope

  • @myavincent258
    @myavincent258 4 роки тому +4

    you will get through this. it may seem hard rn especially since you have more time with your thoughts, but just remember it for what it was and not what it could have been going forward, so that way it’s not so hard on your mind. it won’t be easy but you will become stronger for it. we love you keep your head up!❤️

  • @kadyfrench4542
    @kadyfrench4542 4 роки тому

    I started a heartbreak journal a week ago. I print off quotes that sum up my feelings that day and glue them to a page and then write out to the side how I've gotten better that day, what's been worse that day, and what has helped me that day. it really does help to put your feelings on paper!! huge hugs for you girl it sucks but just like you said flowers grow through dirt first!!!

  • @kraniif8031
    @kraniif8031 2 роки тому +3

    It's been 42 days and I have been journalling. I literally asked myself yesterday why I am still so sad when it's been over a month. Why do I still cry, and why I still feel like going back...watching this helped!

    • @sarahluton6386
      @sarahluton6386 2 роки тому

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      @sarahluton6386 2 роки тому

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    • @seyidebby1677
      @seyidebby1677 2 роки тому

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      @seyidebby1677 2 роки тому

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  • @abdryasulova3573
    @abdryasulova3573 4 роки тому +1

    honey youre the sweetest human being ive seen on youtube and i wish you all the best. youll grow through it just as i did, trust me my breakup gave me ptsd but i keep going and keep growing because you should never put no person above your own interests. ily, glow tf up, you can do it

  • @bnicholas2689
    @bnicholas2689 4 роки тому +3

    So proud of you for making this video and trying to get through it!! We all love you and appreciate your vulnerability so much

  • @Chris-lo3sy
    @Chris-lo3sy 4 роки тому

    The best thing about heartbreak (if you can believe there is something good you get out of it) is how strong you become from it and how much you learn about yourself. Recently went through it for the first time a few months ago and I was at such a low point. I feel like a completely different person and quite honestly, after going through it, I would never allow someone to have that affect on my mental health again. You got this.

  • @sabrinatheteenagevlogger
    @sabrinatheteenagevlogger 4 роки тому +3

    we’re here for you, thanks for being you ❤️

  • @botherrama
    @botherrama 4 роки тому

    this resonates with me so much!! i just broke up 3 days ago and with the quarantine it adds nothing but a huge ton of baggage to my emotions. i haven't gone through a single day without bawling in hysteria thinking that i also just lost my best friend. but i feel you and i acknowledge you. i wish you nothing but all the love to come out of this as a better version of yourself. hugs! 😭

    • @michellereeves9316
      @michellereeves9316 4 роки тому

      Hello Kirana Sausan, DoYou need tips on how to get back with your ex?

    • @botherrama
      @botherrama 4 роки тому

      @@michellereeves9316 not really, as my reason of breaking up was to pick up my self-respect again. i just want the pain of losing him to fade away, but i seriously don't know what to do in coping with this excruciating pain besides crying all day :(

  • @sourcreampussy2981
    @sourcreampussy2981 4 роки тому +3

    im glad this was recommended to me because im going through the same thing right now and im not alone, wish you the best of luck 💕

  • @cheyennegrenda
    @cheyennegrenda 4 роки тому +2

    thank u for this🥺no ones life is perfect but hard times will pass🤍stay strong

  • @emmakenney5737
    @emmakenney5737 4 роки тому +8

    Stay strong girl!♥️ We all love you so much, just remember everything happens for a reason 🥰

  • @mariahluna4451
    @mariahluna4451 4 роки тому +1

    awh momma🥺you’re so strong and so amazing. i love to see you putting yourself out there and being so real. it’s so comforting to know that i’m not the only one who struggles with my mind and tackling my emotions. i love and look up to you so much. 💓

  • @peepwattapeep
    @peepwattapeep 4 роки тому +14

    I'm soo sorry! It will get better, as well as everything else that's going on in the world right now ❤. We must keep optimistic.

  • @ericaduran161
    @ericaduran161 4 роки тому +2

    Literally in tears watching this. I just want to give you the biggest hug! You are so strong and will get through this! Just take it one day at a time. This painful feeling you are having will go away one day. Sending you all my love!!

  • @eloves7
    @eloves7 4 роки тому +4

    Oh I was so wishing I could just reach out and hug you through this whole video!! Girl I so feel you on every word as I’m sure SO many others do. It is the absolute worst feeling-like you just got punched in the stomach but constantly ugh 😞 I couldn’t sleep in my own room after either of my bad break ups too-no shame lol no matter how old you get sometimes a girl just needs her mama. It DOES get better and try to just ride out the rough days and as the hurt starts to ease you’ll start to feel it being replaced by excitement for all the new opportunities and experiences ahead. When you’re in the worst of it sometimes it feels like you’ll never feel “the butterflies” again-but you will and then some! Just take care of you for now & embrace the ones who love you & know that everything will be okay-PROMISE ❤️ sending u all the love and hugs in the world and we all can’t wait to see you bloom as you find yourself again!

  • @edaa9757
    @edaa9757 4 роки тому +1

    I went through heartbreak in January and it was the worst emotional pain that I’ve ever felt in my life. And I love how you mentioned that you wouldn’t wish it upon your biggest enemy because that’s what I told my friends and myself when I was really going through it. Through it all, I always had a mindset that it’s going to get better and that I’m going to feel happier eventually and I promise you if u keep that mindset as well you genuinely will feel better. Time heals everything and you are most definitely not alone! The fact that you’re able to sit in front of a camera and talk about this just shows how strong you are as an individual. I am so so proud of you and I know it’s hard it sucks but you will get through this❣️

  • @quackwackers3621
    @quackwackers3621 3 роки тому +5

    This is day 2 for me it’s been so hard. I really can’t stop crying. My heart can’t take it she was my first love. It’s so hard to believe that this is the result of 2 years. I really gave her my all and for it to be thrown back in my face is like a slap in the face. This is going to be so hard. I just can’t wait to be alright.

    • @sophiamp.3641
      @sophiamp.3641 3 роки тому

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    • @sophiamp.3641
      @sophiamp.3641 3 роки тому

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  • @suhani8
    @suhani8 3 роки тому +1

    I'm going through a very rough breakup right now and this really makes me feel so heard and seen. This is an old video but it must have been hard to film something like this, thank you for doing it❤️

  • @Rameuh_
    @Rameuh_ 4 роки тому +8

    W A I T. W H A T. 😭💓 we love you mckenzie..and just know to stay strong. you’re beautiful and this is an opportunity to find yourself, and get used to being by yourself. much love❤️

  • @sophss
    @sophss 4 роки тому

    i broke up with my bf two days ago now. after months and months of hurt and lies i know this is what’s supposed to happen, we weren’t meant for each other and i need to remind myself that i need to find myself and again and that if i would have stayed with him it would’ve stopped me from that. today’s the second day that i’ve come back to this video and i’m going to continue to come back to this every day. this really made me truly feel that i’m not alone. i was consumed in the relationship too and the pain and the same aching that i’m feeling is something i’ve never felt before. thank you for making this. every day gets better by a fraction of a percent and you made me believe that i can get through it.

  • @miaibarra964
    @miaibarra964 4 роки тому +5

    Stay strong! We all love you! Just remember everything happens for a reason💕💕

  • @bellaholman627
    @bellaholman627 4 роки тому +1

    Break ups are hard, I totally feel for you and what you are going through right now. However you are strong, and speaking from experience, you will come out of this stronger. Thank you so much for being vulnerable and posting this 💕

  • @vanessagracemun
    @vanessagracemun 4 роки тому +3

    Keep your head up Kenzie. Stay strong and you will get through this 💛

  • @chessier6154
    @chessier6154 4 роки тому

    i know exactly what you’re going through. it took me a year to get better. i hope you feel better way sooner than that, but you seem to be trying to help your mental health which is great. sending you tons of positivity and hugs! you’re so strong, you can do this!

  • @graciecamacho1923
    @graciecamacho1923 4 роки тому +3

    we love you and are here for you always :) you have the most beautiful soul and I know you'll get through this!

  • @kaileesandoval3337
    @kaileesandoval3337 4 роки тому +2

    gosh. you are literally my favvv person ever. so freakin genuine and just down to earth. + your videos just keep getting even better with every upload! love you the absolute most.