Julia Jacklin - Ignore Tenderness (Official Audio)

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  • Опубліковано 4 жов 2024
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    "Ignore Tenderness" is taken from Julia Jacklin's new album, PRE PLEASURE, out August 26, 2022.
    Lyrics:
    I’ve been trying to
    be turned on by you
    be turned on by myself
    or anything else
    been watching porn
    lights off, headphones on
    right when the pleasure begins
    my education creeps in
    I’ve been stripping right down
    staring at my own reflection
    ever since I was 13 I’ve been
    pulled in every direction
    such a good student
    of all that conflicting advice
    go put ice in your mouth
    let them slap you about
    go on choke yourself out
    but leave no room for doubt
    that you are brave
    beneath the sheets you’re just a cave
    a plastic bucket, or a grave
    who said, you’re not what you get
    you are what you gave away
    I’ve been thinking back
    to when things went off track
    you know that’s not what I wanted
    is that why I feel haunted?
    by something small
    strong enough to destroy it all
    If I don’t change soon
    will it forever eclipse the moon
    that keeps me stable
    away from all of that advice
    that put words in my mouth
    all those drinks on the house
    go on just let it all out
    but leave no room for doubt that you are brave
    a little leaf catching a wave
    strong but willing to be saved
    ignore the tenderness you crave
    be naughty but don’t misbehave
    who said, you’re not what you get
    you are what you gave away
    Website: juliajacklin.com
    Bandcamp: juliajacklin.b...
    Facebook: / juliajacklin
    Instagram: / juliajacklin
    Twitter: / juliajacklin
    #JuliaJacklin #PREPLEASURE #IgnoreTenderness

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  • @viachicago
    @viachicago 2 роки тому +49

    “Be naughty but don’t misbehave.” Along with Move Me by Stella Donnelly and Simulation Swarm by Big Thief, the songs of 2022.

    • @glenmaxwell3465
      @glenmaxwell3465 2 роки тому

      You have extreme Poor taste Mr Toad

    • @bambi7999
      @bambi7999 2 роки тому

      ​@@glenmaxwell3465 what r ur songs of 2022???? lemme see ur taste so i can drag u

    • @glenmaxwell3465
      @glenmaxwell3465 2 роки тому

      @@bambi7999 it’s certainly not some ABC Double J woke pseudo indie manufactured Trash

    • @Johnnyboy295
      @Johnnyboy295 2 роки тому +3

      May I also suggest Kissing Lesson by Lucy Dacus

    • @jacktorrenc3140
      @jacktorrenc3140 Рік тому +1

      Appreciate the Wilco reference. Just found Big Thief - now I've 5 albums to love. Last night, found Shannon Wright - first 4 tracks of her first LP, Flightsafety, are unbelievably good. The 11th, Yard Grass, has the fastest acoustic guitar (as fast as Metallica) I've ever heard, and I've heard a lot!
      Also, Neko Case's, The Worse Things get, the Harder....., is worth the UA-cam search.
      The outro of the last track is so good. Amazing how just 11 notes on a trumpet, can be so beautiful/powerful.

  • @froggies5103
    @froggies5103 2 місяці тому +3

    As someone who was groomed online I've had a very conflicting relationship with sexuality. This song has helped me with my healing journey. I love u Julia please come go the USA so I can never be depressed again.

  • @equipadont
    @equipadont 2 роки тому +15

    Strong but willing to be saved

  • @Yessicuhhh
    @Yessicuhhh 2 роки тому +29

    Julia, your music has meant so much to me. I went through a break up with my partner of 7 years last year and your music honestly helped keep me from drowning under the depression of that time. You gave voice to some of my most difficult and painful feelings and it made me feel like I wasn't alone (especially "to Perth before the border closes". That song instantly brings tears to my eyes). Thank you so much for that! I almost got to see you at the recent Ain't No Picnic festival but ended up not being able to go cause I was moving that weekend. I hope I get a chance to see you perform live some day soon. Thank you for the work you do

  • @honeyglisten
    @honeyglisten 2 роки тому +20

    i love this one so much wow. amazing & poetic for a subject that women don't often open up about.

  • @frankieasteroid
    @frankieasteroid 2 роки тому +11

    waking up to find treasures like this just released into the world is where the pleasure begins...

  • @Missjunebugfreak
    @Missjunebugfreak 2 роки тому +19

    Might be my favourite off the record. It's such a deliciously stunning melody and arrangement.

  • @MrBrno
    @MrBrno 2 роки тому +33

    Julia Jacklin gives me life. This is just another masterpiece from her, her songs evolve so preciously

  • @davidrivera9778
    @davidrivera9778 2 роки тому +8

    AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH this is literally my song wtf. I love you so much

  • @user-ro7kt4te6p
    @user-ro7kt4te6p 2 роки тому +5

    BRB crying dying throwing up and smiling

  • @TheLegendOfCatss
    @TheLegendOfCatss 2 роки тому +14

    this is weirdly specific to my life rn (thanks for no sex drive, SSRI’s)

  • @emmanouelaapostolaki9935
    @emmanouelaapostolaki9935 2 роки тому +14

    Julia, you are opening a new chapter to my life ❤

  • @michaelmarsille3022
    @michaelmarsille3022 2 роки тому +4

    Très beau…très beau... c'est très BEAU... VRAIMENT BEAU...et très déroutant merci Julia

  • @acoldhand
    @acoldhand 2 роки тому +3

    You are brilliant thank you for making music that means something.

  • @magicknight13
    @magicknight13 2 роки тому +1

    Brand new fan!! She is amazingly soulful...

  • @thatslikeyoureopinion
    @thatslikeyoureopinion 2 роки тому +1

    I’ve been waiting a long time for today!

  • @nadiahillman
    @nadiahillman 2 роки тому

    Another new fan -WOW - Julia- your talent is blinding! This one is such raw, haunting beauty!

  • @millygribben5267
    @millygribben5267 2 роки тому +4

    Dude you didn’t have to attack me like this.

  • @BiriBatto
    @BiriBatto 2 роки тому +1

    Needed this

  • @kolinevans9127
    @kolinevans9127 2 роки тому +1

    Its beautiful

  • @maryiamamiwhoami
    @maryiamamiwhoami 2 роки тому +1

    Love you ✨💖✨

  • @sean__s
    @sean__s Рік тому

    Amazing.

  • @BushcraftSquirrel
    @BushcraftSquirrel Рік тому

    Excellent 🌞

  • @oboewizard98
    @oboewizard98 2 роки тому

    Thank you

  • @caitlinmedina7563
    @caitlinmedina7563 2 роки тому

    AHHHH

  • @Jaciel
    @Jaciel 2 роки тому

    YESSSS

  • @natalierachellouisesantana
    @natalierachellouisesantana 2 роки тому +1

    ♥️♥️♥️

  • @rabbi445
    @rabbi445 2 роки тому

    Chill, people leave her alone jacklin ma creation 🥳😳😎

  • @Jaciel
    @Jaciel 2 роки тому

    🤩🤩

  • @misshearttree
    @misshearttree 2 роки тому +1

    The HORN section ☺️

  • @Blahshamahhaaaaaa
    @Blahshamahhaaaaaa 2 роки тому

    cotton candy melting on the tongue

  • @aldiergreen
    @aldiergreen 2 роки тому

    heather nova, please, with love

  • @2_faboo
    @2_faboo 2 роки тому +1

    .

  • @1980thefallguy
    @1980thefallguy 2 роки тому

    I like the relatability... I feel this is an intermission song... a bit 70's snooze... hang on a second...

  • @kercheems9847
    @kercheems9847 Рік тому +1

    I kind of think the lyrics are about a transgender person, specifically a transfem going into their transitioning stage.
    Like the first verse they're trying to be turned on by anything, and well that's actually one common effect while transitioning to a female.
    Then there's this lyric that goes "If I don't change soon, will it forever eclipse the moon". Like some trans people are actually scared of puberty, since it'll heavily influence their bodies making them even more dysphoric.
    But that's just my take, this is a really good song, really-really good.

  • @kam-lw4ez
    @kam-lw4ez 2 роки тому +2

    Really like this song except for that line about porn. Don't watch it, there's no pleasure in it.
    Makes me sad how "sex positivity" is teaching women that you have to like being choked and slapped and other painful shit. Actually nothing wrong with KiNkShAmInG

    • @baby1648
      @baby1648 2 роки тому

      I don’t think that was the point of the line. I think it’s alluding to her not being able to find pleasure from her partner or within herself so the cheap thrills of p*rn is the only she could find that pleasure. Then the next line says her education creeps in. So I imagine she’s guilty for the way she found pleasure.

    • @naomik5722
      @naomik5722 2 роки тому +51

      it’s like you missed the entire point of the song..😔

    • @stillatomic
      @stillatomic 2 роки тому +28

      you literally missed the whole point..😭

    • @dallasantonio2376
      @dallasantonio2376 2 роки тому

      @@stillatomic do you think you could explain the point? I think I have an idea but I want to check I'm not incorrect.

    • @helenhoward6490
      @helenhoward6490 2 роки тому +17

      the line “right when pleasure brings my education creeps in” is all about, in my understanding, her awareness of how women are supposed to feel uplifted by porn and the sex positivity movement, when it is actually exploitative and degrading. the whole song is about self worth, desirability, and the emptiness of that confusion

  • @glenmaxwell3465
    @glenmaxwell3465 2 роки тому

    Words like Mundane, cliche, boring spring up when I heard this!

  • @juliajacklinclub1346
    @juliajacklinclub1346 2 роки тому +1

    Love you Jules! 💚