So how would you term catching your mum at age 6 with another man? Where's the disrespect in calling it cheating? She's bold and if am she said was the truth then that's all that matters. But only if .
Your mom is your mom and your Dad is your Dad never disrespect them under any circumstances. You cannot pay them for raising you up. This your act is unacceptable
My own take on this,is that people should be prepared and learn what it takes to bring children into the world not giving birth bcos you see everybody doing it.
The lady is push by her fake pastor father, the lady will ripe what she showed. No prayer and fasting can deliver her from that curse she puts on her head
The President is a Man of Wisdom. This word for the daughter what goes round, comes around, wait till you get married experience what your mother went through then you can talk. Till then take a seat.
@@victoriaokeowo953 what truth?????. This the daughter 's opinion. It's not a fact. At 6 years old, she missed her dad. She said she is very stubborn and I believe she is highly OPINONATED. SOOOOO? JUDGE or President one-sided.? Sorry don't see it.
What do you mean you hate him because your father is still alive, so you are saying as long as your dad is separated from your mom but still alive, your mom cannot have another relationship, non sense
"She can easily forget the good but can never forget the bad" she's got a bad mind, she's not nice at all, golden heart always forgo the bad and remember good part of you, she's not making sense at all
This pastor will not go unpunished because of using his daughter against her mother , the girls is a liar, and l wonder what this pastor prices to his member ,
Even if it happened truly...this girl's gut will never allow her find happiness in life for coming publicly to make a fool of herself.. she go take her tap running mouth implicate herself. She doesn't know her future in-laws are watching LIVE
My Mom is not my mate. Biko keep quiet cos you know nothing. She's trying to judge her own mother. They are ganinging up against that innocent woman. God forbid that I give birth to a child like this.
This is serious the lady may be right but should know that one day she will marry n start her own life no body knows tomorrow talking about her mum is absolutely not good mother pass thru alot the man must have caused all that happened God will help
But the Father and mother have separated for years, do you want to tell me that the father has not gotten a lover since they separated?Come on people. Now the woman did what she did,there is a problem, but Men will do there own thing no one will talk and they go scot-free.
To believe that a child you carried for nine months will come out like this in a public to say such a thing about her mother no matter how bad she is, is so depressing. She fell to understand the word separation which was the case in the situation of her parents. Her mother had an affair with another man after two years of separating from her husband, is not that she caught her sleeping with another man while the father was still living with them. The funniest part of it all is the fact that her father at that point in time was also having an affair with other women because Separation was involved, the only difference is that her mother was doing her own in the presence of her kids which I'm not in support. Separation can play three parts which we need to understand, number 1 Separated couple can decide to forgive themselves and come back as one again, number 2 It can lead to divorce and number 3 They can remain separated without divorce or coming together for the rest of their life's. Any one they decide to go for is their decision, their daughter is sounding like someone that has been brain washed, she is judgemental and not being logical. She should step in and resolve their differences so they can have inner peace instead of bashing her mother, her father is not a saint either he went and married another woman without divorcing her mother, that's coming from a pastor for that matter, she is also forgetting that she will marry some day, and no body is perfect she need to work on her temper too. My take in this , no matter how bad your father or your mother is they don't deserve this public humiliation.
She has been brainwashed. She is materialistic, her father is better off than her mother so she supports her father against her mum. One good turn deserves another, her children will gang up against her one day. Her cup of tea will be hotter than her mums
@@floraodion5736 be logical my dear, everything supposed to have made sense to her now that she is 23 years old, that the affair her mother had when she was 6 was as a result of the separation from her father over two years of not being together, which her father is also a part of in his own world of affair with other women, i know she didn't understand it then as a child which made her angry thinking that another man want to take over her father's place, but she is a grown up now with a developed brain to differentiate things, that's why the moderator asked her how long before the affair and she said over one or two years of separation, come on now is the woman not suppose to move on with her life? He has brain washed her daughter ever since he took her from her mother to hate her, because is obvious she is not ready to make peace for them. And she is in support of her father's marriage with another woman without divorcing her mother, if is not brain wash what is it then. She will marry someday and then everything will make sense to her by then she will realise the mistake she have made and it maybe to late for her then.
@@malkah1270 outside of Nigeria, yes!! All that needs to be proved is cohabitation for a number of years and the assets acquired during those number of years will be split however the court deems fit. In Nigeria ?? Am not so sure! Especially if that marriage is not under the act, just traditional, e go get as e be.
After a year or two of separation from her father, did she not expect her mum to date? How could she accuse her mum of cheating on her father when they had been separated for over a year? This girl's immaturity at 23 years is unbelievable.
She's hurting, and has anger issues that have never been resolved, unfortunately if she doesn't go for professional counseling she will end up making the same mistakes of her parents. The only example she saw growing up
@@njeriobike8924 I so agree. May God/ Halla have mercy upon the man who.marries this young woma n. Wow baggage. Her mom and dad separated over 2 years and this young lady is only blaming the mom. Is she her real mother or a stepmom.
This pastor's daughter is just a confused child. Judging the mother after being separated for more than two years. It's clear she doesn't know what marriage is about. She really is very childish.
So u expect her to hide the truth and continue to keep the dad in pains after several moments of detention only because he has been making efforts to reconcile his family.
Mr. President this is first time am coming across this program and am well pleased with your presentation and ways of handling stuffs. I'm a Journalist by profession but I give it to you sir. You are the best sir. I also watched another one where you presented a missed child to his Daddy. You be oga oooo. Thank you for restoring peace back to homes sir.
Hmmm, i noticed that most women making comments are against the young lady’s testimony. They would rather want her to support the Mum, though she may just be saying what she feels. The assumption is that Mothers can not abuse their own children, and fathers are always the culprits. That is gender blackmail! Just think of how bad you would feel, if as a six year old, you see another man right on top of your Mum. When you know that she is still in a marriage. Can a child understand what it means to be divorced or even separated?. This is pain that would have haunted this Lady all her life. Thank God that she has the opportunity to let some of it off her chest on this forum.
But if she see her father it's okay right? For me, they would have not involved their children into this matter, even when the children insisted honestly. The husband and wife are both wrong in different ways. Wife, bringing a man into her house where are children are. Husband, marrying another woman when is wife is still alive ( the Holy Bible says a man or woman that is divorce, which dey are both not, should not remarry except one of them is dead. Reason to my own understanding is for the ability to forgive each other as our heavenly father always forgive us). Please way remember the chapter and verse help me out. So na Baba God judge all of us. Daughter, you should have involved yourself in this matter ooh...! There is no perfect marriage, your new mummy and your daddy may be having some issues, but will never let you see or know. When you marry, you go understand, because you go if it difficult to understand now.
I agree that she did not understand as a six years old child. Now that she is matured nko. We always forget that women has emotions. But how come she is the only one that knows all and her eldest ones don't? Just curious.
@@victorify5936 This story is somehow, and everybody seems like to be against the man without balancing the story from what the daughter said there must truth
That is why I never took my ex husband to court when we separated because I didn't want my children to take sides I lost everything for the sake of unity Disparity us not being together we enjoy and respect each other.
This lady is a real product of a broken home. I wonder how she'll be able to train her own children. Cos u definitely can't give what you don't have. This is terrible. She really need to beg God for forgiveness.
I do not see her like that. She is really saying thing from her own view. She is wise and saying things in a wiseanner . She can not be intimidated abroad. Her 23 can be a manager abroad and control multitude of workers. We grew up not talking but looking at our elders only talk in family matter only to come out of Nigeria to meet the same issues. Her mom may have done what she did in the bit to sustain their living. But she cought the act and it didn't get off her mind. This she should learn how to forgive .
Esteemed ordinary President and Berekete family, I believe in ur wisdom to handle this case to a positive conclusion but I suggest that such delicate marital issue should be handled off camera. Better still, you would have maintained talking to the children off camera for their future sake. For me a lot of horrible mistakes have been made by both parents and it's injustist to their children. They put their personal interest first, not their Innocent children. The attitude of the daughter is only a product of the parent's ignorance. Thank you for your great job and may God continue to increase your influence. 8:098:09
So u expect her to hide the truth and continue to keep the dad in pains after several moments of detention only because he has been making efforts to reconcile his family. Africa una de try
Ordinary President Sir.... I know it is not easy mediating... The interjections and the choice of words, to me, suggests that you hold a position.... The same feeling I have about the manner interjections since Part 1. Family feuds can be very sensitive.
He's not interjecting her, she's rude, stubborn and disrespectful. I pity any man that ends up with such a lady. If she could expose her mum so easily,then who's her husband that she won't wash his dirty linens outside. God forbid such woman in my family.
In as much as it was wrong for a child to speak this way about a woman who carried her in her womb for 9 months, it was wrong for her mum to be sleeping with a man in the presence of her children. This 23 years old woman, na wahooo! God said you should honour your father and your mother oooo!
I AM SO SORRY FOR THIS DAUGHTER OF A JEZEBEL. MY JOY IS THAT SHE IS A WOMAN. ONE DAY SHE WILL GET MARRIED AND SHE WILL EXPERIENCE MORE THAN WHAT THE MOTHER WITNESSED IN HER MARRIAGE. GALATIANS 6:7 IS FOR HER. THERE IS NOT MUCH TO SAY ABOUT THE SPOLT CHILD
@@samuelwilliams1273 wake up and stop supporting evil religiously. Where has being religious taken Africa to? She's taken sides with morality and will have a wonderful family of her own
Nigeria JUDICIARY NEEDS to do More in PROTECTING Victims Of DOMESTIC VIOLENCE By giving hard Sentences to the ABUSERS in JAIL and PRISON.. I'm Watching live from the United States Of America and this Site Of ABUSES Cannot hold this long here. This is U.S.A. Eyes On Nigeria.
She may not remember the exact year. I have such memories. I can tell you most things that happened in my toddler period. Normally such type of children hates any man that encroaches near their mother in jealous for their father.
you re right....such happen to me when I lost my dad...any man dat come close to my mom ehn...haaaaaa na die oooo because I dont want any man come close to my mom
The daughter isn't saying the truth she has been hypnotized because if her father was a good husband without molestation there would have still be Arinze's family. I wondered at who ordained him as a pastor. Fellow Nigerians beware of pastors filled with anger and unforgiving spirit cause such is not of God.
Ordinary President, as a trained journalist, I want to profoundly register appreciation for your efforts. Permit me, however, to note that marital issues are delicate, manipulative. May God give you the peerless wisdom to do the needful.
If your mother behaved like that and, yet you allow your father to be so publicly humiliated, for your mother lies, then ‘no be your Papa born you’. That is the real shame, right here. Think!
She has issues i see a deep rooted bitterness in her spirit there is this hidden dark bitterness in her heart .. sumtin dey pain her inside.. she needs to heal every thing she said is coming from prolonged bitterness and it's very serious. Darling you may think you are hurting your mum but no you are hurting yourself and your entire family no matter the wrong .. remember words are like an egg when broken it can't be fixed.. words are easily said but can never be reversed., i wished you were never involved in your parents issues, you will some day become a parent .. i pray for you and your family, i wish you well...
It is chiefly the responsibility of your dad to take care of you & your siblings financially. So don't take it because he has the money, that your mum loves you less. In her heart, you people are her world. Sorry to say, you turned out to be just like your dad. You grew up in an unstable home when you were below 6yrs. This period is the formative age. Narcs will be good to every other person except their victim.
Me an African(Namibian)washing from Uk.I agree with my friend who said this girl is brainwashed. She is ever paid /promised a big amount of money for her to come say this with confidence .
Her father is a narcissist and he has groom his daughter to be like him. No mater what he did to her mother she will believe her father’s untrue story. Is very unfortunate when you get yourself entangled with a narcissist, all kinds of lies, emotional blackmail and self justification to people.
Children shouldn't be involved in their parent's fight except it is necessary. Again whatever your father/mother is , you never underlook them , a proverb in my village goes. Everything never happened in your presence. Where were you during their courtship? Be very objective and wise knowing that one day you will be a wife and a mother too. God be with you.
The young woman has been corrupted by the father, but she may not know exactly what lies ahead of her. Her exposure right here prone to her to loss of suitors..... Any man marrying her is in great danger!
This young woman needs to be spoken to.What will you get by disgracing your mother.. In your words your mother and father were separated.Honour your father and mother. Words follow us.I pray that you will grow up and your words will not hunt you.
So u expect her to hide the truth and continue to keep the dad in pains after several moments of detention only because he has been making efforts to reconcile his family.
No responsible first daughter see herself as her mother's mate. She can be your mentor not your mate. Point of correction, whether first or second no matter your position in your family. Anyone that sees her mother as her mate is automatically wanting to share her father with her mother or need him for herself alone. I think you are having affair with your father that's why you lied against your mother. If is true your own daughter will do worse than this to you
First or last daughter, who does that??? She will be dealt with everywhere she goes. People will run away from her. Hear her voice in the mist of adults. God forbid for me to know this kind of a human being. Jesus onye ebele.
Big lie.the daughter is lying.first daughter and their mother never agrees. First daughters are always daddy’s best friend keeps all dad’s secrets from their mother
Don't make the mistake of commenting on this matter if you have not watched the part 1&2 of this case before drawing your conclusion. And when watching, do that with open mind, don't be bias
Your statement, when you do something good for a child the child forget but when you do something good you can easily forget. Anyone that remember the wrong did to him or her and forget the good done to him or her is wicked and ungrateful. You're a bad child and I believe you are in love with your father. No smoke without fire one day your secret will come out soon
I dont know what this is all about. It only looks like, So long as your Dad was alive, according to u from the age of 6, u were not going to allow ur mum be with another man. But your Dad was getting married and u didn't have issues. Wow! You sound very pained and ready to devour!!! Calm down!
Witchcraft daughter😢. Do you believe at 6 she could speak in that manner that my dad is still alive, why are you having affair with my mom😮. Wetin you know abt affair then?? Gosh! God forbid such a child that would sell her mom to the world. Pray your mom to forgive you.
You have done worst than a devil, Onyinyechi Arinze. You will soon sell your step mom and put the change in your pocket. Your unborn kids will do worse than this you've done to your mom to you in a hundred folds. If you want to protect your dad, is it to sell your mom's secret if at all it happened as claimed to the world??? I so much sorry for you. The poor woman does not have a daughter, it's so sad.😢😢😢
That daughter is seemingly brainwashed, possessed & set up against her mum. It happens when a manipulative parent who is in separation goes into deep manipulation of children against the other parent. God forbid!!!
Wow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What the Bible says about children turning against their parents is now happening though. I pray that my children will not turn against me in the name of our Lord Jesus 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I love the lady for standing with the truth but if i were her no matter what happens i will never ever expose my mum like that to the whole world. With this now the lady and her mum might never be at peace with each other again. In my opinion parents should do well to ensure that their children don't get involved in their issues no matter what happens.
hmmmmm...this is first daughter like father like daughter....definitely....she will look like her father (bond)...same here...am very close to my Father than my mother from childhood, but now am grownup and matured....chaiiii....i treat and love them equally because they are my parents....and sometimes i behave like my Father, and my Father liked me so much than even his first son....hmmmmm...i cant talk to my mother like this...am a womanoooo...if my child talk to me like this in the public....heyyyy....honestly i will not never like itoooo....hmmmm..this daughter is too meanoooo...Please dear sister....rush and apologize to your motherooo.....remember the 9months journey....chaiiii...the labourooooo.....abeg go beg your mum.
Come oh, the affair the mother had, was it after she separated from the man? If so, then it should not be held against her. That should be removed from the narration. But if she was still married with her husband then you can say she committed adultery. My grouse is why do it in the same room a child was sleeping? From my own understanding, this daughter had limited education, so the way she spoke about mother and first daughter relationship was not in a bad light. She was trying to say that a mother and her first daughter usually share great bonds and are friends to the extent that they know each others secrets.
It's the psychological trauma, it messed up her thinking from a young age. Why does no one care about the consequences children suffer from what they experienced in their childhood. She is still hurt and trying to heal. She has kept it within for long. May God help them
And I see in you someone that would rather support immorality and evil, and want the father to continue suffering in silence and die slowly, but you forgot that God answers prayers.
That's not an affair since both parents had been separated for over a year before the incidence.E get why ordinary President dey ask for how long they've been separated.The father too was somewhere sleeping with other women at the same time,the difference is they (kids) were not living with him.
Like father like daughter, the lady didn't have a good manners at all, she was so rude and arrogant. She will surely face her own. Fake pastor and wife it was a plan between the pastor and the pastor family
The lady will surely have her own secret tears that nobody will console her, the journey of 9months will surely asked her, and suffering of labour day,, the sucking of breast and backing of 3years will asked her
Wow, may God have mercy on mother’s, ur own child disgracing you mother. She will live to regret it. No matter what you should have kept it to yourself.
I'm watching from Liberia 🇱🇷😭 My sister, you have just bought a bundle of curses that will be shared on each member of your generation for lifetime 🤔🤔 How can you disgraced your mom like that 😭😭😭😭😭 Your daughter (s) will do you double just like you are doing to your mom 😥😥😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🙏
ordinary President God bless you for all your this pastor need repentance only God knows the truth about the accident that took the life of that innocent boy this pastor is not feeling the pains of his son death this pastor and his new wife need to examine
Omg 😆 🤣 she Said she doesn't remember how long her mum & dad was separated but she remembers the man & the man on the floor . Wow 👏 she is just like her dad. She is delusional 🙄 🤣. I even thought she sad sge caught them at her father's house lol. Ahhhh onyiyechi!!! At 6years old u said all these things to the man? No be small gift u get at 6years old 😆 😂 only u will remember onyiyechi???? Ahhhhh 😆 🤣
Ordinary President, you are a man of wisdom. I trust she will regret all this. Look at her mouth.
God from my mouth to your ears, you will never give me this kind of Daughter.
Amen
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May i never birth my Enemy IJN 🙏. The audacity!!! There's a difference between honesty and outright disrespect
So how would you term catching your mum at age 6 with another man? Where's the disrespect in calling it cheating? She's bold and if am she said was the truth then that's all that matters. But only if .
Hmmmmmm😢
Do you know what it is to catch your mother and another man in a manner so bad on bed?
She is a big fool , I can never have you as a daughter
Your mom is your mom and your Dad is your Dad never disrespect them under any circumstances. You cannot pay them for raising you up. This your act is unacceptable
My own take on this,is that people should be prepared and learn what it takes to bring children into the world not giving birth bcos you see everybody doing it.
The lady is push by her fake pastor father, the lady will ripe what she showed. No prayer and fasting can deliver her from that curse she puts on her head
A daughter like this???? My womb reject you in Jesus name. Amen.
Amen
Amen 🙏
Amen
Amen, my womb reject you in Jesus name
Amen 🙏
I love the way President tells her you have to stay away from the mum and daddy affairs 😊😢
YOUR DAD AND YOURSELF MADE THESE STORIES UP TOGETHER! SHE WAS COAXED.
The President is a Man of Wisdom. This word for the daughter what goes round, comes around, wait till you get married experience what your mother went through then you can talk. Till then take a seat.
The ordinary president is one sided. He does not want the daughter to say the truth.
@@victoriaokeowo953 what truth?????. This the daughter 's opinion. It's not a fact. At 6 years old, she missed her dad. She said she is very stubborn and I believe she is highly OPINONATED. SOOOOO? JUDGE or President one-sided.? Sorry don't see it.
@@beverleyheadley-glover1497 Exactly,
This girl no be pikin at all
A daughter will one day become a mother
How can the daughter remembers everything bad about her mother but nothing good SMH 🤦♀️
I'm glad I love both my parents even though they had divorced since I was born and now I'm 23, Allah bless those that respect their parents
God bless you bro
What do you mean you hate him because your father is still alive, so you are saying as long as your dad is separated from your mom but still alive, your mom cannot have another relationship, non sense
@@louisegteah6698: in your presence - young or old?
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She is a big liar, at 6years, you know nothing. Your own children will testify against you young lady.
"She can easily forget the good but can never forget the bad" she's got a bad mind, she's not nice at all, golden heart always forgo the bad and remember good part of you, she's not making sense at all
She doesnt deserve good, because she will forget and only think of the bad.
Mother and first daugters are friends not mates please
Don't mind that mumu
My dear some mother are something my mother is one.
You they follow her story
She met her father when his life has changed. She doesn't know when her father was a beast
Did he even change?
Probably
I believed so
Hmmm life with its twists and turns. That girls annoys me
Yes you are right and the man is not good yet
This pastor will not go unpunished because of using his daughter against her mother , the girls is a liar, and l wonder what this pastor prices to his member ,
Even if it happened truly...this girl's gut will never allow her find happiness in life for coming publicly to make a fool of herself.. she go take her tap running mouth implicate herself. She doesn't know her future in-laws are watching LIVE
The daughter is very arrogant honestly but thank she is woman 👩.
My Mom is not my mate. Biko keep quiet cos you know nothing. She's trying to judge her own mother. They are ganinging up against that innocent woman. God forbid that I give birth to a child like this.
Amen
This is serious the lady may be right but should know that one day she will marry n start her own life no body knows tomorrow talking about her mum is absolutely not good mother pass thru alot the man must have caused all that happened God will help
"Share of public disgrace", this is what the title of this movie is.
What a shame!
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But the Father and mother have separated for years, do you want to tell me that the father has not gotten a lover since they separated?Come on people. Now the woman did what she did,there is a problem, but Men will do there own thing no one will talk and they go scot-free.
@ritakirchen yes what about providing for them .
Young lady is soo wrong.
My question too
To believe that a child you carried for nine months will come out like this in a public to say such a thing about her mother no matter how bad she is, is so depressing. She fell to understand the word separation which was the case in the situation of her parents. Her mother had an affair with another man after two years of separating from her husband, is not that she caught her sleeping with another man while the father was still living with them. The funniest part of it all is the fact that her father at that point in time was also having an affair with other women because Separation was involved, the only difference is that her mother was doing her own in the presence of her kids which I'm not in support. Separation can play three parts which we need to understand, number 1
Separated couple can decide to forgive themselves and come back as one again, number 2
It can lead to divorce and number 3
They can remain separated without divorce or coming together for the rest of their life's. Any one they decide to go for is their decision, their daughter is sounding like someone that has been brain washed, she is judgemental and not being logical. She should step in and resolve their differences so they can have inner peace instead of bashing her mother, her father is not a saint either he went and married another woman without divorcing her mother, that's coming from a pastor for that matter, she is also forgetting that she will marry some day, and no body is perfect she need to work on her temper too. My take in this , no matter how bad your father or your mother is they don't deserve this public humiliation.
At age of six, are you serious haaaaaaa
She has been brainwashed.
She is materialistic, her father is better off than her mother so she supports her father against her mum.
One good turn deserves another, her children will gang up against her one day.
Her cup of tea will be hotter than her mums
@@ceciliawalan6912 exactly my point my dear and those supporting her actions, may they experience this kind of public humiliation from their kids.
@@floraodion5736 be logical my dear, everything supposed to have made sense to her now that she is 23 years old, that the affair her mother had when she was 6 was as a result of the separation from her father over two years of not being together, which her father is also a part of in his own world of affair with other women, i know she didn't understand it then as a child which made her angry thinking that another man want to take over her father's place, but she is a grown up now with a developed brain to differentiate things, that's why the moderator asked her how long before the affair and she said over one or two years of separation, come on now is the woman not suppose to move on with her life? He has brain washed her daughter ever since he took her from her mother to hate her, because is obvious she is not ready to make peace for them. And she is in support of her father's marriage with another woman without divorcing her mother, if is not brain wash what is it then. She will marry someday and then everything will make sense to her by then she will realise the mistake she have made and it maybe to late for her then.
@@ceciliawalan6912 lol what's brain washed???
Affair during separation is not affair....they were separated
Separation is not a divorce.
Were they even married?? The man said he didn’t pay bride price or am I missing something??
U right affairs after separation is not cheating .the girl just disgrace herself
@@antheaadesanya7714 their conduct could put them in an equittable marriage position they need not do bride price...
@@malkah1270 outside of Nigeria, yes!! All that needs to be proved is cohabitation for a number of years and the assets acquired during those number of years will be split however the court deems fit. In Nigeria ?? Am not so sure! Especially if that marriage is not under the act, just traditional, e go get as e be.
After a year or two of separation from her father, did she not expect her mum to date? How could she accuse her mum of cheating on her father when they had been separated for over a year? This girl's immaturity at 23 years is unbelievable.
She's hurting, and has anger issues that have never been resolved, unfortunately if she doesn't go for professional counseling she will end up making the same mistakes of her parents. The only example she saw growing up
How could a child sit in d public and openly humiliate her mother like that....it is very distasteful.
Great question.
@@njeriobike8924 I so agree. May God/ Halla have mercy upon the man who.marries this young woma n. Wow baggage. Her mom and dad separated over 2 years and this young lady is only blaming
the mom. Is she her real mother or a stepmom.
She's just simply stupid. Bcos she is her mother she should not have a life. But d father is free to have his life. Nonsense.
Ordinary president you too much
I really love your personality❤
This pastor's daughter is just a confused child. Judging the mother after being separated for more than two years. It's clear she doesn't know what marriage is about. She really is very childish.
stepson. This lady is very confused. Does she love her mom?
That child is 23 she is no child
So u expect her to hide the truth and continue to keep the dad in pains after several moments of detention only because he has been making efforts to reconcile his family.
How can you say a child of 23 is confuse? You never forget a bad experience easily even as a child
Very shameful
I pity this girl. May God forgive her 💔
Mr. President this is first time am coming across this program and am well pleased with your presentation and ways of handling stuffs. I'm a Journalist by profession but I give it to you sir. You are the best sir. I also watched another one where you presented a missed child to his Daddy. You be oga oooo. Thank you for restoring peace back to homes sir.
I’ve never seen such a large amount of nonsense said with so much confidence. I’m not sure I was this dense at 23. Lord.
Hmmm, i noticed that most women making comments are against the young lady’s testimony. They would rather want her to support the Mum, though she may just be saying what she feels. The assumption is that Mothers can not abuse their own children, and fathers are always the culprits. That is gender blackmail! Just think of how bad you would feel, if as a six year old, you see another man right on top of your Mum. When you know that she is still in a marriage. Can a child understand what it means to be divorced or even separated?. This is pain that would have haunted this Lady all her life. Thank God that she has the opportunity to let some of it off her chest on this forum.
But if she see her father it's okay right?
For me, they would have not involved their children into this matter, even when the children insisted honestly. The husband and wife are both wrong in different ways.
Wife, bringing a man into her house where are children are.
Husband, marrying another woman when is wife is still alive ( the Holy Bible says a man or woman that is divorce, which dey are both not, should not remarry except one of them is dead. Reason to my own understanding is for the ability to forgive each other as our heavenly father always forgive us). Please way remember the chapter and verse help me out.
So na Baba God judge all of us.
Daughter, you should have involved yourself in this matter ooh...!
There is no perfect marriage, your new mummy and your daddy may be having some issues, but will never let you see or know. When you marry, you go understand, because you go if it difficult to understand now.
I agree that she did not understand as a six years old child. Now that she is matured nko. We always forget that women has emotions. But how come she is the only one that knows all and her eldest ones don't? Just curious.
The comments of most women here and one sided
@@victorify5936
This story is somehow, and everybody seems like to be against the man without balancing the story from what the daughter said there must truth
That is why I never took my ex husband to court when we separated because I didn't want my children to take sides I lost everything for the sake of unity Disparity us not being together we enjoy and respect each other.
Family matters should not be addressed in the public
Exactly my point o... This is so shameful...
Thank you, my dear!
Very painful... Even though it's true... Men do that everyday.. Evertym... But on a woman's side.. It's seen as 😱😩😢
@@kirabogloria2187 that's true and it is not good!! Men are at it all the time!!
The ex wife brought it to the public.
This lady is a real product of a broken home. I wonder how she'll be able to train her own children. Cos u definitely can't give what you don't have. This is terrible. She really need to beg God for forgiveness.
I do not see her like that. She is really saying thing from her own view. She is wise and saying things in a wiseanner . She can not be intimidated abroad. Her 23 can be a manager abroad and control multitude of workers. We grew up not talking but looking at our elders only talk in family matter only to come out of Nigeria to meet the same issues. Her mom may have done what she did in the bit to sustain their living. But she cought the act and it didn't get off her mind. This she should learn how to forgive .
You are right
@@Igboticnkechikwulu God bless you
She needs therapy. The bitterness has cut so deep.
U are on point
This is wonderful Ordinary President 💖 I like d way u posted this their particular video 📹
Esteemed ordinary President and Berekete family, I believe in ur wisdom to handle this case to a positive conclusion but I suggest that such delicate marital issue should be handled off camera. Better still, you would have maintained talking to the children off camera for their future sake. For me a lot of horrible mistakes have been made by both parents and it's injustist to their children. They put their personal interest first, not their Innocent children.
The attitude of the daughter is only a product of the parent's ignorance.
Thank you for your great job and may God continue to increase your influence. 8:09 8:09
The 23 year old is just supporting her father. She has been so BRAIN washed. SHE not entirely honest
A 23 year old is not a child.
So u expect her to hide the truth and continue to keep the dad in pains after several moments of detention only because he has been making efforts to reconcile his family.
Africa una de try
The truth most be told no matter how bad
Birds of same feathers, everybody won't side evil
U are talking nonsense
May God increase the wisdom of Ordinary president
Ordinary President Sir.... I know it is not easy mediating... The interjections and the choice of words, to me, suggests that you hold a position.... The same feeling I have about the manner interjections since Part 1. Family feuds can be very sensitive.
True
Yes
Very correct.
He's not interjecting her, she's rude, stubborn and disrespectful. I pity any man that ends up with such a lady. If she could expose her mum so easily,then who's her husband that she won't wash his dirty linens outside. God forbid such woman in my family.
In as much as it was wrong for a child to speak this way about a woman who carried her in her womb for 9 months, it was wrong for her mum to be sleeping with a man in the presence of her children. This 23 years old woman, na wahooo! God said you should honour your father and your mother oooo!
No matter how bad, adulterous a mother is. No one should embarrase his/her this way.
This lady should not considered an adultress. She was separated from her husband.
This lady IS NOT an adultress as far as I know. Please explain what she did wrong being not married any more. Am I rt?
I AM SO SORRY FOR THIS DAUGHTER OF A JEZEBEL. MY JOY IS THAT SHE IS A WOMAN. ONE DAY SHE WILL GET MARRIED AND SHE WILL EXPERIENCE MORE THAN WHAT THE MOTHER WITNESSED IN HER MARRIAGE. GALATIANS 6:7 IS FOR HER. THERE IS NOT MUCH TO SAY ABOUT THE SPOLT CHILD
@@samuelwilliams1273 wake up and stop supporting evil religiously. Where has being religious taken Africa to? She's taken sides with morality and will have a wonderful family of her own
Her daughter is a disgrace
Nigeria JUDICIARY NEEDS to do More in PROTECTING Victims Of DOMESTIC VIOLENCE By giving hard Sentences to the ABUSERS in JAIL and PRISON.. I'm Watching live from the United States Of America and this Site Of ABUSES Cannot hold this long here. This is U.S.A. Eyes On Nigeria.
I've never seen him allow anyone to yell at him as much as these people have. I'm shocked.
Same here
He that expose his mother in a public , will surely by one way or the other will be expose or disgrace by his child one day
She may not remember the exact year. I have such memories. I can tell you most things that happened in my toddler period. Normally such type of children hates any man that encroaches near their mother in jealous for their father.
you re right....such happen to me when I lost my dad...any man dat come close to my mom ehn...haaaaaa na die oooo because I dont want any man come close to my mom
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@Julie Ndum I weak age 6🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂
The daughter isn't saying the truth she has been hypnotized because if her father was a good husband without molestation there would have still be Arinze's family. I wondered at who ordained him as a pastor. Fellow Nigerians beware of pastors filled with anger and unforgiving spirit cause such is not of God.
The daughter has a great hatred for her mother. This is very bad. Even if parents are not together again the children should not be in between.
Ordinary President, as a trained journalist, I want to profoundly register appreciation for your efforts. Permit me, however, to note that marital issues are delicate, manipulative. May God give you the peerless wisdom to do the needful.
Very delicate... but why is the woman all those negative words in the beginning...marital matters...very delicate..thanks
Crazy! Imagine how I miss my mother, and this one is behaving like this. Shame.
Most definitely
She's just a kid. 23
Your mum is not same with her mum
@@onuigwejoy7769 most definitely. However her mother doesn't deserve to be embarrassed this way.
If your mother behaved like that and, yet you allow your father to be so publicly humiliated, for your mother lies, then ‘no be your Papa born you’. That is the real shame, right here. Think!
How can a 6 years old baby remember all this thing she and her father are really good this😂😂😂
So her dad can actually have a second wife ,but her mum can't have an affair with another man before after their separation?wow such a child😪
What kind of a child is this please, God help your children. This child needs to be delivered for real.
Delivered from what she is not a child she is an adult stuck with her parents' pain
Heavenly Father, I pray to all mothers that they shall never have an enemy as their own child in Jesus name
Amen Amen oooo
Amen
Amen
Amen
Amen
My Sister I like the way you exposed your Mother, it doesn't matter what people think about you.
She has issues i see a deep rooted bitterness in her spirit there is this hidden dark bitterness in her heart .. sumtin dey pain her inside.. she needs to heal every thing she said is coming from prolonged bitterness and it's very serious. Darling you may think you are hurting your mum but no you are hurting yourself and your entire family no matter the wrong .. remember words are like an egg when broken it can't be fixed.. words are easily said but can never be reversed., i wished you were never involved in your parents issues, you will some day become a parent .. i pray for you and your family, i wish you well...
Amen
Chai!!! Why don’t you show your mom love ❤️ pleeeeeeeese daughter
It is chiefly the responsibility of your dad to take care of you & your siblings financially. So don't take it because he has the money, that your mum loves you less. In her heart, you people are her world. Sorry to say, you turned out to be just like your dad. You grew up in an unstable home when you were below 6yrs. This period is the formative age. Narcs will be good to every other person except their victim.
This young woman is finished, eeeeeeiiiii may my children look well before bringing a wife home in Jesus name.
From the girls statements and body languages, the father has seriously bribed her. She is talking a predetermined statement. Shame on her.
Me an African(Namibian)washing from Uk.I agree with my friend who said this girl is brainwashed. She is ever paid /promised a big amount of money for her to come say this with confidence .
And her future husband will be watching her.
The man better run run run
God 🤣🤣🤣 will help them
Her father will marry her
Her father is a narcissist and he has groom his daughter to be like him. No mater what he did to her mother she will believe her father’s untrue story. Is very unfortunate when you get yourself entangled with a narcissist, all kinds of lies, emotional blackmail and self justification to people.
I was looking for a comment like this like,she was groomed.the new research said children should start seeing their parents as human and people
Children shouldn't be involved in their parent's fight except it is necessary. Again whatever your father/mother is , you never underlook them , a proverb in my village goes. Everything never happened in your presence. Where were you during their courtship? Be very objective and wise knowing that one day you will be a wife and a mother too. God be with you.
Exactly
Are you sure
My dad is 72 years old and still remember when I was younger!
The young woman has been corrupted by the father, but she may not know exactly what lies ahead of her. Her exposure right here prone to her to loss of suitors..... Any man marrying her is in great danger!
She’s not aware of the dangers…She will hear weee
If u cant respect ur mother how can u respect GOD u have never seen if u dont love her how will u love GOD!!
This young woman needs to be spoken to.What will you get by disgracing your mother..
In your words your mother and father were separated.Honour your father and mother.
Words follow us.I pray that you will grow up and your words will not hunt you.
you are a wicked daughter the same Fruit you plan you will havest it
What of the continuation
Please what of the continuation
So u expect her to hide the truth and continue to keep the dad in pains after several moments of detention only because he has been making efforts to reconcile his family.
Children should always stay away from parents fight
No responsible first daughter see herself as her mother's mate. She can be your mentor not your mate. Point of correction, whether first or second no matter your position in your family. Anyone that sees her mother as her mate is automatically wanting to share her father with her mother or need him for herself alone. I think you are having affair with your father that's why you lied against your mother. If is true your own daughter will do worse than this to you
She is irresponsible and lying
My exact thought too
You did not understand what she meant by being mother's mate
I am so ashamed on her behalf. Your Mom had an affair when she was seperated and you had the effontery to say it out there. You will marry one day
First or last daughter, who does that??? She will be dealt with everywhere she goes. People will run away from her. Hear her voice in the mist of adults. God forbid for me to know this kind of a human being. Jesus onye ebele.
My president, I really appreciate what you doing .
Big lie.the daughter is lying.first daughter and their mother never agrees. First daughters are always daddy’s best friend keeps all dad’s secrets from their mother
True
Very true
Please is this case still going on?
Exactly!!
This isn't always true
Ordinary president please this matter should properly look into, Because this girl that is against the mother i reject her ooooo.
Remember my dear, your biological mother is not your enemy. You’ll soon get married, when you’ll know that a bad marriage is hell fire.
Anyone who marries her is in serious trouble, I tell you!
Bull all mothers are not mothers stop it
Don't make the mistake of commenting on this matter if you have not watched the part 1&2 of this case before drawing your conclusion. And when watching, do that with open mind, don't be bias
In short, you don’t know the value and meaning of a mother
Of a good mother, not a bad mother.
O my ordinary president God bless you for the good works
Your statement, when you do something good for a child the child forget but when you do something good you can easily forget. Anyone that remember the wrong did to him or her and forget the good done to him or her is wicked and ungrateful. You're a bad child and I believe you are in love with your father. No smoke without fire one day your secret will come out soon
A bad incident happened to me at 6 yrs and I remember up to this date I'm an adult now. I'm not supporting her ...
Don't say that please
23 and u look like 34
Exactly
23 looking 38
@@ushindi303 she don know what she is saying I believe she has a problem
Ordinary president you are not allowing her to talk sir. Please allowing her to talk her mind please,am calling from Lagos
I dont know what this is all about. It only looks like, So long as your Dad was alive, according to u from the age of 6, u were not going to allow ur mum be with another man. But your Dad was getting married and u didn't have issues. Wow! You sound very pained and ready to devour!!! Calm down!
Witchcraft daughter😢. Do you believe at 6 she could speak in that manner that my dad is still alive, why are you having affair with my mom😮. Wetin you know abt affair then?? Gosh! God forbid such a child that would sell her mom to the world. Pray your mom to forgive you.
You have done worst than a devil, Onyinyechi Arinze. You will soon sell your step mom and put the change in your pocket. Your unborn kids will do worse than this you've done to your mom to you in a hundred folds. If you want to protect your dad, is it to sell your mom's secret if at all it happened as claimed to the world??? I so much sorry for you. The poor woman does not have a daughter, it's so sad.😢😢😢
That daughter is seemingly brainwashed, possessed & set up against her mum. It happens when a manipulative parent who is in separation goes into deep manipulation of children against the other parent. God forbid!!!
Wow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What the Bible says about children turning against their parents is now happening though. I pray that my children will not turn against me in the name of our Lord Jesus 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I will not judge anyone but for a female child to talk like this, think deeply about it. My view.
I agree.
With that daughter, it can never be possible for her father and mother to reconcile. I guess she is up to 40% part of the warfare.
There is no family without feud? The daughter is being judgemental. Daughter be careful.
I love the lady for standing with the truth but if i were her no matter what happens i will never ever expose my mum like that to the whole world.
With this now the lady and her mum might never be at peace with each other again. In my opinion parents should do well to ensure that their children don't get involved in their issues no matter what happens.
This child is a disgrace to our generation 😡
hmmmmm...this is first daughter like father like daughter....definitely....she will look like her father (bond)...same here...am very close to my Father than my mother from childhood, but now am grownup and matured....chaiiii....i treat and love them equally because they are my parents....and sometimes i behave like my Father, and my Father liked me so much than even his first son....hmmmmm...i cant talk to my mother like this...am a womanoooo...if my child talk to me like this in the public....heyyyy....honestly i will not never like itoooo....hmmmm..this daughter is too meanoooo...Please dear sister....rush and apologize to your motherooo.....remember the 9months journey....chaiiii...the labourooooo.....abeg go beg your mum.
Ohhh Lord I am a lady n in pain to see a lady talking about her mum like this
Exactly 😥😥
Am telling you she’s not a good child at all
See the talking naw... Small 23 year old with such bitterness...
The Lord is on her side, she refuse to be like her mother, whom akwuna akwuna spirit runs in their blood. The young lady is bold and beautiful
This mother need spiritual help.she is a beautiful lady.It's the devil trying to destroy her.
Come oh, the affair the mother had, was it after she separated from the man? If so, then it should not be held against her. That should be removed from the narration. But if she was still married with her husband then you can say she committed adultery. My grouse is why do it in the same room a child was sleeping? From my own understanding, this daughter had limited education, so the way she spoke about mother and first daughter relationship was not in a bad light. She was trying to say that a mother and her first daughter usually share great bonds and are friends to the extent that they know each others secrets.
They were separated I guess
I can't find the continuation of this case...what happened the next day please?
CAN HER MOTHER EVER FORGIVE THIS DAUGHTER AGAIN?
Forgive her for what after sleeping around huh 😢
@@onwegerald1757 They were separated
@@onwegerald1757is alright. She just sealed her fate!
The mother created the problem. You don't sleep with a man shamelessly in the presence of your children.
I saw a daughter that wants a favor from her father because he seems worthier than her mother. She is a super silly daughter though.
Something like that
She is not silly. The truth need to be told
It's the psychological trauma, it messed up her thinking from a young age. Why does no one care about the consequences children suffer from what they experienced in their childhood. She is still hurt and trying to heal. She has kept it within for long. May God help them
And I see in you someone that would rather support immorality and evil, and want the father to continue suffering in silence and die slowly, but you forgot that God answers prayers.
It's quite normal for a child to feel betrayed to see her mom in an affair and that bitterness is still there. She is exactly like her dad Sha
This was not an affair... her mum and dad were separated for over a year. That's what she said in this video.
That's not an affair since both parents had been separated for over a year before the incidence.E get why ordinary President dey ask for how long they've been separated.The father too was somewhere sleeping with other women at the same time,the difference is they (kids) were not living with him.
Like father like daughter, the lady didn't have a good manners at all, she was so rude and arrogant. She will surely face her own. Fake pastor and wife it was a plan between the pastor and the pastor family
The lady will surely have her own secret tears that nobody will console her, the journey of 9months will surely asked her, and suffering of labour day,, the sucking of breast and backing of 3years will asked her
Does it matter whether they were separated for 100 years? She is a married woman with children the husband still alive
Wow, may God have mercy on mother’s, ur own child disgracing you mother. She will live to regret it. No matter what you should have kept it to yourself.
I'm watching from Liberia 🇱🇷😭 My sister, you have just bought a bundle of curses that will be shared on each member of your generation for lifetime 🤔🤔 How can you disgraced your mom like that 😭😭😭😭😭 Your daughter (s) will do you double just like you are doing to your mom 😥😥😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🙏
You are a bad daughter
I’m shocked 😳
she has never done anything wrong , that woman was out to destroy the dad and his ministry
If what she said is true then God will reward her with long life and peace. Amen
And will continue to suffer in Jesus name Amen, with her FAKE FATHER PASTOR
May God continue to grant u wisdom ordinary president . It’s well with u 🙏
This lady should read the story of Noah and his sons in the Holy Bible, she will know the repercussion of what she is doing.
No matter what, You don't have to disgrace your mother publicly. Two bad of you.
ordinary President God bless you for all your this pastor need repentance only God knows the truth about the accident that took the life of that innocent boy this pastor is not feeling the pains of his son death this pastor and his new wife need to examine
I have watched this video halfway and I refused to waste my data watching it to the end...haba!
Did she not say she forgets good things done to her and only remembers the bad?
I weak o🤣🤣🤣 6yrs of age remember everything bad🤣🤣🤣
Exactly
Omg 😆 🤣 she Said she doesn't remember how long her mum & dad was separated but she remembers the man & the man on the floor . Wow 👏 she is just like her dad. She is delusional 🙄 🤣. I even thought she sad sge caught them at her father's house lol. Ahhhh onyiyechi!!! At 6years old u said all these things to the man? No be small gift u get at 6years old 😆 😂 only u will remember onyiyechi???? Ahhhhh 😆 🤣
I swear ooo