That restaurant 10000% owes the full value of that cake to your friend PLUS interest. It doesn't matter if they ate it or threw it out -- it wasn't theirs to eat OR to throw out!!
We know they didn't throw tge cake out. You know why? Because why are you serving slithers of cake and calling them pieces of cake? The math ain't mathing.
Anyone else just LIVING for that first woman’s smile with the dimples!?!????? Holy shit I just wanted her to keep smiling, those dimples were DIVINE!!!!!
I worked in the restaurant industry for 10 years. Fine dining, hotels. I can tell you for a fact that They ate your cake. If they had thrown it away, they would have admitted to it, but they said that there were no leftovers. Regardless, There is absolutely ZERO acceptance for them to eat your cake, or to throw it away. AND they absolutely can allow you to cut your own cake. There is no "safety issue". They denied you the opportunity to cut it because they wanted to eat it, so they used that as an excuse for them to have control of it. Working a long shift or whatever excuse you want to make up for them is BS. It is the decision by the host of the party to allow the staff to eat any leftovers. I've worked many weddings and birthday dinners where we were offered leftovers, and I've worked parties where we weren't. That restaurant deserved to be outed, and I hope they lose money because of that. What an absolutely horrid thing to do.
I worked in the service industry for years and have SEEN this happen. We were ALWAYS hungry and ALWAYS eating whatever you could. All that running around and being around food just keeps you (me) hungry...and you burn a lot of calories, too. 😅We would rejoice when somebody sent food back because it was just the wrong order. But, heisting a B-Day cake is ultimate shade. They knew they were gonna eat the rest of that cake the moment they laid eyes on it. That was premeditated. I can FEEL it.😂
Yeah they ate it. I've made a few birthday cakes (for family) where I've asked to bring one and restaurants/whatever group play places would cut the cake right in front of you. I would offer servers and party coordinators if they want some too.
I agree, but as some one also in the restaurant industry there are safety issues. We absolutely cannot give large knives to customers. Steak knives are acceptable, but kitchen knives cannot be taken out of the kitchen so that the restaurant isn't responsible if you slice your finger off using a knife you're not even suppose to have in the first place. That being said, we let people know ahead of time to bring your own cake cutter if we know some one is coming to our restaurant with their own cake. We also will not cut it for you.
@@Persephoneia01 I've worked at many fine dining restaurants and there has never been a safety issue with allowing a customer to use a 12-18 inch pastry/cake knife. There's no safety risk for an adult to use that knife and the restaurant would be absolved of any risk. Diners are given sharper steak knives all day long. Most customers would rather you cut and serve it anyways though. That being said, most places I worked at would have never allowed an outside cake in the restaurant. Of course, that depends on the customer and who they know. Regardless of that, it would never been allowed in the kitchen or any food prep area. Outside food in those areas were a huge no no. Contamination risks and whatnot.
Server for 20 years. They absolutely ate that cake. I yelled at my screen when you said they claimed they threw it away; there is exactly zero chance in hell they threw it away and 100% they ate it. Also, every restaurant I've worked in but one either cut the cake tableside or let the party cut it. The one that cut it in the back immediately reboxed the cake and returned it to the table.
They took interest the very moment the staff saw it and made an excuse right away health hazzard. Unethical i worked in a resto its automatic any leftovers we give it back
i would be like "you give us KNIVES AND FORKS" i'll forkin eat the cake at the table if bisses wanna act shady. Did he get compensation? this is a tragedy on a BIRTHDAY
I would never trust a restaurant with my personally made treat for a party. Best case scenario they cut it at the table for us and leave. That thing never leaves my sight. I have trust issues... F that. Who knows what they did with that cake back there.
I’ve been in the service industry for 13 years and recently we threw away someone’s cake because we thought they left but didn’t. I have never felt worse about something in my career. I ended up inviting the girl and her friend back and we threw her a re do birthday with a new cake. The restaurant covered everything. I can’t imagine doing something like that on purpose.
I worked at olive garden and my table forgot a birthday cookie cake. They came back for it HOURS later. I was already done with my shift and decompressing at home when a coworker texts me telling me that the people were freaking out because when they forgot the cookie cake there had only been a slice missing, well after 30 minutes of waiting to see if they would return for the cake, everyone in the back of the house started digging in 💀 they got back the box with barely any cookie left. 😂 my manager ended up refunding them for the cake
@@SocietalNoob See, that's what restaurants should do if something like this happens. The restaurant in this story says they threw it out. It sounds like they haven't offered any refund or anything else to rectify the situation. All they do is say well, we threw it away. Did they even apologize??
@@SydneyAnandBeautythey offered a free dinner for 2 at the restaurant, but I mean, would you like to get back there? I wouldn't trust them to give me food after all the drama.
As someone who works in a fancy restaurant in a country club, and other kitchens in the past. We never EVER throw out the geusts cake. We make sure they get everything they wanted, and the leftovers. Now, if they dont want the rest of it at all and leave, THEN we snack on it or throw it away
I assume a miscommunication happened with the cake and someone in the back was told or thought somehow that the table had left. So they threw out the cake or started eating it, not realizing the table was still there. But then to not figure out that that had happened within like 15 minutes of the guests asking for their cake back shows they were trying to hide the messup.
Any place I’ve ever brought a cake, I always make sure the serving party enjoyed some as well. But the all out sneaky lying manipulation of it all… it’s just gross.
@erikarussell1142 Same, bestie. When my family goes to a restaurant for a birthday, our server gets cake as well! (I can't say it always happens, because one time a server politely declined, but the offer was still made!)
When I was living in NYC my budget was tight. A restaurant threw out my large leftovers and I was planning to eat the following day for lunch/dinner. I was so freaked out bc they’ve NEVER threw out my leftovers after I told him I wanted to take it home. IMHO, they started eating it in the back! 😳😳😳
Seriously, who do they think they're fooling? Especially the "policy" about slicing the cake, I don't believe that for a second. They knew what they were doing.
Not the restaurant. Several service workers fearing for their job made up a story, the ‚restaurant‘ wasn’t involved in the act, only the reaction so social media is ‚the restaurant‘ working with the information presented by staff. The ‚restaurant‘ got gaslit themselves because the staff feels job insecurity. That should give you the ick. The workplace culture and power structures in this restaurant prohibit basic service and honesty.
I'm so confused. I thought Charlotte already did a video on this??? The owner ends up messaging him that he can have a gift card/certificate for the restaurant, and he's does an update saying why would I want to go there? And as added insult, the amount they offer him is small compared to the price of what is essentially a gourmet cake.
On Cakegate: tiny pieces served + "oops, it was thrown away" = it was eaten out of spite. Swanky NYC restaurant screams neurotic head chef on an ego trip
I have another theory about the cake: they dropped it. They dropped it and served the only salvageable part. They kept lying because they actively picked up the cake and cut the good half. And they could never admit it because that *_actually is_* a health hazard.
Especially if the baker didn’t reach out furthermore. But they handled it PR wise horribly. If someone was honest with me and said they dropped it but this was the only safe pieces and give them all a dessert on the house it would’ve been a silly memory for the friends birthday instead of a huge outlash
They didn't throw that cake away, they ate it, they're just trying to make it better for the staff, but made it worse! Nobody would ever think it was normal to throw/eat that cake, I've never had that happen in many years of eating out!
wellll... maybe they cut it in half and dropped some of it on the floor? That would justify throwing it away, but still... next time let them cut it with a piece of dental floss at the table and be done with it.
The man stitching Cindy has an ego that won't allow him to believe a woman wouldn't want him; therefore, his response to her not wanting him is "sour grapes." She is so funny, and I love her smile.
I had a guy obsessed with me for almost 3 years, because when i told him i didn't wanted anything to do with him, he started making hate comments about me everyday, like 20 or 30 comments in just one day.🙄
I bartend fine dining restaurants and high end events……I wish that man had raised more hell about the restaurant stealing that cake. They 100% stole it. They did not throw it away. There was nothing innocent about it. That kind of thing happens ALL THE TIME. Don’t let people get away with it. That is absolutely disgusting behavior, and they should have comped the entire meal.
I have heard this cake cutting rule before. I have brought cake to restaurants before with no issues. They always asked how big we want the pieces cut. Then, they were courteous enough to box up the leftovers for us when they delivered the cake pieces to the table.
@@anothersquid Nope. Her stalker is OBSESSED with her. There’s no reason other men wouldn’t be. Give a logical reason he’s stalking her? He wants her attention or he’s mentally ill.
I don't know why anyone would call her ugly either, she's got perfect teeth, beautiful skin, cheekbones people go get surgery to have, cute as hell dimples, a radiant smile, infectious laugh and sexy voice. No wonder he's obsessed.
2:05 “you’re propped up at your grandmothers spare bedroom that’s down the hall and the to the right-“ the way i immediately opened up TikTok to follow Cindy 💀💀💀
As a server, can confirm we are not allowed to bring kitchen knives to the table. They're like 3x bigger and sharpened regularly while steak knives that go to the table are not. There are food safety rules we have to follow that don't always make sense. We can't even divide a dish in half onto two plates in the kitchen if it's going to be shared. I assume it's because we can't guarantee both halves will be identical and don't want the blame for that. So it has to be done by the guest at the table. We can however potentially cut the cake in the back, leave it on the original platter, then take it out with a spatula and plate it at the table. Occasionally servers will be offered a slice but we don't just take the cake (lol). If there are leftovers, we assume the guest is taking it home unless otherwise specified. Either way, those servers 100% ate that cake before it ever got brought out. Which is 100% wrong and absolutely is theft.
I don't know how it works in your kitchen but here we don't cut soft cakes with big kitchen knife. A simple table knife would've been enough, maybe a spatula to help serve it, that's it. They just wanted to eat the cake.
I can second the knife thing. Though because of the high volume of parties we served, we bought plastic kitchen style knives specifically for self serve.
@00r0ry I agree they could use the knives they have for soft cakes. I've had guests explicitly ask me for "one of those big knives you have in the back," which I decline and explain those can't be brought to tables. Sometimes they ask me to cut it in the kitchen (ice cream cakes), but usually they ask for whatever I can bring them. Which is a large pizza spatula and a clean steak knife. People severely overestimate what it takes to cut a cake lol. ETA: the servers do it all ourselves where I work and we sometimes go for a big knife simply for efficiency and ease. We don't have food runners or expo despite our location volume and we just don't have time to spend a whole 5 minutes dividing up a giant cake with a small tool when it could take 2 minutes with a bigger tool. Sawing with a small knife can also smear the icing and any writing or decorations and I'm not taking the hit for that lol.
4 possibilities. 1. They cut the cake and the staff ate and took home the rest after wires were crossed thinking it had already been served. 2. They were cutting and plating slices but dropped a majority of the cake so had to half slices 3. Mistakenly cut and served the cake to a different party or as a dessert for guests. 4. An entitled guest with more money wanted the cake so wait staff split it. Whatever the case is most of the cake was gone by the time their dessert came around. So we know for the future pre cut the cake if they won't let you use your steak knife they give you to cut your own cake.
@@LadyBernyeah-I was thinking-if they didn’t eat it, they dropped some of it or something happened. They’re definitely lying. No way they threw it out. And in the future, I’d insist they cut it at the table and serve it and leave it for me to box back up. I’m incensed. Probably more than I should be. Probably because it involves cake. Lol 😂 what a sleazy move on the waitstaff’s part.
I’d also like to say, if I made a cake and they had the gall to serve those stingy ass slivers of cake like they were rationing in WWII, I’d be pissed for starters.
I didn't know the first videos creator until I saw this video and now I might be in love? The charisma, the confidence, the eloquent call-outs, the dimples?? She is living rent free in his head and honestly I get it 😍 obviously not excusing his harassment of her and the negativity/insecurity he's trying to instill in her. Hoo boy is he telling on himself with those vids
My school did this when I was a little kid, no matter how big a parent's cake was for a birthday party the kids only got a tiny sliver including the birthday kid while the teachers gorged themselves. Tbh I would NEVER expect this behaviour from a NYC restaurant, but there it is.
Can you blame the poor dude? He's obsessed with her but has zero rizz, zero game, zero emotional intelligence and zero chance, so he makes a clown out of himself. :D
Working in restaurants my whole life. You don't eat or trash or keep the remaining cake until the guests say they are not interested in taking the leftovers home and offer the staff to do as they wish. Many times the party hosts will offer the remaining cake to the staff, especially if the staff did a great job. Wedding cakes or engagement party cakes are often taken home to freeze as a memento.
I worked as a server and yes, we put the candles on and present the full cake to the table so they can sing happy birthday or whatever and then we take it to the back to slice it. I’ve always given the left overs back to the table before they leave and sometimes the guests will let us keep the cake leftovers. NEVER HAVE I EVER STOLEN SOMEONES BIRTHDAY CAKE! That is crazy!!
I was gonna say her skin looks baby smooth flawless, she definitely don't look masculine either that man is just mad she don't want these men and they wonder why 🤣🤣
At my sister's wedding, the same cake experience happened. The servers ate the rest of her wedding cake instead of packing it to go home. The manager admitted to me (her wedding planner) that they had eaten it which I give them major props for. I wouldn't have minded them having some, but to eat the rest of it (there was a lot) including what they were planning to keep for their first anniversary was where I had a problem with it. The venue ended up buying them 2 cakes from their bakery and sending to their house as compensation which we appreciated.
A larger group of my friends recently went out for a birthday dinner and they split us between three servers. The other two, oh my ... we were jealous of their service. Our girl sucked! Inattentive, had her manager and the other servers take care of us. The thing that made us not tip her as well as her co workers got tipped out ... smacking gum in our ears anytime we saw her. Mouth open, full smack, spit droplets. We refused to tip even 18%.
I just get so triggered from smacking noices... just real anger. I just can't stand it. English is my 2nd language, but what she is speaking is not English
11:50 Either way, it doesn't belong to them.They don't get to eat it or throw it out !! That is horrible!! 17:38 No offense but this girl is hard Enough to understand without having a mouthful of food. 19:25 Thank you Charlotte for posting the words she actually saying!!
I'm so glad someone else said this- Im deaf and I was STRUGGLING so much in the first video, so the second one where she was eating was just intangible to me.
I can understand her perfectly. The downside is if you don’t understand the lingo and the manner of search she can be complete gibberish… I do not talk like her. Yet I’m always shocked I completely understand her. I’m black but even my cousins don’t talk like her. I have no idea why I understand her! 😂 She uses words we spread out in a single sentence maybe? I honestly don’t know lmfao.
The first dude giving the toxic ''gasslight them until their self confidence is so low they'll settle down for you'' Dude ain't gonna fkn happen give up it's been years! He's so obsessed it's embarassing!
Classic "negging". Negative comments to wear down a person's confidence. It is pathetic. The "man baby" is probably already an incel or is a few steps to becoming one.
Yeah and people 90% always offer me the server and sometimes the crew a slice, how selfish of them to steal a clearly decadent cake with no care in the world
The restaurant staff - probably the servers - definitively ate that cake! They probably didn't cut themselves pieces - they just ate it by the forkful right off the platter. It couldn't be returned because it was destroyed.
And then they lied. This restaurant needs to be called out. How did they rectify it? For me this could not be rectified since it was a handmade cake and the birthday person did not get his whole gift. Awful. Made me mad.
@mingiinimene3335 They should have given the Birthday Guy a gift certificate or something as an apology and compensation. Unless the sever comes to the table and asks if they should serve more - or package the rest of the cake - in separate serving containers for each person - or whole - NO ONE should touch that cake. If the party says they don't want it - the staff is welcome to it - then they can have it. It has nothing to do with the cost of the cake - whether it's a $50 cake from the local bakery or a $100+ custom cake - respect the cake and the customer. Thr restaurant did themselves a disservice by not apologizing and trying to make things right. Not a good look - restaurants need their customers more than customers need that restaurant.
@robynjustrobyn6675 This guy claimed that to make the cake hundreds of dollars! Red flag! There is no way to make that cake cost hundreds of dollars to make! No intricate design , nothing special and not huge as he stated! I don't know of anybody who would say that cake was worth hundreds! I've had the huge cakes with the most intricate designs done for far less than even that! Way way under $100 for stunning cakes twice that size with way more intricate detail. That cake was no way worth hundreds!! It was so simplistic! Now as far as the restaurant is concerned, normal procedure is to bring the cake out to the table and cut it in front of guests. Never have I heard of that they take it back to the kitchen! That is a major health hazzard to not only kitchen staff but also other customers because of allergies and unknown food being brought into a kitchen who has to go by health and food codes by law! So I call negligence on food staff for sure. However I think the man who made this cake and is trying to claim that this cake costs him hundreds to make is Dilusional! Please do tell me who would pay hundreds for that cake in it's simplicity! Lovely but not worth hundreds!! The restaurant should give a small voucher to the birthday person , but not to the person who made the cake and looking to recoup as it was a gift. Then I can also state that people who bring in outside food and expect the waiter and staff to accommodate them is crazy, seeing how they are losing money from the customers staying longer and now not getting income from new customers as people bring in extra food and the waiter still has to serve regardless! Restaurant loses money and so servers. It's just not right!
@@robynjustrobyn6675You are correct young lady. Restaurant manager here and yes we have caught our employees doing just what you said. And yes it is the server's job to find out if they are having the cake here or does she need to go packing for the cake for her guests. It is sad that this restaurant behaved like that. Smh 😮
Charlotte, i want to thank you for being such an awesome person. My husband lost a close friend recently and has been pretty down. Yesterday I put one of your videos on and you made him laugh so much and I could tell he was feeling a little better. Thank you for being you. You brought laughter and happiness to him in a time of grief and I love his laugh. We love you, Potato Queen!
yeah I remember being little having parties/attending parties at restaurants- they sing, they cut the cake infront you, they leave the cake at the table- doesn't matter who made the cake/it's your cake. Nothing should be different about that through the years- if it ain't broken don't fix it right?- And stop making excuses for them. Someone is obviously lying. They clearly ate that cake. Come on.
No I work in restaurants, and that's never how it goes. Those people ate the cake.Nobody's gonna throw away half of a good cake.That doesn't happen. We always assume we're giving the rest of the cake back.That's left over.Nobody ever throws that out!!
I’ve worked in that industry for a while. And I agree. The only time (as a server) we were ever able to get leftovers is if they genuinely forgot about the cake. Plenty of weddings and big events I’ve served either had too much, or they drank too much (left without it), or they just had a lotttt of money and just could care less about whatever was left over. Other than those times, it was always given back!!
@@elizabethferreira7788 right! I mean, on occasion, the people will tell us to take a slice, but even then I'll take one large piece and split it between all of us and give them back the rest of their cake. Nobody throws out the cake.That's bullshit! Lol
@@lesliecodron5185 yes that too. But that’s only if then were genuinely nice 😭 I understand things are expensive but a lot of times they don’t understand what happens behind there and how much work is actually done lol. So it was nice when we would get offered some food 🥲
I made a joke on instagram about how I texted my husband that I was pumping my own gas like a peasant. A man felt the need to tell me that “women like me” are the reason he never got married. He had a fedora on in his profile pic. Something tells me the not being married thing was not by his choice.
The number of people that get "triggered" by the smallest jokey comment is amazing. I can understand reading it and not thinking it's funny but just scroll past or block that person. Talk about a ridiculous overreaction.
I got a bunch of those people for saying "I think the gas fairy died" because I went out to my car and it was on E and he never let that happen before 😂😂
"They threw the cake away." Sure, Jan. Ryan made an update video, saying "he had received "three different calls from people within the management of the restaurant." He was told that security footage from the kitchen confirmed that a portion of the cake was left behind and that they "most likely forgot about [the cake] and that it was left in the kitchen." So why did the waiter say it was thrown away?
Also why didnt they check the kitchen for "random cake that didnt belong here" when people asked to take the rest home? Makes the story even more unbelievable. RELEASE THE TAPES lmao
@@fourlittlebirds6166 honestly i also thought that BUT that would actually have been the only good and acceptable answer for this scandal so if its was true (specially with footage) i am sure they would have said that by now. So its disproving that it was some normal and acceptable reason why they didnt give the cake back. Personally i think either someone got greedy or some other staff THOUGHT the people of the party were already gone and started eating it but then they realized that the cake still needed to be served. Like maybe someone cut it, put it out to be served, people saw it, took some. Others saw it, took some too. and then the OG responsible waiter/cook saw it was like "YO WTF THATS THE GUESTS STUFF! OMG YOU ATE IT ALL EXCEPT THE LAST SLICE?! WHAT NOW?!"
If i made a cake and the restaurant said I couldn't cut the cake, I would take it home and cut it. No one is cutting one of my cakes. The Kayla story: Did no one tell you not to talk with your mouth full. It's not pleasant for anyone. I couldn't watch it that part, i had to fast forward to the end of that story. I personally hate that sound.
17:25 listening to her is so irritating im sorry. She has moments of enunciation so why can't she keep it going just mumbling and smacking no one understands youuuu
I was thinking the same thing. My “Tio” (Uncle) speaks like that. I then have a confused look on my face. Then my Dad or someone else “translates” his gibberish for me. All the words just run into each other and same cadence; kind of flat. Almost like he is talking to himself.
Cake part…. Staff was eating the cake before it went to the table. Quoting “safety hazard” for the knife cutting and serving tiny slivers of cake was so guest wouldn’t find out.
Former server here. I have cut and served dozens of birthday cakes for customers. (After the candles are blown out) I have never, would never assume I could have a piece nor would ANY of my coworkers ASSume they could have any. THE RESTAURANT STAFF should be ASHAMED of themselves! More often than not the customer told me to cut a slice for myself....and that millimeter slice they served the customer is the size I would slice myself! Immediately after I picked up the empty cake plates I would box and bag the leftover cake and bring it out to the table/ customer. I would even ask the person that brought it if they want the leftovers brought back in whole or if they wanted me to slice the rest for their guests to take home.
18:37 I tried to stick around for this part of the video, but I just can’t. She is eating while she’s telling what’s going on and she’s mumbling and stringing her words together. It’s super annoying. I can’t do it.
I'm not there yet,but I despise when people eat while live,or filming.. Last thing I wanna do it watch someone eat and hear them chewing and smacking their lips 😬
@@CaseyMarie11-11lmaoooo but also first 30 seconds in, i’m listening then had to ask myself “wtf did she just say” lmaoo. I’m like is it a lisp a tongue issue like speak properly
@@CaseyMarie11-11 I am not bothered by that. What gets me is when they start articulating badly. She was not easy for me to understand from the beginning because she talks differently from what I am used to (English is not my native language). The eating just makes it more difficult and not worth the effort.
I had to skip ahead. The constant smacking of her mouth, while she kept shoveling it in, while talking made me so angry. It's disgusting and I can't believe there wasn't any more comments about this. 😅
Ugh, she talks with her mouth full! I can barely understand her, even without the food in her mouth. Sorry, I'm not a native speaker. It's so hard to follow her story; she lost me, too.
The cold send 'congrats on your engagement, I'm thriving' ex girlfriend and the 3-year 'yeah well I'd never date you anyway' stitcher have the same energy
TikTok has a HUGE problem with this. Like would it send them to the afterlife to just turn the camera on AFTER they have eaten. What they’re talking about isn’t pertinent enough to do this, just wait 5 minutes to eat then turn the camera on.
I have real bad RBF so people usually leave me alone and when they don't I make sure they regret it. My absolute favorite thing to say to people who attempt to control me in public, "I'm not here for your comfort" and then carry on with my day. It works for everything.
Cindy's personality and looks remind me of the comedian/actress Retta from Parks and Recreation (she played Donna, and she's also a TV host of other shows). Love it!
We just brought a very large cake to a restaurant for a friend's birthday, that cake never left our table. We cut and ate half, and our friend took the rest home. No danger.
11:15 as a long time service industry employee; I have NEVER heard of a restaurant refusing to let you cut your own cake. It’s your damn cake. Also, we would NEVER assume left over cake was free game for us. If we’re left leftovers, that’s a bonus
I worked in a restaurant for way too many years and I'm telling you right now that that restaurant is absolutely lying. They totally ate that cake. I worked in restaurants where someone was so poor they would eat food off of a plate before they threw it away after bussing it from a table. These people are hungry and they eat and they eat, and they eat. And I'm telling you right now, they ate that cake. There's no way they threw it away. Absolutely not. It is American culture to give your server a slice of the cake if you feel like it's appropriate in the moment: it's not surprising, but it's also not surprising that restaurant employees would sneak food, they do it all the time, When they're bored, when they're hungry when they're angry when they're talking... whenever. Stealing is different, however, but I am not surprised at all that they stole that cake.
@@EsStagefright I always thought that a percentage tip was unfair. If they work at an expensive restaurant, they will get a bigger tip than someone working a cheaper restaurant. They both do the same amount of work.
There are only 2 instances where you take a PIECE of someone's cake. 1. There is an odd amount of people, and the cake is only big enough to barely split upon the party, leaving one last SMALL slice. Or 2. THEY OFFER YOU A SLICE. That is it. Seriously against kitchen etiquette. Plus, i was always grateful when a party wanted to slice their own. It's a bit of a pain to do.
Yes, so what was happening is the lady that was in the wreck gave the side piece that was already in the baby mama’s car so the lady that was in the wreck was like I already gave you all my information. Why do I have to give it to you again? So, the lady in the car spilled the beans and that’s why she went quiet cause she had no idea that there was this must drama 😅
As an aroace teen that woman has faced my worst nightmare people getting upset because i not into them She handled way than i would as well i would just be huding in a corner until they leave Of course she gay not aroace but still
I've made & decorated a couple of cakes for family (my biggest was a 56 person cake, decorated with pigs on a farm, tracker & hay bales, a road and a lot of greenery for my granddad's 75th five years ago). And I always make sure the restaurant staff are aware that we would like to cut it ourselves, though most places do allow you to with a knife they bring out (usually a steak knife or small knife) with some small plates & napkins. They were sus the minute they said that they (the staff) had to cut it due to "health hazard" like they didn't want him to keep the rest, which they either ate or possibly sold to select customers who were eyeing the cake up.
I know. She’s cute, and she’s a real one for reaching out to Kayla and for spilling the tea, but she doesn’t enunciate well and she’s talking way fast PLUS she’s eating so it is so hard to understand her! Vanessa a real one for the subtitles.
That restaurant 10000% owes the full value of that cake to your friend PLUS interest. It doesn't matter if they ate it or threw it out -- it wasn't theirs to eat OR to throw out!!
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We know they didn't throw tge cake out. You know why? Because why are you serving slithers of cake and calling them pieces of cake? The math ain't mathing.
@@lexarico7606 FACTS.
Agreed. The restaurant, I bet, actually were sampling the cake, because wth with those microscopic slices?
As a kitchen worker, I'm telling you right now they ate that cake. And also as a kitchen worker, that's a trash act.
They definitely ate it. It looked way too good! 🤤
Agreed. I also work in a Kitchen and the cake is taken to the table and they server it there. Not back into the kitchen.
Udder garbage behavior.
As a former server, it was definitely eaten by the servers. Maybe miscommunication, maybe.
OR turned around and sold slices?
Anyone else just LIVING for that first woman’s smile with the dimples!?!????? Holy shit I just wanted her to keep smiling, those dimples were DIVINE!!!!!
So glad someone else saw them. Delicious.
Could not agree more she's adorable!!!
That’s what I was looking at the whole time. Reminds me of Danielle Brooks.
If she still down for marrying a woman I'm on my kneeeeeees 🤡
That's what I was thinking too!
I worked in the restaurant industry for 10 years. Fine dining, hotels. I can tell you for a fact that They ate your cake. If they had thrown it away, they would have admitted to it, but they said that there were no leftovers. Regardless, There is absolutely ZERO acceptance for them to eat your cake, or to throw it away. AND they absolutely can allow you to cut your own cake. There is no "safety issue". They denied you the opportunity to cut it because they wanted to eat it, so they used that as an excuse for them to have control of it. Working a long shift or whatever excuse you want to make up for them is BS. It is the decision by the host of the party to allow the staff to eat any leftovers. I've worked many weddings and birthday dinners where we were offered leftovers, and I've worked parties where we weren't. That restaurant deserved to be outed, and I hope they lose money because of that. What an absolutely horrid thing to do.
Also, why didn't they cut the cake at the table?
I worked in the service industry for years and have SEEN this happen. We were ALWAYS hungry and ALWAYS eating whatever you could. All that running around and being around food just keeps you (me) hungry...and you burn a lot of calories, too. 😅We would rejoice when somebody sent food back because it was just the wrong order. But, heisting a B-Day cake is ultimate shade. They knew they were gonna eat the rest of that cake the moment they laid eyes on it. That was premeditated. I can FEEL it.😂
Yeah they ate it. I've made a few birthday cakes (for family) where I've asked to bring one and restaurants/whatever group play places would cut the cake right in front of you. I would offer servers and party coordinators if they want some too.
I agree, but as some one also in the restaurant industry there are safety issues. We absolutely cannot give large knives to customers. Steak knives are acceptable, but kitchen knives cannot be taken out of the kitchen so that the restaurant isn't responsible if you slice your finger off using a knife you're not even suppose to have in the first place.
That being said, we let people know ahead of time to bring your own cake cutter if we know some one is coming to our restaurant with their own cake. We also will not cut it for you.
@@Persephoneia01 I've worked at many fine dining restaurants and there has never been a safety issue with allowing a customer to use a 12-18 inch pastry/cake knife. There's no safety risk for an adult to use that knife and the restaurant would be absolved of any risk. Diners are given sharper steak knives all day long. Most customers would rather you cut and serve it anyways though. That being said, most places I worked at would have never allowed an outside cake in the restaurant. Of course, that depends on the customer and who they know. Regardless of that, it would never been allowed in the kitchen or any food prep area. Outside food in those areas were a huge no no. Contamination risks and whatnot.
Server for 20 years. They absolutely ate that cake. I yelled at my screen when you said they claimed they threw it away; there is exactly zero chance in hell they threw it away and 100% they ate it. Also, every restaurant I've worked in but one either cut the cake tableside or let the party cut it. The one that cut it in the back immediately reboxed the cake and returned it to the table.
They took interest the very moment the staff saw it and made an excuse right away health hazzard. Unethical i worked in a resto its automatic any leftovers we give it back
i would be like "you give us KNIVES AND FORKS" i'll forkin eat the cake at the table if bisses wanna act shady. Did he get compensation? this is a tragedy on a BIRTHDAY
They might have knocked it over in the walk-in. Dropped a lime on it all kinds of things. But yeah they probably ate it.
Same I have had 2 restaurants cut cakes that were brought in and both were cut in front of us.
I would never trust a restaurant with my personally made treat for a party. Best case scenario they cut it at the table for us and leave. That thing never leaves my sight. I have trust issues... F that. Who knows what they did with that cake back there.
I’ve been in the service industry for 13 years and recently we threw away someone’s cake because we thought they left but didn’t. I have never felt worse about something in my career. I ended up inviting the girl and her friend back and we threw her a re do birthday with a new cake. The restaurant covered everything. I can’t imagine doing something like that on purpose.
I worked at olive garden and my table forgot a birthday cookie cake. They came back for it HOURS later. I was already done with my shift and decompressing at home when a coworker texts me telling me that the people were freaking out because when they forgot the cookie cake there had only been a slice missing, well after 30 minutes of waiting to see if they would return for the cake, everyone in the back of the house started digging in 💀 they got back the box with barely any cookie left. 😂 my manager ended up refunding them for the cake
@@SocietalNoob See, that's what restaurants should do if something like this happens. The restaurant in this story says they threw it out. It sounds like they haven't offered any refund or anything else to rectify the situation. All they do is say well, we threw it away. Did they even apologize??
@@SydneyAnandBeautythey offered a free dinner for 2 at the restaurant, but I mean, would you like to get back there? I wouldn't trust them to give me food after all the drama.
@@SydneyAnandBeautyuh, no…
As you should the bare minimum but you should have paid for the old one too imo
As someone who works in a fancy restaurant in a country club, and other kitchens in the past. We never EVER throw out the geusts cake. We make sure they get everything they wanted, and the leftovers. Now, if they dont want the rest of it at all and leave, THEN we snack on it or throw it away
I assume a miscommunication happened with the cake and someone in the back was told or thought somehow that the table had left. So they threw out the cake or started eating it, not realizing the table was still there.
But then to not figure out that that had happened within like 15 minutes of the guests asking for their cake back shows they were trying to hide the messup.
Any place I’ve ever brought a cake, I always make sure the serving party enjoyed some as well. But the all out sneaky lying manipulation of it all… it’s just gross.
@erikarussell1142 Same, bestie. When my family goes to a restaurant for a birthday, our server gets cake as well! (I can't say it always happens, because one time a server politely declined, but the offer was still made!)
When I was living in NYC my budget was tight.
A restaurant threw out my large leftovers and I was planning to eat the following day for lunch/dinner.
I was so freaked out bc they’ve NEVER threw out my leftovers after I told him I wanted to take it home.
IMHO, they started eating it in the back! 😳😳😳
It’s ridiculous that they couldn’t fking wait to see what the table wanted to do with it before eating or throwing it away like what the hell
I love the 1st ladies comeback. And you know he loves her beautiful latte skin, her adorable dimples and her punky giggle.
they really do be glowing
She’s a gorgeous human. I’m obsessed with her
She's a lol cow.
Her smile and laugh are very charming
Latte means milk 😊
I think the part that got me upset the most about the stolen cake was the constant gaslighting and lying by the restaurant.
Seriously, who do they think they're fooling? Especially the "policy" about slicing the cake, I don't believe that for a second. They knew what they were doing.
Are they still in business? This is what is considered a high-end restaurant?
Yikes!
Not the restaurant. Several service workers fearing for their job made up a story, the ‚restaurant‘ wasn’t involved in the act, only the reaction so social media is ‚the restaurant‘ working with the information presented by staff. The ‚restaurant‘ got gaslit themselves because the staff feels job insecurity.
That should give you the ick. The workplace culture and power structures in this restaurant prohibit basic service and honesty.
I'm so confused. I thought Charlotte already did a video on this??? The owner ends up messaging him that he can have a gift card/certificate for the restaurant, and he's does an update saying why would I want to go there? And as added insult, the amount they offer him is small compared to the price of what is essentially a gourmet cake.
As a previous server, they for sure ate that cake 😂
On Cakegate: tiny pieces served + "oops, it was thrown away" = it was eaten out of spite. Swanky NYC restaurant screams neurotic head chef on an ego trip
Maybe the ego driven one/s were grumpy their cake wasn't as good as the dude's.
Or no evil intentions at all. It was dropped and instead of owning it, they salvaged those meager pieces and tossed the rest. Either way it was wrong.
In the first video, this man made a whole mini series on him being rejected for nearly 4 years. The desperation is infinite 😂
😅
Offs! 😂💀
Lol tbh though, them dimples when she laughs, I get it 😂😂😂
@@kekee102lol... those dimples and that twinkle in her eyes..I noticed that right away too😅
Men just want us to cry over them
It's giving " will you go out with me?"...."no"..." well you're ugly anyways" or the famous laugh and " you thought i was serious???!"
I have another theory about the cake: they dropped it. They dropped it and served the only salvageable part. They kept lying because they actively picked up the cake and cut the good half. And they could never admit it because that *_actually is_* a health hazard.
My thoughts exactly!
That is an excellent theory.
Good point
Ah didn't think of that
Especially if the baker didn’t reach out furthermore. But they handled it PR wise horribly. If someone was honest with me and said they dropped it but this was the only safe pieces and give them all a dessert on the house it would’ve been a silly memory for the friends birthday instead of a huge outlash
They didn't throw that cake away, they ate it, they're just trying to make it better for the staff, but made it worse! Nobody would ever think it was normal to throw/eat that cake, I've never had that happen in many years of eating out!
wellll... maybe they cut it in half and dropped some of it on the floor? That would justify throwing it away, but still... next time let them cut it with a piece of dental floss at the table and be done with it.
@ they should’ve just owned up to it, trying to cover it up just makes whatever you come up with, sound suspicious
They didn't drop that cake at that restaurant. They ate it. No excuses for their wrong brains.@m0t0b33
💯 agreed!
The man stitching Cindy has an ego that won't allow him to believe a woman wouldn't want him; therefore, his response to her not wanting him is "sour grapes." She is so funny, and I love her smile.
IT'S EDUCATIONAL
She is hilarious
Jah, her smile is really contagious! And those dimples...I love it! So cute.
Man carrying around those sour grapes in his own sack, not her
😂
The woman in the first video is so beautiful. Every time she smiles and those dimple said she just shines like a star. Stunning!
Yep... Love those dimples!
She is gorgeous
LMAOO the guy from the first video trashing her while displaying fan behaviour
Literally
Her dimples are killing him, 😂😂
I had a guy obsessed with me for almost 3 years, because when i told him i didn't wanted anything to do with him, he started making hate comments about me everyday, like 20 or 30 comments in just one day.🙄
@@dinasilva9263oh he wasn’t bothered at all then 🫣🤦🏼♀️🤣 how pathetic he sounds!
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“Our entire existence is not based on whether or not men want us.”
Say it louder for the people in the back!! ❤
SCREAMING IT
Our entire existence is not based on whether or not women want us.
As it should be 🙏@@josephhodges9819
^^^😂😂😂
@@josephhodges9819no one ever said it was
She's been living rent free in his head for 3 yrs now!! That boys in luv.❤
Nice 😂😂
I bartend fine dining restaurants and high end events……I wish that man had raised more hell about the restaurant stealing that cake. They 100% stole it. They did not throw it away. There was nothing innocent about it. That kind of thing happens ALL THE TIME. Don’t let people get away with it. That is absolutely disgusting behavior, and they should have comped the entire meal.
I have heard this cake cutting rule before. I have brought cake to restaurants before with no issues. They always asked how big we want the pieces cut. Then, they were courteous enough to box up the leftovers for us when they delivered the cake pieces to the table.
That first woman's confidence is equal parts attractive and endearing. Love that for her.
Her TikTok stalker is probably correct though.
@@anothersquid Nope. Her stalker is OBSESSED with her. There’s no reason other men wouldn’t be.
Give a logical reason he’s stalking her?
He wants her attention or he’s mentally ill.
I don't know why anyone would call her ugly either, she's got perfect teeth, beautiful skin, cheekbones people go get surgery to have, cute as hell dimples, a radiant smile, infectious laugh and sexy voice. No wonder he's obsessed.
@@bronwench5055Right?!!!
@bronwench5055 for real she's so pretty and has an amazing smile. He's just trying to neg her
2:05 “you’re propped up at your grandmothers spare bedroom that’s down the hall and the to the right-“ the way i immediately opened up TikTok to follow Cindy 💀💀💀
GIRL SAME I was like "I NEED more of this personality!!!"
And insta
The SHADE!!!😉
SAME!!!
That just sounded creepy to me like she is just as invested in him as he is to her.
My son got me hooked on your channel. He passed away at the end of September. I watch your videos all the time now.
my condolences for your loss.
@kellz6266 thank you
Cindy's laugh was everything, that peasant had no idea what was coming for him.
She is so funny and her beautiful skin!! Then dimples too! That dude is crushing BIG TIME!
As a server, can confirm we are not allowed to bring kitchen knives to the table. They're like 3x bigger and sharpened regularly while steak knives that go to the table are not. There are food safety rules we have to follow that don't always make sense. We can't even divide a dish in half onto two plates in the kitchen if it's going to be shared. I assume it's because we can't guarantee both halves will be identical and don't want the blame for that. So it has to be done by the guest at the table.
We can however potentially cut the cake in the back, leave it on the original platter, then take it out with a spatula and plate it at the table. Occasionally servers will be offered a slice but we don't just take the cake (lol). If there are leftovers, we assume the guest is taking it home unless otherwise specified.
Either way, those servers 100% ate that cake before it ever got brought out. Which is 100% wrong and absolutely is theft.
I don't know how it works in your kitchen but here we don't cut soft cakes with big kitchen knife. A simple table knife would've been enough, maybe a spatula to help serve it, that's it. They just wanted to eat the cake.
I can second the knife thing. Though because of the high volume of parties we served, we bought plastic kitchen style knives specifically for self serve.
@00r0ry I agree they could use the knives they have for soft cakes. I've had guests explicitly ask me for "one of those big knives you have in the back," which I decline and explain those can't be brought to tables. Sometimes they ask me to cut it in the kitchen (ice cream cakes), but usually they ask for whatever I can bring them. Which is a large pizza spatula and a clean steak knife. People severely overestimate what it takes to cut a cake lol.
ETA: the servers do it all ourselves where I work and we sometimes go for a big knife simply for efficiency and ease. We don't have food runners or expo despite our location volume and we just don't have time to spend a whole 5 minutes dividing up a giant cake with a small tool when it could take 2 minutes with a bigger tool. Sawing with a small knife can also smear the icing and any writing or decorations and I'm not taking the hit for that lol.
@tlcasselman that's actually brilliant. We do catering too and have loads of plasticware. We should get some of the plastic knives.
@@UzumakiDonnoHinataI feel like that cake was NOT cut with a sharp kitchen knife, looking at it 😂
They threw away the rest of the cake?! I don't believe that for a second.
Me neither. They ate that shit before the party did.
4 possibilities.
1. They cut the cake and the staff ate and took home the rest after wires were crossed thinking it had already been served.
2. They were cutting and plating slices but dropped a majority of the cake so had to half slices
3. Mistakenly cut and served the cake to a different party or as a dessert for guests.
4. An entitled guest with more money wanted the cake so wait staff split it.
Whatever the case is most of the cake was gone by the time their dessert came around. So we know for the future pre cut the cake if they won't let you use your steak knife they give you to cut your own cake.
@@LadyBernyeah-I was thinking-if they didn’t eat it, they dropped some of it or something happened. They’re definitely lying. No way they threw it out. And in the future, I’d insist they cut it at the table and serve it and leave it for me to box back up. I’m incensed. Probably more than I should be. Probably because it involves cake. Lol 😂 what a sleazy move on the waitstaff’s part.
I’d also like to say, if I made a cake and they had the gall to serve those stingy ass slivers of cake like they were rationing in WWII, I’d be pissed for starters.
No one believes it
I didn't know the first videos creator until I saw this video and now I might be in love? The charisma, the confidence, the eloquent call-outs, the dimples?? She is living rent free in his head and honestly I get it 😍 obviously not excusing his harassment of her and the negativity/insecurity he's trying to instill in her. Hoo boy is he telling on himself with those vids
11:35 As a chef of 23 years… they didn’t throw it away. They small slices so they could eat it. No question.
That was highly unprofessional.
Frr
My school did this when I was a little kid, no matter how big a parent's cake was for a birthday party the kids only got a tiny sliver including the birthday kid while the teachers gorged themselves.
Tbh I would NEVER expect this behaviour from a NYC restaurant, but there it is.
That first lady's dimples are enough to be obsessed over her, then add her confident sass!!! 🥰
she's hot and she knows it! I love it!
Absolutely!! I have a weak spot for dimples & hers are phenomenal!! ❤
Can you blame the poor dude? He's obsessed with her but has zero rizz, zero game, zero emotional intelligence and zero chance, so he makes a clown out of himself. :D
Our existence may not be based on whether men want us, but that man's whole existence is based on whether women want him.
Seems to be that it's based solely on HER wanting him.
Nah its the money for both of them, because its entertaining bored people.@jacklow9611
🎤🎤🎤
Apparently, he is NOT Kenough😂
Exactly!
Working in restaurants my whole life. You don't eat or trash or keep the remaining cake until the guests say they are not interested in taking the leftovers home and offer the staff to do as they wish. Many times the party hosts will offer the remaining cake to the staff, especially if the staff did a great job. Wedding cakes or engagement party cakes are often taken home to freeze as a memento.
Ok. Fast fwd with the car story and Kayla. I can not stand to hear people talking while eating. Literally chills.
I didn’t understand her because talk or eat
I stopped watching when she kept smacking and talking while eating 😡🤢
Like girl you can’t eat first then film or film and eat after?
Right? You are in charge of your video - you can film after you are finished with your snack.
I could barely understand her without her eating. The chewing made it 1000x worse
That candle on the cake was more of a safety hazard than the customers cutting their own cake.
😂😂 ikr
The cake story. The restaurant definitely threw that cake away... into their stomachs. 😂
They definitely ate it! 😂
I worked as a server and yes, we put the candles on and present the full cake to the table so they can sing happy birthday or whatever and then we take it to the back to slice it. I’ve always given the left overs back to the table before they leave and sometimes the guests will let us keep the cake leftovers. NEVER HAVE I EVER STOLEN SOMEONES BIRTHDAY CAKE! That is crazy!!
4:39 3 years later? He really has been in a one-sided relationship with her, huh? 🤣 p.s. her laugh, dimples, and smile are flawless 😍
I was gonna say her skin looks baby smooth flawless, she definitely don't look masculine either that man is just mad she don't want these men and they wonder why 🤣🤣
Anyone hear "Ross Gellar" in their ears with the cake? " you threw my cake away!!!! MY CAKE" ! 😂😂😂😂
Yesss I keep yelling MY SANDWICH?! Myyyy SANDWICH!
YES!!!!
Came in search of this comment! Knew I couldn't be the only one 😂😂
The moist maker😂
That cake was the only good thing I had going in my life!
I love the lady in the first video her laugh is contagious! And the way she responded to that weirdo is hilarious!
Right on. That lady got true confidence and love seeing it 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Well said! 😂😂😂
At my sister's wedding, the same cake experience happened. The servers ate the rest of her wedding cake instead of packing it to go home. The manager admitted to me (her wedding planner) that they had eaten it which I give them major props for. I wouldn't have minded them having some, but to eat the rest of it (there was a lot) including what they were planning to keep for their first anniversary was where I had a problem with it. The venue ended up buying them 2 cakes from their bakery and sending to their house as compensation which we appreciated.
18:10 thank you for the subtitles, omg. She's hard to understand and then with a mouth full of food I had no idea. 😂
Ugh the eating and smacking was driving me nuts and the story wasn't even that interesting.
It was truly awful. I just forwarded until i saw Charlotte’s lovely face again.
I couldn't even watch it!
A larger group of my friends recently went out for a birthday dinner and they split us between three servers. The other two, oh my ... we were jealous of their service. Our girl sucked! Inattentive, had her manager and the other servers take care of us. The thing that made us not tip her as well as her co workers got tipped out ... smacking gum in our ears anytime we saw her. Mouth open, full smack, spit droplets. We refused to tip even 18%.
I just get so triggered from smacking noices... just real anger. I just can't stand it. English is my 2nd language, but what she is speaking is not English
17:50 CAN WE NOT BE CHEWING WHEN TELLING STORIES 🤢
TRIGGERED 😂😂😂😂 IM SO TRIGGERED RIGHT NOW 🤣
I had to stop watching. I was grossed out.
Yeah that's so nasty
also the excessive use of "like" was bothering me so much!
It’s the absolute worst
Yeah omg I was getting so annoyed 😭😭
11:50 Either way, it doesn't belong to them.They don't get to eat it or throw it out !! That is horrible!! 17:38 No offense but this girl is hard Enough to understand without having a mouthful of food. 19:25 Thank you Charlotte for posting the words she actually saying!!
omg I was scrolling just to find this comment. This girl chewing sounds is making it tough to even watch 😂😂 and damn hard to understand
THANK YOU!
I'm so glad someone else said this- Im deaf and I was STRUGGLING so much in the first video, so the second one where she was eating was just intangible to me.
omg thank you.. I thought I was the only one. I could barely understand her and the chewing noise was driving crazy ahahah
I can understand her perfectly. The downside is if you don’t understand the lingo and the manner of search she can be complete gibberish…
I do not talk like her. Yet I’m always shocked I completely understand her. I’m black but even my cousins don’t talk like her. I have no idea why I understand her! 😂
She uses words we spread out in a single sentence maybe? I honestly don’t know lmfao.
17:00 girl was working my nerves. You already could barely enunciate and then eating on top of that.😂😂😂
All that darn smacking and slurring.
OH MY DAYS. I am so glad i am not the only one. Holy moly.
The first dude giving the toxic ''gasslight them until their self confidence is so low they'll settle down for you'' Dude ain't gonna fkn happen give up it's been years! He's so obsessed it's embarassing!
Classic "negging". Negative comments to wear down a person's confidence.
It is pathetic. The "man baby" is probably already an incel or is a few steps to becoming one.
As someone who’s worked at a restaurant and people brought their cake in, they were in the wrong to assume he wouldn’t want to take it home.
Yeah and people 90% always offer me the server and sometimes the crew a slice, how selfish of them to steal a clearly decadent cake with no care in the world
The restaurant staff - probably the servers - definitively ate that cake! They probably didn't cut themselves pieces - they just ate it by the forkful right off the platter. It couldn't be returned because it was destroyed.
And then they lied. This restaurant needs to be called out. How did they rectify it? For me this could not be rectified since it was a handmade cake and the birthday person did not get his whole gift. Awful. Made me mad.
Ok, if you google it you can read the name of the restaurant. Good.
@mingiinimene3335 They should have given the Birthday Guy a gift certificate or something as an apology and compensation. Unless the sever comes to the table and asks if they should serve more - or package the rest of the cake - in separate serving containers for each person - or whole - NO ONE should touch that cake. If the party says they don't want it - the staff is welcome to it - then they can have it. It has nothing to do with the cost of the cake - whether it's a $50 cake from the local bakery or a $100+ custom cake - respect the cake and the customer.
Thr restaurant did themselves a disservice by not apologizing and trying to make things right. Not a good look - restaurants need their customers more than customers need that restaurant.
@robynjustrobyn6675 This guy claimed that to make the cake hundreds of dollars! Red flag! There is no way to make that cake cost hundreds of dollars to make! No intricate design , nothing special and not huge as he stated! I don't know of anybody who would say that cake was worth hundreds! I've had the huge cakes with the most intricate designs done for far less than even that! Way way under $100 for stunning cakes twice that size with way more intricate detail. That cake was no way worth hundreds!! It was so simplistic! Now as far as the restaurant is concerned, normal procedure is to bring the cake out to the table and cut it in front of guests. Never have I heard of that they take it back to the kitchen! That is a major health hazzard to not only kitchen staff but also other customers because of allergies and unknown food being brought into a kitchen who has to go by health and food codes by law! So I call negligence on food staff for sure. However I think the man who made this cake and is trying to claim that this cake costs him hundreds to make is Dilusional! Please do tell me who would pay hundreds for that cake in it's simplicity! Lovely but not worth hundreds!! The restaurant should give a small voucher to the birthday person , but not to the person who made the cake and looking to recoup as it was a gift. Then I can also state that people who bring in outside food and expect the waiter and staff to accommodate them is crazy, seeing how they are losing money from the customers staying longer and now not getting income from new customers as people bring in extra food and the waiter still has to serve regardless! Restaurant loses money and so servers. It's just not right!
@@robynjustrobyn6675You are correct young lady.
Restaurant manager here and yes we have caught our employees doing just what you said.
And yes it is the server's job to find out if they are having the cake here or does she need to go packing for the cake for her guests.
It is sad that this restaurant behaved like that. Smh 😮
I have gone to many birthdays at restaurants, they never tampered with the cake or had issues with someone cutting it. They SUPER ate that cake.
Damn. The first one is giving fan behavior. But she ate and left no crumbs. 💅
💯 agree
Just like the restaurant workers and that cake 😂
Just like the cake thieves lol
@@leonordeleon4066 💀 🤣
Charlotte, i want to thank you for being such an awesome person. My husband lost a close friend recently and has been pretty down. Yesterday I put one of your videos on and you made him laugh so much and I could tell he was feeling a little better. Thank you for being you. You brought laughter and happiness to him in a time of grief and I love his laugh. We love you, Potato Queen!
❤❤❤
@THECINDYNOIR You had me hysterically laughing when you scrunched your nose and said "You like me!!!!!!" I love it!!!!! You are a kick!
yeah I remember being little having parties/attending parties at restaurants- they sing, they cut the cake infront you, they leave the cake at the table- doesn't matter who made the cake/it's your cake. Nothing should be different about that through the years- if it ain't broken don't fix it right?-
And stop making excuses for them. Someone is obviously lying. They clearly ate that cake. Come on.
I aspire to be the first girl! The confidence, the read, the absolute poise is everything I want to take into all interactions in my life ❤
It was a masterclass in dealing with trolls. Don’t cry, laugh🤙🏼😜
No I work in restaurants, and that's never how it goes. Those people ate the cake.Nobody's gonna throw away half of a good cake.That doesn't happen.
We always assume we're giving the rest of the cake back.That's left over.Nobody ever throws that out!!
I’ve worked in that industry for a while. And I agree. The only time (as a server) we were ever able to get leftovers is if they genuinely forgot about the cake. Plenty of weddings and big events I’ve served either had too much, or they drank too much (left without it), or they just had a lotttt of money and just could care less about whatever was left over. Other than those times, it was always given back!!
@@elizabethferreira7788 right! I mean, on occasion, the people will tell us to take a slice, but even then I'll take one large piece and split it between all of us and give them back the rest of their cake. Nobody throws out the cake.That's bullshit! Lol
@@lesliecodron5185 yes that too. But that’s only if then were genuinely nice 😭 I understand things are expensive but a lot of times they don’t understand what happens behind there and how much work is actually done lol. So it was nice when we would get offered some food 🥲
"I think you want me" took me out😂. And he does bestie!!!!😂
😂😂 I love this fine lady. Her smiling eyes, rosy cheeks with adorable dimples, and complete confidence in herself. 👏👏She’s a the whole package.
The first lady is absolutely adorable and her personality is so charming. He wants her, 💯
Yup! As a man I can agree with your statement. 👍👏
I made a joke on instagram about how I texted my husband that I was pumping my own gas like a peasant. A man felt the need to tell me that “women like me” are the reason he never got married. He had a fedora on in his profile pic. Something tells me the not being married thing was not by his choice.
A fedora 😂😂😂. That tells it all.
The number of people that get "triggered" by the smallest jokey comment is amazing. I can understand reading it and not thinking it's funny but just scroll past or block that person. Talk about a ridiculous overreaction.
I got a bunch of those people for saying "I think the gas fairy died" because I went out to my car and it was on E and he never let that happen before 😂😂
I would a been like “spray the side of the car like you’re a male pornstar.”
It's a shame fedoras have been nearly ruined by incels.
"They threw the cake away." Sure, Jan. Ryan made an update video, saying "he had received "three different calls from people within the management of the restaurant." He was told that security footage from the kitchen confirmed that a portion of the cake was left behind and that they "most likely forgot about [the cake] and that it was left in the kitchen." So why did the waiter say it was thrown away?
“A portion” not the other half, something def happened to that cake
Perhaps half of it got smashed by accident? And they tried to “fix it” by only bringing out a little bit of
Also why didnt they check the kitchen for "random cake that didnt belong here" when people asked to take the rest home? Makes the story even more unbelievable. RELEASE THE TAPES lmao
@@fourlittlebirds6166 honestly i also thought that BUT that would actually have been the only good and acceptable answer for this scandal so if its was true (specially with footage) i am sure they would have said that by now. So its disproving that it was some normal and acceptable reason why they didnt give the cake back.
Personally i think either someone got greedy or some other staff THOUGHT the people of the party were already gone and started eating it but then they realized that the cake still needed to be served. Like maybe someone cut it, put it out to be served, people saw it, took some. Others saw it, took some too. and then the OG responsible waiter/cook saw it was like "YO WTF THATS THE GUESTS STUFF! OMG YOU ATE IT ALL EXCEPT THE LAST SLICE?! WHAT NOW?!"
@@ShadowWolf1307 🍰📼😁
In regards to the first video... That read was SO GOOD I hate the book was done and I need the sequel immediately 😂😂😂😂
That “high end steakhouse” did some low ass shit
If i made a cake and the restaurant said I couldn't cut the cake, I would take it home and cut it. No one is cutting one of my cakes.
The Kayla story: Did no one tell you not to talk with your mouth full. It's not pleasant for anyone. I couldn't watch it that part, i had to fast forward to the end of that story. I personally hate that sound.
It was bad 😂
I already couldn't listen with the condstant lip smacking, then she started eating and that was it for me
Yes! The Kayla update one was awful to watch.
@@Chonts glad I'm not the only one.
@@danielled8598I couldn’t watch … I skipped as much as I could .
The way I would have turned into a Karen over them saying "there's no more cake". Absolutely not!!!
We really need to stop misusing 'Karen'.
Standing up for yourself isn't a synonym for self righteous sc umbag.
Lmfao the first woman laughs had me screaming. I love it. He’s obsessed 🤣
As a hospo worker, that cake situation upsets me so much. How could you be so entitled that you take a GUESTS cake? I'm literally sick to my stomach
17:25 listening to her is so irritating im sorry. She has moments of enunciation so why can't she keep it going just mumbling and smacking no one understands youuuu
Omg I was thinking the same thing. It was so annoying I wanted to break my phone to shut her up lol
So fking annoying, it was pissing me off like girl, you should of mind your biz because you can’t tell a story
I came to say the same. Then she puts food in the pie hole and makes it even worse
I was thinking the same thing. My “Tio” (Uncle) speaks like that. I then have a confused look on my face. Then my Dad or someone else “translates” his gibberish for me. All the words just run into each other and same cadence; kind of flat. Almost like he is talking to himself.
@@sarahosinovsky4025it's like do we need to check them for inactive brain matter
Cake part…. Staff was eating the cake before it went to the table. Quoting “safety hazard” for the knife cutting and serving tiny slivers of cake was so guest wouldn’t find out.
They told him that prior to coming to the restaurant and they brought it out with a candle so there is no way they ate it before.
That First Lady is GORGEOUS! Her smile omg!
That first woman!❤❤ Her energy and vibe are what I strive for in life. What an absolutely unbothered queen!
The first video is hilarious. IT'S GIVING OBSESSED
Former server here. I have cut and served dozens of birthday cakes for customers. (After the candles are blown out) I have never, would never assume I could have a piece nor would ANY of my coworkers ASSume they could have any. THE RESTAURANT STAFF should be ASHAMED of themselves! More often than not the customer told me to cut a slice for myself....and that millimeter slice they served the customer is the size I would slice myself! Immediately after I picked up the empty cake plates I would box and bag the leftover cake and bring it out to the table/ customer. I would even ask the person that brought it if they want the leftovers brought back in whole or if they wanted me to slice the rest for their guests to take home.
The first one- it's giving the vibe of 'you can't fire me, I quit! You can't reject me, I'm rejecting you! Weh weh weh!'
18:37 I tried to stick around for this part of the video, but I just can’t. She is eating while she’s telling what’s going on and she’s mumbling and stringing her words together. It’s super annoying. I can’t do it.
agreed
I'm not there yet,but I despise when people eat while live,or filming.. Last thing I wanna do it watch someone eat and hear them chewing and smacking their lips 😬
@@CaseyMarie11-11lmaoooo but also first 30 seconds in, i’m listening then had to ask myself “wtf did she just say” lmaoo. I’m like is it a lisp a tongue issue like speak properly
@@CaseyMarie11-11 I am not bothered by that. What gets me is when they start articulating badly. She was not easy for me to understand from the beginning because she talks differently from what I am used to (English is not my native language). The eating just makes it more difficult and not worth the effort.
Google translate just made it all worse. I have no idea what she was talking about.
I can see all of Kayla situation girl's food. Close your mouth. No way she couldn't wait to eat lmao
Or wait until after
I could not understand anything she said in the first video except Kayla and car. Nothing more. At least the second video had captions.
I never understood Kayla I was thinking she said Caleb
I could watch that one. The eating cheetos, mouth open snd smacking of the lips was a no for me. Yuck.
Like nails on a chalkboard. Actually turned off the sound and just read the captions, the sound in my headphones was quite icky
18:02 thank you for the captions!!! I could NOT UNDERSTAND her!!! The smacking & talking with the mouth full, was very annoying!
She lost me. I stopped following her story because of that.
Can’t she go for 2 minutes without eating? That was gross.
I had to skip ahead. The constant smacking of her mouth, while she kept shoveling it in, while talking made me so angry. It's disgusting and I can't believe there wasn't any more comments about this. 😅
I hate that! Dang, film after you're finished eating. It's not cute or quirky.
Ugh, she talks with her mouth full! I can barely understand her, even without the food in her mouth. Sorry, I'm not a native speaker. It's so hard to follow her story; she lost me, too.
16:52 I wish people could just tell their story without eating, putting make-up on or doing other distracting stuff.
honestly it makes it better
Gosh yes that's disgusting
I already couldn't understand her, only made it worse
I’m at 16:56 and came here to say the food noise is too much 🤮
The cold send 'congrats on your engagement, I'm thriving' ex girlfriend and the 3-year 'yeah well I'd never date you anyway' stitcher have the same energy
Petition to never again use footage of someone filming while eating 💀💀 I wanted to crawl out of of my skin
had to skip that one myself! either talk or eat, dont do both at the same time!
It's like nails on a chalk board for
me..... it's the worst!
I'll sign the petition...
Yup, had to skip it
TikTok has a HUGE problem with this. Like would it send them to the afterlife to just turn the camera on AFTER they have eaten. What they’re talking about isn’t pertinent enough to do this, just wait 5 minutes to eat then turn the camera on.
@@changeling0073 Where do I sign?
0:39 😂i love her so much,she is so real. & that guy stitches any black woman he can to degrade them,smh.
These are the same pookies that will demand to be called a "kang." Whole bunch of kingdomless pretend kings. 2:24 Love how she clocked him! Oop 😅😂
I worked in a NYC restaurant, and yes, you can’t cut your own cake. It’s an insurance thing.
The first lady is beautiful! Love her calling out the hater! ❤😂❤
I love the First Lady’s dimples, and she is beautiful, that is why he loves her ❤😂
I have real bad RBF so people usually leave me alone and when they don't I make sure they regret it. My absolute favorite thing to say to people who attempt to control me in public, "I'm not here for your comfort" and then carry on with my day. It works for everything.
That first woman is amazing, I love her.
Oh my GOD I love the first lady. She’s adorable, she’s hilarious, her smile and laugh are SO CONTAGIOUS. And furthermore, she’s RIGHT.
Cindy's personality and looks remind me of the comedian/actress Retta from Parks and Recreation (she played Donna, and she's also a TV host of other shows). Love it!
Cindynoir is just so funny and cute on her comment about Mr. Grandma's basement guy.
It's the 3rd door down the hall at grandma's house 😂 lmfao
We just brought a very large cake to a restaurant for a friend's birthday, that cake never left our table. We cut and ate half, and our friend took the rest home. No danger.
The little smile while he asks why he was blocked 😂 He likes her
Absolutely! It wasn't an evil grin, it was a genuine smile! :D
11:15 as a long time service industry employee; I have NEVER heard of a restaurant refusing to let you cut your own cake. It’s your damn cake. Also, we would NEVER assume left over cake was free game for us. If we’re left leftovers, that’s a bonus
I work in a restaurant now and we never do that.
They totally ate that cake 🍰
All my restaurant workers know! 😮
@@rogerhutcheson7281oh absolutely. But like, I’m baffled
I worked in a restaurant for way too many years and I'm telling you right now that that restaurant is absolutely lying. They totally ate that cake. I worked in restaurants where someone was so poor they would eat food off of a plate before they threw it away after bussing it from a table. These people are hungry and they eat and they eat, and they eat. And I'm telling you right now, they ate that cake. There's no way they threw it away. Absolutely not. It is American culture to give your server a slice of the cake if you feel like it's appropriate in the moment: it's not surprising, but it's also not surprising that restaurant employees would sneak food, they do it all the time, When they're bored, when they're hungry when they're angry when they're talking... whenever. Stealing is different, however, but I am not surprised at all that they stole that cake.
It's sad that they are paid so low that they come to work hungry.
@seeya205 Honestly, it depends on where they work. Some restaurants, you get really big tips, and some you don't
@@EsStagefright I always thought that a percentage tip was unfair. If they work at an expensive restaurant, they will get a bigger tip than someone working a cheaper restaurant. They both do the same amount of work.
Love your content! It helps me get through the work day 🤣
There are only 2 instances where you take a PIECE of someone's cake. 1. There is an odd amount of people, and the cake is only big enough to barely split upon the party, leaving one last SMALL slice. Or 2. THEY OFFER YOU A SLICE. That is it. Seriously against kitchen etiquette.
Plus, i was always grateful when a party wanted to slice their own. It's a bit of a pain to do.
Well, it was the first case in their oppinion. You know small is a relative term.
20:51 he didn’t give the side piece’s info it was the lady who hit her car because she said she already gave her info
Yes, so what was happening is the lady that was in the wreck gave the side piece that was already in the baby mama’s car so the lady that was in the wreck was like I already gave you all my information. Why do I have to give it to you again? So, the lady in the car spilled the beans and that’s why she went quiet cause she had no idea that there was this must drama 😅
He in love with her and mad she gay. This man is having a hard time with it. 😅😂
As an aroace teen that woman has faced my worst nightmare people getting upset because i not into them
She handled way than i would as well i would just be huding in a corner until they leave
Of course she gay not aroace but still
I've made & decorated a couple of cakes for family (my biggest was a 56 person cake, decorated with pigs on a farm, tracker & hay bales, a road and a lot of greenery for my granddad's 75th five years ago).
And I always make sure the restaurant staff are aware that we would like to cut it ourselves, though most places do allow you to with a knife they bring out (usually a steak knife or small knife) with some small plates & napkins.
They were sus the minute they said that they (the staff) had to cut it due to "health hazard" like they didn't want him to keep the rest, which they either ate or possibly sold to select customers who were eyeing the cake up.
I worked in a restaurant that does this, (the bring your own cake thing) and we always gave the remaining cake back to the customer. So that's wild
Thank you, Vanessa 😂 the subtitles were definitely needed.
I know. She’s cute, and she’s a real one for reaching out to Kayla and for spilling the tea, but she doesn’t enunciate well and she’s talking way fast PLUS she’s eating so it is so hard to understand her! Vanessa a real one for the subtitles.
6:22 I'M SO ADDING HER!!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Same! She’s hilarious and amazing. And TBH, She’s gorgeous…those dimples tho!
This lady is so lovable tho. 😁I like her whole vibe and her laugh is awesome!
That first girls personality is so wonderful it makes her absolutely stunning and the humor is adorable. I hope she keeps being herself.