This was a mostly great video, the men injected a bit too much sometimes and didn't let the lady finish her entire thought but I got the idea. And it's spot on to what we women want. Here was my soap note takeaway for men who need a condensed version 1. want to be pursued 2. ask questions in an effort to understand 3. Emotional connection leads to the desire of physical connection 4. want to be seen and heard not fixed 5. Want a man with vision, direction 6. Want a leader a. When a man doesn't lead, a woman feels like she has to 7. Want to be part of a team 8. Don't want to be alone 9. Want a man with initiative "We are already mothers. We don't want to mother our husband." 10. Relationship with the Lord 11. Verbal processing to figure out what we actually feel, ASK questions to help us process. Be truly invested in helping 12. We want to feel important and special. This comes by taking initiative. plan a date, tell me if you think I look pretty, take a picture of us. All without us asking for it.
Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts-and what a thorough comment! First, we hear you regarding moments when we may have chimed in a bit too soon. We’re definitely working on sharpening those listening skills as we go. Thanks for pointing that out with grace. As for the listed points, we are glad it resonated with you. It lines up so well with God’s design for relationships: mutual love, intentionality, and leadership grounded in Christ-centered humility, not wanting to "mother" a husband is such a good one-men are called to grow in maturity and reflect Christ, not add extra weight to their wife's burdens. That marriage-as-a-team dynamic is such a gift when done well. We appreciate your thoughtful SOAP breakdown; it’s a blessing to see viewers take time to process and condense ideas into something actionable. May we all strive, men and women alike, to grow in love, understanding, and servant-hearted leadership. Blessings to you, sister! Much love from us both.
This was a mostly great video, the men injected a bit too much sometimes and didn't let the lady finish her entire thought but I got the idea. And it's spot on to what we women want. Here was my soap note takeaway for men who need a condensed version
1. want to be pursued
2. ask questions in an effort to understand
3. Emotional connection leads to the desire of physical connection
4. want to be seen and heard not fixed
5. Want a man with vision, direction
6. Want a leader
a. When a man doesn't lead, a woman feels like she has to
7. Want to be part of a team
8. Don't want to be alone
9. Want a man with initiative
"We are already mothers. We don't want to mother our husband."
10. Relationship with the Lord
11. Verbal processing to figure out what we actually feel, ASK questions to help us process. Be truly invested in helping
12. We want to feel important and special. This comes by taking initiative. plan a date, tell me if you think I look pretty, take a picture of us. All without us asking for it.
Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts-and what a thorough comment! First, we hear you regarding moments when we may have chimed in a bit too soon. We’re definitely working on sharpening those listening skills as we go. Thanks for pointing that out with grace.
As for the listed points, we are glad it resonated with you. It lines up so well with God’s design for relationships: mutual love, intentionality, and leadership grounded in Christ-centered humility, not wanting to "mother" a husband is such a good one-men are called to grow in maturity and reflect Christ, not add extra weight to their wife's burdens. That marriage-as-a-team dynamic is such a gift when done well.
We appreciate your thoughtful SOAP breakdown; it’s a blessing to see viewers take time to process and condense ideas into something actionable. May we all strive, men and women alike, to grow in love, understanding, and servant-hearted leadership.
Blessings to you, sister! Much love from us both.