Black Folk Don't: Commit Suicide

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  • Опубліковано 30 вер 2024
  • Suicide usually isn't an option for Black folks, especially since there are a whole host of reasons for why our mortality rates are ridiculously high, but is this always true? Given some recent high profile suicides and apparent suicides in the black community, is there more room to have this discussion now?

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  • @great9800
    @great9800 8 років тому +105

    Suicide definitely affects the black community whether you agree or not. Mental illness is very much real in the black community. It needs to be talked about. Black people do need the help. It's time to start looking out for each other again.

    • @shadow12264
      @shadow12264 8 років тому +4

      SAMUEL JOHNSON in the first place anyone can catch the suicide disease, harming one self has got nothing to do with someone appearance

    • @jackw8827
      @jackw8827 7 років тому +2

      SAMUEL JOHNSON I disagree. Different communities do have different issues. ALSO "getting help" is bullshit. Therapists don't do anything. The two solutions are: medicate things like bi-polar or psychosis, also, solve the problems in your life that are making you unhappy. Are you depressed or just unhappy with your circumstances. If you really need to talk to someone, better to find a friend or a member of your family. Therapists don't do shit.

    • @therobin980
      @therobin980 5 років тому +9

      @@jackw8827 your "advice" is uneducated and dangerous. People, please get a therapist if you have suicidal thoughts and or depression. This is not something that can be gotten over by talking to your friends and family for a bit.
      You are basically telling people not to get the medical help they need.

    • @jackw8827
      @jackw8827 5 років тому +2

      @@therobin980 it's not a medical problem it's a personal and even spiritual one. Family and close friends and loved ones are the ONLY ones other than yourself who CAN help.

    • @HustleTownUSA69th
      @HustleTownUSA69th 5 років тому +1

      I'm ready

  • @dcflava74
    @dcflava74 10 років тому +148

    It pains me as a black man we are in so much denial in this issue.Our arrogance and pride prevents us from acknowledging this painful reality.We have so many people in our midst whether its famous or non famous who had commited suicide.Lee Thomas Young,Phyllis Hyman,Don Cornelius.I have a sister who suffers from bi-polar disorder and at times has suicidal tendencies and self inflicted herself with cutting and a dad that who commited suicide 17 years ago,it stems from childhood trauma.The pain of my fathers death is so hard to bear and its one thing that you dont forget.We must realize that suicide and depression is not a color issue,it always will and always had effect people of color,were just in denial and have way to much pride to acknowlege the issue and instead we cover it up with church and prayer which is good,im a christian myself but church and prayer alone is not going to alone help the issue.It takes for us to have some sort of awareness and acknowlege the fact that we need help and healing,its time for us to break the stigma that we are this tough super human group that's immune to this very taboo and serious condition.

    • @ajwriter5699
      @ajwriter5699 9 років тому +8

      If you haven't experienced that level of pain, then you won't understand.

    • @bluebird5173
      @bluebird5173 5 років тому +2

      @@jackw8827 Where did you get your statistics from? According to Wikipedia, of the top 20 countries that have the highest suicide rates in 2016, nine of them are predominantly black -- almost half the countries on the list.
      Meanwhile, five of these countries are predominantly white. And only two of them are Asian (well, three if you count India).
      Honestly, I think you're invoking popular stereotypes rather than an actual basis in reality.

    • @HustleTownUSA69th
      @HustleTownUSA69th 5 років тому +2

      I feel like killing myself now. I'm tired as a black man, husband, father

    • @Mgonz9034
      @Mgonz9034 4 роки тому

      @@HustleTownUSA69th Remember Jesus suffered for you, don't waste your life.

    • @cliffkonkle3467
      @cliffkonkle3467 4 роки тому +4

      @@HustleTownUSA69th I hope you are still with us and find a way to better days. I am white and I feel the same way about life as you. I know my words don't mean shit to a stranger suffering but I don't care I am going to say it anyway I LOVE YOU AND CARE ABOUT YOUR LIFE.

  • @AwesomeMiles8
    @AwesomeMiles8 8 років тому +71

    skin color doesn't prevent mental illness, chronic pain, depression, suicide, etc. These are human conditions that anyone can experience.

  • @galacticcactus5530
    @galacticcactus5530 10 років тому +41

    Now, I know the "Black Folks Don't Get Depressed" is a lie, because I have been depressed many times, especially thinking about things that I know that I can't change. But I always end up back on my feet somehow. :)

  • @MartellThaCool
    @MartellThaCool 9 років тому +39

    I'm currently suffering depression, anxiety and dealt with suicidal tendencies before as a black man dealt with horrible events in my life

    • @venus1608
      @venus1608 9 років тому +4

      +Martell Nelson Stay Strong Brother... it's always darkest before the dawn

    • @MartellThaCool
      @MartellThaCool 9 років тому +1

      venus1608 thank you brotha

    • @MartellThaCool
      @MartellThaCool 8 років тому +1

      venus1608 😀😊😎

    • @MartellThaCool
      @MartellThaCool 7 років тому +1

      It's hard to be honest

    • @russellshaw8835
      @russellshaw8835 7 років тому +1

      Martell Tha Cool just be strong my brother don't give up

  • @LadyL31786
    @LadyL31786 10 років тому +20

    I don't agree with the statement "black folk don't commit suicide". There are some African-American people who committed suicide.

  • @PhoenixRising87
    @PhoenixRising87 8 років тому +53

    Mental illness is all throughout the black community; too many of us, though, are too afraid to talk about it.
    I say this coming from a background of suicidal ideation myself (and I do have depression and anxiety), and my mother has revealed that depression runs in our family on her side.

    • @C2G2
      @C2G2 5 років тому +4

      PhoenixRising87 Yes 💯and it also runs in my family as well and I too have it and I think that we should talk about mental health in the black community and our lives matter I mean the last time I checked there was a group called black lives matter but when will we actually come together in the black community and speak about the many issues that plague our community. Anyways that is all I got to say.

  • @renatamarie5546
    @renatamarie5546 7 років тому +24

    I feel like a lot of people I know, black people, because I live in a Caribbean country do not take mental illness serious. That tells a person that if they feel some kinda way that they need to go to church cuz it's 'spiritual ' and not a serious illness makes me confused and sad and angry. I understand turning to your faith for guidance but sometimes you need the help of a medical professional.

  • @insomnia9999
    @insomnia9999 6 років тому +13

    Our suicide doesn’t look like everyone else’s.

  • @oRuTRa45
    @oRuTRa45 8 років тому +24

    Donny Hathaway, Phyllis Hyman, Weldon Irvine, Don Cornelius. And these are just some famous ones.

    • @rahbeeuh
      @rahbeeuh Рік тому

      Lee Thompson Young was another one

    • @Dee-iy9uq
      @Dee-iy9uq Рік тому

      Twitch was the most recent

  • @orangesilks8750
    @orangesilks8750 8 років тому +32

    Yes Abiola is sooo right! At 4:50, she's saying the "strong Black Woman" archetype is overtly flattering but covertly damaging to our psyche because we don't seek help because it's deemed "weak". TRUTH!

    • @oRuTRa45
      @oRuTRa45 8 років тому +1

      +49jubilee Also bullcrap.

    • @rahbeeuh
      @rahbeeuh Рік тому

      She spoke straight facts!!

  • @ronspice8636
    @ronspice8636 7 років тому +12

    well I'm black and one day if it doesn't get better life I'm checking out

  • @BklynWho
    @BklynWho 10 років тому +30

    That sister with the fro is so smart. :)

  • @NonDramaZone
    @NonDramaZone 12 років тому +31

    My girlfriend's son drank two fifths of whiskey and threw himself off the top of a parking garage, and he was black as the ace of spades.

    • @blakebarker6874
      @blakebarker6874 3 роки тому +1

      Sounds mean but sounds like running . from bad parenting

    • @The__Nation
      @The__Nation 3 роки тому +5

      @@blakebarker6874 bruh you don’t even know the back story you just made an assumption 🤡🤡

    • @blu9645
      @blu9645 2 роки тому

      We Don't believe you you need more people

    • @blu9645
      @blu9645 2 роки тому

      @@blakebarker6874 that must be why your people kill themselves.

    • @blu9645
      @blu9645 2 роки тому

      @@blakebarker6874 always being mol__ested.lol

  • @mikedjock
    @mikedjock 11 років тому +13

    It might be a generation thing but at my school a lot of smart kids would always get bullied and harassed just for being "too smart".

    • @jrmetmoi
      @jrmetmoi 3 роки тому +1

      Devo Mike no it's not just a generational thing

    • @rahbeeuh
      @rahbeeuh Рік тому +1

      It's always been that way

  • @0397rb
    @0397rb 10 років тому +13

    Yes they do

  • @torronbrown5045
    @torronbrown5045 7 років тому +7

    I don't agree with the title of this video no one is safe from suicide no matter what your race is

  • @halimacandy
    @halimacandy 7 років тому +10

    We have other ways to show/not show pain!!! not true!!...WE HURT OURSELVES OR WE KILL OTHERS , OR WE HURT OURSELVES IN OTHER SLOWER METHODS!!!

  • @BriaBarrows
    @BriaBarrows Рік тому +5

    It’s so true. I remember when I was depressed and people kept saying, “you have to be strong.” It makes no sense. I get it but sometimes you have to weep at what you are going through. Sometimes you need comfort and support. We need more education on mental illness.

  • @mrhymer95
    @mrhymer95 10 років тому +9

    I don't believe anyone said that, church going Black folk don't do because they believe they will go straight to hell.

    • @stillsearchin3457
      @stillsearchin3457 4 роки тому +7

      No one ask to be born or exist. Why is this exit supposed to be looked upon in a negative manner?

    • @Dee-iy9uq
      @Dee-iy9uq Рік тому

      Us blacks have been brainwashed for so long that we don’t know if we even really believe what comes out of our mouths at times let alone the mouths of others, yet we go and submit to it anyway. And that right there is why we’re perceived as ignorant and uneducated more often than not.

  • @sobored761
    @sobored761 3 роки тому +4

    And this is why More and more Of us will keep dying because Black people see It as weak or crazy and they will ridicule and belittle even their own family for being depressed and Suicidal instead of helping them. I’ve been made fun of for being depressed most of the people in this vid are prime examples of that

  • @NyFilmmaker32
    @NyFilmmaker32 11 років тому +7

    This was the best Black Folk Don't I've seen yet . Not only was direct suicide discussed, but slow forms of suicide, such as alcoholism, or other extremely risky behaviors.

  • @ccdj504
    @ccdj504 4 роки тому +5

    Wow! A lot of y'all have missed the point of this video. Its not saying black don't commit suicide, its saying suicide is a major stigma and the statistically we are less likely than other racial groups to commit suicide. But we, of course, still do it and we still suffer from mental illness.

  • @jamesbedukodjograham5508
    @jamesbedukodjograham5508 2 роки тому +2

    However compared to other white groups and the influence of Religion and the community ethic.
    On the other hand African Culture does not accept suicide compared to Asian Societies.
    Black people love life a lot.

  • @AmirKhan-tb3ld
    @AmirKhan-tb3ld 6 років тому +8

    Because they never have it too good to begin with. If they get a check cashed, it's enough to cheer them up.

    • @JESUSLOVESYOU219
      @JESUSLOVESYOU219 3 роки тому

      😂😂 what a stupid comment. Seek God Amir.

  • @FaithfulWords
    @FaithfulWords 11 років тому +6

    I have had three friends, two of which were Black commit suicide.

  • @HustleTownUSA69th
    @HustleTownUSA69th 5 років тому +2

    That's a fuckin lie cause that's how I feel

  • @jrmetmoi
    @jrmetmoi 10 років тому +4

    Regarding 0:49 it looks as though this series is from and the people interviewed are residing in NYC which means that at some point and time they must have all heard of a certain tragic institution with a scary and notorious reputation called Bellevue which is supposed to be in downtown Manhattan. No black person in NYC anyway can doubt the existence of mental illness amongst them if they've heard of Bellevue not to mention the sad cases of the many homeless mentally ill black men that roam NYC's streets on a daily basis who probably came from that place.
    Some homeless mentally ill black men roam the NYC streets alone and uncared for so many times that they become well known for certain behavior or certain 'ticks' such as for instance the one that would talk to himself wherever he went and would start yelling out a gasping 'PWWEEHHHHH!'......
    Still think that therapy shouldn't be in the cards?.....

  • @zakiyyafarrakhan1098
    @zakiyyafarrakhan1098 10 місяців тому +1

    It exists however black people will kill eachother before they kill themselves and that’s suicide in itself because then they end up in prison so it’s all suicide

  • @MillennialKeshia
    @MillennialKeshia 7 років тому +5

    Yes we do :(

  • @AbiolaAbrams
    @AbiolaAbrams 12 років тому +5

    Well done! Thanks for including me. xo

  • @MrJuly1990ish
    @MrJuly1990ish 11 років тому +5

    I was having this conversation last year with a cousin of mind, when Don Corneilus committed suicide last year, that she couldn't recall any famous black person over the past 30 or 40 years committing suicide. I had to refresh her memory that there were two singers who did and that was Donny Hathaway & Phyllis Hyman.

  • @jrmetmoi
    @jrmetmoi 10 років тому +4

    Phyllis Hyman the singer from back in the day committed suicide.

  • @xPROGNOSISx
    @xPROGNOSISx 3 роки тому +2

    This is terrible and dangerous rhetoric. It’s statistically inaccurate.

  • @iluvemmanuel
    @iluvemmanuel 11 років тому +3

    Capital Steez...

  • @momorina5580
    @momorina5580 10 років тому +2

    That not true and that count as racism. There's bunch of African Americans lost theirs own lives from committed suicide.

  • @ncjohnso08
    @ncjohnso08 12 років тому +5

    this is such a great web series!!! such interesting, thought provoking conversations

  • @youtubeaccount7728
    @youtubeaccount7728 3 роки тому +2

    Suicide isnt always bad. As long as the person is at least 1 year younger than adulthood and doesnt have any decendants

  • @adfvssl011
    @adfvssl011 11 років тому +3

    i kinda thought one of the reasons is that (as it is for most) if we can survive slavery we can survive w/e we are dealing with in the 21st century

  • @juneilgoode1022
    @juneilgoode1022 9 років тому +4

    This is a great and informative video.

  • @ajwriter5699
    @ajwriter5699 9 років тому +4

    I LOVE this video! MUCH needed information!

  • @RooseveltAliWashingtonX
    @RooseveltAliWashingtonX 7 років тому +4

    Does Paul Mooney have a sister?

  • @makimoments
    @makimoments 11 років тому +1

    did he say she got riciculed because she was smart??? thats fucked up

  • @ThankGodImBlack370
    @ThankGodImBlack370 Місяць тому

    3:42. No. You're trying ro be smart. If this was my class, I would take points. Don't be clever with the question, answer it straight on. Who dont have vices?? That was not creative at all.

  • @pjangels609
    @pjangels609 7 років тому +5

    Suicide by Cop is a form of suicide, just more selfish.

  • @nobodyspecial2138
    @nobodyspecial2138 4 роки тому +3

    This channel needs to come back.

  • @ShalandaElise
    @ShalandaElise 7 років тому +3

    Great video thanks for sharing!

  • @johndasilva2686
    @johndasilva2686 Рік тому

    Hmm Donny ( singer) Hathaway Dorathey ( actress) Dandbridge paul ( temptations ) williams

  • @Clarence_13x
    @Clarence_13x Рік тому

    Those seem like southern evangelical blacks, I’m very different, black people can vary!

  • @latoyathomas9640
    @latoyathomas9640 2 роки тому +1

    Encouragement For those contemplating suicide,I encourage you to NEVER QUIT!NEVER GIVE UP!Please read the following scriptures from the KING JAMES VERSION(JER 29:11,ISA 41:10,JOHN 14:15,JOHN 14:18,JOHN 14:27,PS 35:1,JER 33:3,3 JOHN 2,1 JOHN 1:9&MATT 6:14,15

  • @powwowtv282
    @powwowtv282 3 роки тому +1

    I thought my mans in the thumbnail was a Tracy Morgan character

  • @steemdup
    @steemdup 8 років тому +3

    Mule of the World - preach it. Break the myths

  • @TheNehemiahGroup-ew5kq
    @TheNehemiahGroup-ew5kq 2 місяці тому

    Is it okay to share your video on other platforms

  • @animegirl506
    @animegirl506 12 років тому +1

    i don't know if it was mentioned but maybe it also has to do with Faith? since many blacks in America are Christians and the bible said not to kill oneself maybe that is the reason?

  • @Adamomar4
    @Adamomar4 12 років тому +2

    LOL at the brudda on the horse tho, i can hear that horse's pain

  • @BloominLotus85
    @BloominLotus85 12 років тому +3

    Absolutely wonderful.

  • @muthaafrika6137
    @muthaafrika6137 2 роки тому

    To eskape da FUCKn PAIN

  • @BriaBarrows
    @BriaBarrows Рік тому +1

    People have to understand that there is no colour when it comes to your brain. We all have one and we can all get sick. With all the trauma we’ve been through as a community, it makes perfect sense to me. Stress, drama. trauma, etc

  • @C2G2
    @C2G2 5 років тому +1

    For some reason I just hate the music playing at the end of this video 💯🙄🙄🙄

  • @muthaafrika6137
    @muthaafrika6137 2 роки тому +1

    This BLACK person done several suicide attempts. Suffocation. Run out in road in front of moving traffic. Overdose. Tried starving myself. Tried overeating. Tried cutting. Hit myself across the head with objects hoping to knock myself out

  • @shadow12264
    @shadow12264 8 років тому +1

    Where all hypocrites in the eye's of the lord, u may hide yourself on camera,but in the end reality hits

  • @voirdire
    @voirdire 12 років тому +1

    Hey, Make a Video, Black People Dont: TIP.

  • @theway9740
    @theway9740 11 років тому +1

    bullshit we commit it just not as much

  • @DragonBellyTravels
    @DragonBellyTravels 9 років тому +1

    #SandraBland - did not commit suicide. Point of video taken.

  • @Honey-pz5um
    @Honey-pz5um 8 років тому +2

    ME ONE DAY..... MAYBE

  • @checkunderyourbed
    @checkunderyourbed 11 років тому +1

    Sure we do, has anybody read "Revolutionary Suicide"?

  • @itsHappening-ry2ef
    @itsHappening-ry2ef Рік тому

    Shiddddddddddd💩💩💩

  • @cuttietory
    @cuttietory 9 років тому +1

    Well when you hear gunshots all the time from where you stay , you tend to appreciate life more .😒

  • @brianbirc
    @brianbirc 10 років тому +1

    Im confused is this a bad thing or a good thing

  • @toksuno
    @toksuno 10 років тому +1

    The Lady at 4:14 for President!!!!!!!!!

  • @azamazizi471
    @azamazizi471 8 років тому +1

    that's a LIE !!!

  • @EmmettPeriod
    @EmmettPeriod 12 років тому +1

    Nice.

  • @JaySantanaofficial
    @JaySantanaofficial 3 роки тому

    I keep to myself , everything religion to us smh

  • @jamesbedukodjograham5508
    @jamesbedukodjograham5508 2 роки тому

    It is a stereotype because some Black people dont do so.
    We are also human beings who do the deed.
    However compared to white people very few black people do commit suicide.

  • @user-qm3yy5mh8l
    @user-qm3yy5mh8l 3 роки тому +3

    Suicide isnt always bad

    • @The__Nation
      @The__Nation 3 роки тому

      I’m suicidal myself I’m 50/50

  • @2blakandbold
    @2blakandbold 9 років тому

    Thought about it ! Attempted it and wasnt successful .......DUH!

    • @2blakandbold
      @2blakandbold 9 років тому

      +2blakandbold Years years years ago! I had trauma ! I grew up with a lot of drama and trauma !
      Unfortunate ,when your a child and have no say over your own life but I did as my mother and others kept saying.And , I got over it!

  • @general_electrics
    @general_electrics 7 років тому +2

    Wow. That black woman don't crack.

  • @FredC1968
    @FredC1968 10 років тому

    3:04 Men successfully commit suicide.

  • @DanielleSperandeo
    @DanielleSperandeo 7 років тому

    the lady at 4:15 like a woman Paul Moody

  • @jaysantana3078
    @jaysantana3078 2 роки тому

    Guess ima be weak tmo

  • @muthaafrika6137
    @muthaafrika6137 2 роки тому

    Some folk do 💉 pop 💊

  • @jenniferhoskins4872
    @jenniferhoskins4872 8 років тому

    yes they do they are tricking

  • @captainkaijin6459
    @captainkaijin6459 8 років тому

    Oh but it happens.

  • @TobaccoRowe1960
    @TobaccoRowe1960 10 років тому

    If someone ask me what race commits the most suicides, my guess, redheads. I like redheads tho, sometimes.

    • @jrmetmoi
      @jrmetmoi 3 роки тому

      TobaccoRowe no the Native Americans/First Nations people - especially the men and the boys

    • @TobaccoRowe1960
      @TobaccoRowe1960 3 роки тому

      @@jrmetmoi How the hell am I suppose to remember a video I watched 6 years ago. Aside from what ever you are talking about, your UA-cam intelligence is running on empty.

    • @jrmetmoi
      @jrmetmoi 3 роки тому

      @@TobaccoRowe1960 shut up you idiot nobody is making you remember this video or quizzing you on this video - this isn't Jeopardy you jackass 😆😆

    • @TobaccoRowe1960
      @TobaccoRowe1960 3 роки тому

      @@jrmetmoi wtf, man can a guy eat his sausage egg and biscuit in peace or what.

  • @DontShootTheMessenger4thTier
    @DontShootTheMessenger4thTier 2 роки тому +3

    You can’t go to anyone now because the info will just leak out into the wrong hands.

  • @suicide-preventionresource7134
    @suicide-preventionresource7134 10 років тому

    BlackFolkDont

  • @VLM123
    @VLM123 12 років тому

    Great segment!

  • @Executnr
    @Executnr 10 років тому +9

    Suicide is a white trait. This stop bullying movement makes kids weak, an is disguised to make make kid acceptable to other types of lifestyles, the higher suicide numbers for blacks is because the changing of times with the younger generations an their influences, the same with seeming like more people saying they are gay these last few years all of a sudden its a change in stimuli what people see an what they deem acceptable. 1:13 I experienced the EXACT same thing.
    2:54 is a great explanation. And I hate when people say slaves committed suicide, like duh thats a totally different situation.

    • @dcflava74
      @dcflava74 10 років тому +13

      As I said earlier suicide is not a color issue.Its always effected us but we always been in extreme denial of this.

    • @Executnr
      @Executnr 10 років тому

      dcflava74 I dont think its an issue at all, cause the bottoom line is that its a choice that one chooses to make according to their emotions an feelings an they have free willto do so rather its done without thinking or done after being thought upon internal an external. Some races just do it more than others and kids think about it more than ever through video games an such like when u jump of a cliff in video games the word suicide pops up, an sometimes thats the 1st time a kid learns what it means.

    • @rayj.7538
      @rayj.7538 10 років тому +10

      Executnr You should really consider doing more research. What about the children committing suicide who DID NOT play or were exposed to video games? What about the increasing numbers of African American female adolescents attempting suicide (successfully or not) due to sexual abuse?...Yes, these may be isolated events, but you can't generalize suicide based on skin color. It's an emotional/mental disorder that is NOT limited to one group, race, nor color.

    • @Executnr
      @Executnr 10 років тому

      Ray J. 1. Depression(America is the land of confusion)
      2. Black female adolescents, well I'll tell u this it damn sure just aint coming out of the blue if the numbers are getting higher.(but then I see u slipped sexual abuse in their, that wasnt even pertaining to this video an its obvious that suicide would be caused by something like that.)
      An yeah I may have been harsh by saying its a white trait but I feel good about that statement that its truthful. But for the fact that the title of this video is "Black folk don't commit suicide" and knowing lots of black people old an young it fits perfectly, I counld talk to my aunts uncles an grandparents right now an theyd tell me straight up black people aint never used to do that(to the point that nowadays people are saying its on the rise), theyd also tell me black people aint never used to be having heart attacks like they are today either even when they were working in the fields, cause I know fairly young people who recently died from them., an that ties in because its a change of mindset an whats acceptable an what makes u depressed and a change in diet.

    • @rayj.7538
      @rayj.7538 10 років тому

      Okay, I get your point. And you're right about the shorter life spans of Blacks compared to decades ago...good point.

  • @BlotBlackInk
    @BlotBlackInk 11 років тому +1

    P.S. I've riden a horse..