It’s disrespectful not to stay within budget if someone else is paying. Especially an elderly grandfather. She should get a second job and buy her own dress.
I hope there’s more to the story they didn’t include, like she had offered to pay the difference and they just didn’t want that on camera for some reason
It’s tricky when you’ve fallen in love with a dress that over your budget. Even if the consultant brings dresses that are similar, nothing is going to compare to it.
It’s crazy to spend 7 grand on a dress you wear for one day. Unimaginable for someone of modest background who has likely worked their way through school. I think it was insulting to her grandpa to go over his generous $5000 budget.
And the second dress looked much much better on her too. Grandpartents are not made of money, most are on fixed income. Shame on her and shame on the other people there. Why didn't Monty see if he could get a discount for her, they've done it before. Everyone took advantage of him. he was forced to say yes or be embarrassed. Sad.
I love Grandpa. She should have been more respectful of him and his budget. He's more than likely paying for the wedding as well. It's not like $5000 is a paltry amount.
My dress cost $200 in 1982, which I had to pay off in installments . 43 years later it hangs in my closet . It was not the dress of my dreams, but it allowed my dreams to come true.
What a brat! There is no way that she didn't know that dress was going to be over $5000. And that's a lot to spend on a dress to begin with. She should have paid the difference...I hope her future husband knows how to say "no" to her!!
I think she was a bit selfish, I'm sure her grandfather worked really hard for the 5 grand he generously gave her and she shed her crocodile tears even though you could tell that it was straining his budget. If you don't have the money to pay for it yourself, accept the gift you're given and keep your mouth close. I'm really ashamed of her. How greedy.
Thank goodness, she stayed married. But she should have paid for the extra $2000 for her wedding dress or now help with her grandpa's medical bills and make sure he is well looked after, as he gets older.
Why the hell did they even have her try on a dress over budget and you know they had very similar dresses under the 5k. What a truly selfish girl. Knowing the budget and saying his opinion is the only one that matters. And then they jack her up and pull on the heartstrings to boot.
Grandpa is amazing and if I knew a dress was over budget, either I would pay the difference or find another similar dress. And btw, grooms don't care about the dress. Most will love whatever you wear. They're not seeing the dress, they're seeing their bride, their wife.
"has her re-thinking the final chapter of her story"? No... no it doesn't! She came in with no intention of leaving with anything other than the dress that was half again her grandpa's budget. She only tried on the other 2 to make it LOOK like she was willing to consider something else. And naturally that dang Monte was willing to jump right in there and help her pressure grandpa into feeling like he has to go along with it. They didn't even TRY to "jack her up" (I hate that term) in the other options. The dress she loved is SO unflattering on her; the ballgown was WAY better! It really accentuated her waist, sparkled beautifully and IMHO made her look a lot classier.
I can't believe grown women acting like a child that wants more than what their "loved ones" can afford. She does not love or care about her grandfather. He has already told her many times that the budget is $5,000. and she didn't care. That's not love no matter how much garbage comes out of her mouth. Actions speak LOUDER than words.
$5k was a very handsome budget to have, a lot more than so many brides. She played her Grandad which sadly leaves a very nasty taste in my mouth. Sorry.
Poor Grandpa! I understand he loves his granddaughter, but how rude of her to manipulate him like that. The worst thing about it is that the bride looked stunning in the ball gown. The Lazzaro emphasized her tummy and made her hips look big. I hope she enjoyed wearing that dress for one day.
her grandpa is like my daddy was. he by no means had a lot of money, but he always found a way to give his babies what they wanted, if it was in his means.
that's definitely true and my siblings and i would have never done that. but she wouldn't have known she could do it if he hadn't been doing it all her life. she came in knowing she was getting that dress. @@sharonbuffett
I'm less then a minute into this video and bawling. When he said, "Thats my Grandbaby" I remembered the feeling of my Grandpa hugging me when he was still alive. I wish I could hug him now. Good Dads/Grandpas are everything to a girl and i'm so lucky I found a man who is just as Good to our daughter.
Exactly and she is extremely shameful! Why can’t she pay herself? My brothers all paid for their weddings themselves as my parents did not have much money.
If she has any sense, she will return the dress for the ballgown (if it's not too late) and make her gorgeous grandpa his favorite meal with a heartfelt thank you card for all he's done for her. I doubt she'll be handing around to look after him when he's old and frail, which hopefully is a long way away. Grandpa should be treasured, but she's treating him like trash.
She was vetted for the show. She surely pre-indicated her desire for this particular dress (what if the store didn't carry it or simply not in stock?) and her budget. It's all about the drama.
If anything, I think she and her bridesmaids should have volunteered to split the $2500 overage after hearing the grandfather say her dress cost too much.
I disagree. The bridesmaids will be manipulated into spending more than their own budgets on their dresses, accessories and the bridal shower. The bride alone should be getting a part-time job for the next year (until the wedding) to pay for the "upgrade?" to her dream dress.
@@nanderson8286 Okay that sounds fair to me. I had just seen one where they volunteered to pay so she could have the dress of her dreams and it seemed like the perfect solution.
"I have been looking at it for so long, I have been dreaming of this dress for so long". Well she would of been so aware of the 50./. Over her budget and if she had been dreaming of it for so long she had enough time to save the extra difference over budget. She treated her poor Grandpa terribly. What a spoilt brat. The poor Groom
I have watched hundreds of say yes to the dress and never have I commented but this young woman and her grandfather brought me to tears! The love they have.. that’s his baby through and through! He’s a beautiful man and what luck they have eachother!
The 2nd dress looks better on her. Too bad! And Monty sad: "... if a dress comes between Kyra and her grandfather... I got to give Kyra everything I got." Well Monty, you should have done this with the second dress. Because of the price, this dress comes between her and her grandfather. Only for the money!
"It's a little over the budget" and proceeds to show that it's 2 months worth of wages excluding affording essentials and rent. No biggie, it's ONLY $2,590 over budget but no worries, it's grand. Lol xD
Ok. Dream dress or not, $7600 plus tax is a lot to spend on a dress. $5000 is a very reasonable budget. If you want to go over budget, maybe you need to get a job to pay the difference instead of expecting your grandfather to foot the bill.
The ballgown was a lot better than the Lazaro dress. That style (the mermaid) didn’t flatter her at all. So, for her to say “his opinion matters to me” that’s a complete load after the manipulation with the crocodile tears and Monti going along with her rather than respecting the grandfather’s budget.
I'm not liking she not respecting the budget of the grandpa, he loves her so much she should respect, I mean, she could learn how to embead a dress and it could be a super fit if she's really into sparkles
I'm sorry but spending that much on a dress you're gonna wear for a few hours is ludicrous. That said, if a bride is so insistent on buying a dress that exceeds the budget (especially when someone else is paying for it) then she should pay the difference.
First: the way she spoke about her future husband. Not like “he is the man of my dreams” but “he has the stability to make ME feel like on to of the world”. Second: the dress she chose didn’t look as flattering as the second dress she tried (ball gown). Third: poor grandpa :/ Loved him to bits.
I see one determined woman who manipulates her way into getting things. Bride! You should have respected your grandfather's budget, you did not stay in that limit of his. Shame on you for being totally selfish. This man brought you up and obviously did a wonderful job of doing so. Education wise etc. Grandpa i admire you and and well done you, for being such a decent human being. Granddaughter you should be giving back to your grandfather for all those years, of selfless duty bringing you up Australia
Grandpa said more then once that the budget was 5k yet his Grand Daughter didnt hear him one single time.. She knew he couldn't say no to her and she used that to her advantage.. Also, the consultants shouldnt of "jacked her up" if they knew Grandpa only wanted to spend 5k..
Dress 2 was gorgeous. Why couldn't she have that? I see no reason why there could only be one dress that she could possibly have or why she even tried the expensive one on. She basically manipulated her elderly grandfather into buying it for her.
I’m *positive* there was chatter off camera between the grandfather & staff about going over the 5k budget. *Monte* wouldn’t have jacked her up for no reason 🤷🏼♂️
She is very disrespectful towards her grandpa. She had a great Budget.,she should have stayed within it. She should have paid the extra money. She didn't look that great in it.
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It’s disrespectful not to stay within budget if someone else is paying. Especially an elderly grandfather. She should get a second job and buy her own dress.
😂😂..Apparently you're NOT a grandparent! 🤣
I agree. At least to pay half.
@@BlessedaboveEven if so, you shouldn’t ever take advantage of anyone especially your grandparents or anyone paying.
I hope there’s more to the story they didn’t include, like she had offered to pay the difference and they just didn’t want that on camera for some reason
I agree. I liked the second dress better. She guilted that poor man into it!
$5000 budget, and she couldn't find something within budget? That's ridiculous.
It’s tricky when you’ve fallen in love with a dress that over your budget. Even if the consultant brings dresses that are similar, nothing is going to compare to it.
It’s crazy to spend 7 grand on a dress you wear for one day. Unimaginable for someone of modest background who has likely worked their way through school. I think it was insulting to her grandpa to go over his generous $5000 budget.
I totally agree….5 grand is more than enough to find a dress…
I agree and $5000 is way too much already.
That dress probably ended up being closer to $10,000 with tax and etc.........
@@mrbear1302Oh yes, with alterations and all too.
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Exactly
Kiara should have never put on that dress unless she was paying 100% for it. She manipulated her poor Grandpa into buying it for her. Shameful
I agree w/you!
And the second dress looked much much better on her too. Grandpartents are not made of money, most are on fixed income. Shame on her and shame on the other people there. Why didn't Monty see if he could get a discount for her, they've done it before. Everyone took advantage of him. he was forced to say yes or be embarrassed. Sad.
I agree and she is so selfish and inconsiderate.
@@JeanRachI agree and they were all too selfish.
I don't think she needed to pay 100% for it, but she should definitely pay the difference
That grandfather is soooo special! Any man who, in middle age, would take on raising his grandchild alone is amazing.
AMAZING GRANDFATHER
He needed to be respected more
$5000 was an overly generous budget. This episode makes me so angry. Poor Grandpa!!
If she is getting married then shouldn’t she be more independent? Why is she making her grandpa pay for her dress?
If it's YOUR dream dress then pay for it !!
I have been saying that.
I love Grandpa. She should have been more respectful of him and his budget. He's more than likely paying for the wedding as well. It's not like $5000 is a paltry amount.
poor grandpa. i know certain dresses give you “that” feeling, but $5000 is so generous and she can find something very similar within budget
I agree and I saw some very nice dresses with a $2000 and $3000 budget already.
My dress cost $200 in 1982, which I had to pay off in installments . 43 years later it hangs in my closet . It was not the dress of my dreams, but it allowed my dreams to come true.
Too expensive! I paid $1 three seconds ago and it was my dreams come true!
I paid $400 this year and it was everything I could’ve ever dreamed of. They don’t have to cost $8000 to make it a perfect dress.
"I've been looking at it for so so long" Then why didn't you prepare the extra money during that long period of time 🙄
What a brat! There is no way that she didn't know that dress was going to be over $5000. And that's a lot to spend on a dress to begin with. She should have paid the difference...I hope her future husband knows how to say "no" to her!!
I agree and spoiled brats that can’t take no for an answer are not great people to be around.
I think the ball gown looked so much better on her.
Absolutely! She has a beautiful figure and it really flattered her! The other dress didn’t have the wow the ball gown had, and was over budget!
I agree!
I honestly usually don't care for ballgowns, but I agree. Her "dream" dress didn't flatter her at all.
Agree 💯. It was way more flattering than the ‘over budget’ dress.
I agree
I think she was a bit selfish, I'm sure her grandfather worked really hard for the 5 grand he generously gave her and she shed her crocodile tears even though you could tell that it was straining his budget. If you don't have the money to pay for it yourself, accept the gift you're given and keep your mouth close. I'm really ashamed of her. How greedy.
If he really didn’t have the money he would’ve now. Don’t assume he’s poor
That was just selfish of her to take advantage her grandfather's kindness 😢
Found her on Instagram, still married, and she has two kids now, and grandpa is a great grandpa now :)
Thank goodness, she stayed married. But she should have paid for the extra $2000 for her wedding dress or now help with her grandpa's medical bills and make sure he is well looked after, as he gets older.
@@zhmwyes true😢. I felt sorry for grandpa
I thought the ball gown was more flattering on her.
Agreed
Totally disrespectful and selfish. Beautiful dress; not worth going against her grandfather's budget
Why the hell did they even have her try on a dress over budget and you know they had very similar dresses under the 5k. What a truly selfish girl. Knowing the budget and saying his opinion is the only one that matters. And then they jack her up and pull on the heartstrings to boot.
Grandpa is amazing and if I knew a dress was over budget, either I would pay the difference or find another similar dress. And btw, grooms don't care about the dress. Most will love whatever you wear. They're not seeing the dress, they're seeing their bride, their wife.
The wedding is for the bride and the family, not the groom
She is very selfish - the grandpa would do anything for her and she took advantage of that - shame on her!
The ballgown looked sensational. I preferred it.
I agree and it looked better. I am just not a fan of mermaid gowns.
So did I.......
It gave her a nicer shape.
He raised you AND he's buying you a dress. That man's a saint. Sit yourself down and stay in budget!
I agree and what a self entitled and spoiled brat!
TOTALLYYY agree!!!!
I would never put the person paying for the dress in such a tight spot! It was so disrespectful.
"has her re-thinking the final chapter of her story"? No... no it doesn't! She came in with no intention of leaving with anything other than the dress that was half again her grandpa's budget. She only tried on the other 2 to make it LOOK like she was willing to consider something else. And naturally that dang Monte was willing to jump right in there and help her pressure grandpa into feeling like he has to go along with it. They didn't even TRY to "jack her up" (I hate that term) in the other options.
The dress she loved is SO unflattering on her; the ballgown was WAY better! It really accentuated her waist, sparkled beautifully and IMHO made her look a lot classier.
I can't believe grown women acting like a child that wants more than what their "loved ones" can afford. She does not love or care about her grandfather. He has already told her many times that the budget is $5,000. and she didn't care. That's not love no matter how much garbage comes out of her mouth. Actions speak LOUDER than words.
$5k was a very handsome budget to have, a lot more than so many brides. She played her Grandad which sadly leaves a very nasty taste in my mouth. Sorry.
That wasn’t a seal of approval. That was strong arming your grandpa into breaking your heart if he didn’t fork out an ADDITIONAL 2.5k
Poor Grandpa! I understand he loves his granddaughter, but how rude of her to manipulate him like that. The worst thing about it is that the bride looked stunning in the ball gown. The Lazzaro emphasized her tummy and made her hips look big. I hope she enjoyed wearing that dress for one day.
I agree! She looked so much better in the ball gown.
Big hips are beautiful, the epitome of femininity
I believe that the consultants should stick to the budget. It’s not right to put the payer on the spot and in a hole over a dress! Shame on them!
Yes, the consultants were very selfish too.
The under budget ballgown Monte chose was amazing! Better than the $7590 mermaid
her grandpa is like my daddy was. he by no means had a lot of money, but he always found a way to give his babies what they wanted, if it was in his means.
Another sucker being manipulated.
Just because he was able to find a way doesn't mean he should be taken advantage of.
that's definitely true and my siblings and i would have never done that. but she wouldn't have known she could do it if he hadn't been doing it all her life. she came in knowing she was getting that dress. @@sharonbuffett
I'm less then a minute into this video and bawling. When he said, "Thats my Grandbaby" I remembered the feeling of my Grandpa hugging me when he was still alive. I wish I could hug him now. Good Dads/Grandpas are everything to a girl and i'm so lucky I found a man who is just as Good to our daughter.
How can you take money from a senior citizen??? He already raised her, did she need to rip him off???
Exactly and she is extremely shameful! Why can’t she pay herself? My brothers all paid for their weddings themselves as my parents did not have much money.
If she has any sense, she will return the dress for the ballgown (if it's not too late) and make her gorgeous grandpa his favorite meal with a heartfelt thank you card for all he's done for her.
I doubt she'll be handing around to look after him when he's old and frail, which hopefully is a long way away. Grandpa should be treasured, but she's treating him like trash.
That first bride and her brattish manipulation of her grandfather, just wow
That ball gown was much better on her figure!
so disrespectful not to stay in budget, what more should your grandpa do for you?? he raised you
I loved the pink ballgown better 💖. It looked perfect on her. Poor Grampa had to pay 1/3 more 😢.
She was vetted for the show. She surely pre-indicated her desire for this particular dress (what if the store didn't carry it or simply not in stock?) and her budget. It's all about the drama.
Monte should have jacked up the ball gown that was in budget, not the overpriced dress!
If anything, I think she and her bridesmaids should have volunteered to split the $2500 overage after hearing the grandfather say her dress cost too much.
I disagree. The bridesmaids will be manipulated into spending more than their own budgets on their dresses, accessories and the bridal shower. The bride alone should be getting a part-time job for the next year (until the wedding) to pay for the "upgrade?" to her dream dress.
@@nanderson8286 Okay that sounds fair to me. I had just seen one where they volunteered to pay so she could have the dress of her dreams and it seemed like the perfect solution.
@@nanderson8286 I agree and if any bride wants anything then they had better pay themselves.
@@danahickman5716 Problem is not everyone has extra money to spend on chipping in on something like that..
I think the bride should cover the difference, not the bridesmaids. They already have to spend a ton of money just for standing up in the wedding.
I liked the second one better
Me too!
bad move doing that to Grpa --- honestly the other dress looked phenomenal
I would not puchase a dress that cost that much, unless I could wear it every day. She could have purchased a 2 in 1 dress with that $5,000 budget.
I agree and unless I was going to wear it all the time, but only once? No way!
So glad the comment section agrees with me .. that 7 500 dress ...Kiara should have stayed within budget 😢
I ♥ Grandpa ~ She is WAY too spoiled and selfish. She should not have made him feel guilty. -smdh
That's so selfish of her. I could never do that to my grandparents.
The ballgown looked better on her.
The ballgown looked much better.
I'm with grandpa, I loved the ballgown dress with the blush pink skirt so much more than the one she chose. I think she had tunnel vision that day.
This makes me both sad and angry. This is an example of why our world is in trouble. "It's all about ME and what I want."
Poor Grandpa. He got stung.
Yup and that is why the world is in trouble.
And the consultants were happy to enable it 💵💵💵
Girl pleaseeeee the second dress (ball gown) was 1000000 times prettier. It made her look so beautiful
OMG the beaded ballgown!!! YAAAAS!!!!
No one helped Grandpa up
The dress she loves does nothing for her.
She should pay anything over the lovely grandfather’s generous budget
Should have $2000 to contribute to the dress..she know how to play her grandfather..
"I have been looking at it for so long, I have been dreaming of this dress for so long". Well she would of been so aware of the 50./. Over her budget and if she had been dreaming of it for so long she had enough time to save the extra difference over budget. She treated her poor Grandpa terribly. What a spoilt brat. The poor Groom
I have watched hundreds of say yes to the dress and never have I commented but this young woman and her grandfather brought me to tears! The love they have.. that’s his baby through and through! He’s a beautiful man and what luck they have eachother!
That girl really played on her Grandfather. Waste of money for a few hours. Disrespectful.
What a disrespectful girl, taking advantage of her grandfather's kindness 😒😒
The 2nd dress looks better on her. Too bad!
And Monty sad: "... if a dress comes between Kyra and her grandfather... I got to give Kyra everything I got." Well Monty, you should have done this with the second dress. Because of the price, this dress comes between her and her grandfather. Only for the money!
She should be ashamed of herself
She knew how to sucker her grandpa.
I think she looked absolutely stunning in the ball gown! They gown she was very fortunate to get, will be a treasured gift from her grandfather ❤
"It's a little over the budget" and proceeds to show that it's 2 months worth of wages excluding affording essentials and rent. No biggie, it's ONLY $2,590 over budget but no worries, it's grand. Lol xD
Also, the second dress was the most beautiful imo^^
The sales tax alone on just the difference is $104 (+ veil, shoes, jewelry & alterations)!
The ball gown Monte chose was more flattering than the dress she chose.
In this instance, I think Monty was wrong to go over gpa’s budget like that.
Not only DID she disrespect her grandfather, SO DID MONTY - SHAME, 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬JUST TO MAKE A BUCK
She should of been more considerate of her grandfather. With tax and alterations over 8K. Hope she's paying for wedding.
They should've shown her a similar dress in her budget
No,no. The 2nd dress!
Maybe they can cut back somewhere else? Or sell the dress after the wedding? Grandpa can get some of his money back.
Ok. Dream dress or not, $7600 plus tax is a lot to spend on a dress. $5000 is a very reasonable budget. If you want to go over budget, maybe you need to get a job to pay the difference instead of expecting your grandfather to foot the bill.
Her and the fiancé should pay the difference.
The ballgown was a lot better than the Lazaro dress. That style (the mermaid) didn’t flatter her at all.
So, for her to say “his opinion matters to me” that’s a complete load after the manipulation with the crocodile tears and Monti going along with her rather than respecting the grandfather’s budget.
Dress #2 looked best!
So she couldn't have found a similar dress within the price range. This was disrespectful to her generous grandfather
Thank God there are men like this ❤
I'm not liking she not respecting the budget of the grandpa, he loves her so much she should respect, I mean, she could learn how to embead a dress and it could be a super fit if she's really into sparkles
She should never have tried on her dream dress.
I hate how they emotionally manipulated grandpa into paying $7,500 for that dress
I'm sorry but spending that much on a dress you're gonna wear for a few hours is ludicrous. That said, if a bride is so insistent on buying a dress that exceeds the budget (especially when someone else is paying for it) then she should pay the difference.
First: the way she spoke about her future husband. Not like “he is the man of my dreams” but “he has the stability to make ME feel like on to of the world”.
Second: the dress she chose didn’t look as flattering as the second dress she tried (ball gown).
Third: poor grandpa :/ Loved him to bits.
I see one determined woman who manipulates her way into getting things.
Bride! You should have respected your grandfather's budget, you did not stay in that limit of his. Shame on you for being totally selfish.
This man brought you up and obviously did a wonderful job of doing so. Education wise etc.
Grandpa i admire you and and well done you, for being such a decent human being.
Granddaughter you should be giving back to your grandfather for all those years, of selfless duty bringing you up
Australia
So selfish!! The second dress looked better on her the one she chose was done a million times.
I honestly thought the ball gown was stunning on her and much more figure flattering- poor grandpa.
Totally agree. The ball gown was so flattering on her
This is wrong to do to grandpa. He truly loves her. It shows her stomach which isn’t flat.
Grandpa said more then once that the budget was 5k yet his Grand Daughter didnt hear him one single time.. She knew he couldn't say no to her and she used that to her advantage..
Also, the consultants shouldnt of "jacked her up" if they knew Grandpa only wanted to spend 5k..
One word Manipulation 😢
Completely disrespectful to her grandpa and laughing shamelessly about it! I feel sorry for her husband.
Dress 2 was gorgeous. Why couldn't she have that? I see no reason why there could only be one dress that she could possibly have or why she even tried the expensive one on. She basically manipulated her elderly grandfather into buying it for her.
I’m *positive* there was chatter off camera between the grandfather & staff about going over the 5k budget. *Monte* wouldn’t have jacked her up for no reason 🤷🏼♂️
I thought the second dress looked so good on her and it was within budget. I feel sorry that the granddad felt he had to go over budget for her.
I think she should cover the difference in price !! No ! I changed my mind . I think the fiance should Run like hell !!!
when monty said he was going to give it his all i thought he was going to negotiate the cost lower for them...
She is very disrespectful towards her grandpa. She had a great Budget.,she should have stayed within it. She should have paid the extra money. She didn't look that great in it.
She manipulated her grandpa she is selfish and spoiled
*grandpa
Yes sorry i corrected
She manipulated that poor old man 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️who does that 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️