I would like to say that parentified children is different that in very large families- not the norm nowadays. In the past children in big families had lots of chores at home and that included minding younger siblings or siblings with special needs. But still it was not the same- lots of children had these big families- but in some you were consistently respected as a human being- a question that wouldn’t even occur-
That's true! If you have no model of healthy love, you are unlikely to develop it within you. AND, once you recognize what I call healthy love, you know which direction to go. Most people need help at that point because it's very difficult to see what you don't have!
1st. Corth.chapter 13 :1 - 6 love chapter all love is patient, love is kind, it does not envy,it does not boast, it's not arrogant, or rude,, it does not insist on its own way, it does not rejoice at wrong doing but rejoices in Truth ♥ this is real Love Note Give it and receive it.see where it is missing .where it should be in those around you??10-18-23
Someone’s safe sanctuary in the world.I’ll revisit this one.I’m not ready for it yet. I’ve always though of it though as being each other’s home, in a sense.
Came here to check in as to whether I was someone who has healthy love relationships. Thankfully, a handful of my xlose friends would meet the criteria...and some ex close friends no longer do! But it's important to keep thinking about healthy love, because over time we can decide the crumbs are enough but it is actually making us sick!
Examples of these would be awesome too. Also please tell us the stats on healthy love because when I’m looking out there it’s rare from what I have seen.
This was really helpful. I have been thinking on and off and asking this question what is healthy love? This is a very gentle and detailed guide that you share with us and resonates with me. I appreciate your time and attention 🙂
I'm not sure what you mean about not having comments show up on the screen (30:15). All of the comments show up in the youtube chat...I'm using a browser on a computer and can see them. I'm not watching live, but a couple months later.
I'VE BEEN ON MY OWN ALL MY LIFE REALLY APART FROM WHEN I WAS MARRIED AND THEN I JUST WANTED HIM TO GO AWAY; WE WEREN'T REALLY A GOOD MATCH, SINCE THEN, THAT WAS 20 YEARS AGO, I'VE BEEN ALONE APART FR A FEW RELATIONSHIPS THAT DIDN'T LAST LONG, SPENT A GOOD BIT OF IT OVERCOMING CHEMICAL ADDICTION, NOW I HAVE A RAGDOLL AND LOVE TO PAINT AND SWIM AND AM INTERESTED IN SPIRITUAL PATH, SOUNDS LIKE AN ADVERTISEMENT!
I told my ex wife "your a narcissistic hijackal" She called me an a-hole and acused me of reading a book. I said see, still making false accisations you hijackal
Just a salad? Any cake? What time tomorrow? Oh yea you were a early morning c-section baby? Like 8-9 lbs baby boy?? Is that right? I was a 3 lbs baby girl (probably looked like a wet kitten) ha ha We grew!! Ha ha 😮
A gorgeous, deep and well-articulated picture of the standard. ❤ thank you for this work you bring to the world
I would like to say that parentified children is different that in very large families- not the norm nowadays.
In the past children in big families had lots of chores at home and that included minding younger siblings or siblings with special needs. But still it was not the same- lots of children had these big families- but in some you were consistently respected as a human being- a question that wouldn’t even occur-
I'm speechless! Thank you so much! (from France)
You're very welcome!
Same
That’s why my husband is this way (a narc) he didn’t get healthy love so I can’t receive it no matter what 😢
That's true! If you have no model of healthy love, you are unlikely to develop it within you. AND, once you recognize what I call healthy love, you know which direction to go. Most people need help at that point because it's very difficult to see what you don't have!
I have been listening.
Thanks for the value.
1st. Corth.chapter 13 :1 - 6 love chapter all love is patient, love is kind, it does not envy,it does not boast, it's not arrogant, or rude,, it does not insist on its own way, it does not rejoice at wrong doing but rejoices in Truth ♥ this is real Love Note
Give it and receive it.see where it is missing .where it should be in those around you??10-18-23
Never felt good enough.
Someone’s safe sanctuary in the world.I’ll revisit this one.I’m not ready for it yet. I’ve always though of it though as being each other’s home, in a sense.
Came here to check in as to whether I was someone who has healthy love relationships. Thankfully, a handful of my xlose friends would meet the criteria...and some ex close friends no longer do!
But it's important to keep thinking about healthy love, because over time we can decide the crumbs are enough but it is actually making us sick!
Thanks!
Examples of these would be awesome too.
Also please tell us the stats on healthy love because when I’m looking out there it’s rare from what I have seen.
Great video. Thanks
Examples of inter depended and codependency would be great too.
Thank you🙂.Poland here 🇵🇱.Daughter of narcissistic mother
You’re welcome 😊
Thank you🦋
Lovely as always. Thank you!
This was really helpful.
I have been thinking on and off and asking this question what is healthy love? This is a very gentle and detailed guide that you share with us and resonates with me. I appreciate your time and attention 🙂
You're welcome!
I'm not sure what you mean about not having comments show up on the screen (30:15). All of the comments show up in the youtube chat...I'm using a browser on a computer and can see them. I'm not watching live, but a couple months later.
Thanks. It was a banner on the screen that was not showing up.
I'VE BEEN ON MY OWN ALL MY LIFE REALLY APART FROM WHEN I WAS MARRIED AND THEN I JUST WANTED HIM TO GO AWAY; WE WEREN'T REALLY A GOOD MATCH, SINCE THEN, THAT WAS 20 YEARS AGO, I'VE BEEN ALONE APART FR A FEW RELATIONSHIPS THAT DIDN'T LAST LONG, SPENT A GOOD BIT OF IT OVERCOMING CHEMICAL ADDICTION, NOW I HAVE A RAGDOLL AND LOVE TO PAINT AND SWIM AND AM INTERESTED IN SPIRITUAL PATH, SOUNDS LIKE AN ADVERTISEMENT!
Neighbor LOVE. FRIENDSHIPS LOVE.
CO WORKER LOVE
EXERCISE CLUB LOVE. COMMUNITY ACTS OF LOVE COMPASSION. HEALTHY LOVE ????
I told my ex wife "your a narcissistic hijackal" She called me an a-hole and acused me of reading a book. I said see, still making false accisations you hijackal
Basic HONORABLE LOVE BEHAVIORS. NO SEX. RIGHT??? 😮
Just a salad? Any cake? What time tomorrow? Oh yea you were a early morning c-section baby? Like 8-9 lbs baby boy?? Is that right? I was a 3 lbs baby girl (probably looked like a wet kitten) ha ha We grew!! Ha ha 😮
Don’t know how this got in here. Thought sent to a friend??? Internet jumble I guess???