Hey Destorm, I've been watching your videos for a few years now. I enjoy pretty much every video you come out with. I've been stuck in the friend zone for five years now and have been going through some other hard stuff too. When my emotions catch up with me and I've cried for a little bit, I love to watch your relationship advice videos, maybe not always for the advice but because you're so cheerful and it makes it hard to not smile. Thanks DeStorm. :)
DeStorm, I'm in this position right now with this woman I met last year. We dated for a few months and now she wants to be friends, I am still seriously into this woman but this video is full of such good advice i.e. stop making yourself so available etc. Thanks man, keep the videos coming.
It's crazy how the people you desire to be with put you in the friend zone and the ones who desire you , you put them in the friend zone. . I find it difficult to just be someone's "friend" when I'm damn near madly in love with them.
Simple answer. What defines ANY and EVERY relationship is "What you give". If you give of your honest self wit your honest intention, the rest will be made clear.
DeStorm you can relate so easily. You give the advice my friends for years cant give properly! God damn, thank you, and keep it up. P.S. bought your album, good stuff.
You've inspired me, I have the qualities to get to be the "hottie" but only thing missing is a job, and I've applied like EVERYWHERE , only thing holding me back
i used to be that way i was in love with this boy for about 3 years....i finally realized all we wud ever be was franns lol and now hes my bestest frann in the whole world and i love him like a brother and now am with someone i love as a lover so sometimes the friend zone is good :)
the first and only girl so far that i have ever truly fallen in love with told me she didnt want to screw up our friendship. i remember it like it was yesterday, realized my feelings for her on October 9th, 2011. Didnt even start to finally move on from her till February 8th, 2012. I'm not denying that some girls dont want to screw up friendships, but that is still an excuse for not liking you. Nothing truly worth having in life is gained without risk, and if she liked you, she would risk it.
Coming from a guy who's been in the friend zone, I think I know the problem. They were simply trying to "get some", and so when they realized they couldn't "get some", the guy in your situation decided to walk out. Most guys in the friend zone (like myself) have no care fore "getting some", and instead want a genuine long term, good relationship with a girl. As for those guys, forget about them. If they walked out on you like that, you probably deserve better friends than them anyway.
this is so true. I was pursuing this girl for a while and got "friend-zoned". And then I became desirable and now we're together and happy :) You gotta make the girl realise how good you are.. Don't smother her and shit dudes..
You're a funny man, DeStrom. And I've never thought of being a friendzone guy as being effectively one of the home girls. If you don't want to be in the friendzone, don't act like a home girl. Brilliant. Sometimes I wish I was black.
I haven't commented on one of Destorms vids in a while but this video was awesome! It really had an old school feel from around 10000 subscriber days. I miss The HookUp!
Spoken for truth; another way to look at the friend zone is by calling it "The Boring Zone" or "The Safe Zone" seeing as how I hook up with "friends" on a steady basis. If you more or less become a mirror image of her and her friends(and vice versa for females) you have nothing new to bring to the table and thus get slapped with a boring label. If you do all the stuff that she or he does and don't try new things then you are considered safe because her or his expectations of you never rise.
100% Accurate! Guys... be honest about it from the beginning. If youve been friendzoned step away and give the girl some space. Tell her in the nicest way possible 'I cant just be your friend. I want more than that' and walk away maintaining minimal courteous contact, don't ignore the girl. She'll respect you more for being upfront about it and will be forced to see you in a new light. If she likes you, she will pursue you! If not, move on to someone else who will see you for the stud you are ;)
Since you love making these types of videos, can you please do more of them. Seriously PBS needs to hire you or MTV. Dude you motivate me everyday. You are the type of person i want to grow up to be!
Yeah the friend zone is difficult to get out of but it's not impossible, I've gotten out of the friend zone before but the sibling zone now that's impossible to get out of! When a girl loves you but just as a brother or when a dude loves a girl but just as his sister.
tuutooooorials are backk!! THANK YOU GOD FOR DESTORM TUTORIALS! I really like your other channels and your other videos buUUUUUUUUUT TUTORIALS are the shit and you should do more!!!
Wasup DeStorm! I can't explain what an inspiration you are to me. One of you're motivational videos inspired me to start making UA-cam videos of my own and gave me the drive to keep it up! I just orded the awesome USB Key too btw ;) Keep up the awesome work man!!!
Love you DeStorm!! It's so true. My bf was friendzoned for two freakin' years til' homeboy realized he needed to be a hottie and worked at it hard. Our one year anniversary is coming up in June =).
Hey Destorm, I've been watching your videos for a few years now. I enjoy pretty much every video you come out with. I've been stuck in the friend zone for five years now and have been going through some other hard stuff too. When my emotions catch up with me and I've cried for a little bit, I love to watch your relationship advice videos, maybe not always for the advice but because you're so cheerful and it makes it hard to not smile. Thanks DeStorm. :)
lmaoooo this was sooo funny! I love these! & I know some of my guy friends that are NEVER getting out of the friend zone lmao
This is the best video I've seen. EVER. This guy knows what's up!
DeStorm, I'm in this position right now with this woman I met last year. We dated for a few months and now she wants to be friends, I am still seriously into this woman but this video is full of such good advice i.e. stop making yourself so available etc. Thanks man, keep the videos coming.
thank you kindly destorm, you have helped both my friend and i realize we are so deep in the friend zone, we must move on. you speak wisdom. godspeed.
Ive watched a couple of your videos and I already want to watch the rest all day. Thanks for the entertainment DeStorm
Man I swear getting out of the friend zone is harder then getting out of prison.
trueee
haile 89 lol
Kml
That's good advice, don't make yourself too available. She won't strive for your interest/approval.
I'm crying of laughter! THIS guy deserves a medal! amen.
I missed these!!!! I remember back in the day when you used to do this all the time. I'm glad your starting to do them again
It's crazy how the people you desire to be with put you in the friend zone and the ones who desire you , you put them in the friend zone. . I find it difficult to just be someone's "friend" when I'm damn near madly in love with them.
"Its harder to get out the friend zone than it is the twilight zone" - DeStorm
So true
Fuck yeah! 5 Years in the friend zone and that started to piss me off. Time to get out bro. Ty DeStrom.
BEST FRIEND ZONE VIDEO EVER CREATED
I liked this girl a few years back , and I fell into that friend zone . I was so far in that friend zone she talked to me about her monthlies .
Simple answer. What defines ANY and EVERY relationship is "What you give". If you give of your honest self wit your honest intention, the rest will be made clear.
I love the brutal honesty
This could be some of the best advice I've ever heard.
"Bam! bitch, haa you thought i didn't like you. No longer friend zone for me!" lol love that line
Your having alot of fun with the topic. But Boss you are absolutely right on. Thanks!!!!
Thanks for the advice. Now I'm finally gonna get out of the friend zone.
thanks you. for adding your opinion. you guys are really helping me with my situation.
Like it how you can take good advice and make it funny to watch too. Props bro.
DeStorm you can relate so easily. You give the advice my friends for years cant give properly! God damn, thank you, and keep it up.
P.S. bought your album, good stuff.
I love these videos... Nothing but the truth!!!
You've inspired me, I have the qualities to get to be the "hottie" but only thing missing is a job, and I've applied like EVERYWHERE , only thing holding me back
Destorm please keep doing videos like this, this is why subcribed to you in the first place...especially the hook-up.
This guys knows he to cheer you up
Damn! I never get tired of your videos sofunnyyy
LOL! this is hallarious but so true!! I'm LOLing now when earlier tonight I "wasn't"!!
OMG Destorm i just can't get enough of this video! i watch it again ang again! LOVE IT
You just helped me reveal why I was friend zoned a few years ago by this girl!! Thanks Destorm =]
Man I had to watch this twice, first time I couldn't stop laughing at your acting. Gonna try this out, I'll keep you updated.
OMH! this is priceless! That's why I love this dude.
i used to be that way i was in love with this boy for about 3 years....i finally realized all we wud ever be was franns lol and now hes my bestest frann in the whole world and i love him like a brother and now am with someone i love as a lover so sometimes the friend zone is good :)
From a person in the friendzone with several people, this video was hilarious and true!
imma use this stuff...i always drop into the friends zone....thanks Destorm
Had me rollin wit the Kevin Hart "U gon learn today!" lol hahaaha.
Oh my gosh, moooooooore more more more more!!! Please, you need to post more of this stuff - funny as ****!!!
the first and only girl so far that i have ever truly fallen in love with told me she didnt want to screw up our friendship. i remember it like it was yesterday, realized my feelings for her on October 9th, 2011. Didnt even start to finally move on from her till February 8th, 2012. I'm not denying that some girls dont want to screw up friendships, but that is still an excuse for not liking you. Nothing truly worth having in life is gained without risk, and if she liked you, she would risk it.
Aw man DeStorm you done good this time around, I gotta say. Keep it up, do more!
Coming from a guy who's been in the friend zone, I think I know the problem. They were simply trying to "get some", and so when they realized they couldn't "get some", the guy in your situation decided to walk out. Most guys in the friend zone (like myself) have no care fore "getting some", and instead want a genuine long term, good relationship with a girl. As for those guys, forget about them. If they walked out on you like that, you probably deserve better friends than them anyway.
awwh hope you find the girl ur looking for
cause u seem like a decent, trustworthy, faithful guy.
DeStorm is the only guy that can make this sort of thing funny XD
Thanks Destorm,
It's possible to get out but lemme tell u that shit is a mission
this is so true. I was pursuing this girl for a while and got "friend-zoned". And then I became desirable and now we're together and happy :) You gotta make the girl realise how good you are.. Don't smother her and shit dudes..
Cause you're oh so enlightened...
lol
omg I can't stop laughing while watching your videos DeStorm u r the best
advices from heaven thanks
These videos are Great!!! I love them!! Keep up the Great Work Destorm!!!
Loved this! Had a few of these types of friends, but never was one.
You are funny. I can not stop laughing.
But you really do have a point it is good food for thought.
ironically i have been thinking about this today! And you explain it well!
You're a funny man, DeStrom.
And I've never thought of being a friendzone guy as being effectively one of the home girls. If you don't want to be in the friendzone, don't act like a home girl. Brilliant.
Sometimes I wish I was black.
Just found your channel you are to funny. Love your take on relationships and THE FRIEND ZONE........ ctfu
I haven't commented on one of Destorms vids in a while but this video was awesome! It really had an old school feel from around 10000 subscriber days. I miss The HookUp!
Spoken for truth; another way to look at the friend zone is by calling it "The Boring Zone" or "The Safe Zone" seeing as how I hook up with "friends" on a steady basis.
If you more or less become a mirror image of her and her friends(and vice versa for females) you have nothing new to bring to the table and thus get slapped with a boring label.
If you do all the stuff that she or he does and don't try new things then you are considered safe because her or his expectations of you never rise.
Thanks Andrea
100% Accurate! Guys... be honest about it from the beginning. If youve been friendzoned step away and give the girl some space. Tell her in the nicest way possible 'I cant just be your friend. I want more than that' and walk away maintaining minimal courteous contact, don't ignore the girl. She'll respect you more for being upfront about it and will be forced to see you in a new light. If she likes you, she will pursue you! If not, move on to someone else who will see you for the stud you are ;)
This was so funny and entertaining yet educational. Thanks!
This is THE BEST, Destorm you are AMAZING
hahaha! trust me you don't wanna se that!
watch it like the 10th times and still LMFAO :))) nice vid Destorm
You gon' learn today!!! Hahah
Kevin Hart's stand-up line as well! XD
This video goes along with your song Background ---- LOVE that song off of your album x3
Amen to this!
The way he kept changing his voice was funny!!
These videos are great and helpful! you need to do more!
kind of like a the hook up flashback. love it
this kind of videos are the best thanks destorm
This reminds me of Classic DeStorm; The Hookup!
Gosh I miss that show!
this was perfect timing. Right as i think i got stuck in the friend zone
Since you love making these types of videos, can you please do more of them. Seriously PBS needs to hire you or MTV. Dude you motivate me everyday. You are the type of person i want to grow up to be!
lol has me cracking up this is some funny stuff rite here.
Love your channel dude, loved since the sprint videos!
You just gotta love Destorm's dating advice videos :D
this is one of the funniest videos i have ever seen haha xD
Yeah the friend zone is difficult to get out of but it's not impossible, I've gotten out of the friend zone before but the sibling zone now that's impossible to get out of! When a girl loves you but just as a brother or when a dude loves a girl but just as his sister.
tuutooooorials are backk!! THANK YOU GOD FOR DESTORM TUTORIALS! I really like your other channels and your other videos buUUUUUUUUUT TUTORIALS are the shit and you should do more!!!
You are hilarious man, so true. Keep it up.
@4:20 "Where's my couch?!" Had me giggling. Haha
You are so intelligent and talented
Am I the only one who watched the 10 days like 5 times ^^ frickin' hysterical
yeah Destorm, that crap always happens to me.
Thumbs up if you had to pause De's mixtape, Be Careful, to watch this.
thank you, DeStorm, you just took me to reality ;)
This was hilarious! But so true!
Thanks DeStorm. I ain't gonna be there for her anymore!
i swear. destorm is like the big brother i always wanted :D
Wasup DeStorm! I can't explain what an inspiration you are to me. One of you're motivational videos inspired me to start making UA-cam videos of my own and gave me the drive to keep it up! I just orded the awesome USB Key too btw ;)
Keep up the awesome work man!!!
More vids like this please destorm. keep it up it was funny as hell
DeStorm - The Background = FriendZone! :D
^great song
Love you DeStorm!! It's so true. My bf was friendzoned for two freakin' years til' homeboy realized he needed to be a hottie and worked at it hard. Our one year anniversary is coming up in June =).
Did you see his face when he said bestie! haha!!! i need to go to sleep, but storm keep makin me laff :D
XD even these serious vids i find funny lul love the way he breaks it down fantastic
i like wen u have these segments Destorm
"its harder to get out of the friend zone then the twilight zone" ha love it
very very true though :P
lol! "You gon' learn today!"
Nice Kevin Hart reference
I really like your advice, damn its helped me out a lot
I love this kind of destorms videos :D