For those of you who's never had an EVIL daughter-n-law or EVIL mother-n-Law, you will never know!!! YES, there are just EVIL people in this world. It doesn't take much for that evil person to hate you or want you dead or want to hurt you and others in so many ways possible. I don't care if there's 2 sides to this story. I've seen, been there, heard it all, and lived it. Whether this mom is at fault or the Nyab is at fault, that's not what matters. WHAT matters is the SON!! He's disable, he can't even talk much or better yet, do anything now. I'm sure he would love to have his parents & siblings around before he dies. I'm sure the parents would love to just see their son before he dies too. What makes you think it's the son's doing if he really is incapable of talking and doing?? Of course it's the Nyab. I'm serious. Some nyab & mother-n- laws are too greedy, selfish, and heartless. Whomever it is, just wait until KARMA bites you back. If the nyab is as innocent as she feels/thinks she is, she wouldn't have put her husband (the son) in solitude!! Yes, it is all about the money, I'm sure. Because no one would be hiding anyone if he/she isn't a greedy, selfish, lying mofo!!
I don't care how many sides there are to this story there's no reason to keep someone’s child away from them especially if they are in this kind of condition. You may not have any love for your in-laws but I hope you have enough love in your heart to have your husband see his parents.
What a sad story I heard today…. Yes, there are two sides to every story but taking someone’s child from their mother especially in the son’s condition is pure evil! No ONE WILL EVER LOVE YOU MORE THAN YOUR PARENTS and that’s a FACT!!! A little message to the NYAB, Sister doesn’t matter how much you detest your in laws, You have NO RIGHT to take their son away especially in that condition… May mentioned you believe in god… If so, God will never teach you evil and hatred. YOU’RE SELFISH, inconsiderate, Abusive, and EVIL!!!! The total opposite of what God would teach you! Let me tell you something…. KARMA doesn’t take long to happen…. The sky is very low nowadays, what goes around comes around and it comes ten times harder! You have children or specifically a son too and I am very sure you love him unconditionally! Your mother in law is right… back in the days it was harder to raise a child…. She too loves her son unconditionally so send her son back regardless of your selfishness n hatred! Do it for your husband n let him see his parents… depression kill faster than sickness remember that!!!
We don’t wish bad and curse no one. We did heard one story side and quick at conclusion but too many times people don’t knowledge their trespass and abuse the hospitality upon others, I’ve seen too many times and this is the main issue. Also we forget that they agree to one another in marriage in good and bad to be one until death. Who are we to say that’s she no child of God ? Have you look yourself lately in the mirror? Exactly you’re a sinner as well…
That’s what I think it comes down to. At least from the outside view. Not sure why the Nyab would be so against his parents caring for him while she’s working.
I also believe this too. Her excuses are not in line with her stress. If you are under such stress any help is welcome. Her keep taking the son away is a sign of abuse especially if the son is handicap now.
There's always two side to a story people always put in good words for themselves, but not to mention what they did wrong as well...we all know what's like especially being a hmong daughter in law...
This is disturbing… No need to hear the Nyab’s side because it is pure evil to prevent your spouse from seeing his family, period. Unless his parents were abusing him, she can’t justify her actions. I would be really angry if someone keeps my child away from me, no matter how old he is. Just speaking from a mother’s POV.
I felt bad for the OGs here. But some advice to parents, don’t invest all your eggs into one nest…when you give all you have to just one son and forgets about the other kids, don’t be disappointed if you get nothing back. Typical hmong parents usually only love and cherish the youngest/oldest….the middles ones are forgotten….love all your kids, cherish them and invest in them the same
If the son listens to the mother and not his wife then we will criticize him for being a mama's boy but if he listens to his wife and does whatever his wife wants then we label him as a bad son. If you're a mother and your son chose his wife over you then just let them be. You have to understand that there's that one nyab like her in every family.
But in this situation the parent has the right to know the well being of their son. You child will always be your child no matter how old they are. Imagine if the nayb has a son in this situation, she would want to be there for her son as well.
Niam tais aw, txhob tu siab cov neeg siab phem li koj tus nyab no ces muaj ib hnub yeej yuav muaj ib tug los tsim nws xwb os mog. Ua ib siab txhob tos koj tus tub lawm mog.
Evil daughter in law. You will get what you deserve for your pure evilness. Everybody has two sides to their story. But i feel you are keeping him away for money and just straight up hateful. Karma will get you.
Nyab will have her turn when she turn old to be grandma. She just teach her kids no respect to the elderly . Her kids will do the same ask she did to grandma and grandpa.
Nyob zoo os kuv yog dab laug Ntsuab Teev ib tus muam xeem yaj nyob Blog teb nyiam mloog koj cov neej neeg ua ntu zus los hnuub no kuv los tsa ncauj thov koj yog tus mi nyab pab Share wb cov Click VDO thiab os. Vim 2 xyoo los lawm kuv tus nyab mob2 Raum lim ntshav kuv khaub hlab tas lawm os mi nyab thiaj li thov koj os
Idk and idc the drama between the mil and dil. I'm sure both of them aren't good to each other. But since the son is disable, the dil should do the right thing and let the inlaws see their disable son too. Unless she has a letter from the court, or has reasons to believe that the inlaws are a danger to the disabled son, she has no reasons to keep the son hidden away. How would she feels if she has a dil and the dil won't let her see her own son?
Tus me nyab aw yog koj ntseeg vaj tswv tiag koj yeej muaj vaj tswv nrog koj nyob, koj yeej muaj txoj kev zam lub txim thiab hlub lwm tus thov koj pub Kom koj tus niam pog no tuaj saib nws tus tub mog txawm zoo li cas Los thov koj mog yog koj tsis ua zoo rau tib neeg Los thov koj ua qhov zoo ib zaug rau vaj tswv mog yog koj muaj vaj tswv nrog koj nyob tiag no os tus me nyab aw
There is no need to listen to both side of the story, it’s so obvious that it’s money and evil. In a time like this, both parties should be able to take care of the son and put their different away!
WOW! What a evil nyab. I guess she wants her husband for the money. She should be glad his parents want to help care for him too. I hope someone takes one of her kid in the future so she knows how heart breaking it is.
I think the money is her no body going to take the money the money is her and the kids what we talking about is let the parents see they son once a while is enough.
We OGs Hmong people need to understand that your daughter in-law is the sole responsibility for your son's well being. He's no longer your responsibility even he's your own fleshing blood. Leave your son n your daughter in-law alone. If you are nice to her she might share you some of the money..how much is her decision. You can not demand $amt. This is why you Hmong people don't draw a line that you only going to stay with the youngest son. In your case you are screwed. Now your other sons won't take you either bcuz you made it cleared that you only stay with younger son. Lesson learned here...
To the Nyab, nothing you say will justify your evilness and cruelty! That is HER SON! I despise any man or woman who isolates their partner from their parents!!!! Period!!!
Peb ua neej nyob thaum koj muaj koj txij koj nkawm lawm kav txij focuses koj lub neej xwb. Yus yug tau Me tub me nyuam twb loj lawm tag Phem zoo los nws twb mus ua nws ib lub neej. Yus yog niam pog kav txij tu yus tu me txiv tsis txhob mus txhawj txog tej tub tej ntxhais lub neej yus thiaj li tsis muaj kev nyuaj siab nawb mog. But yog yus yog ib tug niam pog siab phem ces yuav pab tsis tau. Kuv yog koj tus nyab los kuv yeej coj ib yam li koj tus nyab thiab vim kuv ntxub ntxub cov niam pog xiam hlwb siab phem.
I think there has to be 2 sides to this story. You have to have a lot of evidence to get a restraining order. You can’t just get one when cause you don’t like a person! I would like to hear her side as well. As parents we have to let our kids be independent even if it means letting them be on there own. His accident was unfortunate. I’m sure your daughter in law is stressed over her husband also. You shouldn’t try to add to the stress. I know you love your son but sometimes it’s best to just love him from afar. It seems like she’s taking care of him. I hope you all can become one again and let your son be at peace.
It could be two side but by listening to the story sounds like when the daughter in law knows how much much she getting from the incident her husband will be getting she changed and afraid that his parents might take the half of the money.
@@lisvaj7375 They can be dramatic but the dil shouldn't do that when she not even taking care of him and his parents are just helping her since she working. will mother in law should have the right to see her own son or child. We all have kids and hurts to see our child in so pain.
@@lisvaj7375 We all listen to the story. It is the Nyab that is bad, don't need to hear her side of the story. Theres only one reason for the parents to curse her. She is stressed but the parents also hurt. She may find another husband but the parents will never find another son. They all have equal rights on visitations!
@@LilyXiongChannel how you know she’s not taking care of him? Maybe the mom is trying to be queen B. There can only be one Queen B in the hive. The dil could of been like… bye! And left with the money. But she is still there with her husband. The mom needs to chill and take a step back.
very sad story between son and parent .yus ua niam ua txiv yus hlub yus tej menyuam yus muab yus txoj sia pauv los tau tab sis thaum lawv loj hlob laus lawv txoj sia ho muab tso 6 lawv tus partner .tu siab kawg
All Hmong elderlies need to get that old ways out of their mentality. Don’t try to depend on their last son to take care of them. Be independent and you’ll never get abandoned. But this nyab, as much as you dislike the in-laws you should never take him away from his parents and move away and not tell them. No matter what the relationship you should never do that much to your in-laws. And how tf do you just go get a restraining order base off lies? Makes no sense. Some key information are missing. If it is true, this nyab is evil.
Sister, I’m so sorry for the pain you are going through. This should not have happened, hiding your son who can’t speak for himself from his family. It’s BS that your daughter-in-law’s mother think her daughter is a good person. She needs to teach her daughter to have moral and be a compassionate human being! It’s about the money she’s getting from his accident. Karma will get her back. What goes around will come around. Nws ua li cas rau koj thiab koj tsev neeg nws yeej yuav tau txais rov qab.
Ntshe koj tus tub raug kev txom nyem heev li os...koj tus tub twb tsis taus ces koj tus nyab twb tsis hlub nws es ntshe nws txom nyem heev li os koj tus nyab coj koj tus tub ua kom tau nyiaj Rau nws xwb
Not taking any sides, this is the 21st century now, the parents need to get over it. Stop expecting ur kids to stay and care for u. Set them free, stop hovering over them.
As a mother of 6 children and a dil, I would never take my mother in law's child away from her. A mother has every right to see her children if she is a good person. Idk what happened but please there's 2 side to a story, please tell your side of the story too NYAB .
Nyab siab phem ce ntawm niam tai yawm txiv qhia nyab siab zoo lo yeej lo ntawm niam txiv qhia 1 yam niam tai zoo ce ntxhai yeej zoo leej twg tau nyab siab phem ce lo ntawm nw niam yug nw xwb o
There’s a modern saying that only our daughters knows to love their parents more than our sons 😅. Y’all don’t know a struggles of a Hmong son in our modern community. This story is an example.
peb yuav tau tso tej tub nyab lawv nyob lawv ua ntej mauj teeb meem tsis txhob coj li yav ntuj qub qab lawm yog siab phem npaum no txhob quav tsej lawm vim cov neej tsa twb tauj tus txhais tog lawm
Parents need to stop relying on the last son, and get it together themselves so their son and daughter in law can have a life of their own. Now a days, save up, stay healthy and don’t depend on your children - it’s a new era. They need their privacy and to build their relationship without parents. Sometimes family is too close for comfort. Everyone matures at different stages so allow that to happen because ultimately family is important. This story sounds very bias and as a nyab, MIL are excellent at playing victim so don’t believe every single word out of the MILs mouth as you know she’s a controlling narcissist who can’t let her son be an adult with his adult wife.
Aws koj hais li ko yog lawm thiab tab sis tus tub twb mob heev lawm tus tub need tus Nyab need nws cov menyuam need nws parents need nws brothers and sisters and nws tej phooj ywg ua ntej nws tso ntiaj teb tseg naj think about yourself you would think that way too.
@@baothao1728 yes, see the nyab’s version just came out and many things the mother left out. The mother plays victim all the time, is over bearing, bossy, controlling. Who wants a MIL like that? Being a nyab I knew something didn’t sound right. It may not be forever that relationship is like this but for now, it’s best because she can take care of her husband without stress or extra toxicity from her MIL.
I know alot of you are criticizing the nyab n sided with the mom but you need to listen to the nyab side's of story..it's 360° difference! I can totally see why she moved away from her mother in-law. I would have probably done the samething too. The nyab's side of the story's title " Teb Niam Pog Cov Lus dated 6-18-22." What she did was a bit extreme but she has a good reason.
Tus nyab no phem dhau lawm yuav npam nws 9 tiam tom ntej no txawm neb tsis foom los neb muab hais tawm lawm ces lub ntiaj teb no foom xwb ces nws yeej yuav npam xwb 2 mas thiaj tag
Tus nyab no yuav tau txais Kev phem mus ib sim neej tus poj niam no yuav txais kev npam los ntawm lub ntuj yuav dam duav li tus tub thiab thaum dam duav lawm thov kom txhob txawj tuag thov thov kom nyob laus laus ntag noj quav Haus zis tag siab mam tu nawb
Wow!! This story makes my blood boil. Regardless what the situation was that made the nyab and mil not getting alone. The nyab has no right to take away the son from his mother. Imagine if you have a son who's doing the same to you, how would you feel?? Remember..what goes around will always come around. Don't be greedy and trying to hide away their son so noone can share your $$$. How selfish you are. You don't have to take away their son. I don't care who's fault was it, but this is going too far. Karma will catch you when you make a mother of the son cried everyday wanted to see her son. So evil!!! No need to hear the other side of story if you already taking away their son. THAT ALREADY EXPLAINS IT ALL!!
There’s always two sides to a story….the son knows that his wife didn’t like the parents. He should’ve gotten rid of her….she’s not worth isolating from his parents. But yet, as parents, have to cut the umbilical cord. I’m sure that you as the parents are worried and wanted to take care of your son but if he’s willing to go then let him go. Its better to hear from them now and then that he’s fine rather than not hear at all. It’s unfortunate that the accident happened… The DIL is straight evil for not letting his parents see him…no matter the circumstances. Just pure evilness in this woman.
Every good mother would be willing to use her own life to save her child. No other people can do this, including the wife/daughter in law. Put yourself in the mother’s shoes then you would understand the pain she’s going through.
oh tu nyab no phem tiag2 li os yog kuv hlawv xyab ntawv kiag rau lawm xwb os kuv nas kuv hnov xwb.kuv twb pab mob siab chim siab rau tu nyab nos kawg kiag li nawb
At this point she's in it for the money. She care less. But, we all will all get old. What goes around will come around. One day she will have the same fate.
You need to go and help your other Nyab’s and your other sons. Sound like you only care about your last son. Your other Nyab probably feel sad because you didn’t love them too.
Wow! That is just cruel. I can’t even imagine the hurt, pain and helplessness that the parents are experiencing. To know their son isn’t well and have no way of checking in on him every once in a while.
Cia nws tuag nws mus os niam tais yog nws tsis muaj rab peev xwm thiab nws xum tuag ces cia nws tuag nws mus ho qhov ua koj yuav ua tau ces nqa xyab nqa nyawv tawm nraum zoov tam sim no ces yog lawm nawb
This mother is too needy. You need to allow your children to grow and be independent too. You can visit your children but if you over do it your adult child who is independent doesn’t want to see you then it’s their choice. The hmong community is not immune to this where adult children just don’t want to see their parents anymore or are too busy. You as parents need to understand this. You need to back off a little bit.
Nyab hmoob meka yeej lim hiam li no leej tau tus nyab zoo li no ma thiaj li paub lwm tu tau xwb ce nej pheej hai tia yog niampog phem thiab dag xwb no sawv daw tau nyab li no nej thiaj li paub tab ov vim kuv twb ntsib tu nyab lim hiam li no kuv thiaj nkag siab koj o
Tus me niam tais, kuv muaj ib zaj yuav khws li koj zaj no thiab os…kuv tus tub mus ua thaib ham thaum nws nem qhuav muaj 19 xyoos es twb yuav tau 10 xyoo no, pg mev muab nws khoo tsis pub rov los saib peb li lawm xyov nws tuag lawm los ciaj li os…tu siab tshaj li os
I get it that there are many sides the story...but it's just wrong for the DIL to keep the son isolated...so evil and wanting all that money to herself karma will get to her
Wow tus nyab no cas siab phem ua luaj. Koj yuav hla tsis dhau txoj kev foom los ntawm leej niam leej txiv. Fact: No matter how much we love our spouses, his or her parents love him/her more!! If the curse is coming from the parents, there's no way to prevent it. My advice for the nyab is to return the son, or allow the in laws to visit the son and have them retreat all the curse words. Time is ticking!
As a nyab, yes, you don't have to like your in-laws for whatever reasons you got towards them, but never stop them from seeing their child. I never stopped my man from going to visit his family nor stop them from coming to my place. I don't even get a long with his side, I just fake a smile, be a nyab, and deal with them until they leave. Tus nyab no phem heev.
Ua neeg nyob ntuj yeej tsim tus neeg phem phem, tus neeg zoo zoo. Yus hmoov phem ncaj tus neeg phem ces yus raug tsim txom siab ntsws. Qhov tseeb tim niam txiv phem. Yog tsev neej tsa zoo ces lawv yeej khoo tau lawv tus neeg. Vim tsev neej tsa yog ib tsev neej tsa phem, lawv thiaj tsis hais lawv tus neeg. Thaum koj mus sab laj nrog niam txiv es lawv hais tias thaum lawv tus neeg nrog lawv nyob yeej zoo zoo. Qhov no ces qhia tau li cas rau nej lawm. Txawm yus yuav nco yus tus neeg npaum twg los yuav tau xav tias tuag lawm.
Xa paub qhov tseeb ces kom tus tub los hais tus hais tias li yog qhov tseeb xwb os yog niam pog hais los niam pog qhuas niam pog zoo hos cia nyab hais los nyab qhuas nyab qhov zoo Yuav tsum kom tus tub los hais tus tub thiaj li tsis dag os
Yog vim li cas txoj kev npam kev phem ho tsis raug rau tus neeg ua phem siab phem es ho yuav raug rau tus neeg tsis muaj peev Xwm tsis muaj txoj cai los hlub niam hlub txiv. Muab xav los mas tu siab kawg li.
Evil 😈 nyab that's all I can say. If the son is capable or normal then it's up to him but at that stage please let his parents be with him too. He need love and support from his parents and siblings.
Yog neb ua tau ces thaum twg nws tuag ces tsis txhob quav ntsej cia seb tus nyab no yuav muab hau noj los nws yuav muab ua li cas. Tsis txhob tusiab mog vim txoj hmoo. Txawm li cas los cia lub ntuj mam txiav txim rau tus nyab no xwb os.
tu nyab ko siab phem tiag tab sia tiam 21 - 22. No lub nyuj nyob qi qi li lawm leeg twg ua kev npam ce yeej yuav tau txai tiag2 li yeej tsi dim txoj kev npam ntawd kiag li
For those of you who's never had an EVIL daughter-n-law or EVIL mother-n-Law, you will never know!!! YES, there are just EVIL people in this world. It doesn't take much for that evil person to hate you or want you dead or want to hurt you and others in so many ways possible. I don't care if there's 2 sides to this story. I've seen, been there, heard it all, and lived it. Whether this mom is at fault or the Nyab is at fault, that's not what matters. WHAT matters is the SON!! He's disable, he can't even talk much or better yet, do anything now. I'm sure he would love to have his parents & siblings around before he dies. I'm sure the parents would love to just see their son before he dies too.
What makes you think it's the son's doing if he really is incapable of talking and doing?? Of course it's the Nyab. I'm serious. Some nyab & mother-n- laws are too greedy, selfish, and heartless. Whomever it is, just wait until KARMA bites you back. If the nyab is as innocent as she feels/thinks she is, she wouldn't have put her husband (the son) in solitude!! Yes, it is all about the money, I'm sure. Because no one would be hiding anyone if he/she isn't a greedy, selfish, lying mofo!!
Add niam tij niam ntxawm to that list too. Sometimes they can be more evil than the actual mil.
Agreed! Those who never have an evil sister in law will never understand but forgive them and let karma do its things!
I don't care how many sides there are to this story there's no reason to keep someone’s child away from them especially if they are in this kind of condition. You may not have any love for your in-laws but I hope you have enough love in your heart to have your husband see his parents.
Agree. You should never keep your spouse away from his/her parents nor do you want your spouse to do the same to you.
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What a sad story I heard today…. Yes, there are two sides to every story but taking someone’s child from their mother especially in the son’s condition is pure evil! No ONE WILL EVER LOVE YOU MORE THAN YOUR PARENTS and that’s a FACT!!!
A little message to the NYAB, Sister doesn’t matter how much you detest your in laws, You have NO RIGHT to take their son away especially in that condition… May mentioned you believe in god… If so, God will never teach you evil and hatred. YOU’RE SELFISH, inconsiderate, Abusive, and EVIL!!!! The total opposite of what God would teach you!
Let me tell you something…. KARMA doesn’t take long to happen…. The sky is very low nowadays, what goes around comes around and it comes ten times harder! You have children or specifically a son too and I am very sure you love him unconditionally! Your mother in law is right… back in the days it was harder to raise a child…. She too loves her son unconditionally so send her son back regardless of your selfishness n hatred! Do it for your husband n let him see his parents… depression kill faster than sickness remember that!!!
I don't believe this nyab is a true believer of God. If she is, she would know not to behave this way! God will judge her when her time is up!
Well said 👏 👌 👍
God accept all. Evil or good. As long as you think about, talk about, and/or have God in your heart, you'll be accepted in his Kingdom.
We don’t wish bad and curse no one.
We did heard one story side and quick at conclusion but too many times people don’t knowledge their trespass and abuse the hospitality upon others, I’ve seen too many times and this is the main issue.
Also we forget that they agree to one another in marriage in good and bad to be one until death.
Who are we to say that’s she no child of God ? Have you look yourself lately in the mirror?
Exactly you’re a sinner as well…
@@ouradventuresnspecialmoments agreed! 👍
First sign of abuse, isolating someone from their family. She wants that pay from his job and that life insurance money all to herself.
That’s what I think it comes down to. At least from the outside view. Not sure why the Nyab would be so against his parents caring for him while she’s working.
I also believe this too. Her excuses are not in line with her stress.
If you are under such stress any help is welcome. Her keep taking the son away is a sign of abuse especially if the son is handicap now.
Putting into perspective, she basically kidnapped this mother’s son. How evil and greedy this nyab is.
@@arinalis3130 but why? The parents were there to help take care of him.
There's always two side to a story people always put in good words for themselves, but not to mention what they did wrong as well...we all know what's like especially being a hmong daughter in law...
This is disturbing… No need to hear the Nyab’s side because it is pure evil to prevent your spouse from seeing his family, period. Unless his parents were abusing him, she can’t justify her actions. I would be really angry if someone keeps my child away from me, no matter how old he is. Just speaking from a mother’s POV.
The nyab response to this story go listen. Glad the nyab stand up for her husband which is the son.
I felt bad for the OGs here. But some advice to parents, don’t invest all your eggs into one nest…when you give all you have to just one son and forgets about the other kids, don’t be disappointed if you get nothing back. Typical hmong parents usually only love and cherish the youngest/oldest….the middles ones are forgotten….love all your kids, cherish them and invest in them the same
Peb tsis pw lawv qab txag peb tsis paub tabsis phem zoo los txhob siab phem rau tej laus. Thiab txhob muab lawv cais ntawm lawv tus tub. Peb hlub peb cov li cas ces lawv yeej hlub lawv li tub ib yam nkaus. Nyob tsis taus hauv lub neej nrog lawv lawm ces tawm zoo2 xwb txhob ua plaub ua ntug rog quav deb thiaj tsis raug foom2 nawd. Ua neeg ncaj ncees thiaj tsis muaj kev phem raug rau lub neej rau yav laus.
This story is so one side and make so sense.
Part Two is up from rhe nyab. Go listen
If the son listens to the mother and not his wife then we will criticize him for being a mama's boy but if he listens to his wife and does whatever his wife wants then we label him as a bad son. If you're a mother and your son chose his wife over you then just let them be. You have to understand that there's that one nyab like her in every family.
But in this situation the parent has the right to know the well being of their son. You child will always be your child no matter how old they are. Imagine if the nayb has a son in this situation, she would want to be there for her son as well.
You have the potential to be this evil nyab too
That name alone says a lot about this person and her comment 😆
Tus nyab dab tsi , thiab cov neej tsa dab tsi cas yuav phem ua luaj li. Yog luag yug luag yeej hlub hlub. Koj tus nyab kos mas yuav npam koj.
Yog kawg!
Niam tais aw, txhob tu siab cov neeg siab phem li koj tus nyab no ces muaj ib hnub yeej yuav muaj ib tug los tsim nws xwb os mog. Ua ib siab txhob tos koj tus tub lawm mog.
Evil daughter in law. You will get what you deserve for your pure evilness. Everybody has two sides to their story. But i feel you are keeping him away for money and just straight up hateful. Karma will get you.
Sad story. What a mean Nyab.
Tu siab ua luaj os
Nyab will have her turn when she turn old to be grandma. She just teach her kids no respect to the elderly . Her kids will do the same ask she did to grandma and grandpa.
Some MIL can be cruel but never keep a child from his or her parents. I don’t care about 2 story, but a child is every Mother life.
Nyob zoo os kuv yog dab laug Ntsuab Teev ib tus muam xeem yaj nyob Blog teb nyiam mloog koj cov neej neeg ua ntu zus los hnuub no kuv los tsa ncauj thov koj yog tus mi nyab pab Share wb cov Click VDO thiab os. Vim 2 xyoo los lawm kuv tus nyab mob2 Raum lim ntshav kuv khaub hlab tas lawm os mi nyab thiaj li thov koj os
Idk and idc the drama between the mil and dil. I'm sure both of them aren't good to each other. But since the son is disable, the dil should do the right thing and let the inlaws see their disable son too. Unless she has a letter from the court, or has reasons to believe that the inlaws are a danger to the disabled son, she has no reasons to keep the son hidden away. How would she feels if she has a dil and the dil won't let her see her own son?
Cas tu siab ua luaj os Niam Tais. Thov lub ntuj pab koj tus Tub thiab koj, koj yeej yuav ntsib nws ib hnub xwb
Tus me nyab aw yog koj ntseeg vaj tswv tiag koj yeej muaj vaj tswv nrog koj nyob, koj yeej muaj txoj kev zam lub txim thiab hlub lwm tus thov koj pub Kom koj tus niam pog no tuaj saib nws tus tub mog txawm zoo li cas Los thov koj mog yog koj tsis ua zoo rau tib neeg Los thov koj ua qhov zoo ib zaug rau vaj tswv mog yog koj muaj vaj tswv nrog koj nyob tiag no os tus me nyab aw
There is no need to listen to both side of the story, it’s so obvious that it’s money and evil. In a time like this, both parties should be able to take care of the son and put their different away!
Some people have never experienced a bad mil. Trust me, this is only one side. We don’t know the truth!
Niam tais Aw lub caij nyoog no txhob tos nrog koj tutub ntxawg nyob os.
WOW! What a evil nyab.
I guess she wants her husband for the money. She should be glad his parents want to help care for him too. I hope someone takes one of her kid in the future so she knows how heart breaking it is.
I think the money is her no body going to take the money the money is her and the kids what we talking about is let the parents see they son once a while is enough.
There has to be more to this story. I would love to hear the DiL's side.
Yes we need to hear from both sides of story
Nyab tshob cuab ces zoo li no ntag tiag
We OGs Hmong people need to understand that your daughter in-law is the sole responsibility for your son's well being. He's no longer your responsibility even he's your own fleshing blood. Leave your son n your daughter in-law alone. If you are nice to her she might share you some of the money..how much is her decision. You can not demand $amt. This is why you Hmong people don't draw a line that you only going to stay with the youngest son. In your case you are screwed. Now your other sons won't take you either bcuz you made it cleared that you only stay with younger son. Lesson learned here...
Tutu siab li os
Ua zoo ces yuav tau ntuj ntoo ua phem ces ib hnub twg yuav raug lub ntuj lem tsis dim li
Thov kom vaaj tswv hloov koj tug nyaab lub sab .kuam koj rov nrib koj tug miv tub..
Uacas tu Siab ualauj. Niam tais Kuv Hlub koj mog .
To the Nyab, nothing you say will justify your evilness and cruelty! That is HER SON! I despise any man or woman who isolates their partner from their parents!!!! Period!!!
Tu siab heem os
Cas cov nyab hmoob mes kas muaj cov siab phem li no thiab os siab dub tiag2 li os yom
She hidding him for the 1.3 millions only
Peb ua neej nyob thaum koj muaj koj txij koj nkawm lawm kav txij focuses koj lub neej xwb. Yus yug tau Me tub me nyuam twb loj lawm tag Phem zoo los nws twb mus ua nws ib lub neej. Yus yog niam pog kav txij tu yus tu me txiv tsis txhob mus txhawj txog tej tub tej ntxhais lub neej yus thiaj li tsis muaj kev nyuaj siab nawb mog. But yog yus yog ib tug niam pog siab phem ces yuav pab tsis tau. Kuv yog koj tus nyab los kuv yeej coj ib yam li koj tus nyab thiab vim kuv ntxub ntxub cov niam pog xiam hlwb siab phem.
I think there has to be 2 sides to this story. You have to have a lot of evidence to get a restraining order. You can’t just get one when cause you don’t like a person! I would like to hear her side as well.
As parents we have to let our kids be independent even if it means letting them be on there own. His accident was unfortunate. I’m sure your daughter in law is stressed over her husband also. You shouldn’t try to add to the stress. I know you love your son but sometimes it’s best to just love him from afar. It seems like she’s taking care of him. I hope you all can become one again and let your son be at peace.
It could be two side but by listening to the story sounds like when the daughter in law knows how much much she getting from the incident her husband will be getting she changed and afraid that his parents might take the half of the money.
@@LilyXiongChannel according to this story the MiL and DiL had issues before he had his accident. They both seem to dramatic.
@@lisvaj7375 They can be dramatic but the dil shouldn't do that when she not even taking care of him and his parents are just helping her since she working.
will mother in law should have the right to see her own son or child. We all have kids and hurts to see our child in so pain.
@@lisvaj7375 We all listen to the story. It is the Nyab that is bad, don't need to hear her side of the story. Theres only one reason for the parents to curse her. She is stressed but the parents also hurt. She may find another husband but the parents will never find another son. They all have equal rights on visitations!
@@LilyXiongChannel how you know she’s not taking care of him? Maybe the mom is trying to be queen B. There can only be one Queen B in the hive. The dil could of been like… bye! And left with the money. But she is still there with her husband. The mom needs to chill and take a step back.
Txoj kev npam los ze2 lawm os tus nyab no na
Cov nyab Hmong mekas no yeej zoo li no os. At least she didn’t just abandoned him and left with the money.
Tej zaum yus los yeej g tshua txawj ua niam thiab o yog yus txawj ua niam thiaj tub nyab yeej g lam khiav tawm ntawm yus mus kiag li
very sad story between son and parent .yus ua niam ua txiv yus hlub yus tej menyuam yus muab yus txoj sia pauv los tau tab sis thaum lawv loj hlob laus lawv txoj sia ho muab tso 6 lawv tus partner .tu siab kawg
All Hmong elderlies need to get that old ways out of their mentality. Don’t try to depend on their last son to take care of them. Be independent and you’ll never get abandoned. But this nyab, as much as you dislike the in-laws you should never take him away from his parents and move away and not tell them. No matter what the relationship you should never do that much to your in-laws. And how tf do you just go get a restraining order base off lies? Makes no sense. Some key information are missing. If it is true, this nyab is evil.
Nyab xav tau nyiaj
yeej yuav npam koj niam nyab xwb os thov kom lub ntuj pab kom koj tus tub zoo es cia niag nyab ho raug kev npam
Sister, I’m so sorry for the pain you are going through. This should not have happened, hiding your son who can’t speak for himself from his family. It’s BS that your daughter-in-law’s mother think her daughter is a good person. She needs to teach her daughter to have moral and be a compassionate human being! It’s about the money she’s getting from his accident.
Karma will get her back. What goes around will come around. Nws ua li cas rau koj thiab koj tsev neeg nws yeej yuav tau txais rov qab.
Zoo kawg li os
Ntshe koj tus tub raug kev txom nyem heev li os...koj tus tub twb tsis taus ces koj tus nyab twb tsis hlub nws es ntshe nws txom nyem heev li os koj tus nyab coj koj tus tub ua kom tau nyiaj Rau nws xwb
Not taking any sides, this is the 21st century now, the parents need to get over it. Stop expecting ur kids to stay and care for u. Set them free, stop hovering over them.
Tus niam tsev txhob nyuaj siab thiab os nws twb yug tau ib pab lwm hnub nws yuav taug koj txoj kev los tseem yuav npam loj tshaj os
As a mother of 6 children and a dil, I would never take my mother in law's child away from her. A mother has every right to see her children if she is a good person. Idk what happened but please there's 2 side to a story, please tell your side of the story too NYAB .
Nov yog hmoob tiam 21. Nrog tu siab kawg li os.
Nyab siab phem ce ntawm niam tai yawm txiv qhia nyab siab zoo lo yeej lo ntawm niam txiv qhia 1 yam niam tai zoo ce ntxhai yeej zoo leej twg tau nyab siab phem ce lo ntawm nw niam yug nw xwb o
There’s a modern saying that only our daughters knows to love their parents more than our sons 😅. Y’all don’t know a struggles of a Hmong son in our modern community. This story is an example.
peb yuav tau tso tej tub nyab lawv nyob lawv ua ntej mauj teeb meem tsis txhob coj li yav ntuj qub qab lawm yog siab phem npaum no txhob quav tsej lawm vim cov neej tsa twb tauj tus txhais tog lawm
Parents need to stop relying on the last son, and get it together themselves so their son and daughter in law can have a life of their own. Now a days, save up, stay healthy and don’t depend on your children - it’s a new era. They need their privacy and to build their relationship without parents. Sometimes family is too close for comfort. Everyone matures at different stages so allow that to happen because ultimately family is important. This story sounds very bias and as a nyab, MIL are excellent at playing victim so don’t believe every single word out of the MILs mouth as you know she’s a controlling narcissist who can’t let her son be an adult with his adult wife.
Aws koj hais li ko yog lawm thiab tab sis tus tub twb mob heev lawm tus tub need tus Nyab need nws cov menyuam need nws parents need nws brothers and sisters and nws tej phooj ywg ua ntej nws tso ntiaj teb tseg naj think about yourself you would think that way too.
@@baothao1728 yes, see the nyab’s version just came out and many things the mother left out. The mother plays victim all the time, is over bearing, bossy, controlling. Who wants a MIL like that? Being a nyab I knew something didn’t sound right. It may not be forever that relationship is like this but for now, it’s best because she can take care of her husband without stress or extra toxicity from her MIL.
@@magicalunicorn5853 where can I hear the nyab side?
@@MM-eg8kh it’s in the late June videos. You’ll hear it and it’ll sound familiar.
I know alot of you are criticizing the nyab n sided with the mom but you need to listen to the nyab side's of story..it's 360° difference! I can totally see why she moved away from her mother in-law. I would have probably done the samething too. The nyab's side of the story's title " Teb Niam Pog Cov Lus dated 6-18-22." What she did was a bit extreme but she has a good reason.
Thank you. I'll go listen to her side of the story.
Tus nyab no phem dhau lawm yuav npam nws 9 tiam tom ntej no txawm neb tsis foom los neb muab hais tawm lawm ces lub ntiaj teb no foom xwb ces nws yeej yuav npam xwb 2 mas thiaj tag
Niam poj hmoob ntshe koj yeej phem phem nyaum nyaum rau koj tus nyab es koj tus nyab thiaj li xum kaws rooj rau koj lauv. Koj ua niam pog yuav tsum qhias qhov koj phem phem phem lim lim hiam rau koj tus nyab mas poj hmoob aw.
Tus nyab no yuav tau txais Kev phem mus ib sim neej tus poj niam no yuav txais kev npam los ntawm lub ntuj yuav dam duav li tus tub thiab thaum dam duav lawm thov kom txhob txawj tuag thov thov kom nyob laus laus ntag noj quav Haus zis tag siab mam tu nawb
Wow!! This story makes my blood boil. Regardless what the situation was that made the nyab and mil not getting alone. The nyab has no right to take away the son from his mother. Imagine if you have a son who's doing the same to you, how would you feel?? Remember..what goes around will always come around. Don't be greedy and trying to hide away their son so noone can share your $$$. How selfish you are. You don't have to take away their son. I don't care who's fault was it, but this is going too far. Karma will catch you when you make a mother of the son cried everyday wanted to see her son. So evil!!! No need to hear the other side of story if you already taking away their son. THAT ALREADY EXPLAINS IT ALL!!
It is you son in the first that he want it
There’s always two sides to a story….the son knows that his wife didn’t like the parents. He should’ve gotten rid of her….she’s not worth isolating from his parents. But yet, as parents, have to cut the umbilical cord.
I’m sure that you as the parents are worried and wanted to take care of your son but if he’s willing to go then let him go. Its better to hear from them now and then that he’s fine rather than not hear at all. It’s unfortunate that the accident happened…
The DIL is straight evil for not letting his parents see him…no matter the circumstances. Just pure evilness in this woman.
Every good mother would be willing to use her own life to save her child. No other people can do this, including the wife/daughter in law. Put yourself in the mother’s shoes then you would understand the pain she’s going through.
oh tu nyab no phem tiag2 li os yog kuv hlawv xyab ntawv kiag rau lawm xwb os kuv nas kuv hnov xwb.kuv twb pab mob siab chim siab rau tu nyab nos kawg kiag li nawb
At this point she's in it for the money. She care less. But, we all will all get old. What goes around will come around. One day she will have the same fate.
life doesn't long last forever, do your best for people around you.
Cas yuav ua tau txau ntxub ua luaj os cov niag nyab phem no nas
Pab koj tu siab kawg os tus niam tsev.
This nyab is gonna get it 10x as bad when it’s her turn, smh…….
You need to go and help your other Nyab’s and your other sons. Sound like you only care about your last son. Your other Nyab probably feel sad because you didn’t love them too.
At the beginning of the story she stated this son was sick since birth, that’s why they care so much about him.
Wow! That is just cruel. I can’t even imagine the hurt, pain and helplessness that the parents are experiencing. To know their son isn’t well and have no way of checking in on him every once in a while.
Talk about hell on earth. When you never knew "HELL" was a person. 👀
Wow never thought..u is one mean daughter in law .. what i am understanding is u just keep him alive for his money…
Cia nws tuag nws mus os niam tais yog nws tsis muaj rab peev xwm thiab nws xum tuag ces cia nws tuag nws mus ho qhov ua koj yuav ua tau ces nqa xyab nqa nyawv tawm nraum zoov tam sim no ces yog lawm nawb
This mother is too needy. You need to allow your children to grow and be independent too. You can visit your children but if you over do it your adult child who is independent doesn’t want to see you then it’s their choice. The hmong community is not immune to this where adult children just don’t want to see their parents anymore or are too busy. You as parents need to understand this. You need to back off a little bit.
Nyab yog dev yug
Nyab hmoob meka yeej lim hiam li no leej tau tus nyab zoo li no ma thiaj li paub lwm tu tau xwb ce nej pheej hai tia yog niampog phem thiab dag xwb no sawv daw tau nyab li no nej thiaj li paub tab ov vim kuv twb ntsib tu nyab lim hiam li no kuv thiaj nkag siab koj o
pab hlub koj tus tub xwb os koj tus nyab ces nws ua li cas los lub ntuj mam txiav txim mog txoj kev phem ces yus ua rau yus ris xwb
Can the REAL DEVIL NYAB pls send ur side hahaha 😆 😂
Cas tej nyab no ua dab tsi tsi ntshai kev npam li yus txawj laus thiab os tsam hnub yus laus es yus cov ho ua li no rau yus thiab
Tus me niam tais, kuv muaj ib zaj yuav khws li koj zaj no thiab os…kuv tus tub mus ua thaib ham thaum nws nem qhuav muaj 19 xyoos es twb yuav tau 10 xyoo no, pg mev muab nws khoo tsis pub rov los saib peb li lawm xyov nws tuag lawm los ciaj li os…tu siab tshaj li os
I get it that there are many sides the story...but it's just wrong for the DIL to keep the son isolated...so evil and wanting all that money to herself karma will get to her
Listening to the story, tus nyab los phem, niam pog los yeej phem ib yam. Not taking sides. 🤷🏻🤦🏻♀️
Nyab xwb os tu phem niam pogyiasyug yias yeej hlubzz os
@@alongalong7995 whieranner... ib hnub twg koj tus nyav yuav phem rau koj... koj mam paub... tiam no.. cov nyab yeej phem tshaj.... cov nyab phem ib los ob.. police xwb... puas yog neeg zoo.... xav zoo mam hais... kev khaum kev npam nyob ze ze... phooj ywg...
Such a disturbing story. That wife is so evil. Smh
Ntuj qe qe lawm kawg npam sai2 no xwb os
Wow tus nyab no cas siab phem ua luaj. Koj yuav hla tsis dhau txoj kev foom los ntawm leej niam leej txiv. Fact: No matter how much we love our spouses, his or her parents love him/her more!! If the curse is coming from the parents, there's no way to prevent it. My advice for the nyab is to return the son, or allow the in laws to visit the son and have them retreat all the curse words. Time is ticking!
Agreed 💯
I agree one day all her kids do the same to you tus nyab siab phem
This woman very stp I can't believe that she did that.
Thaum ub mas yus ua npam yus tej me nyuam tab si tiam tshiab no ntuj ncaj 2 lawm leej twg ua ces npam leej twg lawm xwb
As a nyab, yes, you don't have to like your in-laws for whatever reasons you got towards them, but never stop them from seeing their child. I never stopped my man from going to visit his family nor stop them from coming to my place. I don't even get a long with his side, I just fake a smile, be a nyab, and deal with them until they leave.
Tus nyab no phem heev.
Wow! Kav liam los mas. Nyab ua txaum txij twg ces tso ntuj txiav txim txij li ntawv.
Ua neeg nyob ntuj yeej tsim tus neeg phem phem, tus neeg zoo zoo. Yus hmoov phem ncaj tus neeg phem ces yus raug tsim txom siab ntsws. Qhov tseeb tim niam txiv phem. Yog tsev neej tsa zoo ces lawv yeej khoo tau lawv tus neeg. Vim tsev neej tsa yog ib tsev neej tsa phem, lawv thiaj tsis hais lawv tus neeg.
Thaum koj mus sab laj nrog niam txiv es lawv hais tias thaum lawv tus neeg nrog lawv nyob yeej zoo zoo. Qhov no ces qhia tau li cas rau nej lawm. Txawm yus yuav nco yus tus neeg npaum twg los yuav tau xav tias tuag lawm.
Ib tus nyab lub siab phem txog qhov muab yus sib cai. Ces tsis tag yuav li os.
Hmong mas cov phem los phem tshaj li thiab aww...
Neb tus nyab no cov neej tsa los yuav npam nrog lawv niag muam poj dab ib yam nkaus
Xa paub qhov tseeb ces kom tus tub los hais tus hais tias li yog qhov tseeb xwb os yog niam pog hais los niam pog qhuas niam pog zoo hos cia nyab hais los nyab qhuas nyab qhov zoo Yuav tsum kom tus tub los hais tus tub thiaj li tsis dag os
Yog vim li cas txoj kev npam kev phem ho tsis raug rau tus neeg ua phem siab phem es ho yuav raug rau tus neeg tsis muaj peev Xwm tsis muaj txoj cai los hlub niam hlub txiv. Muab xav los mas tu siab kawg li.
Evil 😈 nyab that's all I can say. If the son is capable or normal then it's up to him but at that stage please let his parents be with him too. He need love and support from his parents and siblings.
muaj ib txia nyab xam maim no phem heev li tsis hais nyob lub teb chaws twg li os
Yog neb ua tau ces thaum twg nws tuag ces tsis txhob quav ntsej cia seb tus nyab no yuav muab hau noj los nws yuav muab ua li cas. Tsis txhob tusiab mog vim txoj hmoo. Txawm li cas los cia lub ntuj mam txiav txim rau tus nyab no xwb os.
Koj tus nyab yeej yuav npam mog pab hlub koj kawg
tu nyab ko siab phem tiag tab sia tiam 21 - 22. No lub nyuj nyob qi qi li lawm leeg twg ua kev npam ce yeej yuav tau txai tiag2 li yeej tsi dim txoj kev npam ntawd kiag li