Carly Pearce, Ashley McBryde - Never Wanted To Be That Girl (Official Music Video)
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- Опубліковано 2 лис 2021
- Official music video for Carly Pearce and Ashley McBryde's "Never Wanted To Be That Girl". Listen here: CarlyPearce.lnk.to/NWTBTGVD
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Music video by Carly Pearce, Ashley McBryde performing Never Wanted To Be That Girl. © 2021 Big Machine Label Group, LLC
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The best song to ever describe two sides of hurt I've ever heard.
❤❤❤
Stay by Sugarland was pretty good at telling both sides, but I do like this song better!
Does he love you by Reba is that! This comes close tho
Does He Love You by Reba McEntire & Linda Davis (1993) is the best at that
Definitely
Can we just talk about their acting performance in this? Those were tears of real pain...Lord have mercy my heart just broke!
Right?!
Totally felt every emotion in this song 🎶
I can so relate. You know it's great music when it pulls at your soul, tears in my eyes.
@Yogi Bear It touched my soul, it's not the genre that counts it's the feelings the song draws out.
@Yogi Bear No problem. Everyone should have their opinion heard. I am just an old Hippie (Bellamy Bros) and trying to enjoy life. Peace.
Ladies just won a Grammy for this song, well deserved, great song great artists
🎉🎉Awesome!!!!😮😮
A song with a story line, real instruments, real human emotion -- this is what makes country music great.
“I never wanted to hate myself” is such a heartbreakingly beautiful line
My favorite line in the entire song!!! This song is the little sister of does he love you!!!
I agree 100%
No little girl ever fantasizes about spending night after night blaming herself for being an idiot, that's for sure.
Especially because in these situations society always blames and chastises the woman.
Absolutely Jenna.
Now THAT'S Country Music: Three chords and the Truth!!! Cheers to you, Carly and Ashley; you got yourselves a hit!!!
Who is this song about
@@alexismasker8179 ssw
Thanks for your love and support I appreciate how long have you been a fan?
@@financialwolfprivate for a while
Ashley and Carly - your voices blend so beautifully on this song. PLEASE do more duets together! Thanks for the music!
I agree
@@brendamason6405 hello Brenda, how are you doing today, hope you’re fine and safe from the Virus??
@trevorjennings721, ummm, what the hell creep
When you happy you enjoy the beat when you sad you understand the lyrics 😢
I never thought I would ever be that girl 😭😭 neither did I want to
This generation’s version of “Does He Love You”. Both are great! I Love love love Carly.
And I love both these wonderful ladies. Sing girls as you did.
My thoughts exactly!
Ohhh yeah good analogy!
lol I said the same thing.
I never thought of it that way but you're right
It's crazy how almost a decade and intense healing makes you forget the mindset you had when you go through this situation... but a few lyrics in and it all came back
I will never stop trying to grow past that trauma. I am so incredibly blessed to have found a man I can trust wholeheartedly. I'm a better person a little more every day with help, and the broken girl I used to be is nothing but a memory now ❤️
If you're going through this, I promise it gets better. Get away from them, block them, and learn to love yourself before you find love in another
This is what happens when two female powerhouses collaborate together. Awesome song guys. 👊👊💯
I love this song. I’ve been “that” girl. I’m trying to heal from it. He was married and I was devastated, I still am. But I am slowly finding myself again. Don’t be that girl ladies walk away and know your worth! :)
Amen! Make him earn the right to be in your orbit!
yes I to was that girl it's not easy
Stick together ladies - no betraying another woman!❤️💙💜🧡
Dont feel like it your fault ladies, It's always the mans fault and we should embrace it, cant hold women accountable, they just do things.
Nope...the "fault card" can be divided between both...definitely if she knows he was/is married! Yes, he is the one with the commitment...but if she is aware of it, then she is no better than him bc she is helping him break his vows, helping him lie to his wife & family, helping him be deceitful & manipulative so that they can spend time together.
In essence, she is helping him strip away his wife's agency of knowing the truth so she can decide if she even WANTS to remain in a marriage with a cheating, lying, sneaking, skulking man who is almost certainly exposing her & their innocent children to sexually transmitted diseases!
So yes, at the end of the day...the "other woman" (unless she is unaware of his marriage) is just as deceitful and rotten as the cheating husband...no ifs/ands/or buts about it!! If she KNOWS he IS married...it does not matter how "mean" he claims his wife is, doesn't matter how "lazy" he claims his wife is, nor how she "won't cook & won't clean house", it doesn't matter if he swears they "sleep in separate beds/rooms", and he can't leave because she's "suicidal", or because "he can't leave u til the kids are older"....if a man stays with his wife and cheats on her with other women, he is never going to divorce his wife for the other woman...he'll find a million excuses not to..he wants his cake~and eat it too!!
Women who do not know the man was married are innocent & generally get out of the situation ASAP!! But women who knowingly fool around with a married man...get everything they deserve (not near enough, not really compared to the suffering & breakdown of the family).
I stand 110% strong in my belief that a cheating husband and the woman he cheats with (if she is aware of his marriage status)....even with the litany of little boy excuses he gives her, are equally corrupt and equally guilty, and deserve eachother & the putrid, distrustful, lonely, suspicious, unloving, short life they live together.
It just is what is is....lies, lies, and more lies can only get you so far in the real world...everything has to come out of the dark & into the sun sooner or later.....
Carly and Ashley are two relatively new artists who are actually making good COUNTRY music these days. No drum loops and finger snap beats with them and thank God lol. Big 90’s female country throwback vibes with these two ladies 🔥
100% agree mate! Isn’t it great stuff!!!!
It's like a breath of fresh air. I'm stoked for these 2 artists and I pray they never stray. Carlys new album is 100%
100% agree. Pure country. Most of these new ones trying to be the next big pop sellout like Taylor Swift or trying to make country hip hop
@@MorrisBranch-jf6dq u mean “hick hop” ? Yes, I agree with your comment 100% !!
Perfectly said! We need these girls reminds me of trisha ..Sara ...martina...reba...carrie...miranda...Shania...Terri Clark..jodee Messina...Leeann Womack and rymes...Cheryl Wright...the lynns...the chicks...shedaisy...Pam tillis..patty loveless!!❤❤
to all the girls out there all you have to do is sing and have fun
Ashley McBride is the BEST thing to happen to country music in a while. LOVE HER VOICE!
I Agree!! 💯💯💯💯💯💖💖💖
Just saw her last night at the Surf ballroom in Iowa
Saw her in Dublin two weeks ago. Her voice is exquisite.
me to
Thanks for your love and support I appreciate how long have you been a fan?
Forget bout the Collab, the story of the song is common but the way the lyrics is going, it's sooo unique
The best collab ever
I knew this was going to be good...Carly Pearce and Ashley McBryde are two of the best in the business and they sound amazing together. Can't wait to see them on the CMA awards.
I agree they both sounded fantastic singing together. Loved the song. You go ladies.
I’m living this right now unfortunately 💔
@@heatheremmick6081 😢😢😢
Both their career were launched from newcomer's to legends.
I have never felt so deep in a song. And I am a man. I truly felt the pain in this song. I have been down this road. And I love this song. Thank you
Powerful song! There are SO many women who don't know they are the "other woman"
When I was being cheated on my first question was does she know you're married? Then I answered my own question "it doesn't matter if she knows YOU KNOW, you're MARRIED "!
I'm still looking for a man who will tell the truth & I'm 60 years old
Keep looking 'cause he's out there. After 20 years of being cheated on I walked out with NOTHING. Best decision ever. Got my head straightened out, went online (that "e" thing) and met a fabulous man. We will celebrate our 10th wedding anniversary this July...on the same day as my 70th birthday.
@@standupbroad6648 I met my better half on the interweb, we celebrated 7 years last month, it took me 50 years to meet her and will spend the rest of my life with her.
Love makes you do crazy loving things ❤️ you normally would not begin to think of doing. Then reality hits and the tears do not stop and the blame grows in your heart.
Great we'll writton song...love the concept.
I hope we continue to be friends. Crying too much to save things so can you save them for me please. Baby 1 will always love you you know that. Forever and always. My brilliant handsome love sooo sexy so loving.. You aremy love forever.
This song is so healing for those who have been cheated on. Makes you feel not alone 🙏🏼 and love how they portrayed the two women, flashing back to when they were children ugh! Beautifully done. Made me cry!
This song needs way more attention.
I love the blend of your voices. Harmonies are tight. Two truly gifted ladies... Thank you for this....
This song personifies how women such as Princess Diana, Sandra Bullock etc probably felt. They were/are beautiful, wonderful, accomplished women whose value was totally disregarded by the one who swore in front of God & millions of people, to love her, honor her.
If you are in this situation?
Leave!
No one is worth going through this much anguish.
So sorry for the infringe on your privacy. Beautiful song. How are you?
I like how this song portrays the mistress as someone who didn't want to be a mistress. Of course, both women are blaming themselves, when it's his fault.
I was in this situation from both points of view... 😪
@@cyndisells3810 sorry to hear that
It's always the mans fault and we should embrace it, cant hold women accountable, they just do things.
@@cyndisells3810 me too for 13 years and I was only 18 yrs old when it happened to me. I had just had a newborn baby that was premature only 2 pounds 6 oz. And I was a single mother as well. He had a wife and 2 children but kept that s secret for 9 years untill i finally figured it out and even after I had known about his wife he still convinced me to stay with him for another 6 years or so until I had to break things off with him once I knew the truth because I'm a Christian and I couldn't live with myself knowing that he had a wife, That took a huge huge toll on my entire life . And still to this day it affected my relationships and I was completely innocent I was just a baby I had no idea he was 17 years older than me by the way huge betrayal really broke my heart as devastating anyhow to women that have to go through such things as this I wish I could say there's light at the end of the time for me there hasn't been he was so good to me that's the crazy thing I haven't found somebody to be to treat me as well as he did but was great about it that he treated me great and respectfully or that he lied to me so either way it's a loss I'm 42 years old now still single and don't even know how to pursue a relationship with anyone
@@mindvision123 You’re wrong about that, women are not always the victim in it, there are some that do this to see how far they can get .
Wow they really do write songs that hurt!! This is so powerful and simple at same time.
Hello Kaitlin..
Damn you’re so right!!!!
I've never been the guy with the other girl. But I crank this up every time it plays. Two absolutely amazing voices ❤️❤️
You don’t want to be. You’d be risking your life. For what? Spread the word to the men of NO INTEGRITY.
Brings back emotions of being that guy found out after 3 months she was married
Ya, the memories...of finding out she was married after she moved in. To all the guys who didn't want to be that guy and to all the girls who didn't want to be that girl 🍻
Thanks to him I'll never know which one I was.
This is a great song, love the music video!
clay 💕💕
Ashley n clay let’s get a duet
Yeah really powerful. Exceptional work.
I really went from having a crush on clay walker 30 years ago to understanding this song so well. God it feels like hell
Are you really Clay Walker?
Wow this is so Good Ashley when Eric introduced you I knew he was sharing a real Artist .Carly you are Amazing as Well .Keep those songs Coming!!!
I love these two ladies together. Wow just amazing. Their voices are astonishing..country music and all of us needed these two young ladies. Go girlys. ❤❤❤i am a big fan of ashleys and carlys ..💯💯💯 ladies nobody ever wants to be that girl. 😢 but sometimes it happens though. Please know your worth queens.
One of the best songs I've heard in a long while. Raw, honest, and so many feels. So incredibly well written.
sure so powerful and emotional just about life the hurts and other. how do you see this song?
Hello 👋 How are you! I trust you’re having a good day ❤️
Trust your a good fan of country songs, am also a lover of country songs, how often do you listen to them ? We could share, what do you think?
Sending you love 💕.Are you single ??
I agree with you! I totally understand it and get it.
First time I heard this song, I was hooked. The words are spot on as the tears flow. Carly & Ashley sound so good!
Me too
These two sing perfect harmony. They should do more songs together.
Powerful song that shines the light on the pain from both sides and nobody wins😢
Hi Tammy
Who else is playing this song on repeat?
Me hehe it’s great one
Me🙋🏻♀️
Meeeeeee :)
Love this song! Carly Pierce and Ashley McBryde are so amazing together on this song.
Me dor days now NY husband uses to like the song lol
This song is probably the best Bop of the year, Finally some real country.
Alot have lived it,If married leave him.or her alone because it comes home.R u gonna rush it.If they aren't happy at home they will divorce Believe nothing else ,TRUE words Spoken?*** Only a fool will.!***
I've been that girl and knew it....but still stayed. How messed up is that?
@@shorebabe2011 So have I. 🥺
@@shorebabe2011 I’ve been both :/
Please don't throw such a statement out. It's disrespectful to the countless other working artists out there that have been releasing legit, red dirt, old school country music all year long.
As a man this song hits home way harder than it should. May we all find peace
Very powerful song! I can relate in so many ways. I feel stupid, I feel cheap.... I thought I knew who I was... Powerful words!
Sending you love 💕.Are you single ??
Sending you Hugs 🤗
None of us ever want to be that girl. But eventually we all run into the very situation she is singing about in this beautiful song!
I'm sure many of us can relate to this song. 🥺
The ones that make excuses like my mama used to do is an amazing line. Then shows her mom and dad leaving 😭💔
Hello Kristen 👋 how are you doing today, hope you’re having a great day??
Sending you love 💕.Are you single ??
That's a really nice song . I'm sure many ladies can relate to it and I'm sorry for you all if some of you had been hurt just like this song describes it .
Okay I loved it way to go Carly Pearce and Ashley McBryde
I love Ashley McBride so much and this was a great duet for them both. Now this is country! Play them girl singers, they are the best!
Hello Cindy..
Ashley is the best. Love them both
Youngsters should listen before falling for a married man and going through that heartache. Carly sang it and it really touched me and I could feel the pain who may have gone through that hell
I love country music and it's amazing how a lot of people think it's wired for an african to be so much in love with country music!🤣😂
I've been in both situations, and neither is easy to deal with. This song is brilliant!
Hello there Crystal nice meeting you here
It's just as hard for the married man that finds out he is the other one.
Carly Pearce and Ashley McBride! Just don't get any better than that. Great song ladies!
Carly, Ashley, THIS IS SO GOOD!!
Hello thanks for your comment and supports, your comments and constant support has brought me this far, keep supporting ❤️
This song is fire
I can relate to this song on so many levels. Such a beautiful job ladies. I can't stop playing this song. I seriously love this video as well.
I love this song. Can relate to it too. I've watched the video now 3 times.
I agree so do I. I am still healing an dealing. I was stupid enough to keep myself in the relationship many years later finally ended it. Back in 2019.
Sending you love 💕.Are you single ??
Been on both sides of this and both hurt. The lies and deceptions as if neither of us would ever find out. That kind of man is not worth my time!
I rarely listen to this kind of country, but this song is so well-written and well-done!
One, these two are amazing singing together. They favor one another and mesh well. Second, I've sat in both those seats, and neither are comfortable to sit in when you find out you are sitting there. When you finally find your true self, it's amazing. Thank you to both these ladies for this song. :)
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I’m glad I prayed all those years ago to never feel the need to be with anyone else while being devoted to only one. I’m 35 with two baby mommas who cheated on me even after children and I never did them the same. You won’t lie if you never commit the crime.
That last shot. The power that that has!
Honestly I did not expect this song would have won a Grammy as other fellow nominees in the category are the strong contenders. Anyway congratulations for winning it, and you two did the best collaboration with your vocals. And I like the song.
This is a really great song who tells that both women can be hurt so much and find everything to blame themselves while it wasn't their fault because they both didn't know about it.
Hello Patricia.. how are you doing?
Modern day “Does He Love You”. My mother was that girl and then I became that girl. I was sooo much better without him though… but when kids are involved it hurts like hell😢
Thought this exactly
hi Melinda, how those it feel can you please share?
With Ashley being dressed in black and Carly dressed in white; it gives this picture of grief and anger yet hope and healing. The song is beautiful in a difficult kind of way.
I married a man 15 years ago and thought he was my forever, until one day he found someone else. I was left with no job, 2 beautiful children and a broken home. I never wanted to be the girl who hated herself because of a man, but slowly each day I'm learning to love myself again and rebuild a beautiful life ❤️
Two Beautiful women making a Number 1 Song !!!
Don't "be" that girl. Just walk away. The heart heals easily; the soul doesn't.
*whooosh*
Both these ladies have that old school country twang like Chris Stapleton. Love it.
I Love You Ashley McBryde
This song is perfect.
Wow!! Just Wow! A song that’s real.
great song, great video, this is the country i want on the radio
exactly. If we had more Carly Pearce, Clay Walker and Cody Johnson on the radio it would not be as bad as it is right now. unfortunately they only play aldean and walker hayes
405🕹️🤠👨👩👦👦🛣️🎂@@thehigwaytravel6764
Unfortunately she completely stole the music from Highway Don’t Care by Tim McGraw with this song.
Been there sucks being the other one when there's another one
Same😔
So nice to hear a true duet, instead of calling it one when like 3 lines are sang by another. And both these women can really sing, so it makes it so much better and they blend so well..
I've been an Ashley McBryde superfan for years and now I'm happy to add Carley Pierce. The acting in this video was great! Ashley has the most expressive eyebrows! Watch her "One Night Standards" video (heck watch the entire trilogy "One Night Standards," "Martha Divine," and "Hang in There Girl." Well done ladies!!!!
@Carly Pearce community love this song girl, I totally know how it feels, it sure hurts, but glad I have a good one now and won’t ever have to feel that hurt again! I also love the video too! Great job both of you!
I hear angels singing!..................................................
This song hurts ALOT ❤
Both of you should be so proud of where you are and you are REAL country THANK YOU XOXO
Love you beautiful ladies, with ONE being my Anterior EAGLE. Me and God think you all are the best!
This song is absolutely amazing portraying what some people feel on either end of an affair as the other woman and as a spouse or significant other. I've been on both sides not knowing the man was married and being in relationships with men who have cheated. It never feels good no matter which side you're on and these women sing about what it's like. Amazing!
"And I will set My tabernacle among you; and My soul will not abhor you." (Leviticus 26:11)
Recovery Version
This…. Almost feel like you stop breathing right? I remember hearing Carly’s voice for the first time and just absolutely falling in love with it. This duo is like bourbon and butter. So sophisticated and smooth. I don’t know weather to courtesy or bow to you, these days can be confusing. 🔥🔥🔥
*whether. you curtsy if you are a lady. bow if male. i find hope in the very fact that i got to explain. nobody cares about having decent manners anymore. although you could say that curtsies and bows are relics and unnecessary but it will never hurt for you to have knowledge of how to conduct yourself well.
Sending you love 💕.Are you single ??
Hope you are good today ?
Talk about the sad side of love; so heartfelt. What an awesome written and performed song.
perfection from both
AMEN! BEAUTIFUL!❤
CMA's:Miss Ashley is that bff I never knew I needed. She's an OG 😍
Wow. Heard this song for the first time today while working in my shop. Made me stop and just listen. What a great country melody. Love it. Thanks
I really hope and ya'll will one of many days too come write a song of us faithful guys searching and waiting faithfully for her😊😇🥰😍😍🤩
Being the other one when there’s another one god this feels like hell , those lyrics hit hard
Carley Pearce and Ashley McBryde what a great song , and CMA Awards was awesome !! Keep them coming!
Awesome collaboration with Ashley!!!!! The harmonies are so amazing as you both traverse this wonderful song!!!!!❤ Thanks for sharing this excellent gift!!!!!!!
I lived this song thirty when I was only a young girl. I married very young at sixteen, those were the worst year’s of my life… the only good that came from that marriage was my two handsome boys.
I left after five years, I figured if I’m miserable with this man, I can live miserable alone but one difference… I’ll have hope, and peace. I left and never looked back.
I came home, went to work part time and to school. Leaving was the best thing I have ever done. I could have never made it without my parent’s and family.
I didn’t bother dating in those five year’s, I needed time for my children and to heal. I prayed daily and asked God for this…
Lord, if you send me a man who loves you, will love me as I love him, faithful, hardworking and will accept my children as though they were his… I will serve you with my whole heart.
Five years later, December 31/88 on New Year’s Eve, I met the man God had for me. We’ve been married now for thirty three year’s and more in love now than when we met.
He is everything I prayed for and more! He is patient, kind hearted and love’s my boy’s as if they were his. He considers them his boy’s. My boy’s call him Dad and consider him Dad as well. Their father chose not to be a part of their lives. I say chose because I never kept them from him. That is something I would never do!
He raised, them to taught them everything a Dad teaches his son’s. How to ride bikes, fix car’s, swim, fish and when it was time how to drive. He also taught them other thing’s like camping and how to be honest, hard working men and most importantly how to be good and honest.
So if any woman is that girl… make a decision are you going to settle, or move on and know it will work out… it’s up to you and hard work. Know this… with out God you will be walking alone and blind. But, with God you will never be alone and I promise you, he will walk with you, guide you, and open doors that may be closed… God will Open doors and give you the grace, strength and courage to walk Boldly through them!
God Bless “That girl.” 👼😻🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Great Testimony sister, life throws us curve balls, glad God put the right person in your life. Amen
These two ladies have such beautiful voices! Just good country music!!!
Okay their voices go SO well together!! I love the richness and maturity in their voices.
Man, oh, man how fitting this song is for the relationship I just went through.
Wow man what a powerful song lord have mercy wow
Simple music can make you sing, a simple hug can make you feel, better, simple things can make you happy, I hope my simple hello will put a smile on your face..
Growing up I always thought love was a fairy tale now all I know is that it hurts , it breaks you it makes you someone you never wanted to be.
For sure. 😢
Love this heartfelt collaboration of lyrics, vocals, and emotions! This is a storytelling- pure country duet-none of us ever wanted to be “that girl”! 💔
Love you 2 together! It is a beautiful song with unfortunate message.. Been on hoth sides and neither are a good feeling.
This song is so beautifully raw and honest.
It's like the story of someone who was once an innocent child and never wanted to be used by a boy everyone deserves to find the right kinda love 😘😘 I feel these lyrics in my soul
Hello Tashina, how are you doing today, hope you’re fine and safe from the virus??
I love this song. This happens more than anyone knows.
Hello there Belinda nice meeting you here
More than anyone admits.
Same here, love the song! How are you doing ?
All I can say is 🙌🏻 🙌🏻❣️🔥