I married a man 15 years ago and thought he was my forever, until one day he found someone else. I was left with no job, 2 beautiful children and a broken home. I never wanted to be the girl who hated herself because of a man, but slowly each day I'm learning to love myself again and rebuild a beautiful life ❤️
I hate to hear that! Makes me sick and sad for you! I pray you find another man to treat you like a woman should be treated, loved, arguing about money and trying to survive but together, working together! Not being disrespectful to your children's father but that's no man! A real man would come to you and say he don't want to be together not go behind his wife's back and sleep with another woman! I pray you find someone to treat you with the love and respect you deserve and you and your little ones are making it OK!
Just know this that no woman should shed any tears for any man, especially when he just that easily walked out of your life w/o any explanations. Just know that God made a decision for you, which that decision that he made was to make you into a stronger person. Enjoy your time of being single, get to know yourself, and when God is ready and so are you, he will send you someone who will want to be with you and your little ones, people like him don't deserve nothing less, you remember you didn't lose anything unlike him he lost a family.
This is a really great song who tells that both women can be hurt so much and find everything to blame themselves while it wasn't their fault because they both didn't know about it.
It's crazy how almost a decade and intense healing makes you forget the mindset you had when you go through this situation... but a few lyrics in and it all came back I will never stop trying to grow past that trauma. I am so incredibly blessed to have found a man I can trust wholeheartedly. I'm a better person a little more every day with help, and the broken girl I used to be is nothing but a memory now ❤️ If you're going through this, I promise it gets better. Get away from them, block them, and learn to love yourself before you find love in another
This song personifies how women such as Princess Diana, Sandra Bullock etc probably felt. They were/are beautiful, wonderful, accomplished women whose value was totally disregarded by the one who swore in front of God & millions of people, to love her, honor her. If you are in this situation? Leave! No one is worth going through this much anguish.
I love this song. I’ve been “that” girl. I’m trying to heal from it. He was married and I was devastated, I still am. But I am slowly finding myself again. Don’t be that girl ladies walk away and know your worth! :)
Nope...the "fault card" can be divided between both...definitely if she knows he was/is married! Yes, he is the one with the commitment...but if she is aware of it, then she is no better than him bc she is helping him break his vows, helping him lie to his wife & family, helping him be deceitful & manipulative so that they can spend time together. In essence, she is helping him strip away his wife's agency of knowing the truth so she can decide if she even WANTS to remain in a marriage with a cheating, lying, sneaking, skulking man who is almost certainly exposing her & their innocent children to sexually transmitted diseases! So yes, at the end of the day...the "other woman" (unless she is unaware of his marriage) is just as deceitful and rotten as the cheating husband...no ifs/ands/or buts about it!! If she KNOWS he IS married...it does not matter how "mean" he claims his wife is, doesn't matter how "lazy" he claims his wife is, nor how she "won't cook & won't clean house", it doesn't matter if he swears they "sleep in separate beds/rooms", and he can't leave because she's "suicidal", or because "he can't leave u til the kids are older"....if a man stays with his wife and cheats on her with other women, he is never going to divorce his wife for the other woman...he'll find a million excuses not to..he wants his cake~and eat it too!! Women who do not know the man was married are innocent & generally get out of the situation ASAP!! But women who knowingly fool around with a married man...get everything they deserve (not near enough, not really compared to the suffering & breakdown of the family). I stand 110% strong in my belief that a cheating husband and the woman he cheats with (if she is aware of his marriage status)....even with the litany of little boy excuses he gives her, are equally corrupt and equally guilty, and deserve eachother & the putrid, distrustful, lonely, suspicious, unloving, short life they live together. It just is what is is....lies, lies, and more lies can only get you so far in the real world...everything has to come out of the dark & into the sun sooner or later.....
@@annuallyannual9444 How do you know if he's the one cheating and that they are cheating on him, or do you think that only men cheat, because women also do it and a lot, the only difference is that many men keep quiet and don't say anything unlike women who will talk it over with her best friend's
Alot have lived it,If married leave him.or her alone because it comes home.R u gonna rush it.If they aren't happy at home they will divorce Believe nothing else ,TRUE words Spoken?*** Only a fool will.!***
Please don't throw such a statement out. It's disrespectful to the countless other working artists out there that have been releasing legit, red dirt, old school country music all year long.
Carly and Ashley are two relatively new artists who are actually making good COUNTRY music these days. No drum loops and finger snap beats with them and thank God lol. Big 90’s female country throwback vibes with these two ladies 🔥
Perfectly said! We need these girls reminds me of trisha ..Sara ...martina...reba...carrie...miranda...Shania...Terri Clark..jodee Messina...Leeann Womack and rymes...Cheryl Wright...the lynns...the chicks...shedaisy...Pam tillis..patty loveless!!❤❤
I knew this was going to be good...Carly Pearce and Ashley McBryde are two of the best in the business and they sound amazing together. Can't wait to see them on the CMA awards.
I like how this song portrays the mistress as someone who didn't want to be a mistress. Of course, both women are blaming themselves, when it's his fault.
@@cyndisells3810 me too for 13 years and I was only 18 yrs old when it happened to me. I had just had a newborn baby that was premature only 2 pounds 6 oz. And I was a single mother as well. He had a wife and 2 children but kept that s secret for 9 years untill i finally figured it out and even after I had known about his wife he still convinced me to stay with him for another 6 years or so until I had to break things off with him once I knew the truth because I'm a Christian and I couldn't live with myself knowing that he had a wife, That took a huge huge toll on my entire life . And still to this day it affected my relationships and I was completely innocent I was just a baby I had no idea he was 17 years older than me by the way huge betrayal really broke my heart as devastating anyhow to women that have to go through such things as this I wish I could say there's light at the end of the time for me there hasn't been he was so good to me that's the crazy thing I haven't found somebody to be to treat me as well as he did but was great about it that he treated me great and respectfully or that he lied to me so either way it's a loss I'm 42 years old now still single and don't even know how to pursue a relationship with anyone
I’m glad I prayed all those years ago to never feel the need to be with anyone else while being devoted to only one. I’m 35 with two baby mommas who cheated on me even after children and I never did them the same. You won’t lie if you never commit the crime.
I love these two ladies together. Wow just amazing. Their voices are astonishing..country music and all of us needed these two young ladies. Go girlys. ❤❤❤i am a big fan of ashleys and carlys ..💯💯💯 ladies nobody ever wants to be that girl. 😢 but sometimes it happens though. Please know your worth queens.
One, these two are amazing singing together. They favor one another and mesh well. Second, I've sat in both those seats, and neither are comfortable to sit in when you find out you are sitting there. When you finally find your true self, it's amazing. Thank you to both these ladies for this song. :)
I agree so do I. I am still healing an dealing. I was stupid enough to keep myself in the relationship many years later finally ended it. Back in 2019.
This song is so healing for those who have been cheated on. Makes you feel not alone 🙏🏼 and love how they portrayed the two women, flashing back to when they were children ugh! Beautifully done. Made me cry!
So nice to hear a true duet, instead of calling it one when like 3 lines are sang by another. And both these women can really sing, so it makes it so much better and they blend so well..
@@JessicaDault-ov9gr When I learned the man I'd been living with for six months had a fiancee in another city, I thought my reverse mistress situation was totally unique, then I heard this song I basically broke down the first time hearing it
exactly. If we had more Carly Pearce, Clay Walker and Cody Johnson on the radio it would not be as bad as it is right now. unfortunately they only play aldean and walker hayes
With Ashley being dressed in black and Carly dressed in white; it gives this picture of grief and anger yet hope and healing. The song is beautiful in a difficult kind of way.
This song has definitely TOUCHED me every time especially going through a rough time. What a beautiful song. Y’all are so INCREDIBLY AMAZING and love both your music so much! ❤️
Simple music can make you sing, a simple hug can make you feel, better, simple things can make you happy, I hope my simple hello will put a smile on your face..😊
Had a girl send me this song to tell me I was not his forever.... she had no idea we had built a life together until she found out... this song still hits home to me everytime I hear it... should have listened and moved forward than... 2 years later and I lost him again.. forever. .
Youngsters should listen before falling for a married man and going through that heartache. Carly sang it and it really touched me and I could feel the pain who may have gone through that hell
Hello!!! How are you doing today, please pardoned me for intruding into your privacy but I just wanted to know if you're a fan ? Have a great day.. Stay Safe
Yes...both sides are victims...the mistress had no idea he was married (unlike some women who "go after married men"...great song...such raw hurt and emotion...true country, unlike some of the crap on the radio...this "country Rap" drives me insane..
@@christinemerlino5313 That’s why I love country music. And you’re right in this one neither one knows about the other. So it’s not like they deliberately committed adultery. Like my ex-husband’s now ex wife did to me.
Thank you UA-cam for showing me this song and Carly as an artist. Can’t stop listening to her songs 😍. Don’t really listen to country but this girl can sing, such a nice tone with great lyrics
This song is absolutely amazing portraying what some people feel on either end of an affair as the other woman and as a spouse or significant other. I've been on both sides not knowing the man was married and being in relationships with men who have cheated. It never feels good no matter which side you're on and these women sing about what it's like. Amazing!
Ya, the memories...of finding out she was married after she moved in. To all the guys who didn't want to be that guy and to all the girls who didn't want to be that girl 🍻
Simple music can make you sing, a simple hug can make you feel, better, simple things can make you happy, I hope my simple hello will put a smile on your face..
Powerful song! There are SO many women who don't know they are the "other woman" When I was being cheated on my first question was does she know you're married? Then I answered my own question "it doesn't matter if she knows YOU KNOW, you're MARRIED "! I'm still looking for a man who will tell the truth & I'm 60 years old
Keep looking 'cause he's out there. After 20 years of being cheated on I walked out with NOTHING. Best decision ever. Got my head straightened out, went online (that "e" thing) and met a fabulous man. We will celebrate our 10th wedding anniversary this July...on the same day as my 70th birthday.
@@standupbroad6648 I met my better half on the interweb, we celebrated 7 years last month, it took me 50 years to meet her and will spend the rest of my life with her.
Love makes you do crazy loving things ❤️ you normally would not begin to think of doing. Then reality hits and the tears do not stop and the blame grows in your heart.
I hope we continue to be friends. Crying too much to save things so can you save them for me please. Baby 1 will always love you you know that. Forever and always. My brilliant handsome love sooo sexy so loving.. You aremy love forever.
Thank you for the song ladies. I just went through this . There are so many others going through it as well. All you beautiful ladies believe in yourselves. Take your stand there is better out there.
Simple music can make you sing, a simple hug can make you feel, better, simple things can make you happy, I hope my simple hello will put a smile on your face..
Love this heartfelt collaboration of lyrics, vocals, and emotions! This is a storytelling- pure country duet-none of us ever wanted to be “that girl”! 💔
Boy did this song hit as the married women. Unless you've been lied to and dragged through hell but still stood by your husband. You will never know what pain truly is. How do you move on from here?
The best song to ever describe two sides of hurt I've ever heard.
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Stay by Sugarland was pretty good at telling both sides, but I do like this song better!
Does he love you by Reba is that! This comes close tho
Does He Love You by Reba McEntire & Linda Davis (1993) is the best at that
Definitely
This is a great song, love the music video!
clay 💕💕
Ashley n clay let’s get a duet
Yeah really powerful. Exceptional work.
I really went from having a crush on clay walker 30 years ago to understanding this song so well. God it feels like hell
Are you really Clay Walker?
Ashley and Carly - your voices blend so beautifully on this song. PLEASE do more duets together! Thanks for the music!
I agree
@@brendamason6405 hello Brenda, how are you doing today, hope you’re fine and safe from the Virus??
The story never changes 😢.
Never be the other woman . 🛐🛐🛐
Ladies just won a Grammy for this song, well deserved, great song great artists
🎉🎉Awesome!!!!😮😮
I married a man 15 years ago and thought he was my forever, until one day he found someone else. I was left with no job, 2 beautiful children and a broken home. I never wanted to be the girl who hated herself because of a man, but slowly each day I'm learning to love myself again and rebuild a beautiful life ❤️
Let know man harm that which God ordained as one if His children. Grow close to God and he will help your healing. God bless.
I hate to hear that! Makes me sick and sad for you! I pray you find another man to treat you like a woman should be treated, loved, arguing about money and trying to survive but together, working together! Not being disrespectful to your children's father but that's no man! A real man would come to you and say he don't want to be together not go behind his wife's back and sleep with another woman! I pray you find someone to treat you with the love and respect you deserve and you and your little ones are making it OK!
Just know this that no woman should shed any tears for any man, especially when he just that easily walked out of your life w/o any explanations. Just know that God made a decision for you, which that decision that he made was to make you into a stronger person. Enjoy your time of being single, get to know yourself, and when God is ready and so are you, he will send you someone who will want to be with you and your little ones, people like him don't deserve nothing less, you remember you didn't lose anything unlike him he lost a family.
Married for 10 together for 7. 2 beautiful boys. Cheated on me and got her pregnant. 5 years later I'm still learning to relove myself
This is a really great song who tells that both women can be hurt so much and find everything to blame themselves while it wasn't their fault because they both didn't know about it.
Hello Patricia.. how are you doing?
I love the blend of your voices. Harmonies are tight. Two truly gifted ladies... Thank you for this....
It's crazy how almost a decade and intense healing makes you forget the mindset you had when you go through this situation... but a few lyrics in and it all came back
I will never stop trying to grow past that trauma. I am so incredibly blessed to have found a man I can trust wholeheartedly. I'm a better person a little more every day with help, and the broken girl I used to be is nothing but a memory now ❤️
If you're going through this, I promise it gets better. Get away from them, block them, and learn to love yourself before you find love in another
Now THAT'S Country Music: Three chords and the Truth!!! Cheers to you, Carly and Ashley; you got yourselves a hit!!!
Who is this song about
@@alexismasker8179 ssw
Thanks for your love and support I appreciate how long have you been a fan?
@@financialwolfprivate for a while
Completely agree!
Can we just talk about their acting performance in this? Those were tears of real pain...Lord have mercy my heart just broke!
Right?!
Totally felt every emotion in this song 🎶
I can so relate. You know it's great music when it pulls at your soul, tears in my eyes.
@Yogi Bear It touched my soul, it's not the genre that counts it's the feelings the song draws out.
@Yogi Bear No problem. Everyone should have their opinion heard. I am just an old Hippie (Bellamy Bros) and trying to enjoy life. Peace.
One of the best songs I've heard in a long while. Raw, honest, and so many feels. So incredibly well written.
sure so powerful and emotional just about life the hurts and other. how do you see this song?
Hello 👋 How are you! I trust you’re having a good day ❤️
Trust your a good fan of country songs, am also a lover of country songs, how often do you listen to them ? We could share, what do you think?
Sending you love 💕.Are you single ??
I agree with you! I totally understand it and get it.
This song personifies how women such as Princess Diana, Sandra Bullock etc probably felt. They were/are beautiful, wonderful, accomplished women whose value was totally disregarded by the one who swore in front of God & millions of people, to love her, honor her.
If you are in this situation?
Leave!
No one is worth going through this much anguish.
So sorry for the infringe on your privacy. Beautiful song. How are you?
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When you happy you enjoy the beat when you sad you understand the lyrics 😢
I never thought I would ever be that girl 😭😭 neither did I want to
“I never wanted to hate myself” is such a heartbreakingly beautiful line
My favorite line in the entire song!!! This song is the little sister of does he love you!!!
I agree 100%
No little girl ever fantasizes about spending night after night blaming herself for being an idiot, that's for sure.
Especially because in these situations society always blames and chastises the woman.
Absolutely Jenna.
I love this song. I’ve been “that” girl. I’m trying to heal from it. He was married and I was devastated, I still am. But I am slowly finding myself again. Don’t be that girl ladies walk away and know your worth! :)
Amen! Make him earn the right to be in your orbit!
yes I to was that girl it's not easy
Stick together ladies - no betraying another woman!❤️💙💜🧡
Dont feel like it your fault ladies, It's always the mans fault and we should embrace it, cant hold women accountable, they just do things.
Nope...the "fault card" can be divided between both...definitely if she knows he was/is married! Yes, he is the one with the commitment...but if she is aware of it, then she is no better than him bc she is helping him break his vows, helping him lie to his wife & family, helping him be deceitful & manipulative so that they can spend time together.
In essence, she is helping him strip away his wife's agency of knowing the truth so she can decide if she even WANTS to remain in a marriage with a cheating, lying, sneaking, skulking man who is almost certainly exposing her & their innocent children to sexually transmitted diseases!
So yes, at the end of the day...the "other woman" (unless she is unaware of his marriage) is just as deceitful and rotten as the cheating husband...no ifs/ands/or buts about it!! If she KNOWS he IS married...it does not matter how "mean" he claims his wife is, doesn't matter how "lazy" he claims his wife is, nor how she "won't cook & won't clean house", it doesn't matter if he swears they "sleep in separate beds/rooms", and he can't leave because she's "suicidal", or because "he can't leave u til the kids are older"....if a man stays with his wife and cheats on her with other women, he is never going to divorce his wife for the other woman...he'll find a million excuses not to..he wants his cake~and eat it too!!
Women who do not know the man was married are innocent & generally get out of the situation ASAP!! But women who knowingly fool around with a married man...get everything they deserve (not near enough, not really compared to the suffering & breakdown of the family).
I stand 110% strong in my belief that a cheating husband and the woman he cheats with (if she is aware of his marriage status)....even with the litany of little boy excuses he gives her, are equally corrupt and equally guilty, and deserve eachother & the putrid, distrustful, lonely, suspicious, unloving, short life they live together.
It just is what is is....lies, lies, and more lies can only get you so far in the real world...everything has to come out of the dark & into the sun sooner or later.....
A song with a story line, real instruments, real human emotion -- this is what makes country music great.
Thanks for your love and support I appreciate how long have you been a fan?
I'm sure you know this, but these accounts are fake. Stay safe! :)
My favorite song 😍😍 beautiful ❤️❤️ great singers
@Josey Paulson it's pretty obvious once you click on her profile that it's not Carly Pierce
may i introduce you to Taylor Swift
Ashley McBride is the BEST thing to happen to country music in a while. LOVE HER VOICE!
I Agree!! 💯💯💯💯💯💖💖💖
Just saw her last night at the Surf ballroom in Iowa
Saw her in Dublin two weeks ago. Her voice is exquisite.
me to
Thanks for your love and support I appreciate how long have you been a fan?
I have never felt so deep in a song. And I am a man. I truly felt the pain in this song. I have been down this road. And I love this song. Thank you
Guys stop cheating 😢😢😢😢😢I don't mean exactly you... But one give her body and everything to you. But you're cheating how much hurtful 😑😑😑
@@annuallyannual9444 How do you know if he's the one cheating and that they are cheating on him, or do you think that only men cheat, because women also do it and a lot, the only difference is that many men keep quiet and don't say anything unlike women who will talk it over with her best friend's
This song is probably the best Bop of the year, Finally some real country.
Alot have lived it,If married leave him.or her alone because it comes home.R u gonna rush it.If they aren't happy at home they will divorce Believe nothing else ,TRUE words Spoken?*** Only a fool will.!***
I've been that girl and knew it....but still stayed. How messed up is that?
@@shorebabe2011 So have I. 🥺
@@shorebabe2011 I’ve been both :/
Please don't throw such a statement out. It's disrespectful to the countless other working artists out there that have been releasing legit, red dirt, old school country music all year long.
Carly and Ashley are two relatively new artists who are actually making good COUNTRY music these days. No drum loops and finger snap beats with them and thank God lol. Big 90’s female country throwback vibes with these two ladies 🔥
100% agree mate! Isn’t it great stuff!!!!
It's like a breath of fresh air. I'm stoked for these 2 artists and I pray they never stray. Carlys new album is 100%
100% agree. Pure country. Most of these new ones trying to be the next big pop sellout like Taylor Swift or trying to make country hip hop
@@MorrisB1971 u mean “hick hop” ? Yes, I agree with your comment 100% !!
Perfectly said! We need these girls reminds me of trisha ..Sara ...martina...reba...carrie...miranda...Shania...Terri Clark..jodee Messina...Leeann Womack and rymes...Cheryl Wright...the lynns...the chicks...shedaisy...Pam tillis..patty loveless!!❤❤
This generation’s version of “Does He Love You”. Both are great! I Love love love Carly.
And I love both these wonderful ladies. Sing girls as you did.
My thoughts exactly!
Ohhh yeah good analogy!
lol I said the same thing.
I never thought of it that way but you're right
This song blew me away. Powerful words and deep pain
Yes
And I have been in the side of being cheated on there is a huge pain and betrayal you can never get back
This is what happens when two female powerhouses collaborate together. Awesome song guys. 👊👊💯
I knew this was going to be good...Carly Pearce and Ashley McBryde are two of the best in the business and they sound amazing together. Can't wait to see them on the CMA awards.
I agree they both sounded fantastic singing together. Loved the song. You go ladies.
I’m living this right now unfortunately 💔
@@heatheremmick6081 😢😢😢
Both their career were launched from newcomer's to legends.
This song needs way more attention.
Who else is playing this song on repeat?
Me hehe it’s great one
Me🙋🏻♀️
Meeeeeee :)
Love this song! Carly Pierce and Ashley McBryde are so amazing together on this song.
Me dor days now NY husband uses to like the song lol
A very beautiful song that has so much meaning! Thank you.
As a man this song hits home way harder than it should. May we all find peace
Wow they really do write songs that hurt!! This is so powerful and simple at same time.
Damn you’re so right!!!!
First time I heard this song, I was hooked. The words are spot on as the tears flow. Carly & Ashley sound so good!
Me too
Powerful song that shines the light on the pain from both sides and nobody wins😢
Hi Tammy
I don't want a number that you ain't going to answer,love that line.
These two sing perfect harmony. They should do more songs together.
I've been in both situations, and neither is easy to deal with. This song is brilliant!
Hello there Crystal nice meeting you here
It's just as hard for the married man that finds out he is the other one.
I like how this song portrays the mistress as someone who didn't want to be a mistress. Of course, both women are blaming themselves, when it's his fault.
I was in this situation from both points of view... 😪
@@cyndisells3810 sorry to hear that
It's always the mans fault and we should embrace it, cant hold women accountable, they just do things.
@@cyndisells3810 me too for 13 years and I was only 18 yrs old when it happened to me. I had just had a newborn baby that was premature only 2 pounds 6 oz. And I was a single mother as well. He had a wife and 2 children but kept that s secret for 9 years untill i finally figured it out and even after I had known about his wife he still convinced me to stay with him for another 6 years or so until I had to break things off with him once I knew the truth because I'm a Christian and I couldn't live with myself knowing that he had a wife, That took a huge huge toll on my entire life . And still to this day it affected my relationships and I was completely innocent I was just a baby I had no idea he was 17 years older than me by the way huge betrayal really broke my heart as devastating anyhow to women that have to go through such things as this I wish I could say there's light at the end of the time for me there hasn't been he was so good to me that's the crazy thing I haven't found somebody to be to treat me as well as he did but was great about it that he treated me great and respectfully or that he lied to me so either way it's a loss I'm 42 years old now still single and don't even know how to pursue a relationship with anyone
@@mindvision123 You’re wrong about that, women are not always the victim in it, there are some that do this to see how far they can get .
Both these ladies have that old school country twang like Chris Stapleton. Love it.
Brilliant ladies, what do you do when you think you're his world and you've been deceived when you believed all his BS.☘️☘️☘️
Maybe you already know the truth and keep lying to yourself, he would never lie to me! He hasn't stopped lying to you and that's the truth ☘️☘️☘️🇮🇪
Wow this is so Good Ashley when Eric introduced you I knew he was sharing a real Artist .Carly you are Amazing as Well .Keep those songs Coming!!!
I’m glad I prayed all those years ago to never feel the need to be with anyone else while being devoted to only one. I’m 35 with two baby mommas who cheated on me even after children and I never did them the same. You won’t lie if you never commit the crime.
Forget bout the Collab, the story of the song is common but the way the lyrics is going, it's sooo unique
The best collab ever
I love these two ladies together. Wow just amazing. Their voices are astonishing..country music and all of us needed these two young ladies. Go girlys. ❤❤❤i am a big fan of ashleys and carlys ..💯💯💯 ladies nobody ever wants to be that girl. 😢 but sometimes it happens though. Please know your worth queens.
I lived this song!!! Was the most humilating and degrading thing I ever experiencee and the pain was excruciating
One, these two are amazing singing together. They favor one another and mesh well. Second, I've sat in both those seats, and neither are comfortable to sit in when you find out you are sitting there. When you finally find your true self, it's amazing. Thank you to both these ladies for this song. :)
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I love Ashley McBride so much and this was a great duet for them both. Now this is country! Play them girl singers, they are the best!
Ashley is the best. Love them both
I can relate to this song on so many levels. Such a beautiful job ladies. I can't stop playing this song. I seriously love this video as well.
I love this song. Can relate to it too. I've watched the video now 3 times.
I agree so do I. I am still healing an dealing. I was stupid enough to keep myself in the relationship many years later finally ended it. Back in 2019.
Sending you love 💕.Are you single ??
This song is so healing for those who have been cheated on. Makes you feel not alone 🙏🏼 and love how they portrayed the two women, flashing back to when they were children ugh! Beautifully done. Made me cry!
I would never treat these two lovelies like this jerk did!❤️💕
I've never been the guy with the other girl. But I crank this up every time it plays. Two absolutely amazing voices ❤️❤️
You don’t want to be. You’d be risking your life. For what? Spread the word to the men of NO INTEGRITY.
So nice to hear a true duet, instead of calling it one when like 3 lines are sang by another. And both these women can really sing, so it makes it so much better and they blend so well..
Carly Pearce and Ashley McBride! Just don't get any better than that. Great song ladies!
Very powerful song! I can relate in so many ways. I feel stupid, I feel cheap.... I thought I knew who I was... Powerful words!
Sending you love 💕.Are you single ??
Sending you Hugs 🤗
AMEN! BEAUTIFUL!❤
This song hits different as someone who has been in this exact situation
Hello Netalie.. how are you doing?
@@michaelsmith-cv5ty I'm doing ok. How r u
I know right
@@JessicaDault-ov9gr When I learned the man I'd been living with for six months had a fiancee in another city, I thought my reverse mistress situation was totally unique, then I heard this song I basically broke down the first time hearing it
great song, great video, this is the country i want on the radio
exactly. If we had more Carly Pearce, Clay Walker and Cody Johnson on the radio it would not be as bad as it is right now. unfortunately they only play aldean and walker hayes
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Unfortunately she completely stole the music from Highway Don’t Care by Tim McGraw with this song.
With Ashley being dressed in black and Carly dressed in white; it gives this picture of grief and anger yet hope and healing. The song is beautiful in a difficult kind of way.
Okay their voices go SO well together!! I love the richness and maturity in their voices.
The best song to ever describe two sides of hurt I've ever heard, he used and took aveadge of me. I am happy I move on and their marriage is ruin.
I love great songs that tell both sides of the story. Awesome job Carly! Love this!
Hello Michelle.. How are you doing?
Thanks to him I'll never know which one I was.
Wow!! Just Wow! A song that’s real.
This song has definitely TOUCHED me every time especially going through a rough time. What a beautiful song. Y’all are so INCREDIBLY AMAZING and love both your music so much! ❤️
Simple music can make you sing, a simple hug can make you feel, better, simple things can make you happy, I hope my simple hello will put a smile on your face..😊
Had a girl send me this song to tell me I was not his forever.... she had no idea we had built a life together until she found out... this song still hits home to me everytime I hear it... should have listened and moved forward than... 2 years later and I lost him again.. forever. .
I swear I thought this was Sara Evans when I heard this the first time. Congratulations on your success !!!
Youngsters should listen before falling for a married man and going through that heartache. Carly sang it and it really touched me and I could feel the pain who may have gone through that hell
2:55 this song is inspiring as a boy too..thanks
Man, oh, man how fitting this song is for the relationship I just went through.
This song hurts ALOT ❤
Ya don't keep a man for what he can do but for how you feel In his arms
Hello!!! How are you doing today, please
pardoned me for intruding into your privacy but I
just wanted to know if you're a fan ? Have a
great day.. Stay Safe
Carly, Ashley, THIS IS SO GOOD!!
Hello thanks for your comment and supports, your comments and constant support has brought me this far, keep supporting ❤️
None of us ever want to be that girl. But eventually we all run into the very situation she is singing about in this beautiful song!
I love this song. The vocals are fabulous, the harmonies and the words are so true. No one plans this happening to them.
Yes...both sides are victims...the mistress had no idea he was married (unlike some women who "go after married men"...great song...such raw hurt and emotion...true country, unlike some of the crap on the radio...this "country Rap" drives me insane..
@@christinemerlino5313 That’s why I love country music. And you’re right in this one neither one knows about the other. So it’s not like they deliberately committed adultery. Like my ex-husband’s now ex wife did to me.
How are you doing ?
I know it’s hard but life is short! You are in control of your life and happiness!
It's real and raw because they claim that they both went through that, I'll be honest every time I hear it I start to cry
That last shot. The power that that has!
Wow. Heard this song for the first time today while working in my shop. Made me stop and just listen. What a great country melody. Love it. Thanks
Thank you UA-cam for showing me this song and Carly as an artist. Can’t stop listening to her songs 😍. Don’t really listen to country but this girl can sing, such a nice tone with great lyrics
Sending you love 💕.Are you single ??
This song is absolutely amazing portraying what some people feel on either end of an affair as the other woman and as a spouse or significant other. I've been on both sides not knowing the man was married and being in relationships with men who have cheated. It never feels good no matter which side you're on and these women sing about what it's like. Amazing!
Relate… to someone special! A very powerful woman!
The ones that make excuses like my mama used to do is an amazing line. Then shows her mom and dad leaving 😭💔
Hello Kristen 👋 how are you doing today, hope you’re having a great day??
Sending you love 💕.Are you single ??
This is a beautiful song, well written, and they go together like no other. Love it
hi pretty, how do you think been that girl feel just want to know if you don't mind?
@@garymorrison3285 HEY WEIRDO, WHY DON'T YOU STOP TRYING TO SCAM HELPLESS WOMEN BEFORE I TURN YOUR IDENTITY OVER TO THE F.B.I.
Sending you love 💕.Are you single ??
Hello Sissy! How are you doing ?
I hear angels singing!..................................................
Why can't I get this song out of my head?
Growing up I always thought love was a fairy tale now all I know is that it hurts , it breaks you it makes you someone you never wanted to be.
For sure. 😢
Brings back emotions of being that guy found out after 3 months she was married
Ya, the memories...of finding out she was married after she moved in. To all the guys who didn't want to be that guy and to all the girls who didn't want to be that girl 🍻
These two ladies have such beautiful voices! Just good country music!!!
I'm sure many of us can relate to this song. 🥺
The ending would’ve been better if they both pulled up to the bar and sat across from each other not knowing but still a great song!!
Wow man what a powerful song lord have mercy wow
Simple music can make you sing, a simple hug can make you feel, better, simple things can make you happy, I hope my simple hello will put a smile on your face..
Powerful song! There are SO many women who don't know they are the "other woman"
When I was being cheated on my first question was does she know you're married? Then I answered my own question "it doesn't matter if she knows YOU KNOW, you're MARRIED "!
I'm still looking for a man who will tell the truth & I'm 60 years old
Keep looking 'cause he's out there. After 20 years of being cheated on I walked out with NOTHING. Best decision ever. Got my head straightened out, went online (that "e" thing) and met a fabulous man. We will celebrate our 10th wedding anniversary this July...on the same day as my 70th birthday.
@@standupbroad6648 I met my better half on the interweb, we celebrated 7 years last month, it took me 50 years to meet her and will spend the rest of my life with her.
Love makes you do crazy loving things ❤️ you normally would not begin to think of doing. Then reality hits and the tears do not stop and the blame grows in your heart.
Great we'll writton song...love the concept.
I hope we continue to be friends. Crying too much to save things so can you save them for me please. Baby 1 will always love you you know that. Forever and always. My brilliant handsome love sooo sexy so loving.. You aremy love forever.
Okay I loved it way to go Carly Pearce and Ashley McBryde
Thank you for the song ladies. I just went through this . There are so many others going through it as well. All you beautiful ladies believe in yourselves. Take your stand there is better out there.
Simple music can make you sing, a simple hug can make you feel, better, simple things can make you happy, I hope my simple hello will put a smile on your face..
14 years together and it’s all falling apart from more than one “other one” it’s devastating
At the end, when the two cars meet at the red light, I feel like you could tie that straight into "two black cadillacs" by Carrie Underwood!
Been on both sides of this and both hurt. The lies and deceptions as if neither of us would ever find out. That kind of man is not worth my time!
This song is fire
Love this heartfelt collaboration of lyrics, vocals, and emotions! This is a storytelling- pure country duet-none of us ever wanted to be “that girl”! 💔
Best song ever!!!
Boy did this song hit as the married women. Unless you've been lied to and dragged through hell but still stood by your husband. You will never know what pain truly is. How do you move on from here?
These two artists are amazing talented writers & true country singers. Love them both.