Ua Neeg Mloog Lus Ces Mob Siab Tuag. 4/1/23
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Damn women. First time I get cause you’re young but second time you still listen to your stupid old despicable dad. That’s on you. I would call the cops on your dad and your ex because you were underage. They can still get locked up!
If you're in your 40s and older, you'll know and understand why this woman listened to her parents...in our generation, parents were more strict and we weren't as acclimated to American independent thinking as the younger generations....we did our best to be a "good" daughter/son by letting our parents dictate what's good/bad for us, even though at times they were wrong...calling cops or going to women shelter was unknown to most of us...
I’m in this age group and I can sympathize with her but I never let my parents dictate my life. My mom told me once she was going to marry me off to a cousin and I said if you do, you will never see me again because I will run away or tell a teacher. She never mentioned it again.
Will said it and 100% agree
They believed their parents/family had the best intentions for them, unfortunately it’s not. What they did wasn’t right then, and is not right today. The moral aspect of it doesn’t change regardless of time and place.
Filial piety. That's what's ingrained in the older generation's mind. Collectivism vs individualism.
I’m in this group but my father/parents were not like that. My father had never force us daughters. I am glad for it.
Your own fault for doing everything your dad says! You're in America, you have rights! You didn't learn anything from your first marriage 🙄🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Why blame your dad? The first time it was your dad's fault but the second time it was you because you are over 18 and shouldn't let people make the decisions for you.
Her parents and spouse conditioned her and shield her from learning her rights. It's not because she was obedient, she has fear and that's how they were able to manipulate her.
This lady omg make your own choice why keep listening to other people!
Right! That’s what so annoying to me.
She victimized herself too much.
Ib tug poj nrauj 30 xyoo es tseem tias ruam ruam mloog niam mloog txiv lus xuab tshaj Liam tshaj
Do what makes you happy, not anyone else. They aren't the ones living your life and misery.
Well, after 45 years I finally got married. So I didn’t listen to my mom or family. They made me feel bad for years, but I wouldn’t be the person I am now, if my life didn’t go how it went. I’ve been with my husband for 16 years. Love is a real thing! That’s y people get divorced. I feel terrible for you hun, being with someone u don’t love is just sad. I hope one day u will love u more, and stand up for yourself!
Yes! Better late and right than early and wrong. That's why the divorce rate is so high especially with Millennials, the generation that's stuck between tradition and modernization. Where you were forced to marry someone but knew self love enough to leave a relationship when it wasn't stable.
You were born only to be a slave fir your father to traffic from one man to another, sister. You need to come to this realization and leave your father/master behind before you will find happiness in accordance to your heart's desire. Until you accept that your father is only your slave trafficker, you will always obey him over your happiness. Liberation for you means getting rid of your dad and your family and going at life alone. If you can't cut off your family, you'll be forever a slave. Hope you free yourself. Good luck.
Koj txiv mas xuaj tiag22 li os.
That's what happened when u let your parents make decisions for u. You're a grown woman now. Don't let anyone decide your life for u.
Zoo heev li os
Follow your own heart not your parents or anyone else…you control your own destiny😩👍🤠!
Tsis yog tias koj mloog lub es koj lub neej thiaj tsis zoo, yog qhov koj tsis muaj peem xwm thiab koj tsis paub txoj cais yuav pab tau koj. Vim koj tsis muaj peem xwm koj thiaj ua lub neej mob siab.
No matter how old you are, how many kids you have, your happiness comes first. Never put someone ahead of your life or your happiness.
This is America. When you were 13, it's understandable. That was your dad's fault. But when you were grown, that's all on you.
Txhob tu siab nawb. Tsim nyog koj dhiav kev hlub thiab kev zoo siab rau koj tus kheej os. Koj twb laus txaus thiab paub txaus lawm. Txhob mloog mloog koj niam koj txiv lawv lus vim tias koj yuav tsum hlub koj tus kheej thiab. Koj txiv yeej tsis hlub koj nawb, vim yog nws hlub koj ces nws yeej tsis muab koj yuam yuav tus neeg koj tsis xav yuav. Thov Vajtswm foom koob moov rau koj es koj thiaj dhiav tau txoj kev zoo siav rau yam tom ntej no.
🌹May Vang are you HAPPY NOW??❤👍👍👍👍👏👏👏👏👏👏
Hais yog kawg li os tus me viv ncau Aw.. txoj kev mloog lus yuav tus yus niam yus txiv nyiam es yus lub neej thiaj tsi Xau os
ca hai tau yog ua luaj li o kuv ce yog ib tug mloog niam thiab txiv hai thiab o viv caus aws
Yog kawg lawm os niam laus aw cas koj yuav tham tau haum kuv lub siab tag nhro li ua tsaug os
When my dad said I was a bad daughter for not listening to him. I said yep that's right. I don't live with you and you don't pay my bills. You already sold me once, your not selling me again.
You go, girl!!!
Wow, I never knew there are fathers like this father in this world. My dad was very protective especially towards us daughters and I can proudly said my father is the only men in this world that will never betrayed his daughters. I thought all fathers are like my father until I listened to this story. Tus leej txiv ntawm txoj neej neeg no tsis tsim nyog ua ib leeg txiv to any children li os.
Kav tsij zoo siab hlo mus ua poj Nrauj...tseem Kaj Siab dua ua neej nrog ib niag txiv neej siab phem siab dub ....ua neej dhuav siab tiag tiag
Koj hais Yog tshaj plaws li
Koj txiv yuam koj mus them koj txiv cov nqi es lub neej twb tsis zoo es koj tseem mloog koj txiv thiab thiaj txom nyem es tsis tas mloog li ua li yus nyiam xwb yuav zoo duas
It doesn't matter her age or years of being trafficked. She's still a victim from young age; therefore, of course, she will be fearful no matter what until someone rescued her and educate her. Show some empathy no matter how many times she's been trafficked (traffickinb consist of many things that damaged a person in ways it can seem so easy for us to judge) and despite her age.
She could sneak to call the boy friend, but not 911?
What kind of sympathy is needed?
@@ThePrincessWorrior that’s because if she called 911 her parents will get in trouble for trafficking her too. I was in similar shoes before, I know the feelings. 😢
Some people don’t understand. It’s sad that they attack her and call her stupid :/
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Listening to stories like this,
I wonder why these hmoob people still want to come to the U.S if they still want to live life like nplog teb. Why come here when you don’t want to better your life?
Cas nyob luag ntuj es tsis yoog luag txuj.
Koj ruam dhau ces nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb os ntuj aw
Yep! Thaum taus tus tsis hlub mas nyob taus lawm txhias niaj txhias xyoo. Hos taus tus hlub yus ib zaug los uas hlob li hlob tsis xav hlub!? Only complaints but can’t move on.
Koj zaj dab neeg no yeej yog li koj hai kawg os tab si koj twb yuav tau nw lawm ce ua siab hlub nw os me viv ncau
Tu siab tshaj plaws uas yug los ua ib tug khaub ntxhais 😭💔
Txoj niag kev quaj yeej pab tsis tau koj os siv koj txoj kev ntse los pov puag koj Tus kheej thiaj pab tau koj Lub neej na,
Kuj Tim koj thiab xaum ib mas Tim koj txiv
Cas zaum 2 koj ho tsis tawv kom.dhau ..Es mus yuav kiag tus koj nyiam mas
It’s not obedience. It’s stupidly. No guts, no glory. Live life for yourself and live it purposefully. Otherwise, you hand yourself to dry in the sun.
This farther deserved to be punished he made she suffer for his sins!!
Tus vivncau aw koj yeej tsis ruam os koj twb txawj hais tag npaum no nev ! Qhov tseeb ces yog koj txiv yog ibtug neeg qias neeg tshaj quav lawm thiab ua rau nej kobhuam tag, ces koj tsis xav kom koj txiv raug tua koj mus theej koj txiv lub txhoj xwb. Es stop ! hais tias koj nim ruam ruam no xwb.
She's a victim and will continue to be victim until she educations herself and empowers herself. Trauma is real until she is willing to work on empowering herself. Some women are self empowered and others are not. A great lesson in life is don't be afraid of change.
Omg, so much excuses 😂 ugh, I couldn’t finish this story cause of her nonsense excuses! Not once but twice!! SMH, I’m feel so sorry that you can’t make your own decision the first time. But the second time there is no more excuse! 🤦🏻♀️this story makes me so frustrated 😂
You should’ve make decision on a man for yourself. You don’t need ur parents to pick a man for you. hopefully u know how to pick urself up and be happy for what is left of ur life.
So sad. Please don't bash on this sister. She was controlled by her parents from a very young age so she's used to listening to them. I hope u find happiness one day sister.
Zaj dab neeg no hai tau tu saib heev 😭😭🤣🤣😭😭
Kj yog ib tug ntxhais ua yeej raug npam tiag tiag li kj hais vim kj yog ib tug ntxhais txiav txim siab tsis tau kj cia kj niam kj txiv yog tus txiav txim rau kj lub neej xwb kj thiaj raug kev tu siab kev mob npaum li kj tiag me viv ncaus kj zaj neej neeg no mloog tau meem tzom heev vim kj txiav txim siab tsis tau kj tsis muaj peev xwm kj thiaj plam tus neeg kj hlub thiab nws hlub kj lawm
I agree. Lub npe ntxais mloog lus kuv tsis ntsaw. Nov yog ib qhov chaw tsis zoo rau kuv tus kheej tab sis zoo rau luag xwb.
Eb om tu siab ua luaj
I understand this sister story. Easy for all u ppl to say.. why she didn’t call the cops. First of all. Need to understand as a Hmong teen. U call cops on your parents than u are consider a bad daughter. 2nd.. that’s your only family u know.. but where will u be when your parents are lock up? When your dad relative dishonor u and no one accepts u? So b4 everyone says Why not call cops and why she does what she does is probably because she didn’t have a family support. As a Hmong daughter back than is abt listening to the elders and be good. Hmong daughter doesn’t have any rights to their life.
Man this old days suck! We tried so hard to please our parents/family only to learn some parents never really cared for the daughters the way they care for their sons. This that had parents who love/support their daughter in this era are so lucky!
Hia tau raug kv hv li o niam laus aw😢😢😢
Xyoo 85-2000 ma cov ntxhais nyiam cov tub laib tshaj plaws vim lawv txawj hlub ntau thaj hlub tau txhua lub sib hawm li cov ntxhais lub siab ntshaws ntag
Tus niam hlob lo yog tus niam ntxawm aw cas kj txoj neej neeg no yuav hais raws kiag li kv lub neej thiab lo
Ruam npaum koj ces txhob nroo nroo tsam koj tau ua poj nrauj dua os
Tug txiv siab dub xwb os mi viv n 😭😭🤣🤣😭😭
I feel so bad for this girl. 😢
Nkauj hmoob Mai vaj koj muaj ib ces khaub ncawb xwb los cas hnav dub tag li xwb na los zoo zoo nkauj ntxim ntxim li koj hnav kom tsim cog thiab ma ok
Koj ruam yog ruam ib zaug thaum koj tseem yau ces yog twb yog zaum ob lawm koj tseem coj li qub tej zaum tim koj xwb yus twb laus lawm thiab koj twb paub lawm tias tus koj tsis hlub koj yuav es mob siab npaum cas
Koj ces xyov yog dabtsi lawm ruam tshaj ruam lawm.
Thov ntxim ntau 2 thiab txhua yam nw yog koj xaiv xwb g tsim nyog liam txim rau koj txiv vim koj twb yeem tu neeg e yog yam g xaiv g yeem tiag tuag kiag lo twb tuag tau tshuav kom dig
Koj mas tsuam plawg koj ca koj txiv xaav rua koj yog kuv tes tug thib ib ntawm xwb tes kuv tub hu tub caav xwv rua koj nam hab koj txiv lawm es koj tseev ca koj txiv rov yuam duas tug ob hab koj yeej los ruam naj yog koj tsi ruam tes yeej yuam tsi tau zag ob lawm
Koj txiv yog ib tug hypocrîte nwg mus tsim2 teeb meem es thaum kawg nwg muab nej cov me nyuam coj xiab nuj xiab nqi, koj txiv mas yuav ua neej tsi muaj txoj kev kajsiab mus txog hnub tuag li loj, muab hais los mas koj txiv thiab koj niam yuav tsum tau mus nyob tsev loj cuj kom lawv thiaj paub nkawv txoj kev ua txhaum cai rau tej me nyuam naj.
I don’t know…I would still report my dad and my ex-husband to the police.
It’s the right thing to do and a closure for you. 🤷🏻♀️
Leave your husband, but don't go back to your ex.. and take your time looking...
tus txiv zoo ces txawm yog zij los yog neb sib txaus siab yuav los nws yeej hlub yus tsis mus ua elcheater, hos tus neeg phem ces txawm yog zij zawj los yog neb txaus sib yuav los nws yeej yuav ua kom zoo nws lub siab phem xwb, pojniam los ib yam nkaus hos.
Ca tu ruam e yuav ruam txog ntua qhov lwm tu txiav txim thiab yog tu xaiv yu lub neeg rau yu, ho tu ntse ma ho ntse ntse txog ntuag qhov ua phem rau lwm tu thiab. Twb nyob teb ncaw me ka e koj twb txiav txim tsi tau koj twb lo ua hlua nkauj zaum ob koj tseem ruam txog qho koj cia koj txiv txiav txiv rau koj thiab ce nw kawg zoo li koj xwb vim koj tsi Paub txiav txim rau koj lub neej koj thial lwb siab
Sis, you were traffic by your own family and it was a forced child marriage. Had you gone to the cops, you would've never had yo experience this. Smh
Zoo hv li os
We live in America and I willing to listen to my parents for good advices on everything else, but to marry someone they chose for me, heck no! The OG way it’s a No, No, No in America.! I just don’t understand why those girls that their parents forced them to marry someone they didn’t like and why they didn’t get help from all those agencies out there. I will rather die than marry someone I never knew/dated.
Pab hlub koj kawg tias cas los yug yuam kev rau tej tsev niag neeg liam kawg kiag li
why a grown ass woman still need to listen to her parents? no one gonna fight for you if you don't fight for yourself.
You were 13 and then as an adult you had no backbone! Should’ve used your brain and called the cops! Those are hurtful words, we have kids because we slept together! 😢 Why would you associate yourself to someone your father knows! It’s obvious the person your father knows is going to be like your father. Your story makes me so angry!
Right, 2nd round of trafficking, she could make call, she called the boyfriend for him to listen to her cry but not 911?
I just shake my head
How sad...your innocence & youth was taken away from you at such a young age. Your parents don't deserve to be Parents!!! I hope you'll have a good life in your older years.
😂😂😂😂 poj ruam xwb tiag mloog niam txiv lus zoo lis niam txiv nrog koj ua neej naws 😂😂😂😂
Sister koj twb Tsi yog me nyuam yau lawm cas koj pheej cia koj txiv yuam tau koj es yog dab Tsi tiag😏😏
Ask yourself, Why your parent sole you and keep over look your life.
li pog no yuav yog hom ruam twg ne yom? 🫨
Tsis phim tuaj nyob miskas, phim nyob tim qab tsuas ntab qhov twg xwb as, yog ruam npaum li tiag na.
Koj yog ib tug neeg ruam siab zoo dhau xwb os.. koj ces yug los xiam tiam lawm xwb! Tos koj txiv tuag tso mam nrauj tus txiv ko es yuav tus koj hlub koj ntshaw thiaj tsis muaj tus los txwv txiav xwb lau
Pog ruam! Tsis txhob tuaj qw2 os
Lub sij hawm ntawv mas nej cov tuaj tom qab rau teb chaws no tseem tsis tau ntse rau sab twg li ces koj thiaj tsis paub nrhiav kev pab cawm koj. Thaum koj mus ciaj luag poj lawm, koj tsis muaj cai xyeej luag txoj kev txi nkawm saum txaj chaw. Yuav luag txhua tus poj niam kam ua lwm tus txiv neej niam yau yog tau kev tws hauv nws lub neej lawm xwb. Koj txiv yug koj yog ib tug neeg qhuav kev twv txiaj yuam pov ces nws tsis yog ib tug txiv tsev vam meej rau ib tug tib neeg twg li. Yog nws cov mi nyuam follow nws tej directions, lawv taug kev yuam lawm xwb.
So true 😢
Yeej yog tim koj ntau dua txawm koj txiv hais li lo yog yus tsis yuav ces ua kom dim xwb pob vim twb ntsib zaum 1 lawm lo tseem mloog zaum 2 thiab ne
Sister, koj twb hlub tau koj thawj Tus txiv laib muab koj ntaus ntaus ce ua siab hlub koj tus second husband bec he seems to love you. Stop yearning for your lost befriend bec it's too late and eventually you become a divorcee again if you continue to do so.
What a horrible father you had. I would never forget and forgive him.
Being a good girl doesn't mean relinquishing your rights to happiness over to your father. You act like you live in Laos instead of the U.S.A. I can understand life was out of your control the first time you were forced to marry because you were just a kid. But there's absolutely no excuse for you to let it happen again after your divorce because by then you were a grown woman. This time your unhappiness is your own fault. You clearly don't live by the advice you gave in your story. When you don't use the rights given to you by the U.S. government, then it's your own fault if your life is unhappy.
Tus vivncaus aw koj yeej ruam tshaj plaws tsis tus tus ruam li koj lawm koj txiv twb tsis yog neeg koj txiv yog 1 tug txiv dev ua twv txhiaj yug tej menyuam los yuam nqi xwb koj niam nkawv yeej tsis hlub koj meme kiag li kuv yog koj ces txawm yog kuv txiv kiag los kuv yeej hu Police coj nws mus qhia kev Cai rau Kom nws paub kiag xwb txhob ntshai ntshai cov txiv dev zoo li no es lawv thiaj tsis muaj muaj plhus mas
You old enough choose your own life not your parent( vim kj ruam zog lawm xwb yus lub neej tsis yog cov neeg laus ruam ntawv ne)
ua cas koj ho tsis hu pus liv mas yus yeej yeem yeem yus
Nyob zoo os koj
Screwed by everyone around you. Parents, culture and religion. I always question why anyone would choose to believe in things like this when it doesn’t even match with reality.
Your father wasn't a father to begin with.
niag neeg twb g tsim txiaj li es cas ho mus mloog hais ua dab tsi na mi ntxhais aw yog koj txiv yog tus neeg tsim txiaj mas koj mam mloog hais yus lub neej thiaj zoo hos
Koj twb yog poj nrauj lawm es cas koj tseem yuav mloog koj niam koj txiv hai nas koj twb nrauj txiv lawm es cas koj tsis mus nyob koj na es yuav tus koj xaiv nas koj ruam dhau qhov ruam lawm thiab os
Txhob ua neeg mloog lus!!! Dont think so highly of your father. Cov txiv phem li no txhob saib nws cov lus muaj nqi. He will not get my love as his daughter. Dont look dont on women who has been through more than one man! Because thats a double standards! Men have been through more than one and no one thinks its wrong!
Vidncaus, koj twb nyob USA tseem cia niam/txiv quab yuam koj yuav tus koj tsis hlub. Nkawd txawm yog tus yug koj los tseem tshuav nomtswv coj kevcai ncajncees rau pejxeem. Koj tsis kam mus seb nkawd puas khi koj tes taw cab li tsiaj xwb. Lub neej txojsia yog koj li, txhob cia lwm tus rhuav tshem.
Cav ua rau kuv npau taws rau koj tshaj li os.
Not 100% true…most parents want the best for their kids. Your father has his own intentions…not every parent are like him 😜
Koj this koj txoj kev ruam xwb. Yog koj paub tu siab npaum koj ua cas koj ho ua li koj tsis muaj qhov ncauj. Thawj zaug zam tau txim, zaum 2 tim koj xwb.
Yus ruam yus xwb txhob tu siab rau lwm tus os qhov ko yog koj tsis muaj kev txiav txim siab xwb os poj ruam
Wow, sister you are so incredibly naive. No one can force you to do anything. You allowed it to happen so it's no one's fault but yours.
Cas twb nyob teb chaws Mekas es koj ho tsis hu police tuaj coj koj mus nyob shelters los sis nyob foster homes nas?
Too sad 😔 😢sister
Nrog koj tu siab cas koj kawm tsis tiav es zaum 2 los koj tseem ua li koj txiv hais thiab. Koj twb mus ua neej tau 16 xyoo rov nrauj txiv los koj kawm tsis tiav thiab ces yog tim koj. Koj twb tsis yog ib tug me nyuam yaus lawm tseem txiav txim tsis tau rau tus kheej. Koj txiv yog ib leej txiv LIAM thiab khib nyiab tiag tiag twb tsis tsim nyog koj fwm koj txiv lawm los koj tseem mloog. Yog nws ua ib leej txiv tsim txiaj ua ib tug qauv zoo mas thiaj tsim nyog koj ua txhua yam rau. Twb tim koj txiv koj thawj lub neej thiaj txom nyem. Koj txiv tsis hlub koj tiag tiag!! Ib leej txiv zoo thiab hlub koj ces zaum 2 nws yeej cia koj xaiv koj tus txij nkawm lawm twb vim nws tsis hlub koj nws thiaj yuam koj.
Koj txiv mas yog ib leej txiv phem tshaj plaws li tsi zoo ua neeg nyob li tuag zoo dua os hmoob aw. Koj txiv thuam lawv mob mob tabsis nws tig rov saib nws tus kheej ces pauv tsi ntxiv ib yam li lawv thiab os.Ntsej muag ruam aw ruam tiag tiag li os.
Koj Txhob ruam 2 mas tus vivncaus aw ! Koj txiv twb tsis hlub koj, koj txiv muab koj muag rau hmoob them koj txiv cov nqi xwb es koj tseem rov qab mloog koj txiv zaum 2 thiab …!!!!
Koj yuav tsum tsim los ua yam koj zoo siab os
Nyob tebchaws vam meej no lawm txob ua rau koj txiv os….
Yog ruam dhau lawm ces Txhob muab koj txoj dab neeg tuaj hais rau sawv daws hnov os..
Kuv mas tseem meem txom rau koj thiab os poj ruam aw !!