Life in my 30s Friendships edition:GRWM-Breakups,Stealing,Dating exs,Hurt,Accepting it all & Healing

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  • Опубліковано 2 лют 2025

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  • @olunjengudle3199
    @olunjengudle3199 13 днів тому

    This is one of my favorite videos in this home💞 - Real-life experiences and reflections always resonate so deeply. Friendships (like most relations) are such a beautiful yet complex journey, and sometimes, as said, our paths cross for a reason but eventually, at times, need to diverge and that's ok. We meet people who help us grow, and at times, we may even outgrow each other. It doesn’t mean we’ve failed, or we must hate on each other, at times it just means we’ve evolved in different directions. And that’s okay. It's part of the process of becoming who we’re meant to be, I guess. Relationships of all kinds shape us, and while some may bring pain, they also bring valuable lessons. I truly vouch for friendships that are built on honesty, kindness, and unconditional support, where we empower each other to grow, no matter where life leads. Those are the relationships that bring out the best in us. I believe in loving friendships that celebrate one another's growth, even if that means growing in different directions. You always speak so honestly and from the heart, and I truly admire that about you. Sending you so much love - you're amazing. 💖

    • @zizilemdakane
      @zizilemdakane  13 днів тому

      @@olunjengudle3199 you you have said a mouthful but beautiful points aswell I just wish we all invested in our friendships like we invest in amadoda.

  • @samanthandlovu1902
    @samanthandlovu1902 16 днів тому

    This is so relatable sis, friendship breakups hurt really bad😩

    • @zizilemdakane
      @zizilemdakane  16 днів тому

      And healing from them takes alot not to mention fear of your personal indabas being exposed.

  • @lethunyaniso789
    @lethunyaniso789 21 день тому +1

    it growth, phela ngsakei intro kodwa

    • @zizilemdakane
      @zizilemdakane  21 день тому

      🤣🤣🤣good thing you watched till the end

  • @roundym
    @roundym 21 день тому

    Uyabona nje all of these things you’ve been through are the reason why some of us are so scared to forge connections 😭😭.

    • @zizilemdakane
      @zizilemdakane  21 день тому

      I absolutely understand my good sis lol ❤️it’s scary but we learn..life is just unpredictable sometimes but it’s one of those this that need for one to be discerning.

  • @asandathelelo5638
    @asandathelelo5638 18 днів тому

    I like the colour of the hair ❤

  • @minenhlegumede6789
    @minenhlegumede6789 21 день тому

    Thank you so much queen for this very insightful vlog, it has opened our eyes about the friendships we are in. I really learn't alot from this vlog, thank you so much sisi, I for one ngyawucela u part 2. Stay blessed and beautiful queen❤❤❤

    • @zizilemdakane
      @zizilemdakane  21 день тому

      Oh my Gorgeous Queen ❤️🙏Thank you for watching and yes yes yes! I’ll definitely do a part 2.I’m glad this was insightful for you may God bless you with a solid sisterhood 🙏

  • @lulekakweyama858
    @lulekakweyama858 21 день тому

    Hi sisi unjani? Yazi you always find a way to make me feel better 💕

    • @zizilemdakane
      @zizilemdakane  21 день тому

      Hello Queen.. I’m okay thanks I’m glad this made you feel better❤️❤️

  • @nomondemofokeng8635
    @nomondemofokeng8635 21 день тому

    Sana are you sure uThixo akakuhlebelanga izinkinga zami 🤣🤣 Eehhhh because why is this so relatable?

    • @zizilemdakane
      @zizilemdakane  21 день тому

      😂I think we l don’t love ourselves as much as we should because there’s no way we could stay in these situations

  • @lethunyaniso789
    @lethunyaniso789 21 день тому

    eka friends who advice and does the same angyazi cha you aint my sister friend😂😂😂, this vlong is very interesting sis we relating just keep it real ke mtase

    • @zizilemdakane
      @zizilemdakane  21 день тому

      It’s sad kuthi we never see the red flags mntase! Ake sizi thanda oveeeerrr this year!!

  • @nasutunjekwa707
    @nasutunjekwa707 21 день тому

    Yaz after watching this I just realised that my best friend isn’t my friend 😭

    • @zizilemdakane
      @zizilemdakane  21 день тому

      And you know the truth my good sis! How much of it can you take?

  • @Nondumiso_
    @Nondumiso_ 17 днів тому

    Ey nkosi yami wayithinta eyabangani