Yes to frangrance!! Even when I'm in mysuper casual clothes, that hint of fragrance makes me feel better. Patent leather: my mom always used a dab a vaseline, rubbed it in, wiped off the excess. She had real patent and she felt that it kept the leather moisturized and helped a bit with weather proofing. Hope this helps, Amanda!
TOTALLY AGREE! I always feel so much more put together with a signature scent of the day 🥰 I used to always wear the same one but in the past couple of years I've expended my collection and it's so fun to choose how I'm feeling each day through fragrance. And oh my gosh thank you for the tip! I am going to try my best to do a super deep dive into clothing care because I have a lot to learn and everyone has been so helpful! xo
My mom used a dab of vaseline as well. Sunday morning my sisters and I would make sure our Pat leather shoes looked shiny and nice! That was more than 50 years ago! It still works.
The term Satin is a weave, not a fiber and the term is widely used for polyester fabrics nowadays. Originally, all satins were made of silk, but nowadays the term is used for any glossy-weave fabrics. Check the fiber content, if it isn’t 100% silk, don’t waste your money.
@a: Totally agree given reason why many places discourage the use of it. i.e.: Doctor offices/hospitals, on public transit, in theatres, the work place etc.
If I wear my perfume I spray it up into the air in my bathroom then dash through the mist. I feel good that Ihave it on but unless you are quite close, you cannot smell it. I never wear it to an appointment of any kind.
I found my perfect blazer in my Husbands closet. He hasn't worn it in years and it is just that a bit oversized that it is perfect. I changed out the matching khaki buttons for black ones and a black belt and I love it!
Now that is a great hack!! Don't mind me running to Scotty's closet to see what he's got in there haha ❤️❤️ Thanks for such a thoughtful comment I loved it
I just discovered you today. I subscribed and hit the notification bell. Great tips on upgrading our look! On the topic of clothing care. I do not heat dry any of my clothing except white footy socks. I know I am lucky to have a drying room, so to speak. I use the bedroom we converted to our grandson’s cabin room when come to visit us. The closet is where we store drying wracks, clothes pins, ironing board, an iron and steamer. After the wash cycle is completed I throw everything with the exception of trouser socks, underwear and bras into the dryer on the air fluff. The timer setting is 10 to 20 minutes depending on the density of the fabric. It really helps to fluff the heavy wrinkles out. I hang most items on laundry racks or flat dry when needed. I hang my light cotton blouses on the velvet type hangers as well as slacks and jeans from the wire shelves. I do iron or steam my clothing. Have you tried to re-wash your shrunken sweater and re-block and flat dry? You have nothing to lose. I look forward to more of your videos.
Hi, I have just watched a lady who had shrunk a jumper. In a basin, fill with lukewarm water, ginger and fabric conditioner or hair conditioner. Fold garment and place in water solution. Leave over night. Take garment out and squeeze to remove some of the moisture. Lay on a towel and take your time to stretch out. I hope this helps. Mandy from Scotland
Aw thank you so much for sending along this insight Mandy! I so apprecaite it! (Side note I am manifesting an epic trip to Scotland one day. It looks absolutely incredible ❤) Much love!
Hi Amanda, great video! Yes I do love a good fragrance 🤗I don't feel quite dressed without it! I'm also happy to hear gold is the go to metallic this year as I'm definitely a gold girl being a blond! My best care/ cleaning tip is for anything leather and it's bees wax furniture polish just spray leave a couple of minutes then wipe off and it looks like brand new again! Bees wax furniture polish also works for waterproofing (preferably new but will work on worn) suede boots/ shoes just evenly, lightly spray it on and leave to dry and your footwear will be waterproof, the only slight issue if the suede is very pale like cream or white it may come up a little bit darker, but your footwear will last a lot longer if you do this when first new 😊. My other tip is for silver jewellery / trinkets silver plate etc you get a washing up bowl line the bottom of it with aluminium foil, put a good sprinkle of soda crystals into the bowl then add warm water then place all your silver jewellery etc in the bowl and leave for a while (30 minutes usually does it) take out, dry / polish with a cotton tea towel your silver will be beautifully shiny and look like new, if it is really badly tarnished/ gone black it may need a couple of goes to get it back to looking new, but it really works very well 🤗. The last tip I have is for any white plastic handbags or hats use toothpaste to clean with a toothbrush or nail brush for bigger items cover with the toothpaste leave for a few minutes then wipe off with a damp towel. Back to white in a few minutes! 🤗
I learned the art of hemming pants from my mother who is an excellent seamstress from an era when many women learned this art. While I did not care for sewing, I did learn how to hem, which has been incredibly valuable. For those who are interested, UA-cam must have helpful lessons.
Best to use depillers while garment is flat and secure, such as laid out on ironing board or table. You show using depiller while holding garment in hands. You can depill right through the other side of the garment that way. Lay it flat and work carefully.
You are so pretty, Amanda,all the outfits are perfect💞the jewels are so chic and yet very simple and stunning!! I like your pearls necklace too!!! I have bought the same necklace in your link！💕💕🥰
Oh my gosh I hope you love it as much as I do! I can't wait to style it up in all sorts of ways ❤ Thanks so much for watching and such a thoughtful comment!
I am SO glad I found your channel-I have forwarded people your link because I really enjoy your content. You are doing a really good job, I love your voice!
Please don't put Windex on your leather. That is ammonia. It may ruin your bag. To clean and polish leather, use leather cleaner. More often than not using a product meant for the material is the best route. The inverse is also true, using a product in a way not intended will cause damage. I can tell you put a lot of time in creating this video. Very helpful content. Thank you. Also nobody ever recommends scent, great point, thanks for that tip.
As soon as I read Windex I was thinking "okay this cannot be right" so I'm thrilled I've asked you gals! This has been so helpful thank you so much for taking the time to write this all out. 🥰 I was shocked that I've never seen fragrance recommended too! It's my go to even if I'm in gym clothes! Hope you have a lovely day!
My mom died unexpectedly at 89 and aside from missing her as my mom and best friend, I miss her talents at the sewing machine. She did almost any work on a garment (always hemming since I'm 4'10") and made all my skirts. I never did have a small waist and at 72 it's no better. If I wear a belt it's always paired with a jacket so no one knows that I don't have a small waist. Just something I'm sensitive about and although I have some great belts I still don't like to wear them. I never had to wear my trench coat a lot in Florida (lived there for 70 years) but now that we're in Ohio I love it. I've thought about buying a wool coat but if I layer right (LOL, still getting used to that) and use the trench's liner then I've been ok so far. I absolutely love fragrance but my brother (both of us are without spouses now and chose to live together when we moved to Ohio) has the world's most sensitive nose. Most of the time my Chanel No. 5 is ok with him but I have to be super careful (even with products I put on my hair). If I leave the house and want to wear another fragrance I put some of the perfume on a cotton ball and then put it on once I get in my car! The video was great!
You are truly inspiring! The way that every word you say, is well planned. It’s not ever boring, and you are also very natural and true to yourself. Such a fresh flower in this never ending highway of you tube videos.
I really enjoy watching your videos because they are super informative and you’re also very articulate. Would love a video on sourcing quality clothing. It seems to be getting harder to find fabrics without polyester, even in some of the higher end brands. Thank you
Aw thank you so much Shelley! That's a wonderful idea! Making that video is going to be tough but I'm up for the challenge 🥰🥰 Because honestly I would love to learn more about this too 🫶🏼❤️
You are so welcome! I was just talking about wanting to go to Miami the other day! If you could send some warmth our way (I live close to Toronto in Canada) I think we would all really appreciate it haha! ❤️
a great pleasure to watch your videos, so happy to find this channel! positive, beautiful and so well put together videos, thank you for your hard work!
Thanks, so much help that you have looked at everything and compared and distilled what’s up and coming. And I don’t live far from you, just a bit east….
Natural fabrics, appropriate texture , colour that suits the wearer, and tailored to fit is not boring. A smiling active face, appropriate footwear so move well gives the fluidity and dynamism which is not boring. Putting on some silly extra spoils the look.
Hey hey! New subscriber here..i lovee your content and I've been binge watching! Please make a video on 'fashion mistakes to avoid that age you'..xoxo ❤
I clean leather (belt, shoes, jacket, etc) with a quick spray of water with a bit of Murphy's oil soap mixed in. A dash of white vinegar is good to put in the spray bottle to keep it from making the leather sticky. Spray and wipe off any dirt or dust. smells good, too.
Hi Amanda! I loved your suggestions. You look very familiar as to other videos I’ve watched and enjoyed but I just can’t place. Have you had other channels before? Help me place where I’ve seen you before. Thanks.
No Amanda, never been to Canada. Ah Geez… I guess the mystery will go unsolved. 🤔 Well, They say we all have a double? We’ll, Thanks anyway for the reply, looks like it will remain a mystery.
I have used a tailor lately, so I don't buy new clothes, unless I need them. I had a college jersey that I didn't wear because it o big. So, I am having the length shortened to wear I want it. It is so exciting. Of course, this is very rare. Sometimes it's cheaper to buy new, sadly.
Yes, to seeing the video, I also have to down size and let go of clothing that doesn't serve me anymore. I just need a video like this to get me started
Oh shoot you're right! I need to link it!! Let me do that now :) similarly I have tried the Steamery one before and it was expensive and did not work well! Running to link it for ya!
I wish the belt recommendations were cruelty free. Leather requires skin of an animal which is so sad to think about! Any cruelty free brands to look into?
I'll definitely take a look! It's amazing some of the alternatives that have been popping up! I'm really interested in trying a mushroom leather belt 🥰 Will report back!
I love that one as well - sadly not sure what brand. Maybe someone else in the comments can help! I have been eyeing up The New York Collection from Demellier it's a bit similar: demellierlondon.com/collections/the-new-york-collection
Hai amanda ☺❤ I am muslim so i wearing shawl every outfit i am very love polished look but i have no idea to mix and macth the jewelery with the shawl .
Can anyone recommend a good quality comfortable sneaker? I am on my feet for 7hrs. a day & my feet hurt at the end of the day. I have tried On, Brooks, Nike etc & my feet continue to hurt. Any help would be greatly appreciated ❤
Always wash your cotton garments before you get them tailored. You never know how much it will shrink.
SUCH a great piece of advice 👏🏼
Yes to frangrance!! Even when I'm in mysuper casual clothes, that hint of fragrance makes me feel better.
Patent leather: my mom always used a dab a vaseline, rubbed it in, wiped off the excess. She had real patent and she felt that it kept the leather moisturized and helped a bit with weather proofing. Hope this helps, Amanda!
TOTALLY AGREE! I always feel so much more put together with a signature scent of the day 🥰 I used to always wear the same one but in the past couple of years I've expended my collection and it's so fun to choose how I'm feeling each day through fragrance. And oh my gosh thank you for the tip! I am going to try my best to do a super deep dive into clothing care because I have a lot to learn and everyone has been so helpful! xo
My mom used a dab of vaseline as well. Sunday morning my sisters and I would make sure our Pat leather shoes looked shiny and nice! That was more than 50 years ago! It still works.
Way back to the 1950s vaseline was the go to for polishing and cleaning patent leather
The term Satin is a weave, not a fiber and the term is widely used for polyester fabrics nowadays. Originally, all satins were made of silk, but nowadays the term is used for any glossy-weave fabrics. Check the fiber content, if it isn’t 100% silk, don’t waste your money.
Thank you for the tip!
I was also going to mention that satin is a type of weave and not a type of fabric. 😊
Fragrance is an issue for many asthmatics. Keep it light and minimal. Thank you so much!
@a: Totally agree given reason why many places discourage the use of it. i.e.: Doctor offices/hospitals, on public transit, in theatres, the work place etc.
If I wear my perfume I spray it up into the air in my bathroom then dash through the mist. I feel good that Ihave it on but unless you are quite close, you cannot smell it. I never wear it to an appointment of any kind.
I found my perfect blazer in my Husbands closet. He hasn't worn it in years and it is just that a bit oversized that it is perfect. I changed out the matching khaki buttons for black ones and a black belt and I love it!
Now that is a great hack!! Don't mind me running to Scotty's closet to see what he's got in there haha ❤️❤️ Thanks for such a thoughtful comment I loved it
I am glad you mentioned perfumes, they are the invisible accessory that elevate those outfits you mentioned.❤. 😊
Oh I'm so glad! I always feel so much more put together with a signature scent for the day 🥰
I just discovered you today. I subscribed and hit the notification bell.
Great tips on upgrading our look!
On the topic of clothing care. I do not heat dry any of my clothing except white footy socks. I know I am lucky to have a drying room, so to speak. I use the bedroom we converted to our grandson’s cabin room when come to visit us. The closet is where we store drying wracks, clothes pins, ironing board, an iron and steamer. After the wash cycle is completed I throw everything with the exception of trouser socks, underwear and bras into the dryer on the air fluff. The timer setting is 10 to 20 minutes depending on the density of the fabric. It really helps to fluff the heavy wrinkles out.
I hang most items on laundry racks or flat dry when needed. I hang my light cotton blouses on the velvet type hangers as well as slacks and jeans from the wire shelves. I do iron or steam my clothing.
Have you tried to re-wash your shrunken sweater and re-block and flat dry?
You have nothing to lose.
I look forward to more of your videos.
Hi, I have just watched a lady who had shrunk a jumper.
In a basin, fill with lukewarm water, ginger and fabric conditioner or hair conditioner.
Fold garment and place in water solution. Leave over night.
Take garment out and squeeze to remove some of the moisture. Lay on a towel and take your time to stretch out.
I hope this helps.
Mandy from Scotland
Aw thank you so much for sending along this insight Mandy! I so apprecaite it! (Side note I am manifesting an epic trip to Scotland one day. It looks absolutely incredible ❤) Much love!
Hi Amanda, great video! Yes I do love a good fragrance 🤗I don't feel quite dressed without it! I'm also happy to hear gold is the go to metallic this year as I'm definitely a gold girl being a blond! My best care/ cleaning tip is for anything leather and it's bees wax furniture polish just spray leave a couple of minutes then wipe off and it looks like brand new again! Bees wax furniture polish also works for waterproofing (preferably new but will work on worn) suede boots/ shoes just evenly, lightly spray it on and leave to dry and your footwear will be waterproof, the only slight issue if the suede is very pale like cream or white it may come up a little bit darker, but your footwear will last a lot longer if you do this when first new 😊.
My other tip is for silver jewellery / trinkets silver plate etc you get a washing up bowl line the bottom of it with aluminium foil, put a good sprinkle of soda crystals into the bowl then add warm water then place all your silver jewellery etc in the bowl and leave for a while (30 minutes usually does it) take out, dry / polish with a cotton tea towel your silver will be beautifully shiny and look like new, if it is really badly tarnished/ gone black it may need a couple of goes to get it back to looking new, but it really works very well 🤗.
The last tip I have is for any white plastic handbags or hats use toothpaste to clean with a toothbrush or nail brush for bigger items cover with the toothpaste leave for a few minutes then wipe off with a damp towel. Back to white in a few minutes! 🤗
Loved the script and the way you presented these tips 😉 Sounds personal and filled with character, yet professional🎉
Aw thank you so much I really appreciate it! ❤ Sometimes you are editing something for so long you just don't know anymore hah!
I learned the art of hemming pants from my mother who is an excellent seamstress from an era when many women learned this art. While I did not care for sewing, I did learn how to hem, which has been incredibly valuable. For those who are interested, UA-cam must have helpful lessons.
Best to use depillers while garment is flat and secure, such as laid out on ironing board or table. You show using depiller while holding garment in hands. You can depill right through the other side of the garment that way. Lay it flat and work carefully.
That's a great tip! Thanks Jennifer I'll absolutely do that next time 🥰
I love the way you style our pearl necklace with black sweater! This is actually what I'm wearing now！💕
Ah so happy to be matching! I love that ❤
You are so pretty, Amanda,all the outfits are perfect💞the jewels are so chic and yet very simple and stunning!! I like your pearls necklace too!!! I have bought the same necklace in your link！💕💕🥰
Oh my gosh I hope you love it as much as I do! I can't wait to style it up in all sorts of ways ❤ Thanks so much for watching and such a thoughtful comment!
I am SO glad I found your channel-I have forwarded people your link because I really enjoy your content. You are doing a really good job, I love your voice!
That is so kind of you! I can't tell you how much I appreciate it! 🥰
Please don't put Windex on your leather. That is ammonia. It may ruin your bag. To clean and polish leather, use leather cleaner. More often than not using a product meant for the material is the best route. The inverse is also true, using a product in a way not intended will cause damage. I can tell you put a lot of time in creating this video. Very helpful content. Thank you. Also nobody ever recommends scent, great point, thanks for that tip.
As soon as I read Windex I was thinking "okay this cannot be right" so I'm thrilled I've asked you gals! This has been so helpful thank you so much for taking the time to write this all out. 🥰 I was shocked that I've never seen fragrance recommended too! It's my go to even if I'm in gym clothes! Hope you have a lovely day!
My mom died unexpectedly at 89 and aside from missing her as my mom and best friend, I miss her talents at the sewing machine. She did almost any work on a garment (always hemming since I'm 4'10") and made all my skirts.
I never did have a small waist and at 72 it's no better. If I wear a belt it's always paired with a jacket so no one knows that I don't have a small waist. Just something I'm sensitive about and although I have some great belts I still don't like to wear them.
I never had to wear my trench coat a lot in Florida (lived there for 70 years) but now that we're in Ohio I love it. I've thought about buying a wool coat but if I layer right (LOL, still getting used to that) and use the trench's liner then I've been ok so far.
I absolutely love fragrance but my brother (both of us are without spouses now and chose to live together when we moved to Ohio) has the world's most sensitive nose. Most of the time my Chanel No. 5 is ok with him but I have to be super careful (even with products I put on my hair). If I leave the house and want to wear another fragrance I put some of the perfume on a cotton ball and then put it on once I get in my car!
The video was great!
Your Mom sounds like she was a fabulously talented lady ❤️❤️ Thanks so much for watching and sharing all of this xo
You are truly inspiring! The way that every word you say, is well planned. It’s not ever boring, and you are also very natural and true to yourself. Such a fresh flower in this never ending highway of you tube videos.
Love your video, Amanda!❤❤
I really enjoy watching your videos because they are super informative and you’re also very articulate. Would love a video on sourcing quality clothing. It seems to be getting harder to find fabrics without polyester, even in some of the higher end brands. Thank you
Aw thank you so much Shelley! That's a wonderful idea! Making that video is going to be tough but I'm up for the challenge 🥰🥰 Because honestly I would love to learn more about this too 🫶🏼❤️
Thank you for all the tips!
My pleasure! ❤
Thank you for your kindness! Hoping all is well these days. Insightful 💃
You have such a talent ❤️🔥 love this video!!
Aw thank you so much for watching love! Means so much to me 🥹❤️
Thanks much for this great video.❤
Really appreciate you watching! Thank you!
Your hair color & hair overall look fabulous 🤩. As always, wonderful & useful tips. Always a fashion inspiration! 🌸
Aw thank you darling ❤️ Always so kind and thoughtful! Hope you're having a great week
Love your style and your accessories recommendations🥰🥰🥰, I’m actually planning to buy this pearl necklace for my mom!!!!💞
Oh no way! That is such a thoughtful gift! She's going to love it!
Thank you for this very helpful tips😍.I will try to implement all of this good inspirations.👍
So happy you enjoyed in 🥰
What a beautiful and informative video. Loved all these tips. Ty so much Amanda. Hello from North Miami Beach.
You are so welcome! I was just talking about wanting to go to Miami the other day! If you could send some warmth our way (I live close to Toronto in Canada) I think we would all really appreciate it haha! ❤️
I’m definitely interested in the idea of culling your wardrobe based on the fit of an item of clothing.
Awesome video thank you and ❤️❤️❤️your hair it’s exactly how I’m getting mine done next Tuesday super excited 🥰
Great tips ❤
Thanks for watching 🥰
a great pleasure to watch your videos, so happy to find this channel!
positive, beautiful and so well put together videos, thank you for your hard work!
So kind of you! So happy to have you here!
Thanks, so much help that you have looked at everything and compared and distilled what’s up and coming. And I don’t live far from you, just a bit east….
Natural fabrics, appropriate texture , colour that suits the wearer, and tailored to fit is not boring. A smiling active face, appropriate footwear so move well gives the fluidity and dynamism which is not boring. Putting on some silly extra spoils the look.
Hey hey! New subscriber here..i lovee your content and I've been binge watching! Please make a video on 'fashion mistakes to avoid that age you'..xoxo ❤
I clean leather (belt, shoes, jacket, etc) with a quick spray of water with a bit of Murphy's oil soap mixed in. A dash of white vinegar is good to put in the spray bottle to keep it from making the leather sticky. Spray and wipe off any dirt or dust. smells good, too.
Oh wonderful!! Thanks so much for the tips love!
Might you demo what you used to style your hair? I have tried & returned several things that just do not style as advertised. Many thanks :)
Mr Cleaner can clean scruffs on shoes, etc..
Oh yes!! Such a good recommendation! I did this last year to some white sneakers and was shocked how white I could get them! (Adding to the list!)
Hi. Was wondering if you can recommend a non iron white shirt? Thanks!❤
Do try Brooks Brothers. Their no irons are great
Hi Amanda! I loved your suggestions. You look very familiar as to other videos I’ve watched and enjoyed but I just can’t place. Have you had other channels before? Help me place where I’ve seen you before.
Thanks.
Hmm I wonder! If you live in Canada I was on The Weather Network for 3 years? Maybe from there 🥰
No Amanda, never been to Canada. Ah Geez… I guess the mystery will go unsolved. 🤔 Well, They say we all have a double?
We’ll, Thanks anyway for the reply, looks like it will remain a mystery.
I have used a tailor lately, so I don't buy new clothes, unless I need them. I had a college jersey that I didn't wear because it o big. So, I am having the length shortened to wear I want it. It is so exciting. Of course, this is very rare. Sometimes it's cheaper to buy new, sadly.
Just subscribe to your channel it is great that we can hang out and get great ideas. Try getting your sweater damp and stretching it back to size
Yes, to seeing the video, I also have to down size and let go of clothing that doesn't serve me anymore. I just need a video like this to get me started
Aw I'm so excited this kick started the process for you! 🥰 Me too actually! Happy to have you here!
❤
Looking for the de-piller shaver you mentioned. I tried the Conair one and it did not work.
Oh shoot you're right! I need to link it!! Let me do that now :) similarly I have tried the Steamery one before and it was expensive and did not work well! Running to link it for ya!
Linked! ❤
Suggestion, cheap vodka restores patented leather.
Thanks for taking the time to share this tip!! 🥰
If you are wearing fragarence, opt for unscented products like hairsray!😊
Great shout!
Love your content just come it❤
Where do you get your hair extensions? They're great!
Thank you so much! They are Covet and Mane and I go to a salon in Burlington, Ontario called Bubbles and Blow 🥰🥰
Leaning how to hem pants skirts and sleeves will save $$$$$
This is my goal this year!! I'm currently looking into introductory sewing classes and am so excited. You're definitely right here!
I wish the belt recommendations were cruelty free. Leather requires skin of an animal which is so sad to think about! Any cruelty free brands to look into?
I'll definitely take a look! It's amazing some of the alternatives that have been popping up! I'm really interested in trying a mushroom leather belt 🥰 Will report back!
Is zag een zwarte grote brede tas in het midden van je accessoires voorbeelden wat is dat voor merk tas. Minuut 5.34
I love that one as well - sadly not sure what brand. Maybe someone else in the comments can help! I have been eyeing up The New York Collection from Demellier it's a bit similar: demellierlondon.com/collections/the-new-york-collection
Hai amanda ☺❤
I am muslim so i wearing shawl every outfit i am very love polished look but i have no idea to mix and macth the jewelery with the shawl .
Thanks so much or watching!
Stretch your sweater while it's still wet and dry flat. It may take a few tries, but it can be done with some patience
I am allergic to perfume. If I am around someone with perfume on, and can’t get away from them, I get a severe headache.
Aw that's the worst! I'm so sorry to hear that 🤍
If you can't afford the Celine belt, Amazon has a dupe.
That's a great shout! Thanks for this tidbit love
Designer belts only come in small sizes. Not for anyone that wears an XL.
Just wash your clothes in 30°C it's fine for most clothes
Great tip Anna thanks for your input 🥰🥰
Can anyone recommend a good quality comfortable sneaker? I am on my feet for 7hrs. a day & my feet hurt at the end of the day. I have tried On, Brooks, Nike etc & my feet continue to hurt. Any help would be greatly appreciated ❤
I wish I had some suggestions for you Jackie but hoping someone will help us out in the comments!
You might want to try german army trainer sneakers 😊
Skechers!
Pronounced Roland "More-ay"
I was actually looking where to pronounce that one. Thanks Wendy!
Yo...elevate those shelves!..js
Haha it's almost done 😂😂
real leather is disgusting 🤢 making animals suffer for aesthetics is not elegant just make a bag out of your own skin 🥰