Wedding Dress Shopping Is Even Harder When A Baby Is On The Way! | Say Yes to The Dress
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The brides today all have one thing in common, they are all soon to be new mothers. Now these brides have to worry about how themselves and their baby will look in the dress!
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From Season 8 Episode 13
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Two great families love and support each other. Bravo to the dad. Lucky baby going to be born and enjoy life and have great family around them.
i don't follow randy's logic. she shouldn't shop for a wedding dress after she has the baby because she might not lose the baby weight, so she should shop before she's gained any baby weight? wouldn't it make MORE sense to shop after she has her new post-baby body so she can find a dress that actually suits her new body and isn't contingent on her crash-dieting to get down to her pre-pregnancy size (which might not even be possible)?
My thoughts exactly 💯
IKR? That totally did not make any sense at all!!
I agree and I don’t get it either.
Amen! 🙌🏻
What he's saying is that in order to get the dress in time, she would have to shop RIGHT after she has the baby, when she's still carrying all the baby weight. But by the time of the wedding, she'll have lost most, of not all of it, and the dress might not look the same on her. If she shops before she gets too big, her body will be closer to how her body will be 5-6 months after the baby. Anyway, the dress has a corset back, so she should be able to make adjustments to the size.
I wish they'd have shown the second couple's baby! It makes me realize how much times have changed since I was in my 20s. My parents insisted on rushing my wedding because he and I were merely living under the same roof!
I love all these people, and especially the brides. Dad, you are the best.
Did you know the first bridal bouquet was because the bride was pregnant and it covered her growing belly. I learned that at a baby shower quiz
That bridal shower quiz was simply for entertainment, and not based on facts. The bridal bouquet goes back to ancient Greeks and Romans when certain flowers and greenery symbolized fertility, faithfulness, and good luck.
Shout-out to the DADDY'S GIRLS out there! My dad raised me as a single father since I was 2! ❤ I miss him every day!
Both mommas are beautiful in their wedding dresses ❤
Congratulations to both brides. That baby was so cute.
Love her dress and her dad is so sweet! Beautiful baby too! 😊
Sorry! Once i drop this kid ??
Seriously not a good choice of words.
What do you expect when your pregnant, of course you add weight.
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I will be 3 months post partum at my wedding. The dress looked good at 9 weeks and fit (and this isn't my first pregnancy so i was showing) so I'm not worried.
Everyone is saying it doesn't make since to dress shop before baby . I'm with Randy . That will be one thing out the way . She will be more focused on losing the weight and the baby without the stress of finding a dress . Also , it is much easier to lose the weight , in the first two months after the baby .
PS:
The gown she chooses was beautiful on her . Perfect style if she has a little stomach left the dress will conceal it.
It is definitely a gamble. If she still likes the dress on her new body and has enough wiggle room for the alterations, it would be a great weight off her shoulders. If the dress doesn’t fit properly anymore though, or she has some post Partum insecurities about how her body has changed, it might add even more stress.
"Once I drop this kid"...????....Wtf?🤔
OMG could her dad be ANY sweeter!!!! Love him!
Adrian has done more then just kissing lol
Beautyfull babybump.
That dad is so sweet.
To the first bride. Be happy you can get pregnant. The baby needs room somewhere!
Be proud not that negative minded!
You chose a beautyfull dress ! Such a little princes, congratulations!
Beautiful brides.
Have the baby, then have the wedding. That is something my mother would say.
I don't like the way she says "drop this kid." Randy was absolutely right when he said, "You mean when you have your baby."
Did anyone else notice that Tisha’s future MIL wasn’t present when she chose her dress? Not even an empty chair. I wonder what happened?
I wanted to ask the same thing. It has never been shown since they met. She was sitting somewhere in the corner on a chair among her friends, she was never talked about and she did not comment on anything. It was gone, as it was not there at all
Yes I noticed. I came on to see if anyone else noticed. Wonder what happened?
She must have been very thin because she is really showing for only 3 months! When I was 3 months, no one could tell I was pregnant even! Maybe she's having a boy as they tend to go straight out front while I had girls that I carried everywhere. She's just a beautiful girl and I wish her all the happiness.
Awhhh ❤❤ amazing amazing episode I'm not crying 😭❤
"drop this kid" ??? 😢
It means she’s giving birth to the baby. What’s wrong with that?
I think she tried to be light-hearted
It is slang and she was being funny.
She meant more like “pop this kid out”
From the beginning I thought she should have gone with A line -- why pull fitted dresses when they won't fit her shape right now and she doesn't know what her shape will be after the baby?
Congratulations 👏 yous have extra special blessings on your wedding day ❤
Doesn't it make sense to find the dress, order a little large & then have it altered after the baby? I've not had a child but lots of friends who have. A lot of things change after a baby, even if you exercise/diet. Waist measurement, boobs, hips change.
When grandma showed the 5 I was like, oh no, she doesn't like it, but then dad put 4.5 and I started to realize it was out of 5, not 10. Whew!
Why didn’t she wait till after she had her baby??? Usually that’s what happens , so What was the big hurry . I guess I’m old fashioned and love to see a wedding then children . I would not want to walk down the isle 7 months pregnant , that’s for sure. But I’m glad their happy 😊
My late parents would have killed me if I got pregnant before marriage.
Seems like everyone is doing that now. I don't like it, personally.
Did anyone notice her future mother in law disappeared !
Tisa, your choice was the right one.
Daddy sweetest ❤❤❤
The baby was so adorable!!!!
Since she's pregnant, she should do an empire waistline.
Randy's eyebrows were on point.❤😊
this family is AWESOME
What a lovely dad
I think all women are the most beautiful on their wedding day and also when they're pregnant.
Women get very fat in the face, crusty lips, swollen nose and lips when they are pregnant. I disagree but to each his own
A Cape Cod wedding in the spring is so much cheaper...off season is the time 😂
She didn’t plan this pregnancy and clearly hasn’t had time to adjust to it. Judge her when you’ve walked in her shoes. Her self image is worrying but also hardly unusual in our culture. As someone who has studied human history and behavior all my life this is not an earth shattering event! I just hope neither young woman was influenced by outside, judgemental pressure.
When will designers start making maternity bridal gowns ?
Get married now and have a big party later. Best of luck to ALL
I’m surprised she’s not waiting until after having her baby to choose a dress. Your body changes after having a baby.
Sometimes. After my first, my body bounced back. It took twins to fully change it! 😂
It sounds like she doesn’t have enough time after the baby to go through the whole process of getting a dress, so she is ordering one now and then having it altered later. Definitely a gamble.
For the second bride I'd be worried about arranging a wedding so close to the due date. It's a lot of money and so you may as well wait til you can get the dress you really want,, rather than a nightgown. But most importantly, what if the baby is early or you don't feel well? Plus it's a lot of standing around and dancing and such might be difficult. I'm thinking there are religious issues involved.
Only problem is, tastes change after having a baby..
Omg so many judgmental comments here. People do things their own way. Get over it.
Pre-baby is NOT the time to look for a fitted dress.
She is sure hating on her body. She's making an actual person, but doesn't seem very happy about that.
She’s happy but first pregnancies are very confusing for people. Let it go
Does anyone have any ideas why the 2nd wedding has all the windows closed, its very dark... is that a custom somewhere?
So cute❤
She could have ordered 6 months after pregnancy and still would have more than 8 months to get the dress- plenty of time. This is insane.
Depressing to see that the first comments on this vid are from these conservative traditionalists who are mad that she’s pregnant. So what? It seems like she and her partner are taking responsibility for the pregnancy. She’s keeping the baby, and they’re getting married so both parents are in the baby’s life. How is this a bad thing?
Yes my family is like that but many of my cousins got pregnant and had kids before marriage. One did not marry until after 2 kids. One of them got pregnant and had a shot gun wedding too. I guess my generation broke the taboo about having kids before marriage.
Depressing to see people who can't just let others have their point of view. There are many reasons why it's a good idea to wait till you're married to get pregnant.
@@AS-yz2izI used to think that too but have changed my views as having kids after marriage is not a guarantee for anything either.
@@AS-yz2izWho is not letting you have your point of view? You can say whatever but whether people agree with it or not is a different story.
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj If you find the right person it is.
For my wedding my cousin got me a book called "30 Days to Stop Being a Shopaholic" by Harper Daniels which was funny but helpful...otherwise I would have spent all my savings on so many things hahaha. Wedding shopping is fun
🛑🛑Wow, the first pregnant woman has a VERY negative image about weight in general, very demeaning to herself and women in general….’when the kid is out and dropped’…tasteless….And the second one, her dress was SO ill fitting in the top!
Yeah, when she said, "Once I drop this kid, I'll be hot," I was done with her.🙄
@@juanita_rocksteady2761 I agree i thought how she talked about her baby like it was a burden she didn't want.
Exactly
I thought the 2nd dress was very flattering on her.
Lol, not everyone needs to use sentimental, sugary language when it comes to children and pregnancy. Some people just have this kind of sense of humour.
I bought a dress 25 days before my wedding,at 4m pregnant..I had to go buy a new dress 3 days before the wedding. My 1st dress wouldn't fit over "the girls"😂😂😂
Tisa, you are a beautiful young woman and I can safely say you will never look like a fat slob. You have way too many good things working for you not to worry.
When I drop this kid??? She is not looking forward to having a child!
She’s putting too much pressure on herself
It would make even better sense if these young women would hold off intimacy until after they are married.
She's supposed to be 3 months into her pregnancy? She's blaming the pregnancy for her size unless she's more advanced in her pregnancy it doesn't make sense for my brain and common sense
QUITE STINGY I WOULD GIVE THE SECOND DRESS (THE ONE SHE ACTUALLY CAME OUT IN) A 10 SHE LOOKS AMAZING HER FIANCE IS A LUCKY MAN......
Then don't get pregnant
here's an idea, get pregnant after you get married.
That was what my late parents said. Marriage first then kids.
What a novel idea these days! Too bad so many people decide not to follow that bit of wisdom anymore.
Well… we had the baby first, then bought a house a year later… and now our 17 year anniversary is next April and we are finally getting married just after our son turns 15. So… we really mucked up the order. Not everyone needs a wedding or a signed document to have a healthy relationship or a life or a family together. We are only finally doing it now because it’s something all three of us have discussed that it would be awesome to do together as a family, small destination trip, vows ceremony. Nothing extravagant or over the top… just a family vacation with lasting memories.
Ideally everyone would do things in that order. But the good thing is they're getting married. That's what matters most.
@@DeathByBlonde1It is ok to have kids before marriage now as it is not the olden days anymore. However, I would marry right away after I have a kid if it were me. But the good thing about having kids beforehand is they can participate in the wedding with their parents which would make it twice as fun.
Imagine caring more about looking "fat" than in getting married before your baby is born. To each her own, I guess.
If you’re talking about the first girl she wasn’t getting married before the baby was born, but by the time she had the baby it would be too late to order a dress so she was going in as early as possible to see what a dress would look like on her smaller body
Imagine being so judgy about someone you don’t actually know after seeing several moments of this persons life
Why don’t pregnant brides just wait until they have the baby ?
How about waiting till after they get married to get pregnant?
@@AS-yz2izMost would want that but it is not the olden days anymore.
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj What does that have to do with anything? People can still make smart choices. All these babies first, and babies outside the f marriage certainly hasn't strengthened our culture.
@@AS-yz2izDude, when you are in love then you express it physically through sex so things happen. Getting married and then having kids does not guarantee anything. You are old fashioned. The next thing you know, you end up like that and people you know too. Then I wonder what you will do or say.
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj You seem to be confusing love and lust. Respecting the other person and saving sex for a committed relationship in marriage is how you express your love for someone. If sex = love, then everyone who had sex would commit to and marry each other, and we know that's not the case. And I "end up" like what?
Seems its the trend have the baby then get married so.....
Too bad.
And THIS is why the order should be WEDDING - BABY, not the other way around.
You're till thin even though you're pregant please don't say otherwise!
Who in the world brings a circus to pick a dress? That's crazy. I picked a dress by myself. I was 20 years old.
No friends or loved ones, huh? Too bad.
@@AS-yz2izNothing wrong with going alone, especially if you are paying and you get to pick exactly what you want without consulting anyone.
I would go by myself or bring 1-2 people at most but that is it.
I brought 3 people to my wedding dress appt 🤷🏻♀️. My mom, future mother in law and future sister in law. And it was an AMAZING experience
Before the advent of patriarchal religions designed to control and disempower women, a woman who came to a partnership pregnant was seen as extra desirable. She had proven her fertility and was bringing precious new life into the relationship. Such a miracle should be celebrated. Women should be once again revered as the creative source of life and renewal. It's so artificial to impose some kind of religious dogma on having a baby!
I agree that women should be cherished for their creative ability. However only in pagan cultures was an unmarried/pledged, or whatever term you want to use woman perhaps looked upon as special. From the earliest days, it was typical to first find a life long partner before bringing life into the world. And although many marry for religious reasons, there i's also a strong cultural reason. Children who are born into a marriage, a strong committed relationship, and brought up in a stable home are kore likely to be successful, co tributing members of society. And quite frankly, not ment men want to take care of someone else's kid.
I'm very liberal, and I firmly believe in reserving sex for a loving and stable marriage. For me, it's not about control over women. It's about self respect. I respected myself enough to save sex for marriage to the righg man.
@@thecatfromoregon Good for you! 😊
@@thecatfromoregonI used to think that too but I have changed my views. Just because you have sex before marriage does not mean you are disrespecting yourself and it is extremely sad that you think that way, especially if you claim to be a liberal. If you found someone you love, then a way to express it physically is sex but you have to make sure they are someone you love and they love you too and are not only using you.
@@AS-yz2izMaking a baby takes the man too so men should be cherished too not just women. But yes, women carry the baby.
Naked with Saran Wrap? GROSS. CLICK. GONE.
Shotgun wed
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NOT A FAN OF TISA..WHST A SELF CENTERED WOMEN,HOPEFULLY SHE WILL GROW UP WHEN SHE BECOMES A MOTHER.BECAUSE AS A MOTHER,SOME DAYS YOUR NOT GONNA LOOK HOT,HER KEY WORD..
I LOOK 🔥 🥵. NOT AT ALL.
He only proposed because she got pregnant. 😢
Why not just wait till after you are married to have a baby? Women hardly win any other way.
Here's just an idea = wait until AFTER you're married to have a baby. Just a thought.
العروسات جميعهم حوامل. 😂
Bride #1 needs to go ahead and get married before the baby starts to show. Bride # 2 needs to go to the justice of the Peace as far along as she is.That is tacky to have a big wedding and that pregnant.
Gee ,I always thought that you were supposed to wait and have sex after you were married.!!!Will this be a shotgun wedding?
Lmao! Not sure what century you are living in.
How many people do you know that actually wait until they are married to have sex??
@@leannecanty8821 God is the same yesterday today and forever. In case you didn't know!!!!
What is the problem if they are getting married and both parents will be in the child's life? You just look for something to complain about when you could just be happy for them. You must be miserable.
@@xxarianahiltonxx5116 and maybe you are godless
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Pregnant before marriage with no shame and still want WHITE wedding dresses?
Your thinking is very old school😂😂
That's super judgmental. Think before you comment
What's wrong with wanting to wear white?
Gee, I always thought that you were supposed to wait to have sex after you were married.??? Will this be a shotgun wedding?
Oh dear, oh dear. Nothing wrong with this lady's situation at all.
I DON'T NO WHY YOU WOULD GET MARRIED PREGNANT 6 AND A HALF MONTHS SHE LOOKS MASSIVE SORRY...........
Call me old fashioned, but I don't believe a pregnant bride should be wearing white....she should be wearing a color