Life in Japan: realization after fight, married life, pictures, postpartum check up in Japan

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  • Опубліковано 4 лют 2025

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  • @rosekurokawa0408
    @rosekurokawa0408  9 днів тому +11

    Hi everyone,
    I hope you enjoy watching our video today. Please don’t worry about me and my husband. we may have our fights, but we always choose to stay together and work things out. Thank you for your love and support ❤
    Hugs and kisses to everyone ❤
    Ps: i am sorry about the date. It supposed to be 2025. I input 2024 😅 my bad 🙏

  • @annross8718
    @annross8718 9 днів тому +5

    She’s like a little doll beautiful ❤🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

  • @webhero000
    @webhero000 8 днів тому +3

    OMG, your son is so sweet and gentle with the baby!😍😍
    As life goes on, your need for independence will increase. For years I relied on people driving me places and helping me do things until one day I got sick of waiting on others and wanted to live on my own time.

    • @rosekurokawa0408
      @rosekurokawa0408  8 днів тому +2

      Good morning mam,
      I feel scared whenever we have a fight because it feels like I wouldn’t know where to start or what to do on my own. I’m sorry you had to go through a similar experience. We’re hoping to become more independent now. Being self-reliant here in Japan is really important because, in the worst-case scenario, there might be no one to turn to for help ❤️
      Godbless you

    • @lyndahatfield6124
      @lyndahatfield6124 8 днів тому +2

      When I first emigrated to the US from England, I was totally reliant on my husband for everything. I understand how you feel! I am glad you were able to talk about it. Watching your son with the baby is so precious! ❤

  • @larkhughes9740
    @larkhughes9740 8 днів тому +3

    Dear Rose, I believe all families have gone through or are going through what you are going through. It's a bump in the road of relationship life and it will pass. Keep smiling, keep loving with your beautiful family. Leaning on hubby at this time, is necessary and it's and ebb and flow thing. Take care of yourself.❤

    • @rosekurokawa0408
      @rosekurokawa0408  8 днів тому

      Hi Mam Lark ❤️
      Thankyou so much for your concern ❤️

  • @charlenegalag3580
    @charlenegalag3580 8 днів тому +1

    Always take care ate pag nag dadrive love you! 💋

    • @rosekurokawa0408
      @rosekurokawa0408  7 днів тому

      Hi bebe thankyou ingat din kayo palagi jan. Iloveyou missyou ❤️

  • @jennykarling862
    @jennykarling862 9 днів тому +6

    The time when your children are small is the most stressful time in a marriage. It will pass and you will get through it.

  • @sharongibson1161
    @sharongibson1161 9 днів тому +5

    Your children are just beautiful !!! Being exhausted all the time makes for a lot of stress and irritability , hang on you guys, it gets better❤❤❤❤

  • @MamaDaisy22
    @MamaDaisy22 6 днів тому +1

    You're such a strong momma, beh. I know how independent you are, and it’s okay to lean on your husband right now. Give yourself grace-there’s no rush. In time, you’ll find your rhythm again, one step at a time.❤️

  • @AlessandraBorghi_discoveringYT

    Dear Rose, thanks again to share your life with us!!
    Very beautiful landscape there 😮
    Love your city🩵

  • @sherriwells3717
    @sherriwells3717 8 днів тому +1

    You have a beautiful & loving family❤ and your husband has the inter beauty to care of his lovely family❤❤❤

  • @adelef.7147
    @adelef.7147 8 днів тому +1

  • @Mamaniharuki
    @Mamaniharuki 8 днів тому +1

    Now watching sissy😊

  • @Mamaniharuki
    @Mamaniharuki 8 днів тому +1

    Kuya na c mikuru sis bilis ng panahon❤

  • @charlenegalag3580
    @charlenegalag3580 8 днів тому

    Now watching ❤❤❤

  • @angelaabergas
    @angelaabergas 7 днів тому

    Grabe pa din ang snow sa inyo bhebhe. Happy 2mons to Manami Chan♥️♥️♥️

  • @carrycarrie1102
    @carrycarrie1102 8 днів тому

    Good evening Rose 😊. Now watching 😊

  • @JojoArseno
    @JojoArseno 9 днів тому +2

    Good afternoon 😊now watching while relaxing 😊

  • @Ategurl-im8cc
    @Ategurl-im8cc 9 днів тому +1

    Cute naman ng baby mo beb sweet ni kuya nya❤

  • @TheMyahChannel
    @TheMyahChannel 5 днів тому

    Ive been looking at pregnant in japan videos and came across your channel. I love your videos 😊

  • @Ategurl-im8cc
    @Ategurl-im8cc 9 днів тому +1

    Hello beb good evening now watching ❤❤❤

  • @MariaGarcia-wv2ck
    @MariaGarcia-wv2ck 8 днів тому +1

    Querida Rose!!! Qué lindos están vuestros hijos 🥰 la pequeñita está creciendo preciosa ❤ espero que estéis bien y que Meiha esté mejor. Mikuru es muy cariñoso,se le ve un niño muy bueno y tierno. Es bueno que quieras sentirte independiente, porque necesitamos cómo personas saber realizar y luchar por uno mismo pero con respecto a conducir en ésas condiciones es muy peligroso,se puede perder el control del coche en un pequeño instante. Cuídate mucho y sigue tus revisiones. Tu marido y tú descansar lo que podáis. Un abrazo muy grande para todos ❤

    • @rosekurokawa0408
      @rosekurokawa0408  8 днів тому

      Hola, mamá María. Gracias por tus amables palabras hacia nosotras, mamá, y por tu amor y apoyo. Dios te bendiga, mamá María ❤️

  • @angelaabergas
    @angelaabergas 7 днів тому

    Ito yun maganda sa Japan pagdating sa health care system . Alam ko kapag may away ang magasawa higit na nahihirapan ang babae lalo at kapapanganak mo pa lang. pero ninyo yan bhebhe♥️♥️🙏🙏

    • @rosekurokawa0408
      @rosekurokawa0408  6 днів тому

      Opo ate. Lagi naman kami nagtatalo nito hehe pero shoganai nalang talaga

  • @YoojinKim-gt5fj
    @YoojinKim-gt5fj 6 днів тому

    Awww Rose your kids are beautiful 😍 & your husband's genes are strong 💪 😂! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Mamaniharuki
    @Mamaniharuki 8 днів тому +1

    Ang ganda ng lugar nyo para saming mga hnd naulanan ng snow hehehe sana makapunta kmi sapporo gusto ko makarating dun😊

  • @JackieAusten
    @JackieAusten 7 днів тому

    Thanks

    • @rosekurokawa0408
      @rosekurokawa0408  7 днів тому +2

      Mam Jackie 🥹🥹🥹
      Thankyou so much always ❤️❤️

    • @JackieAusten
      @JackieAusten 7 днів тому +1

      @@rosekurokawa0408 sending you, and your family , lots of love 🥰

    • @rosekurokawa0408
      @rosekurokawa0408  7 днів тому +2

      @JackieAusten I appreciate mam Jackie ❤️ we also sending you lots of love and hugs and kisses 😘 please take care always ❤️

    • @JackieAusten
      @JackieAusten 7 днів тому +1

      @@rosekurokawa0408 you are so very welcome Rose 🌹
      Keep warm and sending hugs 🥰
      I hope that you are doing well
      Love Jackie 😘 xx

    • @rosekurokawa0408
      @rosekurokawa0408  6 днів тому

      @JackieAusten Thankyou Mam Jackie ❤️ we hope that you are also doing fine mam ❤️

  • @angelafigueroa7546
    @angelafigueroa7546 9 днів тому +1

    Hello Rose 🌹 hope your day is going well I went through what you went through after I had my daughter I was never married I didn’t want to go into details about the relationship but I got through it I raise my daughter from when she was a baby till she is an adult she is 26 years old now but everything will be alright with you and your husband so take care of yourself and your family stay healthy and safe 🥰❤️😘🙏

    • @rosekurokawa0408
      @rosekurokawa0408  8 днів тому

      Hi mam Angela ❤️ and to your precious daughter thankyou for reminding me mam ❤️

  • @raymonde4272
    @raymonde4272 8 днів тому +1

    It was so sweet seeing Miruku playing with his sister Manami-chan. She did not seem bothered by him touching her and it was especially cute when he removed his dummy to blow a kiss.
    I suspect arguments between parents can be quite common when you have a baby and a toddler as you are both tired from poor sleep patterns.
    I hope the check-up went well. 🫶🏻

    • @rosekurokawa0408
      @rosekurokawa0408  8 днів тому +2

      Hi Sir Raymonde,
      We’re also very happy to see that our son seems to understand now that he has a little sister 😍 My check-up went well, sir. Thank you so much 🙏

  • @Ayuw
    @Ayuw 8 днів тому +1

    Hey! I just wanted to write about something important. I know you care about your little ones, and I’ve been reading about car safety. Using a baby seat is really crucial for keeping infants safe in the car. It can make a huge difference in case of an accident. I just thought it might be worth considering for your baby’s safety! Let me know what you think!

    • @rosekurokawa0408
      @rosekurokawa0408  8 днів тому +2

      Hi Mam. Thankyou so much. You are very right. We are using baby car seat if baby isn't crying. I am sorry for that. We will make sure to be more careful next time. Thankyou for your concern 🥰 Godbless

    • @Ayuw
      @Ayuw 8 днів тому +1

      @rosekurokawa0408 My first born was always crying in her car seat, she truly hated it as a baby. We sometimes had to stop the car to hold her. It was very stressful time! It helps a little if you can sit next to her and sing etc. Take care ❣️

    • @rosekurokawa0408
      @rosekurokawa0408  8 днів тому +2

      @Ayuw thankyou mam for your concern. And hello to you child ❤️ please keep safe and warm ❤️

    • @Ayuw
      @Ayuw 8 днів тому +1

      @rosekurokawa0408 Thank you 🥰 I actually have two daughters: little sister is the same age as Mikuru and elder sister is 3. The age gap is similar with your youngest kids!

  • @kati-ana
    @kati-ana 8 днів тому +2

    Hi Lovely Rose. Glad to see you're all well. I am wondering if it's common practice for toddlers to be placed in childcare centers even if the mother is home during the day? In America it's highly unlikely a 1-4 y/o would be in daycare if one parent is home. They would go have play groups a few days a week to join so they can socialize but only daycare for mothers who work outside the home. Also many here can't afford daycare if they're not working moms. Please educate me on this matter. God bless you Rose and your darling little family.

    • @lynntredway6930
      @lynntredway6930 8 днів тому +1

      Actually it is quite common to put toddlers in preschool(nursery school) even if mom is not working. It is not all day. The daycare is for working moms and is longer hours. The preschool there is similar to our Head Start in the US kinda like pre kindergarten

    • @rosekurokawa0408
      @rosekurokawa0408  8 днів тому +2

      Hi Mam Kati,
      Here in Japan, I think they only allow babies or toddlers to be placed in childcare centers if both parents are working. But if only one parent is working, they usually don’t allow the baby to attend nursery school. As for me, I’m currently on maternity leave, which is why my baby is able to attend nursery school for now ❤️

    • @kati-ana
      @kati-ana 8 днів тому +1

      @@rosekurokawa0408 Thank you for helping me to understand. Since I'm so new to your channel I didn't know you have a job waiting. It will be extra work for you working and raising kids while also having to tend to all the home chores. Please rest as much as possible before having to return to work.

    • @kati-ana
      @kati-ana 8 днів тому +1

      @@lynntredway6930 The state I'm from it is rare for an infant thru age 3 going to daycare unless moms are working. At age 3 they begin preschool. Here daycare begins at 1200. a month so most people keep their littles at home with grandparents.

    • @rosekurokawa0408
      @rosekurokawa0408  8 днів тому +1

      Thankyou for your insight mam Lynn ❤️

  • @Mamaniharuki
    @Mamaniharuki 8 днів тому +1

    Ang hirap ng ganyan papasok cla sa school daana daming snow😂😅 buti malapit lang nilalakad nila

  • @angelaabergas
    @angelaabergas 7 днів тому

    Good evening Rose♥️♥️♥️

  • @catea2551
    @catea2551 2 дні тому

    i was agreeing with you til i saw the drive home. when you have a little baby you can't be totally independent, well maybe you can if you must, but if help is around take it. there is plenty of time for independence. two little children is very taxing and exhausting. better to be safe on the roads for now.

    • @rosekurokawa0408
      @rosekurokawa0408  2 дні тому

      @@catea2551 yes ma'am. My husband also right for not allowing me to take the handle on the road right now. Thankyou Ma'am Catea ❤️

  • @rolandgirard3955
    @rolandgirard3955 9 днів тому +2

    Good morning Rose---those are some pretty heavy feelings and thoughts you are having about your relationship with your husband. I certainly hope whatever is causing you to have them can be resolved with understanding and compromises on both sides. That said, I do agree with you that having some level of independence is a good thing. It's not healthy for anyone to be totally dependent on another person.

    • @rosekurokawa0408
      @rosekurokawa0408  8 днів тому

      Hi sir Roland ❤️ i will try to be dependent on my on from now on sir. I hope i can do some important appointment on my own 🙏 thankyou sir

  • @MemosaS
    @MemosaS 8 днів тому +1

    Speaking from experience, the most important thing an immigrant must do to integrate easier is to master the language of the new country. For you is Japanese. Maybe you can find a community center or a community college that offers free Japanese courses to immigrants. You can also check with the government. They can teach you how to speak, read and write in Japanese. Also, try to converse in Japanese as much as possible especially at home. You can also try to make Japanese friends. This will help you a lot. Remember, you have 3 children and you are raising them to be Japanese citizens. I also agree with your husband, you have to take courage and start doing things on your own, especially driving. Yes, it is scary in the beginning, but soon enough you’ll get used to it and even learn to appreciate it. You made a beautiful family. They are worth fighting for. Good luck to you all!

    • @rosekurokawa0408
      @rosekurokawa0408  8 днів тому +1

      Hi Mam,
      I will work on it little by little to be able to speak and read more fluently a Japanese language 🙏 Thankyou so much for the information mam. Godbless you ❤️

    • @catea2551
      @catea2551 2 дні тому

      i thought he didn't want her to be driving right now

  • @GHO784
    @GHO784 9 днів тому +3

    😊❤🙏

    • @rosekurokawa0408
      @rosekurokawa0408  9 днів тому +1

      Thankyou always ❤

    • @GHO784
      @GHO784 9 днів тому +1

      @rosekurokawa0408 ur welcome po😘❤️

  • @Margarettecruzzz
    @Margarettecruzzz 8 днів тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @jerrycatanese2460
    @jerrycatanese2460 8 днів тому

    Hello my dear friend Miss Rose 🌹 how are you!
    And happy two months old little miss Manami Chan ! 😍🙏
    You have a wonderful mama 😊 and you are loved and blessed too 😊💕
    Your little baby boy is so precious with his little sister 🥰🥰 I know that makes you happy 💕🙏
    And it’s so nice to hear you being happy too 🙏👍
    I always wonder how my life would have been if I had a little sister? She passed at birth so I never knew her 😢
    I can tell from your communication that you are a very well informed, intelligent woman and you care deeply for your family and yourself! And you have every reason to be inquisitive about your life after giving birth to your children. I am also very happy that in Japan the health system has given a priority for postpartum care! 🙏💪❤️ and that you are doing well! Your husband is correct about the icing on roads! It is very dangerous! He is wanting to keep his family safe so he wants to drive them. 💪👍 that’s what a good father does 😊.
    Thank you for sharing this video with us my dear friend Miss Rose 🌹 and I am very happy to hear from you today 😊
    I hope you post again soon? 😮
    I will say bai bai for now! And please stay safe, take care of yourself and always remember that you have people who love you and need you! Say hello to everyone for me! 😊👋👋
    Your friend - Jerry 😊🙏👍👋👋

    • @rosekurokawa0408
      @rosekurokawa0408  8 днів тому +1

      Hi Sir Jerry,
      I’m happy to see you here. I’m so sorry to hear about your sister’s passing. Please take comfort in knowing she’s in a better place now. Remember, we’re all here for you, even if it’s just through this virtual space. Please take good care of yourself, and always keep safe and warm, Sir Jerry. 🥰

    • @jerrycatanese2460
      @jerrycatanese2460 8 днів тому

      @@rosekurokawa0408 thank you my friend Miss Rose 🌹 I am here for you also! 😊🤞🙏

    • @rosekurokawa0408
      @rosekurokawa0408  8 днів тому +1

      @jerrycatanese2460 take care always sir Jerry ✨

  • @christinehurae2477
    @christinehurae2477 9 днів тому +2

    There will be stress with a new bub always your a good couple its only a hiccup but will be good for you to get bk your independance as well bit by bit you be fine hes a good hubby as well

  • @SoloMomDiaries
    @SoloMomDiaries 9 днів тому +1

    Happy 2months old Baby taba-tabachingching❤sa Pinas corrupt. Kaya walang magandang offer sa health care.

  • @TorilNufsfjord
    @TorilNufsfjord 8 днів тому +1

    Grattis ❤🥀🥀🥀

  • @adelaidaolayvar4435
    @adelaidaolayvar4435 3 дні тому

    Hello po mommy Rose tanong ko lang po uso po ba ang family plannining sa Japan paggamit ng mga gamot para hindi muna magbuntis thanks a lot ❤❤❤

    • @rosekurokawa0408
      @rosekurokawa0408  2 дні тому +1

      Hello yes po. Need lang po mag undergo ng check up para mabigyan ng mas accurate na pills or procedure para sayo. Wala kasi dito yung nabibili lang na pills kung saan saan unlike satin sa pinas. Dito po required and checkup. ❤️

  • @penguinandthechef7302
    @penguinandthechef7302 9 днів тому +4

    Hi Rose. I'm sure you and your husband will be just fine in your relationship, but I do understand where he is coming from in his mind because we (me and my husband) have experienced this before when I was hospitalized for two weeks in 2022. He suddenly had to manage everything on his own, and knowing that he was capable of managing the household made my hospital stay less stressful. Your husband, the same, needs you to be more independent in certain situations because God forbid if he would have to be in the hospital for an extended time or away for work, he wouldn't be so stressed knowing you're able to manage most things on your own. With that said, though, there are certain things you can not do alone for safety reasons, especially driving to appointments when the roads are covered in ice. Has your husband explained the dangers of what we call "black ice"? That is the most dangerous because it's difficult to see and looks just like pavement until you're on it. A car will easily skid out of control on black ice.
    Well dear, take care, stay safe. You and your husband are a good team. Just stay strong, learn from each other, always have good communication, and all will be ok.
    Have a blessed week 😊

    • @rosekurokawa0408
      @rosekurokawa0408  8 днів тому +1

      Hi nurse julia. Thankyou for reminding me that I really have to be independent ❤️ i will try my best to stand on my own 🙏
      I will ask him about black ice. It was scary to know about that 😨
      Thankyouuu so much nurse Julia ❤️

  • @annas7048
    @annas7048 5 днів тому

    Honestly is not easy to be a foreigner in a country you don’t know so well, meanwhile raising 3 kids, be kind to yourself ❤

  • @lexus007lmlm
    @lexus007lmlm 8 днів тому +1

    Rose, men are not as strong as you may think. I’m sure at some time while you were recovering he realized caring for the children and his family was a bit much. He probably became overwhelmed and truly needed help, but was too proud to ask. It blossomed into an argument and well, there you go. Men are not geared to hand diapers, babies, and children in a motherly way, along with supporting your needs. So, in essence he broke down. He’s only being honest. It’s not about doing it “for” him as much as it is doing for the family. Do as you said, improve your own skills and abilities and care for the family. In doing this you create independence for yourself and children. It also allows him to focus on the financial support of your family and the care of his parents.

    • @rosekurokawa0408
      @rosekurokawa0408  8 днів тому +1

      Hi Mam,
      Yes, I will try my best now to help him little by little, especially with important matters like going to my appointments alone. However, I know that for our child’s check-up appointments, he won’t allow me to go by myself. I’ll do whatever I can to support him by being independent in some aspects. Thank you so much for your advice. I truly appreciate it ❤️

  • @irenehao3878
    @irenehao3878 8 днів тому

    Uber