Devil's Advocate: As a 30 something yr old millennial we shouldnt have to dig/hunt for great shit like this when good music was constantly in our faces and ears coming up!
I feel like I’m in a love-hate relationship with this song. Because I love the vocals of a beat the sound but then I’m listening to the lyrics and it just breaks my heart
I think this song is about two individuals with intense sexual chemistry and great sexual compatibility who will not make the mistake of thinking that phenomenal sex will equal a great relationship.
Needed to hear this comment as much as I believe that no 1 individual can serve all our needs (physically, mentally, spiritually, financially, etc..) we still look for that 1" to be fully compatible and grow with. What the doctrine of marriage between 2 ppl only has always represented, is not geared towards our human nature, desires and fulfillment in life. Yet we'd piss off some God for being human otherwise. Although I haven't been in an open relationship (yet) I have much understanding and respect for why ppl roll that way.
It's about two ppl who can't commit to each other but they commit to their arrangement. They can't deal with real feelings sad or happy. It's empty, hollow and it will eventually get boring.
As much as I tried to enjoy the song, you are right... I couldn't help but feel... DAMN this is depressing as hail. Like is this what society has become.
I love the sound of this song but once I listened to the lyrics, I was put off. But after listening a few more times and thinking about it, I love it again. It seems like they're singing about the fear of being vulnerable in a relationship and what they feel like they are lacking. They claim to not want anything from each other but it's almost like they are convincing themselves that they are 'ok' with not actually being in a relationship because they don't want to get hurt. Anyone else see that?
& he's gone to get lots and lots of it! He's playing with fire making the type of music he's making. LOL having women(me) out here getting the wrong idea!
You don’t think his wife has temptations too? It’s all about what he values more and how he feels about himself. If he loves himself and values what he has with his wife, it isn’t going to be hard at all!
If this impresses you I can only guess that you are neither aware of Pino Palladino nor Thundercat. ;-) This bass sounds not like a bass player was hired but sounds sequenced.
DaveDEF82 I actually know who both of those bass players are, I also know that SiR’s uncle is an excellent bass player as well:) I believe someone is actually playing, but I could be wrong.
[Verse 1: SiR] Doesn't it feel like this could be real life? If we had somethin’ to prove Life would be normal, dinner formal I could be happy with you Primitive passion, human reactions Puttin' it all on the line This could be real life, but why do I feel like We would be wastin' our time? [Pre-Chorus: SiR & Sabrina Claudio] See, it’s the same thing, no rules Same rhythm, new blues Same love, but this time it really ain't love No reason, no rhyme No speakin' our mind No war, that isn't what we came for [Chorus: SiR] I never wondered what this could be I just fuck you and leave You never wanted nothin' from me I just fuck you and leave We don't ever come to agree I just fuck you and leave, yeah There ain't really nothin' to see That’s why I love you [Verse 2: Sabrina Claudio] Couldn’t you picture us givin' into love? Breakin’ down all of my walls You would be faithful, honest, and grateful Probably answer whenever I call I couldn't handle being disloyal Unintentionally break us apart Nor could I measure the level of pressure I'd be under, protectin' your heart [Pre-Chorus: SiR & Sabrina Claudio] See, it’s the same thing, new rules Same rhythm, new blues Same love, but this time it really ain't love No reason, no rhyme No speakin' our mind No war, that isn't what we came for [Chorus: Sabrina Claudio] I never wondered what this could be I sit on it and leave You never wanted nothin' from me I sit on it and leave We don't ever come to agree I just sit on it and leave There ain't really nothin' to see That's why I love you [Bridge: SiR, Sabrina Claudio & Both] We would be more if I could deal with the pain (But I can't) Survive another tumble down lover's lane (We remain) The brightest color in an ocean of grey Ain't the same if I cared, ain't the same if you stayed What we were doin' wouldn't make it okay (But how) Could it be better when we're makin' a wave (No, I) Don't want your heart if you can take it away It's a better affair when there's nothing to say Yeah [Chorus: SiR, Sabrina Claudio & Both] I never wondered what this could be (I never wondered what) I just fuck you and leave You never wanted nothin' from me (Oh, oh) I just fuck you and leave We don't ever come to agree I just fuck you and leave, yeah There ain't really nothin' to see
“Being this loyal would unintentionally break us apart”-Sabrina I feel this so hard because sometimes when you’re too loyal it’ll freak them out to pull away 💔
What a bullshit concept, there’s no such thing as being too loyal. Just emotionally detached people unfortunately who weren’t raised to be emotionally vulnerable, have grass is greener syndrome and so just run away and are not ready for relationships. They ain’t worth your time or deserve to have your loyalty.
This is the song of a stringer- a man who gets with a woman and does not want a relationship, but makes it feel like a relationship, yet he doesn't want to be in a relationship and will not let go.
I thought it was about two ppl who are scared to commit. They love each other and can picture being together but know they not ready for a relationship
@@mrsrideordiechick405 I had my ex husband string me along like that. I let him go once I realized it was going nowhere. I am so happy now and he is always trying to get me back, reattached. My advice is let it go! You will come into the presence of somewhere better.
And this is exactly what this song is saying, Im actually in this situation and this is how we both feel due to past hurt on both ends, but we both won't let go, we are in denial of how we truly feel for each other
This is the sexiest song I have ever heard in a while. And it’s real, this happens a lot in real life situations. Damn I loved Claudio already, but this made me love her even more. And SIR? Yeah, new artist added to my playlist. This is real music. ✨
SPENCER WATTS SABRINA CLAUDIO IS THE LATEST ARTIST WHO PROFITS FROM BLACK CULTURE BUT HATES BLACKNESS By The Race Card April 11, 2018 10.0K Picks By Arielle Gray, AFROPUNK contributor There’s nothing like when social media comes back to bite you in the ass. And that’s exactly what happened to singer/ songwriter Sabrina Claudio on Monday when #BlackTwitter got a hold of Claudio’s old Twitter account. From an old “troll” account “@ODamnYoureUgly, Claudio posted multiple disparaging comments about Black women and dark-skinned Latinas. She admitted to owning the account to a fan during the conversation. Comments made on the old account ranged from the singer claiming she wanted to be a “black girl for Halloween” to “it must suck to be a black girl” with no “booty”. Claudio also uses the word “nigga” a multitude of times and criticizes “Hispanic girls who talk like they’re black”. While the singer claims the old account is not representative of her viewpoints now, fans also dredged up comments made by the singer earlier this year where she says she’d rather be a “pasty white girl than a sweaty chonga” in response to another comment she was tagged in. Claudio recently released a statement, apologizing for her previous comments and claiming that she will use it as an opportunity to “learn”. But we’re tired of anti-blackness being “learning experiences” for white and white passing POC. It is more than just a “learning experience”. Figure out how to use privilege to combat the very anti-blackness that was spread. Figure out how to dismantle the systems that give you privilege because of your proximity to whiteness. Anything but claiming you’ll “learn” from it. One of the biggest misconceptions about racism and anti-blackness is those fellow people of color cannot participate in perpetuating it. We saw the same argument surface when George Zimmerman killed Trayvon Martin- because of Zimmerman’s Latino, he couldn’t have possibly been acting out of racism right? Time and time again, we’ve witnessed how rampant anti-blackness runs in Latin America. and we’ve seen this ideology manifest itself multiple times in the form of Latinx identifying artists. Producer Young Hollywood dismissed Afro-Latina Amara La Negra’s identity, telling her she should straighten her afro to be more “elegant”, for which he was summarily dragged. Former Fifth Harmony member Camila Cabello, another white Latina, was exposed for previous Twitter comments in which she uses coded racist language like “hood rat” and “ghetto” and (this one’s our favorite) “nigga”. Selena Gomez was also exposed for her offhand comments about hashtag movements and BLM in 2016. Claudio clearly doesn’t identify as being Afro-Latina- she is, as she said in her most recent derogatory tweet, “a pasty white girl”. Yet the singer has established an incredibly strong fan base in the Black community, due to her sound and her various collabs with artists like 6LACK and Khalid. Blackness is profitable for Claudio, as it is for so many artists like her. For them, blackness is a costume, like wanting to be a “black girl for Halloween”, to wear when it’s deemed profitable. Artists frolic in the land of Black culture for a time before returning to the safe arms of their White identity. From Miley Cyrus to Post Malone to (now) Sabrina Claudio, our music industry is rife with artists who are more than willing to use Blackness as a marketing strategy. With the commodification of Black culture invariably comes anti-blackness- Black people cannot be the dictators of culture and recognized as such at the same time. That would mean paying homage where it’s due and to put it quite simply, nobody ever wants to credit Black people for sh*t.
My infatuation with this track is already unhealthy and now visuals. SiR why are you doing this to me? 🥵 RELEASE THE TOUR DATES EXPEDITIOUSLY I need you to have my money.
#SOULFEEDINGMUSIC #LYRICS [Verse 1: SiR] Doesn't it feel like this could be real life? If we had somethin’ to prove Life would be normal, dinner formal I could be happy with you Primitive passion, human reactions Puttin' it all on the line This could be real life, but why do I feel like We would be wastin' our time? [Pre-Chorus: SiR & Sabrina Claudio] See, it’s the same thing, no rules Same rhythm, new blues Same love, but this time it really ain't love No reason, no rhyme No speakin' our mind No war, that isn't what we came for [Chorus: SiR] I never wondered what this could be I just fuck you and leave You never wanted nothin' from me I just fuck you and leave We don't ever come to agree I just fuck you and leave, yeah There ain't really nothin' to see That’s why I love you [Verse 2: Sabrina Claudio] Couldn’t you picture us givin' into love? Breakin’ down all of my walls You would be faithful, honest, and grateful Probably answer whenever I call I couldn't handle being disloyal Unintentionally break us apart Nor could I measure the level of pressure I'd be under, protectin' your heart [Pre-Chorus: SiR & Sabrina Claudio] See, it’s the same thing, new rules Same rhythm, new blues Same love, but this time it really ain't love No reason, no rhyme No speakin' our mind No war, that isn't what we came for [Chorus: Sabrina Claudio] I never wondered what this could be I sit on it and leave You never wanted nothin' from me I sit on it and leave We don't ever come to agree I just sit on it and leave There ain't really nothin' to see That's why I love you [Bridge: SiR, Sabrina Claudio & Both] We would be more if I could deal with the pain (But I can't) Survive another tumble down lover's lane (We remain) The brightest color in an ocean of grey Ain't the same if I cared, ain't the same if you stayed What we were doin' wouldn't make it okay (But how) Could it be better when we're makin' a wave (No, I) Don't want your heart if you can take it away It's a better affair when there's nothing to say Yeah [Chorus: SiR, Sabrina Claudio & Both] I never wondered what this could be (I never wondered what) I just fuck you and leave You never wanted nothin' from me (Oh, oh) I just fuck you and leave We don't ever come to agree I just fuck you and leave, yeah There ain't really nothin' to see
That type of relationship is void of controversy, propaganda, and burden of responsibility and accountability. It's similar to knowing each other well enough to not speak in the A.M., or simply giving hugs and kisses sometimes without words at P.M. arrival. .... The type that seems inauthentic.
"We would be more if I could deal with the pain." that line is so relatable, I always felt like I wanted someone but all the drama and hurt and arguments makes me think twice. Claudia has my ears from that "I belong to you" song. Here she is again making sweet melodies with SiR who looks like he's gonna be added to my list.
TRUST ME ITS NOT JUST ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS ... HAVE A LIFE CHANGING ILLNESS OR ACCIDENT AND HAVE PHYSICAL LIMITATIONS AND NEED ASSISTANCE ... NOT FINANCIAL ... BUT WHATEVER YOU BROUGHT TO THEIR LIFE YOU CAN NO LONGER PROVIDE TO THEM. SO NOW THEY ARE MAKING A SACRIFICE STRICTLY OUT OF THE LOVE THEY CLAIMED AND BENEFITED FROM 10 - 30 YEARS WHEN EVERYTHING WAS GOOD ... THATS WHEN YOU WILL KNOW WHO IS WHO ... AND WHO FROM THE PLAYGROUND TO THAT DAY . F&$KED YOU AND LEFT . YOU WANT KNOW UNTIL THAT SACRIFICE HAS NO EXPIRATION DATE.
Chileee the dating world a mess but I can appreciate the artistry that he gave voice to this toxic scenario cause it does exist…and they make a song for emotion, situation and everythang out there 😂 If nothin else just appreciate the beat 🔊🎶🔥
Dominique Breyana Agreed. I like that juxtaposition. Beautiful song😊 I wrote a song called *Life With Me by ninanile* . Please check it out on my channel. I would truly appreciate it. It would mean a lot.
Doesn't it feel like this could be real life? If we had somethin’ to prove Life would be normal, dinner formal I could be happy with you Primitive passion, human reactions Puttin' it all on the line This could be real life, but why do I feel like We would be wastin' our time? [Pre-Chorus: SiR & Sabrina Claudio] See, it’s the same thing, no rules Same rhythm, new blues Same love, but this time it really ain't love No reason, no rhyme No speakin' our mind No war, that isn't what we came for [Chorus: SiR] I never wondered what this could be I just fuck you and leave You never wanted nothin' from me I just fuck you and leave We don't ever come to agree I just fuck you and leave, yeah There ain't really nothin' to see That’s why I love youCouldn’t you picture us givin' into love? Breakin’ down all of my walls You would be faithful, honest, and grateful Probably answer whenever I call I couldn't handle being disloyal Unintentionally break us apart Nor could I measure the level of pressure I'd be under, protectin' your heart [Pre-Chorus: SiR & Sabrina Claudio] See, it’s the same thing, new rules Same rhythm, new blues Same love, but this time it really ain't love No reason, no rhyme No speakin' our mind No war, that isn't what we came for [Chorus: Sabrina Claudio] I never wondered what this could be I sit on it and leave You never wanted nothin' from me I sit on it and leave We don't ever come to agree I just sit on it and leave There ain't really nothin' to see That's why I love you[Bridge: SiR, Sabrina Claudio & Both] We would be more if I could deal with the pain (But I can't) Survive another tumble down lover's lane (We remain) The brightest color in an ocean of grey Ain't the same if I cared, ain't the same if you stayed What we were doin' wouldn't make it okay (But how) Could it be better when we're makin' a wave (No, I) Don't want your heart if you can take it away It's a better affair when there's nothing to say Yeah [Chorus: SiR, Sabrina Claudio & Both] I never wondered what this could be (I never wondered what) I just fuck you and leave You never wanted nothin' from me (Oh, oh) I just fuck you and leave We don't ever come to agree I just fuck you and leave, yeah There ain't really nothin' to see
Teodora Cotet Beautiful song😊 I wrote a song called *Life With Me by ninanile* . Please check it out on my channel. I would truly appreciate it. It would mean a lot.
Seems like a story of two people who have intense chemistry and compatibility, and if they had just met each other at different times, it could have worked out. But they cannot let go of the fact that they wont ever work in the current state so they choose to be unhappily together in the hope that one day it will work.
SiR said on a interview he looked around for other singers to do a verse but Sabrina's was the best performance. I ain't gon hate on his desire to put the best creative product out. He DID explicitly say he keeps it real with the black representation for that reason tho.
Well to be HONEST, Sabrina did her thing but SiR could have done this by himself with those fine ass chocolate honey dips Carmel coated sisters representing 😉
He's in one Hell of A Part of a musical Family. His mother teached her sons Piano and his older brother D Smoke Won Rythem and Flow. Congrats to All of them..
smith I've always liked Sir and I thought it was Strange how D Smoke never mentioned that. But when I watch D Smoke on an interview and he said If I always mentioned my brother Sir then I'd be loosing my own identity. Now that's Deep and So True.
My situation ship I was with for a year sent me this song while we were talking. At the time, I was so head over heels for him, I thought it was flattering. Listening to this now, he was truly telling me he didn't want anything more. I love music.
@@mjharris8214 it sounds very flippant if thats what she meant. I always thought by sit on it she meant delaying making decision about her relationship.
This is my absolute favorite song of all time rn. I can’t stop listening to it. I roller skate to it everyday. I sent it to my moms. It gave me faith in r&b again
SiR is honestly my favorite R&B artist rn. His last album was a MASTERPIECE and now this album is another banger. The Sabrina Claudio feature for this is also amazing. Can’t wait to see what he drops in the future
That's real life! Folks scared to be hurt! But it's still beauty in the situation too. Bc they love each other enough that they only give each other what they know they can handle!
Every word said is me and my fiance. I met him at 21 he was 23, I'm now 29. We met through mutual friends and still together almost 8 years and a daughter later. We made this exact bond with each other from the beginning let's just fuck, drink, vibe and leave. We both knew we shouldn't go down that road of being together, we didn't want to mess up our friendship we had, but we aroused each others minds, body and spirit so well, that we just couldn't resist. Let's just say with a balance and connection like we have, the spontaneous creativity is endless....
Sounds like perfection to me. They both mutually recognize that the sexual connection is in the forefront. While, simultaneously acknowledging each other’s potential to be much more. What’s more beautiful than mutual understanding? Love/romance is NOT their goal here and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. It’s not a relationship. It’s not even a situationship. It’s an arrangement. THEY LOVE that they don’t have to be IN LOVE
This song and The Recipe made my whole 2019 life 😂😂😂 I just love em. Woah... Listen John Redcorn, Mood, Lucy's Love, Hair Down, Still Blue... The whole album is amazing
Soulful R&B isn't dead it just lives underground on the Internet
Thank youuuu I'm sick and tired of the 'bRinGiNG BacK R&b' comments like it's never left ppl just didnt know where to look
Realist comment !!
yes, i super agree with this.
Jedi King Pudge
Devil's Advocate: As a 30 something yr old millennial we shouldnt have to dig/hunt for great shit like this when good music was constantly in our faces and ears coming up!
Stuck in a generation where love is just a quote.
rarityluv *
I wrote a song called *Maybe Was Better Than No* by ninaile. Please give it a listen.
ninanile where can I find it
rarityluv * ain’t it a trip?? All this damn love music and half of us are out here wondering if it’ll ever happen....
😭😭😭😭
Girllllllll 💯💯💯
That’s the sexiest and deepest toxic love story song I’ve ever heard !!
Right?!!!😭😭😭😩
Lmaooo
except it isn’t love but desire.
Been here before
True
It's only fulfilling a desire.
Sexual freedom
No attachment mentally and emotionally
I love it
There's not a wasted lyric in this song! So masterfully written.
so true, like a great film with no filler scenes or dialogue. just raw and perfect
THIS COMMENT NEEDS TO BE PINNED!!😭
My exact thought 😭🔥
Can we just appreciated the many shades of brown in this video!
Cara Drew it’s beautiful
Its a white woman & a black man.
You guys are so obsessed with race
@@hfr8343 Race is Everything. More so if you white... you know that
@@rickyrunks510 I disagree
Better check out the whole album, 'cause all the songs are slammin', and I'm a finicky 56 year old 'bout the beats
I been had "touch down" on repeat for 3 days in a row .... 3 in a row make a Rooster crow
Yes! Sir is never disappointing!
My faves :
1. John Redcorn
2. Recipe
3. That's why I love you
@@sieramccummings1344 'Nuff material to keep us enchanted thru 2020, when we start "CHASING SUMMER" again
@@sieramccummings1344 My Favorites are only temporary because they are all my fave's until the next joint, LOL
Lil Wayne is on this album and that’s arguably the worst song on there
I feel like I’m in a love-hate relationship with this song. Because I love the vocals of a beat the sound but then I’m listening to the lyrics and it just breaks my heart
Girl me too 😔
Tyler Lewis girl same wtf😭😭😭
Tyler Lewis same here
Agreed sis...dang
Tyler Lewis I know I’m all in my feels hahahahah
I think this song is about two individuals with intense sexual chemistry and great sexual compatibility who will not make the mistake of thinking that phenomenal sex will equal a great relationship.
Needed to hear this comment as much as I believe that no 1 individual can serve all our needs (physically, mentally, spiritually, financially, etc..) we still look for that 1" to be fully compatible and grow with.
What the doctrine of marriage between 2 ppl only has always represented, is not geared towards our human nature, desires and fulfillment in life. Yet we'd piss off some God for being human otherwise.
Although I haven't been in an open relationship (yet) I have much understanding and respect for why ppl roll that way.
I was in a situation like that. That's why this song speaks so loudly to me.
🙌🏽🤌🏽
Yes!!!!!!
It's about two ppl who can't commit to each other but they commit to their arrangement. They can't deal with real feelings sad or happy. It's empty, hollow and it will eventually get boring.
this song is actually addictive i can’t
Mary_ o Plz don’t support any song with Sabrina Claudio. She hates black women. Google it.
Carson G she apologized and that was awhile ago
Stephanie Grace of course she apologized. Only cause she was called out. But that don’t mean shit. U should know that. 🤦🏾♀️
I know I showed this song to my girlfriend and she keeps playing it every damn day she's going to play it out to where I don't like it anymore LOL
John Kennedy i literally did that to myself i don’t blame your girlfriend it’s just way too good not to play it everyday!
Summer coming to an end. This album was made for this weather...
Mmmmmmm.... Good point.
The vibes and all
This song is about the sadness of emotionally detached sex...
Freedom*
As much as I tried to enjoy the song, you are right... I couldn't help but feel... DAMN this is depressing as hail. Like is this what society has become.
Not sadness. It's about not having any expectations beyond sex.
@@mommiesophie6815 They are expressing the desire for more, but due to past pain of relationships, they stick to just fucking.
@@user-gk4ig9ho4f exactly. Ppl getting all sad abt it but they're not hearing what's not being sad. Great observation
I love the sound of this song but once I listened to the lyrics, I was put off. But after listening a few more times and thinking about it, I love it again. It seems like they're singing about the fear of being vulnerable in a relationship and what they feel like they are lacking. They claim to not want anything from each other but it's almost like they are convincing themselves that they are 'ok' with not actually being in a relationship because they don't want to get hurt. Anyone else see that?
Thats exactly what i was thinking. Thats why i love this song. Its much more reliable after a major love and heartbreak.
@@yannaigonzalez5988 Sad but true, if you've gone through the heartbreak and vulnerability, it helps to relate
Yes very well put
Yannai Gonzalez I’m always 111 but yes they in denial
Yes
SiR is keeping true RnB alive
Definitely. I love it.
Sheena Walter Plz don’t support any song with Sabrina Claudio. She hates black women. Google it.
S.I.R AND SUMMER WALKER ON A TRACK 🔥
Carson G thank you for that info, I had no idea.
Sheena Walter indeed. I Just like for my people to stay informed, especially when others are against us.
thinking about: sir x sza . THAT'S SUMM HEAVENLY SHITTTT TDE MAKE IT HAPPEN
I will and I hope they collaborate
I hope is not the 2018 and beyond sza...
#sorrynotsorry
Wish she was on this song instead
102 💯
YESSS
If you've ever truly had a situation like this, you get it...completely...love this song
You got that right
a whole vibe, nothing less.
I hope Sir's marriage survives his career, because all that temptation out there can't be easy.
& he's gone to get lots and lots of it! He's playing with fire making the type of music he's making. LOL having women(me) out here getting the wrong idea!
he's always had beautiful women in his videos, this is nothing new
You don’t think his wife has temptations too? It’s all about what he values more and how he feels about himself. If he loves himself and values what he has with his wife, it isn’t going to be hard at all!
His team saw a trend in society and is putting messages in music. It's profitable
Lauren Cameron lol you must be in make believe land
But for real, who’s on the bass??🔥🔥🔥
The bass is everything 🙌🏾🔥🔥🔥
Yesssss
Ikr
If this impresses you I can only guess that you are neither aware of Pino Palladino nor Thundercat. ;-) This bass sounds not like a bass player was hired but sounds sequenced.
DaveDEF82 I actually know who both of those bass players are, I also know that SiR’s uncle is an excellent bass player as well:) I believe someone is actually playing, but I could be wrong.
Sabrina always kills the harmonies her rhythm be spot on
[Verse 1: SiR]
Doesn't it feel like this could be real life?
If we had somethin’ to prove
Life would be normal, dinner formal
I could be happy with you
Primitive passion, human reactions
Puttin' it all on the line
This could be real life, but why do I feel like
We would be wastin' our time?
[Pre-Chorus: SiR & Sabrina Claudio]
See, it’s the same thing, no rules
Same rhythm, new blues
Same love, but this time it really ain't love
No reason, no rhyme
No speakin' our mind
No war, that isn't what we came for
[Chorus: SiR]
I never wondered what this could be
I just fuck you and leave
You never wanted nothin' from me
I just fuck you and leave
We don't ever come to agree
I just fuck you and leave, yeah
There ain't really nothin' to see
That’s why I love you
[Verse 2: Sabrina Claudio]
Couldn’t you picture us givin' into love?
Breakin’ down all of my walls
You would be faithful, honest, and grateful
Probably answer whenever I call
I couldn't handle being disloyal
Unintentionally break us apart
Nor could I measure the level of pressure
I'd be under, protectin' your heart
[Pre-Chorus: SiR & Sabrina Claudio]
See, it’s the same thing, new rules
Same rhythm, new blues
Same love, but this time it really ain't love
No reason, no rhyme
No speakin' our mind
No war, that isn't what we came for
[Chorus: Sabrina Claudio]
I never wondered what this could be
I sit on it and leave
You never wanted nothin' from me
I sit on it and leave
We don't ever come to agree
I just sit on it and leave
There ain't really nothin' to see
That's why I love you
[Bridge: SiR, Sabrina Claudio & Both]
We would be more if I could deal with the pain (But I can't)
Survive another tumble down lover's lane (We remain)
The brightest color in an ocean of grey
Ain't the same if I cared, ain't the same if you stayed
What we were doin' wouldn't make it okay (But how)
Could it be better when we're makin' a wave (No, I)
Don't want your heart if you can take it away
It's a better affair when there's nothing to say
Yeah
[Chorus: SiR, Sabrina Claudio & Both]
I never wondered what this could be (I never wondered what)
I just fuck you and leave
You never wanted nothin' from me (Oh, oh)
I just fuck you and leave
We don't ever come to agree
I just fuck you and leave, yeah
There ain't really nothin' to see
Thank you!
Thank you
Thank you so much 😘
Thank you ✨️
Thank u
Anyone else hit like before they even watched it because they know these two can’t make bad music?
Fr
I liked it right during the ad lol
Facts, added it to my playlist right off.
Yawp lmaoooo
“Being this loyal would unintentionally break us apart”-Sabrina
I feel this so hard because sometimes when you’re too loyal it’ll freak them out to pull away 💔
Krysha 🥺🥺🥺
What a bullshit concept, there’s no such thing as being too loyal. Just emotionally detached people unfortunately who weren’t raised to be emotionally vulnerable, have grass is greener syndrome and so just run away and are not ready for relationships. They ain’t worth your time or deserve to have your loyalty.
Its actually disloyal* sis
Disloyal*
*disloyal *DISLOYAL
This is the song of a stringer- a man who gets with a woman and does not want a relationship, but makes it feel like a relationship, yet he doesn't want to be in a relationship and will not let go.
I thought it was about two ppl who are scared to commit. They love each other and can picture being together but know they not ready for a relationship
Just got out of a friend ship just like that because he had a stroke
My current situation ugh I hate the feeling but we both know we won't leave each other alone. But can't be together fr.
@@mrsrideordiechick405 I had my ex husband string me along like that. I let him go once I realized it was going nowhere. I am so happy now and he is always trying to get me back, reattached. My advice is let it go! You will come into the presence of somewhere better.
And this is exactly what this song is saying, Im actually in this situation and this is how we both feel due to past hurt on both ends, but we both won't let go, we are in denial of how we truly feel for each other
This is the sexiest song I have ever heard in a while. And it’s real, this happens a lot in real life situations. Damn I loved Claudio already, but this made me love her even more. And SIR? Yeah, new artist added to my playlist. This is real music. ✨
SPENCER WATTS SABRINA CLAUDIO IS THE LATEST ARTIST WHO PROFITS FROM BLACK CULTURE BUT HATES BLACKNESS
By The Race Card April 11, 2018 10.0K Picks
By Arielle Gray, AFROPUNK contributor
There’s nothing like when social media comes back to bite you in the ass. And that’s exactly what happened to singer/ songwriter Sabrina Claudio on Monday when #BlackTwitter got a hold of Claudio’s old Twitter account. From an old “troll” account “@ODamnYoureUgly, Claudio posted multiple disparaging comments about Black women and dark-skinned Latinas. She admitted to owning the account to a fan during the conversation.
Comments made on the old account ranged from the singer claiming she wanted to be a “black girl for Halloween” to “it must suck to be a black girl” with no “booty”. Claudio also uses the word “nigga” a multitude of times and criticizes “Hispanic girls who talk like they’re black”. While the singer claims the old account is not representative of her viewpoints now, fans also dredged up comments made by the singer earlier this year where she says she’d rather be a “pasty white girl than a sweaty chonga” in response to another comment she was tagged in.
Claudio recently released a statement, apologizing for her previous comments and claiming that she will use it as an opportunity to “learn”. But we’re tired of anti-blackness being “learning experiences” for white and white passing POC. It is more than just a “learning experience”. Figure out how to use privilege to combat the very anti-blackness that was spread. Figure out how to dismantle the systems that give you privilege because of your proximity to whiteness. Anything but claiming you’ll “learn” from it.
One of the biggest misconceptions about racism and anti-blackness is those fellow people of color cannot participate in perpetuating it. We saw the same argument surface when George Zimmerman killed Trayvon Martin- because of Zimmerman’s Latino, he couldn’t have possibly been acting out of racism right? Time and time again, we’ve witnessed how rampant anti-blackness runs in Latin America. and we’ve seen this ideology manifest itself multiple times in the form of Latinx identifying artists. Producer Young Hollywood dismissed Afro-Latina Amara La Negra’s identity, telling her she should straighten her afro to be more “elegant”, for which he was summarily dragged. Former Fifth Harmony member Camila Cabello, another white Latina, was exposed for previous Twitter comments in which she uses coded racist language like “hood rat” and “ghetto” and (this one’s our favorite) “nigga”. Selena Gomez was also exposed for her offhand comments about hashtag movements and BLM in 2016.
Claudio clearly doesn’t identify as being Afro-Latina- she is, as she said in her most recent derogatory tweet, “a pasty white girl”. Yet the singer has established an incredibly strong fan base in the Black community, due to her sound and her various collabs with artists like 6LACK and Khalid. Blackness is profitable for Claudio, as it is for so many artists like her. For them, blackness is a costume, like wanting to be a “black girl for Halloween”, to wear when it’s deemed profitable. Artists frolic in the land of Black culture for a time before returning to the safe arms of their White identity. From Miley Cyrus to Post Malone to (now) Sabrina Claudio, our music industry is rife with artists who are more than willing to use Blackness as a marketing strategy. With the commodification of Black culture invariably comes anti-blackness- Black people cannot be the dictators of culture and recognized as such at the same time.
That would mean paying homage where it’s due and to put it quite simply, nobody ever wants to credit Black people for sh*t.
Totally agree. Both are so amazing
My infatuation with this track is already unhealthy and now visuals. SiR why are you doing this to me? 🥵
RELEASE THE TOUR DATES EXPEDITIOUSLY I need you to have my money.
lmao
MISHEL yassssss!!! Release them dates for the east coast! 🔥🔥
I feel you, this song jam!
Sunshine VA PERIODT!
MISHEL Exactly! I hate that this song has been a reality in my 40’s
#SOULFEEDINGMUSIC
#LYRICS
[Verse 1: SiR]
Doesn't it feel like this could be real life?
If we had somethin’ to prove
Life would be normal, dinner formal
I could be happy with you
Primitive passion, human reactions
Puttin' it all on the line
This could be real life, but why do I feel like
We would be wastin' our time?
[Pre-Chorus: SiR & Sabrina Claudio]
See, it’s the same thing, no rules
Same rhythm, new blues
Same love, but this time it really ain't love
No reason, no rhyme
No speakin' our mind
No war, that isn't what we came for
[Chorus: SiR]
I never wondered what this could be
I just fuck you and leave
You never wanted nothin' from me
I just fuck you and leave
We don't ever come to agree
I just fuck you and leave, yeah
There ain't really nothin' to see
That’s why I love you
[Verse 2: Sabrina Claudio]
Couldn’t you picture us givin' into love?
Breakin’ down all of my walls
You would be faithful, honest, and grateful
Probably answer whenever I call
I couldn't handle being disloyal
Unintentionally break us apart
Nor could I measure the level of pressure
I'd be under, protectin' your heart
[Pre-Chorus: SiR & Sabrina Claudio]
See, it’s the same thing, new rules
Same rhythm, new blues
Same love, but this time it really ain't love
No reason, no rhyme
No speakin' our mind
No war, that isn't what we came for
[Chorus: Sabrina Claudio]
I never wondered what this could be
I sit on it and leave
You never wanted nothin' from me
I sit on it and leave
We don't ever come to agree
I just sit on it and leave
There ain't really nothin' to see
That's why I love you
[Bridge: SiR, Sabrina Claudio & Both]
We would be more if I could deal with the pain (But I can't)
Survive another tumble down lover's lane (We remain)
The brightest color in an ocean of grey
Ain't the same if I cared, ain't the same if you stayed
What we were doin' wouldn't make it okay (But how)
Could it be better when we're makin' a wave (No, I)
Don't want your heart if you can take it away
It's a better affair when there's nothing to say
Yeah
[Chorus: SiR, Sabrina Claudio & Both]
I never wondered what this could be (I never wondered what)
I just fuck you and leave
You never wanted nothin' from me (Oh, oh)
I just fuck you and leave
We don't ever come to agree
I just fuck you and leave, yeah
There ain't really nothin' to see
That type of relationship is void of controversy, propaganda, and burden of responsibility and accountability.
It's similar to knowing each other well enough to not speak in the A.M., or simply giving hugs and kisses sometimes without words at P.M. arrival.
....
The type that seems inauthentic.
I'm a simple guy...I listen to Metallica/Hardcore.....but I play SiR when I'm tryna make a baby.
I listen to Conway the Machine and Lil Wayne, but Alice In Chains when I make my babies lol
This song definitely has a Raheem DeVaughn vibe...this is the most slept on R&B album of the summer!
Yes! You're right!
i feel every single SIR albums are slept on. The production is stupid. It's only a matter of time...
Yes it does both are great artist 💛💛
"We would be more if I could deal with the pain." that line is so relatable, I always felt like I wanted someone but all the drama and hurt and arguments makes me think twice. Claudia has my ears from that "I belong to you" song. Here she is again making sweet melodies with SiR who looks like he's gonna be added to my list.
HER woulda ate this track 🗣 I sped this up to 1.25x amazing 😆😆😆😆
Ouuuu I Think U On To Something
Facts
Dope!
Soo good sped up
Got damn you on to something
I literally cried listening to this cuz this is literally all dating has become and I’m sick of it. And the cliché is you can fuck to this song 😭.
first off you are fine. secondly I think the cliche' might also be the supreme irony of this song. so confusing lol
TRUST ME ITS NOT JUST ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS ...
HAVE A LIFE CHANGING ILLNESS OR ACCIDENT AND HAVE PHYSICAL LIMITATIONS AND NEED ASSISTANCE ... NOT FINANCIAL ...
BUT WHATEVER YOU BROUGHT TO THEIR LIFE YOU CAN NO LONGER PROVIDE TO THEM. SO NOW THEY ARE MAKING A SACRIFICE STRICTLY OUT OF THE LOVE THEY CLAIMED AND BENEFITED FROM
10 - 30 YEARS WHEN EVERYTHING WAS GOOD ... THATS WHEN YOU WILL KNOW WHO IS WHO ... AND WHO FROM THE PLAYGROUND TO THAT DAY . F&$KED YOU AND LEFT .
YOU WANT KNOW UNTIL THAT SACRIFICE HAS NO EXPIRATION DATE.
Lmaoooo
Chileee the dating world a mess but I can appreciate the artistry that he gave voice to this toxic scenario cause it does exist…and they make a song for emotion, situation and everythang out there 😂 If nothin else just appreciate the beat 🔊🎶🔥
😂😅😂😂 used to fuck to this song with my ex. Those memories are creeping up like crazy now and that was 4 years ago
If you just read the lyrics its like a beautiful poem, kinda depressing also
Dominique Breyana
Agreed. I like that juxtaposition. Beautiful song😊
I wrote a song called *Life With Me by ninanile* . Please check it out on my channel. I would truly appreciate it. It would mean a lot.
Is it really I didn’t notice? What’s your opinion on the song
Dominique Breyana yo I was just saying thissss, I love music that’s actually art. Emotion, a story, meaning.
It is originally a poem that was sung as a song.
Its sad af but like their personal reality check
FINALLY !!! somebody used Sabrina, she is legit under rated. Love him to
21st century love story, we are all so afraid to bring vulnerable.
I find the whole mindset irritating. You can never take emotion out of human interaction. Unless you're a porn star or stripper....
The TEXTURE Sabrina put on that "Probably Answer Whenever I CALL" just gave me the Feelzzzzz!!!!
"This is a masterpiece ?"
YES SiR
This is the song you secretly slip into a wedding's playlist and watch how the crowd reacts.
Savage
🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
yo if the dj plays that shit he getting fired lol
😂😂
Story of 2019 dating...be faithful and give your heart to love!
2020* LMAO
How
Sounds good but very boring
@@KennyMoe7mile Then enjoy, no one stopping ya dude if it floats ya boat. I'm done with this shit.
2024* lol
WAIT TF, I've been living without this my entire life...?WOW
I will single handedly get this song to a million views.
I'm with you on this
I think I play this every hour
This is duo is lethal... The best i've heard all of 2019
Jesus. I gotta marry a black woman by any means.
Update: I'm dating one yall! 🔥 🙌🏾
Cuff you one 😍
You ain't lied my man
You’re 2019 yrs late
@@willlee5786 huh... Smh.
🥰🥰🥰
Sir you are no joke. I really loved your tiny desk concert. Your mom was great too❤
He's gonna get the recognition he deserves
Doesn't it feel like this could be real life?
If we had somethin’ to prove
Life would be normal, dinner formal
I could be happy with you
Primitive passion, human reactions
Puttin' it all on the line
This could be real life, but why do I feel like
We would be wastin' our time?
[Pre-Chorus: SiR & Sabrina Claudio]
See, it’s the same thing, no rules
Same rhythm, new blues
Same love, but this time it really ain't love
No reason, no rhyme
No speakin' our mind
No war, that isn't what we came for
[Chorus: SiR]
I never wondered what this could be
I just fuck you and leave
You never wanted nothin' from me
I just fuck you and leave
We don't ever come to agree
I just fuck you and leave, yeah
There ain't really nothin' to see
That’s why I love youCouldn’t you picture us givin' into love?
Breakin’ down all of my walls
You would be faithful, honest, and grateful
Probably answer whenever I call
I couldn't handle being disloyal
Unintentionally break us apart
Nor could I measure the level of pressure
I'd be under, protectin' your heart
[Pre-Chorus: SiR & Sabrina Claudio]
See, it’s the same thing, new rules
Same rhythm, new blues
Same love, but this time it really ain't love
No reason, no rhyme
No speakin' our mind
No war, that isn't what we came for
[Chorus: Sabrina Claudio]
I never wondered what this could be
I sit on it and leave
You never wanted nothin' from me
I sit on it and leave
We don't ever come to agree
I just sit on it and leave
There ain't really nothin' to see
That's why I love you[Bridge: SiR, Sabrina Claudio & Both]
We would be more if I could deal with the pain (But I can't)
Survive another tumble down lover's lane (We remain)
The brightest color in an ocean of grey
Ain't the same if I cared, ain't the same if you stayed
What we were doin' wouldn't make it okay (But how)
Could it be better when we're makin' a wave (No, I)
Don't want your heart if you can take it away
It's a better affair when there's nothing to say
Yeah
[Chorus: SiR, Sabrina Claudio & Both]
I never wondered what this could be (I never wondered what)
I just fuck you and leave
You never wanted nothin' from me (Oh, oh)
I just fuck you and leave
We don't ever come to agree
I just fuck you and leave, yeah
There ain't really nothin' to see
I wrote a song called *Maybe Was Better Than No* by ninaile. Please give it a listen.
Youre a real one
Teodora Cotet
Beautiful song😊
I wrote a song called *Life With Me by ninanile* . Please check it out on my channel. I would truly appreciate it. It would mean a lot.
0de
❤❤❤
SIR is about to blow up the game
Too late 😆
Has already!!!
rochiggidy I completely agree!
Seems like a story of two people who have intense chemistry and compatibility, and if they had just met each other at different times, it could have worked out. But they cannot let go of the fact that they wont ever work in the current state so they choose to be unhappily together in the hope that one day it will work.
She said, “I sit on it and leave”. Never felt more connected to a verse in my life.
SiR said on a interview he looked around for other singers to do a verse but Sabrina's was the best performance. I ain't gon hate on his desire to put the best creative product out. He DID explicitly say he keeps it real with the black representation for that reason tho.
Khalil Abdul-Waheed so he couldn’t find a black woman to work with and decide to feature a racist WOW
There's mad talented black women or other artist that coule of fit better. It's an excuse.....
Well to be HONEST, Sabrina did her thing but SiR could have done this by himself with those fine ass chocolate honey dips Carmel coated sisters representing 😉
Quite possibly, this song was doing Sabrina a favor since her reputation is in the toilet.
he should’ve thrown in H.E.R. instead of sabrina claudio she would’ve BODIED this
He's in one Hell of A Part of a musical Family. His mother teached her sons Piano and his older brother D Smoke Won Rythem and Flow. Congrats to All of them..
bruh whaaaat??? mind blown
smith I've always liked Sir and I thought it was Strange how D Smoke never mentioned that. But when I watch D Smoke on an interview and he said If I always mentioned my brother Sir then I'd be loosing my own identity. Now that's Deep and So True.
he desedeserves more attention
He's getting it, I never followed him until this album but now I'm backtracking listening to alot of songs I was missing out on
My situation ship I was with for a year sent me this song while we were talking. At the time, I was so head over heels for him, I thought it was flattering. Listening to this now, he was truly telling me he didn't want anything more. I love music.
Sabrina should make more songs like this. Her voice is so perfect for the flow.
"Just sit on it & leave", that lyric made me hot,blush & smile...😳🙈😏🔥
#FriendsWithBenefitsAnthem
Zhena Ray you and me both😂💛
Me too shoot lol, I had a flashback 🙈
I am pretty sure here the phrase ''sit on it'' means something different, not what you're thinking..
@@Rida-il8nq Nope.. Sit on that D ;)
@@mjharris8214 it sounds very flippant if thats what she meant. I always thought by sit on it she meant delaying making decision about her relationship.
Whent the snare hits....ufff....this track is hipnotic
This is my absolute favorite song of all time rn. I can’t stop listening to it. I roller skate to it everyday. I sent it to my moms. It gave me faith in r&b again
Way die it...gäbe you faith in R&B again?
6 MONTHS AGO?!?! and ONLY NOWW THIS IS RECOMMENDED TO ME?!?! 👁 👁
I miss that that feeling of listening to it the first time
that's how I feel today like damn
The way she SANG "call" perfectly effortless 1:49
50 shades of beautiful!
this is just perfect, their voices match so good together, and the sexy vibe and the lyrics.. i love it!
The most beautifully toxic song ever!
- TDE stay winnin' - ✔ ☑ ✅
Yup every time
Yo! Forreal!!!! Kendrick and SZA paved the way and SiR just bussed down the damn door🙏🏾💯🙌🏿
Errrrrrtime on time 💯
- @@mistaho5c4r30 - Congrats on your No:1 EP - TheRapY the shit!!! - 👀
Every single time!
Sabrinnaaaa thioo😩😩😩my bayybeee
God loves U so much he gave His only begotten Son Yeshua (Jesus Christ) as hope for this world. Choose righteousness!!!!!
The fact that You posted this here tells Me His only begotten Son isn't what You're here for...Beloved...hmmm?
They're both such beautiful singers and physically beautiful people ❤
SiR is honestly my favorite R&B artist rn. His last album was a MASTERPIECE and now this album is another banger. The Sabrina Claudio feature for this is also amazing. Can’t wait to see what he drops in the future
Sir , Smoke and Davion are literally all GENIUS!!!
“We would be more if i could deal with the pain, but i cant survive another tumble down lovers lane”
Lyricism, melanin imaging, story line, melodic. A whole vibe😍
anyone in 2024... or just my nasty self.. LOL
I'm witcha
Right here!!
We in here wit ya..... and the whole room is nasty .....
❤ u are not alone
And still here...
Thank you for such an intimate story about a Queen who will never be forgotten RIH QUEEN MINNIE🙏🏾❤️
I cant deal with how much I love this song
This is a gorgeous song about a bitter truth. It's freedom in music and what we need. Validated.
Sir and D Smoke are two precious gems we need to protect 🖤 they make real music and I love to see it.
This is a Masterpiece. Ang'funi ukungasho.
Bruh this whole album is a vibe one of the top 5 albums of the year
This is the sexiest most toxic song I've ever heard in my life... I know this situation so bad it would be an amazing love but I just sit on it leave
That's real life! Folks scared to be hurt! But it's still beauty in the situation too. Bc they love each other enough that they only give each other what they know they can handle!
I'll be pissed if this doesn't get the Grammy it deserves.
This song is sooooo good!!!!❤❤❤❤
Every word said is me and my fiance. I met him at 21 he was 23, I'm now 29. We met through mutual friends and still together almost 8 years and a daughter later. We made this exact bond with each other from the beginning let's just fuck, drink, vibe and leave. We both knew we shouldn't go down that road of being together, we didn't want to mess up our friendship we had, but we aroused each others minds, body and spirit so well, that we just couldn't resist. Let's just say with a balance and connection like we have, the spontaneous creativity is endless....
I sensed Sir has that big Scorpio energy and then I looked up his birthday. He a Scorpio! 😏
Kiana Robinson I felt it as well I’m a Scorpio too♏️
Mee too
Scorpio vibes,, yassss!!!
I'm not a fan of zodiac/astrology but golly ain't that the truth with this one!
He sure does. I definitely spotted that. His eye contact is strong #fellowscorpio ♏️
Unusual to have a song that captures the irony of this type of relationship so well. 👍🏽
SiR's voice is the soundtrack to our love story ❤
It has to be a crime of how many times I’ve listened to this song today 🥴😌😩
I Legit feel sorry for everyone who doesn't listen to SiR 🔥🔥😭😭❤❤ The whole damn Album is amazing🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
This guy's talent and sound is so timely and necessary. I love how he throws reggae vibes but keeps it R&B.
This song is for a single person. Those days of smashing and dashing. Thank God for my queen. This song hot asf still 👀. 2 years later.
this song is THAT song ☹️💜
Yes it is!
SIR IS THE TRUTH !!!.
Sounds like perfection to me. They both mutually recognize that the sexual connection is in the forefront. While, simultaneously acknowledging each other’s potential to be much more. What’s more beautiful than mutual understanding? Love/romance is NOT their goal here and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. It’s not a relationship. It’s not even a situationship. It’s an arrangement. THEY LOVE that they don’t have to be IN LOVE
Well said! I totally agree
Damn, but these vocals though! Clean, passionate... And the harmonies at the end?
*chefs kiss
This is the soundtrack to my situationship with the man I fear I will never truely have
Zoe Dunn Run now sweetie. He won’t waste your time but you sure will waste your own. Use your wet years for something more fruitful.
SiR has such a beautifully unique voice ❤️
Why is no one talking about her laying on a bed of nails, that is very deep! I didn’t even realize it until I finally payed attention to the video.
Timeless ❤🔥
We should all keep this song on our playlists for that special toxic someone
This song and The Recipe made my whole 2019 life 😂😂😂 I just love em. Woah... Listen John Redcorn, Mood, Lucy's Love, Hair Down, Still Blue... The whole album is amazing
SiR x 6lack would be fire🔥🔥🔥
Oooo ooo and H.E.R😍😍
Im speechless every time i hear sir.sabrina claudio is sublime as usual
Y’all be careful. We started during vivid April 2020 and my little bundle of joy arrived June 2023👶🏾