If you were not graped, there is nothing like "Unintentional", when you were riding that horse, you were aware of the risk you were taking. There is no excuse for it, no matter how ignorant you are, you know if you intimately get involved with a man, you'll probably conceive. It is your responsibility as the woman to make sure it doesn't happen, and if it does and you have to birth that baby, I don't care what you may feel, you need to take responsibility for your actions and decisions. Shame or whatever, he deserves to know, let him decide to stay or walk away. Just like a man will come to you in similar situations. Women need to start being held accountable, chivalry is fine until you go out of line. Funny thing is, in most cases, just like when cheated on in marriage, as long as people are not exactly aware of the situation. men most of the time forgive, although might not get over it. But their ego won't let them leave but rather take care of the child as theirs, especially when they have gotten attached to the kid(s).
Paternity Fraud is not a new phenomenon. It has gone on for generations long before DNA tests were invented. It is wrong on all levels, especially in a marriage relationship. Having said this, many men tend to cover the guilty spouse by 'forgiving her' and accepting the child involved but they sell the woman down the road by confiding in their brothers or sisters of their family of origin amidst the pain of the discovery. It soon becomes an open secret and the child gets to hear the whispers from extended family. The mother is not spared either from the taunts during family occasions. A man needs to understand that he is committing to protecting the child involved at all costs if he chooses the forgiveness option and if he can't do this he should be honest about it. It is the double standards that make women pass off strange children as legit in a marriage.
I don't know if this is about not wanting to offend the women or if these guys didn't prepare for this topic properly. I'm disappointed at the men on this panel, especially. Women are very emotional, especially when it comes to topics like this one. I expect the men on this panel to come prepared with logical points, break this table completely, and probably settle after the show (or should have apologized in advance pre-show). To think critically, you need to risk offending people. These guys don't understand the gravity of this topic because they haven't been there, and I hope you it doesn't happen to you. I have seen victims of this fraud. I mean, a friend you met in high school betrayed your trust after 5 years of close and brother-like friendship, you don't even know how to forgive them. Now imagine spending your entire 30s and 40s or probably 50s, toiling day and night to make sure these kids get the best you could give them, creating time to have good memories with them, seeing b**bs and Bu**s on a daily basis at work and on the streets but still choosing to stay faithful, cut ties with some loved ones for thinking she wasn't right for you, sacrificed luxury living for her to always be comfortable and showoff your luxury, and anything you possibly can think of; just to find out 20-25years later (in your late 40s or 50s) that those kids are not yours (God blesses you, not even 1 out 3 isn't yours). Paternity fraud is more grievous than cheating, and if I won't forgive you for cheating, I won't forgive you for gaslighting me and manipulating my trust in you. I mean, paternity fraud doesn't just end at cheating .
Y’all should bring a married person to your show next time if you wanna discuss marital issues (I.e paternity test) like this. That way, the topic will be scrutinized properly.
There was no in-depth analysis as to how much harm paternity fraud can cause in a marriage. The presenters needs to do more research on such sensitive topics before the day of discuss.
Please who is supposed to wash plate, is it the mother, or the boyfriend, or the girlfriend, who is the youngest among them, in a circle of friends the youngest should make attempt to wash the plate not to talk about a circle of elder.
Before coming on here its important to do the research haven known about the topic you're about to talk about... Your talks are all over the place and out of depth... Especially the guys here. Should destroy this topic with profound and irrefutable takes because of how sensitive a topic this is...
If you were not graped, there is nothing like "Unintentional", when you were riding that horse, you were aware of the risk you were taking. There is no excuse for it, no matter how ignorant you are, you know if you intimately get involved with a man, you'll probably conceive. It is your responsibility as the woman to make sure it doesn't happen, and if it does and you have to birth that baby, I don't care what you may feel, you need to take responsibility for your actions and decisions. Shame or whatever, he deserves to know, let him decide to stay or walk away. Just like a man will come to you in similar situations.
Women need to start being held accountable, chivalry is fine until you go out of line.
Funny thing is, in most cases, just like when cheated on in marriage, as long as people are not exactly aware of the situation. men most of the time forgive, although might not get over it. But their ego won't let them leave but rather take care of the child as theirs, especially when they have gotten attached to the kid(s).
Paternity Fraud is not a new phenomenon. It has gone on for generations long before DNA tests were invented. It is wrong on all levels, especially in a marriage relationship.
Having said this, many men tend to cover the guilty spouse by 'forgiving her' and accepting the child involved but they sell the woman down the road by confiding in their brothers or sisters of their family of origin amidst the pain of the discovery. It soon becomes an open secret and the child gets to hear the whispers from extended family. The mother is not spared either from the taunts during family occasions.
A man needs to understand that he is committing to protecting the child involved at all costs if he chooses the forgiveness option and if he can't do this he should be honest about it.
It is the double standards that make women pass off strange children as legit in a marriage.
men like honest women, they are just rational and women hate anything related to accountability.
They've asked the same question over 10 times, and answered the same thing
I don't know if this is about not wanting to offend the women or if these guys didn't prepare for this topic properly.
I'm disappointed at the men on this panel, especially.
Women are very emotional, especially when it comes to topics like this one. I expect the men on this panel to come prepared with logical points, break this table completely, and probably settle after the show (or should have apologized in advance pre-show). To think critically, you need to risk offending people.
These guys don't understand the gravity of this topic because they haven't been there, and I hope you it doesn't happen to you. I have seen victims of this fraud.
I mean, a friend you met in high school betrayed your trust after 5 years of close and brother-like friendship, you don't even know how to forgive them. Now imagine spending your entire 30s and 40s or probably 50s, toiling day and night to make sure these kids get the best you could give them, creating time to have good memories with them, seeing b**bs and Bu**s on a daily basis at work and on the streets but still choosing to stay faithful, cut ties with some loved ones for thinking she wasn't right for you, sacrificed luxury living for her to always be comfortable and showoff your luxury, and anything you possibly can think of; just to find out 20-25years later (in your late 40s or 50s) that those kids are not yours (God blesses you, not even 1 out 3 isn't yours).
Paternity fraud is more grievous than cheating, and if I won't forgive you for cheating, I won't forgive you for gaslighting me and manipulating my trust in you. I mean, paternity fraud doesn't just end at cheating .
There is no challenge ohh na you no wise .honesty paves a successful path .
There is no problem with DNA is should be a must, trust or not.
Y’all should bring a married person to your show next time if you wanna discuss marital issues (I.e paternity test) like this. That way, the topic will be scrutinized properly.
There was no in-depth analysis as to how much harm paternity fraud can cause in a marriage. The presenters needs to do more research on such sensitive topics before the day of discuss.
For me I will never allow my gf to wash anything 😂😂
To me, if you come to my house for the first time and wash the plate I’ll definitely see it as pretence. But It’s different if you slept over
Tell that ur trust issues, to dose that take care of 4 children, only to discover that non its his own
Please who is supposed to wash plate, is it the mother, or the boyfriend, or the girlfriend, who is the youngest among them, in a circle of friends the youngest should make attempt to wash the plate not to talk about a circle of elder.
These guys are just playing to the gallery. Not analytical at all.
Keep quiet my friend when u are facing a relationship u will definitely know the father of ur child, what's wrong with u all sitting down their
Before coming on here its important to do the research haven known about the topic you're about to talk about... Your talks are all over the place and out of depth... Especially the guys here. Should destroy this topic with profound and irrefutable takes because of how sensitive a topic this is...
Sign u see in human, are not fact.
Men actually lie more please!