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How To Deal With Expectations In a Relationship?
The more we are dependent on others for how we feel, the more we can get disappointed because our expectations from others are not always fulfilled.
That doesn't necessarily make others bad or wrong. They have their life and their stuff that they are dealing with, too.
In life's journey, it's vital that we start taking charge of our feelings, emotions, happiness and life itself and try to become emotionally less dependent on others.
How does one do that?
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This is the same situation I was going through and I was disturbed too much but I slowly started to think about that person's independence and happiness and I felt like I was trying to control that person so I started to find my value and happiness in myself and the same time our relationship is getting better.....😊
I've learned that being a good listener, touching, being understanding and showing care really warms people up to feel happier😊
Radhe..radhe...🙏🏻
Currently i am going through this kind of situation.
This 2 - 3 min. Video is Really Really going to help me through this situation.
Thank you so much Gaur Gopal Das ji 🙏🏻🙏🏻
"Know Thy self." - Socrates
You are an excellent orator. We need people like you who can guide us on the right path. A very meaningful message is conveyed in this video. Relationship status is just briefed in a few minutes. Expectation is the root cause of sorrow and heartache. This is what Lord Krishnaa says in Bhagavat Geeta, who is an eternal psychologist.
I'm on that journey now guru G to take care of yourself ❤❤❤
Yes, Relations are worthful. Be Honest. Accept and Respect your partner.
Expectations is the key to happiness in general, expect to high and you can be disapointed.
Self worth over validations from others ❤
If you can give love then you'll surely receive it from God if not from human 😊❤
Absolutely right Sir. When you connect with yourself, understand own's worth and be with in self love then definitely it will easy to tackle relationship. 🙏🥰🌹❤️
If u only love ourself there is one word call selfishness....when u slefish iin yourself thats mean u r good to be alone...that u dont need to being a part of any reltnship...i dont thing.....if one person give effrt to his reltiopn alone and other person busy with himself .and he never care about other hiswife in a little sence.....thats type of reltiopshp really not exist.....one days wife also giveup......its not possoble all time only giving.....not at all....reltnp mai thora sa v expcttn nahi rehega to ei bachaga v nahi
Hare krishna 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Hashhh...
Now i will try what try? actually will not expect anything from her. Just want to give her my all love and wants to heal her all wounds and pain by my love. Till now it was she made the first move everytime now it will be me and i will try to make her happy. Thank you guru ji for the advice, loved it so much❤
Thank you so much for guidance,i really needed it at this moment 🙏
Just know,God will take care of all your problems, everything that's happening in your life now,it's designed for you, you only go through whatever you are going through because you WILL handle it and it will make your life better! No challenge is ever going to be sent which is too hard to complete! ❤
जय श्री गुरुदेव आपका नालायक सेवक गुरूजी
Hare Krishna hare Krishna Krishna Krishna hare hare hare Rama hare Rama Rama Rama hare hare...Jai shree Krishna 🙏
I am a big fan of yours, I always watch your videos and I get a lot of inspiration from your videos. Namskaar guru Ji 🙏🙏
Thank you so much sir....I saw your video at a right time
Jai Shri Gurudev aapka nalayak sevak guruji.
Hare Krishna 🙏 😊
A very beautiful video and a beautiful lesson, but sir if we had to rely on our own self for self validation, for expectations we have then what is the need of partner ? I feel the dependency on partner is the thing which brings love. Isnt love means sukh dukh ka sathi ? So if we are expecting something from someone its because we love them and we expect to be loved. It hurts when we don’t receive in form we want. Thats why there is a concept of love language,
HARE KRISHNA PRABHU JI THANK YOU SO MUCH 🙏🏻🙏🏻🪷🪷🙏🏻🙏🏻🪷🪷🙏🏻🙏🏻🪷🪷🙏🏻🙏🏻🪷🪷🙏🏻🙏🏻
Thank you so much prabhuji 🙇🏻♀️🙏 hare Krishna 🙇🏻♀️🙏😇
You are amazing sir ❤ after watching this video I think I should say sorry to someone 🙂.
Hore Krishna 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
प्रत्येक संबंध एवं संपर्क में अपेक्षाएं हैं ही, दायित्व ( जिम्मेदारी) है, संबंध में मूल्यों की पहचान है ही, हमारा चाहना लगा ही रहता है, ये बात अलग है की आप मंच,माला , प्रशंसा नही चाहते, किंतु सम्मान चाहते हैं ही!!
Rightttt 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
So true Guruji 🙏🙏🙏
Shat Shat Naman Guruji🙏
So nice sir...Hare krishan❤🙏🙏🙏
Awesome msg....good evening guruji 🙏🙏
Very much true Guruji... 💯❤😅😊
Bhagwan ji, jo bhi ye video dekh rahe hai unki jindagi khushiyo se bhar de Radhe Radhe 💞🙏😊
Same here😢
राधे राधे 🙏😊💞
Most Importantly ,it should be from both sides .
When love life run dry for long time after getting wet once for a short while, the pain kills one emotionally esp. boys feel so much!
Very painful... but bitter truth
Makes boys insensitive to emotional calls later on and leads them to inhuman acts too in some cases.
😢
Absolutely 👍👍👍👍
You are my Such a Hero ❤️
I’m trying to not expect from my partner but still I’m struggling badly what should I do now?
Don't stay in that relationship,you are irritating him .........
Sacrifice should be the backbone of love... selfless love....
Colour of love shouldn't be the red, it has to be Safron
Agree
Congrats 5m 👪 🎉🎊🍾
Fantastic really correct
Good evening guruji 🙏🙏🙏❤️
I feel nice listening wording worth to me.
Really looking forward to your episode of Hot Ones!
Samalnon sage wisdom
Thanks
So nicely explained ..
Nice, Tariq Ahmed
Girls are good at just one thing: Moving on!
Exactly!
And here it's me, who is waiting for the golden moment (despite knowing that, he doesn't want me in his life, he says me that I never love him from the day one,😅)when my special one will come to me and just express once that he loves me😅.
It's good she's moving on .. even you should!
Why would you want someone you loved to be sad because of you ...
You should wish her nothing but happiness and move on in your life..
If that’s what you believe…that’s what you’ll get.
Be a person a woman would want to be around. Learn about emotional maturity, emotional intelligence and emotional regulation…those are the trifecta of healthy relating. If you don’t have those, you will not be a good partner. Wise people, with secure attachment style, will not tolerate anything less…
Chal jhooti
Jaruri nahi hai.yesa.
Second like and first comment within 56 seconds😊😊😊😊😊 good evening Guruji 😊
Hi guruji, could you please make a video on how to deal with conflicts at workplace?
How to be confidence and not nervous😢
Sure
0:51 100%
🙏🙇♀️
First comment guruji 😊😍
❤
ভালো লাগলো ❤
Namaskar guru ji🙏🙏
Guru gopal das ji please create video on lazy ness topic
And meditation is how we are supposed to stop expecting from others?
🙏🙏
Namste Guru Ji
Guru ji aap ne kapil sharma show me bola tha ki.
Jab koi shukh me shath de to rishtey bante hai.
Our jo dukh me shad de ushe farista kahte hai.
Our jo dukh me dukh de ushe kya kahte hai.
❤❤❤
It sounds good, but what if it is always one person giving all the time and not receiving anything at all??
What if the other person is saying not to expect anything from them.
Does it mean they dont love me
So, Don't expect
Then nobody love others
Love your self
simple
You do not need anyone
So i shouldnt expect that my family treats me nicely?
Hampe to hai hi 9 😜
Not having son child is it ok?
Plzzzzz reply🙏🙏
Not having son is not a Big problem if u have a daughter ❤its important to have atleast one child
Sir I want to meet you
याचा अर्थ असा घ्यायचा का कीं accept the things as it is
HelloS...................
Is he married
श्री गोपाल दास जी आप अंग्रेजी में बोलते हैं क्यों। क्या आप हिन्दुस्तानी नहीं हैं। अगर हैं तो हिंदी में क्यूं नही बोलते हैं। क्षमा प्रार्थी हूं।🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Aap Hindi mein kyu nahi bolte
imagine you are surrounded by matured souls just always atleast...it pushes your age....otherwise please submit yourself...your energy has weight...I can't let you fly just like that....he has lauGhed the word "that"...intelligently he bans...I like the way you talk ya...let me participate...this isn't faiR....you aren't either...you aren't for sure he said ...he isn't either....Dear ya live life without "that"....just a dreamy joke ya 434....all yours...enjoy the entire field...what this approaching this way...fond "off" AlRiGht....Next when knot supposed is how true ? oiates are not samanya...so you have destroyed all ya...you no experience ? No. i wish to carry fresh vegetables...AlRiGht...you are freed today.Just short of few letters ok...how better can I more say I need you ya...tomarrow i give mixer grinder...ReAlly...he is a tharo rush...Next... fingers near ceiling fan on...am gone...i awake.
Luv urself firtbbe true to u
Video mai hm hm awas ko hatao yar koi, aur uska sar hilana agar hata sakte ho to hatao plzz boht irritate kar raha hai, kuch toh ata nahi lekin hm hm, hmhm hmhm
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