Honestly, being a separated Mum of two young ones I relate to her so much. I too wished things were different with my ex, who is still around us daily. We strive to co-parent harmoniously. But there were things said and done that mean I just know I would never reconcile with him, no matter how good a father he is. Judea is in that space. I can tell from her statements that she KNOWS it’s a dead end, it’s over. So yes, he did or said something that makes it impossible to reconcile, but she is respecting his privacy and choosing to keep honouring him as a person and father. I do think we need to stop glorifying Brogan when we definitely don’t know what happened, or the entirety of it. She openly admitted her part in it (the emotional affair) but chooses not to share his part in it. I really respect that. But thus also makes it easy for people to villainise her, put Brogan on a pedestal and romanticise them reconciling. She suggests here that he did do something we would probably demonise him over. I think some of us need to let go of the story that she is the “bad one” and he is an angel, because separations are rarely that black and white and without nuance.
Judea you are STUNNING! I was shocked to hear that. I wish you saw yourself how your UA-cam subscribers see you. You are absolutely stunning, you could model, and your personality compliments how you look beautifully.
You know that no matter who you will be with you will always find flaws, you will always find negatives and you will always make mistakes and you will have to restart all over again with this person, but as for Borgan you guys had a bumpy road but why not try to work things together sometimes it take a year or two but you will be so thankful you got through things together and your love will only grow stronger. Trust me I had to be patient for many years and I’m so glad I never rushed and left my marriage. The enemy only wants to destroy families, look into a church find a good church family this will help your marriage, and your walk with the Lord I can bet you everything will change maybe not over night but it will. Wish you the very best! 🙏🏼
I'm not a mom (yet) but I see so much of myself in you. I've been so grateful to see you grow and learn over the years. Thank you for sharing your life with us!
I definitely understand the self consciousness….you are ABSOLUTELY gorgeous and SUCH an AMAZING mom and person! I can feel from what you say (and from my own experience), there’s a LOT we don’t know about your relationship with Brogan…..you don’t need to answer to anyone, that’s for you. You know what’s best for you and your babies and your family. Love ya! 🥰❤️
It's astonishing that people would suggest you love your daughters more than your son. It's very courageous not to have apportioned blame for the terrible circumstances but to acknowledge it's something you have shared together. I agree your son's hair is gorgeous and suits him perfectly. Our grandsons have a similar look with curly ringlets of tumbling hair and I adore it!
I think your bravery and honesty is admirable. You owe nothing to the public, yet share your life and I appreciate you sharing and including the hard parts. Though we may wish there were no hard parts, they help us to grow and to witness others hard times, we can grow a deeper understanding of life in general. So, thank you.
Judea and Brogan's marriage was a beautiful thing to witness, but it was also marked by immense heartbreak and loss that no couple should ever have to endure and they shared both sides. Given the gravity of their situation and the fact that they have two more beautiful children to consider, it's clear that their discussions about separating would have been incredibly difficult. I believe it's essential for couples going through a separation, whether they have children or not, to prioritize their own wellbeing and happiness. This means taking care of oneself and not getting caught up in trying to preserve the relationship at all costs. Judea, in particular, seems to have taken somewhat of this approach, giving herself the space to heal, grow, and learn as a woman and a mother and that's exactly what she deserves. It's a powerful reminder that our own happiness and fulfillment are crucial, and that we must put our own needs first. While it's not always easy, and while it may take time, prioritizing our own overall wellbeing is essential for achieving true peace and happiness although we don't see that at first and in many cases believe it either, but it is so important to remind yourself that you do ❤ So much love and light to you and your beautiful wee family Judea ❤
So perfectly said.💖 My husband and I also lost our oldest child. Different circumstances but nonetheless extremely painful, but we already had our other children to take care of. Now as my children are older I see that I focused solely on my children and my husband that I had no time to let myself completely mourn. Now that my children don't need me as much I am struggling to find ME, my identity was completely lost. I became just a Mother and Wife in order to not break that I am having such a hard time now letting go of my babies.
Very well said. Parasocial relationships make it easy for people with poor boundaries to demand more information and disregard the right to privacy. I don't know why people can't just watch Judea's videos and what she is sharing without being judgemental. Prying control freaks ruin everything for those of us who are more balanced and healthy.
I’ve been watching you for a while, but after my mom got sick, I haven’t been as involved on YT checking in on my faves. I see there have been some more changes in your life, but I’m proud of you for staying true to you and finding the peace you need. I’m glad God has been good to you and keeping you despite the changes. As always, I’m praying for your comfort and peace through every situation and milestone ❤️
So funny to see everyone telling you how stunning you are. I know you didn’t say anything for the attention but listen to all of these people and what they tell you. You are really beautiful ❤
Hi Judea... Kathie from the USA..is it Christmas time there and do you put up a rree for the children ? I absolutely cant wait for your blog..you ate gorgeous and so are all your children..Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year...
They have a new thing you put on a babies foot with an app and tells you everything and alarms you when something is not right! It’s called the owlet dream sock duo! Such a good product ❤
Im genuinly confused.. you speak SO highly of Brogan and he said in a video he would get back together yet you dont want to? I guess there are things we dont know.
Remember they lost their first born, their baby girl together. I can’t imagine how that would break them individually let alone their relationship. Plus there are things we don’t know. Let’s not judge since we are not in their situation
Yeah and she initially said she didn’t want the break up to happen. 🤔 maybe came to terms about it and now that she’s separated, feels it was for the best
Do you truly not think you and Brogan can grow your relationship back together for your family? It's easy to live apart and exist separately...but you'll just grow further apart and never know if you can be together again. It's a much harder path to live together to heal and live together to work on your marriage. I speak from experience....4 years in on the hard road, but it's given us a new lease.
I worked on my marriage for over a decade for my daughter to provide her a „Family“. My husband didn‘t. It was the worst decision… for so many reasons. In the end I left him, don‘t regret it at all. Glad that you‘re in a happy marriage 🍀
Those of you who don’t have low self esteem don’t understand that no matter how much other people say nice things about how you look, none of it matters if you don’t believe it yourself.
I acually would not recommend people getting back together after a separation. There was a reason and it would inevitably raise its ugly head again. I miss the good time with my friend and I remember them often. But it wouldn't be the same anymore. When sb failed you, the feelings have changed and it can't be undone.
Hi Judea - I'd strongly recommend the book "Love and Responsibility" by Pope Jean Paul II. It is a great book, philosophically deep, and intellectually challenging. It is a very in depth analysis on human love and relationships, and offers great perspectives. Great read
Iv watched since the beginning. You are such a strong lady with everything you have gone through. Only you and brogan know whats best for your family and you both are doing a great job. Beautiful family. ❤
You glow in this video ✨️ I really like how you speak about good but also bad things that happened between you two that we don't need to know about. Just stay positive and work it through gracefully. We only see few min of your life so who we are to judge what is right or wrong 😘
My son didnt want his hair cut until he started kura and saw all the other boys with short hair. He had hair like Echos, long curly hair with blonde ends.
Where does your view of your looks stem from? Childhood? It baffles me when pretty women don't see it, I would love to have even an ounce of your beauty, especially since you're a natural beauty! That's wild that you can't see it. 🤯
Honestly no one talks about the devil who is the destroyer of life, family and marriage. But Jesus is so real and delivered me from many demons, I was homeless on drugs addicted to alcohol, I physically had those and many other demons casted out and experienced the love of God and now I serve him with everything I have. He gave me children and a future, through Him and His precious blood I am forgiven and reconciled back to the Father. ❤
why? clearly something happened that she isn’t sharing. you don’t know them. im sure she has good reasons. especially considering she said if she shared them people would likely change their positive opinions on him.
Tag me when she actually answers what she did to break up the relationship. She will never say she cheated emotionally. Like I watched all your video. Just say he had the personality of sliced cheese.
I come from a broken family where the mom doesn’t truly love her husband but she stays for “the sake of her kids”-many years of silent treatments and not having proper consensus over arguments ruined my perspective on love. So nope, it’s not that simple to just stay together. It doesn’t work.
I stayed with my husband because church people told me it was best 😢best i was his doormat, punching bag etc so Id never ever say what u said to anyone in a relationship and brogan isn't an angel? judea would probably be with him if he was. .think its definitely private ❤❤❤ business period @naomiluatua835
Honestly, being a separated Mum of two young ones I relate to her so much. I too wished things were different with my ex, who is still around us daily. We strive to co-parent harmoniously. But there were things said and done that mean I just know I would never reconcile with him, no matter how good a father he is. Judea is in that space. I can tell from her statements that she KNOWS it’s a dead end, it’s over. So yes, he did or said something that makes it impossible to reconcile, but she is respecting his privacy and choosing to keep honouring him as a person and father.
I do think we need to stop glorifying Brogan when we definitely don’t know what happened, or the entirety of it. She openly admitted her part in it (the emotional affair) but chooses not to share his part in it. I really respect that. But thus also makes it easy for people to villainise her, put Brogan on a pedestal and romanticise them reconciling. She suggests here that he did do something we would probably demonise him over. I think some of us need to let go of the story that she is the “bad one” and he is an angel, because separations are rarely that black and white and without nuance.
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Judea you are STUNNING! I was shocked to hear that. I wish you saw yourself how your UA-cam subscribers see you. You are absolutely stunning, you could model, and your personality compliments how you look beautifully.
You’re genuinely so stunning it’s the first thing I think whenever I look at your videos! 💛
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@@ItsjudeaaaI agree!! You are drop dead gorgeous!
Me too!! I would love to look like Judea
💯 and the depth of her personality and character make her even more beautiful!
Omg Judea, you're literally one of the prettiest people I've ever seen!!! 💗 😢
You know that no matter who you will be with you will always find flaws, you will always find negatives and you will always make mistakes and you will have to restart all over again with this person, but as for Borgan you guys had a bumpy road but why not try to work things together sometimes it take a year or two but you will be so thankful you got through things together and your love will only grow stronger. Trust me I had to be patient for many years and I’m so glad I never rushed and left my marriage. The enemy only wants to destroy families, look into a church find a good church family this will help your marriage, and your walk with the Lord I can bet you everything will change maybe not over night but it will.
Wish you the very best! 🙏🏼
Part 2 please, would love to get to know more about you!
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I'm not a mom (yet) but I see so much of myself in you. I've been so grateful to see you grow and learn over the years. Thank you for sharing your life with us!
🥹🥹🥹🥹 Thank you 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽
I definitely understand the self consciousness….you are ABSOLUTELY gorgeous and SUCH an AMAZING mom and person! I can feel from what you say (and from my own experience), there’s a LOT we don’t know about your relationship with Brogan…..you don’t need to answer to anyone, that’s for you. You know what’s best for you and your babies and your family. Love ya! 🥰❤️
It's astonishing that people would suggest you love your daughters more than your son. It's very courageous not to have apportioned blame for the terrible circumstances but to acknowledge it's something you have shared together. I agree your son's hair is gorgeous and suits him perfectly. Our grandsons have a similar look with curly ringlets of tumbling hair and I adore it!
@@delphinium5555 totally astonishing and definitely said by those who don’t have multiple kids!
I think your bravery and honesty is admirable. You owe nothing to the public, yet share your life and I appreciate you sharing and including the hard parts. Though we may wish there were no hard parts, they help us to grow and to witness others hard times, we can grow a deeper understanding of life in general. So, thank you.
You are stunning. You should believe it!!!
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Thank you for another vlog Judea, it makea my mornings ❤
Aw love this! Hope you enjoyed x
Your honesty and transparency is a true inspiration and refreshing. It’s not easy to be so transparent and say certain things out loud. Well done!
Thank you 🥹
Girl you are so pretty one of the most beautiful woman i’ve ever seen ❤ .
Judea and Brogan's marriage was a beautiful thing to witness, but it was also marked by immense heartbreak and loss that no couple should ever have to endure and they shared both sides.
Given the gravity of their situation and the fact that they have two more beautiful children to consider, it's clear that their discussions about separating would have been incredibly difficult.
I believe it's essential for couples going through a separation, whether they have children or not, to prioritize their own wellbeing and happiness. This means taking care of oneself and not getting caught up in trying to preserve the relationship at all costs.
Judea, in particular, seems to have taken somewhat of this approach, giving herself the space to heal, grow, and learn as a woman and a mother and that's exactly what she deserves.
It's a powerful reminder that our own happiness and fulfillment are crucial, and that we must put our own needs first.
While it's not always easy, and while it may take time, prioritizing our own overall wellbeing is essential for achieving true peace and happiness although we don't see that at first and in many cases believe it either, but it is so important to remind yourself that you do ❤
So much love and light to you and your beautiful wee family Judea ❤
So perfectly said
THANK YOU 🙏🏽
So perfectly said.💖
My husband and I also lost our oldest child. Different circumstances but nonetheless extremely painful, but we already had our other children to take care of. Now as my children are older I see that I focused solely on my children and my husband that I had no time to let myself completely mourn. Now that my children don't need me as much I am struggling to find ME, my identity was completely lost. I became just a Mother and Wife in order to not break that I am having such a hard time now letting go of my babies.
Very well said. Parasocial relationships make it easy for people with poor boundaries to demand more information and disregard the right to privacy. I don't know why people can't just watch Judea's videos and what she is sharing without being judgemental. Prying control freaks ruin everything for those of us who are more balanced and healthy.
I’ve been watching you for a while, but after my mom got sick, I haven’t been as involved on YT checking in on my faves.
I see there have been some more changes in your life, but I’m proud of you for staying true to you and finding the peace you need. I’m glad God has been good to you and keeping you despite the changes. As always, I’m praying for your comfort and peace through every situation and milestone ❤️
You are a natural beauty!
Just try to believe in yourself 😊
Your such a gorgeous open minded lady, you can see your feeling more refreshed and getting more sleep. Have a fabulous day gorgeous ❤
Honestly you are absolutely stunning !!!
Her hair!!! 😍
Isn’t it so cute hehe
It‘s perfect 🎀
Girl you are beautiful so you should believe compliments about your physical appearance 💖
So funny to see everyone telling you how stunning you are. I know you didn’t say anything for the attention but listen to all of these people and what they tell you. You are really beautiful ❤
Hi Judea... Kathie from the USA..is it Christmas time there and do you put up a rree for the children ? I absolutely cant wait for your blog..you ate gorgeous and so are all your children..Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year...
Love you Judea. You are such a beautiful soul. You are so honest and pure. You have such a beautiful family. 💕💕💕
I just want to say. You are one of the most beautiful woman I have ever seen. Can’t believe you can’t see that 😮🤍
You're gorgeous and such a good momma to your kids. Hope one day you'll see yourself like we see you ❤️
They have a new thing you put on a babies foot with an app and tells you everything and alarms you when something is not right! It’s called the owlet dream sock duo! Such a good product ❤
Judea, you remind me of my niece. She looks so much like you. We are Mexican American but you two have such similar features. ❤
Im genuinly confused.. you speak SO highly of Brogan and he said in a video he would get back together yet you dont want to? I guess there are things we dont know.
Definitely an assumption 🙂
Yup, there’s things you don’t know
Remember they lost their first born, their baby girl together. I can’t imagine how that would break them individually let alone their relationship. Plus there are things we don’t know. Let’s not judge since we are not in their situation
Yeah and she initially said she didn’t want the break up to happen. 🤔 maybe came to terms about it and now that she’s separated, feels it was for the best
You can love and respect someone but without having to get back together with them
hi! missed you!
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Do you truly not think you and Brogan can grow your relationship back together for your family? It's easy to live apart and exist separately...but you'll just grow further apart and never know if you can be together again. It's a much harder path to live together to heal and live together to work on your marriage. I speak from experience....4 years in on the hard road, but it's given us a new lease.
I worked on my marriage for over a decade for my daughter to provide her a „Family“. My husband didn‘t.
It was the worst decision… for so many reasons.
In the end I left him, don‘t regret it at all.
Glad that you‘re in a happy marriage 🍀
You are absolutely beautiful, so so pretty, and your children are beautiful too ❤
Thank you 🥺🫶🏽
You and your kidz are very pretty.
They’re little cuties 🥰
I’m also a cryer haha. I hate crying when I’m mad because people don’t take me seriously
Those of you who don’t have low self esteem don’t understand that no matter how much other people say nice things about how you look, none of it matters if you don’t believe it yourself.
I acually would not recommend people getting back together after a separation. There was a reason and it would inevitably raise its ugly head again. I miss the good time with my friend and I remember them often. But it wouldn't be the same anymore. When sb failed you, the feelings have changed and it can't be undone.
My husband has this same perspective. His rule is to never get back together with your ex.
It's often true, but not always. Depends on the people and situation.
My son has super long straight hair and he loves his hair. He's almost 4 and still doesn't want a hair cut. So leaving it as long as he wants it.
Hi Judea - I'd strongly recommend the book "Love and Responsibility" by Pope Jean Paul II. It is a great book, philosophically deep, and intellectually challenging. It is a very in depth analysis on human love and relationships, and offers great perspectives. Great read
I used to be a big fan and donated to the IVF fund but something’s off…
Iv watched since the beginning. You are such a strong lady with everything you have gone through. Only you and brogan know whats best for your family and you both are doing a great job. Beautiful family. ❤
You glow in this video ✨️ I really like how you speak about good but also bad things that happened between you two that we don't need to know about. Just stay positive and work it through gracefully. We only see few min of your life so who we are to judge what is right or wrong 😘
Treat on friday night is auch a great idea! 🎉
My son didnt want his hair cut until he started kura and saw all the other boys with short hair. He had hair like Echos, long curly hair with blonde ends.
What was that blush you used? Looks so nice!
MCo beauty x
Where does your view of your looks stem from? Childhood? It baffles me when pretty women don't see it, I would love to have even an ounce of your beauty, especially since you're a natural beauty! That's wild that you can't see it. 🤯
Judea you are loved and respected, God bless 🙏💕🫶
😮 U don't think ur pretty? No girl.. U actually are!! Believe it. I know that feeling is real coz I went thru the same thing too.
Like personally I don't think she just pretty, she is stunning 😍
@turtlep8582 yeh, she is. Totally! Very good looking girl.
Honestly no one talks about the devil who is the destroyer of life, family and marriage. But Jesus is so real and delivered me from many demons, I was homeless on drugs addicted to alcohol, I physically had those and many other demons casted out and experienced the love of God and now I serve him with everything I have. He gave me children and a future, through Him and His precious blood I am forgiven and reconciled back to the Father. ❤
Sounds exactly like my story with homelessness and drug addiction, I now have 3 kids and we are all getting baptised on the 21st ❤️
You are stunning like an ethereal beauty.
My son is 7 and still doesn’t want a hair cut 😬🤷♀️
Bet his hair looks amazing!!
I wish you could see yourself as I do…. I think you are naturally stunning. I wish I was half as beautiful as you are ❤
Great video 🎉
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Not showing the negative makes this all fake
PLEASE UNLOCK YOUR OLD VIDEOS!!!
I feel so bad for Brogan.
May I ask why?
why? clearly something happened that she isn’t sharing. you don’t know them. im sure she has good reasons. especially considering she said if she shared them people would likely change their positive opinions on him.
He’s such a good guy
Me too 😢
I’ve been watching since the beginning. Things are beginning to not make sense. These babies need their daddy. I’m out.
Tag me when she actually answers what she did to break up the relationship. She will never say she cheated emotionally. Like I watched all your video. Just say he had the personality of sliced cheese.
She said that she did in a past video.
If you were a long time watcher you would know that none of what you just said is true. A lot of her older content has been deleted.
Don’t you think, the best thing for your kids, is for you and brogan to get back together?
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I come from a broken family where the mom doesn’t truly love her husband but she stays for “the sake of her kids”-many years of silent treatments and not having proper consensus over arguments ruined my perspective on love. So nope, it’s not that simple to just stay together. It doesn’t work.
@@mjl.8060 I’m sorry that was your experience. I’m sure that’s not the case with Judea and Brogan though
I stayed with my husband because church people told me it was best 😢best i was his doormat, punching bag etc so Id never ever say what u said to anyone in a relationship and brogan isn't an angel? judea would probably be with him if he was. .think its definitely private ❤❤❤ business period @naomiluatua835