The 5 year old run away student is ABSOLUTELY heartbreaking. You do NOT talk to a kid like that AT ALL. That police officer is an abusive individual if he talks to a KID like that, not even a KID, a BABY. He is this way, acting out because PEOPLE treat him like shit. Actually hearing the kid cry, has me crying.
Idk if you are delusional, or you're just not using ur thinking cap but he's 5, not 12, not 16. The cop has no right to speak him like that, he just yelling at the kid not trying to teach him what he did was wrong @Blackkvtty69
@@Blackkvtty69 Does that mean yell at him? Did you ever stop to think why kids do bad things? Why they act out? He doesn’t get love at home. Kids like that are ignored so they break things, act out. They get attention, they’re paid attention to for once in their life. But when that attention goes away, they go back to destruction. They ask themselves why are these people hurting me when all I want is their love and attention. Instead of yelling and hurling abuse towards the kid in this manner, why not level with him? He’s 5, it doesn’t take a rocket scientist to get down to his level and speak to him about why he’s doing the things he does. Your job as an adult is to help guide kids to be better, not toss them around and hope they suddenly fix themselves
Why’s the cop handling the 5 year old immediately going off on him like this kid shot someone?? HES FIVE! He shouldn’t have ran off of school grounds but I’d be raising hell if I was the parent. Maybe he has autism, which can sometimes cause kids to act out no matter the parenting style.
@@Aloysius_OHare like my blood pressure was skyrocketing bc it reminded me of an uncle I’m no contact with. He used to yank my hair out of nowhere if I was just sitting and minding my business, belt-whip me if I didn’t know how to complete a task I wasn’t taught, even once whipped my hand repeatedly with a towel at the dinner table bc I said I was too full to finish my plate. I was fucking 7-8 years old…
The thing they did where they screamed to mock him while he was full on sobbing triggered me immensely because my mom did that to me even after I wasn't a kid anymore. The last time she did that to me was the day she kicked me out when I was in college... she's a truly sadistic individual.
You can discipline your kids in a right way without traumatizing them or hurting them. Some ppl still think that physically or mentally hurting your kid will help. Their mental trauma and anger will just grow and mentally hurt them in life. This way, they are also taught that later in life hurting ppl in any way is okay, as long as THEY think its justified. Because they were taught that mentality in their own ‘supposed safe space’:their home.
thats a 5 year old. the officers are grown ass adults, threatening the kid and being aggressive? thats kid is basically a fucking baby, treating a child like that while be grown and talking shit ABOUT A CHILD is CRAZY SCREAMING IN THE CHILDS FACE AND ASKING THE OTHER OFFICER TO HELP HER BEAT HIM IS DISGUSTING BRO WTF
Right? Like wtf do you expect from a child who literally just entered school they should think for a min “oh maybe I’m being to aggressive and that’s why the kids crying” like don’t make it worse by telling him in his face that you want to spank him my gosh
@@hwanginyeaopd507like I get skipping school isn’t a good thing like as a parent I would be mad at them but if somebody else told be I should discipline my kid and hit them I would get mad at that person
As someone who works in mental health care and has worked with kids, I get disgusted when people say it’s fine to hit/spank kids - if you can’t raise your kid without violence, you’re not parenting very well. No excuses.
Thank you I've been looking for someone to point this out my little brother has autism and used to act like this when he was around that age and no matter how much he was disciplined he wouldn't stop acting up then we started taking him to therapy and they taught us how to work with him and he got so much better he's 8 now and has learned better control of his emotions
It really makes me mad because all there doing is making everything worse by screaming and yelling like that kid just needs somebody to work with not to scream at him and tell him how horrible he is 😡
FINALLY SOMEONE SANE AGREES!!1 I see so many parent's commenting that whooping and spanking isn't violence, It's just disiplin and it's fine. And then many replies agreeing. IT'S NOT OK!! Any parent who whoops can cause serious injuries and gives the kid truama. I will NEVER spank my child. It's gross. They just make it worst by spanking, that doesn't calm the kid down like hello??
Psych student here who loves learning about developmental psychology. Spanking does nothing, yes it instills fear. HOWEVER time out, talking it out, or negotiating (like taking a toy away) works too. I never got spanked and never lashed out at my siblings or parents. My siblings got BEAT and they still lash out.
Discipline starts with expectations. If you laugh when your kids hit something or destroy something, they think they are doing something good. Later on in life when you decide its not okay and try to change it yes they will push back. Set up the right expectations about how to behave in school, at home, with strangers, and people of authority and kids will know discipline. There is no reason to hit a kid.
that cop can say/think whatever she want when she at home but when she got that badge on she needs to be professional because all that was so uncalled for. wanting to spank someone else's kid that badly, especially when you are a stranger, is strange, leave that to the parent (if they want to). Like screaming in a kid's face and handling them rough like that will just make them more scared dude.
being spanked genuinely traumatized me. im terrified of my dad now. it doesn't instill respect like people love to say it does, it creates fear, which is not something any child should feel towards their caregivers.
@@coreywoods901 oof same but with my grandma she lived with my dad for my whole childhood and I remember she would yell a lot and when she'd say "GET YOUR ASS OVER HERE NOW" I would already be sobbing and begging her not to spank me promising i'd never be bad again but it never worked and she spanked really hard so my butt would hurt for days afterwards
Why tf did they talk and handle a 5 yrs old like that? His brain isn’t even developed fully like a 18 yr old would be. Like you’re scaring him when you raise your voice and ofc threaten him. Also his response was totally justified for a baby/toddler.
it doesn't matter they have no right to be up in his face yelling at him and mocking him crying. and saying "I hope your momma let me beat you" as a police officer is crazy.@@Soldier1876
@@Soldier1876 they mentioned in the video that he broke some computers. so he probably ran bc he was scared of consequences. but they didnt find out until AFTER THEY GOT HIM BACK. so they were just screaming at him the entire way there for what? shits and giggles apparently
16:48 W kenji child disciplining advice. everyone needs to learn this, especially when they're with children who aren't there's. saying shit like, "people need to beat their kids" in front of kids who aren't theirs is craaaaazy. this kid is FIVE and doesn't have the tools to voice themselves and face conflict in healthy ways. these cops and the teachers letting A FIVE YEAR OLD leave campus are awful.
its not "a reward", its to get them calm enough to get information out of them. They weren't a threat after surrendering, so the cops wanted to get what they could out of it. Common police practice.
The Nex case happened not too far from where I live and I am still so angry about what happened to them. They didn’t deserve that and the school was stupid to not involve anyone.
It’s even more infuriating when u read the comments under the video that kenji was just watching, like there’s not many that were talking about nex but the ones that were were just victim blaming nex saying shit like how it was his fault (yes from what I heard nex uses he/him pronouns) and how he was basically asking to get his ass beat bc he flicked water at the girls who hurt him, oh and my FAVORITE comment about him about how he was just playing the victim and that he got what he deserved like wtf why r u acting like he pepper sprayed the girls for no reason??? Not to mention they purposely misgendered him while victim blaming him
@@quantumtheabyssalwolf950 Nex committed Sepoku. No one ended them and the fight nor bullying was even the reason based on what they left behind in their note
@@pecanpiez OK, genius, I was using the word because obviously youtube is finicky about the actual word. You and I both knew exactly what I meant. Get a grip and get over yourself🙄
Fr. I think a lot of people get scared about whats reasonable force and like… this is definitely a use for reasonable force?? Any risk of a child harming themselves or others in some way/ being a danger to themselves or others, IS a reason…
from the way the mother described Nex's situation, it sounded like an epilepsy seizure, I use to work in med team at my old Highschool and that shit is horrifying, the girl who had the seizures hit her head as a kid and she had developed epilepsy from it, no matter what the prosecutors say, what the judge or autopsy say, that could have been epilepsy and they can not rule that out, hitting your head in anyway can give you epilepsy, Nex could have committed and it could have been OD, but that still falls under Epilepticus, Nex could have very well died via Epilepsy seizure and no matter how you look at, in both scenarios, those bullies caused it, if it was from hitting their head, those girls caused a TBI, Traumatic Brain Injury which lead to a seizure, they way Nex's mom described it fits all the criteria of a Light Sensitive seizure, rolling eyes back, muttering, rigid breathing, convulsions, seizing up, curling hands and posturing, meaning straight legs, stiff muscles, bent arms and curled hands. If it wasn't the head injury and was caused by drugs, Those girls lead someone, a 16 year old, to end their life.
The thing with the 5 year old makes me feel physically ill... I was physically abused by my mother for many years of my youth. Getting "whooped" IS abuse, especially when it's against a child with mental issues they don't even understand or know about. I would get beat for stupid stuff like bad grades or a note from my teacher saying I talked too much in class... and she also did that stuff the cops did where they mocked his cries by screaming back at him. As a teen, I even had my mom doing that exact thing to me when I had a full autistic meltdown and panic attack because she was trying to KICK ME OUT AT 17. I am homeless now because of her, and I always hate hearing anyone talk to or about their kids in such a way... I feel horrible hearing this, and it was an honest mistake that I choose to listen to this vod to sleep. Now I'm wide awake and my day is already ruined... I hope that little boy is okay.
that's so sad i wish i could help you out and donate you some money but my family is struggling financially and i don't have a bank account, i only have 50 euros in paper and coins
I feel so bad for the 5 year old, there was times when i was a kid that i didn't want to go to school. And my mom she didn't yell or hit me, she just tried to figure out why I don't want to and in the end I would just go to school since my mom doesn't act like the cops. And sometimes she would just let me skip (on the very rare occasion)
Oh for real? My mom would have said in Spanish “get yo ass up for school” and I would say “my stomach hurts” she would say “so is mine but you don’t hear me complaining get up before I grab the speaker and blast it at full volume” I’m like “damn ok I’ll get ready”
I used to be verbally punished whether it was threatening to take my door down because ” I didn’t get privacy” or I would get threatened to be locked In my room without meals for a day. My parents are a lot better now but that’s how my siblings and I grew up
Last year i got bullied so bad i almost made a attempt on my life. I love my best friends so much :) ill never forget what they did for me to feel better
I was so upset about the cops treating the 5 year old. I don’t have a kid of my own but I have a 2 year old nephew. There’s a difference between being stern and being rude. My nephew is a bit spoiled, yes but that’s because he’s the first grandson and nephew. I love him, but I never ever treat him like that when he throws tantrums and stuff. Kenji is right, you have to sometimes let the kid act out to let them learn it won’t get them their way or whatever they want. I hope there’s no other cops out there that would treat a child like that.
There was a kid getting bullied in my school he ended up offing himself and the school didn't do anything before hand and the principle canceled the memorial so the people who did go did it in the parking lot next to it I talked to the kid the day before that, He seemed just fine to me at least I barely knew him but I still miss him
As a kid boys in my class would steal my shoes and call me gay emo lesbian furry and the worst part is they were right with the gay emo furry part and the only reason Im not a lesbian is bc Im trans
Those cops with that 5 year old are pure evil, nobody should be hitting their kids AT ALL, thats not gonna help the kids behave or respect them at all its literally just going to create fear and trauma.
I did a project for public speaking about spanking and saw that parents most commonly spank to teach discipline and decrease the behavior, but most commonly, it makes a child fear their parents and resent them even when getting older, it still effects the child into adulthood with depression, generational trauma, etc.
Wooow! The 5 year old video is crazy! they are creating someone who's never gonna respect higher authority because higher authority will scream in your face, that's insane and I hope those cops got fired! Bullying a 5 year old child because he's being disruptive which could be many many things? ranging from the parents fault to just because that's the child acting that way.
Its wild how at no point the cops stop and ask themselves why a 5 year old is acting out to such a high degree. "How do you learn that type of behavior at 5?" They say while threatening and yelling at the 5 year old he's gonna get beat for not complying. Gee wonder why he is beating his classmates and breaking shit when he doesn't get his way...A true mystery there/sarcasm Anywa Kenji speaking facts, beating just instills fear until it doesn't. All they learn is they get their way by beating others and getting all up in their face
Those cops just completely traumatized that little boy. A DAMN 5 YR OLD like he hardly has a full consciousness yet. If that were my child I would've gone absolutely mad. How dare you SCREAM obscenities at a child that isn't yours. And repeatedly tell him you want to beat him and that you hope his mother lets you beat him. These officers have no right to a badge and should be invested for any prior abuse.
Kenji you a good dad! The fact your willing to stand up if you ever had a kid,bless you sir! I've been bullied for years and still am. Schools do nothing
The one time i told my school counselor when i was being bullied mind you this was almost ten years ago, she called up my bully to her office and made us 'hug it out' the other girl wasnt punished, all she was told was hey dont do that, and then we were forced to hug and go back to class
my school also did the same, i had a kid steal a 60 euro pencil from me and i took it back and confronted her, she ended up mocking me and the school did no shit at all
The poor 5 year old.. im 15, and even i know you dont speak to a kid like that. That was heart breaking, yes he did bad things, but he's only 5. He was scared. This must've traumatized him so much, bro.. this broke my heart so much. Yes, be stern but also be comforting, try to make them understand what they did was wrong, and that they will have consequences, but dont man handle the poor thing
I can understand why the video with the FIVE YEAR OLD got so much backlash. He is FIVE. None of those people should be handling that baby at all. Clearly something was happening and he didn't understand he couldn't leave and go home where he felt safe. This is only making it so much worse.
Hell no wtf That cop needs to resign or get fired straight away the amount of trauma that kid now has is ridiculous sickening Literally mocking, degrading and threatening and etc. Its just a fucking kid he messed up but hes just a kid and we don't know what hes going through. Im literally crying and getting triggered by it
With the 5 yro kid, the first crying was probably just because he was startled by the stern reminders (probably not used to it) but.. afterwards he probably felt trapped and genuinely scared. Most fake criers would probably continue crying when their mom gets there, but the boy immediately stopped :(
The cop screaming at the boy is really bad, he could have a type of sickness from it. My little niece got it, each time she cries this much she starts to have convulsions.
The female cop definitely needs to be fired or sum cause like how she was talking to the FIVE year old was really not okay. I do think the male cop definitely needs like a talking to as well about how he was talking but the female cop took it way to far
When my parents sent me to time out I would fall alseeep and wake up so I can be released from the bars of the time out. But my parents found out and when I tried falling asleep they either sprayed water on me or just woke me up. It was funny memories
Ayo those officers on that 5 year old should be fired. Thank god the body cam was on because if that was my kid and they talking to him like that..itll be on sight. He's a kid and needs to know theres consequences to his actions but these officers are just so fucking outrageous that anyone would get them on sight
He's 5 man... like I get the frustration, but at the end of the day he's a five year old kid. A literal baby. Chances are he's being abused or mistreated at home & has adapted to (learned) to vent his frustrations through harmful behaviors. This kind of behavior is learned. If he's constantly being taught to mistreat people when he's angry, he will not learn that this behavior is inherently bad. It takes a lot of patience to deal with children, especially children that young. Sadly, the adults around him are constantly failing him. Shit is heartbreaking to watch.
17:12 Everything Kenji says here, I 1000% agree with! Heck I've been saying most of it for years. I do consider spanking as a valid form of discipline, but with restraint. One firm spanking, then you explain why you spanked them so the child associates the bad behavior with the pain/embarrassment of being spanked, and then reassure them that you still love them. Edit: Also Lowkey that kid has Autism, and I Guarantee it's undiagnosed. Take it from someone with Autism, that kid absolutely has Autism, which just makes the fact that those crooked fuckers were advocating so intensely for his mom to beat him even more despicable.
Hearing the monster (officer) literally screaming at the 5 year old’s face is f*cked up. A GROWN WOMAN IS SCREAMING AT A CHILDS FACE. I hope she got fired and arrested
I cannot rn. the kid crying and screaming is from straight out FEAR. I cry like this too but thats when im having a f**cking panic attack or is super stressed out/in fear. Like that is a true FEAR cry. yeah like i want to say back to say "wah wah wah" back not scream "AHHHHHH AHHHHHH I WISH UR MOMMA WOULD LET ME BEAT YOU" like i would "wah wah wah" if theyre a spoiled brat fake crying.
The 5 year old kid man😕 this grown ass adult yelling at the little boy hes clearly scared some random strangers just yelling at him like they're his parents
It's still crazy to see 0:40 on any form a media, because he used to go to the same middle school as me, he was a grade older; my math teacher was very upset and disturbed about what he did, because he was her favorite student, she couldn't be he could do something like that-
WAKE UP BABEEEE KENJI POSTEDDDDD also this was back when hallow wasn’t suspended from chat/ didn’t have beef with kenji😔🙏 AND: kenji would probably be a good dad tbh, he has good points🙏
The one about nex is upsetting. I went to the same high school and honestly everything that happened after this whole thing was unnecessary and terrifying. My sister had to still go to school with all those damn people from Kansas.
Now, i don't like kids but damn, i would give that child and treat that child like its the only thing i got in the world, how those cops treated that child was wrong. (even tho i say i don't like kids i would never treat them like i don't like them)
I get how annoying crying kids can be especially if they themselves did something stupid. But the reaction she did is no where justified, not as an adult, not as a cop and definitely not as a human. She had training, but has no empathy and as kenji said generational trauma. Idk about beating your kids, but i know that violence alone is not how you teach kids, thats how you scar them. See how they never really talked with the kids about the consequences of his actions, showing him what empathy is by explaining stuff to him? Explaining why things he did is wrong? Or even make sure he's alright at first? When he was safe, you have 3 adults ganging up on him, yknow it will fuck him up. As an adult you have to set on a ideal, a imagine to look up to and learn from, what they did is teaching him that violence and abuse is ok, since even police did that. Idk if his behavior will change from that encounter, especially when he got traped in the office. Hes in an age were he still can learn, which is why im so angry at the cop for their lack of empathy
i heard of the nex story almost right after it happened and it broke my heart, as a teenager it made me want to cry as someone who has been and heard of extremly bad bullying that people take it that far just because of their own issues.
Im not a mom but Im definitely getting life in prison if I found out two black officers tossed, grabbed, verbally harass my black son. If it’s against the law to spank your kids then the mom is correct. If the mother said weapon then she most likely means a belt which is in fact considered CHILD ABUSE on a FIVE year old. They were literally telling him they hope his mom beats his ass that doesn’t mean love taps. They were aggressive. They were strangers. Now the child has a fear of police officers. Also, they should have gotten fired or suspended with no pay and the mom should have won millions of dollars not 200K. Side Note: I am a spoiled child who was born in the time where punishments wasnt a child abuse law yet, but being spoiled doesn’t create terrible kids. I know the mother says he is spoiled but she said “If he has a good day…” then proceeds to tell the officer she REWARDS him for good behavior. That is not spoiled. That is not the problem. I think the mom needs to take her child to therapy or continue to reward him when he acts correctly and not just give give give. Taking gifts and rewards away is a punishment. Staying in the corner is a punishment. Not giving in is punishment. Breaking a $1000 computer is crazy, but at the end of the day she’d rather give him the world as a single parent than to punish him and lose him forever.
I work with kids and seeing the way the 5 yr old was treated makes me want to cry. Yeah he shouldn’t act like that but he’s 5 he dosent even know what emotions mean, bro literally the best way to make a kid realize what they did is to explain what thoughts it made you have. Like don’t do this you could fall, break an arm, etc.
i hate it when adults say "ignore the problem" like NO. call the school to look out for your kid so that there are adults to look out for your kid. ignoring bullies only eggs them on. it doesn't work, especially today when everyone is fuckin bored.
chat was disappointing this episode, i've genuinely seen people comment "w cop" "L kid" "deserved honestly" and " beating is discipline ya'll are just stupid/delusional" smth like that
these people are too rough with these children, its disgusting, we are supposed to protect kids, not yell at them and berate them, hes 5 for gods sake.
I was hit with a flip flop usually in the back of the head as a kid. I also hated showing my parents my homework cause it go from being fine to being screamed at for hours at the kitchen table
poor baby of 5 years :C abused by cops, and the mom is sad because she "cannot abuse him"?????????? whaaat the fuuuuck this is so infuriating, he do not need to be spoiled nor spanked, he needs support, love and discipline omg, not whatever all of this grown ups give him omg
5 seconds in to the 5 y/o video and i can already tell the cop is in the wrong who tf speaks to little ass kids like that😭 its giving a serious power trip edit after watching: ah hell nah. im a preschool teacher (3-5) and babysitter and that is absolutely not how you treat that poor baby. absolutely a power trip and the FIXATION that lady cop has on tryna beat that little boy makes me so fucking scared for these children. i am also an autistic victim of child abuse and i never understood why i was getting beat or screamed at. i never knew what i did wrong so i would be too scared to do anything. i was quiet and complacent until i ended up moving out of my parents house
kenji's right about that schools don't give a shit about bullying until it becomes a bigger problem. Like i had to get my parents involved so that a solution could be foud . like my friends and i are getting verbaly harrassed and the schoool don't give a shit
The entire reason I even became a daycare teacher is because of the trauma I faced as a child. I used to get beat, get yelled at, threatened, and worse. Happened to me between the ages of 7 all the way to 16. I'm 18 now, It is so heartbreaking to see that some adults still don't understand that there are BETTER WAYS to deal with the negative behaviors children may display as they grow up :(
Nex always makes me sad. I'm also nonbinary and low-key look similar to them so I have this weird survivors guilt. Why did I get to live through high school and they didn't?
I was disciplined with whoopings but it didn’t traumatize me at all. Now beating your kids is different from a few hits on the hands when you really mess up. The cops were in the wrong for how they treated that baby, and threatening to be beaten by a cop, more importantly, a stranger, is horrific and deeply traumatizing.
19:46 they aren’t “just bad” with kids man. Even someone who doesn’t like kids shouldn’t talk to one like that, especially one that’s balling their eyes out.
Kenji, I kinda ran in the same circles as Nex, also known as Roachie. They were Trans in a southern state. Though we don't have much information (because the 3 girls are minors) we were told they were looking into it as suicide instead manslaughter. Which is simply ridiculous. When this happened SO MANY people were devastated, there were many vigils all over the state.
I used to get yelled at for crying as a kid, and I don't understand the thought process, if you yell/scream in a kids face it'll just make them cry harder. Because why wouldn't it? Why do some adults think yelling at children will make them shut up?
The way the cops were being more aggressive to a five year old than how they do to some killers and REAL criminals is crazy
The 5 year old run away student is ABSOLUTELY heartbreaking. You do NOT talk to a kid like that AT ALL. That police officer is an abusive individual if he talks to a KID like that, not even a KID, a BABY.
He is this way, acting out because PEOPLE treat him like shit. Actually hearing the kid cry, has me crying.
FOR REAL. It hurt my heart hearing how that officer was talking to a FIVE YEAR OLD.
excuse me? didnt u hear wat the child did the reason y he's crying saying that he doesnt want to go is because he doesnt wanna face the consequences.
Idk if you are delusional, or you're just not using ur thinking cap but he's 5, not 12, not 16. The cop has no right to speak him like that, he just yelling at the kid not trying to teach him what he did was wrong @Blackkvtty69
@@Blackkvtty69he’s 5, he doesn’t know right from wrong immediately. Yelling at him and being all up in his face is not going to help him.
@@Blackkvtty69 Does that mean yell at him? Did you ever stop to think why kids do bad things? Why they act out?
He doesn’t get love at home. Kids like that are ignored so they break things, act out. They get attention, they’re paid attention to for once in their life. But when that attention goes away, they go back to destruction.
They ask themselves why are these people hurting me when all I want is their love and attention. Instead of yelling and hurling abuse towards the kid in this manner, why not level with him? He’s 5, it doesn’t take a rocket scientist to get down to his level and speak to him about why he’s doing the things he does. Your job as an adult is to help guide kids to be better, not toss them around and hope they suddenly fix themselves
Why’s the cop handling the 5 year old immediately going off on him like this kid shot someone?? HES FIVE! He shouldn’t have ran off of school grounds but I’d be raising hell if I was the parent. Maybe he has autism, which can sometimes cause kids to act out no matter the parenting style.
Its a BABY. Like what the hell. Talking to a BABY like he's a misbehaving TEENAGER. He's SCARED. IT hurts my heart.
@@Aloysius_OHare like my blood pressure was skyrocketing bc it reminded me of an uncle I’m no contact with. He used to yank my hair out of nowhere if I was just sitting and minding my business, belt-whip me if I didn’t know how to complete a task I wasn’t taught, even once whipped my hand repeatedly with a towel at the dinner table bc I said I was too full to finish my plate. I was fucking 7-8 years old…
He It had me crying honestly like full on tears leaving my face. No kid should ever have to feel this level of pain and abuse.
The thing they did where they screamed to mock him while he was full on sobbing triggered me immensely because my mom did that to me even after I wasn't a kid anymore. The last time she did that to me was the day she kicked me out when I was in college... she's a truly sadistic individual.
@@zhongliidonglii I hope your better now
That cop asked to beat a KID??? A 5 year old that’s not even her kid??? She’s weird as fuck. If I was the momma I’d be angry as hell.🤷🏽♀️
UR SO REAL BRO OMFG I WOULDVE KICKED ASS IF I WAS THE MOM.. LIKE WHY R THEY TREATING HIM LIKE THAT
@@oscarthealpha EXACTLY LIKE ID THROW HANDS. THAT MADE ME SO UPSET.
You know that's how they treat their kids. Black and blue every day.
Psychopaths.
@@Just.Ky_.offcial sometime you got to
@@Soldier1876 but it’s not her kiddddd. That’s the terrible part
You can discipline your kids in a right way without traumatizing them or hurting them. Some ppl still think that physically or mentally hurting your kid will help. Their mental trauma and anger will just grow and mentally hurt them in life. This way, they are also taught that later in life hurting ppl in any way is okay, as long as THEY think its justified. Because they were taught that mentality in their own ‘supposed safe space’:their home.
thats a 5 year old. the officers are grown ass adults, threatening the kid and being aggressive? thats kid is basically a fucking baby, treating a child like that while be grown and talking shit ABOUT A CHILD is CRAZY
SCREAMING IN THE CHILDS FACE AND ASKING THE OTHER OFFICER TO HELP HER BEAT HIM IS DISGUSTING BRO WTF
Right? Like wtf do you
expect from a child who literally just entered school they should think for a min “oh maybe I’m being to aggressive and that’s why the kids crying” like don’t make it worse by telling him in his face that you want to spank him my gosh
@@hwanginyeaopd507like I get skipping school isn’t a good thing like as a parent I would be mad at them but if somebody else told be I should discipline my kid and hit them I would get mad at that person
@@hwanginyeaopd507 do you know what he did?
do you know what he did?
@@Soldier1876 wdym?
As someone who works in mental health care and has worked with kids, I get disgusted when people say it’s fine to hit/spank kids - if you can’t raise your kid without violence, you’re not parenting very well. No excuses.
I think that if parents hit their kids, that the kids should be allowed to hit back
Thank you I've been looking for someone to point this out my little brother has autism and used to act like this when he was around that age and no matter how much he was disciplined he wouldn't stop acting up then we started taking him to therapy and they taught us how to work with him and he got so much better he's 8 now and has learned better control of his emotions
It really makes me mad because all there doing is making everything worse by screaming and yelling like that kid just needs somebody to work with not to scream at him and tell him how horrible he is 😡
Fr, and my parents say "it's not violence" 😑
FINALLY SOMEONE SANE AGREES!!1
I see so many parent's commenting that whooping and spanking isn't violence, It's just disiplin and it's fine. And then many replies agreeing. IT'S NOT OK!! Any parent who whoops can cause serious injuries and gives the kid truama. I will NEVER spank my child. It's gross. They just make it worst by spanking, that doesn't calm the kid down like hello??
Psych student here who loves learning about developmental psychology. Spanking does nothing, yes it instills fear. HOWEVER time out, talking it out, or negotiating (like taking a toy away) works too. I never got spanked and never lashed out at my siblings or parents. My siblings got BEAT and they still lash out.
Discipline starts with expectations. If you laugh when your kids hit something or destroy something, they think they are doing something good. Later on in life when you decide its not okay and try to change it yes they will push back. Set up the right expectations about how to behave in school, at home, with strangers, and people of authority and kids will know discipline. There is no reason to hit a kid.
If that mother could think that far ahead I don't think she'd be concerned over losing her kids or avoiding felonies.
that cop can say/think whatever she want when she at home but when she got that badge on she needs to be professional because all that was so uncalled for. wanting to spank someone else's kid that badly, especially when you are a stranger, is strange, leave that to the parent (if they want to). Like screaming in a kid's face and handling them rough like that will just make them more scared dude.
off topic but i love your pfp
@@kenkenvids4103 thank you! :)
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A cop of that caliber is the most common type of officer. There's a reason DV is so high.
being spanked genuinely traumatized me. im terrified of my dad now. it doesn't instill respect like people love to say it does, it creates fear, which is not something any child should feel towards their caregivers.
Exactly and a lot of people don’t understand because they’re conditioned to think it’s okay
Yeah I actually have the same thing with my dad I mostly avoid him because of the trauma I had when he spanked me with a belt
@@coreywoods901 oof same but with my grandma she lived with my dad for my whole childhood and I remember she would yell a lot and when she'd say "GET YOUR ASS OVER HERE NOW" I would already be sobbing and begging her not to spank me promising i'd never be bad again but it never worked and she spanked really hard so my butt would hurt for days afterwards
I never got spanked but my dad used to raise his hand at me or throw things. It makes you terrified of them for the rest of your life.
EXACTLY- The fact that an adult even wants to raise a hand towards a baby like that is so damn upsetting
Why tf did they talk and handle a 5 yrs old like that? His brain isn’t even developed fully like a 18 yr old would be. Like you’re scaring him when you raise your voice and ofc threaten him. Also his response was totally justified for a baby/toddler.
do you know what he did?
it doesn't matter they have no right to be up in his face yelling at him and mocking him crying. and saying "I hope your momma let me beat you" as a police officer is crazy.@@Soldier1876
@@Soldier1876 they mentioned in the video that he broke some computers. so he probably ran bc he was scared of consequences. but they didnt find out until AFTER THEY GOT HIM BACK. so they were just screaming at him the entire way there for what? shits and giggles apparently
16:48 W kenji child disciplining advice. everyone needs to learn this, especially when they're with children who aren't there's. saying shit like, "people need to beat their kids" in front of kids who aren't theirs is craaaaazy. this kid is FIVE and doesn't have the tools to voice themselves and face conflict in healthy ways. these cops and the teachers letting A FIVE YEAR OLD leave campus are awful.
1:19 AFTER KILLING 17 PPL HE GOT FUCKING MCDONALDS 🤯🤯
FELIX PFP !!! 🔥🔥🔥
the deadliest mcdonalds run 💀
I mean, I would get McDonald’s too
Bro achieved his goal and won himself a prize then punishment.
its not "a reward", its to get them calm enough to get information out of them. They weren't a threat after surrendering, so the cops wanted to get what they could out of it. Common police practice.
The Nex case happened not too far from where I live and I am still so angry about what happened to them. They didn’t deserve that and the school was stupid to not involve anyone.
It’s even more infuriating when u read the comments under the video that kenji was just watching, like there’s not many that were talking about nex but the ones that were were just victim blaming nex saying shit like how it was his fault (yes from what I heard nex uses he/him pronouns) and how he was basically asking to get his ass beat bc he flicked water at the girls who hurt him, oh and my FAVORITE comment about him about how he was just playing the victim and that he got what he deserved like wtf why r u acting like he pepper sprayed the girls for no reason??? Not to mention they purposely misgendered him while victim blaming him
@@AyanoAishi888all I can say is…how does someone deserve death FOR SPRAYING WATER AT SOMEONE FOR TALKING CRAP
@@quantumtheabyssalwolf950 Nex committed Sepoku. No one ended them and the fight nor bullying was even the reason based on what they left behind in their note
@@SpectreBagels It was not sepoku that is disembowlment, it was drug induced suicide, a completely different form of suicide. Please do more research.
@@pecanpiez OK, genius, I was using the word because obviously youtube is finicky about the actual word. You and I both knew exactly what I meant. Get a grip and get over yourself🙄
That kid was 5, how did a bunch of adults/teachers not be able to stop him from running away, that doesn't make sense to me. 23:40
Fr. I think a lot of people get scared about whats reasonable force and like… this is definitely a use for reasonable force?? Any risk of a child harming themselves or others in some way/ being a danger to themselves or others, IS a reason…
“No one likes a ｓｃｈｏｏｌ ｂｕｌｌｙ . “
Lmaaooo
The one with the kindergartner got my blood boilinggg cause huhhh
It had me crying, because no kid should ever be treated like that. His crying had me crying.
It’s so silly when he turns around 😭
real🙏😪
I feel like Kenji would be the kid that gets held back and bullies the kids in his grade cuz he's older
BRO??? (i agree)😭😭
My brother did that when I got bullied
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??? Dude these comments are weird
@@KenjiPlus hey kenjiii
from the way the mother described Nex's situation, it sounded like an epilepsy seizure, I use to work in med team at my old Highschool and that shit is horrifying, the girl who had the seizures hit her head as a kid and she had developed epilepsy from it, no matter what the prosecutors say, what the judge or autopsy say, that could have been epilepsy and they can not rule that out, hitting your head in anyway can give you epilepsy, Nex could have committed and it could have been OD, but that still falls under Epilepticus, Nex could have very well died via Epilepsy seizure and no matter how you look at, in both scenarios, those bullies caused it, if it was from hitting their head, those girls caused a TBI, Traumatic Brain Injury which lead to a seizure, they way Nex's mom described it fits all the criteria of a Light Sensitive seizure, rolling eyes back, muttering, rigid breathing, convulsions, seizing up, curling hands and posturing, meaning straight legs, stiff muscles, bent arms and curled hands. If it wasn't the head injury and was caused by drugs, Those girls lead someone, a 16 year old, to end their life.
this has to be pinned seriously
21:06 that is actually so disturbing.. WHY IS HE HOLDING THE KID DOWN LIKE HES A CRIMINAL? that’s a 5 year old CHILD let go😭🙏
The thing with the 5 year old makes me feel physically ill... I was physically abused by my mother for many years of my youth. Getting "whooped" IS abuse, especially when it's against a child with mental issues they don't even understand or know about. I would get beat for stupid stuff like bad grades or a note from my teacher saying I talked too much in class... and she also did that stuff the cops did where they mocked his cries by screaming back at him.
As a teen, I even had my mom doing that exact thing to me when I had a full autistic meltdown and panic attack because she was trying to KICK ME OUT AT 17. I am homeless now because of her, and I always hate hearing anyone talk to or about their kids in such a way... I feel horrible hearing this, and it was an honest mistake that I choose to listen to this vod to sleep. Now I'm wide awake and my day is already ruined... I hope that little boy is okay.
that's so sad i wish i could help you out and donate you some money but my family is struggling financially and i don't have a bank account, i only have 50 euros in paper and coins
@ It’s okay, I appreciate the sentiment itself. I hope you and your family’s situation is better soon
I feel so bad for the 5 year old, there was times when i was a kid that i didn't want to go to school. And my mom she didn't yell or hit me, she just tried to figure out why I don't want to and in the end I would just go to school since my mom doesn't act like the cops. And sometimes she would just let me skip (on the very rare occasion)
Oh for real? My mom would have said in Spanish “get yo ass up for school” and I would say “my stomach hurts” she would say “so is mine but you don’t hear me complaining get up before I grab the speaker and blast it at full volume” I’m like “damn ok I’ll get ready”
I used to be verbally punished whether it was threatening to take my door down because ” I didn’t get privacy” or I would get threatened to be locked In my room without meals for a day. My parents are a lot better now but that’s how my siblings and I grew up
Last year i got bullied so bad i almost made a attempt on my life. I love my best friends so much :) ill never forget what they did for me to feel better
glad you’re still here!!!❤️🎀
I was so upset about the cops treating the 5 year old. I don’t have a kid of my own but I have a 2 year old nephew. There’s a difference between being stern and being rude.
My nephew is a bit spoiled, yes but that’s because he’s the first grandson and nephew. I love him, but I never ever treat him like that when he throws tantrums and stuff. Kenji is right, you have to sometimes let the kid act out to let them learn it won’t get them their way or whatever they want.
I hope there’s no other cops out there that would treat a child like that.
There was a kid getting bullied in my school he ended up offing himself and the school didn't do anything before hand and the principle canceled the memorial so the people who did go did it in the parking lot next to it
I talked to the kid the day before that, He seemed just fine to me at least
I barely knew him but I still miss him
As a kid boys in my class would steal my shoes and call me gay emo lesbian furry and the worst part is they were right with the gay emo furry part and the only reason Im not a lesbian is bc Im trans
Girl!! Hurry up and edit this because if youre a tighnari fan youre also a furry ❤❤❤ just kidding
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I bet they were just jealous because they don't get cool shoes like yours :D
Yoo Tighnari they just jealous of u fr fr
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Those cops with that 5 year old are pure evil, nobody should be hitting their kids AT ALL, thats not gonna help the kids behave or respect them at all its literally just going to create fear and trauma.
RIP Nex no one should be bullied let alone bullied to suicide
Still waiting for kenji to react to Boze and I’m happy I’m not the only one who wants him to react to her
YES I LOVE BOZE
HE NEEDS TO WATCH A SINISTER EPISODE BADLY!!
YES
I did a project for public speaking about spanking and saw that parents most commonly spank to teach discipline and decrease the behavior, but most commonly, it makes a child fear their parents and resent them even when getting older, it still effects the child into adulthood with depression, generational trauma, etc.
i wish my school let me debate with that category, i'd be cooking
@NuriaHu-o9k fr. It was for my public speaking class, and it was in a list of topics we could pick to debate on. So obviously I picked that lol
Wooow! The 5 year old video is crazy! they are creating someone who's never gonna respect higher authority because higher authority will scream in your face, that's insane and I hope those cops got fired! Bullying a 5 year old child because he's being disruptive which could be many many things? ranging from the parents fault to just because that's the child acting that way.
Its wild how at no point the cops stop and ask themselves why a 5 year old is acting out to such a high degree. "How do you learn that type of behavior at 5?" They say while threatening and yelling at the 5 year old he's gonna get beat for not complying. Gee wonder why he is beating his classmates and breaking shit when he doesn't get his way...A true mystery there/sarcasm
Anywa Kenji speaking facts, beating just instills fear until it doesn't. All they learn is they get their way by beating others and getting all up in their face
that's so fucking real
The cop foaming at the mouth to beat the kid is disgusting, I hope the mother sued the police station
Those cops just completely traumatized that little boy. A DAMN 5 YR OLD like he hardly has a full consciousness yet. If that were my child I would've gone absolutely mad. How dare you SCREAM obscenities at a child that isn't yours. And repeatedly tell him you want to beat him and that you hope his mother lets you beat him. These officers have no right to a badge and should be invested for any prior abuse.
Kenji you a good dad!
The fact your willing to stand up if you ever had a kid,bless you sir!
I've been bullied for years and still am. Schools do nothing
The one time i told my school counselor when i was being bullied mind you this was almost ten years ago, she called up my bully to her office and made us 'hug it out' the other girl wasnt punished, all she was told was hey dont do that, and then we were forced to hug and go back to class
my school also did the same, i had a kid steal a 60 euro pencil from me and i took it back and confronted her, she ended up mocking me and the school did no shit at all
Side note that's really important: Nex was killed because they were nonbinary.
After the UK acid incidents, WATER is taken VERY seriously as assault.
The poor 5 year old.. im 15, and even i know you dont speak to a kid like that. That was heart breaking, yes he did bad things, but he's only 5. He was scared. This must've traumatized him so much, bro.. this broke my heart so much. Yes, be stern but also be comforting, try to make them understand what they did was wrong, and that they will have consequences, but dont man handle the poor thing
I can understand why the video with the FIVE YEAR OLD got so much backlash. He is FIVE. None of those people should be handling that baby at all. Clearly something was happening and he didn't understand he couldn't leave and go home where he felt safe. This is only making it so much worse.
Hell no wtf
That cop needs to resign or get fired straight away the amount of trauma that kid now has is ridiculous sickening
Literally mocking, degrading and threatening and etc.
Its just a fucking kid he messed up but hes just a kid and we don't know what hes going through.
Im literally crying and getting triggered by it
With the 5 yro kid, the first crying was probably just because he was startled by the stern reminders (probably not used to it) but.. afterwards he probably felt trapped and genuinely scared. Most fake criers would probably continue crying when their mom gets there, but the boy immediately stopped :(
The cop screaming at the boy is really bad, he could have a type of sickness from it. My little niece got it, each time she cries this much she starts to have convulsions.
The female cop definitely needs to be fired or sum cause like how she was talking to the FIVE year old was really not okay. I do think the male cop definitely needs like a talking to as well about how he was talking but the female cop took it way to far
When my parents sent me to time out I would fall alseeep and wake up so I can be released from the bars of the time out. But my parents found out and when I tried falling asleep they either sprayed water on me or just woke me up. It was funny memories
16:52 realest shit that’s ever been said. AT SOME POINT. REALIZE THATS NOT UR KID!
Ayo those officers on that 5 year old should be fired. Thank god the body cam was on because if that was my kid and they talking to him like that..itll be on sight. He's a kid and needs to know theres consequences to his actions but these officers are just so fucking outrageous that anyone would get them on sight
He's 5 man... like I get the frustration, but at the end of the day he's a five year old kid. A literal baby. Chances are he's being abused or mistreated at home & has adapted to (learned) to vent his frustrations through harmful behaviors. This kind of behavior is learned. If he's constantly being taught to mistreat people when he's angry, he will not learn that this behavior is inherently bad. It takes a lot of patience to deal with children, especially children that young. Sadly, the adults around him are constantly failing him. Shit is heartbreaking to watch.
for the Nex case the autopsy revealed that they overdosed most likely because of all the name calling and teasing
Yeah especially after the physical assault…
17:12 Everything Kenji says here, I 1000% agree with! Heck I've been saying most of it for years. I do consider spanking as a valid form of discipline, but with restraint. One firm spanking, then you explain why you spanked them so the child associates the bad behavior with the pain/embarrassment of being spanked, and then reassure them that you still love them.
Edit: Also Lowkey that kid has Autism, and I Guarantee it's undiagnosed. Take it from someone with Autism, that kid absolutely has Autism, which just makes the fact that those crooked fuckers were advocating so intensely for his mom to beat him even more despicable.
Hearing the monster (officer) literally screaming at the 5 year old’s face is f*cked up. A GROWN WOMAN IS SCREAMING AT A CHILDS FACE. I hope she got fired and arrested
I cannot rn. the kid crying and screaming is from straight out FEAR. I cry like this too but thats when im having a f**cking panic attack or is super stressed out/in fear. Like that is a true FEAR cry. yeah like i want to say back to say "wah wah wah" back not scream "AHHHHHH AHHHHHH I WISH UR MOMMA WOULD LET ME BEAT YOU" like i would "wah wah wah" if theyre a spoiled brat fake crying.
The 5 year old kid man😕 this grown ass adult yelling at the little boy hes clearly scared some random strangers just yelling at him like they're his parents
Just started watching you and every time I laugh my ass off. Thanks for making my summer 100% better.
Totally agree with you
Kenji's legit one of the best people on UA-cam
Although it's winter where I am
It's still crazy to see 0:40 on any form a media, because he used to go to the same middle school as me, he was a grade older; my math teacher was very upset and disturbed about what he did, because he was her favorite student, she couldn't be he could do something like that-
My question is, how on earth did the child get get out of the school in the first place? No one was watching him?
every child deserves a parent, not every parent deserves a child
WAKE UP BABEEEE KENJI POSTEDDDDD
also this was back when hallow wasn’t suspended from chat/ didn’t have beef with kenji😔🙏
AND: kenji would probably be a good dad tbh, he has good points🙏
22:09 ain't no way the cops said "We want you to beat him"
Love how kenji is like, giving good advise the whole time. You can js tell he’ll be a good dad if he ever has a kid of his own😭❤
The one about nex is upsetting. I went to the same high school and honestly everything that happened after this whole thing was unnecessary and terrifying. My sister had to still go to school with all those damn people from Kansas.
Now, i don't like kids but damn, i would give that child and treat that child like its the only thing i got in the world, how those cops treated that child was wrong. (even tho i say i don't like kids i would never treat them like i don't like them)
SAME
I get how annoying crying kids can be especially if they themselves did something stupid. But the reaction she did is no where justified, not as an adult, not as a cop and definitely not as a human. She had training, but has no empathy and as kenji said generational trauma. Idk about beating your kids, but i know that violence alone is not how you teach kids, thats how you scar them. See how they never really talked with the kids about the consequences of his actions, showing him what empathy is by explaining stuff to him? Explaining why things he did is wrong? Or even make sure he's alright at first? When he was safe, you have 3 adults ganging up on him, yknow it will fuck him up. As an adult you have to set on a ideal, a imagine to look up to and learn from, what they did is teaching him that violence and abuse is ok, since even police did that. Idk if his behavior will change from that encounter, especially when he got traped in the office. Hes in an age were he still can learn, which is why im so angry at the cop for their lack of empathy
Kenji gonna be an AMAZING dad if he has children 😂
As a youngest child who’s spoiled but never got hit, I’m scared as fuck
i heard of the nex story almost right after it happened and it broke my heart, as a teenager it made me want to cry as someone who has been and heard of extremly bad bullying that people take it that far just because of their own issues.
0:14 I GOT WATER!! :3
Im not a mom but Im definitely getting life in prison if I found out two black officers tossed, grabbed, verbally harass my black son. If it’s against the law to spank your kids then the mom is correct. If the mother said weapon then she most likely means a belt which is in fact considered CHILD ABUSE on a FIVE year old. They were literally telling him they hope his mom beats his ass that doesn’t mean love taps. They were aggressive. They were strangers. Now the child has a fear of police officers. Also, they should have gotten fired or suspended with no pay and the mom should have won millions of dollars not 200K.
Side Note: I am a spoiled child who was born in the time where punishments wasnt a child abuse law yet, but being spoiled doesn’t create terrible kids. I know the mother says he is spoiled but she said “If he has a good day…” then proceeds to tell the officer she REWARDS him for good behavior. That is not spoiled. That is not the problem. I think the mom needs to take her child to therapy or continue to reward him when he acts correctly and not just give give give. Taking gifts and rewards away is a punishment. Staying in the corner is a punishment. Not giving in is punishment. Breaking a $1000 computer is crazy, but at the end of the day she’d rather give him the world as a single parent than to punish him and lose him forever.
I work with kids and seeing the way the 5 yr old was treated makes me want to cry. Yeah he shouldn’t act like that but he’s 5 he dosent even know what emotions mean, bro literally the best way to make a kid realize what they did is to explain what thoughts it made you have. Like don’t do this you could fall, break an arm, etc.
i hate it when adults say "ignore the problem" like NO. call the school to look out for your kid so that there are adults to look out for your kid. ignoring bullies only eggs them on. it doesn't work, especially today when everyone is fuckin bored.
It’s actually so wholesome that Kenji knows how to treat children, but it’s sad that chat keeps calling him sensitive.
chat was disappointing this episode, i've genuinely seen people comment "w cop" "L kid" "deserved honestly" and " beating is discipline ya'll are just stupid/delusional" smth like that
@@NuriaHu-o9kthey all traumatized themselves tbh. Just rude losers
Bullying is mid, like zero empathy and just utterly cruelty.
these people are too rough with these children, its disgusting, we are supposed to protect kids, not yell at them and berate them, hes 5 for gods sake.
19:20 i am literally getting chills that kid is panicking and the officer just mocking him? HES 5 THAT IS A BABY
I was hit with a flip flop usually in the back of the head as a kid. I also hated showing my parents my homework cause it go from being fine to being screamed at for hours at the kitchen table
poor baby of 5 years :C abused by cops, and the mom is sad because she "cannot abuse him"?????????? whaaat the fuuuuck this is so infuriating, he do not need to be spoiled nor spanked, he needs support, love and discipline omg, not whatever all of this grown ups give him omg
Nah bro, those officers who messed with that 5 yr old kid pissed me off.. L cops fr
Kenji would be a great dad
5 seconds in to the 5 y/o video and i can already tell the cop is in the wrong who tf speaks to little ass kids like that😭 its giving a serious power trip
edit after watching: ah hell nah. im a preschool teacher (3-5) and babysitter and that is absolutely not how you treat that poor baby. absolutely a power trip and the FIXATION that lady cop has on tryna beat that little boy makes me so fucking scared for these children. i am also an autistic victim of child abuse and i never understood why i was getting beat or screamed at. i never knew what i did wrong so i would be too scared to do anything. i was quiet and complacent until i ended up moving out of my parents house
Kenji out here teaching us how to take care of our kids
kenji's right about that schools don't give a shit about bullying until it becomes a bigger problem. Like i had to get my parents involved so that a solution could be foud . like my friends and i are getting verbaly harrassed and the schoool don't give a shit
I mean getting barked at is verbal harrassment right? (ik i cant spell)
I can't believe bullying still exists
Kenji: you got snacks?🥹
Can I have some?..
No?… okay! I didn’t want any!😡
I GOT NUTS 🥜
those officers were definitely beat as kids..💀
WAKE UP KENJI POSTED!!! Also the fact that he always posts on the hour.
The entire reason I even became a daycare teacher is because of the trauma I faced as a child. I used to get beat, get yelled at, threatened, and worse. Happened to me between the ages of 7 all the way to 16. I'm 18 now,
It is so heartbreaking to see that some adults still don't understand that there are BETTER WAYS to deal with the negative behaviors children may display as they grow up :(
Nex always makes me sad. I'm also nonbinary and low-key look similar to them so I have this weird survivors guilt. Why did I get to live through high school and they didn't?
kenji would be such a good dad fr
I was disciplined with whoopings but it didn’t traumatize me at all. Now beating your kids is different from a few hits on the hands when you really mess up.
The cops were in the wrong for how they treated that baby, and threatening to be beaten by a cop, more importantly, a stranger, is horrific and deeply traumatizing.
Kenji + is my favorite true crime show
19:46 they aren’t “just bad” with kids man. Even someone who doesn’t like kids shouldn’t talk to one like that, especially one that’s balling their eyes out.
Kenji, I kinda ran in the same circles as Nex, also known as Roachie. They were Trans in a southern state. Though we don't have much information (because the 3 girls are minors) we were told they were looking into it as suicide instead manslaughter. Which is simply ridiculous. When this happened SO MANY people were devastated, there were many vigils all over the state.
I used to get yelled at for crying as a kid, and I don't understand the thought process, if you yell/scream in a kids face it'll just make them cry harder. Because why wouldn't it? Why do some adults think yelling at children will make them shut up?
School if it’s self defense: Suspension
Also School when 3 people beat the teenager relentlessly and brutally: _shrugs_
idk why but the actions of the cops at the kid screaming feels so normal to me (Strict Asian Family moments)
Yea no if I was that cop I’d lean down and try to calm him down, hug him, and explain to him CALMLY what he’s doing and how it is out of line.
No snacks for Kenji, cus I don’t have any rn :/ but at least there’s a new Kenji vid 👏👏