tWitch's Wife Breaks Down Over Losing His Estate
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- Опубліковано 2 тра 2024
- tWitch's Wife Breaks Down Over Losing His Estate
Allison Holker, the wife of the late Stephen ‘tWitch’ Boss, recently broke her silence on losing Twitch’s estate and she also addressed the backlash she’s getting from Twitch’s fans…
It’s been five months since Stephen Twitch Boss took his own life and people are still struggling to understand how someone as positive and upbeat as Twitch was dealing with so much pain and yet no one noticed - not even his wife. - Розваги
I have worked in MH for 26 years, people often hide depression and act like nothing is wrong and then take thier life.
Let her family heal.
Love continues from heaven now
I've worked in the MH field for 22 years.
It's could have been troubles from childhood and he never mentioned to anyone. Everyone thinks the worst of his wife and it is ridiculous There are a lot of people in this life who have demons they are fighting and never mention a word. Let him rest in peace and stop the trash talk one day his children will see all of this and it's not fair Like the song Selena Gomez sang People go from people you know to people you don't. This is tragic for his family
@@follysurfangel99Jess exactly 💯. People seem to have to dissect and over analyze to what's not there
There is also such a thing as 'smiling depression'.
So when you're depressed and sad that's a cover-up for happiness! Got it! 👍🏾🤦🏽♀️
Ya NEVER know someone elses pain. When youre done, youre DONE. R.I.P. tWitch
I'm still praying for his mother.
I had a family member who took his own life, and we did NOT have a clue that he was dealing with any issues. My heart goes out to Allison and her family.
I lost a BIL in same way,no red flags bit later on we realized 2-3 but never wouldve otherwise. Twitch did not kill himself IMO even after all ive learned.
Do not believe he took his own life..I have my own thoughts.
Regardless of the fact you know when someone is going thru depression anxiety or anything that means she lived with him all those years and she never ever noticed anything different at one point you see a sign something is not right that’s my opinion everyone has there own but for her to right away go to police station and say something is wrong 😑 he could’ve been taking a walk for all she knew sounds like someone who knew what was going to happen
THE GENERAL PUBLIC, HAVEN'T A CLUE, AS TO WHAT TRULY TRANSPIRED, HERE. BUTTTTTTTTTT, NEVERMIND - AS WHAT'S IN THE "DARK," ( IS ) GUARANTEED TO BE REVEALED, IN THE "LIGHT" ......
It's something not right about her.
She is a grandiose narcissist.
I don't want to be unfair and say anything, but I don't know what it is, she is so off for me, I can't put my finger on it. Then I read other comments with similar vibes about her.
You can’t always tell when someone is depressed or suffering. We are so good at covering it. If we didn’t “let you in“ you wouldn’t know how down and gloomy we are. Please give this family some grace.
Truth!
blah. he ain't do it
@@TheProtagonistDies blah, blah, blah. You know nothing.
Stop preying on people you don't even know. Your time would be much better spent taking a grammar lesson and trying to develop your mind.
I agree to an extent. I've hid it for years until I couldn't hide it anymore it almost ruined my life. I'm still trying to pick up the pieces but to people looking in thought that I was happy and had it all when I'm actually struggling with life 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 just praying for everyone battling depression
Something in my gut tells me they were not a genuinely happy couple.
It totally shows ... the "smiles " ,🤐.... the eyes tells the real emotions... 👤📿
Same!
It was a lavender marriage … doomed to fail.
I swear she seems like a superficial narcissist. Extremely grandiose and devoid of empathy.
@@hardwired8084 Why do you think that? They were so happy and they had this whole cool thing on TV about their getting married. He proposed to her on TV for heaven's sake. They were considering a fourth child. I believe they were in love. I believe Twitch took his life. It was premeditated. He got a room! Why? We'll probably never know.
Sometimes the most positive people are the saddest, they are compensating for how they really feel and trying to force themselves to feel happy which is how they want to feel.
🎯🎯🎯
" The tears of a clown"😢 Smokie
It's a lot of hard work to hide it every damn day, that's for damn sure! 😢
@@dolphinluv69 yeah it is.
@@SonjaDawn Do you suffer from Major Depressive Disorder? If not,then please don't comment on something you know nothing about! If so, then why would you torment your soul like that? Go get some help Sonja,or else your relatives will be saying "she seemed so happy,I don't understand why she committed suicide"!
Definitely shows more stuff is going on behind the scenes. There’s a reason for everything. Her reaction to his passing was bazaar from the start….
I still think that he didn't kill himself.
@@vikikat4935 agreed! Hollywood is a dark place and a lot of stuff goes on that the outsiders don't know. Industry parties where crazy happens. I think his wife played a part in this...just what my spidey senses are saying. I think he's still alive somewhere. People will fake their death when they want to go from the dark side to the good side
Absolutely... I've never had a good feeling about her.
Bullshit !
Very bizarre! I don’t think his family has been able to see the kids.
I have been struggling with mental illness for over 50 years and until last year, nobody in my "circle" knew about it. Not my family, not my closes fiends, not my co-workers. Nobody except my therapist of a few years. Anyone who knows or meets me only sees a very easy going, funny and happy dude. "We" are masters of hiding "it". Wonder why? Think of something that you feel it is soooo private (and embarrassing) that just the thought of sharing with "anyone" makes you want to kill yourself first. I can't explain it to you because, if I could, maybe I could fix it. It took me living this long to be able to even mention it like I am now. Just consider yourself lucky if you are not like that. This is my opinion. I can only speak for myself. Cheers!
It's called shame. Just as a reminder....people are self absorbed and only think of themselves. If you disclosed your depression to your family, they would soon turn to their own problems. Especially since you have a therapist. Do it.
I feel the same way Leo I've been struggling with my mental health as well and nobody close to me know what going on.I pray things get better for you🙏
@@drdogbarker3830 That's easy for you to say. The reality is that things are not as easy as that. Maybe today things are "simpler" but back in the old days, mental health was not looked at as it is today. BTW: Saying that it is shame is a terrible assumption on our part. Not everyone is the same and I wasn't (and still am not) ashamed of anything. To be honest, assumptions like yours is one of the reasons why we often don't share, You don't even know me and already assume that my was a case of shame. My advise to you is "don't assume that you know what prevents someone from sharing". You don't really know. My therapist understands that.
@@margaretdoliet1630 Thanks Margaret - I don't pray but I'm whishing you all the best on your journey as well. May you find a way to get better as well. Cheers!
@@defariase I spent decades working in mental health. My suggestion to you is change therapists.
This would be beyond difficult to handle, but to handle it so publicly, is beyond words. She has faced social media scrutiny with how people ‘think’ she should feel or how she ‘should’ have acted or what she ‘should’ have said. No one can speak on how anyone would act until they are in this situation. I am sending and have been sending the most prayers and love their way! People have to remember, during this struggle, she still has to remain a mom. A strong mom. Give her some grace and let her grieve! We see the pain she is going through, find a way to support her and not knock her down further❤
There’s alway signs with this severe depression especially regarding with close family members.
@@gmf4769 Not Always true. If he wanted to be everyone's superman, he could have hidden those signs very well. It's not fair to speculate on someone's life, when you are not living it. There are always scenarios that are not the norm. He may have never shown signs, it could have been a sudden onset, it could have been medication derived, he could have just received some bad news moments before (health related or otherwise), there could be many things. He could have been blackmailed and set up. But whatever the case, let's just love on this family. It's easy to say a mouthful when you are not in it. That is not what this family needs. They need our prayers, love and grace.
Read what stephan's brother posted! She knows a lot more about what happened that evening but wants to deny it out of shame and guilt! who lets sign an nda??? does she have no other thoughts except to make and protect her ass rich !!!
@@gmf4769 No there isn't. And even when there are signs, most people miss them because they are busy with day to day life and could never imagine a loved one killing themselves. Your comment is very uneducated.
@@youaree "She knows a lot more"???? Than whom???? You???? Of course she does!!!! You are a total stranger to these people in every way. You are not entitled to know what his wife, family, friends, or the authorities know. It is NONE of your business!!!! They have every right to keep things private and they don't owe arrogant, prying you any explanation. Then you have the utter audacity to comment on his estate and her entitlement to it???? Who the f do you think you are???? They were married. They have small children together!!!! Of course she would want to make sure those children are protected and provided for, as any loving parent would, and no doubt, so would he. If you had even a lick of sense or brains in your head, you would be too embarrassed to post such ignorant and evil comments. This situation has absolutely nothing to do with you. Stop pretending that it does, and get a life.
If she was sooo concerned that she had to runnn into the police station… WHY DID SHE WAIT A WHOLE DAY AND NIGHT before she did it?? He checked in the motel the evening before she ran into the police station… that’s just too weird to me.
because no-one has arguments wit their spouse and ever want time apart 😑
I think people have to be missing for over 24 hours to be reported missing.
he left on foot...no car
Hes an adult they make you wait 24 hrs before you can report a missing person. He could leave whenever he wanted he wasn't a prisoner smdh what about that is so hard to get. Yall reaching so hard your making my shoulders hurt. 😂
Read what stephan's brother posted! She knows a lot more about what happened that evening but wants to deny it out of shame and guilt! who lets sign an nda??? does she have no other thoughts except to make and protect her ass rich !!!
Most men are dealing with alot of shit but are always told to "toughen up" or "nobody cares" then when they can't deal with it any more mfs want to act surprised, i bet she didnt realize he was depressed because she never asked or checked on him.
This Man did NOTTTTTTTT kill himself 💯 He was Indeed Setup!!!!!!!
It’s hard to believe but who would set him up
I agree!! As someone who has suffered from depression since I was a teen, you can hide it from the world but I seriously doubt you could hide it from a spouse that you live with every day.
I definitely agree with you!!!!!!!
Do you think that Ellen and his wife set him up?
My comment got deleted lol. Anyways look up richiee the clownn. He talks about how celebrities killlll babieszzzz. Get there adrenaline highh to shock them to drink the blooddd to stay looking young.
I also find there’s something fishy… I also noticed it seems his family has beef with her. Her brother posting narcissist stories and all…
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Yep!
😮
The whole situation seems fishy.
As fishy as a vag 🎉😮
She doesn't seem that upset 😡😢
At all!
I enjoyed watching him on Ellen but his eyes always looked sad to me. May he rest in peace.
It's very hard to believe she never saw/felt something was off, very hard...🤥
Same happened to Robin Williams... Nobody never noticed that the most funniest person on the planet was years abusing narcotics and was depressed to his core. Not even his daughter who was so close to him.
@@ivelissesierra5842 both brilliant and both hid their depression.....
@@ivelissesierra5842Who said nobody in HIS family didnt know?
@@ytallowskids2seedepravityb219 HIS family...
Why is this so strange? People commit suicide all the time and family members are left wondering why. So can you guys really need to stop with the conspiracy theories and respect her family. It’s only been five months and I am sure that she and her children are still grieving so you people need to stop it because they do have an older daughter who may read this nonsense that is being spewed.
The way he just suddenly killed himself sounds sus to me. Like maybe he was being blackmailed for something he didn't want to be ousted. Panicked, and chose death as a solution.
I said that too especially from the excerpt from the suicide letter they mentioned. Past issues? Like did he do something that would destroy his life so badly he chose death?
Twitch didn't seem really happy about having more kids. Alison mentioned it, and said, I think we want more kids. I wondered if it was pressuring for him?
He likely didn’t realize what it actually meant to marry a white Mormon from Utah who only had a highschool education and professional dance experience
Because as soon as she married her religious societal imperative would be to prioritize ‘motherhood’ and domesticity for as long as humanly possible and she chose to incorporate Tik Tok as a means to dance with her family at home and make money
While he was trying to use his platform to prioritize The Black Male Experience of predominantly Single Black Males/- and Male Black Urban Dance was his preference…not Tik Tok family dancing
The two mission statements at opposite ends of the spectrum wasn’t gonna work
He was used to growing up with smart rich upwardly mobile White Catholic girls and then being allowed to clown and dance with Urban Black Males all night
He wasn’t smart, he wasn’t religious, he wasn’t educated, he wasn’t rich growing up. and he wasn’t White and he had never even been out of Alabama until he was an adult
He had been given the chance at a good education and networking but had traded it in for Black Urban dance and low rent college scholastics that he didn’t make the most of
He married the first White girl who could dance with him the way he liked probably not even knowing what a Mormon from Utah was
Between them they barely have a highschool education and now they had a house full of mixed kids to consider with her being duty bound to more kids and a Mormon religious lifestyle and him not religious romanticizing Black Male Urban Experience
It was too difficult to walk with feet in different worlds …he was passionate and emotional but not educated and informed so ultimately disillusioned
And she just wanted to enjoy the fruits of her family
She was in shock. White people ate naive and just trist the police. Brown/black people know different. She may have been threatened. As in threatening her kids. I'd shut up too.
@@searchindex3438I heard he wasn't interested in her in the beginning and she pursued him. He should of married in his own race, a married woman who genuinely loves her husband or bf will be able to read him like a book. They were unequally yoke, he should of left her when he had the chance. I guess status and image was a priority, that woman demeanor is not of a grieving wife SMH
@@searchindex3438 facts you said everything I was thinking. I don't think Twitch realized what he was getting into as well. I do believe her when she says that she didn't notice anything cause people can hide depression.
@@LoveYah1 I think his wife’s demeanor has more to do with her religious upbringing as Mormons are raised to see death differently
He didn’t do it
Wow he left her penniless
@@tatum635 she got half of his estate she’s not penniless
I loved twitch he was so talented and always such a pleasure to watch on any television show that he would be on. I hope he is at peace.
I heard that investigators wants to reopen his case
I think investors know who did it but that person is connected maybe big in Hollywood
Why are ppl so quick to judge a situation they know 0 about aside from what the media.says. These two were an extremely wholesome couple. If something major, traumatic, or embarrassing happened, we as the public have no right to know. And of course, the wife would seem weird because she is keeping their problems private. Whatever it is Allison dont want the world to look at them differently and she's trying to keep their wholesome persona alive. God Bless this family!!!
💯... The lack of compassion is unreal. As if this poor lady and her kids aren't already going through enough.
In your first sentence you say why are people so quick to judge because the know zero apart from what the media says, then in the second sentence you say'these two were an extremely wholesome couple'.....i doubt you know/Knew them so how did you come to that conclusion? From the media? I don't know his wife but I did know 'tWitch. For over 15 years. Things are not all they seem.
@@chiganuggoo9929OK so what do you know?
@@libra7.063 Nothing I add here will bring my friend back. I'll leave it at that.
You are SO right @Angieromano !
I wonder just how much he knew about the show he worked on... Anne Heche dying mysteriously only 4 months before was more y\than just a coincedence... stuff was going to be told.
They need to investigate Ellen.
A LOT of skeletons in that closet.
I caught that too. Did u know Ellen's wife also fell ill and was hospitalized during that time as well.
No no no. Something is really off with his wife. And he did have a deep sadness to him
I have seen too many clients and Friends commit suicide. Everyone expects hindsight to be 20/20 and it is not in this type of situation.
As far as his wife, you can't tell someone how to grieve. Everyone is different. We see her for a few minutes holding herself together.
Why would you unalive yourself wearing only a towel. I think it was going to be his wife n kids and he choose to spare their lives perhaps? Receiving only half the estate also shows someone elses involvement. RIP❤ Twitch❤
JUSTICE for STEVEN TWITCH BOSS.
JUSTICE for LEMON TOPPED PANCAKES.
Maybe justice for a man who everyone seems to describe as kind, loving, and compassionate would be to respect the privacy of him and his family, and to treat that family he left behind with equal kindness, compassion, and love. No one would ever want the family they loved treated like this by a world full of strangers. Or is that not sensational enough for you?
he had every reason to want to be here or so it seemed. the whole situation is shocking and strange. why is she doing interviews so soon after his death?
He didn’t kill himself and that tramp was in on it
I wish his parents will open the case
They can't find the code to the combination lock
I don't like this heffa!!! This man didn't kill himself!
Only 1 word for Alison: “sus”
Twitch was so pressured with being active on social media, having another kid, parental and other obligations, keeping up the cost of living and trend. His smile is not that genuine something inside him is not showing if you watch his vids. RIP bruhtha.
My opinion she knew something he just ain't going to delete his self
so so bizarre. There is no way this man planned to take his own life. It's been disclosed that twitch didnt even have a will. Do we really think that someome like twitch would plan to take his own life and not have anything set in place for his family???! this story is bullshit everything the wife says about him in her statement is contradictory IF he commited suicide. AND what i absolutely dont understand is if the wife is also shocked by his death....why on earth have they closed the case and not investigated further??? SHE SHOULD BE MORTIFIED! Something is off with her for sure.
She’s Mormon and only has a highschool education and was raised in a professional dance bubble
What 40 year old that's healthy has a will?? Most people don't plan a will until they are old or have life threatening health issues.
@@ADJenks people with family and assets. You can't be serious..
She’s evil
@@Ruizfamilia140she sacrificed him.
I know many people who suffer from depression, anxiety, some are mentally ill and have bipolar disorders, but you don't always see it up front. People will let you know what they want you to know and they will show what they want to show. It's sad that Allison has to deal with all of these people criticizing and assuming that they know about hers and her husband's personal life. You can be very happy, but still have a bump or two down the road. You can live with someone and not know them 100%. Why do you think that there are so many marriages where one of the spouses is leading a double life and the other has no idea? If someone wants to hide something they will. People criticized that she's after his estate, that she wants to sell their house, dang, he was the breadwinner in that family. Yes, she has talent and she has her own work, but she will never reach the status that he reached in such a short period of time. She has a family to support. If his estate has to be sold, so be it. It was their home, not just his home. She has three children that now have to deal with all of this talk and speculation from people who don't even know them. Are any of the people shooting off their mouths about what they assume, have any idea the effect that this will have on Twitche's children? His wife is dealing with his loss and now has to deal with explaining this to her children. It's sad that people just don't mind their business and want to run with this. Honestly, I think that people are running with the story because he was black and his wife was white. If his wife would have been black or if he would have been white nobody would be questioning motives or anything else.
She's suspect for sure. To laid back for dealing with the death of her soulmate and Best friend. She's fake and sociopathic behavior's
Yes. Narcissist traits as well
She is guilty in my opinion 💯
why not release the note?
It's probably under investigation evidence
I dont believe he committed suicide at all
CAN ANYONE TELL ME WHY THEY NEVER MENTIONED THE GUNOR CALIBUR OF THE FIREARM?
God will show it’s something not right about her at all
Unless you’ve dealt with depression then you have no clue. You put on a happy face and make everything seem fine because you just cannot deal with your depression AND the BS people will give you about it. Not everyone is open and understanding. Sometimes it’s just easier to fake a smile and deal with your personal demons alone.
Okay for the people on here who have never suffered through mental illness a day and their life have no idea how easy it is to hide your symptoms from your loved from your friends. I deal with mental and it's so easy for me to put on a smile to be "normal"to take the focus off of me. So maybe she didn't see what was going on behind twitch and maybe he wanted to protect her from his mental. But no one knows what is truly like to suffer in silence on a daily basis.
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Some of us knew him before he was famous …
he wouldn’t normally be considered ‘mentally ill’ he would more be considered ‘hyperactive and passionate but disillusioned from lack of formal education, lack of discipline, and uninformed’ and having a midlife crisis
Basically he was hyperactive. charismatic and talented so he was allowed to follow his passion from an early age and successful at it and given privileges that most others aren’t, but not properly educated, informed, or well rounded
…same thing happened to Kanye ‘Ye’
So when they looked like ‘strong black men’ but became emotional uninformed adults they look like they are having mental breakdowns simply because they missed certain life lessons and can’t understand why things are the way they are …
but now they are in midlife and rich and successful and in the spotlight with no control of themselves or anything else …
so they do stupid things on a whim that costs them their finances their families and their lives
My sister knew Twitch K-8 and in junior high and after she literally begged him to re-consider his education and his future and she tried to help him with school work because she was the smartest kid in school -but he was hell bent that dancing would be his key to his idea of success at the time
It was a ‘be careful what you wish for’ situation and it bit him in the butt after a really nice ride
@@searchindex3438 Thanks for this.
Or maybe she is a covert abuser behind closed doors and no one knows.
JUSTICE FOR TWITCH 🙏
Hush yourself Karen
We lost a family member to suicide 6 months prior to losing Twitch. People that have been criticizing this don’t understand the mindset of Twitch & others that take their lives. My family member constantly talked about the future. We had specific plans! She was also everybody’s hero & constantly doing for others!! Everyone was SHOCKED because she was so loved by so many people! We knew she was fighting, but we had no idea how dark her mindset was. NO IDEA!!! I’ve talked to detectives, therapists, survivors, family members of victims, etc. They are CONSTANTLY fighting a war unlike anything we could possibly imagine WHILE trying to rescue everyone else! Please let people try to find their peace. Twitch & my family member that took her life have found theirs. Of course, we replay “what ifs” & our longing to have them back, but let the family members of victims (victim of their own civil war) strive to find their peace. It is VERY difficult to lose someone, let alone in this way. Please let Allison TRY to live her life & move forward with her family. Believe me, they’ll never really move on- just forward in seeking peace.🙏🙏🙏
I read something a day or 2 after he died that her & the kids weren't even home the night before he left for hotel. That she was at a friend's sleeping over there. Then she came home the next day & realized he wasn't home but car was & he still wasn't answering phone. Then she goes to cops &, while the police are checking for clues at their place they get a call that he's been found dead. Quite the coincidence that they just happen to get a call right when they're at the residence & just after she's gone to police station. Not only that I think her statement fishy too. Her statement & the one Ellen gave right after sounded like they were written by same person. Both used the words that he lit up the room & so forth. With some minor changes to the statement for each. Very possible he was depressed & dealing with something bur its also very possible there's more to it than the allison & police are letting on. I do think it strange that he only had a towel on & was in shower. My thoughts aren't thinking what kind of mess I'd be leaving behind so I'll do it in shower & no one I believe would want to be found in only a towel bc chances are it'll be falling off when whomever has passed. But again we'll probably never know the truth but if there was foul play guaranteed whomever the person/persons who did it will get some karma back or I pray they will. Twitch was so loved by so many & I hope he can rest in peace
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First of all I don't see how it can be said that Twitch Boss took his own life when there is no evidence of that. This suspicious case has been so quickly swept under the rug that not a speck of dust was able to gather around it. Not a shred of justice has been served to this honorable man., though he was most impeccably a loving father and husband. I am so heartbroken to see Boss Man swept so quickly under the carpet and his body discarded withe the trash. I am even too heartbroken to even consider his so-called wife's shenanigans in this dumb ass case. She comes across as a reluctant cheerleader rather than a deeply hurt, confused and mourning wife. Ellen got his name up off her back real quick, didn't she? It's amazing since he worked with her every day as her executive producer for several years. Well, we'll see what Allison does with the estate that she has just taken over. I bet not a single dime will go towards the rediscovery of this case that died way before it was ever buried.
Stfu. There is evidence of him taking his life. How do you know he isn’t buried in a private plot or cremated and his ashes spread somewhere. Get an effin life
Yeah all very suspicious
Ellen
It was a witch that did it! His name was tWitch, he was trying to warn us!!! 😢
Who in the serious f do you think you are????!!!!!! You never even met the man!!!! Yet, you're talking about YOUR heartbreak, and simultaneously trying to decimate his wife and mother of his children??? Gee, who do you think is affected more? You, a total stranger he never met? Or the wife and kids he lived with and loved??? Are you seriously discussing how his spouse should be allowed to spend their shared assets???? Money that has not one single thing to do with you???? You are a complete lunatic and a total narcissist in trying to make any of this anything to do with YOU!!!! You need serious mental health intervention.
She has to know something. Period!!!
Agree but as long as people don't stop encouraging her that this is about her and not really about Twitch . Then we will never know more about what caused this. It just gets more and more confusing as it goes along
Prayers to Alison and her children. tWich was special and sadly his children will grow up without him. R.I.P. tWich
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She was to cold for liking after his death her statement was Luke a freezer she definitely knows more than she's saying only God knows what really happen
It was never about love, only about money, as will be eventually revealed.
She probably had more money than he did when they met.
@@tracygarrett3952nonsense. He has more talent and status than her. I didn't even know her until i saw she was his wife. She is a narcissist who targetted him. I don't care if you believe it or not
@@goddessvibes08 Don't you know they met on So You Think You Can Dance? They were both struggling dancers and they fell for each other. They got other work based on their performance on SYTYCD. Twitch had a great personality and a fun dance style. Everybody liked them together. He eventually got on the Ellen show which was the biggest pay day for them. She got on Dancing with the Stars, in between making three kids. Nobody was targeting anybody, because nobody was rich and successful when they met. They were equal. Both contestants on a show. Fact check before you go after someone. SMH
Idk.. she seems very full of herself and ingenious. Even on stage with him… it feels forced and all about her. I know everyone’s different, but I would be a mess after my husband’s death. I would never been so put together and putting myself on a pedestal. It’s odd, but then again.. people are very odd.
Maybe she thinks so highly of herself, their life that she refused to see that he was struggling with mental health issues.
I feel like she was jealous of him and his success 🤷♀️
Grandiose narcissist. She also targetted/chased him until he proposed. Facts.
Anyone that happy all the time is a sign youre not happy.
I ask my fiancé at least once a day if he is okay…
of course, and you watch them when they are sitting alone--women usually know
@@lynnhubbard844 that is exactly it. Women are not oblivious to our husbands. Just like we know when he is cheating, we know when he is hurting.
and? most depressed ppl dont say "nope im not ok" duh. as if your fiance couldnt say yup honey im fine and not mean it. give me a effing break. 🙄
it’s so easy for depressed people to hide their feelings. i wish i earned a dollar for every time my parents/friends asked if i was okay and i would respond with, “yup!” and be happy FOR them. i have struggled with depression since the 2nd grade and i am 21 now. it’s not uncommon for people struggling to not show that externally. very insensitive comment.
Exactly 💯 how she had no idea or concern about what's off with him
It’s easy to put a mask on I think that Ellen show being cancelled may have made him cornered on what happens next obviously him leaving his wife half of his estate,shows how much he loved her and his kids and the other half maybe have been put into his kids nest eggs for when they come of age maybe they were still paying a mortgage rather than buying it out right so money may have been a issue after his passing I doubt he would have left his wife anything if there were problems between them he would have left what ever he had to his kids , so I don’t believe that people should go after her ,because people deal with shock and grief in their own personal way and time and being a single mother now put pressure on her own self in trying not to have a mental brake down but hold back her emotions too so that the children don’t get further upset than they all are plus are brains seem to know how to switch to a mode into away of protecting its self from to many different levels of stress that could cause a brake down or further damage. hence why all people deal with things differently grieve has no time limit just like shock which comes first and also being in denial this can happen for years when even though that person knows deep down of someone they loved has passed ,their brains switch to a mode of self denial because they are not wanting to admit to themselves that the person has passed because by doing so makes it real and that you have to face the real reality , sometimes even though you talk about them knowing they are dead and yet still be in denial to ones self as hard as that may sound but it’s a fact, are brains are so incredible and the fact that they can control when they need to go into a protective mode this is useless down to the rate of to much stimulation and lack of oxygen due to the persons heartbeat and breath to fas this woman was with him for nearly a decade and had children together if she just wanted to be with him for money or using him for her own gain then she could have done that years ago,as far as I’m aware that he no one who would could or did have any beef of any kind of issue to warrant what happened with him, and while yes we know about the elite and Hollywood and how they do things that automatically we think that was behind it, but just like the average person there’s times when someone takes their own life with out showing any warning signs , it could have been that a person had a secretly gambling problem and my have brought the house but then took out a 2nd even 3rd Morgan out in the house that was fully owned but own debts that may had got so bad and to ashamed that instead of taking to their pertner and panic on what they may lose if tol,would be more likely to commit suerside than facing the look of hurt on their family’s face this not saying that twich was in this position,I was frying to say it as an example,, to be honest most people knew about twich threw Ellen, but he was not like a mainstream actor or singer that was no threat to the elite, I think that when Ellen show was axed ,that may have been his downfall of where it started as in he never was making high end money like Ellen and more famous celebrities and in this business it is definitely hard to get a part or job and due to the fact that his job did still pay a amount doing a normal job like us that doesn’t pay enough even for us trying to stay afloat to pay for his expenses which would be so big from what he was able to afford when Ellen was still going ,the weight on his shoulders would have been so heavy while also just like other men they in their own personal beliefs would feel like they had failed as a man to not be able to continue to support their family as the man of the house the bread winner would have also been a factor so their are many factors to why someone would take their own life being on telly don’t mean that every one on telly is down to foul play ,we may never know truly what happened the fact he went to a motel is usly 2 different reasons sex with someone which I don’t see twich doing anything like that he loved his wife and kids ro much ,of the 2nd which actually would tie in that he had planed on committing to end his life , so chose to go to a motel was due to not wanting his family to find his body but also to make sure that it would be harder for someone to find him and try to resuscitate him in trying to save him so his mind must have dealing with so much that he could not see away out, it’s important that all men need to know including women but more on men that you partner and kids would rather live in a 1bed flat than losing their loved one and there’s no shame than not only allowing yourself to be vulnerable or emotional or feel that just because you are a man. don’t mean that it it your purpose in life to feel obligated in carrying everything on your own ,you married for love ,up or down,there’s no such thing as a perfect marriage , there’s always bumps along the way but you face them together as it take 2 in a marriage,much more because they’re soul mates and more than anything you are a team don’t matter who is bringing the money in a nd who is staying home with the kids both roles are equal and important we live in a more modern time but communication is vital while there may be anger at 1st that will overcome and you both will work together to find a solution every day is different and how one may feel like giving up, try to hold of because tomorrow is a new day that may change alot of negativity in to positivity,,as I said we don’t know how or why only he knows and no one should be blamed for not seeing the signs if that is the case then that blame on every single person that took their lives is on us all so may twich and his family get closure and be able to grieve in their own personal way we live in dark times at the moment we need to be more kinder to each other,there’s enough hate out there as their is without adding to it rip twich love and light god bless you all x👼💯🙏❤️🦋🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🇬🇧
Too much toxic positivity from both of them. Sorry, but they both seem fake in their constant over-the-top happiness.
For example, when she announced on Ellen that she wanted another baby, Twitch sounded caught off guard, and was trying to hold up his end of a bargain to not disagree with one another publicly. I don't know if they had such an agreement, but that's how his reaction came across to me: he was doing his best to fake it, to talk it out with her later. Maybe they'd been disagreeing about that for awhile, and then she sprung it publicly on him, putting him on the spot. I don't know these people, nor ever knew anything of them before this. My best wishes for Allison and their family.
Why were they not looking for him the night e left??? Strange.
When the p!an goes wrong and you thought sympathy would get you boosted fame and fortune. Her behavior during that time was very sketchy smdh
I think she is being crucified and victimized..as a person who struggles with depression..you become a character! Especially to the ones u love because if u don't know how to seek help all u learn to do is get better at hiding it until you explode..I truly believe she didn't know and would not have wanted her small children living with this kind of loss if she felt she could have saved him!
She was more concerned about losing his money than him dying
The wife does not see like a mourning wife I believe she knows more than she is telling ,he did not commit suicide something smells like rotten eggs
Why doesn’t she tell the truth about what really happened? He didn’t leave her any money that’s exactly what she was after that’s exactly why she had him killed because he wanted to leave her let’s start there.
Alison the world wants to know the true and if you don't give it to us the true will.come out some time because we are still in conflict and concern
A similar thing happened to Sushant Singh Rajput in India. Toxic women can lead to death. Be careful in choosing your partners
In California, an estate goes to the surviving spouse and children if there is no trust or will. His children will get 50%.
I have a friend going through depression but on social media she looks amazing and happy and doing cartwheels. She cries every day. I tried to tell her it wasn’t right but she wants her ex to think she’s happy.
Everyone thinks they know how they would respond in a tragedy, and you really don't. Its not like the movies, not everyone screams/cries immediately/drops to their knees. I've discovered the bodies of both my mother and one of my children (both died from health conditions) and I didn't react in the way I would have thought. Shock is a powerful thing - and Alison is a mom first and foremost and probably was on autopilot to put her children first. It's also wildly ignorant to think that even if she did think something was off that she could control what would happen next. Even in the midst of an obvious mental health crisis it can be hard to get soemone the help they need, there's absolutely nothing you can do if someone just seems off, other than checking in with them. Based on his joyful personality, I'm guessing that Stephen worked hard not to burden others with his worries - he probably focused on holding others up and didn't even take time register that he was suffering and buckled. Its heartbreaking and Im sure that he would not want his wife to be blamed for it. It's awful that people have made baseless accusations against someone trying to maneuver through a nightmare. Mothers know thry have to take every blow and keep moving for their kids. I wish this family peace.
There are a lot of similarities between the circumstances surrounding the death of Twitch and my brother. From things their woman says and ways she acts, to what the police did and didn’t do during the investigation, to issues between the mother and his family. There are way too many unanswered questions. And when someone dies, all questions should be answered.
Yes I think lots of people hide what they are going through ! He was positive to everyone one , just hid what he was feeling !
My heart truly goes out to his family. I do have one question though that I haven’t heard mention of; where was Allison the day he checked into the hotel and why did she wait until the next morning to realize he wasn’t there? We’re her and the kids somewhere else visiting someone ? It seems odd that she wouldn’t have missed him being home that night, all night. Did I miss something?
These were my thoughts exactly. If I was home and my husband was leaving, I'd be like where you going? To a hotel? Why? What's going on? ( unless this was something he did often or an established pattern). And if I wasn't home I'd be calling him later that afternoon/evening asking where are you? Are you coming home tonight?
I think she had something to do with his death
I keep hearing "Ask for help", absolutely 100% BUT isn't it true that someone who is struggling (inside) more often than not - doesn't recognize they are (struggling), doesn't know how (to ask for help)...?
(to me) It's kind'a like saying "do you have a drinking problem? Call the # at the bottom of your next bottle of alcohol."
(1 most alcoholics will not admit they are alcoholics and 2 by the time they get to the bottom of their next bottle their drunk/passed out and forgot a while ago what you said/what they were supposed to do)
I don't think putting added pressure on someone who is already overwhelmed, to also recognize their struggle when they probably can't even recognize themselves OH YEAH AND "it's your responsibility to "ask for help" is very realistic.
People need to realize that we need each other, even if we don't know each other. Pay attention to your friend, your co workers, your neighbor, the cashier at the market ...
Don't just ask "how are you? while not stopping to hear/see the answer - Slow down Listen to the answer/notice the person/hear the words/the tone.
I don't have the answer(s) BUT I do know we have to do better be kinder to each other.
Well said. Ask whom for help? This man could have certainly afford the best mental Healthcare available. We all want to say if it was just depression speak up. What if u are so broken and confused u are only letdown by seeking said help. U can see trained professionals in this field and guess what...the first thing discussed his how are u paying and u move through the circle of time limits and medicine.
Wow she sounds like everything is ok. I’ll be devastating. She seems to be fine. Unbelievable. I really think there’s still somenthing weird about it
They said he left a note.
what do you expect her to do? she has 3 young kids to take care of, you kinda have to take a smile for a while to be strong for their family.
No, what is unbelievable and weird is that you somehow think it's your place to judge a woman who is going through a tragedy, all for your own entertainment. You are actually upset that for a sliver of a day, during a public appearance, she seems to be okay. You are upset because during that appearance she is not "devasted" enough for you. I'd suggest you check your moral compass, but I'm not sure you have one. "Wow" right back at you.
@@korentaylor8508She's over the top happy for someone that's just lost her husband and best friend. You've got to be blind not to see there is something suspicious going on
This woman is too cool for losing her husband to suicide
She’s his wife so it should automatically go to her
not if he didnt have a will. everything goes to his kids. We just went through this with my son in law dying and not having a will. Everything went to the kids, and she had to file to be the executor on the kids behalf.
For a person people know as a strong person,it a no tell you struggling with mental health.
You say to the world you ok,you smile,you dance but its not ok. When people judge you you go into yourself become quiet,hide behind your smile. Pretend its ok while its not ok. So dont judge. Strength to his widow and their children because they have to come to terms with his death and silently they have to deal with their own issues. Mental health is real.
If they weren’t having any problems in their marriage what did they argue about. She never looked attracted to him. Why is she keeping their children away from his side of the family and why doesn’t she ever mention her side of the family reaction to this tragedy. Something is definitely off.
I loved him, one of the main reasons I watched the show, in spite of Ellen annoying me
I don’t know them so I will speak generally. Lots of people come to social media and what they show is not real nor true, they just pretend it is for the love and likes missing in their real day to day lives… my opinion.
Totally agree!
There were signs for sure but they probably so subtle that she wouldn’t notice. I knew someone who tried to kill himself just hours after we had such a great time playing games, laughing, karaoke with friends. You never know what someone is going through
Mental health issues cannot always be seen. You adapt yourself to each situation. So sad for everyone involved.
She definitely knows something.. Definitely something foul about his death... She's giving Guilty and Suspicious Vibes..Her facial expressions and mannerisms kinda tell on her some, Justice for this man 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🤔js🤷🏿♀️
It must have been financial pressure that put him over, we know he lost his job with Ellen, & it's so expensive living in So. Cali, and everyone's lives are so luxurious!
She played a big part of his death. Feel bad for his kids
Something seems off. Was she in on it?
I've suffered clinical depression and anxiety for over 20 years and I've hidden it from ABSOLUTELY everybody. I eventually chose to talk about it and confide in my partner, but I made that choice, he didn't have a clue.. Because I was a people pleaser and the "class clown" everyone th9ught I was the happiest funniest person they knew! It's so bloody EASY to hide it. Alot of comedians and actors have it and you wouldn't know, look at Robin Williams. So yes it's easy to hide, in fact it's easier to hide it, than it is to open up about it.
He didn't kill himself
To this day I still miss Twitch's presence amongst us, and think I aways will. There was something SO genuine, So sincere, So naturally good natured about what he did. I have witnessed this tho in my life of many years...something that is inheritant in a man. Example - Sharing feelings is by most men not considered something " real men" do. That's not true of course, but nevertheless...it is a fact. Men also pride themselves on their ability to perform financially, professionally, spiritually and to be "heroes" to all those that are especially nearest and dearest to their hearts. Fame and notoriety can amplify the negativity of all the above, and I think this very special man just couldn't deal with it. No one know for sure that's true. Suffice it to say simply, I join the hoards of people in grieving the loss of this dear man who made the world a better place for being in it.
Did you even know him?
Twitch DID NOT delete himself
The fact that most of us don't believe it was suicide, she definitely should have been the leader of those notions.ahe accepted suicide too easily when we didn't
Maybe it’s true. She probably didn’t notice. He hid everything up to the very last minute. Maybe she figured it and put the pieces together at the end. He probably never said anything because of the children. He looked happy if they talked about having other children then maybe she didn’t realized he was hiding something. It’s all sad and I am sure so many families have gone through this and many more to come. It’s very sad.
They were so close yet she never displayed any hint of emotion when speaking about him in any of the several interviews she did. In my opinion she seems to be enjoying the limelight and attention she is receiving post his death.
No one was there but based on the circumstances it seems that they had an argument then he walked to the hotel. She definitely knows more than she is letting on
Yes she did. She broke down in the interview with Hoda.
@@jenniferkrauth2276 Ok I will check out that interview. Thanks
She never showed any emotion? You are a snake. First of all, that is completely untrue, and are you with her 24/7? Secondly, she is allowed to grieve however she happens to grieve. She is not obligated to perform for you in a way you deem fit. Thirdly, she has likely been sedated to cope with all that's happened and perhaps she takes comfort in speaking about him, as many people do when they've lost a loved one.
Finally, even if she "knows more than she's letting on", which it makes sense that she definitely does, how is she under any obligation to share that with you, a total stranger, and the rest of the world???? Your arrogance and entitlement is off the charts!!!! This is a personal, PRIVATE matter, and the details are NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS!!!!! She is not requited to share what she knows with you! GET OVER YOURSELF AND STOP JUDGING PEOPLE ON THINGS YOU KNOW ZERO ABOUT!!! You sound like an idiot. This is a woman's life. Go find something else to entertain yourself with. She owes you NOTHING!!!!
I feel she had to know. If not, he didn’t feel comfortable talking to her what bothering him. Maybe she added stress to his life .
Twitch knew things that Hollyweird doesn’t want out. Ellen had him trapped.
Who got the other half?
This is just a thought and it's probably wrong but maybe he had money problems and didn't want to tell anyone sometimes that will drive a man to do something like that especially if he's got a wife and kids to support
It was more likely that he was having ‘existential’ problems
Bingo. I'm sure that's probably what it was. Especially if you have a lot of money invested in something like crypo and you lose it all. It's very possible.