DOES THE NARCISSIST CARE ABOUT ANYTHING?
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- Опубліковано 26 вер 2024
- #narcissist #narcissistsurvivor Narcissists don't care about so many things that we assume they do or should. It can be shocking to come to understand how little some of the most important things in life mean to them. So what do narcissists care about? Do narcissists care about anything?
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The only thing they care about is getting others to believe that they are perfect so they can believe it themselves.
They only care about their image.
They don't care about anything. They live in the moment. Consequences are irrelevant because they lack empathy. They don't care who they hurt, but expect to be treated like Kings and Queens. Ugh.
What a confused messed up person, so sad!!!!!!!!!!
they are thin veneers of being.
What are they.these psychopaths next door!!!!!😊😊😊
It's amazing how EASY it is to spot thisfrom a mile away now and I can smell a narc like a shark smells blood and.. I'm LOVING IT!! Yeah, I had to be.."forged by fire" to get here but, the knowledge I gained from it is invaluable. I was able to come out of the "relationship" with my self respect and comfidence cuz I refused to allow her to strip me of them.
I agree. I can usually figure them out within 5 minutes of meeting them.
The kicker for me in my case was he pressured the kids in one direction and the kids rebelled because they didn’t like, respect or trust him.
I don’t like to even cite the following actual examples of how totally unfeeling my daughter is of 3 young children and a husband. It’s nauseating:
She was about to leave her 9 year old daughter home alone, sick with a fever. My granddaughter texted me to tell me she was sick. I asked my daughter if I could babysit my granddaughter, and asked if she had had lunch. My daughter turned to her sick daughter and asked if she had had anything to eat!!! And she was about to walk out the door to work!!! It sickened my stomach. My daughter once walked in their house around 5pm, her husband was on crutches thinking about supper for them, including the 3 young children. My daughter grabbed a TV dinner out of the freezer, cooked it, sat down started to eat, with the husband standing there on crutches, and she told him what kind of TV dinner was in the freezer. Her 3 children sitting on the couch. This is so negligent, abusive, cruel, unloving, ……how could ANYONE BE LIKE THAT?? These examples you give on your channel are good ones. These examples I’m giving are the flesh and blood events I saw first hand. Absolutely no care or feelings or concerns about her own young family!!!! I don’t want to believe it. But I MUST!! Evil on steroids.
I watched a narcissist lose a job opportunity (promotion) because all she cared about was how people perceived her. Her work ethic was poor, but she would twist words to make herself look like the victim (which I saw right through). I knew she'd never accept my help, so I never offered different ways to do the things she was failing at. The job opportunity came, she inquired about it and got rejected, and now she locks herself at home, choosing to work from home than face reality in the physical office 🤦🏻♀️
Only like a three year old tantruming in the supermarket for candy.
You are kind and genuine. Your advice is wise. Recovery from abuse sometimes seems impossible but you help. Best wishes to you and all who have so suffered.
My ex would say "I don't care" about his daughters, friends, Narcissistic mother,...... I never believed him. With time he proved it to me. Only I was included in the list too! I cannot fathom how anyone lives this way. It must be the emptiest of existences.
When Ukraine was invaded, I followed the news closely with deep sadness and worry. My ex revealed himself by saying "that has nothing to do with me, I'm not interested...." Planet Earth is not a big place, and we are all affected when wars rage. Especially led by oligarchs and madmen., other narcissists that my ex looked up to. Funny how those madmen all belong in a club together...
She was right, when she took off the mask and showed me who she really was, I would never have chosen to be with that person. She was sick, evil and twisted. I was repulsed. 🤮
You’re insightful and and seem to be a nice person. Thank you.
Thank you for your channel. I am only 2.5 months in my healing and I'm going to court soon for a restraining order for me and my daughter against our abusive narc...
Your videos are very insightful and give me courage to keep fighting.Thank you.
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Thank you once again for this channel. I love the way you present this content and especially how you show the roots of their behaviors in their core beliefs, shaped in early childhood. It's so important to understand that. I'm 3 years down the road of healing now and I'm still at awe with the intricacies and inner workings of narcissism. As you often say, it's so much in front of our eyes so many times, and we don't see it or are conditioned not to see it. Also, why it's so important for me to understand the roots of these personality traits is that I discover that many of my own issues are nothing more than struggles with their projections thrown at me time and time again for years and decades since I was born. So that's really helpful on the healing journey. Thanks again.
Excellent video!
I think they are given over to evil, everything you say is true, at some stage of their life they were tempted by dark entities and they went for it, as children, i grew up with one sister, she was bad in her early teens, we had a terrible childhood, very neglected no mother, shizophrenic abusive dad 💔 😢
I think this one is one of your best videos! Maybe I say that often but this one really spoke to me.
It sounds like the narcissist is close to being a sociopath--living without any remorse whatsoever for cheating on their spouse, and other relational injustices.
THEY ONLY CARE ABOUT THINGS THAT DON'T MATTER, MY SISTER'S ARROGANCE AND HAUGHTINESS IS SICKENING, THE OTHER ONE IS TRYING TO HOOVER ME BACK IN, OH BOY, I'VE HAD ENUF OF BOTH OF THEM! ONE SIS IS SOLICITOR AND HELPED ME ACQUIRE A LOT OF $, SHE HAS BEEN HONEST IN DISPERSING MONEY TO ME AND HELPING ME WITH MINOR LEGAL ISSUES, SHE DOES WORK HARD AT HER PROFESSION, I'LL GIVE HER THAT, MAKES IT HARD TO CUT HER OFF!
That's why they succeed in business because they are cut throat. ✂️
Its awful but we have to do what we have to do geez
I have seen satisfaction on my daughter’s face when she hurts people. Really. And the worst is how cruelly she treats her young daughter, so mean, so mocking, the daughter she always dreamed of having. I’ve seen my little granddaughter’s spirited joyful little face totally dashed by her own mom!! Each time, her little eyes dropped to the floor with a sad hurt face. Each time I got sick at my stomach. She’s done this to kill my granddaughters spirit. Especially if it is related to me. Out of jealousy, my daughter has conditioned my granddaughter to have bad feelings about me. What used to be a beautiful grandfather/granddaughter relationship has been decimated by a pathologically jealous and mean spirited malignant narc. Sickening.
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽I’m sorry you have such a terrible daughter. These people wreak havoc on so many lives. There’s a great book called “People of the Lie” by M Scott Peck. It is a must read. 🙏🏽
My soon to be x narc. Gotten so upset because I want him off my bank account and get his own account. World war 3 broke out. The first time I asked for something and now its separation and divorce.
It’s genetic,
Thank You. I read Peck’s book decades ago. I have unfortunately see it play out.
Jesus Is Lord.
This is taught kids every where 😮😮😮😮bullies
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The answer to your headline is
NO
No
No
Your videos are way too long
You lose the point by over talking the topics and bringing in too many side commentaries
I totally disagree. Each topic is so important snd cannot be quickly summed up. Maybe you should go find a different channel that just skins the surface of this very deep, serious and important topic. People have such a short attention span these days. Good grief.
I had that thought earlier of how she proclaimed she looked inward when she was alone. I don't buy it. All she did was cook up schemes to pay me back.
My almost ex narc is 67 and he has an absolute fear of dying alone. I was with each of my parents as they passed. With cancer doctors can calculate last days fairly accurately. Without a disease, your final day is totally unknown, that just makes him crazy to think about. I'm supposed to alter this ending for him......
He tried to take those bedside gifts from me because he didn't have that for himself. That, imo was one of the biggest, most disrespectful thing he's done. All about me, me, me said every narc.
Getting older yes.irrevilant.I don't think so.
Legacy is easy. Legacy is immortality.
no